So sad,this thing of killing will continue if the other gender is not taken serious. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Mellow
*SIGH*
The more things change the more they stay the same!!! How depressing so over the years our fellow folks still havent learned value of life. I feel for the innocent kids Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
MSG_S
A sad year for these innocent little lives. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
3litreV6
Another retard, when are these fools are going to learn. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Papage
The secret is, if your first marriage never worked, don't try for the second time. Marriage is not for the Sfaint hearted, it is not like school, it is a commitment to one for life. We need Pastors and Ministers who can educate us about marriage before we tie the not, people must pass before they tie the knot. Poor kids, they are not alone though, God is there. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Chichi7
and exactly what do these men gain when they kill? Innocent children are left behind to deal with the trauma as well as being orphans. Jeez Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Dubul'Amanzi
Since we don't know what was the fight all about,its worthless to comment. Report Abuse
The reason is they were in a process of divorce.
This western style of marriage is really not a way to go especially when it comes to divorce you are bound to lose a lot of what you worked for over the years. In Traditional marriage you just inform the elders that every thing is broken beyond reconciliation and that you dont need your lobola back. Nothing to claim nothing to lose. That is why there are very few spouse killings. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Nongoloza24
thandoluhle
Not all men are violent wena man....Or maybe your father used to bleksem your mother as well?? Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
MSG_S
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
' vat en sit ' is the way my girl. You just take your belongings and vanish. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
zuluchick
@thandoluhle
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
..................
even boyfriends kill their girlfriends these days....except of course you gonna stay single
SA men are so violent shame.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
iv been single for 3years now after my last relationship i said thank you but no thanks
@Nongoloza24
true but the sure do have the upper hand Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Nongoloza24
zuluchick
Men will have the upper hand if you give them the permission. Report Abuse
This is not America and SA Men are proving this true... We still going to see more deaths of this sort... They are disrespectful these women. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Mangoz
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
========================
Dude, u do know that a boyfriend can also do that right? Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
nzaco
we desperately need God in this generation... Period! there is hopelessness lurking
@Nongoloza24
zuluchick
Men will have the upper hand if you give them the permission.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
i would say thats more on the emotional side, but biological make up puts me at instant vunerability to any man, but i agree with you somewhat
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@Mangoz
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
========================
Dude, u do know that a boyfriend can also do that right?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
bra i know its just that i gues i dont even wanna get into a bf/gf relationship as of yet, i dont know what it is about us opposite sex we are attracted to each other and then end up hating each other.. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Nongoloza24
nzaco
we desperately need God in this generation... Period! there is hopelessness lurking
God help us, have mercy.
````````````````````````````````````````````````````
Ngwaga o moswa mfanaka....the killings continue. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
thathakonke
Shame man...everytime I read about such stories I ask myself what went wrong with our society. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Flemza
This is senseless, if it was me, I will only kill myself, then thinking about it, with 5 strong and well mannered sons and a loving and respectfull professional wife, why should I kill myself, there is no need Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
nzaco
Nongoloza24
nzaco
we desperately need God in this generation... Period! there is hopelessness lurking
God help us, have mercy.
````````````````````````````````````````````````````
Ngwaga o moswa mfanaka....the killings continue.
''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''
eishhh grootis! yerrrr....e nkutlwisa bohloko dieding_
o e jele byang dikresmoz...nna i was bored quiet honestly Report Abuse
Flemza
This is senseless, if it was me, I will only kill myself, then thinking about it, with 5 strong and well mannered sons and a loving and respectfull professional wife, why should I kill myself, there is no need
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Flemza: Why dont you just say, you will kill yourself first and then think about your sons and wife? Report Abuse
Galfrend
I would be lying if I say I'm okay.....I don't feel like doing anything I just wana go home and sleep and on the other hand my better half isn't talking to me....How was your holidays did you enjoy?? Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
phunchu
i just feel sorry for the kids how will they cope knowing that their father took their mother away from them thats so heartbroken Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
When're we gonna understand marriage and too what do pastors tell people about marriage,they're telling them that is a shop of candy may be ?
