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My dad has turned his back on me, says murder suspect

Oct 10, 2012 | Mogomotsi Selebi | 79 comments

"I'm a young man who made a mistake"

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Oct 10, 2012

ApelMankotsana

Eish!!! Mkhize.....
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Oct 10, 2012

MommaC

No dude. A 'mistake' is when you forget your keys at home or being your girlfriend. Strangling someone isn't something you do by accident. Its not an 'oh, I tripped on the carpet and my hands happened to go around her throat' type of scenario
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Oct 10, 2012

ntebo

there is more for you to come in prison my boy,
killing someone is not a mistake, you should have dumped her or slept around too, now your a$$ will be a VJJ
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Oct 10, 2012

malemaforpresident

I'm a young man who made a mistake. I have been threatened by inmates because they saw my story in Sowetan."
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Young man at 25 years? waaanya is it a mistake to take someone's life fsheek

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Oct 10, 2012

McCountryMan

you can't change what you did Fana, Dance to the music, Jails you go there with a big mind and small ass hole but when you come back its verse vase small mind big ass hole baba
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Oct 10, 2012

BRA-MAFUTHA

Sorry sani!! is just dat your dad never expected something like that from u he probably had high expectations4 you sani, what you did was wrong and deserves punishment, prison is like dat u'll get all types of abuses from the inmates and those sex starved warders like bo Mr Big.

U are an idiot san.............Mara what we u thinking?

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Oct 10, 2012

warry

Hehehehe of paletse mfowethu She was a real giver, even to hour friends. Le bona ba hwile pelo maan, banyoba feels.
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Oct 10, 2012

Vongsta

Eish..... Mkhize you might as well become gay mfana.....you'll survive in jail!
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Oct 10, 2012

RobinH

Hey mate. You should have thought about this before killing your girlfriend. Jealousy is absolutely no excuse. She wasn't your possession and you committed a heinous crime. Take the consequences you little snot.
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Oct 10, 2012

Tlakenyobehle!

but her surname say it all Sarah Molewa mr mkhize you should have take it from there small boy
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Oct 10, 2012

Kagawa

You did't to Sarah now face the inmates, please trap him until he looses some teeth. Ni ndenwa musi
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Oct 10, 2012

lindsay

why didn't he leave the sl ut alone he deserves jail big time
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Oct 10, 2012

maditaba

Lynwood Ridge, ke cheese boy mosimane o. At 25 he still had an opportunity to meet a decent girl
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Oct 10, 2012

Iphone5

damn she was beautiful . just saw her pics on facebook , ya ne u just had to end that life boza , i guess u were sure jealous , u shouldve let her go u had taste now u will be a taste for sum guys inside we hope it all ease and u get fond with life in prision >

may she rest in peace
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Oct 10, 2012

Printa

Uncedile wena Khizie thumele eso si f$b$be koo yise. Qha ke ngoku Ntwana, zama indlela esebenzayo phume apho.

Yithi you memontarily went insane.
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Oct 10, 2012

Nongoloza24

"The deceased was allegedly sleeping around and had slept with Mkhize's two mutual friends," said Botha.
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I knew it gore the woman ne a feba that's why this dude a mo ntshitse ka game.
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Oct 10, 2012

iPhone4

McCountryMan
you can't change what you did Fana, Dance to the music, Jails you go there with a big mind and small ass hole but when you come back its verse vase small mind big ass hole baba
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Hhu hhayi classic I tell ya!
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Oct 10, 2012

Msiphos00

Do your time mfana maybe you will get parole after 20 years,

Look now you are in trouble just cos of a galfrnd, girls are like buses or taxis mfana you miss one you sure will get another one
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Oct 10, 2012

Blackstone.lebs

Your only mistake is mixing with the wrong crowd, two bad friends and a whoring chick. That's about the only sympathy i have for you. Murder is a crime papas, so deal with the results of your idiotic decision.
There's hierarchy is prison and you're probably at the lowest end, hence the intimidation. In there it's not about who died, it's about who killed...that warden is just stirring shyt, there's more to come.
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Oct 10, 2012

RobinH

Lindsay" "sl ut" - A bit rough that. Did you know the woman or are you remarking based on the young k i l l e r's remarks?

