I would like to respond to the letter by "Anonymous". I am puzzled.

I would like to respond to the letter by "Anonymous". I am puzzled.

I do not mean to judge anyone, but the way things are done are misleading. This young lady is so confused. She is doing a trial-and-error thing which would ultimately frustrate her due to her impulse. My advice to her is that she should sit down alone and pray, read the word of God and pray. Only God knows what is good for her. She is very young.

Who told her she can't get married later when she is ready?

I think she is being unnecessarily pressurised by her peers and people who get married everyday . She needs to focus on her studies and her spiritual being. In the long run she will find her true love. She must not rush things.

Mr T, Gauteng

Thank you for your letter.