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Seven weeks ago my boyfriend of 19 months dumped me. I am 19 and he is 23. He was my first serious relationship.
Six months into our relationship he cheated on me. He confessed and promised it would not happen again.
But I just couldn't forget that he had hurt me and lied to me. I would be fine for a few days but then I would start crying and ask him if he was really sure he would be mine for ever, and so on and so on.
We would fight, he would be sweet and loving and everything would be fine for a while. But as the months went on he became irritated. He ignored me and didn't reassure me of his love.
I suppose I could see the break-up coming but I did not want to face reality. When he finally dumped me it was almost a relief because the waiting was over.
He was not kind about ditching me. He said I had become a jealous, unpleasant nag, that I had eroded his love for me with my nagging and insecurity.
Two days after we broke up I saw him in a mall, holding hands with the woman whom he had had the affair with.
I am trying to get over him but I love him with all my heart and want to devote my life to him. He refuses to see me and won't take my calls or answer my SMSes. What should I do?
Sister, the harsh facts are this: your ex-boyfriend is no longer interested in you and you have to move on. Never forget that he cheated on you right in the beginning.
How much time, emotion and energy are you going to waste on a cheat and a liar who dumped you?
Accept that he's gone and move on. If not, you will damage your chances of healing and finding the right man.