Open letter to South Africa’s students‚ universities and government‚ represented by Minister in the .
I need help. I am 17 years old and I haven't been in love yet. I keep asking myself what is wrong with me. Every time I look at myself in the mirror, I think I look fine. I was in a relationship with a girl but she dumped me for no reason.
What is it with you young people who want to rush into love before you have even finished your childhood and teen years?
Love is a serious thing and is not something anyone should rush into.
I have no doubt there is nothing wrong with how you look. I do however worry about how you feel. Why do you think the only way you can be validated is by being in a relationship?
Why not discover who you really are and what you really want for yourself and your future and in a relationship before worrying about romance.
The more confident and secure you are, the more appealing you will be. The more ambitious and certain you are about your future, the more girls will see you as the ideal kind of guy.
As for the girl who dumped you, well, wake up to the real world. It happens every day. It happens to every person. It is part of life. Get over it. And, I doubt she dumped you for no reason. Did she find someone else? Did you push her away? Were you too needy? Were you pushing her for sex? Take a look at yourself.