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Mo and Phindi Relationship Thursdays

Mo and Phindi Grootboom are relationship columnists for Sowetan

MO AND PHINDI | Stop doing these things to your spouse in public MO AND PHINDI | Stop doing these things to your spouse in public

Being publicly put down by a person that supposedly loves and should be protecting you is highly demoralising in ...

MO AND PHINDI | You love your new partner, but your kids don’t ... MO AND PHINDI | You love your new partner, but your kids don’t feel the same

It’s important to determine whether your kids dislike of your new person is for a good reason that you were genuinely ...

MO AND PHINDI | A fractured marriage, no matter how bad, can ... MO AND PHINDI | A fractured marriage, no matter how bad, can still be rescued

Any two mature adults, who want to remain committed in their marriage, can cultivate and maintain a healthy ...

MO AND PHINDI | Bridge the gap before it grows too wide to reach ... MO AND PHINDI | Bridge the gap before it grows too wide to reach out to your partner

Even after your relationship settles into a pattern, it’s essential to maintain a sense of fun to have a healthy ...

MO AND PHINDI | Signs that you’re growing apart should be a red ... MO AND PHINDI | Signs that you’re growing apart should be a red flag for your relationship

When you won’t take deliberate interest in each other’s likes, preferences, interests, passions and goals, you are ...

MO AND PHINDI | Marriage isn’t about compromises but about ... MO AND PHINDI | Marriage isn’t about compromises but about building a relationship

The danger of a marriage that is centered around compromise is the inevitable weaving of selfishness into the paradigm.

MO AND PHINDI | Why people stay in unhealthy and abusive ... MO AND PHINDI | Why people stay in unhealthy and abusive relationships

Trying to explain toxic or abusive relationships with logic is not easy. Toxic relationships are insanely complex and ...

MO AND PHINDI | Black-and-white thoughts from one partner in a ... MO AND PHINDI | Black-and-white thoughts from one partner in a couple poison marriages

The black-and-white mindset – a polarised thought process also known as dichotomous thinking or all-or-nothing – is a ...

MO AND PHINDI | Grow your marriage and love by serving others ... MO AND PHINDI | Grow your marriage and love by serving others together as a couple

Serving other people together as a couple relieves stress, breaks the rut of ruminating about your own problems and ...

MO AND PHINDI | Unromantic conversations you need to have before ... MO AND PHINDI | Unromantic conversations you need to have before getting married

Healthy marriages are formed on the strong foundation of common purpose, shared values and similar maturity levels.