Gay couples complain of discrimination at Home Affairs
A 32-year-old gay woman from Khayelitsha said she recently tried to marry her partner at the Khayelitsha Home Affairs office but the official refused‚ claiming her partner’s ID had expired. The official also asked her who was the top‚ who was the bottom?
The couple then went to the Cape Town Home Affairs office. “The marriage officer wasn’t going to help us without answering her questions first.” The couple were registered in the end‚ but only “after a long discussion and debate” said the woman‚ who did not wish to have her name made public.
Section 6 of the Civil Union Act allows designated marriage officers to refuse to conclude same-sex unions.
On Tuesday‚ the Legal Resources Centre (LRC) and Free Gender hosted a discussion on the section. About 60 activists and members of civil organisations attended. The LRC and Free Gender have made submissions to Parliament to repeal section 6 on the basis that it is discriminatory.
“The two organisations sought to jointly utilise their expertise in ensuring that the values and rights enshrined in the Constitution are reflected in both the laws enacted and the realities of LGBTI persons in South Africa especially when seeking to conclude marriages at DHA [Home Affairs] offices‚” the organisations said in a press release.
One of the panellists at the discussion‚ which was held at the Centre for the Book in Cape Town‚ Zethu Matebeni of Free Gender‚ said the organisation had received numerous complaints from couples who have experienced difficulties trying to have same-sex marriages at Home Affairs.
She said officials made lame excuses‚ postponed or referred gay couples to other Home Affairs offices. Sometimes officials agreed on paper to officiate‚ but then refused to conduct the civil ceremony.
“If they later get officiated the experience is traumatic. No happy moments for the newlyweds … Officials also make remarks‚ like ‘so between you two who should sign the husband or wife column?’” she said.
Phumeza Runeyi‚ who does advocacy for Free Gender‚ said she knew of a gay couple who started the registering process at Home Affairs in February but only got married in April. “On the day they finally got married they had to answer questions like ‘Why are they getting married?’” she said
Home Affairs did not respond to GroundUp’s questions. When GroundUp phoned Home Affairs in Khayelitsha to ask if gay people could be married at its offices‚ the official said yes and that an appointment should be made‚ where the process would be explained.
* This article was originally published by GroundUp.
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