My boyfriend of three years dumped me 18 months ago for another woman.

My boyfriend of three years dumped me 18 months ago for another woman.

Now he's dumped her and we are seeing each other again. The sex is great and he says he loves me and wants to make it work this time around.

I love him very much and I want to be with him forever. Should I trust him?

Wary, Soweto

Sister, slow down and take it easy. Don't throw yourself into dreams of a future with this man until he proves that he really can do it.

If you rush into this and he dumps you again, you will only have yourself to blame.

There is nothing more stupid than being duped because you are desperate for love, again and again.