We’ve held back from thoroughly devoting exclusive time to this topic for a while, because we felt we had addressed it, albeit sporadically, in other themes we’ve written about. However, when we recently took time to examine suggestions we get from some of the readers of this column on issues to consider when writing, we were amazed at how we’ve overlooked such a glaring challenge in many marriages. 

However, due to space, we will explore the possible causes this week. And then suggest some solutions in the next column. ..