Last week, with the release of the report on initiation deaths and injuries by the Commission for the Promotion and Protection of the Rights of Cultural, Religious and Linguistic Communities (CRL Commission) had me biting my nails as I became increasingly worried about the state of this rite of passage, once a highlight in many young boys' lives.
As I turned the pages to find 557 deaths had occurred, 5035 young boys were hospitalised and 214 penile amputations had taken place from 2016 to date, this sent shivers down my spine.
This rite is central to defining the features of a modern African society, and we should celebrate this, not shed more tears over it.
It angers me that thugs have hijacked such a special tradition for commercial gain and subsequently have robbed many of the opportunity to undergo this significant traditional ritual.
We know that this is part of an ongoing conversation which is taking place in many communities across the country. But while our boys are dying, the government is clearly not doing what it promised to ensure zero deaths be realised.
In fact, it is imperative that the government acts decisively and swiftly in mitigating deaths that happen at initiation schools.
In Gauteng, for example, it is unfathomable to think that halting a sacred and long-established cultural tradition to investigate illegal and commercial practices for a year will see positive results, however, my main concern is that it might see underground and dangerous practices flourish.
The CRL's recommendation to suspend all initiation activity in Gauteng is surprising as neither the commissioner nor the report provide any reasons for such a drastic and almost Draconian intervention. Logic tells me that the CRL is out of its depth here.
Where are our leaders, where are our mentors in communities where botched practices aren't regulated?