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'Men must protect women'

Dec 10, 2012 | Sapa | 14 comments

"This is not a women’s issue, it is a man’s issue" - African Christian Democratic Party

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 Good men need to speak up every time they hear a woman being disrespected, objectified and violated, even by words 

The ACDP has called on men to protect women against violence.

“Violence against women is largely perpetrated because men regard women as possessions and sexual objects,” African Christian Democratic Party MP Steve Swart said in a statement on Sunday.

“It is this attitude which must change,” he said.

“Men can play the most active part in preventing violence against women.  

“This is not a women’s issue, it is a man’s issue.

"Violence against women is interlaced with gender equality, and deeply ingrained in the attitudes of men”.

Swart was commenting at the close of the 16 days of activism against gender violence.

“Good men need to speak up every time they hear a woman being disrespected, objectified and violated even by words,” he said.

“We can no longer enshrine a patriarchal culture nor condone violence with attitudes at the expense of our women.”

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Thu May 23 02:00:17 SAST 2013 ::
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Dec 10, 2012

Vhamsanda

ACDP got this one WRONG. This is a societal ISSUE .
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Dec 10, 2012

T.C.T

The 16 days of activism against gender violence is not helping and will never help our situations especially if more and more pressure is been puted in our brothers and uncles by government and ada institutes etc men of today are bitter bcos s.perm donors are not pepared to be good fathers and role models to there children ..and today children are so stubbon bcos they have been raised by mothers .in the olden days fathers wer around and they used to walk around with their boys boys and mothers with there baby girls and that help both parties to teach children wat is expected from them if they grow up, today lives is just a lovely comedy we must all enjoy nothing can be done the government creat l.aws which seems to interfere with the capabilities of parening and our cultural and tradision systems have been undermined and ignored perhaps women are also confused with this too much r.ights and l.aws
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Dec 10, 2012

skwamasamabele

T.C.T
Come back from the Stone Age bro, women are assertive today because of the advancements made in the 21st Century, nothing can drag them back to Jurrasic times (where you belong). Absent fathers are absolving themselves of responsibility because they seem to imagine they live a life of animals, whereby a male takes no part in rearing his children. Women had to be father and mother to their single households because of male absenteesm. We need more women in positions of power because they are more efficient, articulate and methodical in dealing with life issues, whereas men are corrupt, ruthless and incompetent in their struggle to enrich themselves. Subservience of women is a product of men
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Dec 10, 2012

Sophisticated_Ignorance

That would work if most women were worth defending... Some are just plain rude and disrespectful to all and sundry and are mostly bitter!

I'm sorry but I'll defend what I can prove to be "worth it", before then, you;re on your own!
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Dec 10, 2012

madimetsha

Why? we are mos 50/50, siyalingana........
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Dec 10, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

We need to move from a patriarchal way of thinking.
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Dec 10, 2012

T.C.T

50/50 my fooooot this laws are the ones that are making women to be so tjatjarag that is why they always get smackdown wen argueing with men....maybe tthe 21century need to learn from the staone age women of the past why there marriage wer so strong including the LOVE itself,those who will respond by saying becos they wer depending on men are lazy to think....WE have one love 21century love is still the same with the stone age love...women of today need to know wer do they belong
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Dec 10, 2012

Shredder

I tried to protect my woman. She was dressed in a distasteful way with too much flesh showing. She told me we are not going discuss how she is dressed. There you have it............
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Dec 10, 2012

NTJAPEDI

Haaaa...Heeeeeell NO i aint pushing my nose is sum ish i have nuthing to do with.n!gg@z will break your neck out there.i'll defend my woman,sister,aunt,couzin etc etc....if i dont know ur name Ha ke dikene.
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Dec 10, 2012

skwamasamabele

T.C.T

Do you ever listen or in this case, read what you write?? Stone Age women had no rights at all, were kidnapped at will, during war, they were stolen as like objects and had no voice at all. You dont lack the capacity to think, YOU HAVE NO BRAIN. I prefer women of TODAY, who make their own decisions and judges of their destinies. Go back to your cave, and take no WOMAN with you
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