I have had feelings for a beautiful woman for four months now. I have told her that I fancy her, but each time she tells me that she does not feel the same way about me.

I have had feelings for a beautiful woman for four months now. I have told her that I fancy her, but each time she tells me that she does not feel the same way about me.

She says she just wants to be friends. The thing is she flirts with me whenever I see her. She touches me, gives me kisses and makes flirtatious comments.

Three weeks ago we went to a party together and I spent the evening observing her behaviour. She flirted with everyone, men and women, young and old.

So, it seems she is just a flirt. The thing is that I really fancy her. What should I do?

Falling, Soweto

Forget her and find a woman who deserves your love and attention - and leave the serial flirt to the suckers who can't see through her.