Speak to your husband first

MY HUSBAND went to a function held by the company he works for. When he came home he couldn't stop talking about "her".

MY HUSBAND went to a function held by the company he works for. When he came home he couldn't stop talking about "her".

From what he said it seemed to me that they are "too friendly". It seems they are great friends and I am worried. I don't know what to say to him without sounding as if I am jealous.

I also work with men but I don't encourage friendships with them. This is starting to drive me crazy. Am I unreasonable or stupid?

Worried, Germiston

It is quite normal to be friends with colleagues at work. Problems arise when the friendship turns into a sexual attraction.

Many people complain that they are jealous of the friendships that their partner has in the work place. It can often lead to mistrust. But, not all friends end up having affairs. Before your worries start interfering in your marriage, you need to speak to your husband.

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