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I am a 28-year-old guy and recently I met a woman and fell in love. She is very special and I love her with all my heart. She is the woman of my dreams and the future mother of my children. I want to marry her and be with her forever.
The problem is that before I met her I had a huge crush on another woman. For months I pursued and tried to romance her. She would flirt with me, but whenever it came to the crunch she would back off and tell me that she wasn't attracted to me.
Now that I have found myself someone special, the crush woman is suddenly interested. She phones me every day, sometimes a few times a day, and sends me SMSes all day long. She pops in at my work and suddenly I see her in the supermarket and local DVD store. She flirts with me more outrageously than ever and told me in an SMS yesterday that she made a mistake by rejecting me. She said she has fallen in love with me and wants me to be her man.
The thing is that I am no longer attracted to her. She is still beautiful and sexy, but nothing as wonderful as the woman I love. I want to marry my someone special and I don't want to do anything that will put our romance at risk.
The crush woman is just not backing off and I suspect I may have to get nasty to get rid of her.
Feeling Pressured, Johannesburg
I suggest you give the crush woman the boot, firmly. Tell her thanks, but no thanks. Tell her that her chance with you is gone, over and out.
Tell her to stop calling, to stop sending SMSes, to stop visiting and to stop hanging out at your local stores. Tell her to find someone new to play mind games with. Because that is what she does. She wants what she can't have and doesn't want the people who want her. She's a player. She's dangerous.
Tell her that you are cutting the ties with her and she had better respect your wishes. If she doesn't, tell her you will get a court order.
And tell your love that you are cutting ties with the crush woman so that she feels secure and sure that you love her.