Thu May 23 11:51:54 SAST 2013

Church members want the priest out

Sep 17, 2012 | Boitumelo Tshehle North West Correspondent | 72 comments

TWO SIDES TO TELL: "He swears at us in church during services" VERSUS "They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for drinking every weekend and engaging in sex with one another at parties"

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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

The signs of end times.
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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

"He swears at us in church during services."

Ge a le roga why le sa tsamaye? Problem le tšhaba nnete
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Sep 17, 2012

McCountryMan

"They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in sex with one another at parties""

The End is near
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Sep 17, 2012

lamolath

yonke indawo.....mozabalazo wa zivumela yonke indawoooo ....mozabalazo wa zivumela le...naaaa..leeeeee....le naaa...le
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Sep 17, 2012

Mellow

Am sure someone is gonna blame devil again

Mosquer?????????????
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Sep 17, 2012

Papage

It is sad story of our Churches, what went wrong? Where are morals?
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Sep 17, 2012

Papage

The Church is run by several people, not the Priest alone, what are they saying, if you chase the Pirest away, what about them? are they agreing with your drinking and sex at church?
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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

I am not religious. However, I believe that the pastor was completely correct to suspend the choir for activities which are certainly not in line with church policy. And for supposed CHristians to threaten their leader with violence!!!!! What kind of Christian is that?

As for the "end being nigh"... Don't make me laugh. This kind of thing has happened from time to time throughout history. You doomsday preachers just make me laugh.
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Sep 17, 2012

Voetzek

i dont see anything wrong engaging on sexual interciorse thats their pre-rogative
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Sep 17, 2012

Mdala

OMG the less said the better about these so called chrch shenanigans
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Sep 17, 2012

stalion

Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God. poor young ones they don't want to be corrected why do you go to church if you want to turn the house of the lord into shebeen, go to shebeens this is where this kind of evelness happens not in the house of the lord please repent now or you shall be cursed for making the house the lord to be a laughing stone.

By the way who invited sowetan , shame on you
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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

Stalion: Since when do publications need to be invited to write articles?
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Sep 17, 2012

Traveljunie

Religion the opimuim of the masses. Poor fools, there is not a day that goes by without some church or religious group having issues with each other or again the Muslims the so called tolerate religion burning and killing each other.
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Sep 17, 2012

MorenaWaPolelo

The Youth of today Nice time and casual S.E.X is the only thing they believe in not the preaching or the Bible, This pastor must not change his position on this issue!! They may carry on with their activities but not in the name of the church!!!! Dife.be tse!!!!
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Sep 17, 2012

kuyozekubenini

The chior must engage the pastor through the right channels and stop employing the last resort of action.From what i understand,the church leader suspended the whole chior because they go on a drinking spree during weekends and also engage in sexual activities when the chior is at street parties or shebeens, is not a clear accusation and for the priest to swear publicly during church presidings is equally wrong....Two wrongs does not make it right.
In any event i believe that there are other ways of resolving issues and dealing with enger.....negotiations were the way to go but should they fail,then other mathods of reaching consensus can be employed.
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Sep 17, 2012

lindsay

well if he is preaching about the sins you are doing you can either repent or take it as an insult either way the priest is right for disciplining the pharasees
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Sep 17, 2012

Makhosini0408

"You have turned my father's house into a den of thieves."
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Sep 17, 2012

Papage

To come to think of it, It is Sex and drinking of alcohol by the youth wrong? Give us some proof, because what I see everyday is our youth many if not all drinking and engaging in sexual activities everyday, How wrong is this?
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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

Papage: At church functions?
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Sep 17, 2012

Nzwere

Yah ba4thu, this is to'ugh. but the fa'ct of the m'atter is, if you have never been in such a sit'uation before, you will never underst'and it. I can pers'onnally re'late to this st'ory. the Pr'iest swea'ring on the a Al'ter and Financial mismanage'ment and mi'sappropriation was the order of the day. We also let the pr'iest go. so let us not
judge' the cong'regation without full information on the sta'te of affairs in tha ch'urch.

Uuuup the Bucs
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Sep 17, 2012

Tsatsawana

Bo stratmeid le tsamaiso ya kereke don't go together.

