MY OLDER sister and I didn't get on that well growing up. We have different fathers and I think that she was often jealous of the relationship I have with my father.
sister ask yourself one question why does your ment onyl tell you this when you have a fight, he is saving his own skin, infact it him that is having an affair and ahs impreganted the other woman. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MommaC
Short answer : NO
Stay out of it.
If you feel you absolutely have to speak to someone then confront your sister's husband in private. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ann
@MommaC, I totally agree with ur comment ,i mean she needs to speak to her brother in law and if anything happens be there for your sister Report Abuse
Think about yourself and why you would want to tell her? You can tell her if you think she will do something about it - like leave his stupid face. I have seen a lot of cases where the whistle blower became the enemy. You say your relationship is not strong enough. What if she thinks you are jealous of her as well. If you cannot handle negative backlash from her, I would say keep very far from both of them with regards to their relationship. If you confront the man, he might turn around on you. You never know, cheaters are very selfish people who are out to have their cake and eat it too. Concentrate on you and your sanity unless you think your sister's life is in danger. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MsBlackberry
kgona tsa gao le boyfriend ya go bereka shopong o tlogele taba tsa sesiago i bet ur sister knows something bout this, we women have a strong intuition but choose to ignore Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
RobinH
maneater: READ. They had a fight about the matter. He did not wait until they had a fight.
Lady, stay out of it. Whether true or not, this can only lead to trouble in your own life. But I disagree Ann. Even less should she talk to the brother-in-law. Perhaps investigate a bit... discreetly. Establish what the truth really is, perhaps get a photo..... and then consider the options. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Noir19
All you can do is to stay away from your sisters relationship with her husband, because what ever ur saying is rumours and allegations which can wreck ur sisters marriage. U and ur boyfriend shoud Stay Away Report Abuse
they had a fight about her boyfriend being scared to tell her whatever he said he wanna tell her, not that he told her when they had a fight.
i think it was a situation of - boy:"baby i wanna tell you something but am scared"
Girl: "what is is just tell me, you know you can tell me everything"
Boy: "Agg never mind"
then a fight broke up, i think thats what happened Report Abuse
blood is thicker than water, its mostly the same u tel she gets angry you dont she still gets angry so the best part is to stay out of your sister affairs, strengthen your relationship and dont let a man come between that, t he only suggestion take the hard topic with her and the ladies as how to handle a cheating man, of finding out if your man is cheating as ladies, then your gonna get her view then undersstand how she will feel if she finds out,
STAY OUT OF IT THATS A FAMILY MATTER NOT SISTER ONE Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
JUBJUB
Stay out of it or confront your brother in law maybe you'll get the answer from the horses mouth... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Eraser
Might your own business and stay out of it..Cause its just a romour it might not be true..she wil fine out in her own way... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ayobaness
2moro yo sista will be sick eating stocksweet
nd ull be regreting for the rest of yo life if u realy
care nd lv yo sista pls tel her this sh!t must come to an end Report Abuse
She won't believe you anyway, she will think you are jealous. But just tell her, if she doesn't believe you, it's not your problem, you played your part. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
KerataGodiraBannaBJ
Maaka, O batla Monna wa ausi wa gao. Hai bo Sundani ga ba fele. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Malaisha
Keep your mouth shut. You will be destroying that happy family. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
Suppose she stays out of it and it happens to be true, what then?
The husband has the secret child stashed away somewhere and then something terrible happens to the husband, when it is time to divide his assets - given that the husband is a business man - the illegitimate child or the mother suddenly pops up and starts demanding half the estate how would the sister feel? Imagine it then emerges that she knew about it all along what then, don’t you think that would damage their relationship beyond repair?
The one thing about the truth is it always comes out eventually and when I speak of the truth I speak of the alleged affair and the fact that she knew about the affair. She is your sister; family is there to protect each other no matter what. By not telling her you are perhaps exposing her to even greater danger but the question is is she mature enough to handle the truth? Anyone who ends up hating you for telling them the truth is perhaps not worth having around.
I would want to know, then I’d do my own investigating to make sure is there is truth to the rumour. I’d tell her and face the consequences later and I’d make it clear I am doing so so she has the information she needs to make her decision; the intention is not to break them up. But make sure of your facts before approaching her, I think I’d be extremely selfish and self-centred of you to keep something as important as this away from her; she is your sister for heaven’s sake.
Stay out of it.
If you feel you absolutely have to speak to someone then confront your sister's husband in private.
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If you confront the husband he is:
1. Going to deny it,
2. Demand to know who fed you the lies,
3. Fire your boyfriend for meddling in his affairs,
4. Possibly try to discredit you by telling the sister that you are a rumourmonger so she does not believe anything that comes from your mouth
What would you have achieved at the end of the day?
The truth always has a strange way of coming out, so I say keep your mouth shut while it unfolds.
There is a saying in Sepedi that says " Le ge o ka e buela leopeng magokobu a tlo go bona". Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bibi30
Dear i just signed up in order for me to comment. as painful as it is. Its your sister we talking about so my view is TELL HER. thats all I can say. She will be so angry and it will be so painfull for her to find out that you knew and you did not say a thing to her. It will break her heart that even her sister was hiding it from her. Im sorry but you have to. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nastro.striker
Should I tell my sister her husband is cheating on her?
How did you come to that conclusion?
She doesn't have to tell the husband where the story came from. All she has to do is to say to him that there is a rumour going around (cause that is what it is at the moment) and ask him if it is true. Even if he denies it, she'll get a pretty good idea from his houding about if he is lying or not. He will get the message that the cat is out the bag and either come clean to his wifle or stop the affair.
If she tells her sister and it isn't true then her sister will never forgive her for the pain she wrongly inflicted
If she tells her sister and it is true then she has put herself right in the middle of the whole saga. If the husband and the sister then reconcile, the husband will never forgive her and the sister will come to regard her as being the source of the pain to begin with. If they don't reconcile then her sister will always see her as the person who caused her marriage to disolve. Either way, the sister will look at her differently.
Take my word for it - I've been in this situation before. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
dont tell her. i mean u dont even have proof that the hubby is cheating, so just shut the hell up... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
tumzangwana
its none of your business ausi, JUST DONT TELL HER. someone once said that if you interfere with two people's business especially if they are lovers you will end up being the fool that was trying to break them up. and when they eventually get their sh!t together you will be the one thats left out in the cold. im talking from experience, i know.
DONT EVEN BOTHER TELLING HER. if its true it will come out one way or the other. one can never run away from the truth. the truth has its own way of coming out. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
zino
tell your boyfriend to stay out of other ppl's business and focus on improving your relationship Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
SIMSWOP
"he thinks that the lady involved might be pregnant.".
What makes things worse is the fact that this are allegations from the boyfriend, and clearly the boyfriend might not be right, so for the sister to go on talk about this to her sister she needs full evidence to be produce should this turn ugly , i mean how do u expect to break this to your siblings whereby you dont have something to back it up,
1 if she goes to the husband and he denies what would she says..can she provide evidence??,,,NO
2. going to the sister if the sister also demands evidence to support her confrontation to his man what would she provide...Nothing
Meaning the boyfriend has to come out and tell the sister that be warned Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
dre10
Tell her otherwise u will be in trouble. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
DeCock1
Stupid people! Why must she stay the hell away from it?? Blood is thicker than water! Better thing to do is to do the right thing....tell her and if she retaliates against you, then you know you did what you thought was best for her....if she cant trust you, who is she to trust!! Women here amaze me!!
My friends and I have a pact, if your gf is doing something out of the ordinary, tell your friend...no matter how much it will hurt....it is better to know and face the consequences than to live a lie....
Headline: You didn't get along growing up - Third paragraph: you are very close and have a good relationship with your sista. What a contradiction madam? Which one shud we believe C'mon.
Anyway tswa mo tabeng cos ha o na proof u surely do not want to be blamed 4 de rest of your life 4 breaking you sussie's marriage. Do your own investigation at least ke if o batla go itse di-facts ka kgang e before you spill the bins tse o senang bopaki bo feletseng ka yona.
Tlhompha bagolo ngwanyana and ga ke go tshepe niks you seem to have issues, u even mentioned gore ur sussie was jelous of u coz a sena good contact le daddy dearest. There are lots of ppl ba sa nnang le kamano le their daddies but this never frustrated them so ema ka di empty assumptions tsa gago - learn to base ur conversation on concrete facts. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Miss_Independant
If you were my sister I would want you to tell me even if we were never close and only became close now blood is blood even though you dont have the same father, Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Miss_Independant
@Bibi30
Dear i just signed up in order for me to comment. as painful as it is. Its your sister we talking about so my view is TELL HER. thats all I can say. She will be so angry and it will be so painfull for her to find out that you knew and you did not say a thing to her. It will break her heart that even her sister was hiding it from her. Im sorry but you have to
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You said it yourself....Your sister is happy in her marriage, so why do you want to ruin that? Please don't spoil a good marriage with gossip from your boyfriend. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Muwaweni
If you luv your sister enough to see her stay hapily maried for the set of her life,you will NOT tell her.And hey remember dat u dont have any concrete evidence. What if you tell her only to find that it was ur lying boyfriend who formed a story. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
DeCock1
Women here encourage cheating....even in married couples....sies....im disgusted....by staying silent when wrong is done, you indirectly promote the wrongdoer to continue....you all should be ashamed of yourselves.... Report Abuse
@zino
I agree with you. This lady needs to first define what a good relationship is first? She says she has a very good relationship with her sister - but also says her sister is jealous of her relationship with her father? Her boyfriend was scared to tell her - was it maybe due to trust issues? She had to fight him to get the scoop? There seems to be a very grey cloud hanging over these people and the relationships they have. She would benefit from looking at her relationship before she minds other people's relationships. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
The_Only_1
What do you want to achieve out of telling your sister because you should be telling your brother in law to stop cheating!!! I find people like you very immature, as you are intending to see a very good relationship collapsing. Anyway why can't you just get yourself a lif,e as currently it seems as if you are becoming a spy or just get yourself a hobby that will keep you busy and forget about other people's relationships. You seem to be very sexual fustrated to me!!
@MommaC,
How did you come to that conclusion?
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Let’s think about this rationally shall we:
Let’s assume the husband is indeed cheating and I believe he is cheating given how reluctant the boyfriend was to get involved what does this tell you about him?
1. He is a deceptive character,
2. He does not want the wi.fe to find out,
3. He will do anything to keep the affair and baby on the way a secret otherwise he would have confessed already.
Logic dictates he knows she is dating the manager of his sh.op, it won’t be difficult for him to put two and two together and figure out how she found out, what do you think he is going to do to the boyfriend if she was the one to confront him?
Trust me where money is involved it won’t take long for the baby-momma to pop out of the woodwork in the event he passes away and by then the truth will come out and then some. By then she’d have to live with the fact that she knew and did nothing about it otherwise should the sister find out she knew there is no way they will be able to mend their relationship.
Look at it this way, if you were the sister being cheated on would you want to know especially when he is got other mini-hims running around that you may not know of?
Having kids out of wedlock is a deal-breaker; this is a secret he will protect with his life which means dealing with anything and anyone who threatens your marriage. Do you think once confronted he will break down and confess his sins in a pile of tears? There is no way that is going to happen, the man is going to fight back, trust me on this one.
Women here encourage cheating....even in married couples....sies....im disgusted....by staying silent when wrong is done, you indirectly promote the wrongdoer to continue....you all should be ashamed of yourselves....
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something almost similar to this story happened to me. at that time i did what i thought was right so that my sister would wake up and see her bf for what he really was. you want to know what happened? they eventually got their sh!t together and guess what? im viewed as the one who was trying to get them to break up. after all this im the one who IS still left with a big ostrich egg on my face. would i do that to myself again? H3LL NO. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Felemntwini
A man telling his girl about the manga manga business of a brother in law/ a man's relationship. Surely sisi you man is gay he wants your brother in law for him. So don't tell nothing you don't know. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsafendason
Your boyfriend is a Mamgobhozi, why tell you stufff that has got nothing to do with the 2 of you, useless man!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
DeCock1
I hope all you men are reading these bold statements by the women here.... We have been given licence to cheat.....as long as we make sure no one interferes, we cool....Viva to SowetanLive women viva!! lol Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Thandekile
Have you considered that your own boyfriend might be cheating on you? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
@tumzangwana,
How old is your sister if you don't mind me asking? Report Abuse
dilo tse ditsamaya di etsa bana kontle then ge se swile your sister tlabe a lwanela mafa le bana ba a sa baitsing,tell your sister maan who knos maybe your sister is the second wif'e,bust the balloon maan. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
BOOKIE
Stay out of this. You don't have proof and never confront your brother in law. You are just looking for trouble sister. The brother in law will protect himself and say you are the one sleeping with him and guess what the sister will forgive her husband and you are finished. Where is the proof that he is cheating. You and your boyfie are jealous man. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Spekepeke
Oh fcuk this is Bull Sh!t
The boyfriend and Husband both cheated on sisters now that the boyfriend is fighting with the sister he dont want to go down alone he's exposing the husband as well, Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
DeCock1
tumzangwana
Who cares about egg on face....you did the right thing and absolved yourself of any guilt....you have no control on how your sister handles her issues....if she decides to work things out with her man, then that is her issue....but you did what a sister is supposed to do....now the bf knows you dont take sh!t....i bet if he knew that you knew and kept it from your sister, he would have made advances on you as well....because you are a go@t and willing to hide his shenanigans!!! Feel good about doing the right thing!!!
entlik the boyfriend is gay....he wants your brother in law. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Afriman
Well, nowadays men and women cheat. There's very little you can do 'bout it. Just stay out of it. You may just make him aware that you know and if he cares about your sister he'll do the right thing. But girl, there's no rational or real reason for cheating it's just happening. Not even shrinks can explain it. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
takoskonvict
what is wrong with an african man having only one nyatsi you fake people? 50% of you commenting here are illegetimate children, but you act like you are not used to something like this. This is africa and it will remain africa. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
@DeCock1
Depends, some marriages can survive cheating. I left mine when my husband cheated on me. I was not interested in his explanations. Cheating is really a symptom of other serious underlaying issues. A person who cheats will display other behaviours that tend to raise flags. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
No man in his right mind can do what your boyfriend did,men protect one another so that proves that you have a stupid man in your life girl Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
@tumza,
At 30 or approaching 30 one would have thought she would be mature enough to deal with this. I'm starting to think women don't want to know if and when their husbands are cheating. Perhaps it is a case of "what I don't know won't hurt me", perhaps driven by the fact that many women themselves are only too happy dating someone knowing they are married or in a committed relationship.
Question for the ladies; would you want to know if your husband / boyfriend is cheating?
Are you content with assuming there probably is a nyatsi on the side so long as you are not confronted with the fact to confirm this? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
BOOKIE
Actually you are jealous of your sister coz she has a successful marriage and a business man. You are the jealous one here. Get alive sesi. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
tumzangwana
@decock1
@tumzangwana
Who cares about egg on face....you did the right thing and absolved yourself of any guilt....you have no control on how your sister handles her issues....if she decides to work things out with her man, then that is her issue....but you did what a sister is supposed to do....now the bf knows you dont take sh!t....i bet if he knew that you knew and kept it from your sister, he would have made advances on you as well....because you are a go@t and willing to hide his shenanigans!!! Feel good about doing the right thing!!!
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i know i should feel good, but it still hurts because even if i see something that the guy does to her and and its wrong, i cant say anything for fear of being the one who tries to break them up again. our relationship has never been the same since that incident since it happened just 3 months. so i just have to turn blind eye even though it hurts. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Wanani
@Momma C, you are a good adviser, I agree with u. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
DeCock1
Jaja'sQueen
I hear you...and I commend you for your actions....they were your actions and you know why you took those actions!! But I would like to stress that Staying/Leaving after finding out your husband/w!fe cheated is another topic on its own!!! I am sure we would even have quotes from the Bible on that one....lol
The main issue here is to whether tell/not tell when one has been caught cheating....I say, tell.....by doing so, you show respect to the affected party and you respect yourself by promoting good moral behaviour!!
@bookie,
Actually you are jealous of your sister coz she has a successful marriage and a business man. You are the jealous one here. Get alive sesi.
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Nah that's out of order, can't you tell this is woman in a serious predicament. Lets think before posting please. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Luv2kiss
Tjo......I'm toooooooooooooooooooo young for this ***HIDING**** Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
tumzangwana
@dzel
that is why i decide to just turn a blind eye, because tomorrow i dont want to be viewed as being jealous of their relationship. so i just stay away from everything and concentrate on my life and my goals. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
Tumza is right. That is what is going to happen. I can verify that through my own experience.
I expect my sisters and my friends to have my back.
Usual way to solve this is to do it without the friend or sister even knowing about it. Confront the husband and (if that doesn't do it) confront the other woman. If that doesn't work then make their lives as uncomfortable as possible until they have to resolve the matter Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
RobinH
maneater: READ. They had a fight about the matter. He did not wait until they had a fight.
Lady, stay out of it. Whether true or not, this can only lead to trouble in your own life. But I disagree Ann. Even less should she talk to the brother-in-law. Perhaps investigate a bit... discreetly. Establish what the truth really is, perhaps get a photo..... and then consider the options.
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Boerrr boy you think this is cheaters where you follow people around and take photos?
