What an informative piece Mbuyiselo Botha wrote yesterday about culture. He must be reminded to include its brother tradition, both have to evolve and be adapted to life today.

The column also reminded one of the trend whereby if you bought a lady drinks, then she has to sleep with you.

The article was really food for thought as it encouraged men to have a platform to discuss such matters because the longer we keep quiet, the more we will be seen as complicit in the abuse and murder of women.

Sfanele Booi, Sunninghill