GENERATIONS actress Sophie Ndaba discarded her hubby Bishop Keith Harrington because she feared the "gun-toting" man of the cloth would blow her brains out after he accused her of cheating on several occasions.
you are better off without the basturd gal Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
truthhurt
I wonder if Sophie is enjoying this publicity and invasion of her private life, personaly i feel the media has gone to deep into her lingerie drawer. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
tpaz
Lesson No1. - KNOW YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE/PUBLICITY Report Abuse
LoL some women love drama in their lives, what the hell, let the comedy roll on, cause really Sophie you knew that this man is not all that? so what's the problem now when he is unraveling himself? Hayi man please nawe. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
DJWinner
maneater
haai queen! khiphizandla lapho emathangeni!!
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You have no idea of the heat coming out of that area. I wish those were my hands. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
BaleliM
Sad to be betrayed in such a manner. It will soon be water under the bridge. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
nikkibeema
i think her role in generations cursed her...queen cant keep a man and in real life the same drama is happening#Shocked for days...ever considered celibacy? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
JB$
Leave the bastard he's been humiliating you for a while Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Sophie, the good from this whole marriage sacm is that it was not registered, so you dont have any loses to count..................... Report Abuse
I quote "Leave my man alone" so said Queen when the so-called her husband's lies were catching up with him. Hardly a month later she fears for hear life. Love is blind indeed. Lol Report Abuse
ke o phapha, since when do we(blacks) do suprise weeding?was she so desperate to change her surname like sonia and connie to just get married the first thug she meet..i dont feel sorry for her Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
mathopeed
Mara u public figures why le sokola ka banna while bo DJ Winner bae single so? Le rata dilo, you shud hv dated DJ winner, he wont trouble you cz you have money. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Aristotle
* Humming* Abafundisi aba Wrongo ...........akere ne a shianetse Ntjompi e telle.....e tla le mathata daai ding! Steve Zwane o teng ska wara Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
cocolucho
@somaar.
I think that its wrong of you to accuse sophie of wanting publicity when she did not give any interview, if you read the full article you will see that it is a 'friend' of hers that said all of this stuff.
@sophie, I wish you all the best. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Shenene
mara why would sowetan ask us if we were cheated on and does it hurts ofcause everyone nows that being cheated on is painful more especially if u were faithfull mxm... Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
DJWinner
mathopeed
Mara u public figures why le sokola ka banna while bo DJ Winner bae single so? Le rata dilo, you shud hv dated DJ winner, he wont trouble you cz you have money.
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These women are giving cakes to the foreigners while we are starving here. She is getting what she deserves. She thinks we are not good enough for her, isn't she? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
MorenaWaPolelo
You must thank Sowetan, Sisi le rata h.o fa ma naiga marago lelelona dat is why ba le tshepisa molomo wa sethunya Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Prudence!
This is seriously embarassing!!
Some women make us women look seriously pathetic and needy for love, marriage and sh!t and then at the end of the day you can't stand for what you started!!
@Sophie ...Had you taken the time and gotten to know you gun-totting Bishop instead of dragging him down the isle - you could have avoided all this jazz!! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
@cocolucho
@somaar.
I think that its wrong of you to accuse sophie of wanting publicity when she did not give any interview, if you read the full article you will see that it is a 'friend' of hers that said all of this stuff.
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And you feel the need to give me this info because? cause really nowhere in my message did I allude to that Sophie wants publicity more than I said she likes drama in her life, there things which were said about the guy she married which should have rung alarm bells, but no like most silly woman she got involved with him, now my friend that is chosing drama over common sense, and btw things which were said about him he later confirmed them as being true, so it was a not a rumour, I am tired of women who put themselves in awkward relationships and then cry foul when such awkwardness catches up with them, at least one thing positive in this story is that there are no kids, I do hope they keep it that way, so that we don't have additional cases of children in SA growing up without fathers or growing up in a drama. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
@Prudence!
This is seriously embarassing!!
Some women make us women look seriously pathetic and needy for love, marriage and sh!t and then at the end of the day you can't stand for what you started!!
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this is exactly what I was trying to say in my original post, Sophie appeared too desperate to be with this man, even though his profile is public knowledge that he is a mini mboro. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
svavava
ncncncncncnc, run for your life sista Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
The_Only_1
Constitution of the Republic of South Africa has what we call the Divorce Act. This Act was meant that should the Marriage be broken beyond redemtion then it can be legally be disolved. Marriage is also between the Husband and the Wife, not between the Media and some Bimbo friend who does not know how to count 2 (husband and a wife). Unfortunately Sowetan online previously told us that the Marriage between the two (2) parties was not registered at home affairs which makes it be inexstistant or void. This is contradictory, so I will recommend that we mind our own bussiness and concentrate on our lives. The two (2) parties know about the Divorce and when they time is right they will dissolve their marriage. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
mathopeed
mathopeed
Mara u public figures why le sokola ka banna while bo DJ Winner bae single so? Le rata dilo, you shud hv dated DJ winner, he wont trouble you cz you have money.
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These women are giving cakes to the foreigners while we are starving here. She is getting what she deserves. She thinks we are not good enough for her, isn't she?
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Bona now she's in trouble, now we have to protect her while she was enjoyn it wth hm. le rata cash le lena bo sophie, y coz you employed? Why our sisters you prefer Nigerians (or Foreigners) than we homies while we starving like this? Report Abuse
Some of these calls were from male clients who wanted to give her business but he angrily asked her if she was cheating on him.