Just stay out of your sister's affairs wena ngwanyana.This has nothing to do with you stay out of it. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
BhutPapi
Entlik the writer le wena wa phapha, why did you insist on finding the secret from boyfriend while he did not want to tell you and nou o bolaisha menagano ya rena go nagana. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
@ Tumza / MommaC,
Point taken; but I have a feeling this is going to turn south very quickly, perhaps this is an indictment on women in general as per my question(s). In the end you guys are effectively giving men carte'blanche to cheat and there you should not be complaining when they do cheat. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
@Dzel
Good question. I consider myself a very well grounded person and never really have issues with men who cheat. My ex husband cheated on me - that's why he is ex, but I was very young then. Now I can spot the signs of a troubled man from miles away and run. It's a skill that a lot of women do not nurture. I am a very disciplined person and tend to come across as very strict. Men who have character flaws do not like such women. Like I said cheating is a symptom eminating from another behaviour that is equally unsavoury. Women often hang on to these men for various reasons which have a lot to do with their self esteem and stories they have told themselves. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
DeCock1
tumzangwana
You cant interfere in every little spat they have...they are adults and im sure they can sort out some of their indifferences....but there are things as a sister you are supposed to put your foot down and say: Hell No!! Like cheating....fvck, if my sisters bf cheated on her and I knew it, I would tell her and beat him up in the process...if she forgives him and they move on...cool...good luck to them...if I find out he cheated again, I would still tell on his @ss and beat him up once more....If he confronts me on why im interfering, I would tell him – Uyacheater kwedini!! that is my role not only as a brother (an annoying one she would say) but as a person who intends to see the best for the people I care the most...
I think its better if you stay out of this coz meddling in two peoples affair is dangerous coz it may turn-out as if you are jealous of your sister marriage.you will never know what 2 people say wen u r not around Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
tumzangwana
@maezisto
i agree with you 100% motho wa modimo. the girl must just stay away from that situation. the truth will come out in its own way. it always does. all she can do is be there for her sister when it comes out and help her pick up the pieces. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Cowgirl
I say tell your sister cause clearly this man child is putting your sister's life in danger by shagging other women without protection seeing that it is alleged that the mistress is pregnant.
Would you forgive yourself if you found out that the hubby infected with AIDS because of his cheating ways and you knew? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
CatGrrrrrrrr
sista girl, stay out of your sisies affairs. she will find out, thats a given. and if it burns you that much, get all the facts(name, location of the lady, how they see each other with the hubby) cause going to yo sister without answers is trouble.
as women, we feel this things from far. you might find that she knows something already and took a backseat just enjoying the view. careful, [if you came to me with "ba re", i wouldnt give a second of my time. come with full facts cause for me to listen to you i'll cross question you till you feel like you're the cheater].
even so, shut up, she will be mad at you for not telling her at first but come around. it always happen. OUT... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
CYBORICO
Sister tell you sister what u know, irrespective of her reaction and how fragile you relationship might be, tell your sister. What u dont need to tell her is what she needs to do with this piece of data, let her take her own decisions if asked for inputs, try to stay as neutral as possible.,
10 yrs from now she will still be your sister and the guy might not still be in her life(for other reasons than this) and u will regret it all your life not having protected her. i just cant stand knowing that people i care about are being taken for a ride
I WILL EVEN TELL MY FRIEND HIS GIRL IS A mahala kukunas EVEN IF ITS my brother WHO SLEEPS WITH THE GIRL Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
tumza,
i agree with you 100% motho wa modimo. the girl must just stay away from that situation. the truth will come out in its own way. it always does. all she can do is be there for her sister when it comes out and help her pick up the pieces.
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Even if the mini-him suddenly appears after he has passed on and demands indlu and everything else especially if he is the first born (moja lefa), you know how we African can get when fighting for the deceased's estate especially property? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
No. We are not giving men a license to cheat. We just solve the situation differently.
Approaching the husband is a bad, bad idea; like I said if he is cleaver he will drive a wedge between the sisters especially if he knows their relationship is shaky. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
tumzangwana
@dzel
im just saying that the girl should not tell her sister, coz you know that the husband will deny everything. and since the sisters' relationship is shaky sometimes, this might make it more shaky. the husband will obviously convince his w!fe that the sister is jealous of their marr!age. and then what happens? since the sisters already have issues between them this might make it ten times worse. the truth will come out in its own way. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
@tumzangwana
Women are forgiving I can testify to that.So if maybe she tells her sister and the sister forgives the husband she is going to be a fool in all this.The husband is gona hate her for trying to ruin his marriage and the marriage wont be the same because of her big mouth.This is a mess that I would encourage her to distance herself from it. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Dzel
@MommaC,
Approaching the husband is a bad, bad idea; like I said if he is cleaver he will drive a wedge between the sisters especially if he knows their relationship is shaky.
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u are right Dzel approaching the hubby will just worsen the matter
i agree with you. often in situations like this you are the fool who tried to break them up even though wena you were only trying to help. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nevus
Maezisto-tlogela go bitsa ledushi le boe'r ha a na niks e a ka boerang ka yona. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
Sies wena maan Mt, that's disgusting. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
BaleliM
This is really simple... find evidence or better yet, catch the brother in law with the woman and then tell him that if he does not confess to the w.ife about this, then you will tell her. I did so with my friend and the husband told her the truth. it is not just about telling the truth and damaging a supposedly perfect relationship, it is also a way in which you can prevent infection to an innocent woman who has a child. This man has impregnanted another woman (supposedly) and that means he does not use protection and i for one can not wait until my loved one gets a decision she knows nothing about.
Sowetan: since when is w.ife a bad word!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
Well then you are all sweetness and light to the husband when sissie is around so sissie thinks hubby is being unreasonable and starts questioning his motives.
Women are not confrontational. We don't solve things with our fists. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
maezizsto
@tumzangwana
Women are forgiving I can testify to that.So if maybe she tells her sister and the sister forgives the husband she is going to be a fool in all this.The husband is gona hate her for trying to ruin his marriage and the marriage wont be the same because of her big mouth.This is a mess that I would encourage her to distance herself from it.
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well said Maezi....couldnt have said it better.
eish her boyfrnd le ena wa phapha man why did he tell her mara? hai some mara
@maezisto-i agree with you at the end ke taba ya "sperms are thicker than blood." Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
WordofGod
"James 5:20 Let him know, whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.
we should only correct in a humble way as an act of love. the bible indicates to boldly correct people in an effort to bring them to repentance. rebuking a sinner, exposing corruption, correcting someone in love or disciplining ones children is not judging wrongfully
ausi, rather talk to your brother in law instead of approaching your sister.
maezizsto
Women are forgiving I can testify to that.So if maybe she tells her sister and the sister forgives the husband she is going to be a fool in all this.The husband is gona hate her for trying to ruin his marriage and the marriage wont be the same because of her big mouth.This is a mess that I would encourage her to distance herself from it.
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hehehe i wonder gore wena galfrend ya gago sale ya go tswarela neh...
LG - o reng fela ngwana o pila wa lefahla la noga......
@nevus
if u were to find out tht ur brother's wi.fe is cheating would u tell him? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
WordofGod - o tsiba eleven commandments???? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
nevus-kikikikikikiki akere ba ipona e le maburu ka go ringa Afrikaans. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
@WordofGod
"James 5:20 Let him know, whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.
we should only correct in a humble way as an act of love. the bible indicates to boldly correct people in an effort to bring them to repentance. rebuking a sinner, exposing corruption, correcting someone in love or disciplining ones children is not judging wrongfully
ausi, rather talk to your brother in law instead of approaching your sister.
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I hate bazalwane with passion wena Word of God you only received Jesus last year and all of a sudden you are now so holly to a point that you are starting to bore some of us Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tlhagaraga
My sister you cannot fix everything and some other things are beyond our power to change them, don't talk about it is not your business, i am sorry to say your boyfriend is not strong enough. Man don't talk about such things to women because they know woman cannot handle it. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dzel
I hate bazalwane with passion wena Word of God you only received Jesus last year and all of a sudden you are now so holly to a point that you are starting to bore some of us
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Literally a case of the blind leading the blind and neither party knows it or they refuse to accept reality. Report Abuse
@Dzel what reality?
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She knows what I am talking about, there was an entire thread dedicated to a debate on whether god exists or not. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
@Mthondosheshayo
Reality, is the fact that human beings have evolved and changed so much about themselves since 2000 or so years ago. But they still use the same outdated method of instruction, which has not worked since the books were compiled into scripture. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
WordofGod
@mtho
oh really mtho? you sound too stressed this morning.
@tsek
hai wena!! lol! what is the 11th one. naughty mind . . . Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Remsy
I was also in a similar situation but it ws my very close friend. We were both working in & staying in the same flat. My friend's girlfriend was in Pretoria. Another friend of ours felt in love with my frend's lover. My cousin who stays in Pretoria caught them in action and told me to tell my friend about this relationship. I did not tell until he found out and then confronted me. I confessed to him that I knew about the relationship. He understood the situation that I was in. Today, I am still a friend to all of them. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
@WordofGod sister please bazalwane can perform no wonder you are always hurt becasue you are leaving a lie Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
@remsy
is ur friend(close) still 2gether with the galfrend(jezabel)? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Tsek-My woman o ntshwaretse ga ngata san le bo makhwapeni
WordofGod - Never ever talk to tsek until u send that fax... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Dikdonner
She is the one having an affair here, with the brothe-rin-law and she is pregnat an she is fight with her boyfriend...... we need truth here, why don't you come out! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
If I were to find out my sister knew about my husband's cheatings and never said a word, I would be really cross and feel really betrayed. My sister is family and I believe she would tell me out of caring, she will be looking out for me and I believe family should have each others interests at heart. But then again it all depends on what kind of a relationship one has with their siblings.
maesisto - O maaka maan, manje y ole lonely...izolo nne ole busy o khala ja ka ngwana wa LG.. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Remsy
Ladygaga - They are now married with three kids. They are a very happy family and are all still very close to me. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Tsek-Heeee wena san nna ngwana wa LG?Nka nna ngwana wa ngwana nna o ntlwaetsa ka bana ma laaitie.I neva said I am lonely san ke itse ke batla motho Report Abuse
WordofGod
@tsek
iyo!! eish!! errrr!!! giggling!!!
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wa bona tsona tseo ke tsona o tla di dirang motlang morena o go botsisa gore y did u lie to tsek...o tla no dira di giggling a go shapa ka mpama a fetsa a bitsa satan(nevus) gore a go tsaye ka foroko...neva wa kena ka mojako. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
Stay the hell out of your sister's bussiness as long as she is not physically abused. This guy is spicing his life finish and klaar. Etswa tabeng tsa batho ratanang.
@WordofGod hehehehe luv you big,ngikuthanda ukubhubha Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nevus
ladygaga
@nevus
if u were to find out tht ur brother's wi.fe is cheating would u tell him?
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i will start by blackmailing so that ngi dle nam ngoba ku ya dleka,then tell my brother everything,dont worry i like to see my brother in pain ngoba he have all the best. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ramatlhale
Lady tlogela taba tsa batho because the only result you are going to get is an unemplyed boyfriend, and a sister who hates your guts.
But if you really feel like you can't keep your trap shut then rather set a trap for the poor brother whereby you & your sister incidentally pitch @ a place he may be @ with the alleged mistress; your spineless boyfriend being the informant for their whereabouts course.
Then you are off the hook, but still your boyfriend will be unemployed anyway!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Kkno
It is better to confront the cheater/husband, make him aware
Bluemas
Stay the hell out of your sister's bussiness as long as she is not physically abused. This guy is spicing his life finish and klaar. Etswa tabeng tsa batho ratanang.
Vumane boo!
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HAI ANGIVUMI.LOL Report Abuse
That guy is a stupid individual ,in this regard you don't say anyyhing at all .
Nna i used to go with my uncle and we used to eat them alive and the was
no way i was going to tell my aunt never !!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
clivage
as i said izolo to mi frnds 'its none of mi business'and thy choose a wrong ansa#smh Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
@Ramatlhale
I agree with you ntwana. It's not like it's a miracle that this guy is having a roll-on. Nyatsi i tiisa lelapa. So, this sister must just shut up and continue with her sorry @ss boyfriend. Report Abuse
Hi my baby-sister, wena you must vuma ngenkani ngoba angizingeni indabazakho ne bari zakho. lol. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
clivage
HI gals sengikhona wats app??????
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You skirt and ke bona thong ya barbie girl Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
Guys, me and my brother in law, I mean theeeee brother in law si jiva sonke and siganga sonke. Phooo yindabakabani? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
Bluemas
@Galfrend
Hi my baby-sister, wena you must vuma ngenkani ngoba angizingeni indabazakho ne bari zakho. lol.
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ibari zam?lol Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mayoza
To be honest with my Sister, keeping quiet and seeing ur happy in a unfaithful marrige it wont help. find a good way of telling her and let it be in a good manner. let it be a family gathering, you, ur sister, ur patner and ur brother in-law. then lay matter to all of them. allow ur brother in-law to open up and say what ever he wants. truth will come. also make sure that ur patner was telling you the truth. Thinks about this in both sides, Ur patners might be telling lies for his own reasons and also he might be telling the truth. think if ur sister, THINKS ABOUT THIS. What if she is reading this article and she compares this article with her life. don't you think this will cause her to panic and start to loose trust towards his husband and that will make things more complicated. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
Ohhh Thixo afikile ama Dalom Kids uyoqala umsindo Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
@Galfrend
Yes my baby sister, abo @nevus nabo sbanibani........ Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Bluemas
A se boy friend daai ding is 'n opportunist and he is hoping that once all of this is in the open there'll be chaos and he will gain good favour with wif.e's family meaning bodidi le botabane ba he will be overlooked, ke tshitshiri ntwe man!!!
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@Tsek, hi sweatheart!
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inthoni kawe nna sweetheart?? geele!! ke eng satan(nevus) o deala ka wena ka go bona...
WordofGod - wena checka avatar fela o tla bona gore so seo ga se motho nix!!
WordofGod
@tsek
hau!! kante nevus ke satan? am now very very scared. i can imagine him prickling me with a table fork mo kukung uuuhh lovely . . . lol
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wena o jaags go feta difebe nxa!
Eintlik guys (tattletale) like this make my blood boil, to the confused sista- did you ever stop for a minute & think why you are constantly fighting with your man and you never hear anything negative about your sister's relationship?
It's because your man is a weakling he feels that he has to constantly come 2nd to your sister's husband & now they own his ass, so this might've been his way to show you that there are cracks in your sister's marriage & they are not so perfect. Le lona basadi stop comparing relationships it puts pressure on banna ba ba mekokotelo!!1
I am saying what I am saying because no guy does this to another guy without any motive never kea gana!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
@Bluemas wena Sundani is waiting for you at home
@Wordof God ask the Ndebeles they will tell you Report Abuse
wa e gapa o molato
wa e tlogela o molato Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
matzzzzz
ye yona ke kgomo ya moshate
wa e gapa o molato
wa e tlogela o molato
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go swana le that day ong tlogela ko woodlands ke le one.. Report Abuse
clivage
@galfrnd
ngikhona ntombi ,,,,,uphi ulg
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she's eating ama hotwings le thabo she will be here soon oka rase ke.. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
WordofGod
@tsek
wa bona ge! now ba nthoga and ke wena o statileng. i see you changed your avatar. u look handsome . . . m! m! m!!
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ke statile wena wa duma akere, u should see me naked u will faint hae dilo tse o pilang o di bona ko hammanskral Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Luv2kiss
Matzzzzz
OOHH My princess , M0sadi gare ga basadi , Where did u get yo licence coz u driving me CRAZY Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
bluemie - wareng mothwaka...aowa re o bonee ka nnete Modimo o phadile baloi..gohlwa re hlwile samma, le ge e se tjatji le lebotse, re dio bona ona mathata a bophelo....lena le e jele jwang?
tsek - lmao aowa wena ne o bona ausi waka ..akere ma tripplets naa Report Abuse
Morning to all the Family - Including le makwapa Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
GF - hello doll..im good n how r u? n compliments gal..n le o jele jwang? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
clivage
Bluemas
@Clivovo
*Wink*
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wink wikn baby
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Tsek
clivage
@galfrnd
ngikhona ntombi ,,,,,uphi ulg
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she's eating ama hotwings le thabo she will be here soon oka rase ke..
************** hey wena uyazazi indaba azabantu neeee Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
@matzzzzzzz
Re hlwele le rena rato laka, rebona fela lona letswi le iphile matla, re dio totelwa lefa go feta leba maratswana. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
matzzzzz
luv2kiss
MY king *bowing down* wareng swidat
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One day motho o tlare a sa dira di bow down tsona tseo a robega molala wa kgogo ya sepedi....jirrrrr Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
n tsek if o bolela ka luv2kiss o wrong sana..he knws me...ontseba kudu kudu n ompone gantshi ntshi... Report Abuse
If wa go tsiba i just wonder gore pila pila o boni eng pela le twin la gago la go pala ka colour ya mango le straight back Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
Bluemas
@matzzzzzzz
Re hlwele le rena rato laka, rebona fela lona letswi le iphile matla, re dio totelwa lefa go feta leba maratswana
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kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa dead# o reng naa...kgane sale oekwa neng?..aker december ku.ku ne e lahlile
n TSEK - o ne mona wena..ke hlompha morenaka..o nyaaka ke tonamele wena naa Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
mattz, - Compliments to u too dear, had a great holy thanx
@tsek
ah!! iyo! don't want to puke ke bona maponapona a gago.maponapona a ntlhatsisa. ga ke tswe hammanskraal mann. ke tswa ko plekeng ba i bitsa seropeseseholo.
