I am a married woman with three beautiful daughters. I love my husband, but I have a problem when it comes to making love.

I am a married woman with three beautiful daughters. I love my husband, but I have a problem when it comes to making love.

He has a small penis and most of the time I do not reach orgasm, while he enjoys sex every time. I have reached a stage where I try to avoid making love. How can I resolve this? Please help.

Anonymous, Gauteng

Sister, sister, sister. Who on earth told you that sexual satisfaction depends on the size of a male member? That has very little to do with it.

It is about being comfortable with your bodies and with one another, and being comfortable enough to tell your partner what does and does not turn you on.

Tell him what you want or he will continue to get it wrong.