cocolucho

What the f!! Its a curse to be female in this country
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swona

Is it true that ANC has stopped SABC from airing a programme where Prince Mashele was criticising zuma? do we have media freedom in SA or we just like zimbabwe?

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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe

I didnt read this article but surely the incident occured in Eastern Cape.
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Galfrend

some men! @ cocolucho its scarry,if we not bieng raped,we are killed,kidnapped ,forced into marriages ayi Lord have mecry on us!
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RobinH

Kata: With respect, If you don't even read the articles, why comment at all, let alone ask idiotic questions. READ THE ARTICLE and all will be clear.
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o

cocolucho
What the f!! Its a curse to be female in this country


I think it's a curse being a female in this era period...I've just viewed some rather disturbing photos from an article of 55 year old men marrying 8 year old little girls!! It's horrific!
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RobinH

Incognito: Worst of all, is the completely rabid chauvinism that so many of the male readers here display. If this is any indication of the attitudes of men in general (I would lilke to believe that they represent a small, sick but vocal minority, as I am male) then I am disgusted. Truly disgusted. A vast number of male readers here seem to see women not even as 2nd class citizens, but as some possession or plaything to be used as they wish and discarded at will. YUCK!
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Chichi7

Are we cursed or what? How muh more must women and children endure in this country?
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Galfrend

Robin - Funny for you to say that yet on the other article you find photos of male urinery shaped as women private parts amusing,isnt that the same as viewing women as sex objects or "some possession or plaything to be used as they wish and discarded at will."? You Sir, are confused and I think u fall under male readers who have no respect for women.# am just saying!
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!!!Sinudeity!!!

Yeah, South Africa is cursed.
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malemaforpresident

Kante Mazulu dont propose love naaa somebody help no wonder why they rape gogos they only want it inside nxaa this tribe really dont belong to this country
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MophemeKoPitori

The guy is driving a Land Cruiser, and yet he's abducting women! MXM, he's an a$$$hole. Ladies there are wonderful guys out there but you prefer the likes of.... "KatakataEmaotoAditshepe" like WTF?!?!?!?!?!
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Flemza

With due respect I`m a law abiding citizen and I have paid fully my lobola , but if this man is saying he paid Lobola for this lady , just let him take his wife home why arrest him
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Honeybadger

I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
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Hello.
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o

@Flemza
With due respect, your comment seems to imply that because he paid lobola for her he owns her ... and that we should over look her basic human right...the right to decide where she wants to be and with whom?

Nafuthi...he probably was taking her home to fulfill his promise to kill her...so good on her for her bravery and jumping out that car when she did - and good on the police for arresting the bully!


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Honeybadger

Flemza
With due respect I`m a law abiding citizen and I have paid fully my lobola , but if this man is saying he paid Lobola for this lady , just let him take his wife home why arrest him
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You Sir, do not reason like a lawyer. I shudder to think, if you are indeed a lawyer, that you have to present a logical argument in front of a magistrate in defence of somebody who is paying for your services. If you are a lawyer and have never had any head injuries after completing your studies then someone out there owes you money. You were seriously short-changed on your education bill Sir.


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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o

@HB
Hi.
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RobinH

Galfriend: I see no contradiction. I see these as witty reflections on male rituals in urinals. They are so far from realistic that I feel that your objections are unfortunate. I would be just as amused by satire on male issues. For example, in a 70s Cheech and Chong comedy, there is a scene with two men in a urinal, one in leathers with countless zips and flaps and one in a suit with a smart briefcase under his arm. The one in the leathers battles to find which zip to open, while the guy in the suit smartly unzips his briefcase and pees. It's amusing. I notice, for instance, also, that men seem unable to stand at a urinal without looking at the guy next to them's size. It's automatic, and very amusing. Not hysterically funny, but it brings a chuckle, and humour makes the nasty world so much more bearable. I think so, anyway. In actual fact I am a strong advocate of women's rights and a harsh critic of chauvinism of any form, as you may have noticed.
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RobinH

