Thu May 23 13:42:06 SAST 2013

Mother's wedding bells turn to grief

Dec 20, 2012 | Pertunia Ratsatsi | 22 comments

INSTEAD of arranging a wedding, a family in Hammanskraal found themselves arranging a funeral.

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Thu May 23 13:42:06 SAST 2013 ::
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Dec 20, 2012

Dubul'Amanzi

Sad news indeed,corrupt police.Hope the man rot in jail or community must take law into their hands.
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Dec 20, 2012

TLekota

Yah. Ke tseo, tsa December boss.
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Dec 20, 2012

lindsay

"When the in-laws arrived no one said a word about the wedding. The families discussed the funeral instead of my lobola," Chuma said.

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i don't understand this statement but then let me dismiss it as shock talking maybe
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Dec 20, 2012

sekhebereshe

@lindsay
"When the in-laws arrived no one said a word about the wedding. The families discussed the funeral instead of my lobola," Chuma said.

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OK i am confused here...OK lets discuss her wedding?
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Dec 20, 2012

givemethat

The family of the victim should give authorities time to investigate the case. Alwehlanga lungehlanga

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Dec 20, 2012

Pointman

Tragedy indeed. The family must be under so much stress right now and I hope they pull through okay. The driver must be charged with murder and Sowetan must keep the story in the news so no dockets go missing.
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Dec 20, 2012

maneater

was it a wedding or lobola negotiations? if it was a wedding someone olease tell me what was the bride doing walking in the streets that late at night a day before her wedding? guess we will never know but i pray that the little on rest in peace!!
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Dec 20, 2012

5SKIPAZ

"I suddenly felt a cold breeze passing next to me
I then ran after the car waving my hands, hoping that the driver would stop."
we were laughing so hard.
The families discussed the funeral instead of my lobola,"
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I BLAME SOWETAN FOR THIS ARTICLE TO SOUND LIKE A JOKE!! To the kid R.I.P
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Dec 20, 2012

MsHollyHerb-TheReturn

Rest in peace baby gal.

@Sowetan normaly we dont get merried the following day, and the day before kukhulunywa amalobola???????
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Dec 20, 2012

Serene

"There is no way that the police could neglect such a serious case.
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like reallY?
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Dec 20, 2012

lindsay

@Sekhebereshe

ok i guess the funeral can wait but the wedding can't.
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Dec 20, 2012

maditaba

@sekhebereshe&lindsay. Remember this grieving mother was emotional and probably narrated the story in Setswana. An experienced journalist will take their notes and put the story in a proper written format and not just regugitate what the journalist said.
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Dec 20, 2012

MommaC

PERTUNIA RATSATSI,

Did this get completely mangled during editing or did you just write a very poor article?
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Dec 20, 2012

Voetzek

That hamanskral road is a mess you cannot see the middle line, i cannot blame the popoo they aressted the man and took blood test and release him on bail until they get the result whats the problem
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Dec 20, 2012

patsa


Lawlessness in our roads requires government to strengthen surveillances in order to ensure safety in our roads. The estimated fatalities since the festive season began amount to nearly 700 lives. In these lost lives, we have tax payers, parents, future leaders and so forth. The biggest cause of ever soaring fatalities is corruption, especially in a process of acquiring a driver’s licence. Our people are still subject to bribing the police before are pronounced legally fit to drive in our national roads. The shortcoming of this model is that this removes the incentive for adequate driving lessons. In part because of economics of driving and on other hand because people believe driving test can only be passed if you have given a bribe. In other words your capability cannot secure a drivers licence rather a bribe guarantee you a drivers licence. Furthermore, if a drive is found exceeding the speed limit a bribe guarantees immunity from the law enforcement. Clearly, there are faulty lines in the law enforcing agency, which need to be corrected by admittedly improving salaries for the police and also imposing harsh penalties to the police found accepting bribes. But as citizens we have the responsibility to care for other citizens. The golden rule says do unto others what you would like to be done unto you.
Another killer is drink and driving. At this time of the year with windfall of cash people over indulge in alcoholic beverages. All citizens should remain responsible and don’t drink and drive. If a friend over indulge in alcohol at your home, you must insist that he/she rest and even drink coffee because it dampens alcohol content in the blood. Overall, over drinking is detrimental to your health and moderate drinking if necessary should be considered.

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Dec 20, 2012

Illuminated10111

this story is so complicated, the driver sped off,the driver was arrested, the driver,the lobola,the wedding......... oh sowetan!
anywayz may little Karabo's soul rest in peace
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Dec 20, 2012

Mecury

sekhebereshe
@lindsay
"When the in-laws arrived no one said a word about the wedding. The families discussed the funeral instead of my lobola," Chuma said.

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OK i am confused here...OK lets discuss her wedding?
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sEKHEBERESHE, WHAT A NAME?HOWZIT SKHEBI
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Dec 20, 2012

lindsay

@Maditaba

i understand that shock and heartache can make you say confusing things especially if the shocking incident is still fresh hence i said maybe its shock speaking because there is no way her wedding is important than her daughter
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Dec 20, 2012

Thinawise

This story has loop holes,walking at 8pm,on the gravel road,didnt hear anything..come on sowetan..
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Dec 20, 2012

Lemtongthai

Exposure to poverty can do you absolute injustice. If she was a middle class woman preparing for her wedding the following day there would have been cars all around to help her prepare for her happiest moment. I bet all the expensive cars were in Mangaung. What a sad turn of events, askies mama.
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Dec 20, 2012

Britata

u took somebody's man,vho ni lowa
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Jan 21, 2013

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