Boys today, can not just take it, if she does not want you anymore, please let her go, why kill her? Stupid Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MorenaWaPolelo
This is sad, I wonder what leads a man to do this to a person they told they love??? Some men are heartless!!!!!!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Far too many men in this country view women as mere possessions. It's appalling. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Vhamsanda
Every time we fall in love , we are putting ourselves at risk . This is because we do not know what we are getting into until it's too late . Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
2shy2call
Uncle please next time hand him to the community first they will hand him to the police.
Quick Quick Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MorenaJesu
obviously if u'r not a men enough you'll see her with another men who're able 2 satisfy her for you, stupid coward Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
Sometimes we feel sorry for women when these things happen, but it is them who get into relationships with thugs. The say they don't want single guys, they don't want nice 'boring' guys. Well, this is what they get... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MophemeKoPitori
2012/10/09. some idiot calling himself a man is still old-fashioned whereby he doesn't like his woman to chat with other men! This kind of people deserve to be put in Zim prison where prisoners have no rights!
Real MEN know that a woman is also a human being and as such deserves to chat with whoever whenever just like us MEN! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Polotona
@ 2shy2col...i agree wth u bru,this moegoes y ha ba bona gore ga ba sa ratiwa ba sa itsamaele,bcz botekene ba bantsi mo mzansi,setlaela sa motswana wa gaetsho jaanong se ile go bolela ko tronkong. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MOKOPANEDUDE
Stupid fool,he doesnt kno that u dont own sum1,she can sleep with any1 anytym and if u solve ur problem by killing u gonna kill many ppl b4 u realise Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
warry
Jooo Ratau, Tsutsuma o bolaile Jane morago go mo hwetsa a sepela le Cyril kua Joubetina Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
DJW: I am just saying nothing and shaking my head. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
msizi
Shaka Zulu was the first S.A president :) Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
msizi
Cmon Sowetan that was a nice comment why did you remove it mara eish you guys :( Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
INVETSMENT.....can you image how it will feel like when you have invested your money into a relationship (pampering the guy with gifts and clothes )and later to be told that it’s over.....yeah sure i'll......somebody Report Abuse
Until men in this country stop looking at women as their possessions, we will continue to have this problem Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
misscm02
@ DJ-Winner, u really r an idiot!!! Clearly u wud do dat if u were dumped. Someone has lost a daughter, a sister, an aunt & a mother n u say they deserve this because they fell in love? Stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner
haai, wena Mahlangu, you can't say that, you just can't say dat*julius malema voice* Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@THEmadame2B-BBEE
halla mamasita
Eish bana ba why kill her at that age id move on find another pretty girl forget about her Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Mosquer
Eish!! ja ne! bafana ba matswana ba gaketše bjale Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Some women do not learn yerrrr cheating on a man is extremely dangerous...There is more to this story than what meets the eye I mean you can't just k'ill a person for talking to another man this doesn't make sense,maybe they were having an affair *just saying* Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Tsatsatsa
23 years old Sishimane killed his girlfriend. This is not out of jealeous, but it pure stupidity and he was not in love, but he was obsessed with her. The young man is sick...he might not even face the jail sentence uyahlanya lona. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Mosquer
Eish!! ja ne! bafana ba matswana ba gaketše bjale
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Rra leretjana wa se itse setlhopa sa mo-ba?A gona matswana wa utlwa le wena gore o bolela sephinya...a ke go rute o d'ithala tse setlhafetseng,ke Motswana-Batswana wa utlwa lepetsana. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
misscm02
@ DJ-Winner, u really r an idiot!!! Clearly u wud do dat if u were dumped. Someone has lost a daughter, a sister, an aunt & a mother n u say they deserve this because they fell in love? Stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Look, we are not saying we don't feel sorry for her, but sometimes women can be stupid with their selection of guys. You say you don't want single guys, you don't want nice 'boring' guys. I've been told that I'm too nice. How do you explain this? How do you reject a guy because he is too nice? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nastradamas
Bullsh!t, theres got to be more to this.
you cant just kill your girl for seeing her with another man
what were they doing ? walking,talking,kissing or f5cking ?
@Ras
come now, the chick is dead, this is about you man thinking that we are a objects, we are not trophies you know, i mean y would you smoke the poor child Mahlangu is not God he did not bring Kobo into this world, Mahlangu o selfish, he chowed kobo for years and now that the girl wants out of the relationship it becomes an issue of "if I can't have you no else can"
when was the last time you heard that a woman smoked his husband....huh when
Kgane sowetan why did you block comments on Thando's article kikikikikikikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, maybe they were trying to say o gay Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
siya0505
The media again painting men as these horrible human beings, i know for a fact that it didnt start there. sowetan where is the full story? what this guy did was wrong but something had to push him to do it... Men are jealous beings even the bible says so and it will never change. women should stop leading guys on just for the sake of spending his money, that guy sacrifices a lot for that money and when he finds out his being played he will loose it coz its directly destroys his pride... i doubt if he just killed her for that! Dont believe everything you read Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Mosquer
Wa bona!!! They can't think with their brains. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
Captain Amanda Funani said the 23-year-old man was arrested on Sunday for killing 21-year-old Elizabeth Phokompe after seeing her with another man on Saturday.
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Where does a 23 yr old get the guts to commit such a crime??? This is disgusting; how many more defenseless people should lose their lives before our government bring back the death penalty? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Kgaitsedi-ya-Genaro
Bana ba yerrr what do they know mara - they haven't experience a thing in life and already they are at each other's throat. For one to be strong and learn about relationships you have to undergo the cheating process like hell. That's why thina we are still standing to this date. We got cheated, cried our eyes out and walaaa move on! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
PASTA
that clearly means he loved him. dnt just judge a person, you don't know where they come frm. surely they've been through hell and back nd nw she decides to cheat on him. hai these gals hai. Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, maybe they were trying to say o gay
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Well, I don't have any gay features. I talk like guy, I walk straight, I don't wear tight clothes, I don't have any earing in the gay ear. Who said gays are nice? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, maybe they were trying to say o gay
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Why is being seen with another man reason enough to justify murder?? Where does the article state that she was cheating - just because he saw her with another man? From where I'm standing the boy had issues...lack of belief in himself, paranoia, insanity...call it what you will - but to conclude the girl was cheating and therefore she deserved to die...come on! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@DJ-Winner
Sometimes we feel sorry for women when these things happen, but it is them who get into relationships with thugs. The say they don't want single guys, they don't want nice 'boring' guys. Well, this is what they get...
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Mara wena sometimes neh!!!! How do you keep coming with these strange comments? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@MGEEZ
Captain Amanda Funani said the 23-year-old man was arrested on Sunday for killing 21-year-old Elizabeth Phokompe after seeing her with another man on Saturday.
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Where does a 23 yr old get the guts to commit such a crime??? This is disgusting; how many more defenseless people should lose their lives before our government bring back the death penalty?
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She probably made him taste the fruits in her secret garden that he was so crazy about her he couldnt bear seeing her with another man/boy Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner
what, gay ppl are nice ppl, i go shopping with them they’ll even go as far as applying lotion on my body, i like them......ok so let’s solve your problem, the chicks say o nice kWAAAAAKWAAAA. ok, on a serious note you want us to fix this, but before we start you being nice ‘is it the reason why you are not getting lucky’? Because they don't want to give it up to a nice guy Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@THEmadame2B-BBEE
INVETSMENT.....can you image how it will feel like when you have invested your money into a relationship (pampering the guy with gifts and clothes )and later to be told that it’s over.....yeah sure i'll......somebody
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This comment is not in the correct story or you did not read the story. Nobody was dumped in this story or told it was over!!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Mokwepa
eish guys lets receive Jesus as the Lord of South Africa....things are getting out of hand Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@geez
pick on somebody the size of your diek Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Nongoloza and Nastradamus: Whatever the "reason", whether she was having an affair, or was gay or whatever, it is still not acceptable sommer to k i l l someone. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Kgaitsedi-ya-Genaro
Bana ba yerrr what do they know mara - they haven't experience a thing in life and already they are at each other's throat. For one to be strong and learn about relationships you have to undergo the cheating process like hell. That's why thina we are still standing to this date. We got cheated, cried our eyes out and walaaa move on!
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That's because you are a woman and women are forgiving...If you were a man you'd be telling a different story. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Droooooza
Ye ye ye ke batla rough rider....ke batla rough rider.... Observe the rules of the game. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Mokwepa
eish guys lets receive Jesus as the Lord of South Africa....things are getting out of hand
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Wena you definitely going to need Him after ke tlo chwatla leretjana ka hamole goneng ke go bolella I can't usesame avatar as you? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
thembag0206
Why why why?????sishimane,let go umuntu mawumubhaca nomuntu let go sishimane let go!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
although he shouldn't have re-acted with an.ger, but somehow I feel his pain yazi.... mhlambe, the Girl made a great impact in his life.... its not always easy 2 say, that thers lots of Gilrz, ladies Blah Blah..... the thing is they're all different.... and Guys are very sensitive, yonk.... never mind their lies, of always saying Thers a lot of fishes in the sea.... LIE..... they say that just to boost their empty e.gos...... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Bumboklaat
Eish bashimanyana ba abana mooko man! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@THEmadame2B-BBEE
@geez
pick on somebody the size of your diek
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Wow; what would have bought along now? You simply did not read the story hence your commence seems to be wayward!!! Just read the story, you'll be fine Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@THEmadame2B-BBEE
@geez
pick on somebody the size of your diek
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Wow; what would have brought that along now? You simply did not read the story hence your comments seems to be wayward!!! Just read the story, you'll be fine. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Ag! boys,this world is full of girls if you dont read the same page everyone has to walk away that's all. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
@Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for what he did as well.Women in general dont know what they want in a relationship.Here's my story. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ Skopokopo
heloooo my Chomest.... o kae Nunu ??? Report Abuse
MissBhakajuju
@ Skopokopo
heloooo my Chomest.... o kae Nunu ???
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Hala my Nunus, im good thanks and you my lov? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner
what, gay ppl are nice ppl, i go shopping with them they’ll even go as far as applying lotion on my body, i like them......ok so let’s solve your problem, the chicks say o nice kWAAAAAKWAAAA. ok, on a serious note you want us to fix this, but before we start you being nice ‘is it the reason why you are not getting lucky’? Because they don't want to give it up to a nice guy
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But you say guys must be themselves, they must not be someone else. Well, I am a nice guy, if I change now and fake Mr.wrong, that will not be me...I think women don't know what they want. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Zola: With respect that is all irrelevant. One does not kill someone because of something as idiotic as jealousy. I have absolutely no sympathy with so-called jealousy. No-one owns his or her partner. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Kgaitsedi-ya-Genaro
Mokwepa
eish guys lets receive Jesus as the Lord of South Africa....things are getting out of hand
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Does this comment guarantees that if we receive him death will be a thing of the past Sir???
Nongoloza24
That's because you are a woman and women are forgiving...If you were a man you'd be telling a different story.
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Mara don't you think this is right coz we forgive and move on not kill. By forgiving nna I mean ke ya go itshwarela but the relationship is over. Holding a grudge makes one not to have peace mo moyeng broer. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Stripes
wasn't he supposed to have killed himself as well? Isn't that the trend??? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Just let me know when you are ready hahahahaha i bet you , you'd want to stay there Report Abuse
The Anger got the beta of this Confused boy,sowetan need to get more on this one cause It sound as there's more than we are being let to know,please dig it up or even go to the Uncle as well. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
TrapStar
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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No i was just going to run to get the community and tell them he killed her, we would all run to the forest to kick his bud Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@Trapstar
Your friend is sadistic!
@DJWinner
...I think women don't know what they want.
Hillarious! Because in all honesty - the same could be said for men!
You guys pursue us like we are living water....your attention solely on getting us..laying on the charm, the romance the whole enchilada right? When you finally get us you give us this luke warm treatment (the hot then yall cold treatment)...and then all of a sudden we women are too clingy when we want to spend time with you, too possessive, to fast when we want to solidify the relationship! And when we start recieving attention from other guys...then you guys bring out the brute in you...the little green eyed possessive monster...all of a sudden we are yours again....no one should look...should sniff let alone touch what's yours...gaaaaa!
Please!!! Don't go on about woman not knowing what we want...we know...you guys are the confused ones! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Just let me know when you are ready hahahahaha i bet you , you'd want to stay there
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Oh yes, if all qualifies me to stay i will kikikikiki please take me before you take my frend Sweetyk because it wont be ok to take both of us to the planet kwakwkwakwakwakwa Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner
.......you are making me like you, that's so nice..kwaaaaakwaaaa
anyway, unlike other ladies i know what i want, I’m straight forward with my preferences, i tell a guy up front i don’t date black men i go for white only, i like my space, I’m an independent thinker, true there is something called love i experienced it several times, and hated it, now i live my life with my partner for enjoyment travelling and having the coital interlude without me having to stress if he’ll want to marry me or not
your friend, is a m.or.on....but as for you having respect for him... thats priceless....m.e.n must be c.ow.ards Hey, more that I ever thought..... so, it aches seeing your GF with another guy.... how much more, if U find them in b.e.d... LOL
like I said, Guys are just softies in reality... but disguised in a metal face... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Just let me know when you are ready hahahahaha i bet you , you'd want to stay there
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Oh yes, if all qualifies me to stay i will kikikikiki please take me before you take my frend Sweetyk because it wont be ok to take both of us to the planet kwakwkwakwakwakwa
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Skopo your friend Sweetyk is dragging her feet so uzoba strong i am switching to you nkare wa shesha wena she is slow o tla ja lata...n she is gona envy you he o mo tlotlela Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
MissBhakajuju
although he shouldn't have re-acted with an.ger, but somehow I feel his pain yazi.... mhlambe, the Girl made a great impact in his life.... its not always easy 2 say, that thers lots of Gilrz, ladies Blah Blah..... the thing is they're all different.... and Guys are very sensitive, yonk.... never mind their lies, of always saying Thers a lot of fishes in the sea.... LIE..... they say that just to boost their empty e.gos......
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Hellooo Juju ....
You sound like one of those women who say he beat me up because he loves me.
The idiot killed a woman. A real man has enough sense to dust himself off, deal with his ego and move on. No man owns a woman and if she is not the one for you then you have to deal with it like a man and take it on the chin, not some wimp who picks on a defenseless woman. Only a spineless wimp can do something like this. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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No i was just going to run to get the community and tell them he killed her, we would all run to the forest to kick his bud
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You should have kicked his bud when he started his rubbish Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Ladies what's so difficult to tell someone if you dont have love for him anymore,this cheating of yours will take you to hell. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
TrapStar
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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No i was just going to run to get the community and tell them he killed her, we would all run to the forest to kick his bud
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You should have kicked his bud when he started his rubbish
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Man the guy wears Size 11 in shoe size, he is very tall. A shoe last for max 3 months with him, when he kicks a person, they always fall or black out. Why would i risk my life?? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
@ Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for doing what he did bcos we dont know what really happened on that day.Women in general dont know what they want in a
relationship.
Here's my story.I was in a mall a year ago with my girlfriend the mother of my child doing some shopping etc etc.Then what happened is we were getting in and out of shops cos she cudnt decide what she wanted to buy(u know women).Then we went to this other shop and i decided to stay outside and sit down as i was exhausted and she proceeded into the shop alone.After a while i went to check what was taking her so long cos its been a while she has been in the shop.To my aweful surprise i managed to see her writing her numbers down on a piece of paper and giving them to this guy she was in a quee with.She thought i ddint see what she had done.I was fuming and upset by that and approached her and asked her what she was doing.She pretended as if she ddint know what i was on about nd she was care-free.I almost fought with that guy and i decided not to cos i told myself i will never fight over a woman.I upped and left her @ the Mall stranded went home calmed myself down switched my fone off for a couple.She tried calling me to apologise but i ddnt wanna hear nuthing,because she had betrayed my trust in her.After several months i managed to forgive her but i still cant erase that incident from my mind.I dont trust her anymore.I decide i wud never go to a public place with her anymo.I go alone to a mall and she goes alone.Finish and klaar.
So guys instead of harming the woman rather walk away cos ur future is @ stake ,she is not worth wasting you future over.Just walk away and never look back bafowethu. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Zola: OK, I support the view that one should walk away if one's relationship is no longer working, which is clearly the case if a partner is looking elsewhere. But please let's becareful with these rather trite generalisations like: "Women in general dont know what they want in a relationship." I mean, what utter bullsh!t!!
hi Lala... no, I'm nothing like those kind of women... I'm just trying 2 balance the judgement, without in.s.ulting one party...like I said, that he shouldn't have reacted in that manner... he should have cooled off first, and walked away.... I'm also trying 2 expose the reality, of Pretence that most Men live under, that they're in general "okey" with being "d.umped", as thers 'supposely' lots of women "waiting for them"......
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@Trapstar
Your friend is sadistic!
@DJWinner
...I think women don't know what they want.
Hillarious! Because in all honesty - the same could be said for men!
You guys pursue us like we are living water....your attention solely on getting us..laying on the charm, the romance the whole enchilada right? When you finally get us you give us this luke warm treatment (the hot then yall cold treatment)...and then all of a sudden we women are too clingy when we want to spend time with you, too possessive, to fast when we want to solidify the relationship! And when we start recieving attention from other guys...then you guys bring out the brute in you...the little green eyed possessive monster...all of a sudden we are yours again....no one should look...should sniff let alone touch what's yours...gaaaaa!
Please!!! Don't go on about woman not knowing what we want...we know...you guys are the confused ones!
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What is exactly what I'm saying that you women go for wrong guys abo Mr.wrong. A nice guy will not do all these all these things. You say, no the guy is borring, he is a single, there is a problem with him. And then I ask myself, what do you want? You want a guy in a relationship that will cheat with you? You want rough guy that will treat you roughly? This is stupid according to me... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
thinya
Give this stupid bustard life sentence. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Zola-Bud07
@ Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for doing what he did bcos we dont know what really happened on that day.Women in general dont know what they want in a
relationship.