Honeybadger> Flemza is incapable of reason at all, never mind reasoning like a lawyer. Imagine having such an obtuse person defending you! The idea is frightening.
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe

@cocolucho

What the f!! Its a curse to be female in this country.
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That's truth and the bible says when Jehovah curses a woman because she made man to sin he said;
“I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception” Genesis 3:16

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RobinH

kata: I'm sure cocolucho is going to love that remark, lol.......
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Voetzek

A woman was rescued after being kidnapped, """""allegedly a man who had paid lobola for her""""""
What is the story her a man paid lobola

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Galfrend

Robin.I get your point but honestly I guess we have to agree to disagree. I find it contradictory.But its fine.
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MommaC

Maybe this idea of lobola should be re-thought out. It is no longer a compensation to the family and proof of his ability to take care of the woman, it is now considered to be purchasing goods.
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2shy2call

But when it knocked an ordinary citizen there are charges.

Ya wena ausi or je mar@go kae? Mofe back his lobalo a yo reka ko Hillbrow
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!!!Sinudeity!!!

Stupid barbaric cultures in South Africa.
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RobinH

Voetzek. Do what your name says. A woman is NEVER a man's possession. Marriages can end in divorce if the woman (or man) is unhappy. This pathetic belief so obvious in so many readers here, that they "own" a woman, even using telltale terms like "MY woman" is utterly disgusting. She is not YOUR woman. She is a woman who chooses to be with you. Back to the dark ages with you!
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Papage

He was taking her to Nkandla, these idiots still believe in this nonsense, he is only 30 years old and still believe in the past, I wish he kidnaped my Sister, o be a tlo pinya boss.

Taxi driver knowcking a traffic officer down, it can only happen in KZN, they have no ears, if you dont use Zulu in stoping them, you have a long day, he will be out in no time, he will tell the judge in Zulu were to get off.
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Galfrend

RobinH
Voetzek. Do what your name says
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bhwahahahahahahahahaa lol!!!
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RobinH

Papage: Lose the tribalist rhetoric please. It really doesn't benefit anyone very much.

Galfrend. Thanks.
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MommaC

Voetzek

Big fan of the slave trade then?
It is a woman, not a lampshade - you don't just purchase it.
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RobinH

not a lampshade!!! I LOVE IT!!! He's not bright enough to need a shade anyway.
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mashima?

how couldsomeone claim to pay lobola to her without her knowledge because lobola shoul be negotiated by including eldeers and there are some procedures to be followed. LADY are you telling the truth, because before even the negotiations there should be a relationship between two people.
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warry

Some parents. So they wanted the animals (izinkomo). Pretty good, she was sold off.
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RobinH

mashima: With respect, whether lobola was paid or not is irrelevant. The woman is not his possession.
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LEEMINAJ

I say he shoud marry whoever accepted the lobola...some families kodwa!!!! #clapsonce
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Honeybadger

I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@HB
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My lady each time i try to have conversation an half wit walks into my office for a banana or something. Hope u well though.
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Papage

RobinH
Papage: Lose the tribalist rhetoric please. It really doesn't benefit anyone very much.

What do you know about go shobedisa wena? that happens only in KZN and is a Zulu practice, do you maybe do it in your custom Boss? there is no tribalism here idiot


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Voetzek

RobinH
MommaC
Galfrend
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i was just pas-maggering but do you know that you can sleep with ur woman and she goes on to report you for rape(lying) because you didnt maybe give her money/
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MommaC

Voetzek

Stop sleeping with whoores or pay the agreed price. Simple as that
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SSANE

RobinH

i like the way you think

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Pointman

I hope this thing does not become a scourge on our women. This kind of behaviour is endemic in parts of pakistan, chechnya and other caususes countries but I notice there have been at least two reports of such behaviour recently.
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