WHY WAS THIS INOFFENSIVE QUESTION REMOVED, SOWETAN?
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Oct 10, 2012

Nongoloza24

Vongsta
Eish..... Mkhize you might as well become gay mfana.....you'll survive in jail!
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Have you been in jail....do you know what's happening in jail wena huh?Things have changed big time there life is a bit easy...there are those gang fights but not like in the olden days....you will be someone's wife if wa phapha like wena so maybe o jewa everywhere nxa.
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Oct 10, 2012

Mosquer

Dumelang
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Oct 10, 2012

Nongoloza24

There is nothing as painful as hearing that your woman was facked by your friend...these killings won't stop.
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Oct 10, 2012

Nongoloza24

Re dumele eng gore o snaikazi?
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Oct 10, 2012

xikosi

dis guy looks like Itumeleng Khune
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Oct 10, 2012

thinya

This must come as a lesson to other domkops like you, go straight to gail boy. Ga gona mistake in taking someone's life like you did, tsek!
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Oct 10, 2012

missteeque

ai mara people r stupid hey! seriously. Just coz this boy told his lawyer that she was phucking around yol believe it??? thats how easily rumors spread. it still doesn't make murdering her ok! i went to tuks with sarah and she was a gr8 girl,very hot too alot of guys wanted her but she loved this sorry excuse of a man! if anything he was probably jealous of all the attention she got from other men but i HIGHLY doubt that that she slept with his friends,none of em r even appetizing! sies! may u serve life in jail Sitho!
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Oct 10, 2012

Vongsta

Nongoloza24
Vongsta
Eish..... Mkhize you might as well become gay mfana.....you'll survive in jail!
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Have you been in jail....do you know what's happening in jail wena huh?Things have changed big time there life is a bit easy...there are those gang fights but not like in the olden days....you will be someone's wife if wa phapha like wena so maybe o jewa everywhere nxa.
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You sound bitter, please grab a bangstoel and sit down..........while at it tshwara pacifier you'll feel much better............
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Oct 10, 2012

DrunkenMaster

" I am a young man who made a mistake" @ 25 you should have known better ou seen, Whenever you suspect that someone is cheating on you just prove it and walk out of the relationship.
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Oct 10, 2012

thinya

@ xikosi, kwakwakwaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!! exactly the same
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Oct 10, 2012

SEBIKIBIKI

Go to jail mfana. Go straight to jail. Do not pass begin. Do not collect R200. Have you ever played a game of monopoly. You are an idiot boy.
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Oct 10, 2012

Bumboklaat

Iyo the deceased le yena ne ana le bonkisi man, a robala le chomi tsa accused tse pedi?
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Oct 10, 2012

Tabza325is

"When we arrested him, I could tell he was very athletic. I warned him not to run because I would have to shoot him. He said it would be better if he were dead".

I wonder how fat is the police man.
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Oct 10, 2012

Vongsta

Tabza325is
"When we arrested him, I could tell he was very athletic. I warned him not to run because I would have to shoot him. He said it would be better if he were dead".

I wonder how fat is the police man.
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Wkakakakakakakakakakakaka *dead and buried+cremation*
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Oct 10, 2012

TjoVtjo

"When we arrested him, I could tell he was very athletic. I warned him not to run because I would have to shoot him.".
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Am I the only person that see's something wrong with that statement? The police can't shoot someone running away from them unless that person poses a threat to their live's. This guy is a law suit waiting to happen against the Minister of the Police. That's a death threat to me.
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Oct 10, 2012

TjoVtjo

Yena en ele spompela!!!
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Oct 10, 2012

DA-DBN-GUY

This is the problem in this country! Murder is being seen as a 'mistake" and not the heinous crime it is.
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Oct 10, 2012

ThirdEye

We can always talk & blame the guy, but how many of us males who knows how to control ourself once you have found that your girl/wife has cheated on you? Worst with your friend? The heat of the moment can make someone do stupid things.

The key is to walk away for the moment & allow yourself to calm down, if you didn't do that, you can really mess up.
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Oct 10, 2012

lindsay

@RobinH
Botha further said Mkhize could have snapped after learning of Molewa's promiscuity.
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The deceased was allegedly sleeping around and had slept with Mkhize's two mutual friends," said Botha.
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its the opposing detective who said that not the accused so i'm not taking the accused statement if it was the accused who said so i would not even comment on it either way he should not have killed her, he should have taken a chill pill and let go the girl was not for him thats for sure you can't love a person you can't trust thats just a waste of time not that i believe in a fantasy called love.
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Oct 10, 2012

