I met a wonderful man three weeks ago and we've spent a lot of time together, thinking we had something special.

I met a wonderful man three weeks ago and we've spent a lot of time together, thinking we had something special.

When we met he had the most beautiful dreads and that was a huge part of his physical appeal for me.

Last weekend he cut them off. He has a very, very short, shaved style and it looks terrible.

When he asked what I thought, I lied and mumbled that it looked okay. Every time I look at him, all I can see is a bald head.

He is a sweet and caring person, but physical appeal is very important to me, and it is no longer there.

Hair Fanatic, Johannesburg

Sister, shame on you. Shame that your being attracted to a man is based on how he looks rather than how he lives and behaves. Do you think he loves everything about you?

A healthy and loving relationship is based on how you connect with and treat each other rather than how much physical appeal you think the other should have.

Go find your perfect hunk and see how you feel when every woman desires him.