Fri May 24 06:54:38 SAST 2013
Fri May 24 06:54:38 SAST 2013

'Please help bury my child'

Jan 31, 2012 | Boitumelo Tshehle | 17 comments

IT'S been almost seven days since Nothini Pholoholo's baby girl died from respiratory problems, yet her body is still at the morgue because the family cannot afford to bury her.

IN NEED: NOTHINI PHOLOHOLO

The distraught and visibly distressed mother said her daughter, the youngest of her four children, has yet to receive her final farewell, because the family is having tremendous difficulties to pay for burial expenses.

"I am a single mother. I do not even have money to pay the mortuary," she said.

Pholoholo said the mortuary has requested a payment of R1000 for the release of the body or she will have to pay a storage fee.

The undertaker, she said, was not sympathetic towards her. He told her that she must "hurry with the payment as the area used for storage does not belong to her".

"I don't know where else to turn," Pholoholo said.

She will also need more money for the coffin and funeral arrangements.

She said the undertaker had urged her to try to get her daughter buried by Sunday.

"I appeal for help to bury my daughter ... anything that anyone can give me," she said.

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Fri May 24 06:54:38 SAST 2013 ::
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Jan 31, 2012

mothouto

You are a single mother, where is the father?
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Jan 31, 2012

Pabi

i understand your frustration but where is the father of the deceased? he must make a plan and Nothini le wena bana ba ba 4 without a burial society no ausi do something about your life.
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Jan 31, 2012

CrimsonRed

sad the baby died but if you cant afford the funeral expenses how were you expecting to feed or clothe the baby? How were you going to educate the child? Stupid woman having children she cant afford to raise. The children of these selfish women suffer.

But I suppose the 5 million tax payers will have to pay for the 20 million lazy, breeding poor peolple.


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Jan 31, 2012

SexyAngel

Why would you allow yourself to have so many children when you knew you can't afford them? What happened to the man/men that fathered those kids and why no help from him/them?

And now you want us to help you, when you dug your own grave - go out and find yourself a job (even if you have to do laudry for your peers) and stop breeding, STUPID WOMAN!!!!!
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Jan 31, 2012

Naivegirl

How sad! I can't even imagine losing a child. How on earth do you cope with the thought that your little angel is in a fridge somewhere and you can't bury her??????

Is this a private mortuary or is it state owned? What is she going to do with the body after she paid the R1000.00?

Shame!!!!!
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Jan 31, 2012

FIFIKI

MARA LE WENA 4 children what happend to prevention or condoms, now you are stuck with this kind of situation, there are these cheap burial societies bo R50 or R30 per month, i think you are lazy and maybe this will be a lesson, and where are the fathers of these kids. I just feel for the child in the fridge because of her mother. PLEASE PLEASE stupid mother find yourself a job and stop asking help from us, we also have our own problems just like you (single mothers) mara we work so hard even if it has to be overtime just to provide and pay these kind of expenses, I dont feel sorry for you but for the deceased.nxa
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Jan 31, 2012

madamx

Bona clivava ya teng.
Nkare o batla goe papantsha!
Anyway sorry 4 ur loss my dear.
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Jan 31, 2012

Tshakule

It is easy to open legs but difficult to maintain the funeral of your baby......ag sies. Any way my the soul of little innocent child rest in peace.
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Jan 31, 2012

Raven

Bona clivava ya teng.
Nkare o batla goe papantsha!
Anyway sorry 4 ur loss my dear
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dead by clivava.kikikikikikiki.

am sorry for your loss Mama..
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Jan 31, 2012

Papage

We want to help, how do we help her, give us details, tomorrow it might be me. African women please learn to respect your bodies, just stop giving each and every man your bodies, they will leave you with kids and your body finished, be carefull, you are the last I am helping. just need your details.
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