maneater

Haai logogo naye, usajola wenzani uguge kangaka???
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nkwahh

Dont people check their marital satus before gettin married? Come on people this is SA,many lies and dishonesty here, go check him before you involve urself into polygamy without knowing,.Sorry madam.
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ngutha

only in LIMPOPO
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RobinH

But JZ has more wives. What's the problem here. It's highly fasionable to be a polygamist. Just in case anyone thinks I'm being serious, I am not,
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somaartakeit

LoL now she must know how the public feel about being betrayed by gov officials time after time,
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DJ-Winner

RobinH
But JZ has more wives. What's the problem here. It's highly fasionable to be a polygamist. Just in case anyone thinks I'm being serious, I am not,
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You need to learn about culture. Although the culture allows the guy to marry as many wives as he can, but he can only marry one wife in church (the first wife). The following weddings will only be traditional ceremonies...
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Kaylae

I only say ignorance can lead to such dissapointments,before agreeing to marry someone you must do a thorough background check hence many artist have sung "take time to know him".I am one inquisitive person and I dig until I am satisfied.

This Mabasa guy just sounds like Keith who married Sophy Ndaba he saw an opportunity and he grabbed it sick enough his wife is also in it NXA

Mamaza u zo ba strong nawe yekela u ku gijimisa umshado
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MGEEZ

But; this is what you get in a country where the state president is a polygamist!!!
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DJ-Winner

MGEEZ
But; this is what you get in a country where the state president is a polygamist!!!
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But you don't understand how polygamy works. I thought I addressed this issue with my comment above. Why cant people read?
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LAC

@DJ-Winner....LOL
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Goldstone

This have nothing to do with President Zuma
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mafungwashe

even adults make mistakes
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guiliano

What happened to "take time to know him"?
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MicaParis

At a certain stage in my life I happened to politically work very close to her, they had been together for sometime, I noticed a certain message in her cellphone I jokingly told her that his husband is playing her as I thought they were married! I noticed something like a ''high school'' lies and behavior, as an adult I knew this was not taking them anywhere!
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Tikoloshe

...What a funny start to the week Limpopo. and an MEC to boot!!!!

She should have seen from his name; Shadi Mabasa!!!

You guys keep us entertained here in Mzansi with all the funny things written about you Pedi's and Lemba's!!! Thanks guys!!


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maditaba

@DJ-Winner. U must also learn about culture. getting married at church is not part of the culture.
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RobinH

DJWinner: I do not NEED TO LEARN about culture at all. Because a particular cultural practice is completely out of kilter with the rest of the world I simply will not accept it at the demand of dinosaurs.

Besides, the issue here is really the utter gullibility of soomeone who is an MEC. But then this is par for the course, in your book, I guess.

Maditaba: DJ uses the culture card only when it suits him. A trifle confused.
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DJ-Winner

maditaba
@DJ-Winner. U must also learn about culture. getting married at church is not part of the culture.
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Did I say it is a part of the culture? Read my comment again and try to understand it...
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DJ-Winner

RobinH
DJWinner: I do not NEED TO LEARN about culture at all. Because a particular cultural practice is completely out of kilter with the rest of the world I simply will not accept it at the demand of dinosaurs.

Besides, the issue here is really the utter gullibility of soomeone who is an MEC. But then this is par for the course, in your book, I guess.
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Well, then don't talk about it. How can you talk about something you don't know and not willing to learn about?
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MGEEZ

DJ-Winner
MGEEZ
But; this is what you get in a country where the state president is a polygamist!!!
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But you don't understand how polygamy works. I thought I addressed this issue with my comment above. Why cant people read?
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Haybo; I understand how polygamy works; but that is not even the point here. For example the MEC was not made aware that this business person was married, which is a requirement for you to marry more than one wife. the person whom you are marrying to should not be married under false pretense as is the case here!!!
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DJ-Winner

MGEEZ
DJ-Winner
MGEEZ
But; this is what you get in a country where the state president is a polygamist!!!
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But you don't understand how polygamy works. I thought I addressed this issue with my comment above. Why cant people read?
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Haybo; I understand how polygamy works; but that is not even the point here. For example the MEC was not made aware that this business person was married, which is a requirement for you to marry more than one wife. the person whom you are marrying to should not be married under false pretense as is the case here!!!
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But you are blaming this on Zuma for being a polygamist. I was also asking myself why did you make that point....
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ndhandhazi

The president is not the only polygamist in South Africa. Your grand father was a polygamist . Check your history. It is a ZULU tradition, actually it is an African tradition.
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Kaylae

ndhandhazi
The president is not the only polygamist in South Africa. Your grand father was a polygamist . Check your history. It is a ZULU tradition, actually it is an African tradition.
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True that but he stands out cause of his leadership in the country and costing us more tax money.Thomas Chauke(Tsonga Musician)has lots of wives but maintains them from his hard earned cash,same as others.People these days use tradition when it suits them.Zuma must just differentiate between being a King and being a president state money cannot service 5 wives and 20 something kids tjeeer that's alot
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RobinH

