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Child support claim rankles sperm donor to lesbian couple

By REUTERS | 2013-01-03 09:57:44.0 | COMMENTS [ 48 ]

A Kansas man who donated sperm to a lesbian couple so they could have a child said he is shocked the state is now trying to make him pay child support.

William Marotta, 46, donated sperm to Jennifer Schreiner and Angela Bauer under a written agreement that he would not be considered the father of the child nor liable for child support.

A daughter, now 3, was born to Schreiner.

But in October, the state of Kansas filed a petition seeking to have Marotta declared the father of the child and financially responsible for her after the couple encountered money difficulties.

Marotta will ask the court in a hearing Jan. 8 to dismiss the claim, which centers on a state law that the sperm must be donated through a licensed physician in order for the father to be free of any later financial obligations. Marotta gave a container of semen to the couple, who found him on Craigslist, instead of donating through a doctor or clinic.

The case is seen as having repercussions for other sperm donors. Sperm banks routinely provide sperm to people who want to conceive a child on the understanding that the donors are not responsible for the children.

Kansas is seeking child support from Marotta, including about $6000 in medical expenses related to the child’s birth, according to its petition.

“This was totally unexpected,” Marotta said in a phone interview. “The very first thing that went through my mind was that no good deed goes unpunished.”

The case has attracted national attention. Shannon Minter, legal director for the National Center for Lesbian Rights, said Wednesday “it is unfortunate and unfair” that Kansas is seeking money from a sperm donor.

“It certainly might have a negative effect on other men’s willingness to help couples who need a donor, which would be harmful to everyone,” Minter said.

“I also think it undermines everyone’s respect for the law when you see it operate so arbitrarily.”

Kansas officials are required under the law to determine the father of a child when someone seeks state benefits, said Angela de Rocha, spokeswoman for the Department for Children and Families. The couple was compelled to provide that information, which led to investigation of the sperm donation.

Marotta should be declared the father and subject to financial claims because he donated the sperm directly to the women and not through a physician, as required by Kansas law, the state’s petition states.

Marotta said he’s had virtually no contact with the child, but that he and Schreiner have remained cordial. He said she was pressured by the state to provide his name as the sperm donor.

“To me, ethics need to override rules,” he said.

Lawyers for Marotta argue that he had no parental rights because of his agreement with the couple and cannot be held financially responsible.

They cite a 2007 case in which the Kansas Supreme Court ruled against a sperm donor seeking parental rights because he did not have any such agreement with the mother, lawyers for Marotta said.

“So now, we are flipping the argument around,” Marotta attorney Ben Swinnen said Wednesday.

If the father had no legal parental rights in the 2007 case, Marotta should be declared to have no parental obligations in the current case, Swinnen said.

Marotta, a race car mechanic, responded to an ad on Craigslist from someone offering to pay $50 for sperm donations, but he made the donation for free. Marotta said he and his wife have no children of their own but have fostered a daughter.

Marotta said he was simply trying to help a couple wanting a child.


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Nothing is 'happening' to me. I've never been a big fan of bigotry.

2013-01-04 13:14:40.0 | 0 replies

It is para not cute to make yourself such an idiot. You probable read the article upside down. Parachute yourself out of here. You hold the moemish title my man.

2013-01-03 12:43:46.0 | 0 replies


You cannot possibly be so ignorant!

2013-01-03 12:41:50.0 | 0 replies

God made sure that where we insert our p.enis, must be clean and sensitive and produce only liquid, so as our p.enises, because we insert them inside v.aginas, they too must only produce water, now some evil, satan worshiping individuals decide that they will make their own evil ways and insert their things where sh!t comes out! and you all think they are normal?

2013-01-03 12:38:43.0 | 0 replies


When you find that you motormouth has dug you into a hole - stop digging

2013-01-03 12:32:37.0 | 0 replies


Same sex marriages are satanic? Please tell me more about the rate of heterosexual divorces
heterosexual people dont go arround buying sperms like you buying tomatoes at a street venda, and using wrong body organs that are not meant for sex to have sex! this is all the devil

2013-01-03 12:32:29.0 | 0 replies


Same sex marriages are satanic? Please tell me more about the rate of heterosexual divorces!

2013-01-03 12:27:08.0 | 0 replies

blocking our comments or not, I'm saying to you all that these people knew each other before, who knows they were once lovers before they pissed each other off and she decided to go gay line where they both agreed to the guy donating for her new relationship for she might have wanted his child so badly. and it is not that simple to just do the artificial insemination once and booh! positive result they might have tried the direct way so the other partner would just think it was through that artificial insemination.

2013-01-03 12:22:14.0 | 0 replies

oh gosh
Hei mara mazulu Oh Gosh!!!

2013-01-03 12:10:28.0 | 0 replies


You know, it is only the third day of the year and I'm already wishing for an exorsist to come get rid of you

2013-01-03 12:06:22.0 | 0 replies



2013-01-03 11:56:44.0 | 0 replies