CONFESSION BOX: Should I give married man another chance?

I met a wonderful man through mutual friends a year ago. He is a bit older than me, handsome and charming.

We went out a few times and he was attentive to me. We saw each other three times and then I never heard from him again.

After a few weeks I called him, h e acted as if everything was normal and said that he would see me over the weekend, but again I didn't hear from him.

I called him again and h e said that he had been involved in a car accident and would see me as soon as he got a new car, but I later found out he had lied about that and he is married.

I was so embarrassed that I had been so stupid.

I made a decision never to contact him again and to get on with my life.

Four months later, he wants me to give him another chance. I am tempted because I still have feelings for him. What do you think?

Confused , Diepkloof

How many chances do you want to give him? After the way he has treated you I really don't think you should give him any more chances. He sounds like an unreliable man who cannot keep his promises. He always seems to have excuses for his bad behaviour. You have met this man, at most, four times - you don't even know the first thing about him. You are asking for trouble if you see him again. If you do decide to see him again, believe me, this would end up in tears.