Should I go or stay?

I am a single woman of 28. I have lived in Gauteng all my life and love it. I have a good job, a loving and supportive family and great friends.

I am a single woman of 28. I have lived in Gauteng all my life and love it. I have a good job, a loving and supportive family and great friends.

A year ago I met a man while I was on holiday in Cape Town. He is kind, caring, good-looking, successful, ambitious, supportive, loving - the perfect partner.

We have been travelling up and down to each other for months and it is becoming too much for us. He has a very good job with no chance of a transfer here. He wants me to move there and marry him. My company has agreed to give me a transfer at the same salary.

I am worried about leaving my family and friends. What if I don't like living there or he dumps me and I have no support system? What if I can't make new friends? Please advise me.

Reluctant Mover, Johannesburg

You are a lucky woman to have found a wonderful man and a good job at the same salary in one of the most beautiful cities in the world.

Stop fretting. Your folks and pals will visit you and you can visit them. You will make friends. Enjoy your life and good fortune. Say thank you for your many blessings.

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