@luv2kiss
ema pele wena. ke sa ebatla Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
entlik o wa dieta tje kgolo ontlwaela gampe Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
@matzzzz
Eeeee ke nnete ebe e lahlile ku.ku December, fela re badidi ga ba nyake le ho rebona re emetse mafelo a gwedi. Ke duma fela le haekaba bona fela. Hakesa etseba lehore e eme horizontal kapa vertical. Letswai la mpetha wena ratu. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Luv2kiss
Tsek
Heeee monna pls o ska mpakisa "My Well Polished Rock " , Matzzzzz stole my heart n i dont wanna open a case of theft coz its in good hands
MsBlackberry
kgona tsa gao le boyfriend ya go bereka shopong o tlogele taba tsa sesiago i bet ur sister knows something bout this, we women have a strong intuition but choose to ignore
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kwaaa lol gal did u hv to say le bf ya go bereka shoppong ..lmaoooooooooooooo Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
Bluemas
@matzzzz
Eeeee ke nnete ebe e lahlile ku.ku December, fela re badidi ga ba nyake le ho rebona re emetse mafelo a gwedi. Ke duma fela le haekaba bona fela. Hakesa etseba lehore e eme horizontal kapa vertical. Letswai la mpetha wena ratu.
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Ah! My brother kikikikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Remsy
Ladygaga - They are now married with three kids. They are a very happy family and are all still very close to me.
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wow thats good hey
ladygaga
@clivy
ke teng lala, was in a meeting
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did u enjoy??? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
blumie - nare wena o phela o totetse naa? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ann
@maezi, hi dear, o reng?
@matzzzzzzzzzzzzz, hallo welcome back!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
@All
Tomorrow is my baby sister (Galfrend's) born day. If you want to send presents please make sure it start from at least R500 please.
Happy Born Day in advance my baby sister and my you see many more. Report Abuse
Annkie-Ke gore ga go buiwa ka mnyakazo ke mo o ratang teng neh Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
ladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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Really? where did you hear that from? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Sentle
@Matzz
Hi zi gal and thank you for welcoming me back.lol Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
Matzzzzzzz - wena ke go tladile before nka go ferega, wa gopola that day rele ko menlyn park oaperi 2 piece ye p!nk ya mablomo ka di kwaikwai tse red & black? jah u turned me off...
Luv2kiss - no need to open a case ke tswere le twin la gage, matzzzz ke mo tsaya boshego..
WordofGod - waitse ere nka go thuka mara i cnt i dnt knw y....hey i got good news maan i just registered my church company so im still searchin for pastor nyana who can keep my pips busy evry sunday... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Sentle
@LadyG
Ke teng my swerie and wena o skaars these days. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Bluemas
@matzzzz
Even now as I text ke totetswe mooetu, gape selose ga seje papa se
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krkrkrkrkrkrkrkikiki, appreciate & feed the urge mfana, go na le bangwe ba imela ke dilo tsa go se tsamaye madi; if you cut it off go tswa moroto fela. kikikikiki!!! Report Abuse
Kwaaakakaka..... ke nnete eo, babangwe ba paletswe leke diviagra, kare le pitsa tsa setho di paletswe. Kwaaaaakakakakaka.... wena son, you are a piece of work. Report Abuse
krkrkrkrkrkrkrkrk - Boss o tshega snax Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Galfrend
ladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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Really? where did you hear that from?
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
tsek - i c this year o gafa ka high grade..ke tla lo go nyakela sehlare sa go fodisa bogafi ko faraday san Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
Sentle
@Tsek
A wa tsenwa?
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Dumela!!Hao se ke entse eng manje. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Luv2kiss
Ramatlhale
krkrkrkrkrkrkrkrk - Boss o tshega snax
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I do not conform, fact is you do know gore ke a tshega akere?
so altogether now krkrkrkrkrkrkrkrkrkr!!!
pls dont gimme thos $hit numbers that go to a white lady
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hahahahahahahaha ok mi frnd Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
GF
thank u for rectifying clivy...is nt sssss is zzzzzzzzz gal maan toeg tuu Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
ladygaga
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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ah gal, its probably rumours nje, some people are bored out there. I dont think its true Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
bluemie- ya gago ya e leboga ke nyala ya mornachies kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa
dont tell only your boyfriend knows you know,pretend to hear it for the first time when your sister finds out and lend her the shoulder to cry on, and get rid of that boyfriend a blah blah mouth if he cared about you he should have known the info will put you in an uncomfortable position Report Abuse
@Tsek,
Ke ya bona gore ha o normal.Look at what Matzz is saying:
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matzzzzz
tsek - i c this year o gafa ka high grade..ke tla lo go nyakela sehlare sa go fodisa bogafi ko faraday san
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So o reng? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Bluemas
Matzzzzz swipe her ATM card at shoprite after collecting groceries, the cashier asked, cheque or savings? Matzzzzz: Grant. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
ladygaga
Galfrend
ladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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Really? where did you hear that from?
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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Too short mo eleng gore le wena u will regret gore y nne o sa joli le nna nako e sa re dumela gore re shaye thabo ka stina the tym u nagana go zwakala gonna thabo tlabe a go kaile bana tse 5....so make up ur mind!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Spekepeke
matzzzzz
Dont know about that i didnt delete any1, this $hit IT guys messed everything here but i'm fckuen reconnecting soon, u know wena u close to my a$$ i wont do that $hit to u,
Stay away from it baby, i once found my brother in-law in bed with the maid and found out later that the maid had AIDS, my brother in-law tested positive and later died and my sister did not know where it come from, she still doesn,t know, its not my place to talk about people's business. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
Spekepeke
matzzzzz
*wink* both eyes
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hahahahahaaaaaa how do you do that Spekie, lol
clivage
@skpe
sent
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lol wena uyangibulala its Spekie hayi lento oyibhalile.....hahahahahaaaa
Galfrend
ladygaga
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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ah gal, its probably rumours nje, some people are bored out there. I dont think its true
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i hope so gal Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Caramelcake
@worried sister, they say what you do not know does not hurt. Do Not Tell Your sis. (when they married, they swore in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad times, till death. All you need is to be there when this comes out, definitely you shouldn't be the one to tell her. Your sis will find a way to deal with it as well as his husband will find a way to let your sis know....Marriage is about building, you build and repairer, renov ate upgrade....we do not quitt just because our partners decide to have affairs...Your sister must read Proverbs 31:10-31...wise woman....and you also must be wise.
ladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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full story ekhayanews.celebpassing.com Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
truthhurt
Stay away from it baby, i once found my brother in-law in bed with the maid and found out later that the maid had AIDS, my brother in-law tested positive and later died and my sister did not know where it come from, she still doesn,t know, its not my place to talk about people's business.
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iyho thats just too sad.
i feel sorry for ur sis Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
jimmy1
she must learn to mind her own business always. her sister will find out her self. if she tell it will create hatetrate between her and brother in law even her sister.my sister am saying to you mind your own business u sukela ti mhaka ta vanhu Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
............................WILL BE BACK............................ Report Abuse
mattzz - siriyasi, what happend? phela tht guy was young bandla, lemme google it Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Spekepeke
Galfrend
wena u see m online u just choose to shut up, sometimes u behave in a very funny unfriendly way Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MORNACHIES
Ba bangwe go kaone kudu ka ge ba ya di Lunch ,ge e le ba babangwe e dio ba
Somalia at it's best . Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
GF
yeah he was..i dnt knw the details too Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
jimmy1
my sister the bible says in `thesalonians 4:11 and to make it your ambition to lead a queit life:you should mind your own business and work with your hands,just as we told u. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
Spekepeke
Galfrend
wena u see m online u just choose to shut up, sometimes u behave in a very funny unfriendly way
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on that note..kgane if we r online we suppose to chat everyday? Report Abuse
wena u see m online u just choose to shut up, sometimes u behave in a very funny unfriendly way
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lol really? Im sorry, its not intentionally, im no longer on that gmail acc you have. Are you on whatsapp? Mara you are the rude one, remember onetime I asked how you were and you said " still the same, nothing less nothing more" that was rude shame. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Spekepeke
Galfrend
Oh sorry didnt that was ride, humble apologies Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
Spekepeke
matzzzzz
OUCH !!!
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make that DOUBLE OUCH!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
sthamzen
theres another way to tell someone to change his/her ways cos its affecting you...consider the facts:once she finds out that you knew all this time...you not safe if you dont tell her..again,if you tell her ...there might be some kind of hate,betrayal etc...my observation is..tell your sister but after youve collected all the evidence by yourself...if she doesnt listen...tell her straight away...that..its bcos you love her.she can hate you...but you know deep that..you were helping your sister...n you walk away your head up..than to die with somethin which is not yours..she is your blood anyway....one day she will come back to you n apologise...but do not expect it will happen... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
SATAN
Sesi wee o seke wa tlo re gafela!
Your not even sure gore ur brother in-law
is cheating on ur sister as you heared it from your boyfriend,
what if your boyfriend is hiding that he's cheating on u and
wanted to tell you that he impregnate nyatsi ya gage.
stop interfering. And wht if you tell her only to find out that
your boyfriend is lying. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
spekie
i was asking hawuu...r we suppose to chat everyday? i dnt even chat with my bf everyday unless he starts up a conversation Report Abuse
what if its not true? think your man is gay! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
mattz - Gal whats that lin.k about, I cant view it.
Gosh Sowetan!!! Why flag the word lin.k ? mcxm Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Galfrend-Why o sa nchaele gore you have cancelled your g-mail account so I can stop sending you e-mails? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
ooh about the l.ink.. watch ur back guys- its getting scary out there..grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr yooh thingz pple do
GF - too scary hey someone sent me that l.ink thought i should share cause everyone z talking about it on twitter n fb...its about this group of gals intending on spreading HIV...wish u could read it Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ann
@Maezi, kante wena ga o rate monyakazo? yuu nna ke o rata rati Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Masheleng
If you believe your sister is happy and does not even suspect that her husband is cheating, then stay out of it. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
maezizsto - Please o ska bua maaka, coz I sent you an email last week and u did not respond. You have my new gmail add wena. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
@matzzz
i received email this morning but didnt even bother reading, lemme read
LG - Ja most pple hv seen the email...mina they've sent me that l.ink..yoooh z hectic gal Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Annkie-Ke re go jwang ka kgolokwenyana e le nngwe ya mnyakazo tuuuu Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Galfrend-I dont have it tlhe okay send it again il check it Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
Masheleng
If you believe your sister is happy and does not even suspect that her husband is cheating, then stay out of it.
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And watch her being made a fool? What if she contracts HIV from her hubby ,would I be able to live with myself knowing I should have warned her? Hell nah!
@LG and Mattz, Got it my friends thank you, Oh my word, the world is truly coming to an end. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
GF -ey those pple r evil..my body z shivering damn Report Abuse
SATAN
Sesi wee o seke wa tlo re gafela!
Your not even sure gore ur brother in-law
is cheating on ur sister as you heared it from your boyfriend,
what if your boyfriend is hiding that he's cheating on u and
wanted to tell you that he impregnate nyatsi ya gage.
stop interfering. And wht if you tell her only to find out that
your boyfriend is lying.
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Hey wena @Nevus ke eng o nya.ka go re paisiza na ?why o changer di username like panty ? Report Abuse
Last night social network Twitter went abuzz at the sad news that one of South Africa's best up and coming actors Muzi Clive has passed away. You might know Muzi from the first season of reality show Class Act, where he was runner up. Very talented guy that one.
According to unconfirmed reports, Muzi passed away on Tuesday when he was trapped inside a burning house. We do not know the full story of his death.
Class Act wasn't the end of te road for Muzi, last year he got a role on the stage production Mabrr and will soon see him as a Jabu - a mob leader - in the controversial Jenniffer Hudson and Terrence Howard starring film, "Winnie". He was also a friend of Wonted as he attended some of our events and communicated whenever he could. I repeat, the dude was really talented. May his soul rest in peace and our prayers go to his family
i will aslo not tell my brother if uyatyelwa. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
maezizsto
Na re le kgatlegile gore someone has passed away hai soka man.Or ne le nagana gore o immortal
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No maeizie, but its still sad news, we know no one is immortal ,but its always sad when someone passes on,especially when they are young Report Abuse
MORNACHIES - - im not frm maputo im frm limpopo manje wena maputo e kena ko kae??
LG - re kwile nthombezana manje a sekhulume ka rena gee.. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Jaja'sQueen
@ladygaga
Sowetan should take a few notes from your reporting skills.
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lol sowetan e useless man, they should have reported this by now.....
now we had to search for the info on the net(google)...
my heart is sore....i had a crush on this guy *hides* Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
maezizsto
Na re le kgatlegile gore someone has passed away hai soka man.Or ne le nagana gore o immortal?
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mara how can u say that maezie? re ka kgahlwa ke gore motho o hlokofetse? c'mon man Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
ladygaga
Jaja'sQueen
@ladygaga
Sowetan should take a few notes from your reporting skills.
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lol sowetan e useless man, they should have reported this by now.....
now we had to search for the info on the net(google)...
my heart is sore....i had a crush on this guy *hides*
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u see exactly wats gnna happen wen i pass on....say it nw. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Galfrend-You guys are going on like it is Madiba who has passed on.Akere Modimo o rile ke tlo le tsaya ka bongwe ka bongwe he didnt say he will only take old people so whats the fuss? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
@tsek
crush on sepoko se tshwanang le wena mara, mcm o ka thaba Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MORNACHIES
eKapa
MORNACHIES- unjani mfondini?
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Mfondini ,since ke sa tsebe gore e ra eng .....so a ebe papago .
what made this guy so special kanthe please fill me IN Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
ladygaga
my heart is sore....i had a crush on this guy *hides*
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Askies gal, shame man Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
ladygaga
@tsek
crush on sepoko se tshwanang le wena mara, mcm o ka thaba
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mara ke pala maesisto or ka njani????? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
LG - ke khopa o change avatar plz....i cnt take it anymore... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MORNACHIES
Tsek
MORNACHIES - - im not frm maputo im frm limpopo manje wena maputo e kena ko kae??
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O dula Limzo nou ?+++++++ so when are you coming Bolobedu my boi ? Report Abuse
maezizsto
Galfrend-You guys are going on like it is Madiba who has passed on.Akere Modimo o rile ke tlo le tsaya ka bongwe ka bongwe he didnt say he will only take old people so whats the fuss?
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We are different mos, whats important to you might not be that important to you.
MORNACHIES
eKapa
MORNACHIES- unjani mfondini?
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Mfondini ,since ke sa tsebe gore e ra eng .....so a ebe papago .
Kikikikikikikik tltltltltltltltltltlltlt hahahahahahahahahaha .......................Only joking
Ako ndo hihlo ......
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bhwahahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaa you made my day......LMAO!!!
Spekie - Some quite celeb who was a contestant on Class act. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Tsek
ladygaga
@tsek
crush on sepoko se tshwanang le wena mara, mcm o ka thaba
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mara ke pala maesisto or ka njani?????
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o maaka man wa go phala lol Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ramatlhale
I just came from that lin.k, Eh basadi ba, ba tlo re fetsa mos! but seriously that is some f.ucked up sh!t; how does one know gore their partners are not already part of the group.
I am not waiting to find out if it's true or not, I am wiping my phonebook clean of difebe tse & am sticking to my booze full time, when the urge comes ke tla ya go reka man!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Spekepeke
Galfrend
ok, sowetan didnt publish anything ka yena I wonder why Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
LG - that one gives me nitemare pela i think bwt u evrynite and day and ge ke go picture smetyms ke bona le that avatar..Ok let me admit it manje...I LOVE U and i dnt care whether u love me back or not.. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
maezie, lol I meant, whats important to you,might not be that important to me.
Ramatlhale
I just came from that lin.k, Eh basadi ba, ba tlo re fetsa mos! but seriously that is some f.ucked up sh!t; how does one know gore their partners are not already part of the group
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its hectic neh
yho n o thola motho a kgahlwa ke gore o ja ku.ku entsha every weekend
This is some scary article, why woman wanna k!ll us , what have we-men done
????, every women main aim is to k!ll a MAN, its either they make u flat broke u k!ll u kamaponyane, o give u korobela, NOW the big Boss AIDS
You are the candle, love's the flame
A fire that burns through wind and rain
Shine your light on this heart of mine
Till the end of time
You came to me like the dawn through the night
Just shinin' like the sun
Out of my dreams and into my life
You are the one, you are the one
Said I loved you but I lied
'Cause this is more than love I feel inside
Said I loved you but I was wrong
'Cause love could never ever feel so strong
Said I loved you but I lied
With all my soul I've tried in vain
How can mere words my heart explain
This taste of heaven so deep so true
I've found in you
So many reasons in so many ways
My life has just begun
Need you forever, I need you to stay
You are the one, you are the one
@ladygaga
Eish!! and ne e lathlile ka festive muskont, wa bona these are one of those instances where you get yourself a bells or good old Glen o dule ole 1 and seriously start to ponder on this thing ya lenyalo!!
One thing I don't want to be remembered ka yona is gore ke bolaile ke sefefe rather ke bolawe ke m.osadi not skhebreshe neh!! go thata babes!!
@luv2kiss, i just read that email, its a scary sh*t u guys should be very careful Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Luv2kiss
Ann
and to tell you the truth most guys when are at it and condoms run out if a woman dont insist on getting a condom n allows a man to ride , Men ride on - what m saying ke gore most man ba kena ka nama unless a woman be firm on it and say NO Report Abuse
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
eKapa
Tsek
TO LADYGAGA
You are the candle, love's the flame
A fire that burns through wind and rain
Shine your light on this heart of mine
Till the end of time
You came to me like the dawn through the night
Just shinin' like the sun
Out of my dreams and into my life
You are the one, you are the one
Said I loved you but I lied
'Cause this is more than love I feel inside
Said I loved you but I was wrong
'Cause love could never ever feel so strong
Said I loved you but I lied
With all my soul I've tried in vain
How can mere words my heart explain
This taste of heaven so deep so true
I've found in you
So many reasons in so many ways
My life has just begun
Need you forever, I need you to stay
You are the one, you are the one
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hahaha...Mic'Tsek'hael Bolton...kikikiki
Mara this is bloody unfair, motho o tla re o tshepa mang ge go le so nou?
