A few days ago, I watched a viral podcast of businesswoman and former government spokesperson, Lebo Pulumo Keswa, in which she spills the beans about her tumultuous marriage to actor and singer, Letoya Makhene.

As a starting point, I must say that it’s devastating when two people cannot make a marriage work. No one gets married to get divorced, but life happens even to the best of us and sometimes, ending a marriage is the best possible solution...