If the priest sees something wrong, he must react. These reported loose morals might be affecting other parish members, who might have approached the priest as a spiritual leader to intevene.

The problem is that black people want to treat black priest like small boys who are not allowed to think. It is a sad state of affairs.
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Sep 17, 2012

Kaylae

The priest was right to suspend the choir because of the above mentioned in the article and why should the congregation protest and call the media this is the church there are deacons and leaders that can hold a meeting and talk things through.Tjeer they are treating the house of God like pegans
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Sep 17, 2012

stalion

@ Papage1 To come to think of it, It is Sex and drinking of alcohol by the youth wrong?

Yes, read Timothy 3:3: “Not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.”

@RobinH Doesn't it sound strange to you that on a Sunday reporters will be in church without an invitation , i can assure you they were invited in the name of destroying the poor pastor , i have been around for a while to know this simply trick my friend
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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

stalion> Why do they need an invitation? That's just ridiculous. And if they were, so what. You may have noticed that I defend the pastor's action.
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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

Mellow
Am sure someone is gonna blame devil again

Mosquer?????????????
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Who must I blame?? You!
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Sep 17, 2012

Nkasegobotsesephirise

Strike in church!! Flesh christians!

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Sep 17, 2012

spirro

The same thing is happening @ my church A.F.M SUNRISE PARK the youth of that church drink every weekend some gals even smoke dagga engaging on sexual intercorse
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Sep 17, 2012

fokofpolisiekar

am disaapointed in reading stories like this about my beloved Catholic Church
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Sep 17, 2012

stalion

@RobinH

I know if you want to destroy a pastor or a church use sowetan , they will report without questioning. last year a Bishop of Apostolic church in Tzaneen accused another Bishop of getting people to kill him , But it turned out the Arch Bishop and sowetan Journalist were lying , sowetan did not even try to correct their lies. this kind of Journalism destroys innocent life's
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Sep 17, 2012

swona

so that woman in black was also engaging in sex and alcohol every weekend? want to search for this church!
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Sep 17, 2012

Nzwere

swona
so that woman in black was also engaging in sex and alcohol every weekend? want to search for this church!
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Sep 17, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for misbehaving. They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in s.ex with one another at parties.
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not condoning the behaviour mare ha ba nyobane ko kerekeng mos...........
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Sep 17, 2012

Itjontji-Mali

"He swears at us in church during services."

if you ask what were the valgur uttarance from the Priest? you will find that the Priest said ''Adultery is a sin''

The beginning of the end.
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Sep 17, 2012

THEmadame2B-BBEE

If the choir was a party (and dismissed for that), where was priest witnessing this entire phenomenon! Huh,
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Sep 17, 2012

THEmadame2B-BBEE

yeah ne, these ppl do not pray, toyi toying at church, haai ke, the world is coming to an end, people do not fear anything anymore
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Sep 17, 2012

2meZa07

AAhhh!!!! Aaaahhh!!!!! AAaahhh!!!!!........
AMEN!!!!!!! yoh kunzima e mhlabeni. whats heppening to Zmzanzi mara?

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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for misbehaving. They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in s.ex with one another at parties.
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not condoning the behaviour mare ha ba nyobane ko kerekeng mos...........
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Doesn't m@tter where they did it. the fact is s.e.x before marr!age is a s!n
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Sep 17, 2012

lindsay

@Mosquer

Doesn't m@tter where they did it. the fact is s.e.x before marr!age is a s!n
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well nobody hates that sin and by the way before you can buy the car you have to test drive it and comfirm the performance what happens if you marry without testing and you find out that the equipment are not working then what adultery its also a sin
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Sep 17, 2012

Papage

RobinH
Papage: At church functions?

What is wrong doing it at Church finctions? maybe put that as some of the activities to be done at Church functions. put them on the agenda as well. because I see no wrong in drinking alcohol and having sex.