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Do not act on the real life,this is not a theatre. No calls to my wife especially when they threaten my affair. You celebrities are emotionally abusing controversial african brothers out there and shift the blame knowing that your fame will assisst you to tarnish your partners mname. How can you say, for example, your man is suffering from inferioritry complex if you really respect the guy?
Leave that idiot now, i"m here i will take care u. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
DJ_MONAKZEN011
She is just weak....or maybe she was just dessaparate for Mnyakazo ?
@Shenene,
I got u babes ,how was your weekend by te way .....
@Zacos,
8ta,and thanx for the father' s day message ysday....u are one in a million ! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
@Secretary
@Sophie
"You celebrities are emotionally abusing controversial african brothers out there and shift the blame knowing that your fame will assisst you to tarnish your partners mname" like Uyanda Mbuli, Tina, Nomasondo (fmr black lady) .
"How can you say, for example, your man is suffering from inferioritry complex if you really respect the guy?" maybe inferiority complex is not really the right word, but the guy has major insecurity and controlling issues, but Sophie put herself in this situation, so she should sort it out quietly.
As expected. I'm surprised they lasted this long ..I wonder who is next now Sophie Ndaba- Harrington? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Kaylae
I am glad that you saw him for who he really is.I personally know this pastor of yours,he targeted my friend's mom after her husband passed on,spent her money and ran.Nthabiseng is the only woman who understands and stands by your nonsense I hope you didnt divorce you.Sophie good thing you didn't sign maybe cause he is still legally married to Nthabiseng who knows cause with Keith everything is possible Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
WordofGod
Dwell in Safety and Trust
Psalm 4:8, “In peace I will both lie down and sleep, for You, Lord, alone make me dwell in safety and confident trust”
All throughout scripture, God has promised to be your Protector, Defender, your Strength, your Shelter and so much more. Even when the storms of life come against you, as long as you are dwelling in Him, you dwell in safety and trust — nothing can take away your peace and joy. What does it mean to dwell in Him? One of the definitions of the word “dwell” means to keep your attention directed toward something. The more you keep your attention directed toward God, the more you will know Him, and the more confidence you will have in Him. When you focus your heart and mind on the Word of God and declare His promises over your life, you are dwelling in Him. When you lift your voice in worship and give Him glory and honor, you are dwelling in Him. When you spend time meditating on Him and connecting with Him through prayer, you are dwelling in Him.
Are you facing a difficult situation? Give your attention to the Father. Do you need His peace and protection? Focus your heart and mind on Him. As you dwell on Him, you will see His goodness, and you’ll live in peace and victory all the days of your life!
A PRAYER FOR TODAY
Father in heaven, thank You for Your promise of peace and safety in my life. I choose to give my attention to You. Have Your way in me and let everything I do bring glory to You in Jesus’ name. Amen. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
ProudlyNigerian
Advise for Sophie:
Take some time off work if you are really looking for a good man.You can't be running a busy business ,acting and expect to meet someone who truly loves you for you.
You need time to meet someone ,get to know them,their do's,their don'ts,their bad side and their good side.There are many cool headed brothers out there who are not famous superstars but private superstars.
Guys who are independent ,good looking ,good cooks,good listener,great husband,great fathers,no baggage,no criminal tendencies ,knows how to treat a lady and knows how to work that wonderful African body of yours.
All you need is time,don't rush and don't go for all these popular/famous guys just because you are famous,it is just a recipe for more heartbreak.Finally keep your sh!t out of the media,stop talking too much about your personal life with your friends. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Tasto
Use yr maiden surname yekela Ndaba !! Why not Sophie Harrington Report Abuse
You started this alone manje i think you must finish it yourself without involving abanye abantu.Those who introduced this guy to you are the ones you are suppose to cry to ahi thina.Remember the time you said yes to his proposal you were "the happiest woman alive" now that he is not wealthy as you thought you call him nasty names.Nna ke le wena nka lo tshameka kgati ka tswa mo dilong,a se gore o bati ya banna,banna ba bati ya gago.And oh!! botsofe le bona ke bo ba kokota and phadimo ya monwana wa arthritis o ka re e kgakala.
Prudence!
@Sophie ...Had you taken the time and gotten to know you gun-totting Bishop instead of dragging him down the isle - you could have avoided all this jazz!!
The so called bishop was in a mission,She didnt get a chance to get to know him, he rushly organize a suprise wedding. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Prudence!
ProudlyNigerian
Take some time off work if you are really looking for a good man.You can't be running a busy business ,acting and expect to meet someone who truly loves you for you.
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Are you serious??? So finding a good man is a full time job? So a woman needs to go a hiatus pf spome form and solely concentrate on finding a "good" man?? Wow...very insightful!
@ ProudlyNigerian
Are you kidding me, Sophie is mad with all you Nigerians right now. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
swona
is this guy the 1st husband she's running away from? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
MGEEZ
@tpaz
Lesson No1. - KNOW YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE/PUBLICITY
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Lesson no 2. - Do not sl.e.ep with him or her prior getting ma.r.r.i.e.d, as s.e.x will make you d.u.m.b (take away you objectivity); such that you will ignore the obvious and regret later!!! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
malemaforpresident
can someone really trust a Nigerian? just to ask Report Abuse
@malemaforpresident
can someone really trust a Nigerian? just to ask
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trust is an individual thing not a nationality or tribal thing, cause if those were the basis of trust there wouldn't be more than half SAn kids growing up with dads would there? Plse keep your xenophibia under control, Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
WordofGod
@MGEEZ
Lesson no 2. - Do not sl.e.ep with him or her prior getting ma.r.r.i.e.d, as s.e.x will make you d.u.m.b (take away you objectivity); such that you will ignore the obvious and regret later!!!