DJW: HELLO! A BIT SLOW TODAY ARE WE? I don't need to learn that stuff, because, believe it or not, I do have a working knowledge of such things and find many of the practices no longer to have any relevance. Because I don't accept something does NOT mean I know nothing about it. That's more your territory.
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somaartakeit

@DJ-Winner
RobinH
But JZ has more wives. What's the problem here. It's highly fasionable to be a polygamist. Just in case anyone thinks I'm being serious, I am not,
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You need to learn about culture.
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There's NOTHING to learn from regressing cultures besides zuma only exploits culture cause as a polygamist and as his culture demands that a man must support his family zuma failed, that's why Kate Zuma tanked herself, she wrote how zuma as a man failed her. So don't come here and claim what zuma is doing is culture or you must emphasise whose culture is he practicing cause he ain't practicing mine, maybe yours.
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MGEEZ

@DJ-Winner
MGEEZ
But you are blaming this on Zuma for being a polygamist. I was also asking myself why did you make that point....
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Correct; I am blaming it on Zuma; because as a leader his actions inspire a lot of people in this country whether rightly or wrongly!!! Hence i said; what do you expect in a country where a president is a polygamist!!!
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DJ-Winner

RobinH
DJW: HELLO! A BIT SLOW TODAY ARE WE? I don't need to learn that stuff, because, believe it or not, I do have a working knowledge of such things and find many of the practices no longer to have any relevance. Because I don't accept something does NOT mean I know nothing about it. That's more your territory.
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But you are giving people wrong information about it. I'm still asking how can you talk about something you don't know?

Whether it is relevant or not, it is not for you to decide. Zulus believe that it is still relevant, it is their culture, not yours.
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DJ-Winner

somaartakeit
@DJ-Winner
RobinH
But JZ has more wives. What's the problem here. It's highly fasionable to be a polygamist. Just in case anyone thinks I'm being serious, I am not,
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You need to learn about culture.
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There's NOTHING to learn from regressing cultures besides zuma only exploits culture cause as a polygamist and as his culture demands that a man must support his family zuma failed, that's why Kate Zuma tanked herself, she wrote how zuma as a man failed her. So don't come here and claim what zuma is doing is culture or you must emphasise whose culture is he practicing cause he ain't practicing mine, maybe yours.
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Well then don't talk about it if you don't want to learn about it. I don't know if Zuma failed or not and I don't care. What I know is that there is a lot of people in my home area who have not failed. The culture is working for them and they are happy. I'm happy as well seeing poeple promoting the culture, especially as it is going extinct. This is our culture and we must preserve it for our future generations.
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MGEEZ
@DJ-Winner
MGEEZ
But you are blaming this on Zuma for being a polygamist. I was also asking myself why did you make that point....
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Correct; I am blaming it on Zuma; because as a leader his actions inspire a lot of people in this country whether rightly or wrongly!!! Hence i said; what do you expect in a country where a president is a polygamist!!!
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But this is not exactly what Zuma did. Zuma did it the right way. We cannot blame Zuma in this case...
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TheMothos

...and she is Public Works MEC? Now she must learn how Public Works...lmfao. Im so embarassed to be a Limpopoean
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Zulumacansi

I thought these these things were only happening to us ordinary people and not to Ministers, MEC's and the other top shayelas. Maybe the MEC wat too busy to do a background check on the loverboy.
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somaartakeit

@DJ-Winner
somaartakeit
@DJ-Winner
RobinH

"Well then don't talk about it if you don't want to learn about it"

I'd very much love not never speak about it, but problem is I am paying for it with my tax, so don't tell me to not talk/evaluate worthiness or lack thereof of what my tax is used for cause then I dont' have to call you ignorant. The ordinary folks in you region who are happy and successful with it are practicing it nice and quietly in the privacy of their homes and such is not sponsored by tax payers so I have nothing to 'talk' about iro that.
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somaartakeit
@DJ-Winner
somaartakeit
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RobinH

"Well then don't talk about it if you don't want to learn about it"

I'd very much love not never speak about it, but problem is I am paying for it with my tax, so don't tell me to not talk/evaluate worthiness or lack thereof of what my tax is used for cause then I dont' have to call you ignorant. The ordinary folks in you region who are happy and successful with it are practicing it nice and quietly in the privacy of their homes and such is not sponsored by tax payers so I have nothing to 'talk' about iro that.
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It is not a crime that Zuma is a polygamists. Go to court and try lay charges for it, believe you me, you will come back with a long face.

