I was with my boyfriend for two years. Although he always said he loved me, I never met his family. He met my family and they thought he was wonderful.
We never spent much time together and only saw each other every second weekend. He said he wasn't ready for me to meet his family and friends.
I started to complain about this and we broke up. He then turned around and said he never loved me and I wasn't good enough to meet his family. He said I was just rubbish. This happened six months ago, but I am still angry about the way he treated me.
How can a person's feelings change so suddenly?
I really loved him and even if he never loved me, I cannot understand why he would choose to be so cruel.
How can I forget him? I don't think I will ever love or trust a man again.
You have been treated very badly and it is understandable that you are so angry with him. There are a few questions you must ask yourself so that you can find closure in this relationship.
Do you really treat someone you love in this manner? Tell them that you love them and then insult them?
He has behaved in a cruel and immature way. Could you trust someone like him? Even though he said such awful things to you, aren't you lucky that you saw him as he really is?
The positive thing about this experience is that you have learnt valuable life lessons.
You will love and trust a man again but perhaps next time you will be a bit more careful and know what sort of person you are prepared to accept into your life. You will look for someone who is not secretive, but open and Ihonest.