Here's my story.I was in a mall a year ago with my girlfriend the mother of my child doing some shopping etc etc.Then what happened is we were getting in and out of shops cos she cudnt decide what she wanted to buy(u know women).Then we went to this other shop and i decided to stay outside and sit down as i was exhausted and she proceeded into the shop alone.After a while i went to check what was taking her so long cos its been a while she has been in the shop.To my aweful surprise i managed to see her writing her numbers down on a piece of paper and giving them to this guy she was in a quee with.She thought i ddint see what she had done.I was fuming and upset by that and approached her and asked her what she was doing.She pretended as if she ddint know what i was on about nd she was care-free.I almost fought with that guy and i decided not to cos i told myself i will never fight over a woman.I upped and left her @ the Mall stranded went home calmed myself down switched my fone off for a couple.She tried calling me to apologise but i ddnt wanna hear nuthing,because she had betrayed my trust in her.After several months i managed to forgive her but i still cant erase that incident from my mind.I dont trust her anymore.I decide i wud never go to a public place with her anymo.I go alone to a mall and she goes alone.Finish and klaar.
So guys instead of harming the woman rather walk away cos ur future is @ stake ,she is not worth wasting you future over.Just walk away and never look back bafowethu.
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I have a story too/ or shud i rather say experience with a woman that i had given all i had to her and she batrayed me like big times i almost hated all women but then i realised they are not the same Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
TrapStar
MissBhakajuju
@ TrapStar
your friend, is a m.or.on....but as for you having respect for him... thats priceless....m.e.n must be c.ow.ards Hey, more that I ever thought..... so, it aches seeing your GF with another guy.... how much more, if U find them in b.e.d... LOL
like I said, Guys are just softies in reality... but disguised in a metal face...
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I dislike fighting with my lady, i have never laid a hand on anyone. I love it when she smiles, i prefer to enjoy every minute with my lady that fighting, Women will do anything for you if you make them feel like they are angels. I like that a lot, If we didnt have women on earth, we wouldnt enjoy. As for Other women, they love a person who hits them, you do lovey dovey stuff, they call you a m.or.o.n and play you. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ DJ-Winner
Please don't generalise... Yes, some gilrs don't go for Nice Guys & so What ??? they do know what they want moes....
and being rejected but those Girlz, doesn't mean that all Girlz will reject you.... I don't Date Broke Men & thats me !!
So, if some guy wants me, & I tell him where 2 gett off... will that generaly mean all Girlz don't date Broke men ???? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
TrapStar
... he gave her some serious beating ...but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Respected him?
Whilst at varsity and still very naive my then g-friend cheated on me with not one but two guys. She had a fight with her best friend who then spilled the beans on her while we were at a party. I decided there and then it was over between us. That very same weekend I met a wonderful lady whom I stayed up all night chatting to her, she was perfect and naturally we fell in love than night.
Two weeks later old g-friend comes to apologise only to find I had moved on. She begged and pleaded with me to take her back but I was not interested, I had no intention of being with someone so deceitful but more importantly the new g-friend was so much better; more beautiful, more intelligent she beat her hands down. Every time she saw us together I could tell it hurt what she did but it proved to me she was not the right woman for me, why should I compromise myself and my happiness for someone who did not appreciate me nor deserved the love I gave her.
Moving on and finding the right woman gave me much more satisfaction than a beating ever could give me plus that night I promised myself I would never be played by a woman ever again, it is a promise I have kept ever since. I grew as a person and became much stronger; a real man is able to identify opportunities for growth even in the most difficult of situations.
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner
.......you are making me like you, that's so nice..kwaaaaakwaaaa
anyway, unlike other ladies i know what i want, I’m straight forward with my preferences, i tell a guy up front i don’t date black men i go for white only, i like my space, I’m an independent thinker, true there is something called love i experienced it several times, and hated it, now i live my life with my partner for enjoyment travelling and having the coital interlude without me having to stress if he’ll want to marry me or not
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LOL, don't like me, I'm too nice.
Well, some of your preferences are also questionable. Generalisation based on race is not making sense. I don't think skin colours have to do with anything. People are just people regardless of skin colours. But alteast you did not say you don't like guys because they are nice.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Chichi7
Zola-Bud07
@Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for what he did as well.Women in general dont know what they want in a relationship.Here's my story.
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do not generalise. just as much as men do not like to be told they are all dogs, please do not put women in the same basket. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
MissBhakajuju
Please don't generalise... Yes, some gilrs don't go for Nice Guys & so What ??? they do know what they want moes....
and being rejected but those Girlz, doesn't mean that all Girlz will reject you.... I don't Date Broke Men & thats me !!
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How do you define broke?
I was listening to Metro FM this morning, my jaw was dropped all the way to town. Ja nee, some men are fools. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
MissBhakajuju
@ DJ-Winner
Please don't generalise... Yes, some gilrs don't go for Nice Guys & so What ??? they do know what they want moes....
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Those girls usually end-up having their butts kicked/ killed and they want us feel sorry for them... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Days
Said story but these things happen. Even girls as young as 15 years now threaten to committ suicide becuase a boyfriend dumped her.
Government should promote awareness campaigns through the department of social welfare to arm people to take rejection.
Killing is not an answer, people will allways like those who does not care whether liked or not but the spark seem to diminish towards those who desparately avail themselves.
When we grew up girls left us for the working guys or those who were in higher education institutions than us and that hurt, but we never thought of killing ourselves.
Now that we are old and successfull we no longer look for them, we run away from them. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
siya0505
The media again painting men as these horrible human beings, i know for a fact that it didnt start there. sowetan where is the full story? what this guy did was wrong but something had to push him to do it... Men are jealous beings even the bible says so and it will never change. women should stop leading guys on just for the sake of spending his money, that guy sacrifices a lot for that money and when he finds out his being played he will loose it coz its directly destroys his pride... i doubt if he just killed her for that! Dont believe everything you read
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U've said a mouthfull boss.U just made my day.We men are territorial and jealous when it comes to our loved ones(mothers,kids,sisters girlfriends etc etc).If a woman wants out of a relationship i think its sensible for her to just tell the guy and not cheat on him.We men cant stand being cheated on and thats a fact.Once cheated on we are never the same again,we dont forgive and we dont forget.Period. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Printa
NW is overtaking Limpompo, KZN, & EC for sick things. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Skopo your friend Sweetyk is dragging her feet so uzoba strong i am switching to you nkare wa shesha wena she is slow o tla ja lata...n she is gona envy you he o mo tlotlela
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LOL!! will have to ask her first. i dont want to end up without a friend!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
ZOla: That may be so, but isn't that exactly what I was saying is the root of the problem. Being unable to deal with "cheating" or even SUSPECTED cheating is a clear proof that you see women as belonging to you, and with respect, that is sick. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
I wish this dude did this to my ex the mother of my boy and slit her throat nxa that woman wa mbhora. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@DJWinner
What is exactly what I'm saying that you women go for wrong guys abo Mr.wrong. A nice guy will not do all these all these things. You say, no the guy is borring, he is a single, there is a problem with him. And then I ask myself, what do you want? You want a guy in a relationship that will cheat with you? You want rough guy that will treat you roughly? This is stupid according to me...
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Not all women do that - that's a huge generalisation on your part! I'll agree that there are those who tend to feel that they need a man who physically mistreats them to feel loved and hence go for the rough tyype. But at the same time another factor that should be taken into consideration is that we have differenet stages of life...when we younger - we do tend to gravitate to the more "bad boy" type...but as we get older we look towards wanting someone more sedate and "nice"....so its' either you are going for young women who are not at the same stage as you are in life...or your are pursuing the wrong kind of women.
And another thing....anything can make a "nice" guy snap - just cause you haven't doesn't mean you're not capable of it!
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@DJWinner
What is exactly what I'm saying that you women go for wrong guys abo Mr.wrong. A nice guy will not do all these all these things. You say, no the guy is borring, he is a single, there is a problem with him. And then I ask myself, what do you want? You want a guy in a relationship that will cheat with you? You want rough guy that will treat you roughly? This is stupid according to me...
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Not all women do that - that's a huge generalisation on your part! I'll agree that there are those who tend to feel that they need a man who physically mistreats them to feel loved and hence go for the rough tyype. But at the same time another factor that should be taken into consideration is that we have differenet stages of life...when we younger - we do tend to gravitate to the more "bad boy" type...but as we get older we look towards wanting someone more sedate and "nice"....so its' either you are going for young women who are not at the same stage as you are in life...or your are pursuing the wrong kind of women.
And another thing....anything can make a "nice" guy snap - just cause you haven't doesn't mean you're not capable of it!
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LOL, I hear you. So this mean I must go for older women.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Bumboklaat
@Nongoloza24
I wish this dude did this to my ex the mother of my boy and slit her throat nxa that woman wa mbhora.
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What's wrong boooi! Ogo tshwere ka makatla? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Bumbo that biatch le yena wants to get me into trouble...ga tlameile ko tseya small ke blome le yena o bua taba tsa gore not vandag tlameile ke kenye appointment keng yona dai ding?
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you were dating magintsa and you don't want sweet konyana like me?
@Nongoloza24
Bumbo that biatch le yena wants to get me into trouble...ga tlameile ko tseya small ke blome le yena o bua taba tsa gore not vandag tlameile ke kenye appointment keng yona dai ding?
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you were dating magintsa and you don't want sweet konyana like me?
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Ya that's bitter exes for you! Report Abuse
@Nongoloza24
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you were dating magintsa and you don't want sweet konyana like me?
Mina maginsta? Cha bhuti - not me. I like the intelligent, nerdy type. Are you a nerd Nongoloza? I doubt it!!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
snazz
At 23 he will spend most of his life behind bars.This boy ke setlaela sis Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
What the heck just happened to all the comments??? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Blackstone.lebs
21yr old, DEAD. 23yr old off to PRISON. Two young lives wasted just like that...RIP Lizzy. There's too much intolerance these days, people look once and act. Thinking seems to be such a mission to some. Report Abuse
As guys we must stop giving each other k@k advise especially when it come to women. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
@Robin.Its bullshit to you bcos u've never really experienced true love boss.The day u experience true love u will swallow your words.
@ Ratshufi.It happens to the best of us mfowethu.I dont trust women anymo.I dont hate them nor despise them but i just dont tust them @ all period.I trust myself
@Chichi7.Mara its true Chichi u guys dont know what u really want.U know us guys are a different species from you women.When we love we give our all and i mean all.Our women are our pride and joy but once that trust has been broken all hell breaks loose.Some guys re-act differenlty from others,sum kill,stab,assualt a women and some just walk away and never look back.
To all women reading this here is some advice.If you dont want your husband/boyfriend anymo just be bold and tell them to their face instead of cheating on him.As much as it will hurt he will respect u and re-act in a dignified manner for your honsesty.We men are simple really ladies,mara i still dont trust u. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ KGS000
Hi my sugar tart.... thanx 4 that... most s.a black men talk a lot of gabage, maan... no wonder some Girlz date Wht dudes.. or african foreign guys...
I dont understand some of the male bloggers.......... when a woman is k!illed thye purport that she was cheating #SMH# It takes a cheater to know/see another cheater.
aybe the scumb@g was cheating on the deceased and when he saw her talking to another guy he thought she is doing the SH!T (banging another woman) that he has been doing..........
@DJWinner, they say you are "NICE" and don't want to go out with you, go easy on self praise (where you live, what car you drive, your salry, your education), you might get lucky............. VANITY is not ayoba. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Zola: Grow a brain please. I was married for 21 years, and have had many relationships before and after my marriage. Please don't make your incapacity mine. Twit. Report Abuse
there is no story here -------nxaaaaa Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@siya0505
The media again painting men as these horrible human beings, i know for a fact that it didnt start there. sowetan where is the full story? what this guy did was wrong but something had to push him to do it... Men are jealous beings even the bible says so and it will never change. women should stop leading guys on just for the sake of spending his money, that guy sacrifices a lot for that money and when he finds out his being played he will loose it coz its directly destroys his pride... i doubt if he just killed her for that! Dont believe everything you read
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Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@Zola-Bud07
U've said a mouthfull boss.U just made my day.We men are territorial and jealous when it comes to our loved ones(mothers,kids,sisters girlfriends etc etc).If a woman wants out of a relationship i think its sensible for her to just tell the guy and not cheat on him.We men cant stand being cheated on and thats a fact.Once cheated on we are never the same again,we dont forgive and we dont forget.Period.
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Please speak for yourself and understand that not all men are like you!!! For your information; many people who do not forgive like yourself suffer from resentment which degenerates into bitterness of the soul and when manifested in the physical body, the doctors call it cancer!!! I will get help if I were you; because sooner or later you going to need it anyway!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner
Generalisation based on race is not making sense
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Really, Winner, not all generalisations are stereotype you know. Do you really want be to give 101 lesson on black men versus white men. I fore starters reject to be with a black man who thinks having kids scattered all over the place is the best thing after sliced bread. How many of your friends you know are fathering children out of wedlock? How many....remember we take decision according to the common denominator of a specific group or ethnic ethnic group, including race, if ten men out of 15 fathers plus minus six children out of wedlock what does tell you about the rest of the group.
does this make sense
Vavasati swi tele man se uta yi twa yo jele hita sala hi va komba hina. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Nongoloza24
I wish this dude did this to my ex the mother of my boy and slit her throat nxa that woman wa mbhora.
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Hate is a wasted emotion..... dont stoop that woman's level.
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Skopo your friend Sweetyk is dragging her feet so uzoba strong i am switching to you nkare wa shesha wena she is slow o tla ja lata...n she is gona envy you he o mo tlotlela
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LOL!! will have to ask her first. i dont want to end up without a friend!!!
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LOL..do you think she is going to say ye friend go ahead hahaha i dont think so but we can try Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@RobinH
Zola: Grow a brain please. I was married for 21 years, and have had many relationships before and after my marriage. Please don't make your incapacity mine. Twit.
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Easy......... on the insults
@Ratshufi.What happened in ur case boss?What did that fool of a woman do to break your heart.
@Robin.I see u trying to act like Mr Goodie-two-shoes.Wait till a woman breaks your heart and u will know what we guys are going thru.U feel like u've been to hell and back baba.Clearly u havent experienced that so u probably wudnt know what im talking about.
@ KGS000.Heita.we are not giving each other k@k advise as u suggest we are trying to engage men-to men on how to tackle challenges we encounter relating to women.Thats all. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
@Zola-Bud07- Not when we advise each to beat up women, I have heard a lot of guys talking crap saying sometimes you have to beat up ur woman to set her straight what the fcuk is that.
MsKinky: This was in response to a singularly mindless remark on my supposed inability to "love". I responded as I saw fit, and will do so again. The man sets himself up as the one and only arbiter of how men deal with emotion, and when one chooses a rational approach one is accused of being incapable of emotion. Now surely that deserves a response.
KGS: I fully agree with you. Many men are quite capable of dealing with such issues without having to resort to violence. And those men I find admirable. Those who lift their hands to hurt a woman deserve to be ridiculed by decent men. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner
Generalisation based on race is not making sense
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Really, Winner, not all generalisations are stereotype you know. Do you really want be to give 101 lesson on black men versus white men. I fore starters reject to be with a black man who thinks having kids scattered all over the place is the best thing after sliced bread. How many of your friends you know are fathering children out of wedlock? How many....remember we take decision according to the common denominator of a specific group or ethnic ethnic group, including race, if ten men out of 15 fathers plus minus six children out of wedlock what does tell you about the rest of the group.
does this make sense
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This is generalisation I'm talking about. Not all black guys do those things. I'm black as hell, but I don't do those things. I also know few black guys who don't. If all white men were perfect, there could be no divorced white couples, not even 1 in this world. There is good black guys and bad black guys. Also, there is good white guys and bad white guys.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ DJ-Winner
can U read, maar wena ?? the Majority of S.A Black Men, e.g 13/15 are mostly k@k, like THemadame said.... you can even judge by most of the comments most male bloggers make here, including you.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
@RobinH.No no no no no Robin dont get all emotional and defensive on me dont.If you gonna start with your name calling tendencies i think u and i are gonna have a huge problem.I've observed that u cant engage in a dignified manner with other bloggers and u resort to name-calling/insults.Dont and i say dont call me names u hear me.If u cant engage with me in a dignified manner rather ignore my comments.
@Mgeez.Deny it all you like mfowethu but u know what im talking about.As long as u've never been cheated on or gotten your heart broken you wont know what im talking about hence u and i are not on the same page.As for you suggesting that i get help i dont think u are a qualified doctor or psychologist to make that observation so take a chill pill boss. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Zola-Bud07
@Ratshufi.What happened in ur case boss?What did that fool of a woman do to break your heart.
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Bru she was not working whn i met her n i did everything for her and i organised wth my connections her first job and walla whn the stup1d humm3r was still woooow and a jola le ou ya go tsamaya ka hummer ...the day i caught her was when i was off from work n i decided to surprise her by taking her lunch to work and i caught her sitting with the guy smooching in the humm3r................ Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
shinatho
He must get a life sentence, don't believe there are still guys like him in this world.mxm Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
@Mgeez and Robin. If you two took your time to carefully read my first comment im sure u wud have picked up that i did mention that i do not condone nor blame him for what he did bcos we dont know the actual events of that fateful day and what was going thru his mind.Hence i said if u've never been in the same situation as this guy and many other men out there u will plead ignorance.
LOL.... hahahahahahaha... its not funny moratiwa, I know.... but I just couldn't help myself... LOL... so you got dribled...
But you guys also don't wanna learn, sometimes.... never polish any Girl... thats why I don't date guys that are Broke, coz
the day, he makes money, he'll probably get new Ideas. so I date somoene who alreadzy has itz all !!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
ZOla: With respect, it was you who suggested that I am incapable of love, so let's not get too precious here, Sir. I simply put you in your place and I feel absolutely no need to a[pologise. How dare you make assumptions about my relationships with the women in my life? Make such insulting suggestions, then I fear you need to deal with an angry response. And for someone who excuses this behaviour to talk about dignity is patently absurd. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEE
How many....remember we take decision according to the common denominator of a specific group or ethnic ethnic group, including race, if ten men out of 15 fathers plus minus six children out of wedlock what does tell you about the rest of the group.