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i agree with you Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Hail
Oh gal, o rata lenyalo! you have been burned once but no, you did not learn anything from the previous marriage. Lesson of life, learn from your mistakes so that when you do it again you have all the facts but if you doing it for the sake of bo mang ba dira eng, sorry babe. Him of all the men! kwaaaaaaa hayi Sophy marn, that was so low gal. You better off, hey focus on you children and on you! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
uMnuz
Who in their right minds would want to be associated with these Nigerians? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
@Hail was Sophie married before? Tjo this girl's life is full of drama maybe she thinks she is on generations, lol Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
MISSTY!!!
Sorry Sis Sophie oska tshwenyega Modimo o mogolo! men who have skeletons in thier closets,always make accusations...he is a bloody coward!!!!! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Chichima
somaartakeit
@Hail was Sophie married before? Tjo this girl's life is full of drama maybe she thinks she is on generations, lol
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She was married to Themba Ndaba, her first marriage was not all over the news like this controversial one.. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Prudence!
@somaar
Haai girl...you didn't know that she was previously married?! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Mphokolodi02
talking about choosing the wrong potato Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Uppercut
Sorry Sophie you should have consulted former miss SA teen Sally-Ann kopa she is been trapped in that fast and furious marriage too. Its always good to think thouroughly before you do things. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Msiphos00
Sophie come to me babes I got lots of love for you gal Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
malemaforpresident
@somaartakeit
I for one wont trust a Nigerians including you take it as xenophibia or not Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Bumboklaat
Le rata dilo le lena bo Sophy man! Tjerrrrrrreeeee! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
BaleliM
The heading is misleading people. It is based on the assumption that the husband 'might' to something with his gun.
Assumption makes one see things totally differently. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
DJWinner
Yah, she is having sex with Nigerians while we are starving here. She gets what she deserves. Are South African d!cks not big enough? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Phuphethakatha
@maneater
haai queen! khiphizandla lapho emathangeni!!
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Ha ha ha ha ha !!! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Nkasegobotsesephirise
You made immature decision,it will hamper your image n brand.You splashed R10 M for nothing,you humiliated yourself-haaaaaai,I do not take you serious anymore you are childish-Sophie.Marriage is not lunch bar! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
These are the result of hot.gun weddings Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Papage
How Sophi bathong, you must listen to the elders sometimes. Just shut up and listen at times Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Trynik
Be strong Queen gal- No weapon formed against you shall propers, this too shall pass. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Uncompromising
Is this a case of art imitating life or life imitating art. Where for Queen start and where does Sophie end ? Anyway, i have always felt that this woman is just a fame-chaser and has nothing to offer to the growth of art and performance in this country. No wonder all she can master is Queen only. wish it the Generations offices that burnt down instead of Isidingo ! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Sentle
@Sophie
Ke botekatsi ba eng mara bo o boetsang.Today is this one tomorrow is another one.You need to sit down and think about your life. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Tabza325is
Were did the bishop get the gun, what was he doing with a gun, since when do Bishop need to carry guns. Report Abuse
Ke tshwani ya ga tswanang. Kuku i jilwe............ Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
sabza007
Isishimane sangempela u Queen. Her character of not keeping men is following her. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
ONEE
my only advice to sisters
let us learn to be patient, loneliness is a painfull thing i agree. but jumping to a marriage with someone you not yet sure of is not the solution. God in His perfect time He surely will bless you with yur Abraham and you will be happy, small differences blow up to divorces as for this man's issues they way too big the fact that they errupted so early. Only if she waited for a while.
Isaiah 34:16 if God could remeber birds they your own story is differen woman just learn to wait Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Uncompromising
ONEE, no one can sit around waiting for letswai to go away. No one ! Report Abuse
@Prudence!
@somaar
Haai girl...you didn't know that she was previously married?!
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LoL goes to show am not always clever, honestly I didn't know, maybe that happened during some of my episodes when I was out the country, Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Sentle
Uncompromising
ONEE, no one can sit around waiting for letswai to go away. No one !
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@Uncompromising
One can wait upon the Lord. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
malemaforpresident
Sophie you must start taking life seriously this is not Generations why opting to be married by a Nigerian in the first place we have nice guys like bo maneater,somaartakeit,DJWinner,maezisto wa papa ba go laile
@Sentle, you can wait alone. I`m going to "slap the salami" while i wait for the Lord to send me a Jezebel ! Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
@Malema4president, thanks for your generosity, but andimfuni uSophie even bendingamphiwe for free, that girl is so not sharp, granted she is pretty, and interesting body but after sex and drinks what do you do with her? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
mathopeed
Why SA woment opt for Nigerians mara hey. What do they have that we (SA men) dont have honestly bloggers? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Galfrend
mathopeed
Why SA woment opt for Nigerians mara hey. What do they have that we (SA men) dont have honestly bloggers?