This is also what couples who're about to get married must be told (1 Corinthians 7:28)
But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned "BUT THOSE WHO MARRY WILL FACE MANY TROUBLES IN THIS LIFE AND I WANT TO SPARE YOU THIS" Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Galfrend
Hosh6
Galfrend
I would be lying if I say I'm okay.....I don't feel like doing anything I just wana go home and sleep and on the other hand my better half isn't talking to me....How was your holidays did you enjoy??
______________________
i feel you man, i also want to go home and sleep.what did you do to her?the holidays were great thank you, hope yours were great too Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Hosh6
Galfrend
Mine were great thanks.....My spouse is pregnant and for over a week she has been complaining about morning sicknesses and that every time she eats, she throws up.Fine I ask her to consult a GP and she’s like I’ll do that, guess what she hasn’t been there….I told her either she enjoys being sick or there aren’t any sicknesses and she’s mad at me for that.
H6 - Congrats on the pregnancy..aw shame,eish morning sickness,there is nothing really she can do about it dear,not even a GP.So be patient with her,you know how pregnant women are,try not to upset her.She is very sensitive right now.Be nice. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Hosh6
Galfrend
That's what I've realised she's extremely sensitive, but yeah I guess you right I have to be nice to her women know a lot better when coming to such matters. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
TrapStar
no wonder God didnt give us iternal life.
there wouldnt be an escape route for dum-ases like this one Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Mswazi
Why she agreed to married this man if she will devorce?
We can blame the husband as we do not know his feelings,
And the police opened a murder docket for whom? as the husband died.
Tigwadla nato eish, look now the poor children will suffer. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
The-Vince
thandoluhle
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
..................
even boyfriends kill their girlfriends these days....except of course you gonna stay single
SA men are so violent shame.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
You can be Lesbos then girls, simple, and its accepted by your society, so why not......!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Femicide is really getting out of hand.......
He is just a coward, why not ki.ll yourself????? Report Abuse
marriage is s death warrant, this guy calculated very well, that if the lady divorces him (since he is suffering from high blood pressure) shell be chowed by other men its better if he kill her Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
sabza007
Why? Why? This coward decided to die using a gun while the poor woman was butchered to death. I feel for kids left behind. Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
BabyNono87
I feel for poor kids, may their mom's soul rest in peace, as for the bastard, hell is waiting for you........ Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Hosh6
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Femicide is really getting out of hand.......
He is just a coward, why not ki.ll yourself?????
````````````````````````````````
Uhm he did kill himself didn't he?? Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
zuluchick
@Hosh6
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Femicide is really getting out of hand.......
He is just a coward, why not ki.ll yourself?????
````````````````````````````````
Uhm he did kill himself didn't he??
//////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
lol
im sure she meant ki.ll himself and nobody else Report Abuse
Jan 7, 2013
Mangoz
zuluchick
@Nongoloza24
zuluchick
Men will have the upper hand if you give them the permission.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
i would say thats more on the emotional side, but biological make up puts me at instant vunerability to any man, but i agree with you somewhat
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@Mangoz
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
========================
Dude, u do know that a boyfriend can also do that right?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
bra i know its just that i gues i dont even wanna get into a bf/gf relationship as of yet, i dont know what it is about us opposite sex we are attracted to each other and then end up hating each other..
================================
Point taken. Report Abuse
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TLekota
ShemReport Abuse
Ponko.Fontoyo
So sad,this thing of killing will continue if the other gender is not taken serious.Report Abuse
Mellow
*SIGH*The more things change the more they stay the same!!! How depressing so over the years our fellow folks still havent learned value of life. I feel for the innocent kids
Report Abuse
MSG_S
A sad year for these innocent little lives.Report Abuse
3litreV6
Another retard, when are these fools are going to learn.Report Abuse
Papage
The secret is, if your first marriage never worked, don't try for the second time. Marriage is not for the Sfaint hearted, it is not like school, it is a commitment to one for life. We need Pastors and Ministers who can educate us about marriage before we tie the not, people must pass before they tie the knot. Poor kids, they are not alone though, God is there.Report Abuse
Chichi7
and exactly what do these men gain when they kill? Innocent children are left behind to deal with the trauma as well as being orphans. JeezReport Abuse
Dubul'Amanzi
Since we don't know what was the fight all about,its worthless to comment.Report Abuse
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get marriedReport Abuse
Nongoloza24
He is the one who didn't want to live I fail to understabd why he had to kill the wife.As to why the police opened a murder docket, that's waste of time.