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But then who do they have these kids with, black women who in all likelihood know the guy is hooked, am I to say black women are also bad and turn my back against you guys?
This is a two-way street, black women also have their flaws including getting knocked up and telling the hubby its his meanwhile she has a long-term relationship on the side. You hardly hear black men saying our women are not up to standard therefore I'll bed the first ugly woman who lets me have her. I think it has less to do with black men than it has an aspiration to bed a white man because we have not fully recovered from apartheid and we have this ingrained belief that white is better. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
MissBhakajuju
@ DJ-Winner
can U read, maar wena ?? the Majority of S.A Black Men, e.g 13/15 are mostly k@k, like THemadame said.... you can even judge by most of the comments most male bloggers make here, including you....
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I have noticed that you constantly insulting me even if I try to ignore you... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
What the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@MissBhakajuju
@ Ratshufi
LOL.... hahahahahahaha... its not funny moratiwa, I know.... but I just couldn't help myself... LOL... so you got dribled...
But you guys also don't wanna learn, sometimes.... never polish any Girl... thats why I don't date guys that are Broke, coz
the day, he makes money, he'll probably get new Ideas. so I date somoene who alreadzy has itz all !!!
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Ba mpethile spy two hahahahahah its ok darling i dealt with it and i still make fun of it ....i was broken hey but it only made me stronger Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to strangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MGEEZ
@Zola-Bud07
@Mgeez.Deny it all you like mfowethu but u know what im talking about.As long as u've never been cheated on or gotten your heart broken you wont know what im talking about hence u and i are not on the same page.As for you suggesting that i get help i dont think u are a qualified doctor or psychologist to make that observation so take a chill pill boss.
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That is a problem with you; you make assumptions and take your thought as facts!!! Just because you think i am not a doctor or psychologist does not mean that I am not!!! It simply means that is what you think. The fact remains that you need help; I have met and treated a lot of patients who are suffering from the condition that your symptoms are demonstrating!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
What the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless
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You are blogging and dat makes u useless too Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
skopomashwabana
"if you've never contemplated murder!!! you've never been in love..
if you've never looked yourself in the mirror, and practised your alibi!!! you've never been in love..
if you've never bought a rug to roll her up nicely in!!! you've never been in love..
I'm not saying he should've killed her, but i understand..." Chris Rock Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Vongsta
Interesting stories ......... what i have learned from all my experiences is forgive and forget........ or forgive and leave the relationship. You will never trust your partner and you'll always thing the worst of them when not around. instead of that heart ache...move on..... I know its not easy do it. No point being stucked with someone you don't trust. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Report Abuse
@Dzel: a prudent w!fe and v!rtuous w!fe comes from the Lord, e seng ko partying. It took me several years to come to terms with that.
@Nongoloza24: M@ez!sto mfanaka please stuff a sock into your d!rty mouth? Why o rata go rogana so? I have inv!ted you to church and you never responded... Morena Modimo a re seka ra bua dipuo tse di maswe e seng le go rogana.
Colossians 3:8 - But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
Hosea 4:2 - By swearing, and lying, and k!lling, and stealing, and committing adultery, they break out, and blood toucheth blood. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
What the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless
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Fcuk you.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
what are you saying you toothpick D1ck, Why dn't you just go back where you came from, ******right back in your mother's WET pu$$$y.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with?? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles: "What the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless" HMMM, AND that wonderfully articulate remark is supposed to mean what exactly, Mr Bright Spark? Report Abuse
Mnxm...uzenzile akakhalelwa!! Ubufebe buyabulalisa, it either you leave the guy/girl or suffer the concequences. Why cheat in a relationship knowing uthandana nokhandashisa? Why ujola nentombazana owazikahle ukuthi is'febe? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner, kan jy lees.
This is generalisation I'm talking about. Not all black guys do those things. I'm black as hell, but I don't do those things. I also know few black guys who don't. If all white men were perfect, there could be no divorced white couples, not even 1 in this world. There is good black guys and bad black guys. Also, there is good white guys and bad white guys....
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..............i said a common denominator, so you might be the five out of the fifteen who is not bedding to make babies or even bladdy lazy, see white men are rational thinkers, that’s why one of them discovered the contraceptive pill Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
ILLUMINATED
@Dzel: a prudent w!fe and v!rtuous w!fe comes from the Lord, e seng ko partying. It took me several years to come to terms with that.
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As odd as it is I agree with you 100%. I could never take any woman I met at a club seriously mara le ba zalwane le bona ba dangerous sometimes, for me upbringing and family environment has always been more important. Report Abuse
@Dzel: a prudent w!fe and v!rtuous w!fe comes from the Lord, e seng ko partying. It took me several years to come to terms with that.
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As odd as it is I agree with you 100%. I could never take any woman I met at a club seriously mara le ba zalwane le bona ba dangerous sometimes, for me upbringing and family environment has always been more important.
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congratulations, You racist white p1g....... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEE
.i said a common denominator, so you might be the five out of the fifteen who is not bedding to make babies or even bladdy lazy, see white men are rational thinkers, that’s why one of them discovered the contraceptive pill
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I am shaking my head in disbelief reading your comments, a bit disturbing if you ask me. Sure some men out there are guilty of the things you accuse them of but to conclude that all black men are bad sounds a bit convenient so I have to question what influences your thinking.
You sound like you hate being black if you ask me, probably have a long weave and you try very hard to look white. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner, kan jy lees.
This is generalisation I'm talking about. Not all black guys do those things. I'm black as hell, but I don't do those things. I also know few black guys who don't. If all white men were perfect, there could be no divorced white couples, not even 1 in this world. There is good black guys and bad black guys. Also, there is good white guys and bad white guys....
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..............i said a common denominator, so you might be the five out of the fifteen who is not bedding to make babies or even bladdy lazy, see white men are rational thinkers, that’s why one of them discovered the contraceptive pill
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Well, I think you were hurt by one black guy. Now you see all black guys same as that madafcuker. Some of us are not stupid.... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
MGEEZ
@Zola-Bud07
@Mgeez.Deny it all you like mfowethu but u know what im talking about.As long as u've never been cheated on or gotten your heart broken you wont know what im talking about hence u and i are not on the same page.As for you suggesting that i get help i dont think u are a qualified doctor or psychologist to make that observation so take a chill pill boss.
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That is a problem with you; you make assumptions and take your thought as facts!!! Just because you think i am not a doctor or psychologist does not mean that I am not!!! It simply means that is what you think. The fact remains that you need help; I have met and treated a lot of patients who are suffering from the condition that your symptoms are demonstrating
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Good for you buddy.Mara take this into consideration im not one of your case studies.U dont know me.
@ RobinH.Your narrow minded approach of attacking anyone who does not agree with your views is more damaging than the perception of two pitbulls fightting.The fact that you are making an arguement about this defies logic.
@ Ratshufi.Sorry to hear that boss.Some ppl are getting me wrong here.As much as u had your fair share of heart-ache after all u've done for her and the betreyal if it had been another guy he wud have maybe maimed her or did sumthing but u chose not to.Thats why i said i dont blame the guy who killed this woman nor do i condone what he did at the same time.We as individuals react differently to situations. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
what are you saying you toothpick D1ck, Why dn't you just go back where you came from, ******right back in your mother's WET pu$$$y....
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you are clearly an @sshole soo i wont stoop as low as you are bye ramar3t3 Report Abuse
Is it because you bend over to other men...? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEE
yah, ne, jy ken nie vrou mense, KWAAAAkwaaa, jah neh, ignorance is a madda faker,
never under estimate your opponent.tlitlitlitlitli
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Maybe not but the thing with a woman you pick up ko Panyaza is you don't know whose bed she is sleeping on every Friday and Saturday, if she willingly goes home with you that night then chances are she has seen a number of beds in her life. Better one who is at home sleeping in her own bed I say. Of course she is no indicator but atleast you've narrowed the possibility of being hurt dramatically.
Of course she can still cheat at work, church, varsity etc this is where one's character comes in; a woman who does not see herself as a commodity is likely to be more grounded hence a safer bet but sure you can never eliminate the possibility 100% which is where trust comes in. Character is important, character often comes from how well one is grounded and what she was taught growing up. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Bumboklaat
Wow! Some very interesting comments and debates! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
ILLUMINATED
Morena ko ya kerekeng jwang tlameile ke phehe ke kolomake afterwards ke nwe jwala? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Zola-Bud07
@ Ratshufi.Sorry to hear that boss.Some ppl are getting me wrong here.As much as u had your fair share of heart-ache after all u've done for her and the betreyal if it had been another guy he wud have maybe maimed her or did sumthing but u chose not to.Thats why i said i dont blame the guy who killed this woman nor do i condone what he did at the same time.We as individuals react differently to situations.
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I went home that day and she had a nerve to come home and thats the day i pulled a gun on her but something said to me its not worth it and two weeks later i sold that gun cause i could feel the pressure inside to sho00t her but i am glad i did not cause my life wud have been ruined now
@Zola-Bud07
That is a problem with you; you make assumptions and take your thought as facts!!! Just because you think i am not a doctor or psychologist does not mean that I am not!!! It simply means that is what you think. The fact remains that you need help; I have met and treated a lot of patients who are suffering from the condition that your symptoms are demonstrating
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Good for you buddy.Mara take this into consideration im not one of your case studies.U dont know me.
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I do not need to know you to diagnose your symptoms; i just need to hear you speak or see you act and from there I can tell what manner of a person that you are !!! Do you get? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
Of course (this) is no indicator but atleast you've narrowed the possibility of being hurt dramatically. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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This is the kind of mentality that made me buy kick and bobozas...If a woman cheats because mean cheat as well I kick and boboza mazinyo kikikikikikiki but I won't kick you. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinH
congratulations, You racist white p1g.......
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I thought i was the only one who say that this thing @ Robin is racist. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEE
yah, ne, jy ken nie vrou mense, KWAAAAkwaaa, jah neh, ignorance is a madda faker,
never under estimate your opponent.tlitlitlitlitli
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Since you are so adamant black men are useless, would you tell your white boyfriend - assuming you have one - how many men you know "biblically"?
Just wondering (definitely not suggesting anything)... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ Dzel
Kwaaaaaaakwaaaaaaakwaaaaaakwaaaaa..... you mentioning Panyaza. LOL..... the other lady that called in @ Metro-FM this morning said she met her "ATM" @ Panyaza..... I couldn't stop giggling.....
serobapipi and Zola: Whatever floats your puny boat. When unable to engage play the long outmoded race-card, and if you only knew how very wrong you are, but do I need to justify anything to you? NO. Bye now, poor lost souls. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Droooooza
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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How do you call a man "wh.ore", phela thina we are keys where as women are locks... hence there is name given to a key that opens every where "universal key"... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
sero and ZOla: How exactly finding this killing unacceptable translates to racism can only be clear to very confused minds. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
MissBhakajuju
@ Dzel
Kwaaaaaaakwaaaaaaakwaaaaaakwaaaaa..... you mentioning Panyaza. LOL..... the other lady that called in @ Metro-FM this morning said she met her "ATM" @ Panyaza..... I couldn't stop giggling.....
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The other said ko Sidibeng .... ja nee. Mara le rona banna, how do you deposit R 10,000 into a woman's account just to impress her, ukukhula ungajoli kuyahlupha (baningi abo Mandla Mthembu la ngaphandle). Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ Drooooza
LOL... you still have that Key mentality ? hahahahahaha usazo Dribliwa ngama ntombazane.....kwaaaaaaaaaa Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinH
You can share this little p1ss of poems you posted here with your family (AWB) Oooh by the way FCK YOU.. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Sero: What is your problem? I have never even addressed you before you took up this nasty little campaign. You are seriously sick. So insult away, dear Sir. Insults from lunatics don't hurt. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinH
Say that to your uncle (steve hofmeyr) Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
@Dzel
ukukhula ungajoli kuyahlupha (baningi abo Mandla Mthembu la ngaphandle).
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I agree boza its problem ukwazi amantobazane ugugile that's were guys kill women because you've never been dribbled like may fancyface MissBhakajuju puts it LOL Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
KGS000
@Dzel
ukukhula ungajoli kuyahlupha (baningi abo Mandla Mthembu la ngaphandle).
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I agree boza its problem ukwazi amantobazane ugugile that's were guys kill women because you've never been dribbled like may fancyface MissBhakajuju puts it LOL
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True that ... a man who has had his fair share and whose ego is not defined by ukuthi muhle kanjani - of course we all want them pretty - but umakhule ujola namantombazane amahle you will never do something like this. It is the guys with fragile egos women should be afraid of. Any guy who is obsessive is dangerous in my book. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Zola-Bud07
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinH
congratulations, You racist white p1g.......
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I thought i was the only one who say that this thing @ Robin is racist.
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say it to this p1g as much as you want ...(No mathata) Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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How do you call a man "wh.ore", phela thina we are keys where as women are locks... hence there is name given to a key that opens every where "universal key"...
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Dearest....
Please note..."whoring" in my comment is a verb - not a noun. Should you require assistance is distinguisihing the two, please ask for assistance and I'll take you back to Grade 3 English.
Key, keyhole, lock, whatever...if a woman is making a child with a man who is not her partner...it takes a man to participate in the act...and if you going to tell me that that man is single - then you know you'd be lying.
And just for interest sake - Whoring is not limited just to the female sex! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
True that ... a man who has had his fair share and whose ego is not defined by ukuthi muhle kanjani - of course we all want them pretty - but umakhule ujola namantombazane amahle you will never do something like this. It is the guys with fragile egos women should be afraid of. Any guy who is obsessive is dangerous in my book.
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Add to that abo Mr Transaction, one day he is going to be disappointed and the first thing he is going to think about is the money he has invested in her.
If an article has more than 50 comments, 2 things involved
1. The comments have changed to s3x
or
2. The comments have changed to hate and insults.
Growing up is imperative, maturity deludes many. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Wena monna you sound like o bosepa or lesson. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MAKGITLA
RobinH
incognito: WONDERFUL!!!!!
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No offence Are u white old gay ? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Nongoloza24
This is the kind of mentality that made me buy kick and bobozas...If a woman cheats because mean cheat as well I kick and boboza mazinyo kikikikikikiki but I won't kick you.
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That's what you say now neh?? Until you go balistic after seeing me with another man - and I end up with my teeth on the floor - for no particular reason. No thanks - I treasure pearly whites! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Nongoloza24
No need to ask if you no what i mean.... Again what are those things you refering to, Is that some 0ld shoes Names or what ? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Uncle-Lu
I dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Sloggi-Gasi
But killing its a NO NO, My fiance tried it, but her brother rescued me. As we talking now iam in the process of divorcing her, and again i think i am FALLING in love. and i will never paint all women with one brush. Report Abuse
Friday road lead to MACUFE
The lucky woman will benefit clothes,accessories,shoes,pocket money, and a luxury hotel for 3 days
You know why? because i'm a SHAREHOLDER Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you will get dentures don't worry...Are you sure you are not mxcm?
I dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem
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Nothing wrong with taking care of her within reasonable grounds but buying her company and sex is another thing. Perhaps you have no problem with her telling her friends she does not love you and she is in it for the money. Depositing R 10,000 after meeting her only once so you can impress is idiotic, the relationship starts on a bad note and will be about what you can provide.
Ithi iphele imali uzobona how quickly she turns into a magician and pulls a vanishing act.
Try i-charm bozza, if you can't win her by just being yourself then she probably isn't for you. Report Abuse
I dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem
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Nothing wrong with taking care of her within reasonable grounds but buying her company and s.ex is another thing altogether. Perhaps you have no problem with her telling her friends she does not love you and she is in it for the money. Depositing R 10,000 after meeting her only once so you can impress is idi.otic, the relationship starts on a b.ad note and will be about what you can provide.
Ithi iphele imali uzobona how quickly she turns into a mag.ician and pu.lls a vani.shing act.
Try i-char.m bozza, if you ca.n't win her by just being yourself then she probably isn't for you.
Sloggi-Gasi
But killing its a NO NO, My fiance tried it, but her brother rescued me. As we talking now iam in the process of divorcing her, and again i think i am FALLING in love. and i will never paint all women with one brush.
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You in the process of divorcing your fiance?? Hai uya claima hai suku uya claima hai wena bari suku uya claima hai wena snai hai suku uya claima **rocking chiskop's song** Report Abuse
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook" Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
Uncle-Lu
Friday road lead to MACUFE
The lucky woman will benefit clothes,accessories,shoes,pocket money, and a luxury hotel for 3 days
You know why? because i'm a SHAREHOLDER
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Yini laba abahlekisa ngani after all that money spent, a real shareholder appreciates the concept of return on investment. I wonder unangakhi lo uchazwa "i-luxury hotel", probably will brag to her teenage friends afterwards. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MAKGITLA
Uncle-Lu
Friday road lead to MACUFE
The lucky woman will benefit clothes,accessories,shoes,pocket money, and a luxury hotel for 3 days
You know why? because i'm a SHAREHOLDER
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U lying wena man tjeer,jou level 3 Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
MissBhakajuju
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"
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Prostitution at its worst. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Uncle-Lu
Dzel
Point of correction
Never said flaunting money gives you a good base to start a relationship
spending cash with woman its a temporary thing, the fact is if you have short pockets then you remain with the second grade women,
Just visit melrose arch for once and stop dating middle level government employees who strike for wage increase Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nkonki3
kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
zisondeze MissBhakajuju....lmao
Uncle-Lu wil set u up...!
heheheheheee
bt pls b prepared to slice d cake 4him. guyz lyk him r fkn starvd up down der Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Droooooza
MissBhakajuju
@ Drooooza
LOL... you still have that Key mentality ? hahahahahaha usazo Dribliwa ngama ntombazane.....kwaaaaaaaaaa
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This simply means a man finds a partner but a woman cheats...... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
Uncle-Lu
Point of correction
Never said flaunting money gives you a good base to start a relationship
spending cash with woman its a temporary thing, the fact is if you have short pockets then you remain with the second grade women,
Just visit melrose arch for once and stop dating middle level government employees who strike for wage increase
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But then again a woman who is not second grade will not need i-pocket money will she, school kids do though.