MAILBOX

mosimanyana oo o tletse metlae , a mistake for killing someone , i say let him rot in jail for what he did nxa
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Oct 10, 2012

Voetzek

you bottom will be like a borehole when you get released from prision, u should have thought better
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Oct 10, 2012

Kinggeezo

What does he expect?
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Oct 10, 2012

THEmadame2B-BBEE

Mkhize said he had not, but added: "I was hit by a warder
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yah, ne, but you killed your girlfriend
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Oct 10, 2012

MSG_S

'My dad has turned his back on me, says murder suspect'
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Your dad is a good man sonnyboy.
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Oct 10, 2012

THEmadame2B-BBEE

i just saw the picture of the girl 'she is to die for', MARA y,Mr. Mkhize mara y
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Oct 10, 2012

oldlady12

MommaC, enjoyed your explanation of a mistake. Me again, I have a problem with saying I lost weight. It makes it sound as if I've done it by mistake, meantime I've worked my ars.e off getting rid of it.
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Oct 10, 2012

THEmadame2B-BBEE

the girl is so gorgeous i can't stop looking at her photo......Mr. Mkhize its unfair boss just because she chowed your friends i mean a se kuku ya gago, it belongs to her she can do whatever she wants with it
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Oct 10, 2012

I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o

THEmadame2B-BBEE
i just saw the picture of the girl 'she is to die for', MARA y,Mr. Mkhize mara y


Where did you see the picture of the girl?

Sad...he's not a bad looking kid himself - he's going to hate prison even more once the jailbirds get their claws in him.
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Oct 10, 2012

thinya

E bile o totetse jou swine!
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Oct 10, 2012

THEmadame2B-BBEE

@INcognito
google, Sarah molewa (sarah refilwe molewa)...its sad jerrr and she went to DSG 1million rand of education down the drain
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Oct 10, 2012

mrembozanyoro

Ba lo go ja matanyolo sani boy.. tell your friends to get you sum baby oil
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Oct 10, 2012

candilious

Mistake he learned from the best ...................And he might get off SA alive with possibilities

Ja ne
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Oct 10, 2012

I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o

THEmadame2B-BBEE
Ja, sad man. What a waste of beauty and brains.


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Oct 10, 2012

Ary

Send him to Botswana Please
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Oct 10, 2012

krazy-b

my boy you better stay away from girls when or if you come out of prison
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Oct 10, 2012

msizi

"I'm a young man who made a mistake"

BULLS.IT you killed her on purpose, went out to have a nice drink with your friends, came back and disposed of her body somewhere. You are a cold blooded killer and you deserve a very long time behind bars you sick phuck !!!!
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Oct 10, 2012

Nongoloza24

I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
THEmadame2B-BBEE
Ja, sad man. What a waste of beauty and brains.
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If only she used her beauty and brains to good use and not sleep around she would be alive today.
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Oct 10, 2012

Umhle

McCountryMan
you can't change what you did Fana, Dance to the music, Jails you go there with a big mind and small ass hole but when you come back its verse vase small mind big ass hole baba
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Hahahaha
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Oct 10, 2012

2shy2call

Tsek go grew up without fathers but we knew what is right and wrong.
If someone assault you do think is right? if not did you need your father to tell you that k!lling is wrong?

Omarete
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Oct 10, 2012

KatakataEmaotoAditshepe

"The deceased was allegedly sleeping around and had slept with Mkhize's two mutual friends," said Botha."
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But this doenst give him such right to murder.


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Oct 10, 2012

I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o

Nongoloza24
If only she used her beauty and brains to good use and not sleep around she would be alive today

Guys are starting to use the infidelity of "their" women as an excuse to murder!! Who knows whether she did cheat or not - we can't ask her now can we???
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Oct 10, 2012

Gusheshe

@Vongsta

Hahaha the dude o laba bangstoel. kikikikikiki
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Oct 10, 2012

paracute

you are a spoilt brat, you are an idiot what does your father have to do with you killing your girlfriend, jail is too comfortable for people of your kind, you and malema deserve to be put in one of the old unused mines where you'll see no one and no one will see you, there you can relive yourselves with each other and we'll see who falls pregnant first between the two of you.
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Oct 10, 2012

Papage

So what gives you the right to kill her? you dad is right to ignore you, you have become a killer, wish they bring you to JHB Prison.
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Oct 10, 2012

msizi

I want 2 go Marikana on this fool, you did not satify her in bed & she had to cheat so you killed her coz it messed up your ego
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Oct 10, 2012

