Once again I am disappointed by your response. A guy asked you for advice about the situation with his girlfriend, but instead you just insulted him for no reason, calling him a selfish person.

Once again I am disappointed by your response. A guy asked you for advice about the situation with his girlfriend, but instead you just insulted him for no reason, calling him a selfish person.

He didn't understand and that is why he wrote to you. There are a lot of women out there who have given birth but they are not behaving like she is by losing interest in sex.

Disappointed, Johannesburg

If you don't like the responses, don't read the column. What is the point of setting yourself up for disappointment?

The column is titled Sister Sledgehammer because this sister provides advice that is hard hitting.

She is not interested in soothing egos and pretending the rough road is smooth. Telling it like it is is the way to go.

If you want the soft option, look elsewhere.