You see my friend the very same government employee who has to strike for her money works for it, she appreciates the value of money and therefore will hardly be impressed by you flaunting your wealth unless of course she is predisposed to threat herself as a commodity to be bought. .
If sikhuluma ngabo Diana Ross who pretend they have it all while their bank balance is in the single digit then it makes sense why should would need a walking ATM. Either way in the long run you lose because the relationship is based on superficial considerations. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nkonki3
missBhakajuju u must also ask him to buy a Bhakajuju g-string wif a pie-rats logo in-nfront
lmao Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
Uncle-Lu
But then again it seems there are takers on this forum so let me let you be and your shareholder millions I just hope "abakucuthi" dry like uMandla, I wonder ukuphi loyo. Report Abuse
ooh la la la my God when is this going to End- I mean grown @ss Man Nyeeere Nyeeering on sowetan everyday
Aggggggg JEEEEER
I rest my case of 24 Heineken Cans....
You wanna go to Durban July with a woman - you expect her to contribute to finance the trip? come on jo Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
Uncle-Lu
Like Dzel said take care of her dnt finance her Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
PitoriCrazy11
@ Uncle-Lu finance her as much as you like i dont really care but tell me why is that when a guy will come and ask for business funding you BEE types push them away, jst a question nje
Yes I was boza, Did you hear what one of the ladies said ATM's are controlling
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Makes sense they would be controlling, in his mind he is buying her so she has no right to be with someone else. It is the underlying message that disturbs me about this whole thing, then we blame kids for being izikhothane when they are raised being told money is everything.
I will teach my kid to be a doctor instead of aspiring to to marry a one, buy her own fleshy car than brag about what car the boyfriend drives; it boils down to ones mentality and as I said how one is raised. We may blame the Khanyi Mbau's of this world but isn't the problem that she was taught to marry rich? Report Abuse
MissBhakajuju
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"
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Prostitution at its worst
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jealousy @ its worst.... coz I'm not greetzing ya.... is the Truck strike over ? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
Dzel
Yes they are told not to marry a poor man, instead of being taught not to rely on a man and get it for themselves.
@Nongoloza24
Wa nye*la sani, i nearly die d, and your telling me that rubb*sh. FKF man, i dont have time for your sh**t, wena saan.You here the whole day talking k**k, baby ya nyatsi, Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Dzel
No, chief, i'm quite comfortable in my skin, I love who i am and what i have achieved, even breaking through the dominating thematic area of philosophy being dominated by white ppl,
@Dzel
i must be honest, i had my fair share of fun, been disappointed by 1 black(nje) man who did not satisfy me even one bit (off course i use protection)
No, chief, i'm quite comfortable in my skin, I love who i am and what i have achieved, even breaking through the dominating thematic area of philosophy being dominated by white ppl,
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Good for you, next step is to teach you you judge people based on merit and not their race.
Like I said black women also have their flaws and we've learned not to chose the right ones, not blacklist the entire black and female population because many of you are good people who deserved to be loved and appreciated. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
spekepeke1
KGS000
H0la my auti ! eish i'm dead ke uncle-lu
Batho ba pusha charm or ba fosta charm?
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LOL............... it works for him and his ego I suppose. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Dzel
common denominator, i repeat, common denominator Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
madame: "Off course I use protection" lol.... And when you're "on course"? lol
Plz see this for the humour it is intended to be. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Uncle-Lu
spekepeke1
Read my comments kahle from the start
I have no problem spending money with women
The same thing happening in townships where Bra Vusi or Bara Joe is well known to buy tons and tons of beer for guys every day/weekend
why is it a problem when i spend it on woman
common denominator, i repeat, common denominator
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Trust me if I were to use the common denominator logic I would end up with a list longer than yours, we all have our faults but we remain individuals at the end of the day and not some robots who share the same common features because of an unnamed common denominator. If you want to date white men go ahead but at least be honest to yourself about the reasons why. The common denominator argument just does not hold water otherwise we would conclude that all whites are racist or all women are ____ (pick a word of your choice and fill the blanks) which makes no sense at all. Report Abuse
Dzel> Excellent comment there. A question which hovers around my mind here is whether one is talking about the "lowest common denominator". I agree that the argument doesn't hold water, but find it amusing that one should aim for the lowest commonalities, according to our friend. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
spekepeke1
Uncle-Lu
You just made me lol even more stop it right there you such a joke Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
@RobinHood
madame: "Off course I use protection" lol.... And when you're "on course"? lol
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ROTFL Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Dzel
RobinH
Dzel> Excellent comment there. A question which hovers around my mind here is whether one is talking about the "lowest common denominator". I agree that the argument doesn't hold water, but find it amusing that one should aim for the lowest commonalities, according to our friend.
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sounds like a connvinient excuse, one that ignores many positive aspects hence I think it is personal justification more than a valid reason.
are you sure bro? grown ups like you claiming 2 b do not go around yelling and yepping about their sex life i am not even sure you know where and how to enter, i suspect you are being (fkd) instead Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
MissBhakajuju
Nongoloza24
MissBhakajuju
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"
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Prostitution at its worst
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jealousy @ its worst.... coz I'm not greetzing ya.... is the Truck strike over ?
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Heeee banna you never greet me so why would I be jealous gore you not greeting vandag?Plus again you want to go for the guy with the most money mara wena you kuku doesn't appreciate plus uyaguga daily ftsek. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Sloggi-Gasi
@Nongoloza24
Wa nye*la sani, i nearly die d, and your telling me that rubb*sh. FKF man, i dont have time for your sh**t, wena saan.You here the whole day talking k**k, baby ya nyatsi,
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Yeeee wena msunu ka nyoko I was asking you ukuthi is it possible to divorce someone if you not married to her why are you swearing at me or yini mfana ufuna ikick and boboza esbonong? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
spekepeke1
MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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@Sowetan.Why u blocking my comments mara he?Bo Robin le bo Nongoloza have been swearing and cursing all day mara u dont block them.Lelona le di racist like @RobinH Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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You might be younger than your age mara kuku yona e kgatetse...how you look on the outside is not that important...I mean when you look for a used car you mostly interested in the mileage than the body. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Honeybadger
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@Honeybadger
Hi!!!!!!
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How are you? I have been thinking about you. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24
hahahahaha..LOL... akere lewena your 0.5 Cent. noodle, is tzired, gone, finished .... so ke 50tz/50tz nana... outz 2 the mall... see ya Latzer !!!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
paracute: Suit yourself. I'm really not even remotely concerned about your opinion of me.
Zola: If you take people on, then have the guts to face the responses. You consistently insult and abuse yourself, by branding someone you know nothing about as racist, but when people challenge you you whine like a sick puppy. You are not only clueless, but a coward as well. Deal with it. We all have our comments deleted or refused, man. Get used to it, or else stay out of the kitchen. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Zola-Bud07
Nongoloza24
MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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You might be younger than your age mara kuku yona e kgatetse...how you look on the outside is not that important...I mean when you look for a used car you mostly interested in the mileage than the body.
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Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.Stop it maezi u just made me spit water through my nose mfowethu.Haaaaaai no u just made my day.Mileage. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-
Uncle-Lu
I dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem
@23 years old, he kills his girlfriend because of what? I have seen my girlfriend standing with males before, but what makes with to conclude that she was two timing him??? Bloody Moron. I applause his uncle for being a responsible ''parent''. Let this scumbag pay dearly for what he did. No remorse must be show by Judges. Women and Children abuse is extremely rife in the so called ''democratic '' South Africa. Report Abuse
Honeybadger
Nongoloza24
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respect women chief. your mother is a woman too i hope.
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The moment o tlo kenys maouladi ko tabeng tsa hiso ga re tlo utlwana broer...eintlik wena jy is agter my mfana and uta shikoma se o selabayo Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Serobapipi-
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Hai wena maan what rubbish is this?
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you mean that little thing you covered in your R.T Jeans.....? that is rubbish and you can come out ... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Don't you want a girlfriend m'fethu Honeybadger says she loves you. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
@Nongoloza24
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Don't you want a girlfriend m'fethu Honeybadger says she loves you.
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Nope-she deserve to be facked by one of my D0gs and after that she can make l0ve to RobinHobo........ Report Abuse
Hai wena maan what rubbish is this?
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you mean that little thing you covered in your R.T Jeans.....? that is rubbish and you can come out ...
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No i mean the little crocodile skin thing that helps you to pee Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
Zola> I politely decline to go to your place. Thanks for the invite. Appreciated, but no thanks.
Sabza: Exactly. Thanks for that. Try and explain this to our rather slow friends here. AT least they can't brand you as racist for telling them their attitudes stink. Report Abuse
serves you right i dont talk to piece of sh!t like you who pray for erection
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H0ly sh1t i'm so hurt - can you blv it ? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
SWEETYK & Galfrend were you at my lovies?? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
RobinH
WOW More wonderful mature talk. Do display more. It's so interesting. More. More. Please. Report Abuse
Click o mo tshwere busy he is not around as well.. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
@Sneijder
Damn eish now I see I must do sumthing with that punk Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
LehipilaMAFTOWN
Stupid bloody wanker.....there are too many single women out there but I guess sum people lack the element of acceptance when being dumped. Its part life Chief. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Sneijder
Skopokopo
Its bad today better i leave this place
Ohoo cos i am around today and you call Rio to the office Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-
Skopokopo
@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Just like smell of your kuku it drives me crazeeeeyyyyy ge ke o utlwa moer ka utlwa ke totelwa. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Nongoloza24
LehipilaMAFTOWN
Stupid bloody wanker.....there are too many single women out there but I guess sum people lack the element of acceptance when being dumped. Its part life Chief.
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Haraa teropo e go tlhakantse tlhaloganyo ka bona. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
@Sneijder
You kill me when you call my bra Rio, I told you ke striker daie man see now he's being called to the office Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Skopokopo
Serobapipi-
Skopokopo
@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Oh no maan frend!!
Chommie, i see you have a twin brother or sister now. Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
You know i'm facking your mom right and she is one of the WebTeam, so take a Chill.....
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Le he o ka tot3lwa ho swana le tonki you'll never see or come near my mama so tswela pele hoba l3r3tjana son Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Sneijder
@KG000
I know gore ke striker cos @Skopo wa hlanya ke e na...I am just pullig his leg and is a lekke auti !!! Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
I like your spirit so it means her nny0 is now bigger than i thought ----- Mamela ke tla twatwelwa ho swana le pere if that will make you feel better my boy......( I will come and see mami, in fact i will come near her ass-h0le) Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-
Skopokopo
Serobapipi-
Skopokopo
@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Oh no maan frend!!
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I know gore ke striker cos @Skopo wa hlanya ke e na...I am just pullig his leg and is a lekke auti !!!
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Heeee banna meaning o nyakazitse speke? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
Sneijder
@KG000
I know gore ke striker cos @Skopo wa hlanya ke e na...I am just pullig his leg and is a lekke auti !!!
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Wrong choice of words my auti LOL Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
I like your spirit so it means her nny0 is now bigger than i thought ----- Mamela ke tla twatwelwa ho swana le pere if that will make you feel better my boy......( I will come and see mami, in fact i will come near her ass-h0le)
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Heheheheheh o tla totelwa ho swana le pidipidi son ka pol0 ya zigzag e nkare ke boor machine o ka se mmone Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Sneijder
@KG000
I c i need to be careful of my words cos @Maezi a re ke stabane nou...
@Maezi
Haye ngalo hlobo mfwetho kikikikikiki eish wena Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
You now starting to sound like your step-father, Nkabe ke berekishe cond0m nkabe o sego mfan but who cares only your mother appreciates my sp3rms cos you are here today...... Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
KGS000
@Sneijder
For real bra, but I know, believe and trust that you don't bat for the other team Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
You now starting to sound like your step-father, Nkabe ke berekishe cond0m nkabe o sego mfan but who cares only your mother appreciates my sp3rms cos you are here today......
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O tailwe ke Kudu Beer son Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
Is that what comes out of your Girlfriend's pu$$$y when she is on her periods, Kudu Beer? Report Abuse
Oct 9, 2012
Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufi
Is that what comes out of your Girlfriend's pu$$$y when she is on her periods, Kudu Beer?
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Kudu Beer is your favorite drink dat u have every nite before you go to sleep behind your shack Report Abuse
Oct 10, 2012
somaartakeit
well done to the uncle, it gives me hope to see some SAns standing up against violent criminals, I know it took a courage to report a member of your family to the police but you did well, cause this person would have continued in his path of destruction,
To the family of the deceased may you find strength in the knowledge that the killer has been apprehended, Report Abuse
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Papage
Boys today, can not just take it, if she does not want you anymore, please let her go, why kill her? StupidReport Abuse
MorenaWaPolelo
This is sad, I wonder what leads a man to do this to a person they told they love??? Some men are heartless!!!!!!!!!!!!!Report Abuse
RobinH
Far too many men in this country view women as mere possessions. It's appalling.Report Abuse
Vhamsanda
Every time we fall in love , we are putting ourselves at risk . This is because we do not know what we are getting into until it's too late .Report Abuse
2shy2call
Uncle please next time hand him to the community first they will hand him to the police.Quick Quick
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MorenaJesu
obviously if u'r not a men enough you'll see her with another men who're able 2 satisfy her for you, stupid cowardReport Abuse
DJ-Winner
Sometimes we feel sorry for women when these things happen, but it is them who get into relationships with thugs. The say they don't want single guys, they don't want nice 'boring' guys. Well, this is what they get...Report Abuse
MophemeKoPitori
2012/10/09. some idiot calling himself a man is still old-fashioned whereby he doesn't like his woman to chat with other men! This kind of people deserve to be put in Zim prison where prisoners have no rights!Real MEN know that a woman is also a human being and as such deserves to chat with whoever whenever just like us MEN!
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Polotona
@ 2shy2col...i agree wth u bru,this moegoes y ha ba bona gore ga ba sa ratiwa ba sa itsamaele,bcz botekene ba bantsi mo mzansi,setlaela sa motswana wa gaetsho jaanong se ile go bolela ko tronkong.Report Abuse
MOKOPANEDUDE
Stupid fool,he doesnt kno that u dont own sum1,she can sleep with any1 anytym and if u solve ur problem by killing u gonna kill many ppl b4 u realiseReport Abuse
warry
Jooo Ratau, Tsutsuma o bolaile Jane morago go mo hwetsa a sepela le Cyril kua JoubetinaReport Abuse
RobinH
DJW: I am just saying nothing and shaking my head.Report Abuse
msizi
Shaka Zulu was the first S.A president :)Report Abuse
msizi
Cmon Sowetan that was a nice comment why did you remove it mara eish you guys :(Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
INVETSMENT.....can you image how it will feel like when you have invested your money into a relationship (pampering the guy with gifts and clothes )and later to be told that it’s over.....yeah sure i'll......somebodyReport Abuse
Breee11
Mxm........Report Abuse
Chichi7
Until men in this country stop looking at women as their possessions, we will continue to have this problemReport Abuse
misscm02
@ DJ-Winner, u really r an idiot!!! Clearly u wud do dat if u were dumped. Someone has lost a daughter, a sister, an aunt & a mother n u say they deserve this because they fell in love? Stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winnerhaai, wena Mahlangu, you can't say that, you just can't say dat*julius malema voice*
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Ratshufi
@THEmadame2B-BBEEhalla mamasita
Eish bana ba why kill her at that age id move on find another pretty girl forget about her
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Mosquer
Eish!! ja ne! bafana ba matswana ba gaketše bjaleReport Abuse
Nongoloza24
Some women do not learn yerrrr cheating on a man is extremely dangerous...There is more to this story than what meets the eye I mean you can't just k'ill a person for talking to another man this doesn't make sense,maybe they were having an affair *just saying*Report Abuse
Tsatsatsa
23 years old Sishimane killed his girlfriend. This is not out of jealeous, but it pure stupidity and he was not in love, but he was obsessed with her. The young man is sick...he might not even face the jail sentence uyahlanya lona.Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
MosquerEish!! ja ne! bafana ba matswana ba gaketše bjale
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Rra leretjana wa se itse setlhopa sa mo-ba?A gona matswana wa utlwa le wena gore o bolela sephinya...a ke go rute o d'ithala tse setlhafetseng,ke Motswana-Batswana wa utlwa lepetsana.
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DJ-Winner
misscm02@ DJ-Winner, u really r an idiot!!! Clearly u wud do dat if u were dumped. Someone has lost a daughter, a sister, an aunt & a mother n u say they deserve this because they fell in love? Stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Look, we are not saying we don't feel sorry for her, but sometimes women can be stupid with their selection of guys. You say you don't want single guys, you don't want nice 'boring' guys. I've been told that I'm too nice. How do you explain this? How do you reject a guy because he is too nice?
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Nastradamas
Bullsh!t, theres got to be more to this.you cant just kill your girl for seeing her with another man
what were they doing ? walking,talking,kissing or f5cking ?
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Rascome now, the chick is dead, this is about you man thinking that we are a objects, we are not trophies you know, i mean y would you smoke the poor child Mahlangu is not God he did not bring Kobo into this world, Mahlangu o selfish, he chowed kobo for years and now that the girl wants out of the relationship it becomes an issue of "if I can't have you no else can"
when was the last time you heard that a woman smoked his husband....huh when
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Nongoloza24
Kgane sowetan why did you block comments on Thando's article kikikikikikikikikikikikiReport Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Winner, maybe they were trying to say o gayReport Abuse
siya0505
The media again painting men as these horrible human beings, i know for a fact that it didnt start there. sowetan where is the full story? what this guy did was wrong but something had to push him to do it... Men are jealous beings even the bible says so and it will never change. women should stop leading guys on just for the sake of spending his money, that guy sacrifices a lot for that money and when he finds out his being played he will loose it coz its directly destroys his pride... i doubt if he just killed her for that! Dont believe everything you readReport Abuse
Mosquer
Wa bona!!! They can't think with their brains.Report Abuse
MGEEZ
Captain Amanda Funani said the 23-year-old man was arrested on Sunday for killing 21-year-old Elizabeth Phokompe after seeing her with another man on Saturday.=============================================================================
Where does a 23 yr old get the guts to commit such a crime??? This is disgusting; how many more defenseless people should lose their lives before our government bring back the death penalty?