The very thing that actually still empowers us as men and distinctifies us as heterosexual men, now suddenly becomes our official one-way ticket to diheleng. haaai mann!!! these people need to be stopped ASAP. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ann
@Luv2kiss, true, im still lost for words Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
JUBJUB
Luv2kiss & Ann- I was reading about that mail,it looks like someone just came up with this stories but its scary though.... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Mthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
Speak for yourself plus u confessed that u B.uy bomahosha, so this hit you very badly Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
ladygaga
Mthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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plus kokoage o mongwe....jirrrr Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
luv2kiss n ramathlale
if eva there's any truth in this..then this gals r crazeeeeeeeeeeee...plzzz b careful toeg..kuyafiwa langaphandle Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MORNACHIES
Tsek
MORNACHIES - ke bolobedu nw...ke mo maoso..
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Lies + Lies = pure lies ....Hey nna ke le mola ka 26 December .o tla bafana ba di Dj
It was nyc mfowethu ................. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
@ramathlale
o right wena e nwele jwala ba gago o tlogele dibiscuits or else........ lol
@tsek
tltltltlttltlltlttltl wena wa kula Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
@ladygaga
Mthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
Atleast wa hlapa unlike you ,you are still wearing panty yamaobane Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Spekepeke
Ramatlhale
Mara this is bloody unfair, motho o tla re o tshepa mang ge go le so nou?
True , The woman u thought is yo own can go out for once and bring it home Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nevus
hahahahaha bakae bo tlama ne e lahlile ka December hahahahahaha i remember this came to a stokvel on wheel chair and said im just here to show you that AIDS is real now all who slept with me must go and do the tests kikikikikikikiki within 10 minutes the hall was half empty. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
ladygaga
Mthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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kikikikikikikiki ja neh o rata go roga batho ka bo kokoabona neh lmao hahahahahahaha Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
hahahahahaha wa jiya ntwana kikikikikikiki
Eintlik go buiwa ka e-mail e feng hiso? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
maezizsto
ladygaga
Mthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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kikikikikikikiki ja neh o rata go roga batho ka bo kokoabona neh lmao hahahahahahaha
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lol ke tla reng motho a nroga Maezi Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
ditori nyana tsa gago tsa ko maftown hall ga re batle go dikwa!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
maezi - follow my l.ink above o tla e bona
spekie- eish ntwana le lona u aint to b trusted nje Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MORNACHIES
And le gona Moftown nyana yeo are na taba le yona gat man !!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
Mara LG koko wa sgidla waar mooerrr o mpolaile yong hehehehehehe mthondo jy moet pasop next time Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
LG - remember gore mazulu ge ba ny.aka motho ba mo harasa pele...wena gao boni tse ba di dirang ko noord taxi rank gane.... Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
eKapa
Galfrend
eKapa
Galfrend- molo mabhebeza wam oStrongo..lol
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Unjani thambo lam le Kentucky...lol
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hahaha..ndiphile s'thuthuthu sam sojika emakhoneni..lol
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Aw stimela sam sase Zola, my fohloza.....lol Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
le gona avatar(nevus) ya gona wa krea ele mama's boy e pila e dutsi konhlong the whole day e shebile ben10 le bana ba ko yona..bloddy di gossipa!! Report Abuse
abstain..nna i can..as if wena u can lool Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
Tsek
LG - remember gore mazulu ge ba ny.aka motho ba mo harasa pele...wena gao boni tse ba di dirang ko noord taxi rank gane....
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hahahahahhahahahahhahahaha kante? hahahha ne ke sa tsebe
ka o chaela boy moeer ne go le maswe,o bona monna a shebile beer o kare o shebile snepe sa Lutricia,kikikikikikikikiki wa etseba hall e ko stadiumsa ko kasi?ne go shailwe stokie daar.aarhhg go bua ka ngwanyana o tshositseng mfana e ne e batla go monyakaza net ba kopane ko fb and ba felletse ko fb. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
maezizsto
MORNACHIES
And le gona Moftown nyana yeo are na taba le yona gat man !!!!
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Wena mogatla wa nywananyana ya mmago plus ke ntse ke go emetse.O ntlwaela sebete sa mmago se se lekanang le tsebe ya tlou Report Abuse
Spekepeke
dont tell me u spoke to dat white lady? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
ladygaga
@maezisto
lol
@matzzzz
okare we all gonna die(God forbid) frm this disease hey, unless of course if o abstaina Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Ramatlhale
@spekepeke
The next thing ga o trapa selo for go robala mazweni ba re o stlhakanatlhogo en jy gaan tronk toe. so wat moet ons nou doen? Ek wiity jou basadi ba,ba ka se fetse go dissapeara jy sal sien.
@ladygaga
Haaahaa!! tone down maybe, not completely nka gafa jong. I am officially on the hunt for a good looking, humble, god-fearing preferably fresh from binneplaas & inexperienced mo banneng girl; ke lapile ke banyana ba diteki. nooo man!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
@maezizsto
Hayi wena don't tell me de rubbish tse tshwanang le Lady Gaga mdidwakhe
hahahahahaha ! no my dear will call u when i'm at the Bar Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
clivage
@speke
hahahah hayi dont call wen u at de bar call tomoro morning kena,nawe u knw wen u at de bar umsindo is to much ,pls say hi to mada fr me neeee Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Galfrend
Bye people........Clivvy and LG, later gals :) Report Abuse
@Maezsisto----O di ba Meyara ya felo moo ?why o nroga mara he ? wa tseba ke eng
ne ...........Sewapa sa tedu ya mmago le kokoago yena woo wa Sgidlawaar jou blahblah
jou gat !!!! Report Abuse
You need a good avdise contact Julius Malema and take it from there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
matzzzzz
LG n Spekie
nna ke ya abstainer shame n foreva will b...z been 4 years now abstaining Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nevus
Tsek
le gona avatar(nevus) ya gona wa krea ele mama's boy e pila e dutsi konhlong the whole day e shebile ben10 le bana ba ko yona..bloddy di gossipa
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Tell me what do you want,heh heh?mara ka mnyakazo lebala ke mnyakazi a ke mnyakaziwa and ke nyakaza di-plat nkauza.Boy i am a proud mamas boy,even na namhlanje im thinking of going to my moms,she is always gonna be my mom and me will always be HOB(Her Only Boy),a se nna ke rileng o be uncles boy(wa tseba mos sephiri sela) Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Tsek
sephiri sa masepa whoeva told u thats just a lie Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
MORNACHIES
Le batho le diphiri matsatsi nyana a ....... Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
Le batho le diphiri matsatsi nyana a .......
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voetsek maan y o rata goe tsunyatsunya naa????? Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nevus
tell me what gore o ngwana malome wago!plus lona lost and found le jana almekaar. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
vuvulite
bheki'ndaba zakho. even though you feel guilty and torn about what to do.... it could get messy and you dont wanna be caught in the middle.
maezizsto
Mornashit-Bona mo wena ngwana wa nyatsi a ke thaka ya rrago o sa le a go tshabelaka baka la bofebe ba mmago jou ma se stinking plaat gat
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Tseba gore mmago ke mo tlogetse just because nne a tswile di SUKIRI a se sa
le monate .eish mara wena ke sa o rata ngwanaka ,mara o bolaya ke masepa moo
tokwaneng ya gago .......motete wa po.lo ya nyatsi ya mmago .bona moo wena Maezshit
oska tlo ntlwaela lerete la mpsya ke wena .......@Tsek --you are also involved on all this
sfebe sa ngwana ke wena !!!! Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
nevus
roga ntja boy kwala beke ka yona roga feeellaaa maan,or wa cha?tlala ka yona mshemane Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Sentle
@Mthondo
O ra Sundani wa Muvhango?
If o ra yena know gore i love her with a passion.O tshwana le Akhona, she's the reason why i watch generations because Mashaba ga a sale gona. Report Abuse
Jan 13, 2012
Mthondosheshayo
@Sentle I do no watch Gayneration yes keraya Sundi ,hey mubi loya cherry kare ke Lady Gaga hakaka ko toilet Report Abuse
I THINK ITS TRUE WHT UR SAYING ... I THINK SHE MUST JUST STAYY DE HELL AWY .. Report Abuse
Jan 16, 2012
candicebabe
hmmmmm...
If this was my KID sister .. I will investigate the matter and if it is true definately telling her. Its not a matter of mandling in their affairs but I wouldn't want her to catch any deseases from someone if there are rumours that he impregnant girls.having to choose between her funeral and me telling her I will feel obliged as a sister to tell her if the rumours are true as said I will investigate first ... it will be her decicion & if she decides to stay its her choice .... Report Abuse
Feb 15, 2012
GOODGIRLGONEBAD
I agree with mommac.dont say anything i mean she wont know you knew right?mina my cousins boyfriend macde a move on me....told him to f*CK OFF or else and he did....but i never told my cousin about as she was so deeply in love. i wasnt about to be the reason for their break up. Report Abuse
Mar 9, 2012
GreatMan
Sister please!!!! learn to mind your own business. Report Abuse
Only if you are planning to marry your sister, or have somebody 'good' already contracted. Otherwise, do as Kuch says, 'stay the hell out of it...', and I will say, 'get a life.' But what if, and that is a WHAT IF, your sister were to ask you one day, 'when did you know, and why didn't you tell me (in other words what did you do with that knowledge), you must have a good answer.
I had to make such a decision in two places, in one it helped a friend of mine through an (anonymous tip, through a still unidentified third party) find out that the child his wife was having was that of his garden boy! And in another, case, I ask both friends to take their business away from my presence, so that I was not a 'scapegoat' or knowledgeable about their shenanigans.
However, they soon were caught red handed in the fellas house when his 'mistress' who was a close friend of the wife, went to spent a night over. My lounge-lizard was full exposed at his house when he failed to keep his 'pressure' and slithered into the 'guest bedroom' soon after wife left for work, but failed to remember that his daughters were off from school that Monday. Report Abuse
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maneater
sister ask yourself one question why does your ment onyl tell you this when you have a fight, he is saving his own skin, infact it him that is having an affair and ahs impreganted the other woman.Report Abuse
MommaC
Short answer : NOStay out of it.
If you feel you absolutely have to speak to someone then confront your sister's husband in private.
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Ann
@MommaC, I totally agree with ur comment ,i mean she needs to speak to her brother in law and if anything happens be there for your sisterReport Abuse
TjoVtjo
@ MommaCI agree
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Jaja'sQueen
Think about yourself and why you would want to tell her? You can tell her if you think she will do something about it - like leave his stupid face. I have seen a lot of cases where the whistle blower became the enemy. You say your relationship is not strong enough. What if she thinks you are jealous of her as well. If you cannot handle negative backlash from her, I would say keep very far from both of them with regards to their relationship. If you confront the man, he might turn around on you. You never know, cheaters are very selfish people who are out to have their cake and eat it too. Concentrate on you and your sanity unless you think your sister's life is in danger.Report Abuse
MsBlackberry
kgona tsa gao le boyfriend ya go bereka shopong o tlogele taba tsa sesiago i bet ur sister knows something bout this, we women have a strong intuition but choose to ignoreReport Abuse
RobinH
maneater: READ. They had a fight about the matter. He did not wait until they had a fight.Lady, stay out of it. Whether true or not, this can only lead to trouble in your own life. But I disagree Ann. Even less should she talk to the brother-in-law. Perhaps investigate a bit... discreetly. Establish what the truth really is, perhaps get a photo..... and then consider the options.
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Noir19
All you can do is to stay away from your sisters relationship with her husband, because what ever ur saying is rumours and allegations which can wreck ur sisters marriage. U and ur boyfriend shoud Stay AwayReport Abuse
Kuch
Stay the hell out of it.........Report Abuse
fokofpolisiekar
@Maneaterthey had a fight about her boyfriend being scared to tell her whatever he said he wanna tell her, not that he told her when they had a fight.
i think it was a situation of - boy:"baby i wanna tell you something but am scared"
Girl: "what is is just tell me, you know you can tell me everything"
Boy: "Agg never mind"
then a fight broke up, i think thats what happened
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ayobaness
tell her pls tel herReport Abuse
mutaky
blood is thicker than water, its mostly the same u tel she gets angry you dont she still gets angry so the best part is to stay out of your sister affairs, strengthen your relationship and dont let a man come between that, t he only suggestion take the hard topic with her and the ladies as how to handle a cheating man, of finding out if your man is cheating as ladies, then your gonna get her view then undersstand how she will feel if she finds out,STAY OUT OF IT THATS A FAMILY MATTER NOT SISTER ONE
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JUBJUB
Stay out of it or confront your brother in law maybe you'll get the answer from the horses mouth...Report Abuse
Eraser
Might your own business and stay out of it..Cause its just a romour it might not be true..she wil fine out in her own way...Report Abuse
ayobaness
2moro yo sista will be sick eating stocksweetnd ull be regreting for the rest of yo life if u realy
care nd lv yo sista pls tel her this sh!t must come to an end
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Sugaar
You don't love your sister,tell herReport Abuse
DJWinner
She won't believe you anyway, she will think you are jealous. But just tell her, if she doesn't believe you, it's not your problem, you played your part.Report Abuse
KerataGodiraBannaBJ
Maaka, O batla Monna wa ausi wa gao. Hai bo Sundani ga ba fele.Report Abuse
Malaisha
Keep your mouth shut. You will be destroying that happy family.Report Abuse
Dzel
Suppose she stays out of it and it happens to be true, what then?The husband has the secret child stashed away somewhere and then something terrible happens to the husband, when it is time to divide his assets - given that the husband is a business man - the illegitimate child or the mother suddenly pops up and starts demanding half the estate how would the sister feel? Imagine it then emerges that she knew about it all along what then, don’t you think that would damage their relationship beyond repair?
The one thing about the truth is it always comes out eventually and when I speak of the truth I speak of the alleged affair and the fact that she knew about the affair. She is your sister; family is there to protect each other no matter what. By not telling her you are perhaps exposing her to even greater danger but the question is is she mature enough to handle the truth? Anyone who ends up hating you for telling them the truth is perhaps not worth having around.
I would want to know, then I’d do my own investigating to make sure is there is truth to the rumour. I’d tell her and face the consequences later and I’d make it clear I am doing so so she has the information she needs to make her decision; the intention is not to break them up. But make sure of your facts before approaching her, I think I’d be extremely selfish and self-centred of you to keep something as important as this away from her; she is your sister for heaven’s sake.
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leftyboy
if it was your sister cheating her husband were u gonna tell her husband?just be honest n fairReport Abuse
ngutha
No...no....stay away
She will find out soon or later
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Dzel
Short answer : NOStay out of it.
If you feel you absolutely have to speak to someone then confront your sister's husband in private.
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If you confront the husband he is:
1. Going to deny it,
2. Demand to know who fed you the lies,
3. Fire your boyfriend for meddling in his affairs,
4. Possibly try to discredit you by telling the sister that you are a rumourmonger so she does not believe anything that comes from your mouth
What would you have achieved at the end of the day?
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Onkarabile
Tel ur sister if u r sureReport Abuse
ngutha
Again...No...no....Stay away sissie
She is going to say that "You are Jealous"
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Mokgethwa
The truth always has a strange way of coming out, so I say keep your mouth shut while it unfolds.There is a saying in Sepedi that says " Le ge o ka e buela leopeng magokobu a tlo go bona".
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Bibi30
Dear i just signed up in order for me to comment. as painful as it is. Its your sister we talking about so my view is TELL HER. thats all I can say. She will be so angry and it will be so painfull for her to find out that you knew and you did not say a thing to her. It will break her heart that even her sister was hiding it from her. Im sorry but you have to.Report Abuse
nastro.striker
Should I tell my sister her husband is cheating on her?NO!
its non of your damn business
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MommaC
DzelHow did you come to that conclusion?
She doesn't have to tell the husband where the story came from. All she has to do is to say to him that there is a rumour going around (cause that is what it is at the moment) and ask him if it is true. Even if he denies it, she'll get a pretty good idea from his houding about if he is lying or not. He will get the message that the cat is out the bag and either come clean to his wifle or stop the affair.
If she tells her sister and it isn't true then her sister will never forgive her for the pain she wrongly inflicted
If she tells her sister and it is true then she has put herself right in the middle of the whole saga. If the husband and the sister then reconcile, the husband will never forgive her and the sister will come to regard her as being the source of the pain to begin with. If they don't reconcile then her sister will always see her as the person who caused her marriage to disolve. Either way, the sister will look at her differently.
Take my word for it - I've been in this situation before.
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ladygaga
dont tell her. i mean u dont even have proof that the hubby is cheating, so just shut the hell up...Report Abuse
tumzangwana
its none of your business ausi, JUST DONT TELL HER. someone once said that if you interfere with two people's business especially if they are lovers you will end up being the fool that was trying to break them up. and when they eventually get their sh!t together you will be the one thats left out in the cold. im talking from experience, i know.DONT EVEN BOTHER TELLING HER. if its true it will come out one way or the other. one can never run away from the truth. the truth has its own way of coming out.