@Mathopeed Nigerian have sharp pointed shoes, they say a man who wears sharp pointed shoes is daring, hehehe so come on competition is stiff put on your sharp pointed shoes and lets go dancing... Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
btw Mathopeed why do you concl that Sophie's husband is Nigerian? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
malemaforpresident
eish bo sophie she looks like more experianced blow jober Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Tee1987
Baruti ba maaka!! you are better off without the bastard Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Shredder
somaartakeit
Because the story of this guy is not new. Sowetan once said "His assistant claimed that his bishop was born and bred in Eldorado Park, south of Jozi, while it has been revealed that Harrington was from West Africa and of Nigerian origin." Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Sentle
Uncompromising
@Sentle, you can wait alone. I`m going to "slap the salami" while i wait for the Lord to send me a Jezebel !
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@Uncompromising
Yes you can(provided you wait upon the Lord) Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
somaartakeit
@Shredder I doubt this guy is Nigerian, cause usually they don't have names like that, just saying... Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
nkunzemnyama
First it was Themba Lukhele aka SkeemGP now it's the Fake Pastor, hay cha uyahluleka nje Queen it seems like i-real life yakho ifana ne-soapie life. Are you disparate for merriage, pray & GOD will answer you Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
mathopeed
@somaartakeit
btw Mathopeed why do you concl that Sophie's husband is Nigerian?
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Oh were is he from kante? Besides that, you SA gals lv them more thn us your homies.
And dont tel me is coz of big dicks cz sum of us hv it bt ono tswana u dnt lv us *hiding*
@somaartakeit
@Shredder I doubt this guy is Nigerian, cause usually they don't have names like that, just saying...
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Ya I know, their surnames MOSTLY start with vowels, especially 'O" and "E". I was just mentioning what could have prompted @Mathopeed to conclude he was a Nigerian. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Kaylae
Someone please be kind and tell me Sophie's maiden name,I googled but didn't find it she has been know by her former's husband's surname for ages. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
mathopeed
No 1 answered my Question. Please you SA gals tel me, Why you prefer this Nigerians in most cases than your fellow SA mens. Come on female bloggers, spill the beans, reveal all the secrets behind this Nigerians. Mybe we will change and start treatn you they wy they does. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Shredder
@Kaylae - A gase Moatshe or something like that? Eish! Le wena man! O isa surname ya Sophie? Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Kaylae
@Shredder-its just mere curiosity ever since I knew her she was Ndaba and wondered what was her real surname not the borrowed.Makes me wonder since they are divorced why doesn't she go back to her roots*thinking out loud*
@Mathopeed-I for one doesn't find nigerian man appealing,I am proudly South African and can date all tribes don't have a specific one I go for. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Tiyaman
You fell-in-love with Him now its time for you to fall-out.... learn to love not to fall in love Sophie, otherwise u'll keep falling in and out of love until u become ugogo!!!!! Report Abuse
@Mathospeed...to answer your question: most SA women find Nigerians attractive because of our general physic.The average Nigerian is 6 feet tall with broad shoulders and a tough masculine look.Furthermore most Nigerian men wear masculine clothes and avoid all these gay looking tight pants which has now taken SA by storm.
Nigerians drink but don't get drunk.Nigerian men do not beat up their women.Nigerian men are keepers ,they don't run away when their women are pregnant.They NEVER abandon their children.Nigerian men are go getters ,they don't sit around and whine about life.They push to climb up the ladder of success.They are relentless and very hardworking.There are also very entrepreneurial.
Nigerian men treat their women like royalty ,they cook,clean and help out anyway they can e.t.c.Now i am guessing you are wondering why Nigerian men are so into SA women.Well Nigerian men adore SA black women because they represent through African beauty.Most SA women are blessed with the body of a goddess.Their bodies just makes us drool all the time.No amount of money can buy what they have that is why we remind them all the time of how beautiful they are.
I see a lot of SA guys are jealous of Nigerians dating their sisters.Well tough luck ,it is a free world and your sister can't get enough of us. Report Abuse
Jun 18, 2012
Mzalaz
Sowetan, can you pls leave Sophie alone to deal with her personal problems bakwethu. I like her lots. Report Abuse
@ sophie ,leave the bastard before is too late , think about your children Report Abuse
Jun 19, 2012
SowEddie
Aggg wena Queen o itira mmadi bettercoffe go Gayneration kgane o jola le Osama. Ba tla go thuba hlogonyana ye oneday, and le gona ba go raka neng on Geynarations? Wena le Khapela and Khethiwe? Report Abuse
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Ann
you are better off without the basturd galReport Abuse
truthhurt
I wonder if Sophie is enjoying this publicity and invasion of her private life, personaly i feel the media has gone to deep into her lingerie drawer.Report Abuse
tpaz
Lesson No1. - KNOW YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE/PUBLICITYReport Abuse
maneater
haai queen! khiphizandla lapho emathangeni!!Report Abuse
somaartakeit
LoL some women love drama in their lives, what the hell, let the comedy roll on, cause really Sophie you knew that this man is not all that? so what's the problem now when he is unraveling himself? Hayi man please nawe.Report Abuse
DJWinner
maneaterhaai queen! khiphizandla lapho emathangeni!!
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You have no idea of the heat coming out of that area. I wish those were my hands.
