A child is conceived by the union between a man and a woman. The child thus needs to bond physically and emotionally with both the mother and the father in order to be balanced. If one parent is missing, uninterested, passively or aggressively aloof, the child can seek to fill this void. This can manifest itself sexually.

A child is conceived by the union between a man and a woman. The child thus needs to bond physically and emotionally with both the mother and the father in order to be balanced. If one parent is missing, uninterested, passively or aggressively aloof, the child can seek to fill this void. This can manifest itself sexually.

When a boy misses a father figure, he receives only female bonding and can go on seeking to fill the void sexually with other males. He is seeking a father. Feminine behaviour can result from his fashioning himself around his mother or the women raising him. In the case of girls, lesbianism is sometimes the end result.

The reality is that there is a part of a gay man that may be identified as a woman (unconsciously) and if one sees oneself as a woman, that means one aspires to be a woman, and if one aspires to be anything, that means one worships that which one aspires to be. Does it sound cruel to say that part of the gay man is subconsciously idolising the female form? This explains why many a gay men are attracted to and will attract a woman of presence - because she is a leader. And because, since childhood he has been led by a woman or women, he will therefore become comfortable with it.

He further asserts that not many parents would relish the possibility that their children turn out to be homosexual. "Can you imagine one pregnant woman saying to another, while sentimentally stroking her stomach, 'John and I already have two heterosexuals, so we are hoping that this one is gay.' Maybe it's just me, but I don't see this scene playing out in the near or distant future." Trevor Yamba's article is published on theyuinon.com