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Kgaitsedi-ya-Genaro
Bana ba yerrr what do they know mara - they haven't experience a thing in life and already they are at each other's throat. For one to be strong and learn about relationships you have to undergo the cheating process like hell. That's why thina we are still standing to this date. We got cheated, cried our eyes out and walaaa move on!Report Abuse
PASTA
that clearly means he loved him. dnt just judge a person, you don't know where they come frm. surely they've been through hell and back nd nw she decides to cheat on him. hai these gals hai.Report Abuse
Vongsta
Ja neh! Dia bowa..........Report Abuse
DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE@Winner, maybe they were trying to say o gay
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Well, I don't have any gay features. I talk like guy, I walk straight, I don't wear tight clothes, I don't have any earing in the gay ear. Who said gays are nice?
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MissBhakajuju
THEmadame2B-BBEE@Winner, maybe they were trying to say o gay
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LMAO... LOL...LOLER...LOLEST.....tltltltltltlttltltltltl *dead*
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Why is being seen with another man reason enough to justify murder?? Where does the article state that she was cheating - just because he saw her with another man? From where I'm standing the boy had issues...lack of belief in himself, paranoia, insanity...call it what you will - but to conclude the girl was cheating and therefore she deserved to die...come on!Report Abuse
MGEEZ
@DJ-WinnerSometimes we feel sorry for women when these things happen, but it is them who get into relationships with thugs. The say they don't want single guys, they don't want nice 'boring' guys. Well, this is what they get...
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Mara wena sometimes neh!!!! How do you keep coming with these strange comments?
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Ratshufi
@MGEEZCaptain Amanda Funani said the 23-year-old man was arrested on Sunday for killing 21-year-old Elizabeth Phokompe after seeing her with another man on Saturday.
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Where does a 23 yr old get the guts to commit such a crime??? This is disgusting; how many more defenseless people should lose their lives before our government bring back the death penalty?
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She probably made him taste the fruits in her secret garden that he was so crazy about her he couldnt bear seeing her with another man/boy
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winnerwhat, gay ppl are nice ppl, i go shopping with them they’ll even go as far as applying lotion on my body, i like them......ok so let’s solve your problem, the chicks say o nice kWAAAAAKWAAAA. ok, on a serious note you want us to fix this, but before we start you being nice ‘is it the reason why you are not getting lucky’? Because they don't want to give it up to a nice guy
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MGEEZ
@THEmadame2B-BBEEINVETSMENT.....can you image how it will feel like when you have invested your money into a relationship (pampering the guy with gifts and clothes )and later to be told that it’s over.....yeah sure i'll......somebody
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This comment is not in the correct story or you did not read the story. Nobody was dumped in this story or told it was over!!!!
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Mokwepa
eish guys lets receive Jesus as the Lord of South Africa....things are getting out of handReport Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@geezpick on somebody the size of your diek
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RobinH
Nongoloza and Nastradamus: Whatever the "reason", whether she was having an affair, or was gay or whatever, it is still not acceptable sommer to k i l l someone.Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
Kgaitsedi-ya-GenaroBana ba yerrr what do they know mara - they haven't experience a thing in life and already they are at each other's throat. For one to be strong and learn about relationships you have to undergo the cheating process like hell. That's why thina we are still standing to this date. We got cheated, cried our eyes out and walaaa move on!
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That's because you are a woman and women are forgiving...If you were a man you'd be telling a different story.
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Droooooza
Ye ye ye ke batla rough rider....ke batla rough rider.... Observe the rules of the game.Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
Mokwepaeish guys lets receive Jesus as the Lord of South Africa....things are getting out of hand
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Wena you definitely going to need Him after ke tlo chwatla leretjana ka hamole goneng ke go bolella I can't usesame avatar as you?
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thembag0206
Why why why?????sishimane,let go umuntu mawumubhaca nomuntu let go sishimane let go!!!!!!!!Report Abuse
MissBhakajuju
although he shouldn't have re-acted with an.ger, but somehow I feel his pain yazi.... mhlambe, the Girl made a great impact in his life.... its not always easy 2 say, that thers lots of Gilrz, ladies Blah Blah..... the thing is they're all different.... and Guys are very sensitive, yonk.... never mind their lies, of always saying Thers a lot of fishes in the sea.... LIE..... they say that just to boost their empty e.gos......Report Abuse
Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Bumboklaat
Eish bashimanyana ba abana mooko man!Report Abuse
MGEEZ
@THEmadame2B-BBEE@geez
pick on somebody the size of your diek
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Wow; what would have bought along now? You simply did not read the story hence your commence seems to be wayward!!! Just read the story, you'll be fine
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MGEEZ
@THEmadame2B-BBEE@geez
pick on somebody the size of your diek
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Wow; what would have brought that along now? You simply did not read the story hence your comments seems to be wayward!!! Just read the story, you'll be fine.
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Ag! boys,this world is full of girls if you dont read the same page everyone has to walk away that's all.Report Abuse
Zola-Bud07
@Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for what he did as well.Women in general dont know what they want in a relationship.Here's my story.Report Abuse
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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MissBhakajuju
@ Skopokopoheloooo my Chomest.... o kae Nunu ???
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Droooooza
Basadi tlogelang bo febe....Report Abuse
Skopokopo
MissBhakajuju@ Skopokopo
heloooo my Chomest.... o kae Nunu ???
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Hala my Nunus, im good thanks and you my lov?
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TrapStar
RIP galWow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE@winner
what, gay ppl are nice ppl, i go shopping with them they’ll even go as far as applying lotion on my body, i like them......ok so let’s solve your problem, the chicks say o nice kWAAAAAKWAAAA. ok, on a serious note you want us to fix this, but before we start you being nice ‘is it the reason why you are not getting lucky’? Because they don't want to give it up to a nice guy
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But you say guys must be themselves, they must not be someone else. Well, I am a nice guy, if I change now and fake Mr.wrong, that will not be me...I think women don't know what they want.
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Skopokopo
Ratshufi@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Ratshufi
@TrapStarRIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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RobinH
Zola: With respect that is all irrelevant. One does not kill someone because of something as idiotic as jealousy. I have absolutely no sympathy with so-called jealousy. No-one owns his or her partner.Report Abuse
Kgaitsedi-ya-Genaro
Mokwepaeish guys lets receive Jesus as the Lord of South Africa....things are getting out of hand
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Does this comment guarantees that if we receive him death will be a thing of the past Sir???
Nongoloza24
That's because you are a woman and women are forgiving...If you were a man you'd be telling a different story.
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Mara don't you think this is right coz we forgive and move on not kill. By forgiving nna I mean ke ya go itshwarela but the relationship is over. Holding a grudge makes one not to have peace mo moyeng broer.
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Stripes
wasn't he supposed to have killed himself as well? Isn't that the trend???Report Abuse
Ratshufi
@SkopokopoRatshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Just let me know when you are ready hahahahaha i bet you , you'd want to stay there
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RobinH
lol @ stripes.Report Abuse
Thebuster
The Anger got the beta of this Confused boy,sowetan need to get more on this one cause It sound as there's more than we are being let to know,please dig it up or even go to the Uncle as well.Report Abuse
TrapStar
Ratshufi@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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No i was just going to run to get the community and tell them he killed her, we would all run to the forest to kick his bud
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@TrapstarYour friend is sadistic!
@DJWinner
...I think women don't know what they want.
Hillarious! Because in all honesty - the same could be said for men!
You guys pursue us like we are living water....your attention solely on getting us..laying on the charm, the romance the whole enchilada right? When you finally get us you give us this luke warm treatment (the hot then yall cold treatment)...and then all of a sudden we women are too clingy when we want to spend time with you, too possessive, to fast when we want to solidify the relationship! And when we start recieving attention from other guys...then you guys bring out the brute in you...the little green eyed possessive monster...all of a sudden we are yours again....no one should look...should sniff let alone touch what's yours...gaaaaa!
Please!!! Don't go on about woman not knowing what we want...we know...you guys are the confused ones!
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Skopokopo
Ratshufi@Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Just let me know when you are ready hahahahaha i bet you , you'd want to stay there
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Oh yes, if all qualifies me to stay i will kikikikiki please take me before you take my frend Sweetyk because it wont be ok to take both of us to the planet kwakwkwakwakwakwa
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner.......you are making me like you, that's so nice..kwaaaaakwaaaa
anyway, unlike other ladies i know what i want, I’m straight forward with my preferences, i tell a guy up front i don’t date black men i go for white only, i like my space, I’m an independent thinker, true there is something called love i experienced it several times, and hated it, now i live my life with my partner for enjoyment travelling and having the coital interlude without me having to stress if he’ll want to marry me or not
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MissBhakajuju
@ TrapStaryour friend, is a m.or.on....but as for you having respect for him... thats priceless....m.e.n must be c.ow.ards Hey, more that I ever thought..... so, it aches seeing your GF with another guy.... how much more, if U find them in b.e.d... LOL
like I said, Guys are just softies in reality... but disguised in a metal face...
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Ratshufi
@SkopokopoRatshufi
@Skopokopo
Ratshufi
@Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,
Morning Lala!!
Sad story, no one has a right to take someone's life unfortunately in SA its happening everyday and justice is not served in most cases.
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Sweet baby how are you....................see nna i wont kill you i'll just take you to planet 16...LOL
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Im good thanx lov, oh really? i want to see myself inside that planet, cant wait. lol
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Just let me know when you are ready hahahahaha i bet you , you'd want to stay there
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Oh yes, if all qualifies me to stay i will kikikikiki please take me before you take my frend Sweetyk because it wont be ok to take both of us to the planet kwakwkwakwakwakwa
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Skopo your friend Sweetyk is dragging her feet so uzoba strong i am switching to you nkare wa shesha wena she is slow o tla ja lata...n she is gona envy you he o mo tlotlela
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Dzel
MissBhakajujualthough he shouldn't have re-acted with an.ger, but somehow I feel his pain yazi.... mhlambe, the Girl made a great impact in his life.... its not always easy 2 say, that thers lots of Gilrz, ladies Blah Blah..... the thing is they're all different.... and Guys are very sensitive, yonk.... never mind their lies, of always saying Thers a lot of fishes in the sea.... LIE..... they say that just to boost their empty e.gos......
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Hellooo Juju ....
You sound like one of those women who say he beat me up because he loves me.
The idiot killed a woman. A real man has enough sense to dust himself off, deal with his ego and move on. No man owns a woman and if she is not the one for you then you have to deal with it like a man and take it on the chin, not some wimp who picks on a defenseless woman. Only a spineless wimp can do something like this.
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Ratshufi
@TrapStarRatshufi
@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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No i was just going to run to get the community and tell them he killed her, we would all run to the forest to kick his bud
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You should have kicked his bud when he started his rubbish
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Ladies what's so difficult to tell someone if you dont have love for him anymore,this cheating of yours will take you to hell.Report Abuse
TrapStar
Ratshufi@TrapStar
Ratshufi
@TrapStar
RIP gal
Wow when i thought my friend was heartless, His galfrend cheated on him and all he did was taking me and her to the bush, when we got there he tied her up with a tree and got this big big stick. he gave her some serious beating and all i could do was being SHOCKED, i realised she was bleeding had to stop him though i was also afraid. Well for a minute i thought he was going to hit me as well, but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Your story sounds like you are from the amazon forest..how can u let your friend do that in front of u had the girl died do u knw dat u were going to be arrested too?
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No i was just going to run to get the community and tell them he killed her, we would all run to the forest to kick his bud
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You should have kicked his bud when he started his rubbish
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Man the guy wears Size 11 in shoe size, he is very tall. A shoe last for max 3 months with him, when he kicks a person, they always fall or black out. Why would i risk my life??
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Zola-Bud07
@ Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for doing what he did bcos we dont know what really happened on that day.Women in general dont know what they want in arelationship.
Here's my story.I was in a mall a year ago with my girlfriend the mother of my child doing some shopping etc etc.Then what happened is we were getting in and out of shops cos she cudnt decide what she wanted to buy(u know women).Then we went to this other shop and i decided to stay outside and sit down as i was exhausted and she proceeded into the shop alone.After a while i went to check what was taking her so long cos its been a while she has been in the shop.To my aweful surprise i managed to see her writing her numbers down on a piece of paper and giving them to this guy she was in a quee with.She thought i ddint see what she had done.I was fuming and upset by that and approached her and asked her what she was doing.She pretended as if she ddint know what i was on about nd she was care-free.I almost fought with that guy and i decided not to cos i told myself i will never fight over a woman.I upped and left her @ the Mall stranded went home calmed myself down switched my fone off for a couple.She tried calling me to apologise but i ddnt wanna hear nuthing,because she had betrayed my trust in her.After several months i managed to forgive her but i still cant erase that incident from my mind.I dont trust her anymore.I decide i wud never go to a public place with her anymo.I go alone to a mall and she goes alone.Finish and klaar.
So guys instead of harming the woman rather walk away cos ur future is @ stake ,she is not worth wasting you future over.Just walk away and never look back bafowethu.
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RobinH
Zola: OK, I support the view that one should walk away if one's relationship is no longer working, which is clearly the case if a partner is looking elsewhere. But please let's becareful with these rather trite generalisations like: "Women in general dont know what they want in a relationship." I mean, what utter bullsh!t!!Report Abuse
MissBhakajuju
@ Dzelhi Lala... no, I'm nothing like those kind of women... I'm just trying 2 balance the judgement, without in.s.ulting one party...like I said, that he shouldn't have reacted in that manner... he should have cooled off first, and walked away.... I'm also trying 2 expose the reality, of Pretence that most Men live under, that they're in general "okey" with being "d.umped", as thers 'supposely' lots of women "waiting for them"......
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DJ-Winner
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o@Trapstar
Your friend is sadistic!
@DJWinner
...I think women don't know what they want.
Hillarious! Because in all honesty - the same could be said for men!
You guys pursue us like we are living water....your attention solely on getting us..laying on the charm, the romance the whole enchilada right? When you finally get us you give us this luke warm treatment (the hot then yall cold treatment)...and then all of a sudden we women are too clingy when we want to spend time with you, too possessive, to fast when we want to solidify the relationship! And when we start recieving attention from other guys...then you guys bring out the brute in you...the little green eyed possessive monster...all of a sudden we are yours again....no one should look...should sniff let alone touch what's yours...gaaaaa!
Please!!! Don't go on about woman not knowing what we want...we know...you guys are the confused ones!
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What is exactly what I'm saying that you women go for wrong guys abo Mr.wrong. A nice guy will not do all these all these things. You say, no the guy is borring, he is a single, there is a problem with him. And then I ask myself, what do you want? You want a guy in a relationship that will cheat with you? You want rough guy that will treat you roughly? This is stupid according to me...
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thinya
Give this stupid bustard life sentence.Report Abuse
Ratshufi
@Zola-Bud07@ Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for doing what he did bcos we dont know what really happened on that day.Women in general dont know what they want in a
relationship.
Here's my story.I was in a mall a year ago with my girlfriend the mother of my child doing some shopping etc etc.Then what happened is we were getting in and out of shops cos she cudnt decide what she wanted to buy(u know women).Then we went to this other shop and i decided to stay outside and sit down as i was exhausted and she proceeded into the shop alone.After a while i went to check what was taking her so long cos its been a while she has been in the shop.To my aweful surprise i managed to see her writing her numbers down on a piece of paper and giving them to this guy she was in a quee with.She thought i ddint see what she had done.I was fuming and upset by that and approached her and asked her what she was doing.She pretended as if she ddint know what i was on about nd she was care-free.I almost fought with that guy and i decided not to cos i told myself i will never fight over a woman.I upped and left her @ the Mall stranded went home calmed myself down switched my fone off for a couple.She tried calling me to apologise but i ddnt wanna hear nuthing,because she had betrayed my trust in her.After several months i managed to forgive her but i still cant erase that incident from my mind.I dont trust her anymore.I decide i wud never go to a public place with her anymo.I go alone to a mall and she goes alone.Finish and klaar.
So guys instead of harming the woman rather walk away cos ur future is @ stake ,she is not worth wasting you future over.Just walk away and never look back bafowethu.
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I have a story too/ or shud i rather say experience with a woman that i had given all i had to her and she batrayed me like big times i almost hated all women but then i realised they are not the same
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MissBhakajuju@ TrapStar
your friend, is a m.or.on....but as for you having respect for him... thats priceless....m.e.n must be c.ow.ards Hey, more that I ever thought..... so, it aches seeing your GF with another guy.... how much more, if U find them in b.e.d... LOL
like I said, Guys are just softies in reality... but disguised in a metal face...
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I dislike fighting with my lady, i have never laid a hand on anyone. I love it when she smiles, i prefer to enjoy every minute with my lady that fighting, Women will do anything for you if you make them feel like they are angels. I like that a lot, If we didnt have women on earth, we wouldnt enjoy. As for Other women, they love a person who hits them, you do lovey dovey stuff, they call you a m.or.o.n and play you.
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MissBhakajuju
@ DJ-WinnerPlease don't generalise... Yes, some gilrs don't go for Nice Guys & so What ??? they do know what they want moes....
and being rejected but those Girlz, doesn't mean that all Girlz will reject you.... I don't Date Broke Men & thats me !!
So, if some guy wants me, & I tell him where 2 gett off... will that generaly mean all Girlz don't date Broke men ????
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Dzel
TrapStar... he gave her some serious beating ...but after the beating the gal fainted. then she woke up crying out loud, i respect that guy damn
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Respected him?
Whilst at varsity and still very naive my then g-friend cheated on me with not one but two guys. She had a fight with her best friend who then spilled the beans on her while we were at a party. I decided there and then it was over between us. That very same weekend I met a wonderful lady whom I stayed up all night chatting to her, she was perfect and naturally we fell in love than night.
Two weeks later old g-friend comes to apologise only to find I had moved on. She begged and pleaded with me to take her back but I was not interested, I had no intention of being with someone so deceitful but more importantly the new g-friend was so much better; more beautiful, more intelligent she beat her hands down. Every time she saw us together I could tell it hurt what she did but it proved to me she was not the right woman for me, why should I compromise myself and my happiness for someone who did not appreciate me nor deserved the love I gave her.
