Please be fair to everyone. I recall that there was a woman who complained to you about a guy who was seeing his ex.

You told her that he was playing around with her feelings but recently you supported a woman who was doing the same thing.

Please do not use your gender to answer letters. That does not help. You are promoting the idea that women may do wrong while men are fools. Please do not do this.

Concerned, Diepkloof

Thank you for your letter. As I have said before, there is no way I can please all of the people all of the time. Some will agree with my advice, and others will disagree.

If you feel motivated to write in every time you disagree, you are going to be kept very busy.

The best any person can do is to give advice that is fair and without bias. Each letter and circumstance is dealt with individually and without bias about gender, age, race, financial status, etc.