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BaleliM
Sad to be betrayed in such a manner. It will soon be water under the bridge.Report Abuse
nikkibeema
i think her role in generations cursed her...queen cant keep a man and in real life the same drama is happening#Shocked for days...ever considered celibacy?Report Abuse
JB$
Leave the bastard he's been humiliating you for a whileReport Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Sophie, the good from this whole marriage sacm is that it was not registered, so you dont have any loses to count.....................Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
sacm should be SCAMReport Abuse
NewKidOnTheBlock
I quote "Leave my man alone" so said Queen when the so-called her husband's lies were catching up with him. Hardly a month later she fears for hear life. Love is blind indeed. LolReport Abuse
dmstephen
but why we all blaming the Bishop?Report Abuse
Chichima
ke o phapha, since when do we(blacks) do suprise weeding?was she so desperate to change her surname like sonia and connie to just get married the first thug she meet..i dont feel sorry for herReport Abuse
mathopeed
Mara u public figures why le sokola ka banna while bo DJ Winner bae single so? Le rata dilo, you shud hv dated DJ winner, he wont trouble you cz you have money.Report Abuse
Aristotle
* Humming* Abafundisi aba Wrongo ...........akere ne a shianetse Ntjompi e telle.....e tla le mathata daai ding! Steve Zwane o teng ska waraReport Abuse
cocolucho
@somaar.I think that its wrong of you to accuse sophie of wanting publicity when she did not give any interview, if you read the full article you will see that it is a 'friend' of hers that said all of this stuff.
@sophie, I wish you all the best.
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Shenene
mara why would sowetan ask us if we were cheated on and does it hurts ofcause everyone nows that being cheated on is painful more especially if u were faithfull mxm...Report Abuse
DJWinner
mathopeedMara u public figures why le sokola ka banna while bo DJ Winner bae single so? Le rata dilo, you shud hv dated DJ winner, he wont trouble you cz you have money.
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These women are giving cakes to the foreigners while we are starving here. She is getting what she deserves. She thinks we are not good enough for her, isn't she?
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MorenaWaPolelo
You must thank Sowetan, Sisi le rata h.o fa ma naiga marago lelelona dat is why ba le tshepisa molomo wa sethunyaReport Abuse
Prudence!
This is seriously embarassing!!Some women make us women look seriously pathetic and needy for love, marriage and sh!t and then at the end of the day you can't stand for what you started!!
@Sophie ...Had you taken the time and gotten to know you gun-totting Bishop instead of dragging him down the isle - you could have avoided all this jazz!!
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somaartakeit
@cocolucho@somaar.
I think that its wrong of you to accuse sophie of wanting publicity when she did not give any interview, if you read the full article you will see that it is a 'friend' of hers that said all of this stuff.
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And you feel the need to give me this info because? cause really nowhere in my message did I allude to that Sophie wants publicity more than I said she likes drama in her life, there things which were said about the guy she married which should have rung alarm bells, but no like most silly woman she got involved with him, now my friend that is chosing drama over common sense, and btw things which were said about him he later confirmed them as being true, so it was a not a rumour, I am tired of women who put themselves in awkward relationships and then cry foul when such awkwardness catches up with them, at least one thing positive in this story is that there are no kids, I do hope they keep it that way, so that we don't have additional cases of children in SA growing up without fathers or growing up in a drama.
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somaartakeit
@Prudence!This is seriously embarassing!!
Some women make us women look seriously pathetic and needy for love, marriage and sh!t and then at the end of the day you can't stand for what you started!!
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this is exactly what I was trying to say in my original post, Sophie appeared too desperate to be with this man, even though his profile is public knowledge that he is a mini mboro.
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svavava
ncncncncncnc, run for your life sistaReport Abuse
The_Only_1
Constitution of the Republic of South Africa has what we call the Divorce Act. This Act was meant that should the Marriage be broken beyond redemtion then it can be legally be disolved. Marriage is also between the Husband and the Wife, not between the Media and some Bimbo friend who does not know how to count 2 (husband and a wife). Unfortunately Sowetan online previously told us that the Marriage between the two (2) parties was not registered at home affairs which makes it be inexstistant or void. This is contradictory, so I will recommend that we mind our own bussiness and concentrate on our lives. The two (2) parties know about the Divorce and when they time is right they will dissolve their marriage.Report Abuse
mathopeed
mathopeedMara u public figures why le sokola ka banna while bo DJ Winner bae single so? Le rata dilo, you shud hv dated DJ winner, he wont trouble you cz you have money.
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These women are giving cakes to the foreigners while we are starving here. She is getting what she deserves. She thinks we are not good enough for her, isn't she?
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Bona now she's in trouble, now we have to protect her while she was enjoyn it wth hm. le rata cash le lena bo sophie, y coz you employed? Why our sisters you prefer Nigerians (or Foreigners) than we homies while we starving like this?
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m'zaco'
haaikhona maan!!Report Abuse
Secretary
@SophieSome of these calls were from male clients who wanted to give her business but he angrily asked her if she was cheating on him.
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Do not act on the real life,this is not a theatre. No calls to my wife especially when they threaten my affair. You celebrities are emotionally abusing controversial african brothers out there and shift the blame knowing that your fame will assisst you to tarnish your partners mname. How can you say, for example, your man is suffering from inferioritry complex if you really respect the guy?
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StylesP
Leave that idiot now, i"m here i will take care u.Report Abuse
DJ_MONAKZEN011
She is just weak....or maybe she was just dessaparate for Mnyakazo ?@Shenene,
I got u babes ,how was your weekend by te way .....
