Mofokeng says these are some of the typical behaviours of an old-soul child:
Children typically love other children's company, and the old-soul child may prefer their own company. You may even find them having an entire conversation by themselves or even laughing at their own inside jokes;
The old-soul kids tend to typically have the why, when and how infused into their everyday vocabulary. They do not question authority, but tend to want to understand how certain things came to be;
Usually, the old-soul child has a memory like an elephant, and will remind you as the parent of things that you may have pushed out of your mind.
This is because they are typically observant and internalise things; and
While most kids would opt to pout or use the silent treatment to exhibit that they are angry or upset, the old-soul child may surprise you by offering a heartfelt, articulate apology or even tell you how you hurt their feelings.
Mofokeng says that while these characteristics may make it easier to get along with your child, the downside is that they may not fit in with other kids and may be subjected to being ostracised by their peers or even experience bullying.
"It is your job as the parent to pay close attention to the child considered an old soul so that society does not make them feel like a freak of nature.
"While you cannot help society's actions, your constant reassurance of your child that they are brilliant and special will go a long way in cementing their self esteem," she said.
Mofokeng also cautions against parents overlooking odd behaviour. She advises that, if the parents are not sure, that they rather consult an child psychologist.