Vongsta

Gusheshe
@Vongsta

Hahaha the dude o laba bangstoel. kikikikikiki
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kakakakakakakakakakakakakakak ni mbaula..........
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Oct 10, 2012

Charlie2456

All of the descriptions of Sarah in this piece are untrue! The second half of the story is such a terrible, hideous piece of writing that isn't fit to be printed anywhere! None of these facts are corroborated! One actual fact: they had been broken up for 3 months. Infact the entire piece is built around the opinions of the investigating officer! For those of us who know Sarah, this disgusting piece is an insult to her memory!
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Oct 10, 2012

Tibub

So the late Sarah was a social worker , reason am saying this is because social workers help people with problems and yena she was helping people who are sex starved it is sad but true the good die young
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Oct 10, 2012

Zinzile

Its funny how i don't see the reporter writing about how he had strangled her and slammed her against the cupboard in the past or how she had had to call the police on him because she was scared of him and she had called off the engagement a couple of weeks before so what she did in her love life was none of his business. And this is the guy who's words you choose to print, a murder who had the nerve to still talk to her family like had done nothing. She was an outstanding person with a bright future. Maybe next time instead of spreading the words of a jealous murderer and dragging my sister's name through the dirt you should try get the full story.

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Oct 10, 2012

Zinzile

And he's not a suspect. He confessed to doing it so there's no suspicion about it.
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Oct 10, 2012

Zinzile

And he's not a suspect. He confessed to doing it, he's a murderer, there's no suspicion about that.
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Oct 10, 2012

Zinzile

Nongoloza24
If only she used her beauty and brains to good use and not sleep around she would be alive today

She was getting her honours in aeronautical engineering, got 92% for her final year project. Sh was smarter, worked harder and acheived more than most of you people here passing judgement than most people here passing judgement on people you don't even know.
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Oct 10, 2012

skwamasamabele

I made a mistake once, had children with women who ran away with them and cheated on me. But, unlike you, I learned from them, by walking away. The other way. I left SA for Europe. got my degree. Those women who ran away with my children want me back now. BUT, ITS TOO LATE. You had your future in front of you, and you k@k on it from a great height. Now your future is behind, like your k@k. Deal with it
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Oct 10, 2012

Vhukhudo

You people are busy desecrating the memory of someone you don't even know. Show some respect for the dead. In as much as what they both did was wrong, none of you have a right to pass such judgement on either of them. As for him, the prison that awaits him will be nothing compared to what will happen in the after life.
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Oct 11, 2012

Cati-poo

Everything abt this article is insulting to us who loved Sarah. Unless, the main reason for publishing it was to show tht Sthoks deserves to serve 5 life sentences.. He shows no remorse whatsoever. He has been given a chance to say something to the family and friends but all he has to say is tht he is a young man tht made a mistake?!!! He does not apologise, he whines about being hit by a warder after strangling my friend.. Do any of you know how long it takes for someone to die from strangulation? It takes a while. The person has to pass out and you have to carry on strangling them whilst checking their pulse.. Its not a mistake... You took a precious life tht was filled with potential and for what?..This nonsense of her being promiscuous is untrue..if she was so promiscuous then why was he busy making plans trying to win her back? Boo Hoo "my dad won't speak to me". Are you joking?!!!
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Oct 11, 2012

Cati-poo

"I have never been to prison before. I don't know how it operates." Are you insane... You should have killed her in Botswana then we would hang you!!!
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Oct 11, 2012

DeliweL

This article completely undermines the huge problem we have with femicide. Why is the victim sexualised? Why is the detective quoted as making assumptions and personal judgement calls as opposed to actually investigating the crime, which is his job? Did the journalist question any of this? Do not ridicule the seriousness of the crime or the victim's integrity. This is not a soapie. It's disgusting.
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Oct 12, 2012

NguboNduna

Uzenzile akakhalelwa, kodwa inxeba lendoda alihlekwa. Namhlanje nguye kusasa kungaba unoma ubani ngoba ikusasa awulazi likuphatheleni.

Soldier on Mkhize, serve your punishment because you deserve what got. You committed a crime and don't expect a good peaceful treatment in prison, it's a prison for a reason not a B & B. Hamb'oshizila mfanomdala!! Correct
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Oct 12, 2012

SISJOY

I don't mean to insult other tribes but there is a tribe that its blood is boiling all the times. To kill a person to them is nothing. they breg with tha.
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