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zino
tell your boyfriend to stay out of other ppl's business and focus on improving your relationshipReport Abuse
SIMSWOP
"he thinks that the lady involved might be pregnant.".What makes things worse is the fact that this are allegations from the boyfriend, and clearly the boyfriend might not be right, so for the sister to go on talk about this to her sister she needs full evidence to be produce should this turn ugly , i mean how do u expect to break this to your siblings whereby you dont have something to back it up,
1 if she goes to the husband and he denies what would she says..can she provide evidence??,,,NO
2. going to the sister if the sister also demands evidence to support her confrontation to his man what would she provide...Nothing
Meaning the boyfriend has to come out and tell the sister that be warned
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dre10
Tell her otherwise u will be in trouble.Report Abuse
DeCock1
Stupid people! Why must she stay the hell away from it?? Blood is thicker than water! Better thing to do is to do the right thing....tell her and if she retaliates against you, then you know you did what you thought was best for her....if she cant trust you, who is she to trust!! Women here amaze me!!My friends and I have a pact, if your gf is doing something out of the ordinary, tell your friend...no matter how much it will hurt....it is better to know and face the consequences than to live a lie....
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Rakgadi-Tabeya
Headline: You didn't get along growing up - Third paragraph: you are very close and have a good relationship with your sista. What a contradiction madam? Which one shud we believe C'mon.Anyway tswa mo tabeng cos ha o na proof u surely do not want to be blamed 4 de rest of your life 4 breaking you sussie's marriage. Do your own investigation at least ke if o batla go itse di-facts ka kgang e before you spill the bins tse o senang bopaki bo feletseng ka yona.
Tlhompha bagolo ngwanyana and ga ke go tshepe niks you seem to have issues, u even mentioned gore ur sussie was jelous of u coz a sena good contact le daddy dearest. There are lots of ppl ba sa nnang le kamano le their daddies but this never frustrated them so ema ka di empty assumptions tsa gago - learn to base ur conversation on concrete facts.
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Miss_Independant
If you were my sister I would want you to tell me even if we were never close and only became close now blood is blood even though you dont have the same father,Report Abuse
Miss_Independant
@Bibi30Dear i just signed up in order for me to comment. as painful as it is. Its your sister we talking about so my view is TELL HER. thats all I can say. She will be so angry and it will be so painfull for her to find out that you knew and you did not say a thing to her. It will break her heart that even her sister was hiding it from her. Im sorry but you have to
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I totally agree with you,
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Thandekile
You said it yourself....Your sister is happy in her marriage, so why do you want to ruin that? Please don't spoil a good marriage with gossip from your boyfriend.Report Abuse
Muwaweni
If you luv your sister enough to see her stay hapily maried for the set of her life,you will NOT tell her.And hey remember dat u dont have any concrete evidence. What if you tell her only to find that it was ur lying boyfriend who formed a story.Report Abuse
DeCock1
Women here encourage cheating....even in married couples....sies....im disgusted....by staying silent when wrong is done, you indirectly promote the wrongdoer to continue....you all should be ashamed of yourselves....Report Abuse
nevus
tell her its right thing to do.Report Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
@zinoI agree with you. This lady needs to first define what a good relationship is first? She says she has a very good relationship with her sister - but also says her sister is jealous of her relationship with her father? Her boyfriend was scared to tell her - was it maybe due to trust issues? She had to fight him to get the scoop? There seems to be a very grey cloud hanging over these people and the relationships they have. She would benefit from looking at her relationship before she minds other people's relationships.
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The_Only_1
What do you want to achieve out of telling your sister because you should be telling your brother in law to stop cheating!!! I find people like you very immature, as you are intending to see a very good relationship collapsing. Anyway why can't you just get yourself a lif,e as currently it seems as if you are becoming a spy or just get yourself a hobby that will keep you busy and forget about other people's relationships. You seem to be very sexual fustrated to me!!Report Abuse
Dzel
@MommaC,How did you come to that conclusion?
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Let’s think about this rationally shall we:
Let’s assume the husband is indeed cheating and I believe he is cheating given how reluctant the boyfriend was to get involved what does this tell you about him?
1. He is a deceptive character,
2. He does not want the wi.fe to find out,
3. He will do anything to keep the affair and baby on the way a secret otherwise he would have confessed already.
Logic dictates he knows she is dating the manager of his sh.op, it won’t be difficult for him to put two and two together and figure out how she found out, what do you think he is going to do to the boyfriend if she was the one to confront him?
Trust me where money is involved it won’t take long for the baby-momma to pop out of the woodwork in the event he passes away and by then the truth will come out and then some. By then she’d have to live with the fact that she knew and did nothing about it otherwise should the sister find out she knew there is no way they will be able to mend their relationship.
Look at it this way, if you were the sister being cheated on would you want to know especially when he is got other mini-hims running around that you may not know of?
Having kids out of wedlock is a deal-breaker; this is a secret he will protect with his life which means dealing with anything and anyone who threatens your marriage. Do you think once confronted he will break down and confess his sins in a pile of tears? There is no way that is going to happen, the man is going to fight back, trust me on this one.
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Keafixa
boyfriend ya gago eya phapha....ke monna omo bjang ena o.Report Abuse
DeCock1
ThandekileIf the husband has cheated, isnt that marriage already ruined??? pffff
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tumzangwana
@decock1Women here encourage cheating....even in married couples....sies....im disgusted....by staying silent when wrong is done, you indirectly promote the wrongdoer to continue....you all should be ashamed of yourselves....
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something almost similar to this story happened to me. at that time i did what i thought was right so that my sister would wake up and see her bf for what he really was. you want to know what happened? they eventually got their sh!t together and guess what? im viewed as the one who was trying to get them to break up. after all this im the one who IS still left with a big ostrich egg on my face. would i do that to myself again? H3LL NO.
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Felemntwini
A man telling his girl about the manga manga business of a brother in law/ a man's relationship. Surely sisi you man is gay he wants your brother in law for him. So don't tell nothing you don't know.Report Abuse
Tsafendason
Your boyfriend is a Mamgobhozi, why tell you stufff that has got nothing to do with the 2 of you, useless man!!!!!!!!Report Abuse
DeCock1
I hope all you men are reading these bold statements by the women here.... We have been given licence to cheat.....as long as we make sure no one interferes, we cool....Viva to SowetanLive women viva!! lolReport Abuse
Thandekile
Have you considered that your own boyfriend might be cheating on you?Report Abuse
Dzel
@tumzangwana,How old is your sister if you don't mind me asking?
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tumzangwana
@Dzelshe is 30yrs old
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nevus
dilo tse ditsamaya di etsa bana kontle then ge se swile your sister tlabe a lwanela mafa le bana ba a sa baitsing,tell your sister maan who knos maybe your sister is the second wif'e,bust the balloon maan.Report Abuse
BOOKIE
Stay out of this. You don't have proof and never confront your brother in law. You are just looking for trouble sister. The brother in law will protect himself and say you are the one sleeping with him and guess what the sister will forgive her husband and you are finished. Where is the proof that he is cheating. You and your boyfie are jealous man.Report Abuse
Spekepeke
Oh fcuk this is Bull Sh!tThe boyfriend and Husband both cheated on sisters now that the boyfriend is fighting with the sister he dont want to go down alone he's exposing the husband as well,
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DeCock1
tumzangwanaWho cares about egg on face....you did the right thing and absolved yourself of any guilt....you have no control on how your sister handles her issues....if she decides to work things out with her man, then that is her issue....but you did what a sister is supposed to do....now the bf knows you dont take sh!t....i bet if he knew that you knew and kept it from your sister, he would have made advances on you as well....because you are a go@t and willing to hide his shenanigans!!! Feel good about doing the right thing!!!
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Keafixa
entlik the boyfriend is gay....he wants your brother in law.Report Abuse
Afriman
Well, nowadays men and women cheat. There's very little you can do 'bout it. Just stay out of it. You may just make him aware that you know and if he cares about your sister he'll do the right thing. But girl, there's no rational or real reason for cheating it's just happening. Not even shrinks can explain it.Report Abuse
takoskonvict
what is wrong with an african man having only one nyatsi you fake people? 50% of you commenting here are illegetimate children, but you act like you are not used to something like this. This is africa and it will remain africa.Report Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
@DeCock1Depends, some marriages can survive cheating. I left mine when my husband cheated on me. I was not interested in his explanations. Cheating is really a symptom of other serious underlaying issues. A person who cheats will display other behaviours that tend to raise flags.
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Mthondosheshayo
No man in his right mind can do what your boyfriend did,men protect one another so that proves that you have a stupid man in your life girlReport Abuse
Dzel
@tumza,At 30 or approaching 30 one would have thought she would be mature enough to deal with this. I'm starting to think women don't want to know if and when their husbands are cheating. Perhaps it is a case of "what I don't know won't hurt me", perhaps driven by the fact that many women themselves are only too happy dating someone knowing they are married or in a committed relationship.
Question for the ladies; would you want to know if your husband / boyfriend is cheating?
Are you content with assuming there probably is a nyatsi on the side so long as you are not confronted with the fact to confirm this?
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BOOKIE
Actually you are jealous of your sister coz she has a successful marriage and a business man. You are the jealous one here. Get alive sesi.Report Abuse
tumzangwana
@decock1@tumzangwana
Who cares about egg on face....you did the right thing and absolved yourself of any guilt....you have no control on how your sister handles her issues....if she decides to work things out with her man, then that is her issue....but you did what a sister is supposed to do....now the bf knows you dont take sh!t....i bet if he knew that you knew and kept it from your sister, he would have made advances on you as well....because you are a go@t and willing to hide his shenanigans!!! Feel good about doing the right thing!!!
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i know i should feel good, but it still hurts because even if i see something that the guy does to her and and its wrong, i cant say anything for fear of being the one who tries to break them up again. our relationship has never been the same since that incident since it happened just 3 months. so i just have to turn blind eye even though it hurts.
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Wanani
@Momma C, you are a good adviser, I agree with u.Report Abuse
DeCock1
Jaja'sQueenI hear you...and I commend you for your actions....they were your actions and you know why you took those actions!! But I would like to stress that Staying/Leaving after finding out your husband/w!fe cheated is another topic on its own!!! I am sure we would even have quotes from the Bible on that one....lol
The main issue here is to whether tell/not tell when one has been caught cheating....I say, tell.....by doing so, you show respect to the affected party and you respect yourself by promoting good moral behaviour!!
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Dzel
@bookie,Actually you are jealous of your sister coz she has a successful marriage and a business man. You are the jealous one here. Get alive sesi.
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Nah that's out of order, can't you tell this is woman in a serious predicament. Lets think before posting please.
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Luv2kiss
Tjo......I'm toooooooooooooooooooo young for this ***HIDING****Report Abuse
tumzangwana
@dzelthat is why i decide to just turn a blind eye, because tomorrow i dont want to be viewed as being jealous of their relationship. so i just stay away from everything and concentrate on my life and my goals.
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MommaC
DzelTumza is right. That is what is going to happen. I can verify that through my own experience.
I expect my sisters and my friends to have my back.
Usual way to solve this is to do it without the friend or sister even knowing about it. Confront the husband and (if that doesn't do it) confront the other woman. If that doesn't work then make their lives as uncomfortable as possible until they have to resolve the matter
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maezizsto
RobinHmaneater: READ. They had a fight about the matter. He did not wait until they had a fight.
Lady, stay out of it. Whether true or not, this can only lead to trouble in your own life. But I disagree Ann. Even less should she talk to the brother-in-law. Perhaps investigate a bit... discreetly. Establish what the truth really is, perhaps get a photo..... and then consider the options.
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Boerrr boy you think this is cheaters where you follow people around and take photos?
Just stay out of your sister's affairs wena ngwanyana.This has nothing to do with you stay out of it.
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BhutPapi
Entlik the writer le wena wa phapha, why did you insist on finding the secret from boyfriend while he did not want to tell you and nou o bolaisha menagano ya rena go nagana.Report Abuse
Dzel
@ Tumza / MommaC,Point taken; but I have a feeling this is going to turn south very quickly, perhaps this is an indictment on women in general as per my question(s). In the end you guys are effectively giving men carte'blanche to cheat and there you should not be complaining when they do cheat.
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Jaja'sQueen
@DzelGood question. I consider myself a very well grounded person and never really have issues with men who cheat. My ex husband cheated on me - that's why he is ex, but I was very young then. Now I can spot the signs of a troubled man from miles away and run. It's a skill that a lot of women do not nurture. I am a very disciplined person and tend to come across as very strict. Men who have character flaws do not like such women. Like I said cheating is a symptom eminating from another behaviour that is equally unsavoury. Women often hang on to these men for various reasons which have a lot to do with their self esteem and stories they have told themselves.
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DeCock1
tumzangwanaYou cant interfere in every little spat they have...they are adults and im sure they can sort out some of their indifferences....but there are things as a sister you are supposed to put your foot down and say: Hell No!! Like cheating....fvck, if my sisters bf cheated on her and I knew it, I would tell her and beat him up in the process...if she forgives him and they move on...cool...good luck to them...if I find out he cheated again, I would still tell on his @ss and beat him up once more....If he confronts me on why im interfering, I would tell him – Uyacheater kwedini!! that is my role not only as a brother (an annoying one she would say) but as a person who intends to see the best for the people I care the most...
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resuractionz
I think its better if you stay out of this coz meddling in two peoples affair is dangerous coz it may turn-out as if you are jealous of your sister marriage.you will never know what 2 people say wen u r not aroundReport Abuse
tumzangwana
@maezistoi agree with you 100% motho wa modimo. the girl must just stay away from that situation. the truth will come out in its own way. it always does. all she can do is be there for her sister when it comes out and help her pick up the pieces.
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Cowgirl
I say tell your sister cause clearly this man child is putting your sister's life in danger by shagging other women without protection seeing that it is alleged that the mistress is pregnant.Would you forgive yourself if you found out that the hubby infected with AIDS because of his cheating ways and you knew?
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CatGrrrrrrrr
sista girl, stay out of your sisies affairs. she will find out, thats a given. and if it burns you that much, get all the facts(name, location of the lady, how they see each other with the hubby) cause going to yo sister without answers is trouble.as women, we feel this things from far. you might find that she knows something already and took a backseat just enjoying the view. careful, [if you came to me with "ba re", i wouldnt give a second of my time. come with full facts cause for me to listen to you i'll cross question you till you feel like you're the cheater].
even so, shut up, she will be mad at you for not telling her at first but come around. it always happen. OUT...
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CYBORICO
Sister tell you sister what u know, irrespective of her reaction and how fragile you relationship might be, tell your sister. What u dont need to tell her is what she needs to do with this piece of data, let her take her own decisions if asked for inputs, try to stay as neutral as possible.,10 yrs from now she will still be your sister and the guy might not still be in her life(for other reasons than this) and u will regret it all your life not having protected her. i just cant stand knowing that people i care about are being taken for a ride
I WILL EVEN TELL MY FRIEND HIS GIRL IS A mahala kukunas EVEN IF ITS my brother WHO SLEEPS WITH THE GIRL
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Dzel
tumza,i agree with you 100% motho wa modimo. the girl must just stay away from that situation. the truth will come out in its own way. it always does. all she can do is be there for her sister when it comes out and help her pick up the pieces.
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Even if the mini-him suddenly appears after he has passed on and demands indlu and everything else especially if he is the first born (moja lefa), you know how we African can get when fighting for the deceased's estate especially property?
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MommaC
DzelNo. We are not giving men a license to cheat. We just solve the situation differently.
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Dzel
@MommaC,Approaching the husband is a bad, bad idea; like I said if he is cleaver he will drive a wedge between the sisters especially if he knows their relationship is shaky.
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tumzangwana
@dzelim just saying that the girl should not tell her sister, coz you know that the husband will deny everything. and since the sisters' relationship is shaky sometimes, this might make it more shaky. the husband will obviously convince his w!fe that the sister is jealous of their marr!age. and then what happens? since the sisters already have issues between them this might make it ten times worse. the truth will come out in its own way.
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maezizsto
@tumzangwanaWomen are forgiving I can testify to that.So if maybe she tells her sister and the sister forgives the husband she is going to be a fool in all this.The husband is gona hate her for trying to ruin his marriage and the marriage wont be the same because of her big mouth.This is a mess that I would encourage her to distance herself from it.
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ladygaga
Dzel@MommaC,
Approaching the husband is a bad, bad idea; like I said if he is cleaver he will drive a wedge between the sisters especially if he knows their relationship is shaky.
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u are right Dzel approaching the hubby will just worsen the matter
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Mthondosheshayo
Indoda ibuya emsebenzini ebusuku. Uma ifika, iqonde ekameleni kushe inkonzo yakhona. Uma iqeda iye ekhishini ifice umkayo efuna okthile efrijini.Indoda isaxakekile, "Hawu usulapha njalo nkosikazi, siqeda nje ucansi manje -nje"?Umkayo, " oh my word! Umama wami loyo osekameleni ufike ekhathele oyocambalala" Aphuthume kunina, Mama y did'nt u say something ?Umama, "uyazi mina nalomfokazi wakho asikhulumisani okweminyaka, bengingeke ngiqale namuhla -ke ukumkhulumisa... lolReport Abuse
tumzangwana
@maezistoi agree with you. often in situations like this you are the fool who tried to break them up even though wena you were only trying to help.