Report Abuse
thandoluhle
zuluchickwhy i dont wanna get married
..................
even boyfriends kill their girlfriends these days....except of course you gonna stay single
SA men are so violent shame.
Report Abuse
MSG_S
The reason is they were in a process of divorce.This western style of marriage is really not a way to go especially when it comes to divorce you are bound to lose a lot of what you worked for over the years. In Traditional marriage you just inform the elders that every thing is broken beyond reconciliation and that you dont need your lobola back. Nothing to claim nothing to lose. That is why there are very few spouse killings.
Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
thandoluhleNot all men are violent wena man....Or maybe your father used to bleksem your mother as well??
Report Abuse
MSG_S
zuluchickwhy i dont wanna get married
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
' vat en sit ' is the way my girl. You just take your belongings and vanish.
Report Abuse
zuluchick
@thandoluhlezuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
..................
even boyfriends kill their girlfriends these days....except of course you gonna stay single
SA men are so violent shame.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
iv been single for 3years now after my last relationship i said thank you but no thanks
@Nongoloza24
true but the sure do have the upper hand
Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
zuluchickMen will have the upper hand if you give them the permission.
Report Abuse
Zimzalabam1
Another day another orphan.Report Abuse
Printa
This is not America and SA Men are proving this true... We still going to see more deaths of this sort... They are disrespectful these women.Report Abuse
Mangoz
zuluchickwhy i dont wanna get married
========================
Dude, u do know that a boyfriend can also do that right?
Report Abuse
nzaco
we desperately need God in this generation... Period! there is hopelessness lurkingGod help us, have mercy.
Report Abuse
zuluchick
@Nongoloza24zuluchick
Men will have the upper hand if you give them the permission.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
i would say thats more on the emotional side, but biological make up puts me at instant vunerability to any man, but i agree with you somewhat
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@Mangoz
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
========================
Dude, u do know that a boyfriend can also do that right?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
bra i know its just that i gues i dont even wanna get into a bf/gf relationship as of yet, i dont know what it is about us opposite sex we are attracted to each other and then end up hating each other..
Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
nzacowe desperately need God in this generation... Period! there is hopelessness lurking
God help us, have mercy.
````````````````````````````````````````````````````
Ngwaga o moswa mfanaka....the killings continue.
Report Abuse
thathakonke
Shame man...everytime I read about such stories I ask myself what went wrong with our society.Report Abuse
Flemza
This is senseless, if it was me, I will only kill myself, then thinking about it, with 5 strong and well mannered sons and a loving and respectfull professional wife, why should I kill myself, there is no needReport Abuse
nzaco
Nongoloza24nzaco
we desperately need God in this generation... Period! there is hopelessness lurking
God help us, have mercy.
````````````````````````````````````````````````````
Ngwaga o moswa mfanaka....the killings continue.
''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''
eishhh grootis! yerrrr....e nkutlwisa bohloko dieding_
o e jele byang dikresmoz...nna i was bored quiet honestly
Report Abuse
culturedtoomuch
mara what on earth is going onReport Abuse
China-man
No Bai Nut Ding!!!!Report Abuse
Nastradamas
the easiest thing is to love, but the hardest thing is to leave the one you loveor vice versa...........
Report Abuse
Galfrend
..........will this ever end kodwa?Report Abuse
Mokwepa
I am back from Swirtzeland....guys there are nice comuntries around the world with 1 wife presidentsReport Abuse
nzaco
kikiki...................kikikikikikiki.....Report Abuse
imbabazane
Most probably the Wife was gonna take everything....
...heck, I would have killed her too.
Report Abuse
Hosh6
Galfrend..........will this ever end kodwa?
**********************
No, no this won't end so long as we've got these stupid males.
Report Abuse
Galfrend
H6 - Season's greetings dear...how are you?Report Abuse
MSG_S
FlemzaThis is senseless, if it was me, I will only kill myself, then thinking about it, with 5 strong and well mannered sons and a loving and respectfull professional wife, why should I kill myself, there is no need
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Flemza: Why dont you just say, you will kill yourself first and then think about your sons and wife?