@Zacos,
8ta,and thanx for the father' s day message ysday....u are one in a million !
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somaartakeit
@Secretary@Sophie
"You celebrities are emotionally abusing controversial african brothers out there and shift the blame knowing that your fame will assisst you to tarnish your partners mname" like Uyanda Mbuli, Tina, Nomasondo (fmr black lady) .
"How can you say, for example, your man is suffering from inferioritry complex if you really respect the guy?" maybe inferiority complex is not really the right word, but the guy has major insecurity and controlling issues, but Sophie put herself in this situation, so she should sort it out quietly.
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uMnuz
As expected. I'm surprised they lasted this long ..I wonder who is next now Sophie Ndaba- Harrington?Report Abuse
Kaylae
I am glad that you saw him for who he really is.I personally know this pastor of yours,he targeted my friend's mom after her husband passed on,spent her money and ran.Nthabiseng is the only woman who understands and stands by your nonsense I hope you didnt divorce you.Sophie good thing you didn't sign maybe cause he is still legally married to Nthabiseng who knows cause with Keith everything is possibleReport Abuse
WordofGod
Dwell in Safety and TrustPsalm 4:8, “In peace I will both lie down and sleep, for You, Lord, alone make me dwell in safety and confident trust”
All throughout scripture, God has promised to be your Protector, Defender, your Strength, your Shelter and so much more. Even when the storms of life come against you, as long as you are dwelling in Him, you dwell in safety and trust — nothing can take away your peace and joy. What does it mean to dwell in Him? One of the definitions of the word “dwell” means to keep your attention directed toward something. The more you keep your attention directed toward God, the more you will know Him, and the more confidence you will have in Him. When you focus your heart and mind on the Word of God and declare His promises over your life, you are dwelling in Him. When you lift your voice in worship and give Him glory and honor, you are dwelling in Him. When you spend time meditating on Him and connecting with Him through prayer, you are dwelling in Him.
Are you facing a difficult situation? Give your attention to the Father. Do you need His peace and protection? Focus your heart and mind on Him. As you dwell on Him, you will see His goodness, and you’ll live in peace and victory all the days of your life!
A PRAYER FOR TODAY
Father in heaven, thank You for Your promise of peace and safety in my life. I choose to give my attention to You. Have Your way in me and let everything I do bring glory to You in Jesus’ name. Amen.
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ProudlyNigerian
Advise for Sophie:Take some time off work if you are really looking for a good man.You can't be running a busy business ,acting and expect to meet someone who truly loves you for you.
You need time to meet someone ,get to know them,their do's,their don'ts,their bad side and their good side.There are many cool headed brothers out there who are not famous superstars but private superstars.
Guys who are independent ,good looking ,good cooks,good listener,great husband,great fathers,no baggage,no criminal tendencies ,knows how to treat a lady and knows how to work that wonderful African body of yours.
All you need is time,don't rush and don't go for all these popular/famous guys just because you are famous,it is just a recipe for more heartbreak.Finally keep your sh!t out of the media,stop talking too much about your personal life with your friends.
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Tasto
Use yr maiden surname yekela Ndaba !! Why not Sophie HarringtonReport Abuse
malemaforpresident
sophie wa nyakazana sfeveReport Abuse
2nevvy4u
Dear SophieYou started this alone manje i think you must finish it yourself without involving abanye abantu.Those who introduced this guy to you are the ones you are suppose to cry to ahi thina.Remember the time you said yes to his proposal you were "the happiest woman alive" now that he is not wealthy as you thought you call him nasty names.Nna ke le wena nka lo tshameka kgati ka tswa mo dilong,a se gore o bati ya banna,banna ba bati ya gago.And oh!! botsofe le bona ke bo ba kokota and phadimo ya monwana wa arthritis o ka re e kgakala.
Mme wee goletse marukgo so se mariga se.
Mogakuludi
Too Nevvy For You.
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Chichima
Prudence!@Sophie ...Had you taken the time and gotten to know you gun-totting Bishop instead of dragging him down the isle - you could have avoided all this jazz!!
The so called bishop was in a mission,She didnt get a chance to get to know him, he rushly organize a suprise wedding.
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Prudence!
ProudlyNigerianTake some time off work if you are really looking for a good man.You can't be running a busy business ,acting and expect to meet someone who truly loves you for you.
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Are you serious??? So finding a good man is a full time job? So a woman needs to go a hiatus pf spome form and solely concentrate on finding a "good" man?? Wow...very insightful!
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uMnuz
@ ProudlyNigerianAre you kidding me, Sophie is mad with all you Nigerians right now.
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swona
is this guy the 1st husband she's running away from?Report Abuse
MGEEZ
@tpazLesson No1. - KNOW YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE/PUBLICITY
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Lesson no 2. - Do not sl.e.ep with him or her prior getting ma.r.r.i.e.d, as s.e.x will make you d.u.m.b (take away you objectivity); such that you will ignore the obvious and regret later!!!