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nevus
Maezisto-tlogela go bitsa ledushi le boe'r ha a na niks e a ka boerang ka yona.Report Abuse
Dzel
Sies wena maan Mt, that's disgusting.Report Abuse
BaleliM
This is really simple... find evidence or better yet, catch the brother in law with the woman and then tell him that if he does not confess to the w.ife about this, then you will tell her. I did so with my friend and the husband told her the truth. it is not just about telling the truth and damaging a supposedly perfect relationship, it is also a way in which you can prevent infection to an innocent woman who has a child. This man has impregnanted another woman (supposedly) and that means he does not use protection and i for one can not wait until my loved one gets a decision she knows nothing about.Sowetan: since when is w.ife a bad word!!
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MommaC
DzelWell then you are all sweetness and light to the husband when sissie is around so sissie thinks hubby is being unreasonable and starts questioning his motives.
Women are not confrontational. We don't solve things with our fists.
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ladygaga
maezizsto@tumzangwana
Women are forgiving I can testify to that.So if maybe she tells her sister and the sister forgives the husband she is going to be a fool in all this.The husband is gona hate her for trying to ruin his marriage and the marriage wont be the same because of her big mouth.This is a mess that I would encourage her to distance herself from it.
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well said Maezi....couldnt have said it better.
eish her boyfrnd le ena wa phapha man why did he tell her mara? hai some mara
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nevus
@maezisto-i agree with you at the end ke taba ya "sperms are thicker than blood."Report Abuse
WordofGod
"James 5:20 Let him know, whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.we should only correct in a humble way as an act of love. the bible indicates to boldly correct people in an effort to bring them to repentance. rebuking a sinner, exposing corruption, correcting someone in love or disciplining ones children is not judging wrongfully
ausi, rather talk to your brother in law instead of approaching your sister.
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Tsek
maezizstoWomen are forgiving I can testify to that.So if maybe she tells her sister and the sister forgives the husband she is going to be a fool in all this.The husband is gona hate her for trying to ruin his marriage and the marriage wont be the same because of her big mouth.This is a mess that I would encourage her to distance herself from it.
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hehehe i wonder gore wena galfrend ya gago sale ya go tswarela neh...
LG - o reng fela ngwana o pila wa lefahla la noga......
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ladygaga
@nevusif u were to find out tht ur brother's wi.fe is cheating would u tell him?
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Tsek
WordofGod - o tsiba eleven commandments????Report Abuse
maezizsto
nevus-kikikikikikiki akere ba ipona e le maburu ka go ringa Afrikaans.Report Abuse
Mthondosheshayo
@WordofGod"James 5:20 Let him know, whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.
we should only correct in a humble way as an act of love. the bible indicates to boldly correct people in an effort to bring them to repentance. rebuking a sinner, exposing corruption, correcting someone in love or disciplining ones children is not judging wrongfully
ausi, rather talk to your brother in law instead of approaching your sister.
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I hate bazalwane with passion wena Word of God you only received Jesus last year and all of a sudden you are now so holly to a point that you are starting to bore some of us
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Tlhagaraga
My sister you cannot fix everything and some other things are beyond our power to change them, don't talk about it is not your business, i am sorry to say your boyfriend is not strong enough. Man don't talk about such things to women because they know woman cannot handle it.Report Abuse
Dzel
I hate bazalwane with passion wena Word of God you only received Jesus last year and all of a sudden you are now so holly to a point that you are starting to bore some of us+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Literally a case of the blind leading the blind and neither party knows it or they refuse to accept reality.
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Mthondosheshayo
@Dzel what reality?Report Abuse
tmot10
Yeah, just do it. You are saving your sister's skin from the miserable marriage.Report Abuse
Dzel
@Dzel what reality?++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
She knows what I am talking about, there was an entire thread dedicated to a debate on whether god exists or not.
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Jaja'sQueen
@MthondosheshayoReality, is the fact that human beings have evolved and changed so much about themselves since 2000 or so years ago. But they still use the same outdated method of instruction, which has not worked since the books were compiled into scripture.
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WordofGod
@mthooh really mtho? you sound too stressed this morning.
@tsek
hai wena!! lol! what is the 11th one. naughty mind . . .
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Remsy
I was also in a similar situation but it ws my very close friend. We were both working in & staying in the same flat. My friend's girlfriend was in Pretoria. Another friend of ours felt in love with my frend's lover. My cousin who stays in Pretoria caught them in action and told me to tell my friend about this relationship. I did not tell until he found out and then confronted me. I confessed to him that I knew about the relationship. He understood the situation that I was in. Today, I am still a friend to all of them.Report Abuse
Mthondosheshayo
@WordofGod sister please bazalwane can perform no wonder you are always hurt becasue you are leaving a lieReport Abuse
ladygaga
@remsyis ur friend(close) still 2gether with the galfrend(jezabel)?
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maezizsto
Tsek-My woman o ntshwaretse ga ngata san le bo makhwapeniReport Abuse
Tsek
WordofGod - Never ever talk to tsek until u send that fax...Report Abuse
Dikdonner
She is the one having an affair here, with the brothe-rin-law and she is pregnat an she is fight with her boyfriend...... we need truth here, why don't you come out!Report Abuse
Galfrend
If I were to find out my sister knew about my husband's cheatings and never said a word, I would be really cross and feel really betrayed. My sister is family and I believe she would tell me out of caring, she will be looking out for me and I believe family should have each others interests at heart. But then again it all depends on what kind of a relationship one has with their siblings.Dumelang.
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KarlZimbiri
@maneaterI suspect U are this man.
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Tsek
maesisto - O maaka maan, manje y ole lonely...izolo nne ole busy o khala ja ka ngwana wa LG..Report Abuse
Remsy
Ladygaga - They are now married with three kids. They are a very happy family and are all still very close to me.Report Abuse
maezizsto
Tsek-Heeee wena san nna ngwana wa LG?Nka nna ngwana wa ngwana nna o ntlwaetsa ka bana ma laaitie.I neva said I am lonely san ke itse ke batla mothoReport Abuse
WordofGod
@mthook!! luv u2
@tsek
iyo!! eish!! errrr!!! giggling!!!
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Tsek
WordofGod@tsek
iyo!! eish!! errrr!!! giggling!!!
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wa bona tsona tseo ke tsona o tla di dirang motlang morena o go botsisa gore y did u lie to tsek...o tla no dira di giggling a go shapa ka mpama a fetsa a bitsa satan(nevus) gore a go tsaye ka foroko...neva wa kena ka mojako.
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Bluemas
Stay the hell out of your sister's bussiness as long as she is not physically abused. This guy is spicing his life finish and klaar. Etswa tabeng tsa batho ratanang.Vumane boo!
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Mthondosheshayo
@WordofGod hehehehe luv you big,ngikuthanda ukubhubhaReport Abuse
nevus
ladygaga@nevus
if u were to find out tht ur brother's wi.fe is cheating would u tell him?
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i will start by blackmailing so that ngi dle nam ngoba ku ya dleka,then tell my brother everything,dont worry i like to see my brother in pain ngoba he have all the best.
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Ramatlhale
Lady tlogela taba tsa batho because the only result you are going to get is an unemplyed boyfriend, and a sister who hates your guts.But if you really feel like you can't keep your trap shut then rather set a trap for the poor brother whereby you & your sister incidentally pitch @ a place he may be @ with the alleged mistress; your spineless boyfriend being the informant for their whereabouts course.
Then you are off the hook, but still your boyfriend will be unemployed anyway!!
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Kkno
It is better to confront the cheater/husband, make him awareReport Abuse
Galfrend
BluemasStay the hell out of your sister's bussiness as long as she is not physically abused. This guy is spicing his life finish and klaar. Etswa tabeng tsa batho ratanang.
Vumane boo!
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HAI ANGIVUMI.LOL
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clivage
HI gals sengikhona wats app??????Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
That guy is a stupid individual ,in this regard you don't say anyyhing at all .Nna i used to go with my uncle and we used to eat them alive and the was
no way i was going to tell my aunt never !!!!
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clivage
as i said izolo to mi frnds 'its none of mi business'and thy choose a wrong ansa#smhReport Abuse
Bluemas
@RamatlhaleI agree with you ntwana. It's not like it's a miracle that this guy is having a roll-on. Nyatsi i tiisa lelapa. So, this sister must just shut up and continue with her sorry @ss boyfriend.
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Galfrend
clivageHI gals sengikhona wats app??????
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hey clivv,nam ngiyangena love, unjani?
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Bluemas
@GalfrendHi my baby-sister, wena you must vuma ngenkani ngoba angizingeni indabazakho ne bari zakho. lol.
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maezizsto
clivageHI gals sengikhona wats app??????
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You skirt and ke bona thong ya barbie girl
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Bluemas
Guys, me and my brother in law, I mean theeeee brother in law si jiva sonke and siganga sonke. Phooo yindabakabani?Report Abuse
Galfrend
Bluemas@Galfrend
Hi my baby-sister, wena you must vuma ngenkani ngoba angizingeni indabazakho ne bari zakho. lol.
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ibari zam?lol
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Mayoza
To be honest with my Sister, keeping quiet and seeing ur happy in a unfaithful marrige it wont help. find a good way of telling her and let it be in a good manner. let it be a family gathering, you, ur sister, ur patner and ur brother in-law. then lay matter to all of them. allow ur brother in-law to open up and say what ever he wants. truth will come. also make sure that ur patner was telling you the truth. Thinks about this in both sides, Ur patners might be telling lies for his own reasons and also he might be telling the truth. think if ur sister, THINKS ABOUT THIS. What if she is reading this article and she compares this article with her life. don't you think this will cause her to panic and start to loose trust towards his husband and that will make things more complicated.Report Abuse
Mthondosheshayo
Ohhh Thixo afikile ama Dalom Kids uyoqala umsindoReport Abuse
Bluemas
@GalfrendYes my baby sister, abo @nevus nabo sbanibani........
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Ramatlhale
@BluemasA se boy friend daai ding is 'n opportunist and he is hoping that once all of this is in the open there'll be chaos and he will gain good favour with wif.e's family meaning bodidi le botabane ba he will be overlooked, ke tshitshiri ntwe man!!!
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Bumboklaat
This is a big NO NO!Stay out of it, she will eventually find out on her own.
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WordofGod
@tsekhau!! kante nevus ke satan? am now very very scared. i can imagine him prickling me with a table fork . . . lol
@mtho
God is love. what is ukhubhuba now?
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Bluemas
@RamatlhaleKwaaaakakakakaa...... oya mpolaya son. Ke senwamadi.
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Bluemas
@mthondosheshayoEish maar wena nkwesheng wa spita maan. Matete is waiting for you ko kasi vaya maan.
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Ann
@Tsek, hi sweatheart!Report Abuse
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Ann@Tsek, hi sweatheart!
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inthoni kawe nna sweetheart?? geele!! ke eng satan(nevus) o deala ka wena ka go bona...
WordofGod - wena checka avatar fela o tla bona gore so seo ga se motho nix!!
Blumy - osa tsogelwa le today??
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WordofGod@tsek
hau!! kante nevus ke satan? am now very very scared. i can imagine him prickling me with a table fork mo kukung uuuhh lovely . . . lol
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wena o jaags go feta difebe nxa!
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Ramatlhale
Eintlik guys (tattletale) like this make my blood boil, to the confused sista- did you ever stop for a minute & think why you are constantly fighting with your man and you never hear anything negative about your sister's relationship?It's because your man is a weakling he feels that he has to constantly come 2nd to your sister's husband & now they own his ass, so this might've been his way to show you that there are cracks in your sister's marriage & they are not so perfect. Le lona basadi stop comparing relationships it puts pressure on banna ba ba mekokotelo!!1
I am saying what I am saying because no guy does this to another guy without any motive never kea gana!!
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Mthondosheshayo
@Bluemas wena Sundani is waiting for you at home@Wordof God ask the Ndebeles they will tell you
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Bluemas
@TsekHola my laaitie. Fede?
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matzzzzz
ye yona ke kgomo ya moshatewa e gapa o molato
wa e tlogela o molato
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Tsek
matzzzzzye yona ke kgomo ya moshate
wa e gapa o molato
wa e tlogela o molato
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go swana le that day ong tlogela ko woodlands ke le one..
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clivage
@galfrndngikhona ntombi ,,,,,uphi ulg
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Bluemas
@matzzzzzThobela sesi, ngwaga omoswa. Kare modimo o phala baloyi. Le hlwele byang?
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Bluemas
@Clivovo*Wink*
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WordofGod
@tsekwa bona ge! now ba nthoga and ke wena o statileng. i see you changed your avatar. u look handsome . . . m! m! m!!
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clivage@galfrnd
ngikhona ntombi ,,,,,uphi ulg
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she's eating ama hotwings le thabo she will be here soon oka rase ke..
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WordofGod@tsek
wa bona ge! now ba nthoga and ke wena o statileng. i see you changed your avatar. u look handsome . . . m! m! m!!
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ke statile wena wa duma akere, u should see me naked u will faint hae dilo tse o pilang o di bona ko hammanskral
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Luv2kiss
MatzzzzzOOHH My princess , M0sadi gare ga basadi , Where did u get yo licence coz u driving me CRAZY
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matzzzzz
bluemie - wareng mothwaka...aowa re o bonee ka nnete Modimo o phadile baloi..gohlwa re hlwile samma, le ge e se tjatji le lebotse, re dio bona ona mathata a bophelo....lena le e jele jwang?tsek - lmao aowa wena ne o bona ausi waka ..akere ma tripplets naa
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Galfrend
MATTZ - Hw are you dear? Long time.Report Abuse
Tsek
i wonder gore ge motho a charmiwa ke avatar asa itse motho o diragala eng hehehehehe...Report Abuse
matzzzzz
luv2kissMY king *bowing down* wareng swidat
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Luv2kiss
Morning to all the Family - Including le makwapaReport Abuse
matzzzzz
GF - hello doll..im good n how r u? n compliments gal..n le o jele jwang?Report Abuse
clivage
Bluemas@Clivovo
*Wink*
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wink wikn baby
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clivage
@galfrnd
ngikhona ntombi ,,,,,uphi ulg
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she's eating ama hotwings le thabo she will be here soon oka rase ke..
************** hey wena uyazazi indaba azabantu neeee
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Bluemas
@matzzzzzzzRe hlwele le rena rato laka, rebona fela lona letswi le iphile matla, re dio totelwa lefa go feta leba maratswana.
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matzzzzzluv2kiss
MY king *bowing down* wareng swidat
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One day motho o tlare a sa dira di bow down tsona tseo a robega molala wa kgogo ya sepedi....jirrrrr
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matzzzzz
n tsek if o bolela ka luv2kiss o wrong sana..he knws me...ontseba kudu kudu n ompone gantshi ntshi...Report Abuse
Luv2kiss
matzzzzzi"m good n u? kiss me if u can my preincess
WoG
please gimme a verse
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Tsek
If wa go tsiba i just wonder gore pila pila o boni eng pela le twin la gago la go pala ka colour ya mango le straight backReport Abuse
matzzzzz
Bluemas@matzzzzzzz
Re hlwele le rena rato laka, rebona fela lona letswi le iphile matla, re dio totelwa lefa go feta leba maratswana
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kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa dead# o reng naa...kgane sale oekwa neng?..aker december ku.ku ne e lahlile
n TSEK - o ne mona wena..ke hlompha morenaka..o nyaaka ke tonamele wena naa
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Galfrend
mattz, - Compliments to u too dear, had a great holy thanxClivv- angimazi uyaz, she was here earlier.
You will avoid me until when wena snaikazi? mcxm
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matzzzzz
tsek - o ne mona wena....entlik o ja ke eng?luv2kiss- mbhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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WordofGod
@tsekah!! iyo! don't want to puke ke bona maponapona a gago.maponapona a ntlhatsisa. ga ke tswe hammanskraal mann. ke tswa ko plekeng ba i bitsa seropeseseholo.
@luv2kiss
ema pele wena. ke sa ebatla
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matzzzzz
entlik o wa dieta tje kgolo ontlwaela gampeReport Abuse
Bluemas
@matzzzzEeeee ke nnete ebe e lahlile ku.ku December, fela re badidi ga ba nyake le ho rebona re emetse mafelo a gwedi. Ke duma fela le haekaba bona fela. Hakesa etseba lehore e eme horizontal kapa vertical. Letswai la mpetha wena ratu.
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Luv2kiss
TsekHeeee monna pls o ska mpakisa "My Well Polished Rock " , Matzzzzz stole my heart n i dont wanna open a case of theft coz its in good hands
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matzzzzz
MsBlackberrykgona tsa gao le boyfriend ya go bereka shopong o tlogele taba tsa sesiago i bet ur sister knows something bout this, we women have a strong intuition but choose to ignore
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kwaaa lol gal did u hv to say le bf ya go bereka shoppong ..lmaoooooooooooooo
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Galfrend
Bluemas@matzzzz
Eeeee ke nnete ebe e lahlile ku.ku December, fela re badidi ga ba nyake le ho rebona re emetse mafelo a gwedi. Ke duma fela le haekaba bona fela. Hakesa etseba lehore e eme horizontal kapa vertical. Letswai la mpetha wena ratu.
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Ah! My brother kikikikikikikikiki
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ladygaga
RemsyLadygaga - They are now married with three kids. They are a very happy family and are all still very close to me.
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wow thats good hey
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Bluemas
@GalfrendEish wena my baby sister you shouldn't have read that. Please ignore it.
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ladygaga
@clivyke teng lala, was in a meeting
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Bluemas
@LG*Wink*
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LaVidaLoca
Stay out of itReport Abuse
Sentle
More mense,This guy and the sister must zip their mlomos for peace sake.