Report Abuse
Pitso.MCCMA.SAFA
@China manAh Nhu dah Bhu Fhe Bhe
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Hosh6
GalfrendI would be lying if I say I'm okay.....I don't feel like doing anything I just wana go home and sleep and on the other hand my better half isn't talking to me....How was your holidays did you enjoy??
Report Abuse
phunchu
i just feel sorry for the kids how will they cope knowing that their father took their mother away from them thats so heartbrokenReport Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
When're we gonna understand marriage and too what do pastors tell people about marriage,they're telling them that is a shop of candy may be ?This is also what couples who're about to get married must be told (1 Corinthians 7:28)
But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned "BUT THOSE WHO MARRY WILL FACE MANY TROUBLES IN THIS LIFE AND I WANT TO SPARE YOU THIS"
Report Abuse
Galfrend
Hosh6Galfrend
I would be lying if I say I'm okay.....I don't feel like doing anything I just wana go home and sleep and on the other hand my better half isn't talking to me....How was your holidays did you enjoy??
______________________
i feel you man, i also want to go home and sleep.what did you do to her?the holidays were great thank you, hope yours were great too
Report Abuse
Hosh6
GalfrendMine were great thanks.....My spouse is pregnant and for over a week she has been complaining about morning sicknesses and that every time she eats, she throws up.Fine I ask her to consult a GP and she’s like I’ll do that, guess what she hasn’t been there….I told her either she enjoys being sick or there aren’t any sicknesses and she’s mad at me for that.
Report Abuse
Galfrend
H6 - Congrats on the pregnancy..aw shame,eish morning sickness,there is nothing really she can do about it dear,not even a GP.So be patient with her,you know how pregnant women are,try not to upset her.She is very sensitive right now.Be nice.Report Abuse
Hosh6
GalfrendThat's what I've realised she's extremely sensitive, but yeah I guess you right I have to be nice to her women know a lot better when coming to such matters.
Report Abuse
TrapStar
no wonder God didnt give us iternal life.there wouldnt be an escape route for dum-ases like this one
Report Abuse
Mswazi
Why she agreed to married this man if she will devorce?We can blame the husband as we do not know his feelings,
And the police opened a murder docket for whom? as the husband died.
Tigwadla nato eish, look now the poor children will suffer.
Report Abuse
The-Vince
thandoluhlezuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
..................
even boyfriends kill their girlfriends these days....except of course you gonna stay single
SA men are so violent shame.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
You can be Lesbos then girls, simple, and its accepted by your society, so why not......!!!!!!!
Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Femicide is really getting out of hand.......He is just a coward, why not ki.ll yourself?????
Report Abuse
Mutoti
Now the kids are orphaned...Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
marriage is s death warrant, this guy calculated very well, that if the lady divorces him (since he is suffering from high blood pressure) shell be chowed by other men its better if he kill herReport Abuse
sabza007
Why? Why? This coward decided to die using a gun while the poor woman was butchered to death. I feel for kids left behind.Report Abuse
BabyNono87
I feel for poor kids, may their mom's soul rest in peace, as for the bastard, hell is waiting for you........Report Abuse
Hosh6
MsKinkyakaKamaSutraFemicide is really getting out of hand.......
He is just a coward, why not ki.ll yourself?????
````````````````````````````````
Uhm he did kill himself didn't he??
Report Abuse
zuluchick
@Hosh6MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
Femicide is really getting out of hand.......
He is just a coward, why not ki.ll yourself?????
````````````````````````````````
Uhm he did kill himself didn't he??
//////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
lol
im sure she meant ki.ll himself and nobody else
Report Abuse
Mangoz
zuluchick@Nongoloza24
zuluchick
Men will have the upper hand if you give them the permission.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
i would say thats more on the emotional side, but biological make up puts me at instant vunerability to any man, but i agree with you somewhat
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@Mangoz
zuluchick
why i dont wanna get married
========================
Dude, u do know that a boyfriend can also do that right?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
bra i know its just that i gues i dont even wanna get into a bf/gf relationship as of yet, i dont know what it is about us opposite sex we are attracted to each other and then end up hating each other..
================================
Point taken.
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