It was 9.40pm, and Lizo Gqoboka had given up all hope of finding a meal. A few days before, he’d boiled a pot of water and threw in some flour and sugar to keep him going. Now it was finished. And he was hungry.
On that evening in a flat in Durban, as he sat in darkness with no money for electricity or food, we will never know just how close Gqoboka came to giving up on his dream of becoming a professional rugby player. A dream that this weekend will see the giant prop with the big heart run out for his 100th game for the Vodacom Bulls.
“I never ever thought I’d reach this point. My heart is just filled with gratitude,” says Gqoboka, who will join his Bulls teammates tomorrow as they open their Heineken Champions Cup campaign against French Top 14 side Lyon at Loftus Versfeld.
“It just shows that everything is possible for him who believes.”
Gqoboka is understandably overwhelmed by the thought of reaching this milestone in a career where he’s been capped as a Springbok and moved with this Bulls team into the new rugby era of the United Rugby Championship and now the Heineken Champions Cup.
It’s a vastly different world from his home village of Ntabankulu in the rural Eastern Cape, where he went through high school working at a funeral home and loading and unloading sand off trucks. And it seems a lifetime away from the darkness of that flat in Durban, where Gqoboka had arrived on what little money his parents could scrape together to try and begin his studies. It was in Durban that he had the first slice of pizza in his life and started playing club rugby upon the advice of a friend.
But as the money ran out, his studies ended and with his rugby career going nowhere, Gqoboka found himself sitting in that flat wondering where his next meal would come from.
“That’s when a friend of mine drove far out of his way, knocked on the door and asked if I’d like to join him on a drive to the local garage to buy a pie. I couldn’t understand it. The garage was much closer to where he lived than where my flat was. He actually drove past it to get to me. When I asked him why, he said he just felt like a pie and didn’t want to eat alone. And I got a meal,” recalled Gqoboka.
A few days later, he found a job with a construction company. This gave him access to the internet, and with no clear rugby prospects in Durban, he spent three weeks phoning the offices of the EP Kings daily, begging them for a trial. Eventually, they gave up on turning him down and agreed to fly him out for one trial. The trial was a good one, but Gqoboka wasn’t offered a contract. And now, having resigned from his job in Durban, he was stuck in Gqeberha with no income.
But still, Gqoboka pushed on with his dream. He was chased out of a local gym because he didn’t have shoes, which he couldn’t afford. Eventually, he managed to scrape together R70 to buy the most basic pair of trainers. And that’s what he wore to training.
The Kings agreed to sign Gqoboka on a one-year contract. It was short-lived though as the franchise was thrown into financial turmoil. But again came that unexpected moment – an offer from the Bulls. He signed with them in 2016, and clearly remembers his first match for this historic team.
“It was against the DHL Stormers in Cape Town and it was an amazing day. It was so special. It felt like a reward for all the sacrifices, and for my family as well who supported me and prayed for me. My career was now taking a direction. I’m just so grateful to everyone who has supported me. My heart is filled with gratitude,” said the father of three boys aged two months, four and 14.
Gqoboka’s triumphant tale of rags to Bulls 100
Prop recalls days he didn’t know where next meal would come from
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It was 9.40pm, and Lizo Gqoboka had given up all hope of finding a meal. A few days before, he’d boiled a pot of water and threw in some flour and sugar to keep him going. Now it was finished. And he was hungry.
On that evening in a flat in Durban, as he sat in darkness with no money for electricity or food, we will never know just how close Gqoboka came to giving up on his dream of becoming a professional rugby player. A dream that this weekend will see the giant prop with the big heart run out for his 100th game for the Vodacom Bulls.
“I never ever thought I’d reach this point. My heart is just filled with gratitude,” says Gqoboka, who will join his Bulls teammates tomorrow as they open their Heineken Champions Cup campaign against French Top 14 side Lyon at Loftus Versfeld.
“It just shows that everything is possible for him who believes.”
Gqoboka is understandably overwhelmed by the thought of reaching this milestone in a career where he’s been capped as a Springbok and moved with this Bulls team into the new rugby era of the United Rugby Championship and now the Heineken Champions Cup.
It’s a vastly different world from his home village of Ntabankulu in the rural Eastern Cape, where he went through high school working at a funeral home and loading and unloading sand off trucks. And it seems a lifetime away from the darkness of that flat in Durban, where Gqoboka had arrived on what little money his parents could scrape together to try and begin his studies. It was in Durban that he had the first slice of pizza in his life and started playing club rugby upon the advice of a friend.
But as the money ran out, his studies ended and with his rugby career going nowhere, Gqoboka found himself sitting in that flat wondering where his next meal would come from.
“That’s when a friend of mine drove far out of his way, knocked on the door and asked if I’d like to join him on a drive to the local garage to buy a pie. I couldn’t understand it. The garage was much closer to where he lived than where my flat was. He actually drove past it to get to me. When I asked him why, he said he just felt like a pie and didn’t want to eat alone. And I got a meal,” recalled Gqoboka.
A few days later, he found a job with a construction company. This gave him access to the internet, and with no clear rugby prospects in Durban, he spent three weeks phoning the offices of the EP Kings daily, begging them for a trial. Eventually, they gave up on turning him down and agreed to fly him out for one trial. The trial was a good one, but Gqoboka wasn’t offered a contract. And now, having resigned from his job in Durban, he was stuck in Gqeberha with no income.
But still, Gqoboka pushed on with his dream. He was chased out of a local gym because he didn’t have shoes, which he couldn’t afford. Eventually, he managed to scrape together R70 to buy the most basic pair of trainers. And that’s what he wore to training.
The Kings agreed to sign Gqoboka on a one-year contract. It was short-lived though as the franchise was thrown into financial turmoil. But again came that unexpected moment – an offer from the Bulls. He signed with them in 2016, and clearly remembers his first match for this historic team.
“It was against the DHL Stormers in Cape Town and it was an amazing day. It was so special. It felt like a reward for all the sacrifices, and for my family as well who supported me and prayed for me. My career was now taking a direction. I’m just so grateful to everyone who has supported me. My heart is filled with gratitude,” said the father of three boys aged two months, four and 14.
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