Moving on and finding the right woman gave me much more satisfaction than a beating ever could give me plus that night I promised myself I would never be played by a woman ever again, it is a promise I have kept ever since. I grew as a person and became much stronger; a real man is able to identify opportunities for growth even in the most difficult of situations.
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THEmadame2B-BBEE@winner
.......you are making me like you, that's so nice..kwaaaaakwaaaa
anyway, unlike other ladies i know what i want, I’m straight forward with my preferences, i tell a guy up front i don’t date black men i go for white only, i like my space, I’m an independent thinker, true there is something called love i experienced it several times, and hated it, now i live my life with my partner for enjoyment travelling and having the coital interlude without me having to stress if he’ll want to marry me or not
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LOL, don't like me, I'm too nice.
Well, some of your preferences are also questionable. Generalisation based on race is not making sense. I don't think skin colours have to do with anything. People are just people regardless of skin colours. But alteast you did not say you don't like guys because they are nice....
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Chichi7
Zola-Bud07@Robin.Morning.I dont condone what this guy did and i dont blame him for what he did as well.Women in general dont know what they want in a relationship.Here's my story.
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do not generalise. just as much as men do not like to be told they are all dogs, please do not put women in the same basket.
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Dzel
MissBhakajujuPlease don't generalise... Yes, some gilrs don't go for Nice Guys & so What ??? they do know what they want moes....
and being rejected but those Girlz, doesn't mean that all Girlz will reject you.... I don't Date Broke Men & thats me !!
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How do you define broke?
I was listening to Metro FM this morning, my jaw was dropped all the way to town. Ja nee, some men are fools.
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MissBhakajuju@ DJ-Winner
Please don't generalise... Yes, some gilrs don't go for Nice Guys & so What ??? they do know what they want moes....
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Those girls usually end-up having their butts kicked/ killed and they want us feel sorry for them...
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Days
Said story but these things happen. Even girls as young as 15 years now threaten to committ suicide becuase a boyfriend dumped her.Government should promote awareness campaigns through the department of social welfare to arm people to take rejection.
Killing is not an answer, people will allways like those who does not care whether liked or not but the spark seem to diminish towards those who desparately avail themselves.
When we grew up girls left us for the working guys or those who were in higher education institutions than us and that hurt, but we never thought of killing ourselves.
Now that we are old and successfull we no longer look for them, we run away from them.
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Zola-Bud07
siya0505The media again painting men as these horrible human beings, i know for a fact that it didnt start there. sowetan where is the full story? what this guy did was wrong but something had to push him to do it... Men are jealous beings even the bible says so and it will never change. women should stop leading guys on just for the sake of spending his money, that guy sacrifices a lot for that money and when he finds out his being played he will loose it coz its directly destroys his pride... i doubt if he just killed her for that! Dont believe everything you read
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U've said a mouthfull boss.U just made my day.We men are territorial and jealous when it comes to our loved ones(mothers,kids,sisters girlfriends etc etc).If a woman wants out of a relationship i think its sensible for her to just tell the guy and not cheat on him.We men cant stand being cheated on and thats a fact.Once cheated on we are never the same again,we dont forgive and we dont forget.Period.
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Printa
NW is overtaking Limpompo, KZN, & EC for sick things.Report Abuse
Skopokopo
@Ratshufi,Skopo your friend Sweetyk is dragging her feet so uzoba strong i am switching to you nkare wa shesha wena she is slow o tla ja lata...n she is gona envy you he o mo tlotlela
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LOL!! will have to ask her first. i dont want to end up without a friend!!!
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RobinH
ZOla: That may be so, but isn't that exactly what I was saying is the root of the problem. Being unable to deal with "cheating" or even SUSPECTED cheating is a clear proof that you see women as belonging to you, and with respect, that is sick.Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
I wish this dude did this to my ex the mother of my boy and slit her throat nxa that woman wa mbhora.Report Abuse
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@DJWinnerWhat is exactly what I'm saying that you women go for wrong guys abo Mr.wrong. A nice guy will not do all these all these things. You say, no the guy is borring, he is a single, there is a problem with him. And then I ask myself, what do you want? You want a guy in a relationship that will cheat with you? You want rough guy that will treat you roughly? This is stupid according to me...
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Not all women do that - that's a huge generalisation on your part! I'll agree that there are those who tend to feel that they need a man who physically mistreats them to feel loved and hence go for the rough tyype. But at the same time another factor that should be taken into consideration is that we have differenet stages of life...when we younger - we do tend to gravitate to the more "bad boy" type...but as we get older we look towards wanting someone more sedate and "nice"....so its' either you are going for young women who are not at the same stage as you are in life...or your are pursuing the wrong kind of women.
And another thing....anything can make a "nice" guy snap - just cause you haven't doesn't mean you're not capable of it!
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o@DJWinner
What is exactly what I'm saying that you women go for wrong guys abo Mr.wrong. A nice guy will not do all these all these things. You say, no the guy is borring, he is a single, there is a problem with him. And then I ask myself, what do you want? You want a guy in a relationship that will cheat with you? You want rough guy that will treat you roughly? This is stupid according to me...
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Not all women do that - that's a huge generalisation on your part! I'll agree that there are those who tend to feel that they need a man who physically mistreats them to feel loved and hence go for the rough tyype. But at the same time another factor that should be taken into consideration is that we have differenet stages of life...when we younger - we do tend to gravitate to the more "bad boy" type...but as we get older we look towards wanting someone more sedate and "nice"....so its' either you are going for young women who are not at the same stage as you are in life...or your are pursuing the wrong kind of women.
And another thing....anything can make a "nice" guy snap - just cause you haven't doesn't mean you're not capable of it!
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LOL, I hear you. So this mean I must go for older women....
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Bumboklaat
@Nongoloza24I wish this dude did this to my ex the mother of my boy and slit her throat nxa that woman wa mbhora.
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What's wrong boooi! Ogo tshwere ka makatla?
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Nongoloza24
Bumbo that biatch le yena wants to get me into trouble...ga tlameile ko tseya small ke blome le yena o bua taba tsa gore not vandag tlameile ke kenye appointment keng yona dai ding?I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you were dating magintsa and you don't want sweet konyana like me?
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Bumboklaat
What is @Sowetan smoking?Report Abuse
Bumboklaat
@Nongoloza24Bumbo that biatch le yena wants to get me into trouble...ga tlameile ko tseya small ke blome le yena o bua taba tsa gore not vandag tlameile ke kenye appointment keng yona dai ding?
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you were dating magintsa and you don't want sweet konyana like me?
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Ya that's bitter exes for you!
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@Nongoloza24I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you were dating magintsa and you don't want sweet konyana like me?
Mina maginsta? Cha bhuti - not me. I like the intelligent, nerdy type. Are you a nerd Nongoloza? I doubt it!!!!
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snazz
At 23 he will spend most of his life behind bars.This boy ke setlaela sisReport Abuse
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
What the heck just happened to all the comments???Report Abuse
Blackstone.lebs
21yr old, DEAD. 23yr old off to PRISON. Two young lives wasted just like that...RIP Lizzy. There's too much intolerance these days, people look once and act. Thinking seems to be such a mission to some.Report Abuse
19Doubleiets
YHO!Report Abuse
KGS000
@AllMorning Good people
As guys we must stop giving each other k@k advise especially when it come to women.
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Zola-Bud07
@Robin.Its bullshit to you bcos u've never really experienced true love boss.The day u experience true love u will swallow your words.@ Ratshufi.It happens to the best of us mfowethu.I dont trust women anymo.I dont hate them nor despise them but i just dont tust them @ all period.I trust myself
@Chichi7.Mara its true Chichi u guys dont know what u really want.U know us guys are a different species from you women.When we love we give our all and i mean all.Our women are our pride and joy but once that trust has been broken all hell breaks loose.Some guys re-act differenlty from others,sum kill,stab,assualt a women and some just walk away and never look back.
To all women reading this here is some advice.If you dont want your husband/boyfriend anymo just be bold and tell them to their face instead of cheating on him.As much as it will hurt he will respect u and re-act in a dignified manner for your honsesty.We men are simple really ladies,mara i still dont trust u.
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MissBhakajuju
@ KGS000Hi my sugar tart.... thanx 4 that... most s.a black men talk a lot of gabage, maan... no wonder some Girlz date Wht dudes.. or african foreign guys...
how're U sweet lips ??
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@All good morning (on a rainy day)I dont understand some of the male bloggers.......... when a woman is k!illed thye purport that she was cheating #SMH# It takes a cheater to know/see another cheater.
aybe the scumb@g was cheating on the deceased and when he saw her talking to another guy he thought she is doing the SH!T (banging another woman) that he has been doing..........
@DJWinner, they say you are "NICE" and don't want to go out with you, go easy on self praise (where you live, what car you drive, your salry, your education), you might get lucky............. VANITY is not ayoba.
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RobinH
Zola: Grow a brain please. I was married for 21 years, and have had many relationships before and after my marriage. Please don't make your incapacity mine. Twit.Report Abuse
KGS000
@ MissBhakajujuThen we say women do it for money
I'm well thanks and you my goddess
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Nongoloza24
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o why would you want a nerdy man...also explain what you mean by an intelligent guy while you at it tuu.Bumbo vele and nna ma se kind a ke tlo bua maaka I hate that woman with a passion
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
there is no story here -------nxaaaaaReport Abuse
MGEEZ
@siya0505The media again painting men as these horrible human beings, i know for a fact that it didnt start there. sowetan where is the full story? what this guy did was wrong but something had to push him to do it... Men are jealous beings even the bible says so and it will never change. women should stop leading guys on just for the sake of spending his money, that guy sacrifices a lot for that money and when he finds out his being played he will loose it coz its directly destroys his pride... i doubt if he just killed her for that! Dont believe everything you read
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Do you know this couple personally?
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MGEEZ
@Zola-Bud07U've said a mouthfull boss.U just made my day.We men are territorial and jealous when it comes to our loved ones(mothers,kids,sisters girlfriends etc etc).If a woman wants out of a relationship i think its sensible for her to just tell the guy and not cheat on him.We men cant stand being cheated on and thats a fact.Once cheated on we are never the same again,we dont forgive and we dont forget.Period.
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Please speak for yourself and understand that not all men are like you!!! For your information; many people who do not forgive like yourself suffer from resentment which degenerates into bitterness of the soul and when manifested in the physical body, the doctors call it cancer!!! I will get help if I were you; because sooner or later you going to need it anyway!!!
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winnerGeneralisation based on race is not making sense
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Really, Winner, not all generalisations are stereotype you know. Do you really want be to give 101 lesson on black men versus white men. I fore starters reject to be with a black man who thinks having kids scattered all over the place is the best thing after sliced bread. How many of your friends you know are fathering children out of wedlock? How many....remember we take decision according to the common denominator of a specific group or ethnic ethnic group, including race, if ten men out of 15 fathers plus minus six children out of wedlock what does tell you about the rest of the group.
does this make sense
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magebula
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Nongoloza24I wish this dude did this to my ex the mother of my boy and slit her throat nxa that woman wa mbhora.
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Ratshufi
@Skopokopo@Ratshufi,
Skopo your friend Sweetyk is dragging her feet so uzoba strong i am switching to you nkare wa shesha wena she is slow o tla ja lata...n she is gona envy you he o mo tlotlela
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LOL!! will have to ask her first. i dont want to end up without a friend!!!
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LOL..do you think she is going to say ye friend go ahead hahaha i dont think so but we can try
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@RobinHZola: Grow a brain please. I was married for 21 years, and have had many relationships before and after my marriage. Please don't make your incapacity mine. Twit.
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Zola-Bud07
@Ratshufi.What happened in ur case boss?What did that fool of a woman do to break your heart.@Robin.I see u trying to act like Mr Goodie-two-shoes.Wait till a woman breaks your heart and u will know what we guys are going thru.U feel like u've been to hell and back baba.Clearly u havent experienced that so u probably wudnt know what im talking about.
@ KGS000.Heita.we are not giving each other k@k advise as u suggest we are trying to engage men-to men on how to tackle challenges we encounter relating to women.Thats all.
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KGS000
@Zola-Bud07- Not when we advise each to beat up women, I have heard a lot of guys talking crap saying sometimes you have to beat up ur woman to set her straight what the fcuk is that.Report Abuse
RobinH
MsKinky: This was in response to a singularly mindless remark on my supposed inability to "love". I responded as I saw fit, and will do so again. The man sets himself up as the one and only arbiter of how men deal with emotion, and when one chooses a rational approach one is accused of being incapable of emotion. Now surely that deserves a response.KGS: I fully agree with you. Many men are quite capable of dealing with such issues without having to resort to violence. And those men I find admirable. Those who lift their hands to hurt a woman deserve to be ridiculed by decent men.
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DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE@winner
Generalisation based on race is not making sense
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Really, Winner, not all generalisations are stereotype you know. Do you really want be to give 101 lesson on black men versus white men. I fore starters reject to be with a black man who thinks having kids scattered all over the place is the best thing after sliced bread. How many of your friends you know are fathering children out of wedlock? How many....remember we take decision according to the common denominator of a specific group or ethnic ethnic group, including race, if ten men out of 15 fathers plus minus six children out of wedlock what does tell you about the rest of the group.
does this make sense
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This is generalisation I'm talking about. Not all black guys do those things. I'm black as hell, but I don't do those things. I also know few black guys who don't. If all white men were perfect, there could be no divorced white couples, not even 1 in this world. There is good black guys and bad black guys. Also, there is good white guys and bad white guys....
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MissBhakajuju
@ DJ-Winnercan U read, maar wena ?? the Majority of S.A Black Men, e.g 13/15 are mostly k@k, like THemadame said.... you can even judge by most of the comments most male bloggers make here, including you....
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Zola-Bud07
@RobinH.No no no no no Robin dont get all emotional and defensive on me dont.If you gonna start with your name calling tendencies i think u and i are gonna have a huge problem.I've observed that u cant engage in a dignified manner with other bloggers and u resort to name-calling/insults.Dont and i say dont call me names u hear me.If u cant engage with me in a dignified manner rather ignore my comments.@Mgeez.Deny it all you like mfowethu but u know what im talking about.As long as u've never been cheated on or gotten your heart broken you wont know what im talking about hence u and i are not on the same page.As for you suggesting that i get help i dont think u are a qualified doctor or psychologist to make that observation so take a chill pill boss.
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Ratshufi
@Zola-Bud07@Ratshufi.What happened in ur case boss?What did that fool of a woman do to break your heart.
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Bru she was not working whn i met her n i did everything for her and i organised wth my connections her first job and walla whn the stup1d humm3r was still woooow and a jola le ou ya go tsamaya ka hummer ...the day i caught her was when i was off from work n i decided to surprise her by taking her lunch to work and i caught her sitting with the guy smooching in the humm3r................
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shinatho
He must get a life sentence, don't believe there are still guys like him in this world.mxmReport Abuse
Zola-Bud07
@Mgeez and Robin. If you two took your time to carefully read my first comment im sure u wud have picked up that i did mention that i do not condone nor blame him for what he did bcos we dont know the actual events of that fateful day and what was going thru his mind.Hence i said if u've never been in the same situation as this guy and many other men out there u will plead ignorance.You two are selective readers.
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MissBhakajuju
@ RatshufiLOL.... hahahahahahaha... its not funny moratiwa, I know.... but I just couldn't help myself... LOL... so you got dribled...
But you guys also don't wanna learn, sometimes.... never polish any Girl... thats why I don't date guys that are Broke, coz
the day, he makes money, he'll probably get new Ideas. so I date somoene who alreadzy has itz all !!!
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RobinH
ZOla: With respect, it was you who suggested that I am incapable of love, so let's not get too precious here, Sir. I simply put you in your place and I feel absolutely no need to a[pologise. How dare you make assumptions about my relationships with the women in my life? Make such insulting suggestions, then I fear you need to deal with an angry response. And for someone who excuses this behaviour to talk about dignity is patently absurd.Report Abuse
Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEEHow many....remember we take decision according to the common denominator of a specific group or ethnic ethnic group, including race, if ten men out of 15 fathers plus minus six children out of wedlock what does tell you about the rest of the group.
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But then who do they have these kids with, black women who in all likelihood know the guy is hooked, am I to say black women are also bad and turn my back against you guys?
This is a two-way street, black women also have their flaws including getting knocked up and telling the hubby its his meanwhile she has a long-term relationship on the side. You hardly hear black men saying our women are not up to standard therefore I'll bed the first ugly woman who lets me have her. I think it has less to do with black men than it has an aspiration to bed a white man because we have not fully recovered from apartheid and we have this ingrained belief that white is better.
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DJ-Winner
MissBhakajuju@ DJ-Winner
can U read, maar wena ?? the Majority of S.A Black Men, e.g 13/15 are mostly k@k, like THemadame said.... you can even judge by most of the comments most male bloggers make here, including you....
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I have noticed that you constantly insulting me even if I try to ignore you...
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
What the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all uselessReport Abuse
Ratshufi
@MissBhakajuju@ Ratshufi
LOL.... hahahahahahaha... its not funny moratiwa, I know.... but I just couldn't help myself... LOL... so you got dribled...
But you guys also don't wanna learn, sometimes.... never polish any Girl... thats why I don't date guys that are Broke, coz
the day, he makes money, he'll probably get new Ideas. so I date somoene who alreadzy has itz all !!!
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Ba mpethile spy two hahahahahah its ok darling i dealt with it and i still make fun of it ....i was broken hey but it only made me stronger
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Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....Report Abuse
Droooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to strangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....Report Abuse
MGEEZ
@Zola-Bud07@Mgeez.Deny it all you like mfowethu but u know what im talking about.As long as u've never been cheated on or gotten your heart broken you wont know what im talking about hence u and i are not on the same page.As for you suggesting that i get help i dont think u are a qualified doctor or psychologist to make that observation so take a chill pill boss.
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That is a problem with you; you make assumptions and take your thought as facts!!! Just because you think i am not a doctor or psychologist does not mean that I am not!!! It simply means that is what you think. The fact remains that you need help; I have met and treated a lot of patients who are suffering from the condition that your symptoms are demonstrating!!!