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malemaforpresident
can someone really trust a Nigerian? just to askReport Abuse
tops
Soorry darling one kuzolungaReport Abuse
somaartakeit
@malemaforpresidentcan someone really trust a Nigerian? just to ask
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trust is an individual thing not a nationality or tribal thing, cause if those were the basis of trust there wouldn't be more than half SAn kids growing up with dads would there? Plse keep your xenophibia under control,
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WordofGod
@MGEEZLesson no 2. - Do not sl.e.ep with him or her prior getting ma.r.r.i.e.d, as s.e.x will make you d.u.m.b (take away you objectivity); such that you will ignore the obvious and regret later!!!
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i agree with you
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Hail
Oh gal, o rata lenyalo! you have been burned once but no, you did not learn anything from the previous marriage. Lesson of life, learn from your mistakes so that when you do it again you have all the facts but if you doing it for the sake of bo mang ba dira eng, sorry babe. Him of all the men! kwaaaaaaa hayi Sophy marn, that was so low gal. You better off, hey focus on you children and on you!Report Abuse
uMnuz
Who in their right minds would want to be associated with these Nigerians?Report Abuse
somaartakeit
@Hail was Sophie married before? Tjo this girl's life is full of drama maybe she thinks she is on generations, lolReport Abuse
MISSTY!!!
Sorry Sis Sophie oska tshwenyega Modimo o mogolo! men who have skeletons in thier closets,always make accusations...he is a bloody coward!!!!!Report Abuse
Chichima
somaartakeit@Hail was Sophie married before? Tjo this girl's life is full of drama maybe she thinks she is on generations, lol
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She was married to Themba Ndaba, her first marriage was not all over the news like this controversial one..
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Prudence!
@somaarHaai girl...you didn't know that she was previously married?!
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Mphokolodi02
talking about choosing the wrong potatoReport Abuse
Uppercut
Sorry Sophie you should have consulted former miss SA teen Sally-Ann kopa she is been trapped in that fast and furious marriage too. Its always good to think thouroughly before you do things.Report Abuse
Msiphos00
Sophie come to me babes I got lots of love for you galReport Abuse
malemaforpresident
@somaartakeitI for one wont trust a Nigerians including you take it as xenophibia or not
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Bumboklaat
Le rata dilo le lena bo Sophy man! Tjerrrrrrreeeee!Report Abuse
BaleliM
The heading is misleading people. It is based on the assumption that the husband 'might' to something with his gun.Assumption makes one see things totally differently.
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DJWinner
Yah, she is having sex with Nigerians while we are starving here. She gets what she deserves. Are South African d!cks not big enough?Report Abuse
Phuphethakatha
@maneaterhaai queen! khiphizandla lapho emathangeni!!
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Ha ha ha ha ha !!!
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Nkasegobotsesephirise
You made immature decision,it will hamper your image n brand.You splashed R10 M for nothing,you humiliated yourself-haaaaaai,I do not take you serious anymore you are childish-Sophie.Marriage is not lunch bar!Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
These are the result of hot.gun weddingsReport Abuse
Papage
How Sophi bathong, you must listen to the elders sometimes. Just shut up and listen at timesReport Abuse
Trynik
Be strong Queen gal- No weapon formed against you shall propers, this too shall pass.Report Abuse
Uncompromising
Is this a case of art imitating life or life imitating art. Where for Queen start and where does Sophie end ? Anyway, i have always felt that this woman is just a fame-chaser and has nothing to offer to the growth of art and performance in this country. No wonder all she can master is Queen only. wish it the Generations offices that burnt down instead of Isidingo !Report Abuse
Sentle
@SophieKe botekatsi ba eng mara bo o boetsang.Today is this one tomorrow is another one.You need to sit down and think about your life.
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Tabza325is
Were did the bishop get the gun, what was he doing with a gun, since when do Bishop need to carry guns.Report Abuse
NTANDA
Lol at parking lot.............Report Abuse
Galfrend
I just feel sorry for her. This too shall pass Sophie.Report Abuse
Lipgloss
Try mzansi manReport Abuse
Nwanawamukalaha
Ke tshwani ya ga tswanang. Kuku i jilwe............Report Abuse
sabza007
Isishimane sangempela u Queen. Her character of not keeping men is following her.Report Abuse
ONEE
my only advice to sisterslet us learn to be patient, loneliness is a painfull thing i agree. but jumping to a marriage with someone you not yet sure of is not the solution. God in His perfect time He surely will bless you with yur Abraham and you will be happy, small differences blow up to divorces as for this man's issues they way too big the fact that they errupted so early. Only if she waited for a while.
Isaiah 34:16 if God could remeber birds they your own story is differen woman just learn to wait
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Uncompromising
ONEE, no one can sit around waiting for letswai to go away. No one !Report Abuse
nelevolver
whateverReport Abuse
Shredder
Sophie ga ana lesego mo maratongReport Abuse
somaartakeit
@Prudence!@somaar
Haai girl...you didn't know that she was previously married?!
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LoL goes to show am not always clever, honestly I didn't know, maybe that happened during some of my episodes when I was out the country,
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Sentle
UncompromisingONEE, no one can sit around waiting for letswai to go away. No one !
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@Uncompromising
One can wait upon the Lord.