Majority of SA people voted for ANC and Zuma to be the President of the country. If they are not happy with the way their tax money is spent, they must vote for someone else. The majority is not complaining, they see the necessity of the cultural practice.
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RobinH

DJ; The majority voted for the ANC. The ANC placed Zuma. But what has that to do with anything, if the majority choose to jump over a cliff, are you going to follow suit, good little sheep that you are?
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Ubufebe

Will the reall slim shady please stand up? hehehehehehe
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Mellow

Shame poor gogo uzoba strong but really is this what they call head over heels? Did she forget to do background check on him before walking down the aisle, He lied about his age, wife, family, life alles was he ever real with her? People lies all the time makes promises only to surprise you wake up voila honey am married shame iyoo, I bet he promised her to take her to Paris as well
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RobinH
DJ; The majority voted for the ANC. The ANC placed Zuma. But what has that to do with anything, if the majority choose to jump over a cliff, are you going to follow suit, good little sheep that you are?
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It has to do with everything because @somaartakeit is whining about tax. I'm saying the majority is not complaining, they see the necessity of the cultural practice. Maybe if you learn about it, you will also see the necessity.

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RobinH

DJ. Am I somaar? Why take issue with me over something someone else said. The majority are welcome to their obsolete practices. It doesn't mean I need to accept them. Are we aiming at a bunch of same-thinking clones? How dull?
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candilious

somaartakeit
LoL now she must know how the public feel about being betrayed by gov officials time after time,
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Hi there well said


@MGEEZ-Lol
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MGEEZ

In any case how do you mistake a 35 year old for a 47 year old? Either the MEC was desperate to get married or something is amiss in this story. how do you turn a tombstone unveiling ceremony to be a lobola negotiations and a wedding ceremony????? Good reporting would assist us in our debate; as things stands now, this story does not really make much sense!!!
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NeoBaBe

Ubeth wenzani umadala bakith! Usahlala nama inlaws akhe.. akaphume umuzi wakhe n her children!
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe

Eish!it's me who want older mistress 45 to 55 just to rejuvenate her by making her feel like a teen again.
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RobinH
DJ. Am I somaar? Why take issue with me over something someone else said. The majority are welcome to their obsolete practices. It doesn't mean I need to accept them. Are we aiming at a bunch of same-thinking clones? How dull?
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Well, your comment was a continuation of @somaartakeit's comment. That is why I included her name in my previous comment. How can you accept or reject something you don't even understand?
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Hosh6

RobinH
DJ Oh bullsh!t.
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Why are you swearing grandpa?

It is expensive to marry as an African man....R70k to pay for someone to be your wife
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malemaforpresident

The whole MEC?,Haaai Thabitha la swabisha le tsofetse maaaan
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RobinH

Ai. The moderator consistently removes my "explanation" for my so-called swearing. I give up trying.
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Ngwedane

RobinH
somaartakeit
You two I don't know on what kind of a pipe you smoking because Zuma had more than 1 wife before he became a president and you were happy with that now you are not happy. You must just remember that Pres Zuma has a salary also.
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RobinH

Ngwedane: With respect. I have NEVER been happy with our leader's polygamy. Where on earth did you come up with that nonsense. I am perfectly aware of the sad facta that he draws an exorbitant salary, but pray enlighten us as to what relevance his salary has to this. I contend that you are the one smoking mysterious substances.
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Ngwedane

RobinH
Ngwedane: With respect. I have NEVER been happy with our leader's polygamy. Where on earth did you come up with that nonsense. I am perfectly aware of the sad facta that he draws an exorbitant salary, but pray enlighten us as to what relevance his salary has to this. I contend that you are the one smoking mysterious substances.
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The problem with you is that you have no respect for African cultures thats why you call it nonsense, polygamy has been with us indiginious africans for centuries and we have been doing fine with it. Whether one marry one wife or ten wives has got absolutely nothing to do with you. If the parties involved are happy with it I don't see the reason why you must blame it. You just need to take your nose out where it doesn't belong.
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RobinH

Ngwedane: If that rather presumptious belief suits you, then so be it. I am not going to bother talking to someone who makes such absurd assumptions about me familiarity with traditional culture. Because I do not espouse them DOES NOT MEAN i know nothing about them. Such an assertion is just completely devoid of logic, so really, you may rot in your opinionated silliness. I will not lower myself to your level of discussion.
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Ngwedane

RobinH
Ngwedane: If that rather presumptious belief suits you, then so be it. I am not going to bother talking to someone who makes such absurd assumptions about me familiarity with traditional culture. Because I do not espouse them DOES NOT MEAN i know nothing about them. Such an assertion is just completely devoid of logic, so really, you may rot in your opinionated silliness. I will not lower myself to your level of discussion.
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You still disrespecting our culture by saying i must rot in my opinionated silliness, let me tell you one thing your grandfathers during apartheid failed to get rid of this culture and you will not win this one. Thats why you will be controlled by your wife your entire life.
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Mosquer

H@i. m@maz@la o o rat@ d!lo. o s.a berek@ ka di surpr!se eb!le le mo.tho wa gon@ a s.a m.o tsebele
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mmamajoyi

lolling!!!!!!
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African2dcore

isn't this guy south african? i thought it was only foreigners, in particular nigerians, who do stuff like this...hello u african hating bloggers on this site!
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