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Playing the field is a whole lot of fun, but so is being in a serious relationship - provided that it's with the right woman. But how do you know if she really is the right woman for you? If she possesses the following 10 traits, you better hold on to her for dear life before another guy gets his hands on your "goods".
No 10: She's independent
No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit all the time. Once in a while, like if she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can't seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating.
But if she has her own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you then she must be a great girlfriend.
No 9: She's intelligent
Bimbos are a tall task. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on. Instead of being the one in total control, you'll find yourself trying to figure out what she's thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored of her. Besides, it's nice to have something to talk about between all that chandelier-hanging sex.
No 8: She's sexual
A great girlfriend has to be sexually compatible with you. For instance, if you're into S&M and she's more the "fluffy lingerie" type, that's a problem. The two of you should be willing to meet each other you halfway.
This doesn't imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction towards each other, and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues).
No 7: She's beautiful
A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. She should always look her best and be well put together - matching lingerie is a definite plus.
You have to be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Naomi Campbell. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you think her full bottom or uncontrollable curls are beautiful, you're allowed.
No 6: She respects you
This is a biggie. Your woman must respect you. She listens to you, even if she doesn't agree with what you're saying. And she never tries to demean or belittle you in any way, shape, or form.
A great girlfriend won't ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If she respects you, chances are that she will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations. Does your woman bring you and the guys beer on soccer night?
No 5: She let's you be a man
Do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up soccer night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all.
She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her.
No 4: She's nagless
There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak up and when to let it slide. You don't want a girlfriend who will give you hell for leaving a couple of dishes in the sink occasionally. However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you're setting yourself up for disaster.
No 3: She gets along with friends & family
A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your dad's stories, and hang out with your friends, she will enjoy it. She'll make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in your life.
She'll empathise with your brother's getting dumped and suggest that you guys take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).
No 2: She loves you
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should hang on to her. A woman who doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Everyone has slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she loves you, she will be able to cope with these.
Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you doesn't seem to faze her either way, and she doesn't really seem to care about what you have to say, she's either playing very hard to get, or sees you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there's no denying that she loves you.
No 1: She makes you want to be a better man
Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say or do anything; it just is that way. So, if this list describes your current flame, you, my friend, are styling.
You're probably the envy of all of your friends, even if they tease you for losing your status as "king player". - askmen.com