If alcohol was wrong, then there would have used water during sacrement not wine, and if sex was wrong, they should not allow marriages, because you marry a women because you love her looks, her body makes you wonna sex her, is it so? No man can marry someone who makes you cold. it is a fact. Please bring better excusses, not these two.
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Sep 17, 2012

ILLUMINATED

@RobinH
I am not religious. However, I believe that the pastor was completely correct to suspend the choir for activities which are certainly not in line with church policy. And for supposed CHristians to threaten their leader with violence!!!!! What kind of Christian is that?

As for the "end being nigh"... Don't make me laugh. This kind of thing has happened from time to time throughout history. You doomsday preachers just make me laugh.
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2 Peter 3
003 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,
003:004 And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation.
003:005 For this they willingly are ignorant of, that by the word of God the heavens were of old, and the earth standing out of the water and in the water:
003:006 Whereby the world that then was, being overflowed with water, perished:
003:007 But the heavens and the earth, which are now, by the same word are kept in store, reserved unto fire against the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men.

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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

Papage: Your last comment displays graphically the hypocracy that drove me from the church in the first place.

Illuminated: with respect, people have been chirping about the end being nigh for thusands of years - each time something happens that doesn't fit their belief system. These quotes will pertain to all those occurences, yet the world is still here.
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Sep 17, 2012

maftowncity

@ILLUMINATED

You are 100% corect baba
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Sep 17, 2012

Intomb'omxhosa

Buya Jesu uzolanda ibandla lakho....kunzima emhlabeni asazi emazulwini.
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Sep 17, 2012

ntyantya

Illuminated you correct. I think people should start to also read the Revelations and know about the 666. This are signs that Satan knows that his time is coming to a near end he doesnt know when so he is preparing himself to take whaterver he can. People please becareful cause once to have the 666 sign there is no turning back you straight going to hell.
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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

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Doesn't m@tter where they did it. the fact is s.e.x before marr!age is a s!n
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well nobody hates that sin and by the way before you can buy the car you have to test drive it and comfirm the performance what happens if you marry without testing and you find out that the equipment are not working then what adultery its also a sin
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Those are worldy talks.
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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

mean worldly
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Sep 17, 2012

Nzwere

Mosquer
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for misbehaving. They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in s.ex with one another at parties.
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not condoning the behaviour mare ha ba nyobane ko kerekeng mos...........
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Doesn't m@tter where they did it. the fact is s.e.x before marr!age is a s!n
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I wonder how did the church's authorities find out about the bumping and grinding of the choir members. unles if they held a candle when it happened.
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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

Hoi, Did I just step out of the back door of a time-machine and wind up in the 17th Century?
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Sep 17, 2012

Thebuster

Just say the word:Sex and all hell will break
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Sep 17, 2012

RubberLeggs

They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for misbehaving. They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in sex with one another at parties. The priest saw it was best to discipline them by suspending the choir."
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well that bring more question to us, so you church members, are you angry about the decision of the priest with all those nosonce? ohk just because you wana continue to drink (liquor) every weekend and engaging in sex at his church, he doesn't want that mosi, so why don't just leave the church once and for all?
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Sep 17, 2012

kgwadss

Catholics must stop hanging their (filthy) dirty linen in public. Can we please face reality. The congregation is tired of the priest. Why???????????? I do not know. Semole K
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Sep 17, 2012

Yotywa

How did the priest got to know these things if he was not involved. Something didnt go right now he is flexing his muscles.

Suspend all and get new priest and new choir.
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Sep 17, 2012

thinya

Toyi-toyi ka kerekeng? ye ke mehlolo.
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Sep 17, 2012

Mosquer

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Mosquer
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for misbehaving. They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in s.ex with one another at parties.
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not condoning the behaviour mare ha ba nyobane ko kerekeng mos...........
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Doesn't m@tter where they did it. the fact is s.e.x before marr!age is a s!n
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I wonder how did the church's authorities find out about the bumping and grinding of the choir members. unles if they held a candle when it happened
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Taba ke muši
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Sep 17, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

@Nzwere
Mosquer
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
They are just angry because the priest suspended the choir for misbehaving. They were drinking (liquor) every weekend and engaging in s.ex with one another at parties.
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not condoning the behaviour mare ha ba nyobane ko kerekeng mos...........
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Doesn't m@tter where they did it. the fact is s.e.x before marr!age is a s!n
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I wonder how did the church's authorities find out about the bumping and grinding of the choir members. unles if they held a candle when it happened.

