SARAH and Andrew met in 1986. She lived at Bapong village near Brits in North West and he was a young cop at Mothutlong, between Brits and GaRankuwa.
"We dated for five years and the love between us kept growing all the time. In 1990 he paid ilobola. We had our children - Thato, now 25, and Ofentse, now 21 - before our white wedding in 1991.
"I miss him every minute. We miss him as a family because we planned everything together. Wherever we went, we were together.
"What we miss most is his presence, his jokes and the tasty meals he used to prepare for us."