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• EXTRICATE yourself from the psycho's life.

Don't call or e-mail and avoid his calls. Always check caller ID on your phone. Save all thee-mails and SMSes, but don't answer them. In a worst-case scenario, you'll have all the evidence you need for a court case. Most psychos or emotionally disturbed individuals will disappear if you refuse contact with them.

• Be cordial to the irrational party if you do encounter them and can't get out of it.

If you yell at them or admonish them, it will only make you seem like the psycho. Even if you're boiling inside, remain cool. Don't do or say anything that will give them ammunition against you.

• Act crazy.

If you pretend that you're crazier than him, this may scare him away. It's like that old adage - fight fire with fire. If he sees that you're a little psycho yourself, he won't want to deal with you and will probably want to dump you instead.

• Do a background check if the psychotic behaviour does not stop.

This will give you specifics that might cause the psycho to leave if he finds out you know about his past. If you know he lied to get his job or has skipped out on paying alimony, you will have a bargaining tool to use against him. But only use this information as a last resort.

• Move out of town. If all else fails, move to another city or a nearby suburb.

You don't have to run like you were the guilty party, but if you start a new life in a place that's hard for the psycho to find, you'll have time and energy to concentrate on your own life instead of figuring out how to dump the psycho.

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Jun 13, 2011

CutieCute

I had to deal with a psycho recently.........but he was never anything to me. just a guy i used to go to school with, and apparently always had a thing for me. he was telling me how i should dump my man for him(HA HA HA),.......becasue I'M HIS...!!!!!!!
he stays in the same location, and don't know exactly how he got my numbers. he would call me after mid-night, send me messages, leave a number of missed calls. i would swear at him,reply angrily to his messages, telling him to leave me alone, and that i will never love him and have never even liked him. that did not help. so i started avoiding his calls, any private numbers especially at night, and stopped replying to his messages. it's been more than a week, that i've not heard from him and i think my being quite on him is working. what's wrong with some people out there??????????????
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Jun 13, 2011

Memme

My Boyfrend does not want me to have male friends, I think he is psycho as well..
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Jun 13, 2011

Sandile84

I'll admit and say that I'm a jealous type of guy, but throwing my life away for a woman is definitely not a wise thing to do. I don't know why someone, with a nice job and a bright future, will throw their life away by stalking a woman or threaten her, risking going to jail. Some men kill their girlfriends or someone in a moment of passion because of a lack f emotional intelligence, that's understandable but unacceptable. But what's not understandable is why someone will spend hours and days and months planning to kill their girlfriends if she cheats on him or something.
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Jun 13, 2011

BigBoii

I dumped my Psyco girlfriend and she stalked me for almost a year......
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Jun 13, 2011

Princess2Adora

Its not dat easy 2 change things in ur life jst 2 mk da idiot feel like king!!!!! If he wants u,chances r he wil find out whr u r nd follow bt da only comforting feeling 4 da victim is wen she knws dis fool is behind bars or dead.......................................................Either dan den der is no way u moving on wit ur life,not dat easy!!!!!!
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Jun 13, 2011

nevus

the only way to dump a psycho is to kill it once and for all to be safe.kikikikiki
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Jun 13, 2011

SoopaMan

Memme why are u friends with men? Men wanna hit that. PERIOD!
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Jun 13, 2011

leShandis

@SoopaMan: ive just remembered a joke by CHris Rock that everywoman gets offered d1ck each and everyday, maybe sometimes they might not see it, but one way or another they were offered....it can be a pizza boy delivering pizza right up to corporate level
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Jun 13, 2011

Rakgadi-Tabeya

Mcxm - @Cutiecute - guess my story is more or less like yours. Nna stalker sa ka I don't even know who he is but I guess is someone who really knows me. He managed to get all my cell numbers and he call with private numbers and when I answer he keeps quiet - blo2dy coward. He send MMSes tse snaaks ka di number tse snaaks tse o ka se di foloweng. Ke mo etsa non-existent ka go ba silent then a stope for months....ke a bona ha a nnagana a thome again ......setse ke tlwaetse ha ke itene ka ena lllllooooooollllllllll
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Jun 13, 2011

KKK

memme

definetly not, you ladies cant be trusted with "male friends"
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