Exotic dancers are no doubt some of the best movers out there. This is the reason we often see so many men and women flocking to strip clubs to see them in action.

They know how to simulate steamy sex very well on stage, without the need for a bedroom, and many patrons picture themselves on the receiving end of their moves.

So when it comes to adding that extra spice to an otherwise insipid sex life, who better to give steamy sex tips than an exotic dancer himself? After all, they are gifted in the art of fulfilling the deepest sex fantasies, without doing the act.

Bafana Manake goes by the stage name of Black Magnet, and he is an exotic dancer who is used to women screaming his name in clubs across Johannesburg.

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The chiselled 33-year-old from KwaThema in the East Rand says being in the profession has made him somewhat of an expert in terms of what really drives women wild.

"The first thing that I would say is that a great physique is one of the main reasons why people have a fascination with what we do. When a well-toned body moves on stage, certain muscles that you didn't even know about pop up, which can be very visually appealing to both men and women.

"So my first point of advice would be to encourage anyone who would like to bring back the spark into their bedrooms to invest in shaping their bodies. Go to gym, exercise regularly and tone up," he says.

When it comes to getting frisky with your partner, Manake says we could take a page or two from their books and do the following:

Never underestimate the power of good fragrance. When you get close to your partner, have a scent that will drive their senses wild. This is not to say that one should douse themselves with cologne, but just ensure that you always smell clean and fresh.

Sex that is accompanied by music can be mind-blowing. Music adds a little something extra to the art of seduction, which is why exotic dancers don't just stand there on stage, but move to the beat.

Your music choice should be determined by your sexual mood. If you want to make slow, gentle love, you can play sexy R&B, but you can amp it up by playing hip-hop, which can make both partners let their aggressive side out.

You can stand on top of the side table and dance sexily for your partner wearing your birthday suit. You don't have to be an expert dancer, but just let the beat move you and maintain sexy eye contact. You can also grab a chair and perform a lap dance. Use your body to slowly slither around the chair like a sexy leopard, before you pounce on your partner and have great sex.

Honey, chocolate sauce, whipped cream, yoghurt and even custard are all sexy, sticky treats partners can smear all over each other, and give you an excuse to explore your partner's entire body by following the sweet trail and licking it off.

Manake advises couples to also visit strip clubs together and pick up on a move or two. When it comes to nerves and coyness, Manake says couples should leave it at the bedroom door.