Mo and Phindi Relationship Thursdays

Mo and Phindi Grootboom are relationship columnists for Sowetan

MO AND PHINDI | A controlling, emotionally abusive partner can ... MO AND PHINDI | A controlling, emotionally abusive partner can erode your confidence

Gaslighting is an insidious and sometimes covert type of emotional abuse where the bully or abuser makes you question ...

MO AND PHINDI | Pornography has negative impact on marriage ... MO AND PHINDI | Pornography has negative impact on marriage partners

The truth is, pornography does not save or strengthen marriages. On the contrary, it destroys and weakens them. Porn is ...

MO AND PHINDI | Importance of building towards common goals in ... MO AND PHINDI | Importance of building towards common goals in marriage

One of the best marriage advices we’ve ever received in our lives was that couples should start investing early in the ...

MO AND PHINDI | When your spouse works with someone they cheated ... MO AND PHINDI | When your spouse works with someone they cheated with

An affair is one of the most terrifying words a partner could hear. However, an affair with a co-worker rubs salt in an ...

MO AND PHINDI | Unconditional love must have limits, don't ... MO AND PHINDI | Unconditional love must have limits, don't overlook trust and respect ...

Unconditional love is a concept that gets many people hot under the collar. In their cynicism, they either don’t ...

MO AND PHINDI | How couples should deal with retroactive ... MO AND PHINDI | How couples should deal with retroactive jealousy in a relationship

Retroactive jealousy is a state of having major obsession and insecurities over – or anger about – your partner’s ...

MO AND PHINDI | Being married to a narcissist is a long and ... MO AND PHINDI | Being married to a narcissist is a long and draining emotional ...

Are you married to a narcissist? Do you ever feel engulfed, controlled, manipulated, and find that you are losing your ...

MO AND PHINDI | Helping your spouse cope with depression could ... MO AND PHINDI | Helping your spouse cope with depression could save your nuptials

Standing on the sidelines when your spouse battles depression can feel like a helpless experience. You might feel ...

MO AND PHINDI | Mistakes fathers make when daddy’s little girl ... MO AND PHINDI | Mistakes fathers make when daddy’s little girl becomes a teenager

As parents, our roles change over time. When our daughters are young, our job is to protect them physically and ...

MO AND PHINDI| Some of the most overlooked behaviours that might ... MO AND PHINDI| Some of the most overlooked behaviours that might kill your marriage

Never threaten to leave someone who isn't afraid of losing you. In fact, you shouldn't be making such threats in the ...