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Galfrend
Bluemas@Galfrend
Eish wena my baby sister you shouldn't have read that. Please ignore it.
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Too late.
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Tsek
ladygaga@clivy
ke teng lala, was in a meeting
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did u enjoy???
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matzzzzz
blumie - nare wena o phela o totetse naa?Report Abuse
Ann
@maezi, hi dear, o reng?@matzzzzzzzzzzzzz, hallo welcome back!!
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Bluemas
@AllTomorrow is my baby sister (Galfrend's) born day. If you want to send presents please make sure it start from at least R500 please.
Happy Born Day in advance my baby sister and my you see many more.
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matzzzzz
ooh zi gals welcome bak olLG
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Ann
clivy
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ladygaga
@blumy*wink*
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ladygaga
@matzzzzhey hey zigal. hwzit?
@sentle
okae ratu
@galfrnd
my frnd sifuna ikhekhe neh lol
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Ann
matzzzzzblumie - nare wena o phela o totetse naa?
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kwaaaaaaaaaaa...
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Stimela
DO NOT GET INVOLVED!Report Abuse
Bluemas
@matzzzzEven now as I text ke totetswe mooetu, gape selose ga seje papa se.
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ladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?Report Abuse
Luv2kiss
Bluemas@matzzzz
Even now as I text ke totetswe mooetu, gape selose ga seje papa seja nevus.
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Ya ne
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Galfrend
Bluemmy - Awwww thats so sweet of you big bro, Thank you so much!LG - Uzolithola gal ikhekhe,,,lol
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Bluemas
@Luv2kissBecareful my laaitie
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maezizsto
Annkie-Ke gore ga go buiwa ka mnyakazo ke mo o ratang teng nehReport Abuse
Galfrend
ladygagai heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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Really? where did you hear that from?
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Sentle
@MatzzHi zi gal and thank you for welcoming me back.lol
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Tsek
Matzzzzzzz - wena ke go tladile before nka go ferega, wa gopola that day rele ko menlyn park oaperi 2 piece ye p!nk ya mablomo ka di kwaikwai tse red & black? jah u turned me off...Luv2kiss - no need to open a case ke tswere le twin la gage, matzzzz ke mo tsaya boshego..
WordofGod - waitse ere nka go thuka mara i cnt i dnt knw y....hey i got good news maan i just registered my church company so im still searchin for pastor nyana who can keep my pips busy evry sunday...
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Sentle
@LadyGKe teng my swerie and wena o skaars these days.
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Ramatlhale
@Bluemas@matzzzz
Even now as I text ke totetswe mooetu, gape selose ga seje papa se
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krkrkrkrkrkrkrkikiki, appreciate & feed the urge mfana, go na le bangwe ba imela ke dilo tsa go se tsamaye madi; if you cut it off go tswa moroto fela. kikikikiki!!!
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Sentle
@TsekA wa tsenwa?
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Bluemas
@RamatlhaleKwaaakakaka..... ke nnete eo, babangwe ba paletswe leke diviagra, kare le pitsa tsa setho di paletswe. Kwaaaaakakakakaka.... wena son, you are a piece of work.
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clivage
hahahaha glfrnd im here for gud,,hi matssssss
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Luv2kiss
Ramatlhalekrkrkrkrkrkrkrkrk - Boss o tshega snax
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ladygaga
Galfrendladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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Really? where did you hear that from?
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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matzzzzz
blummieo totelwa blyn san
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Galfrend
clivagehahahaha glfrnd im here for gud,,
hi matssssss
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LOL Good gal
its mattzz not matsssssss
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Spekepeke
clivagedrop me yo numbers ku email
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Spekepeke
clivagepls dont gimme thos $hit numbers that go to a white lady
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Bluemas
@matzzzzzA wa enyaka?
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matzzzzz
tsek - i c this year o gafa ka high grade..ke tla lo go nyakela sehlare sa go fodisa bogafi ko faraday sanReport Abuse
Tsek
Sentle@Tsek
A wa tsenwa?
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Dumela!!Hao se ke entse eng manje.
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Ramatlhale
@Luv2kissRamatlhale
krkrkrkrkrkrkrkrk - Boss o tshega snax
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I do not conform, fact is you do know gore ke a tshega akere?
so altogether now krkrkrkrkrkrkrkrkrkr!!!
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Spekepeke
matzzzzz*wink* both eyes
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clivage
Spekepekeclivage
pls dont gimme thos $hit numbers that go to a white lady
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hahahahahahahaha ok mi frnd
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matzzzzz
GFthank u for rectifying clivy...is nt sssss is zzzzzzzzz gal maan toeg tuu
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Galfrend
ladygaga*****************
i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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ah gal, its probably rumours nje, some people are bored out there. I dont think its true
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matzzzzz
bluemie- ya gago ya e leboga ke nyala ya mornachies kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaspekie - n y dd u delete me ko gtok?
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BiBi
dont tell only your boyfriend knows you know,pretend to hear it for the first time when your sister finds out and lend her the shoulder to cry on, and get rid of that boyfriend a blah blah mouth if he cared about you he should have known the info will put you in an uncomfortable positionReport Abuse
clivage
@skpesent
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Sentle
@Tsek,Ke ya bona gore ha o normal.Look at what Matzz is saying:
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matzzzzz
tsek - i c this year o gafa ka high grade..ke tla lo go nyakela sehlare sa go fodisa bogafi ko faraday san
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So o reng?
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Bluemas
Matzzzzz swipe her ATM card at shoprite after collecting groceries, the cashier asked, cheque or savings? Matzzzzz: Grant.Report Abuse
Tsek
ladygagaGalfrend
ladygaga
i heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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Really? where did you hear that from?
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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Too short mo eleng gore le wena u will regret gore y nne o sa joli le nna nako e sa re dumela gore re shaye thabo ka stina the tym u nagana go zwakala gonna thabo tlabe a go kaile bana tse 5....so make up ur mind!!!!!!!
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Spekepeke
matzzzzzDont know about that i didnt delete any1, this $hit IT guys messed everything here but i'm fckuen reconnecting soon, u know wena u close to my a$$ i wont do that $hit to u,
anyway how is u? missed u
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truthhurt
Stay away from it baby, i once found my brother in-law in bed with the maid and found out later that the maid had AIDS, my brother in-law tested positive and later died and my sister did not know where it come from, she still doesn,t know, its not my place to talk about people's business.Report Abuse
Galfrend
Spekepekematzzzzz
*wink* both eyes
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hahahahahaaaaaa how do you do that Spekie, lol
clivage
@skpe
sent
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lol wena uyangibulala its Spekie hayi lento oyibhalile.....hahahahahaaaa
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ladygaga
Galfrendladygaga
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i heard it on YFM but they didnt have details either, they just said they saw tht on twitter
eish gal my heart is sore, life is too short neh
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ah gal, its probably rumours nje, some people are bored out there. I dont think its true
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i hope so gal
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Caramelcake
@worried sister, they say what you do not know does not hurt. Do Not Tell Your sis. (when they married, they swore in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad times, till death. All you need is to be there when this comes out, definitely you shouldn't be the one to tell her. Your sis will find a way to deal with it as well as his husband will find a way to let your sis know....Marriage is about building, you build and repairer, renov ate upgrade....we do not quitt just because our partners decide to have affairs...Your sister must read Proverbs 31:10-31...wise woman....and you also must be wise.Report Abuse
nevus
ladygagai heard this morning that Muzi Clive from class act 2010 has passed on, anyone with details?
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full story ekhayanews.celebpassing.com
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ladygaga
truthhurtStay away from it baby, i once found my brother in-law in bed with the maid and found out later that the maid had AIDS, my brother in-law tested positive and later died and my sister did not know where it come from, she still doesn,t know, its not my place to talk about people's business.
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iyho thats just too sad.
i feel sorry for ur sis
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jimmy1
she must learn to mind her own business always. her sister will find out her self. if she tell it will create hatetrate between her and brother in law even her sister.my sister am saying to you mind your own business u sukela ti mhaka ta vanhuReport Abuse
Tsek
............................WILL BE BACK............................Report Abuse
ladygaga
@nevusska dlala kanna pls
lunch time. cheers
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Bluemas
Bye everyone ke saya ko Berea to buy legoshanyana le onenyana.Report Abuse
matzzzzz
ladygaga n galfrndits true gals...i saw someone talking about it ko fb MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE
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Spekepeke
GalfrendSpekepeke
matzzzzz
*wink* both eyes
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hahahahahaaaaaa how do you do that Spekie, lol
clivage
@skpe
sent
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lol wena uyangibulala its Spekie hayi lento oyibhalile.....hahahahahaaaa
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clivage vele ubhaleni la?
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Matses1
Ke kgomo ya moshate.Report Abuse
Galfrend
mattzz - siriyasi, what happend? phela tht guy was young bandla, lemme google itReport Abuse
Spekepeke
Galfrendwena u see m online u just choose to shut up, sometimes u behave in a very funny unfriendly way
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MORNACHIES
Ba bangwe go kaone kudu ka ge ba ya di Lunch ,ge e le ba babangwe e dio baSomalia at it's best .
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matzzzzz
GFyeah he was..i dnt knw the details too
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jimmy1
my sister the bible says in `thesalonians 4:11 and to make it your ambition to lead a queit life:you should mind your own business and work with your hands,just as we told u.Report Abuse
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SpekepekeGalfrend
wena u see m online u just choose to shut up, sometimes u behave in a very funny unfriendly way
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on that note..kgane if we r online we suppose to chat everyday?
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matzzzzzOUCH !!!
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SpekepekeGalfrend
wena u see m online u just choose to shut up, sometimes u behave in a very funny unfriendly way
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lol really? Im sorry, its not intentionally, im no longer on that gmail acc you have. Are you on whatsapp? Mara you are the rude one, remember onetime I asked how you were and you said " still the same, nothing less nothing more" that was rude shame.
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GalfrendOh sorry didnt that was ride, humble apologies
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Spekepekematzzzzz
OUCH !!!
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make that DOUBLE OUCH!!!!
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theres another way to tell someone to change his/her ways cos its affecting you...consider the facts:once she finds out that you knew all this time...you not safe if you dont tell her..again,if you tell her ...there might be some kind of hate,betrayal etc...my observation is..tell your sister but after youve collected all the evidence by yourself...if she doesnt listen...tell her straight away...that..its bcos you love her.she can hate you...but you know deep that..you were helping your sister...n you walk away your head up..than to die with somethin which is not yours..she is your blood anyway....one day she will come back to you n apologise...but do not expect it will happen...Report Abuse
SATAN
Sesi wee o seke wa tlo re gafela!Your not even sure gore ur brother in-law
is cheating on ur sister as you heared it from your boyfriend,
what if your boyfriend is hiding that he's cheating on u and
wanted to tell you that he impregnate nyatsi ya gage.
stop interfering. And wht if you tell her only to find out that
your boyfriend is lying.
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matzzzzz
spekiei was asking hawuu...r we suppose to chat everyday? i dnt even chat with my bf everyday unless he starts up a conversation
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maezizsto
YaaaaawwwwwwwnnnnnnReport Abuse
matzzzzz
http://thestreetwordiz.wordpress.com/2012/01/13/heres-the-email-everyones-been-going-on-about/Report Abuse
swona
what if its not true? think your man is gay!Report Abuse
Galfrend
mattz - Gal whats that lin.k about, I cant view it.Gosh Sowetan!!! Why flag the word lin.k ? mcxm
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maezizsto
Galfrend-Why o sa nchaele gore you have cancelled your g-mail account so I can stop sending you e-mails?Report Abuse
matzzzzz
ooh about the l.ink.. watch ur back guys- its getting scary out there..grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr yooh thingz pple doGF - too scary hey someone sent me that l.ink thought i should share cause everyone z talking about it on twitter n fb...its about this group of gals intending on spreading HIV...wish u could read it
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Ann
@Maezi, kante wena ga o rate monyakazo? yuu nna ke o rata ratiReport Abuse
Masheleng
If you believe your sister is happy and does not even suspect that her husband is cheating, then stay out of it.Report Abuse
Galfrend
maezizsto - Please o ska bua maaka, coz I sent you an email last week and u did not respond. You have my new gmail add wena.Report Abuse
ladygaga
@matzzzi received email this morning but didnt even bother reading, lemme read
galfrend will send u the email
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matzzzzz
LG - Ja most pple hv seen the email...mina they've sent me that l.ink..yoooh z hectic galReport Abuse
maezizsto
Annkie-Ke re go jwang ka kgolokwenyana e le nngwe ya mnyakazo tuuuuReport Abuse
maezizsto
Galfrend-I dont have it tlhe okay send it again il check itReport Abuse
Galfrend
MashelengIf you believe your sister is happy and does not even suspect that her husband is cheating, then stay out of it.
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And watch her being made a fool? What if she contracts HIV from her hubby ,would I be able to live with myself knowing I should have warned her? Hell nah!
@LG and Mattz, Got it my friends thank you, Oh my word, the world is truly coming to an end.
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matzzzzz
GF -ey those pple r evil..my body z shivering damnReport Abuse
Galfrend
mattz - Very scary my friend.maezie - Check again
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MORNACHIES
SATANSesi wee o seke wa tlo re gafela!
Your not even sure gore ur brother in-law
is cheating on ur sister as you heared it from your boyfriend,
what if your boyfriend is hiding that he's cheating on u and
wanted to tell you that he impregnate nyatsi ya gage.
stop interfering. And wht if you tell her only to find out that
your boyfriend is lying.
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Hey wena @Nevus ke eng o nya.ka go re paisiza na ?why o changer di username like panty ?
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ladygaga
@matzz n gfwe live in a sick world
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Spekepeke
matzzzzzbare women are d!cks thats all i can see
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Tsek
IM BACK ANYONE WNNA TALK TO ME???????Report Abuse
matzzzzz
spekieloolzzzz eish mara if eva there's a truth in that..then im sooooo scared
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MOTHUBANNYO
Tell her manReport Abuse
TAKESHY
"should I or shouldn't i" ?? tough one ne ......Just toss the coin my sister,Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
TsekIM BACK ANYONE WNNA TALK TO ME???????
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Let's talk ,how was your kwerereland ?
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Tsek
MORNACHIES - wena san o ny@ka maesisto a go roge non stop, o nagana gore mo ke bolobedu ur sh!t ka lefahla la noga!!!Report Abuse
Pipilicious
She must stop talking about hearsay.Report Abuse
ladygaga
Last night social network Twitter went abuzz at the sad news that one of South Africa's best up and coming actors Muzi Clive has passed away. You might know Muzi from the first season of reality show Class Act, where he was runner up. Very talented guy that one.According to unconfirmed reports, Muzi passed away on Tuesday when he was trapped inside a burning house. We do not know the full story of his death.
Class Act wasn't the end of te road for Muzi, last year he got a role on the stage production Mabrr and will soon see him as a Jabu - a mob leader - in the controversial Jenniffer Hudson and Terrence Howard starring film, "Winnie". He was also a friend of Wonted as he attended some of our events and communicated whenever he could. I repeat, the dude was really talented. May his soul rest in peace and our prayers go to his family
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Galfrend
LG - AH thats sad news gal, where did you get that from? :(Report Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
@ladygagaSowetan should take a few notes from your reporting skills.
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maezizsto
Na re le kgatlegile gore someone has passed away hai soka man.Or ne le nagana gore o immortal?Report Abuse
ladygaga
i googled him....eish gal its soo sadReport Abuse
MORNACHIES
@Tsek-------Why o nroga nou ?a kere o rile o nya.ka go bolela and why o nroga so mara?Ka re how was Maputo ?
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eKapa
i will aslo not tell my brother if uyatyelwa.Report Abuse
Galfrend
maezizstoNa re le kgatlegile gore someone has passed away hai soka man.Or ne le nagana gore o immortal
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No maeizie, but its still sad news, we know no one is immortal ,but its always sad when someone passes on,especially when they are young
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MORNACHIES- unjani mfondini?Report Abuse
Tsek
MORNACHIES - - im not frm maputo im frm limpopo manje wena maputo e kena ko kae??LG - re kwile nthombezana manje a sekhulume ka rena gee..
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Jaja'sQueen@ladygaga
Sowetan should take a few notes from your reporting skills.
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lol sowetan e useless man, they should have reported this by now.....
now we had to search for the info on the net(google)...
my heart is sore....i had a crush on this guy *hides*
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ladygaga
maezizstoNa re le kgatlegile gore someone has passed away hai soka man.Or ne le nagana gore o immortal?
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mara how can u say that maezie? re ka kgahlwa ke gore motho o hlokofetse? c'mon man
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ladygagaJaja'sQueen
@ladygaga
Sowetan should take a few notes from your reporting skills.
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lol sowetan e useless man, they should have reported this by now.....
now we had to search for the info on the net(google)...
my heart is sore....i had a crush on this guy *hides*
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u see exactly wats gnna happen wen i pass on....say it nw.
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maezizsto
Galfrend-You guys are going on like it is Madiba who has passed on.Akere Modimo o rile ke tlo le tsaya ka bongwe ka bongwe he didnt say he will only take old people so whats the fuss?Report Abuse
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@tsekcrush on sepoko se tshwanang le wena mara, mcm o ka thaba
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eKapaMORNACHIES- unjani mfondini?
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Mfondini ,since ke sa tsebe gore e ra eng .....so a ebe papago .
Kikikikikikikik tltltltltltltltltltlltlt hahahahahahahahahaha .......................Only joking
Ako ndo hihlo ......