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Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesWhat the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless
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You are blogging and dat makes u useless too
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skopomashwabana
"if you've never contemplated murder!!! you've never been in love..if you've never looked yourself in the mirror, and practised your alibi!!! you've never been in love..
if you've never bought a rug to roll her up nicely in!!! you've never been in love..
I'm not saying he should've killed her, but i understand..." Chris Rock
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Vongsta
Interesting stories ......... what i have learned from all my experiences is forgive and forget........ or forgive and leave the relationship. You will never trust your partner and you'll always thing the worst of them when not around. instead of that heart ache...move on..... I know its not easy do it. No point being stucked with someone you don't trust. Once a cheater, always a cheater.Report Abuse
MissBhakajuju
@ DroooozaKwaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaa... LOL
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ILLUMINATED
@Dzel: a prudent w!fe and v!rtuous w!fe comes from the Lord, e seng ko partying. It took me several years to come to terms with that.@Nongoloza24: M@ez!sto mfanaka please stuff a sock into your d!rty mouth? Why o rata go rogana so? I have inv!ted you to church and you never responded... Morena Modimo a re seka ra bua dipuo tse di maswe e seng le go rogana.
Colossians 3:8 - But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
Hosea 4:2 - By swearing, and lying, and k!lling, and stealing, and committing adultery, they break out, and blood toucheth blood.
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DJ-Winner
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesWhat the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless
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Fcuk you....
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Ratshufiwhat are you saying you toothpick D1ck, Why dn't you just go back where you came from, ******right back in your mother's WET pu$$$y....
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
DrooooozaAs long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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RobinH
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles: "What the H3ll are you all i.diots bloggers on about? You all useless" HMMM, AND that wonderfully articulate remark is supposed to mean what exactly, Mr Bright Spark?Report Abuse
RobinH
incognito: WONDERFUL!!!!!Report Abuse
NguboNduna
Mnxm...uzenzile akakhalelwa!! Ubufebe buyabulalisa, it either you leave the guy/girl or suffer the concequences. Why cheat in a relationship knowing uthandana nokhandashisa? Why ujola nentombazana owazikahle ukuthi is'febe?Report Abuse
THEmadame2B-BBEE
@winner, kan jy lees.This is generalisation I'm talking about. Not all black guys do those things. I'm black as hell, but I don't do those things. I also know few black guys who don't. If all white men were perfect, there could be no divorced white couples, not even 1 in this world. There is good black guys and bad black guys. Also, there is good white guys and bad white guys....
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..............i said a common denominator, so you might be the five out of the fifteen who is not bedding to make babies or even bladdy lazy, see white men are rational thinkers, that’s why one of them discovered the contraceptive pill
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Dzel
ILLUMINATED@Dzel: a prudent w!fe and v!rtuous w!fe comes from the Lord, e seng ko partying. It took me several years to come to terms with that.
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As odd as it is I agree with you 100%. I could never take any woman I met at a club seriously mara le ba zalwane le bona ba dangerous sometimes, for me upbringing and family environment has always been more important.
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skopomashwabana
@NguboNdunaWhy ujola nentombazana owazikahle ukuthi is'febe?
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DzelILLUMINATED
@Dzel: a prudent w!fe and v!rtuous w!fe comes from the Lord, e seng ko partying. It took me several years to come to terms with that.
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As odd as it is I agree with you 100%. I could never take any woman I met at a club seriously mara le ba zalwane le bona ba dangerous sometimes, for me upbringing and family environment has always been more important.
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@DZEL I agree100% .....
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Dzel@Illuminatedyah, ne, jy ken nie vrou mense, KWAAAAkwaaa, jah neh, ignorance is a madda faker,
never under estimate your opponent.tlitlitlitlitli
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinHcongratulations, You racist white p1g.......
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Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEE.i said a common denominator, so you might be the five out of the fifteen who is not bedding to make babies or even bladdy lazy, see white men are rational thinkers, that’s why one of them discovered the contraceptive pill
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I am shaking my head in disbelief reading your comments, a bit disturbing if you ask me. Sure some men out there are guilty of the things you accuse them of but to conclude that all black men are bad sounds a bit convenient so I have to question what influences your thinking.
You sound like you hate being black if you ask me, probably have a long weave and you try very hard to look white.
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DJ-Winner
THEmadame2B-BBEE@winner, kan jy lees.
This is generalisation I'm talking about. Not all black guys do those things. I'm black as hell, but I don't do those things. I also know few black guys who don't. If all white men were perfect, there could be no divorced white couples, not even 1 in this world. There is good black guys and bad black guys. Also, there is good white guys and bad white guys....
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..............i said a common denominator, so you might be the five out of the fifteen who is not bedding to make babies or even bladdy lazy, see white men are rational thinkers, that’s why one of them discovered the contraceptive pill
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Well, I think you were hurt by one black guy. Now you see all black guys same as that madafcuker. Some of us are not stupid....
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Zola-Bud07
MGEEZ@Zola-Bud07
@Mgeez.Deny it all you like mfowethu but u know what im talking about.As long as u've never been cheated on or gotten your heart broken you wont know what im talking about hence u and i are not on the same page.As for you suggesting that i get help i dont think u are a qualified doctor or psychologist to make that observation so take a chill pill boss.
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That is a problem with you; you make assumptions and take your thought as facts!!! Just because you think i am not a doctor or psychologist does not mean that I am not!!! It simply means that is what you think. The fact remains that you need help; I have met and treated a lot of patients who are suffering from the condition that your symptoms are demonstrating
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Good for you buddy.Mara take this into consideration im not one of your case studies.U dont know me.
@ RobinH.Your narrow minded approach of attacking anyone who does not agree with your views is more damaging than the perception of two pitbulls fightting.The fact that you are making an arguement about this defies logic.
@ Ratshufi.Sorry to hear that boss.Some ppl are getting me wrong here.As much as u had your fair share of heart-ache after all u've done for her and the betreyal if it had been another guy he wud have maybe maimed her or did sumthing but u chose not to.Thats why i said i dont blame the guy who killed this woman nor do i condone what he did at the same time.We as individuals react differently to situations.
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Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesRatshufi
what are you saying you toothpick D1ck, Why dn't you just go back where you came from, ******right back in your mother's WET pu$$$y....
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you are clearly an @sshole soo i wont stoop as low as you are bye ramar3t3
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Droooooza
RobinHincognito: WONDERFUL!!!!!
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Is it because you bend over to other men...?
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Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEEyah, ne, jy ken nie vrou mense, KWAAAAkwaaa, jah neh, ignorance is a madda faker,
never under estimate your opponent.tlitlitlitlitli
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Maybe not but the thing with a woman you pick up ko Panyaza is you don't know whose bed she is sleeping on every Friday and Saturday, if she willingly goes home with you that night then chances are she has seen a number of beds in her life. Better one who is at home sleeping in her own bed I say. Of course she is no indicator but atleast you've narrowed the possibility of being hurt dramatically.
Of course she can still cheat at work, church, varsity etc this is where one's character comes in; a woman who does not see herself as a commodity is likely to be more grounded hence a safer bet but sure you can never eliminate the possibility 100% which is where trust comes in. Character is important, character often comes from how well one is grounded and what she was taught growing up.
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Bumboklaat
Wow! Some very interesting comments and debates!Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
ILLUMINATEDMorena ko ya kerekeng jwang tlameile ke phehe ke kolomake afterwards ke nwe jwala?
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Ratshufi
@Zola-Bud07@ Ratshufi.Sorry to hear that boss.Some ppl are getting me wrong here.As much as u had your fair share of heart-ache after all u've done for her and the betreyal if it had been another guy he wud have maybe maimed her or did sumthing but u chose not to.Thats why i said i dont blame the guy who killed this woman nor do i condone what he did at the same time.We as individuals react differently to situations.
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I went home that day and she had a nerve to come home and thats the day i pulled a gun on her but something said to me its not worth it and two weeks later i sold that gun cause i could feel the pressure inside to sho00t her but i am glad i did not cause my life wud have been ruined now
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MGEEZ
@Zola-Bud07That is a problem with you; you make assumptions and take your thought as facts!!! Just because you think i am not a doctor or psychologist does not mean that I am not!!! It simply means that is what you think. The fact remains that you need help; I have met and treated a lot of patients who are suffering from the condition that your symptoms are demonstrating
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Good for you buddy.Mara take this into consideration im not one of your case studies.U dont know me.
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I do not need to know you to diagnose your symptoms; i just need to hear you speak or see you act and from there I can tell what manner of a person that you are !!! Do you get?
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Dzel
Of course (this) is no indicator but atleast you've narrowed the possibility of being hurt dramatically.Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.oDroooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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This is the kind of mentality that made me buy kick and bobozas...If a woman cheats because mean cheat as well I kick and boboza mazinyo kikikikikikiki but I won't kick you.
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Zola-Bud07
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesRobinH
congratulations, You racist white p1g.......
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I thought i was the only one who say that this thing @ Robin is racist.
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Dzel
DzelTHEmadame2B-BBEE
yah, ne, jy ken nie vrou mense, KWAAAAkwaaa, jah neh, ignorance is a madda faker,
never under estimate your opponent.tlitlitlitlitli
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Since you are so adamant black men are useless, would you tell your white boyfriend - assuming you have one - how many men you know "biblically"?
Just wondering (definitely not suggesting anything)...
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MissBhakajuju
@ DzelKwaaaaaaakwaaaaaaakwaaaaaakwaaaaa..... you mentioning Panyaza. LOL..... the other lady that called in @ Metro-FM this morning said she met her "ATM" @ Panyaza..... I couldn't stop giggling.....
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RobinH
serobapipi and Zola: Whatever floats your puny boat. When unable to engage play the long outmoded race-card, and if you only knew how very wrong you are, but do I need to justify anything to you? NO. Bye now, poor lost souls.Report Abuse
Droooooza
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.oDroooooza
As long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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How do you call a man "wh.ore", phela thina we are keys where as women are locks... hence there is name given to a key that opens every where "universal key"...
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RobinH
sero and ZOla: How exactly finding this killing unacceptable translates to racism can only be clear to very confused minds.Report Abuse
Dzel
MissBhakajuju@ Dzel
Kwaaaaaaakwaaaaaaakwaaaaaakwaaaaa..... you mentioning Panyaza. LOL..... the other lady that called in @ Metro-FM this morning said she met her "ATM" @ Panyaza..... I couldn't stop giggling.....
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The other said ko Sidibeng .... ja nee. Mara le rona banna, how do you deposit R 10,000 into a woman's account just to impress her, ukukhula ungajoli kuyahlupha (baningi abo Mandla Mthembu la ngaphandle).
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MissBhakajuju
@ DroooozaLOL... you still have that Key mentality ? hahahahahaha usazo Dribliwa ngama ntombazane.....kwaaaaaaaaaa
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinHYou can share this little p1ss of poems you posted here with your family (AWB) Oooh by the way FCK YOU..
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RobinH
Sero: What is your problem? I have never even addressed you before you took up this nasty little campaign. You are seriously sick. So insult away, dear Sir. Insults from lunatics don't hurt.Report Abuse
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinHSay that to your uncle (steve hofmeyr)
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KGS000
@Dzelukukhula ungajoli kuyahlupha (baningi abo Mandla Mthembu la ngaphandle).
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I agree boza its problem ukwazi amantobazane ugugile that's were guys kill women because you've never been dribbled like may fancyface MissBhakajuju puts it LOL
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Dzel
KGS000@Dzel
ukukhula ungajoli kuyahlupha (baningi abo Mandla Mthembu la ngaphandle).
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I agree boza its problem ukwazi amantobazane ugugile that's were guys kill women because you've never been dribbled like may fancyface MissBhakajuju puts it LOL
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True that ... a man who has had his fair share and whose ego is not defined by ukuthi muhle kanjani - of course we all want them pretty - but umakhule ujola namantombazane amahle you will never do something like this. It is the guys with fragile egos women should be afraid of. Any guy who is obsessive is dangerous in my book.
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Zola-Bud07Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinH
congratulations, You racist white p1g.......
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I thought i was the only one who say that this thing @ Robin is racist.
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say it to this p1g as much as you want ...(No mathata)
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
DrooooozaAs long as women ba feba, make men raise kids that belong to srangers this kind of behaviour shall NOT subside....
You know it takes two to tango...if women are "w.horing", just exactly who do you think they are w.horing with??
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How do you call a man "wh.ore", phela thina we are keys where as women are locks... hence there is name given to a key that opens every where "universal key"...
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Dearest....
Please note..."whoring" in my comment is a verb - not a noun. Should you require assistance is distinguisihing the two, please ask for assistance and I'll take you back to Grade 3 English.
Key, keyhole, lock, whatever...if a woman is making a child with a man who is not her partner...it takes a man to participate in the act...and if you going to tell me that that man is single - then you know you'd be lying.
And just for interest sake - Whoring is not limited just to the female sex!
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Dzel
True that ... a man who has had his fair share and whose ego is not defined by ukuthi muhle kanjani - of course we all want them pretty - but umakhule ujola namantombazane amahle you will never do something like this. It is the guys with fragile egos women should be afraid of. Any guy who is obsessive is dangerous in my book.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Add to that abo Mr Transaction, one day he is going to be disappointed and the first thing he is going to think about is the money he has invested in her.
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Chichi7
If an article has more than 50 comments, 2 things involved1. The comments have changed to s3x
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2. The comments have changed to hate and insults.
Growing up is imperative, maturity deludes many.
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Nongoloza24
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesWena monna you sound like o bosepa or lesson.
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MAKGITLA
RobinHincognito: WONDERFUL!!!!!
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No offence Are u white old gay ?
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Nongoloza24This is the kind of mentality that made me buy kick and bobozas...If a woman cheats because mean cheat as well I kick and boboza mazinyo kikikikikikiki but I won't kick you.
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That's what you say now neh?? Until you go balistic after seeing me with another man - and I end up with my teeth on the floor - for no particular reason. No thanks - I treasure pearly whites!
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Nongoloza24No need to ask if you no what i mean.... Again what are those things you refering to, Is that some 0ld shoes Names or what ?
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Uncle-Lu
I dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problemReport Abuse
Sloggi-Gasi
But killing its a NO NO, My fiance tried it, but her brother rescued me. As we talking now iam in the process of divorcing her, and again i think i am FALLING in love. and i will never paint all women with one brush.Report Abuse
Nkonki3
heheheee.... chisa uncle\-Lulmao
ded by flaunting money - LKK
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Uncle-Lu
Friday road lead to MACUFEThe lucky woman will benefit clothes,accessories,shoes,pocket money, and a luxury hotel for 3 days
You know why? because i'm a SHAREHOLDER
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Nongoloza24
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o you will get dentures don't worry...Are you sure you are not mxcm?Report Abuse
Uncle-Lu
Nkonki3I'd rather witness how woman spend my money than buy a R 2 million 1lifedirect policy that will be spent when i'm dead,,,thats KAK
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Tsar-Rasputin
Robin H, please take a deep breathDont allow strangers to upset u
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Dzel
Uncle-LuI dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem
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Nothing wrong with taking care of her within reasonable grounds but buying her company and sex is another thing. Perhaps you have no problem with her telling her friends she does not love you and she is in it for the money. Depositing R 10,000 after meeting her only once so you can impress is idiotic, the relationship starts on a bad note and will be about what you can provide.
Ithi iphele imali uzobona how quickly she turns into a magician and pulls a vanishing act.
Try i-charm bozza, if you can't win her by just being yourself then she probably isn't for you.
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Nkonki3
thaaathaa shareholder((clapping hands in praise))
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Dzel
Uncle-LuI dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem
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Nothing wrong with taking care of her within reasonable grounds but buying her company and s.ex is another thing altogether. Perhaps you have no problem with her telling her friends she does not love you and she is in it for the money. Depositing R 10,000 after meeting her only once so you can impress is idi.otic, the relationship starts on a b.ad note and will be about what you can provide.
Ithi iphele imali uzobona how quickly she turns into a mag.ician and pu.lls a vani.shing act.
Try i-char.m bozza, if you ca.n't win her by just being yourself then she probably isn't for you.
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KGS000
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Nongoloza24
Sloggi-GasiBut killing its a NO NO, My fiance tried it, but her brother rescued me. As we talking now iam in the process of divorcing her, and again i think i am FALLING in love. and i will never paint all women with one brush.
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You in the process of divorcing your fiance?? Hai uya claima hai suku uya claima hai wena bari suku uya claima hai wena snai hai suku uya claima **rocking chiskop's song**
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Nkonki3
well said Dzel,well said mei bra
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MissBhakajuju
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"Report Abuse
Dzel
Uncle-LuFriday road lead to MACUFE
The lucky woman will benefit clothes,accessories,shoes,pocket money, and a luxury hotel for 3 days
You know why? because i'm a SHAREHOLDER
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Yini laba abahlekisa ngani after all that money spent, a real shareholder appreciates the concept of return on investment. I wonder unangakhi lo uchazwa "i-luxury hotel", probably will brag to her teenage friends afterwards.
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MAKGITLA
Uncle-LuFriday road lead to MACUFE
The lucky woman will benefit clothes,accessories,shoes,pocket money, and a luxury hotel for 3 days
You know why? because i'm a SHAREHOLDER
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U lying wena man tjeer,jou level 3
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Nongoloza24
MissBhakajujuUncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"
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Uncle-Lu
DzelPoint of correction
Never said flaunting money gives you a good base to start a relationship
spending cash with woman its a temporary thing, the fact is if you have short pockets then you remain with the second grade women,
Just visit melrose arch for once and stop dating middle level government employees who strike for wage increase
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Nkonki3
kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazisondeze MissBhakajuju....lmao
Uncle-Lu wil set u up...!
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bt pls b prepared to slice d cake 4him. guyz lyk him r fkn starvd up down der
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MissBhakajuju@ Drooooza
LOL... you still have that Key mentality ? hahahahahaha usazo Dribliwa ngama ntombazane.....kwaaaaaaaaaa
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This simply means a man finds a partner but a woman cheats......