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It seems like the Priest knows more that he is letting.......... maybe the female choristers did not want to have se.x with him hence the anger. How does he know what they are up to at parties or weekends???
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Sep 17, 2012

Ayobas

This choir is a disaster, they sing hallelujah at the stage and at the back the church they sing num-num... Eish where is the angel Gabriel mara? The church is at mess, he knows how to clean it...
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Sep 17, 2012

swona

bt anyway, I know catholics and drinking and womanising, goes hand in hand, u cant devorce the one to the other!
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Sep 17, 2012

Gatyenism

This is so sad. As a roman catholic christian myself, i am so dissapointed by the actions of these peolple. Most of the roman catholic rules provide loop holes for this type of behaviour to happen. Youth participation in RC church is questionable. Not only in that particular church, all over south africa, roman catholic' youth use choir and other structures as social engagement structures not spiritual purporses.
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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

swona: Ill-informed and completely out of line. How can you make such a sweeping statement?
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Sep 17, 2012

ProphetofGod

I would have done the same if I was the Priest, People need to know that the Church is not a democratic Institution but a theocratic one.
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Sep 17, 2012

BOSSO_KE_MANG?

ITjoooo sign end time .
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Sep 17, 2012

Zikizet

Poor satan, is this your fault as well?
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Sep 17, 2012

tshepomog

If it s the catholic church, there's no reason to turn violent.
Priest conduct can be reported to the Bishop, or even higher at the Cardinal.

If that does not help, you can write a letter to Rome. but issues are normally resolved within the regional diocese.

As to the misbehaving choir members, the priest does have authority to institute disciplinary measures with the help of the parish council.


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Sep 17, 2012

RobinH

It is truly distressing that our conflict resolution has devolved in such absurdity. That even internal "church" matters, are now dealt with violently. This has become a seriously sick society.
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Sep 17, 2012

Tabza325is

@Zikizet, hahaha... I'm also waiting for someone to pin this on the devil and how the end is near, also how God is going to k1ll everyone simply because they didn't sing praises or worships to him, it's like according to the priest and most only the boring and conservative will make it in the Kingdom of God and that the fun and care free will not see the kingdom of God..
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Sep 17, 2012

Tabza325is

@ProphetofGod, I would have done the same if I was the Priest, People need to know that the Church is not a democratic Institution but a theocratic one.

But would Jesus have done the same thing, if it was you or the priest that came across a wedding and wine was running out, would you have turned the water into wine so that people my drink more and be marry.
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Sep 17, 2012

Nzwere

Zikizet
Poor satan, is this your fault as well?
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kwakwakwakwakwa, poor sata.??? eeeem4thu wa mpolaya man,kikikikik
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Sep 18, 2012

007.JAMES.BOND

TELLING THEM THE TRUTH IS AN INSULT. WHAT A BUNCH OF SO-CALLED "CHRISTIANS" WITH SATANIC TENDECIES. BIG UP 2 THE PRIEST.
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Sep 18, 2012

skwamasamabele

One side is needed here: BAN ALL RELIGION IN SA!!
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Sep 19, 2012

Lottoyatrapa

If a baroga, he was right. Bofebe is not allowed, especially since the choir represents the church. they are the face of that church. I also wonder if Catholic priest are still not allowed to have sex? If that was me , i would also be pissed because ke bolawa ke letswai & batho kamo ba lathla mlenze left,right & centre.
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Sep 19, 2012

ZiziK

@ Lottoyatrapa, u r funny.

But seriously though, our priest also forbid the choir from participating in activities outside the church such as competitions and festivals up to this date coz he felt that we were focusing more on matters outside the church forgetting that we are a parish choir. We did not toyi - toyi and demand his removal.

And we all drink at church functions but we do so responsibly.

This parish is an embarassment to the Catholic community at large, there are structures within the church to deal with such. Protests and media are not it.
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Sep 20, 2012

jono08

Die mense moet bekeer
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