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Spekepeke
Galfrendwhat made this guy so special kanthe please fill me IN
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Galfrend
ladygagamy heart is sore....i had a crush on this guy *hides*
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Askies gal, shame man
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Tsek
ladygaga@tsek
crush on sepoko se tshwanang le wena mara, mcm o ka thaba
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mara ke pala maesisto or ka njani?????
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Tsek
LG - ke khopa o change avatar plz....i cnt take it anymore...Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
TsekMORNACHIES - - im not frm maputo im frm limpopo manje wena maputo e kena ko kae??
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O dula Limzo nou ?+++++++ so when are you coming Bolobedu my boi ?
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ladygaga
@galfrendlol
@tsek
whats wrong with this 1?
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Galfrend
maezizstoGalfrend-You guys are going on like it is Madiba who has passed on.Akere Modimo o rile ke tlo le tsaya ka bongwe ka bongwe he didnt say he will only take old people so whats the fuss?
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We are different mos, whats important to you might not be that important to you.
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eKapa
MORNACHIES- unjani mfondini?
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Mfondini ,since ke sa tsebe gore e ra eng .....so a ebe papago .
Kikikikikikikik tltltltltltltltltltlltlt hahahahahahahahahaha .......................Only joking
Ako ndo hihlo ......
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bhwahahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaa you made my day......LMAO!!!
Spekie - Some quite celeb who was a contestant on Class act.
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Tsekladygaga
@tsek
crush on sepoko se tshwanang le wena mara, mcm o ka thaba
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mara ke pala maesisto or ka njani?????
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o maaka man wa go phala lol
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I just came from that lin.k, Eh basadi ba, ba tlo re fetsa mos! but seriously that is some f.ucked up sh!t; how does one know gore their partners are not already part of the group.I am not waiting to find out if it's true or not, I am wiping my phonebook clean of difebe tse & am sticking to my booze full time, when the urge comes ke tla ya go reka man!!
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Spekepeke
Galfrendok, sowetan didnt publish anything ka yena I wonder why
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Tsek
LG - that one gives me nitemare pela i think bwt u evrynite and day and ge ke go picture smetyms ke bona le that avatar..Ok let me admit it manje...I LOVE U and i dnt care whether u love me back or not..Report Abuse
Galfrend
maezie, lol I meant, whats important to you,might not be that important to me.Report Abuse
Diva7
Here is the sad reality of a situation like this....you are screwed if you tell and screwed if you don't tellReport Abuse
eKapa
Galfrend- molo mabhebeza wam oStrongo..lolReport Abuse
ladygaga
RamatlhaleI just came from that lin.k, Eh basadi ba, ba tlo re fetsa mos! but seriously that is some f.ucked up sh!t; how does one know gore their partners are not already part of the group
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its hectic neh
yho n o thola motho a kgahlwa ke gore o ja ku.ku entsha every weekend
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Tsek
MORNACHIES - ke bolobedu nw...ke mo maoso..Report Abuse
Galfrend
eKapaGalfrend- molo mabhebeza wam oStrongo..lol
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Unjani thambo lam le Kentucky...lol
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Luv2kiss
This is some scary article, why woman wanna k!ll us , what have we-men done????, every women main aim is to k!ll a MAN, its either they make u flat broke u k!ll u kamaponyane, o give u korobela, NOW the big Boss AIDS
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Tsek
TO LADYGAGAYou are the candle, love's the flame
A fire that burns through wind and rain
Shine your light on this heart of mine
Till the end of time
You came to me like the dawn through the night
Just shinin' like the sun
Out of my dreams and into my life
You are the one, you are the one
Said I loved you but I lied
'Cause this is more than love I feel inside
Said I loved you but I was wrong
'Cause love could never ever feel so strong
Said I loved you but I lied
With all my soul I've tried in vain
How can mere words my heart explain
This taste of heaven so deep so true
I've found in you
So many reasons in so many ways
My life has just begun
Need you forever, I need you to stay
You are the one, you are the one
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@ladygagaEish!! and ne e lathlile ka festive muskont, wa bona these are one of those instances where you get yourself a bells or good old Glen o dule ole 1 and seriously start to ponder on this thing ya lenyalo!!
One thing I don't want to be remembered ka yona is gore ke bolaile ke sefefe rather ke bolawe ke m.osadi not skhebreshe neh!! go thata babes!!
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@luv2kiss, i just read that email, its a scary sh*t u guys should be very carefulReport Abuse
Luv2kiss
Annand to tell you the truth most guys when are at it and condoms run out if a woman dont insist on getting a condom n allows a man to ride , Men ride on - what m saying ke gore most man ba kena ka nama unless a woman be firm on it and say NO
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GalfrendeKapa
Galfrend- molo mabhebeza wam oStrongo..lol
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Unjani thambo lam le Kentucky...lol
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hahaha..ndiphile s'thuthuthu sam sojika emakhoneni..lol
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@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady GagaReport Abuse
eKapa
TsekTO LADYGAGA
You are the candle, love's the flame
A fire that burns through wind and rain
Shine your light on this heart of mine
Till the end of time
You came to me like the dawn through the night
Just shinin' like the sun
Out of my dreams and into my life
You are the one, you are the one
Said I loved you but I lied
'Cause this is more than love I feel inside
Said I loved you but I was wrong
'Cause love could never ever feel so strong
Said I loved you but I lied
With all my soul I've tried in vain
How can mere words my heart explain
This taste of heaven so deep so true
I've found in you
So many reasons in so many ways
My life has just begun
Need you forever, I need you to stay
You are the one, you are the one
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hahaha...Mic'Tsek'hael Bolton...kikikiki
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Ramatlhale
Mara this is bloody unfair, motho o tla re o tshepa mang ge go le so nou?The very thing that actually still empowers us as men and distinctifies us as heterosexual men, now suddenly becomes our official one-way ticket to diheleng. haaai mann!!! these people need to be stopped ASAP.
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Ann
@Luv2kiss, true, im still lost for wordsReport Abuse
JUBJUB
Luv2kiss & Ann- I was reading about that mail,it looks like someone just came up with this stories but its scary though....Report Abuse
ladygaga
Mthondosheshayo@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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Spekepeke
Luv2kissSpeak for yourself plus u confessed that u B.uy bomahosha, so this hit you very badly
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ladygagaMthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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plus kokoage o mongwe....jirrrr
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matzzzzz
luv2kiss n ramathlaleif eva there's any truth in this..then this gals r crazeeeeeeeeeeee...plzzz b careful toeg..kuyafiwa langaphandle
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TsekMORNACHIES - ke bolobedu nw...ke mo maoso..
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Lies + Lies = pure lies ....Hey nna ke le mola ka 26 December .o tla bafana ba di Dj
It was nyc mfowethu .................
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ladygaga
@ramathlaleo right wena e nwele jwala ba gago o tlogele dibiscuits or else........ lol
@tsek
tltltltlttltlltlttltl wena wa kula
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@ladygagaMthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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Atleast wa hlapa unlike you ,you are still wearing panty yamaobane
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RamatlhaleMara this is bloody unfair, motho o tla re o tshepa mang ge go le so nou?
True , The woman u thought is yo own can go out for once and bring it home
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nevus
hahahahaha bakae bo tlama ne e lahlile ka December hahahahahaha i remember this came to a stokvel on wheel chair and said im just here to show you that AIDS is real now all who slept with me must go and do the tests kikikikikikikiki within 10 minutes the hall was half empty.Report Abuse
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ladygagaMthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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kikikikikikikiki ja neh o rata go roga batho ka bo kokoabona neh lmao hahahahahahaha
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hahahahahaha wa jiya ntwana kikikikikikikiEintlik go buiwa ka e-mail e feng hiso?
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Mthondosheshayo
@Tsek did you really have to google a beautiful song for Sgidla waar setshwanang le Lady Gaga
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sgidla waar ke kokoago
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kikikikikikikiki ja neh o rata go roga batho ka bo kokoabona neh lmao hahahahahahaha
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lol ke tla reng motho a nroga Maezi
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Tsek
ditori nyana tsa gago tsa ko maftown hall ga re batle go dikwa!!!!!Report Abuse
matzzzzz
maezi - follow my l.ink above o tla e bonaspekie- eish ntwana le lona u aint to b trusted nje
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MORNACHIES
And le gona Moftown nyana yeo are na taba le yona gat man !!!!Report Abuse
maezizsto
Mara LG koko wa sgidla waar mooerrr o mpolaile yong hehehehehehe mthondo jy moet pasop next timeReport Abuse
Tsek
LG - remember gore mazulu ge ba ny.aka motho ba mo harasa pele...wena gao boni tse ba di dirang ko noord taxi rank gane....Report Abuse
Galfrend
eKapaGalfrend
eKapa
Galfrend- molo mabhebeza wam oStrongo..lol
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Unjani thambo lam le Kentucky...lol
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hahaha..ndiphile s'thuthuthu sam sojika emakhoneni..lol
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Aw stimela sam sase Zola, my fohloza.....lol
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Tsek
le gona avatar(nevus) ya gona wa krea ele mama's boy e pila e dutsi konhlong the whole day e shebile ben10 le bana ba ko yona..bloddy di gossipa!!Report Abuse
Spekepeke
matzzzzzLets abstain to cut this wabona
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matzzzzz
spkieabstain..nna i can..as if wena u can lool
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ladygaga
TsekLG - remember gore mazulu ge ba ny.aka motho ba mo harasa pele...wena gao boni tse ba di dirang ko noord taxi rank gane....
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hahahahahhahahahahhahahaha kante? hahahha ne ke sa tsebe
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nevus
ka o chaela boy moeer ne go le maswe,o bona monna a shebile beer o kare o shebile snepe sa Lutricia,kikikikikikikikiki wa etseba hall e ko stadiumsa ko kasi?ne go shailwe stokie daar.aarhhg go bua ka ngwanyana o tshositseng mfana e ne e batla go monyakaza net ba kopane ko fb and ba felletse ko fb.Report Abuse
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MORNACHIESAnd le gona Moftown nyana yeo are na taba le yona gat man !!!!
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Wena mogatla wa nywananyana ya mmago plus ke ntse ke go emetse.O ntlwaela sebete sa mmago se se lekanang le tsebe ya tlou
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clivage
BATHONG uphi umathutha,mec,gigolo???????????????Report Abuse
clivage
Spekepekedont tell me u spoke to dat white lady?
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ladygaga
@maezistolol
@matzzzz
okare we all gonna die(God forbid) frm this disease hey, unless of course if o abstaina
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Ramatlhale
@spekepekeThe next thing ga o trapa selo for go robala mazweni ba re o stlhakanatlhogo en jy gaan tronk toe. so wat moet ons nou doen? Ek wiity jou basadi ba,ba ka se fetse go dissapeara jy sal sien.
@ladygaga
Haaahaa!! tone down maybe, not completely nka gafa jong. I am officially on the hunt for a good looking, humble, god-fearing preferably fresh from binneplaas & inexperienced mo banneng girl; ke lapile ke banyana ba diteki. nooo man!!!
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@maezizstoHayi wena don't tell me de rubbish tse tshwanang le Lady Gaga mdidwakhe
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clivagehahahahahaha ! no my dear will call u when i'm at the Bar
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@spekehahahah hayi dont call wen u at de bar call tomoro morning kena,nawe u knw wen u at de bar umsindo is to much ,pls say hi to mada fr me neeee
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Galfrend
Bye people........Clivvy and LG, later gals :)Report Abuse
Spekepeke
matzzzzzAs if le wena u can,,lol
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@Maezsisto----O di ba Meyara ya felo moo ?why o nroga mara he ? wa tseba ke engne ...........Sewapa sa tedu ya mmago le kokoago yena woo wa Sgidlawaar jou blahblah
jou gat !!!!
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sho mi frnd(_:Report Abuse
Hororo06
You need a good avdise contact Julius Malema and take it from there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Report Abuse
matzzzzz
LG n Spekienna ke ya abstainer shame n foreva will b...z been 4 years now abstaining
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nevus
Tsekle gona avatar(nevus) ya gona wa krea ele mama's boy e pila e dutsi konhlong the whole day e shebile ben10 le bana ba ko yona..bloddy di gossipa
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Tell me what do you want,heh heh?mara ka mnyakazo lebala ke mnyakazi a ke mnyakaziwa and ke nyakaza di-plat nkauza.Boy i am a proud mamas boy,even na namhlanje im thinking of going to my moms,she is always gonna be my mom and me will always be HOB(Her Only Boy),a se nna ke rileng o be uncles boy(wa tseba mos sephiri sela)
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Tsek
sephiri sa masepa whoeva told u thats just a lieReport Abuse
MORNACHIES
Le batho le diphiri matsatsi nyana a .......Report Abuse
Spekepeke
clivagearent u going home?
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Tsek
MORNACHIESLe batho le diphiri matsatsi nyana a .......
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voetsek maan y o rata goe tsunyatsunya naa?????
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nevus
tell me what gore o ngwana malome wago!plus lona lost and found le jana almekaar.Report Abuse
vuvulite
bheki'ndaba zakho. even though you feel guilty and torn about what to do.... it could get messy and you dont wanna be caught in the middle.Report Abuse
maezizsto
Mornashit-Bona mo wena ngwana wa nyatsi a ke thaka ya rrago o sa le a go tshabelaka baka la bofebe ba mmago jou ma se stinking plaat gatReport Abuse
clivage
@spekenow dear buy...mwaaaa
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Sentle
Afternoon julle and nou maezizsto o reng o rogana ga kanakana?Report Abuse
Mthondosheshayo
SentleAfternoon julle and nou maezizsto o reng o rogana ga kanakana?
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Hello Sundani
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maezizstoMornashit-Bona mo wena ngwana wa nyatsi a ke thaka ya rrago o sa le a go tshabelaka baka la bofebe ba mmago jou ma se stinking plaat gat
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Tseba gore mmago ke mo tlogetse just because nne a tswile di SUKIRI a se sa
le monate .eish mara wena ke sa o rata ngwanaka ,mara o bolaya ke masepa moo
tokwaneng ya gago .......motete wa po.lo ya nyatsi ya mmago .bona moo wena Maezshit
oska tlo ntlwaela lerete la mpsya ke wena .......@Tsek --you are also involved on all this
sfebe sa ngwana ke wena !!!!
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nevus
roga ntja boy kwala beke ka yona roga feeellaaa maan,or wa cha?tlala ka yona mshemaneReport Abuse
Sentle
@MthondoO ra Sundani wa Muvhango?
If o ra yena know gore i love her with a passion.O tshwana le Akhona, she's the reason why i watch generations because Mashaba ga a sale gona.
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Mthondosheshayo
@Sentle I do no watch Gayneration yes keraya Sundi ,hey mubi loya cherry kare ke Lady Gaga hakaka ko toiletReport Abuse
Sentle
Haai, TWESA ashi yona moerrrReport Abuse
Tonyoki
Spill the beans...Report Abuse
Spekepeke
Sentlehi
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Sentle
@MthondoLady Gaga o montle tlhe.
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Mthondosheshayo
@Sentle hehehehe Lady Gaga unotshwana le ShashiReport Abuse
Sentle
@SperkyHello handsome
@Mthondo
I see Sundi in me you know.I like it whe she calles Chief Azwindini BABY, gape o lapisitswe ke go bitsiwa monna wanga
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Spekepeke
Sentlemiss u , y cam late so
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Mthondosheshayo
@Sentle so you call your man baby ?Report Abuse
Ms.Sebotse
Write down the reasons for telling her and the reasons for not telling and compare then make the better decision looking at ur reasonsReport Abuse
Mvelo
is this a Sis Dolly column? Do what is right, do what your heart tells you...I don think this was supposed to make news really!Report Abuse
Zinoms
@FOKOFPLISIEKARI THINK ITS TRUE WHT UR SAYING ... I THINK SHE MUST JUST STAYY DE HELL AWY ..
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candicebabe
hmmmmm...If this was my KID sister .. I will investigate the matter and if it is true definately telling her. Its not a matter of mandling in their affairs but I wouldn't want her to catch any deseases from someone if there are rumours that he impregnant girls.having to choose between her funeral and me telling her I will feel obliged as a sister to tell her if the rumours are true as said I will investigate first ... it will be her decicion & if she decides to stay its her choice ....
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GOODGIRLGONEBAD
I agree with mommac.dont say anything i mean she wont know you knew right?mina my cousins boyfriend macde a move on me....told him to f*CK OFF or else and he did....but i never told my cousin about as she was so deeply in love. i wasnt about to be the reason for their break up.Report Abuse
GreatMan
Sister please!!!! learn to mind your own business.Report Abuse
BinoBanga
That is none of your business!!Report Abuse
Bojangles
Only if you are planning to marry your sister, or have somebody 'good' already contracted. Otherwise, do as Kuch says, 'stay the hell out of it...', and I will say, 'get a life.' But what if, and that is a WHAT IF, your sister were to ask you one day, 'when did you know, and why didn't you tell me (in other words what did you do with that knowledge), you must have a good answer.I had to make such a decision in two places, in one it helped a friend of mine through an (anonymous tip, through a still unidentified third party) find out that the child his wife was having was that of his garden boy! And in another, case, I ask both friends to take their business away from my presence, so that I was not a 'scapegoat' or knowledgeable about their shenanigans.
However, they soon were caught red handed in the fellas house when his 'mistress' who was a close friend of the wife, went to spent a night over. My lounge-lizard was full exposed at his house when he failed to keep his 'pressure' and slithered into the 'guest bedroom' soon after wife left for work, but failed to remember that his daughters were off from school that Monday.
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