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Dzel
Uncle-LuPoint of correction
Never said flaunting money gives you a good base to start a relationship
spending cash with woman its a temporary thing, the fact is if you have short pockets then you remain with the second grade women,
Just visit melrose arch for once and stop dating middle level government employees who strike for wage increase
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But then again a woman who is not second grade will not need i-pocket money will she, school kids do though.
You see my friend the very same government employee who has to strike for her money works for it, she appreciates the value of money and therefore will hardly be impressed by you flaunting your wealth unless of course she is predisposed to threat herself as a commodity to be bought. .
If sikhuluma ngabo Diana Ross who pretend they have it all while their bank balance is in the single digit then it makes sense why should would need a walking ATM. Either way in the long run you lose because the relationship is based on superficial considerations.
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Nkonki3
missBhakajuju u must also ask him to buy a Bhakajuju g-string wif a pie-rats logo in-nfrontlmao
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Dzel
Uncle-LuBut then again it seems there are takers on this forum so let me let you be and your shareholder millions I just hope "abakucuthi" dry like uMandla, I wonder ukuphi loyo.
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Nkonki3missBhakajuju u must also ask him to buy a Bhakajuju g-string wif a pie-rats logo in-nfront
lmao
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hehehehehe ... LOL .....
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Uncle-Lu
DzelWhat is with financing a woman?
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KGS000
@Uncle LuAll I can say boss is flaunt you cash bra it works for you cos there are women out there who like that you dnt force them right?
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Uncle-Lu
DzelWhat is (wrong) with financing a woman?
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Dzel
Uncle-LuWhat is with financing a woman?
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Take care of her, don't finance her. Huge difference my friend and if you've been in a genuine relationship you'd know the difference.
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ooh la la la my God when is this going to End- I mean grown @ss Man Nyeeere Nyeeering on sowetan everydayAggggggg JEEEEER
I rest my case of 24 Heineken Cans....
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Uncle-Lu
KGS000You wanna go to Durban July with a woman - you expect her to contribute to finance the trip? come on jo
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KGS000
Uncle-LuLike Dzel said take care of her dnt finance her
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@ Uncle-Lu finance her as much as you like i dont really care but tell me why is that when a guy will come and ask for business funding you BEE types push them away, jst a question njeReport Abuse
Dzel
Uncle-LuKGS000
You wanna go to Durban July with a woman - you expect her to contribute to finance the trip? come on jo
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Just curious, were you listening to the breakfast show on Metro this morning by any chance?
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RobinH
Makgitla: Am I white. Yes. Am I gay. Not at all. Are these ridiculous questions? Yes.Report Abuse
KGS000
DzelYes I was boza, Did you hear what one of the ladies said ATM's are controlling
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Dzel
RobinH.... Am I gay....
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Iyo!!!
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Dzel
KGS000Yes I was boza, Did you hear what one of the ladies said ATM's are controlling
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Makes sense they would be controlling, in his mind he is buying her so she has no right to be with someone else. It is the underlying message that disturbs me about this whole thing, then we blame kids for being izikhothane when they are raised being told money is everything.
I will teach my kid to be a doctor instead of aspiring to to marry a one, buy her own fleshy car than brag about what car the boyfriend drives; it boils down to ones mentality and as I said how one is raised. We may blame the Khanyi Mbau's of this world but isn't the problem that she was taught to marry rich?
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Uncle-LuThata!!! uncle
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Nongoloza24MissBhakajuju
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"
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jealousy @ its worst.... coz I'm not greetzing ya.... is the Truck strike over ?
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KGS000
DzelYes they are told not to marry a poor man, instead of being taught not to rely on a man and get it for themselves.
Speke
O reng bra??
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Sloggi-Gasi
@Nongoloza24Wa nye*la sani, i nearly die d, and your telling me that rubb*sh. FKF man, i dont have time for your sh**t, wena saan.You here the whole day talking k**k, baby ya nyatsi,
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@DzelNo, chief, i'm quite comfortable in my skin, I love who i am and what i have achieved, even breaking through the dominating thematic area of philosophy being dominated by white ppl,
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
Uncle-LuWhat is (wrong) with financing a woman?
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Would you want something back in return for the "financing"?
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paracute
the truth lies between the two argue the way you like but u'll never fnd the answers or a solution to this pity had diedReport Abuse
spekepeke1
KGS000H0la my auti ! eish i'm dead ke uncle-lu
Batho ba pusha charm or ba fosta charm?
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paracute
the truth lies between the two, you may argue the way you like but u'll never fnd the answers you are looking 4, pity one had died.Report Abuse
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SpekeBa di etsa kaofela ba fosta go e pusha
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Dzeli must be honest, i had my fair share of fun, been disappointed by 1 black(nje) man who did not satisfy me even one bit (off course i use protection)
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Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEENo, chief, i'm quite comfortable in my skin, I love who i am and what i have achieved, even breaking through the dominating thematic area of philosophy being dominated by white ppl,
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Good for you, next step is to teach you you judge people based on merit and not their race.
Like I said black women also have their flaws and we've learned not to chose the right ones, not blacklist the entire black and female population because many of you are good people who deserved to be loved and appreciated.
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spekepeke1KGS000
H0la my auti ! eish i'm dead ke uncle-lu
Batho ba pusha charm or ba fosta charm?
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LOL............... it works for him and his ego I suppose.
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THEmadame2B-BBEE
@Dzelcommon denominator, i repeat, common denominator
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RobinH
madame: "Off course I use protection" lol.... And when you're "on course"? lolPlz see this for the humour it is intended to be.
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Uncle-Lu
spekepeke1Read my comments kahle from the start
I have no problem spending money with women
The same thing happening in townships where Bra Vusi or Bara Joe is well known to buy tons and tons of beer for guys every day/weekend
why is it a problem when i spend it on woman
agg maan
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Dzel
THEmadame2B-BBEEcommon denominator, i repeat, common denominator
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Trust me if I were to use the common denominator logic I would end up with a list longer than yours, we all have our faults but we remain individuals at the end of the day and not some robots who share the same common features because of an unnamed common denominator. If you want to date white men go ahead but at least be honest to yourself about the reasons why. The common denominator argument just does not hold water otherwise we would conclude that all whites are racist or all women are ____ (pick a word of your choice and fill the blanks) which makes no sense at all.
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Honeybadger
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o====================
Hello.
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RobinH
Dzel> Excellent comment there. A question which hovers around my mind here is whether one is talking about the "lowest common denominator". I agree that the argument doesn't hold water, but find it amusing that one should aim for the lowest commonalities, according to our friend.Report Abuse
spekepeke1
Uncle-LuYou just made me lol even more stop it right there you such a joke
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KGS000
@RobinHoodmadame: "Off course I use protection" lol.... And when you're "on course"? lol
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ROTFL
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Dzel
RobinHDzel> Excellent comment there. A question which hovers around my mind here is whether one is talking about the "lowest common denominator". I agree that the argument doesn't hold water, but find it amusing that one should aim for the lowest commonalities, according to our friend.
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sounds like a connvinient excuse, one that ignores many positive aspects hence I think it is personal justification more than a valid reason.
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paracute
@RobinHare you sure bro? grown ups like you claiming 2 b do not go around yelling and yepping about their sex life i am not even sure you know where and how to enter, i suspect you are being (fkd) instead
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MissBhakajujuNongoloza24
MissBhakajuju
Uncle-Lu.... Uncle Lu Lu Lu... Unclu Lu Luz.... helooooo sssccweety *cold charming voice* LOL *hiding behing my notebook"
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jealousy @ its worst.... coz I'm not greetzing ya.... is the Truck strike over ?
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Heeee banna you never greet me so why would I be jealous gore you not greeting vandag?Plus again you want to go for the guy with the most money mara wena you kuku doesn't appreciate plus uyaguga daily ftsek.
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Nongoloza24
Sloggi-Gasi@Nongoloza24
Wa nye*la sani, i nearly die d, and your telling me that rubb*sh. FKF man, i dont have time for your sh**t, wena saan.You here the whole day talking k**k, baby ya nyatsi,
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Yeeee wena msunu ka nyoko I was asking you ukuthi is it possible to divorce someone if you not married to her why are you swearing at me or yini mfana ufuna ikick and boboza esbonong?
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MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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MissBhakajuju@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@HoneybadgerHi!!!!!!
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Zola-Bud07
@Sowetan.Why u blocking my comments mara he?Bo Robin le bo Nongoloza have been swearing and cursing all day mara u dont block them.Lelona le di racist like @RobinHReport Abuse
Nongoloza24
MissBhakajuju@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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You might be younger than your age mara kuku yona e kgatetse...how you look on the outside is not that important...I mean when you look for a used car you mostly interested in the mileage than the body.
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Honeybadger
I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o@Honeybadger
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How are you? I have been thinking about you.
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MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24hahahahaha..LOL... akere lewena your 0.5 Cent. noodle, is tzired, gone, finished .... so ke 50tz/50tz nana... outz 2 the mall... see ya Latzer !!!!
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RobinH
paracute: Suit yourself. I'm really not even remotely concerned about your opinion of me.Zola: If you take people on, then have the guts to face the responses. You consistently insult and abuse yourself, by branding someone you know nothing about as racist, but when people challenge you you whine like a sick puppy. You are not only clueless, but a coward as well. Deal with it. We all have our comments deleted or refused, man. Get used to it, or else stay out of the kitchen.
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Nongoloza24MissBhakajuju
@ Nongoloza24
hahahahahaha... chill down Nana... di type tsa gago di teng neh ?? you'd never believe my age, if You'd see mwaaa.. am young but looks younger, than my actual age..... itz couldz be the Moola ??? *winks* LOL
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You might be younger than your age mara kuku yona e kgatetse...how you look on the outside is not that important...I mean when you look for a used car you mostly interested in the mileage than the body.
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Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.Stop it maezi u just made me spit water through my nose mfowethu.Haaaaaai no u just made my day.Mileage.
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Serobapipi-
Uncle-LuI dont mind flaunting money with a women its in my nature, if you can't then its your problem
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Helo "lu-lu" please take me
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@HoneybadgerI'm well. But now I'm feeling slightly giddy.
Curious.
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Honeybadger
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respect women chief. your mother is a woman too i hope.
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I.n.c.o.g.n.i.t.o
@HoneybadgerExcuse my manners.
And how are you?
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sabza007
@23 years old, he kills his girlfriend because of what? I have seen my girlfriend standing with males before, but what makes with to conclude that she was two timing him??? Bloody Moron. I applause his uncle for being a responsible ''parent''. Let this scumbag pay dearly for what he did. No remorse must be show by Judges. Women and Children abuse is extremely rife in the so called ''democratic '' South Africa.Report Abuse
Zola-Bud07
@Robin.Go to hell maan.Report Abuse
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Zola-Bud07Please take this Sh1t called RobinHobo to the nearest tuck shop then O mo rekele maswam-swam ....
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Serobapipi-
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesHai wena maan what rubbish is this?
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HoneybadgerNongoloza24
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respect women chief. your mother is a woman too i hope.
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The moment o tlo kenys maouladi ko tabeng tsa hiso ga re tlo utlwana broer...eintlik wena jy is agter my mfana and uta shikoma se o selabayo
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Serobapipi-Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Hai wena maan what rubbish is this?
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you mean that little thing you covered in your R.T Jeans.....? that is rubbish and you can come out ...
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Nongoloza24
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesDon't you want a girlfriend m'fethu Honeybadger says she loves you.
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@Nongoloza24Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Don't you want a girlfriend m'fethu Honeybadger says she loves you.
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Nope-she deserve to be facked by one of my D0gs and after that she can make l0ve to RobinHobo........
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesSerobapipi-
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Hai wena maan what rubbish is this?
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you mean that little thing you covered in your R.T Jeans.....? that is rubbish and you can come out ...
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No i mean the little crocodile skin thing that helps you to pee
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RobinH
Zola> I politely decline to go to your place. Thanks for the invite. Appreciated, but no thanks.Sabza: Exactly. Thanks for that. Try and explain this to our rather slow friends here. AT least they can't brand you as racist for telling them their attitudes stink.
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Serobapipi-You are on Mute *
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Mokwepa
Seroba...........all of u are crazy
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Nongoloza24
Serobapipi-Hello bubu ehlisa moya man o ipatetseng my loveyReport Abuse
RobinH
Serobapipi -my- etc: Very mature, my friend. Your true colours show. And now back to the grown-ups...Report Abuse
Nongoloza24
Who is this bastard above me a maretjana solankaReport Abuse
Serobapipi-
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesSerobapipi-
You are on Mute *
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serves you right i dont talk to piece of sh!t like you who pray for erection
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Nongoloza24
I'm not referring to you Sir Robin the post is meant for Mokwepa.Report Abuse
Serobapipi-
Nongoloza24I'm not referring to you Sir Robin the post is meant for Mokwepa.
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OMW sisNongoloza24 uBayi skelem
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RobinHEeh wena RobinHobo my true clolours looks like your hairy @ss B@lls ( You p1g racist p0oes)
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Serobapipi-Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
Serobapipi-
You are on Mute *
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serves you right i dont talk to piece of sh!t like you who pray for erection
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H0ly sh1t i'm so hurt - can you blv it ?
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KGS000
SWEETYK & Galfrend were you at my lovies??Report Abuse
RobinH
WOW More wonderful mature talk. Do display more. It's so interesting. More. More. Please.Report Abuse
Sneijder
@KG00Sho bro van my..you miss her *wink*
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KGS000
@SneijderAwe my autie ja I miss "THEM" *wink wink*
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Skopokopo
Its bad today better i leave this placeReport Abuse
Skopokopo
@Spekkie,Please come to my office.
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Sneijder
@KG000Click o mo tshwere busy he is not around as well..
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KGS000
@SneijderDamn eish now I see I must do sumthing with that punk
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LehipilaMAFTOWN
Stupid bloody wanker.....there are too many single women out there but I guess sum people lack the element of acceptance when being dumped. Its part life Chief.Report Abuse
Sneijder
SkopokopoIts bad today better i leave this place
Ohoo cos i am around today and you call Rio to the office
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Skopokopo@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Serobapipi-Skopokopo
@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Just like smell of your kuku it drives me crazeeeeyyyyy ge ke o utlwa moer ka utlwa ke totelwa.
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Nongoloza24
LehipilaMAFTOWNStupid bloody wanker.....there are too many single women out there but I guess sum people lack the element of acceptance when being dumped. Its part life Chief.
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Haraa teropo e go tlhakantse tlhaloganyo ka bona.
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KGS000
@SneijderYou kill me when you call my bra Rio, I told you ke striker daie man see now he's being called to the office
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Skopokopo
Serobapipi-Skopokopo
@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Oh no maan frend!!
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RobinHoboRobinHooker
RobinHooligan
RobinHolyK@k
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Ratshufi
Sowetan how did you allow a name like this maraSerobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
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McCountryMan
it high time the change the low, you kill you get killed.Report Abuse
G-ruff
He ll now enjoy luxury life in prison, everything is free. Tax payers money.Report Abuse
Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RatshufiYou know i'm facking your mom right and she is one of the WebTeam, so take a Chill.....
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Nongoloza24
Ey wena Skopokopo keng ka wena nah a ke bonale?Report Abuse
Skopokopo
@Serobapipi-Chommie, i see you have a twin brother or sister now.
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@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesRatshufi
You know i'm facking your mom right and she is one of the WebTeam, so take a Chill.....
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Le he o ka tot3lwa ho swana le tonki you'll never see or come near my mama so tswela pele hoba l3r3tjana son
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Sneijder
@KG000I know gore ke striker cos @Skopo wa hlanya ke e na...I am just pullig his leg and is a lekke auti !!!
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RatshufiI like your spirit so it means her nny0 is now bigger than i thought ----- Mamela ke tla twatwelwa ho swana le pere if that will make you feel better my boy......( I will come and see mami, in fact i will come near her ass-h0le)
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SkopokopoSerobapipi-
Skopokopo
@Spekkie,
Please come to my office.
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chomie this spekepeke guy drives you crazeeeeeeyyyyyyy
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Oh no maan frend!!
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LOL - You lying frendo
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Sneijder@KG000
I know gore ke striker cos @Skopo wa hlanya ke e na...I am just pullig his leg and is a lekke auti !!!
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Heeee banna meaning o nyakazitse speke?
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Sneijder@KG000
I know gore ke striker cos @Skopo wa hlanya ke e na...I am just pullig his leg and is a lekke auti !!!
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Wrong choice of words my auti LOL
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Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesRatshufi
I like your spirit so it means her nny0 is now bigger than i thought ----- Mamela ke tla twatwelwa ho swana le pere if that will make you feel better my boy......( I will come and see mami, in fact i will come near her ass-h0le)
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Heheheheheh o tla totelwa ho swana le pidipidi son ka pol0 ya zigzag e nkare ke boor machine o ka se mmone
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Sneijder
@KG000I c i need to be careful of my words cos @Maezi a re ke stabane nou...
@Maezi
Haye ngalo hlobo mfwetho kikikikikiki eish wena
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RatshufiYou now starting to sound like your step-father, Nkabe ke berekishe cond0m nkabe o sego mfan but who cares only your mother appreciates my sp3rms cos you are here today......
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KGS000
@SneijderFor real bra, but I know, believe and trust that you don't bat for the other team
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Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesRatshufi
You now starting to sound like your step-father, Nkabe ke berekishe cond0m nkabe o sego mfan but who cares only your mother appreciates my sp3rms cos you are here today......
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O tailwe ke Kudu Beer son
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Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-Shapeles
RatshufiIs that what comes out of your Girlfriend's pu$$$y when she is on her periods, Kudu Beer?
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Ratshufi
@Serobapipi-My-Nnyo-is-ShapelesRatshufi
Is that what comes out of your Girlfriend's pu$$$y when she is on her periods, Kudu Beer?
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Kudu Beer is your favorite drink dat u have every nite before you go to sleep behind your shack
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somaartakeit
well done to the uncle, it gives me hope to see some SAns standing up against violent criminals, I know it took a courage to report a member of your family to the police but you did well, cause this person would have continued in his path of destruction,To the family of the deceased may you find strength in the knowledge that the killer has been apprehended,
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