I have been dating a guy for three months.

We see each other once or twice a week and speak on the phone most days.

My friends have started suggesting that he probably has another girlfriend.

I have been quite happy until now, but they have made me doubt my boyfriend.

I have become a snoop. I go through his phone and Facebook page constantly.

This is really not like me. Please help.

Jelly, Kagiso

Unless you stop behaving in this manner, you will drive your boyfriend away.

I think he is spending enough time with you and you need to stop listening to your friends. They are just making mischief.

They don't call jealousy a green-eyed monster for nothing, it is one of the most destructive emotions. It will not only destroy your relationship but will also destroy you.

You have to stop snooping and take a step back.

You hardly know each other and you cannot possibly want him to give up his interests and friends.

Start shifting the focus back to yourself. Fill your life with the things that make you a happy person.