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malemaforpresident
Sophie you must start taking life seriously this is not Generations why opting to be married by a Nigerian in the first place we have nice guys like bo maneater,somaartakeit,DJWinner,maezisto wa papa ba go laileReport Abuse
Uncompromising
@Sentle, you can wait alone. I`m going to "slap the salami" while i wait for the Lord to send me a Jezebel !Report Abuse
somaartakeit
@Malema4president, thanks for your generosity, but andimfuni uSophie even bendingamphiwe for free, that girl is so not sharp, granted she is pretty, and interesting body but after sex and drinks what do you do with her?Report Abuse
mathopeed
Why SA woment opt for Nigerians mara hey. What do they have that we (SA men) dont have honestly bloggers?Report Abuse
Galfrend
mathopeedWhy SA woment opt for Nigerians mara hey. What do they have that we (SA men) dont have honestly bloggers?
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er huge d!cks?
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somaartakeit
@Mathopeed Nigerian have sharp pointed shoes, they say a man who wears sharp pointed shoes is daring, hehehe so come on competition is stiff put on your sharp pointed shoes and lets go dancing...Report Abuse
somaartakeit
btw Mathopeed why do you concl that Sophie's husband is Nigerian?Report Abuse
malemaforpresident
eish bo sophie she looks like more experianced blow joberReport Abuse
Tee1987
Baruti ba maaka!! you are better off without the bastardReport Abuse
Shredder
somaartakeitBecause the story of this guy is not new. Sowetan once said "His assistant claimed that his bishop was born and bred in Eldorado Park, south of Jozi, while it has been revealed that Harrington was from West Africa and of Nigerian origin."
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Sentle
Uncompromising@Sentle, you can wait alone. I`m going to "slap the salami" while i wait for the Lord to send me a Jezebel !
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@Uncompromising
Yes you can(provided you wait upon the Lord)
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somaartakeit
@Shredder I doubt this guy is Nigerian, cause usually they don't have names like that, just saying...Report Abuse
nkunzemnyama
First it was Themba Lukhele aka SkeemGP now it's the Fake Pastor, hay cha uyahluleka nje Queen it seems like i-real life yakho ifana ne-soapie life. Are you disparate for merriage, pray & GOD will answer youReport Abuse
mathopeed
@somaartakeitbtw Mathopeed why do you concl that Sophie's husband is Nigerian?
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Oh were is he from kante? Besides that, you SA gals lv them more thn us your homies.
And dont tel me is coz of big dicks cz sum of us hv it bt ono tswana u dnt lv us *hiding*
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Shredder
@somaartakeit@Shredder I doubt this guy is Nigerian, cause usually they don't have names like that, just saying...
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Ya I know, their surnames MOSTLY start with vowels, especially 'O" and "E". I was just mentioning what could have prompted @Mathopeed to conclude he was a Nigerian.
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Kaylae
Someone please be kind and tell me Sophie's maiden name,I googled but didn't find it she has been know by her former's husband's surname for ages.Report Abuse
mathopeed
No 1 answered my Question. Please you SA gals tel me, Why you prefer this Nigerians in most cases than your fellow SA mens. Come on female bloggers, spill the beans, reveal all the secrets behind this Nigerians. Mybe we will change and start treatn you they wy they does.Report Abuse
Shredder
@Kaylae - A gase Moatshe or something like that? Eish! Le wena man! O isa surname ya Sophie?Report Abuse
Kaylae
@Shredder-its just mere curiosity ever since I knew her she was Ndaba and wondered what was her real surname not the borrowed.Makes me wonder since they are divorced why doesn't she go back to her roots*thinking out loud*@Mathopeed-I for one doesn't find nigerian man appealing,I am proudly South African and can date all tribes don't have a specific one I go for.
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Tiyaman
You fell-in-love with Him now its time for you to fall-out.... learn to love not to fall in love Sophie, otherwise u'll keep falling in and out of love until u become ugogo!!!!!Report Abuse
MarkaFeela
lolReport Abuse
BYARHUKA
Sophie, be carefull next time!Report Abuse
ProudlyNigerian
@Mathospeed...to answer your question: most SA women find Nigerians attractive because of our general physic.The average Nigerian is 6 feet tall with broad shoulders and a tough masculine look.Furthermore most Nigerian men wear masculine clothes and avoid all these gay looking tight pants which has now taken SA by storm.Nigerians drink but don't get drunk.Nigerian men do not beat up their women.Nigerian men are keepers ,they don't run away when their women are pregnant.They NEVER abandon their children.Nigerian men are go getters ,they don't sit around and whine about life.They push to climb up the ladder of success.They are relentless and very hardworking.There are also very entrepreneurial.
Nigerian men treat their women like royalty ,they cook,clean and help out anyway they can e.t.c.Now i am guessing you are wondering why Nigerian men are so into SA women.Well Nigerian men adore SA black women because they represent through African beauty.Most SA women are blessed with the body of a goddess.Their bodies just makes us drool all the time.No amount of money can buy what they have that is why we remind them all the time of how beautiful they are.
I see a lot of SA guys are jealous of Nigerians dating their sisters.Well tough luck ,it is a free world and your sister can't get enough of us.
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Mzalaz
Sowetan, can you pls leave Sophie alone to deal with her personal problems bakwethu. I like her lots.Report Abuse
beyourself23
SOME MEN ARE STUPIDReport Abuse
sislLLY
@ sophie ,leave the bastard before is too late , think about your childrenReport Abuse
SowEddie
Aggg wena Queen o itira mmadi bettercoffe go Gayneration kgane o jola le Osama. Ba tla go thuba hlogonyana ye oneday, and le gona ba go raka neng on Geynarations? Wena le Khapela and Khethiwe?Report Abuse
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