Memme

Im lost of words....
Bjale gona gona go lekane. Jehovah now you need to stop all these terrible things from happening, It's enough !!!!!
People are behaving like animals it's so sad really.
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Cl!ck

Retards are not allowed to get married.. They should rather mate with Gorr!llas & Orangutans.. Period!!

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Kaylae

Tjeeeeer I now wonder what we wake up next to everyday of our lives,this man is a M0nster that doesn't deserve an justice but to be hanged by his ba!!s i'm so angry how can one be so evil.it wasn't enough that he k!lled his own flesh and blood by banging he had to k!ll the poor woman as well.Men who does these h0rror have self-esteem problems
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Chichi7

Oh South Africa... where are we going as a nation with so much violence. How can humans be so cruel to one another like this?
Men who do this are cowards and spineless.
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sarmologadi

ohhh bathong, this is scary, wats happening to our SA men mara hey???
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Kgaoza606

I'm really shocked at this. People are so sick out there, can't even blame this one on nyaope. Dats why I always tell my girl siblings that they should be careful who they date, if they sense some kind of possessiveness and uncontrolled anger in the guy, they shud just get out of the relationship immediately before things escalate into unfortunate incidents such as these. R.I.P mama...
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Chichi7

I want to open a paper, just one day without a story of a man killing his wife and child. It that just too much to ask?
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vivla

OMG, a lady that works with me had told me about this story. Apparently these were her neighbours, this man was crazy to the core. Please throw him to the Dogs......let him die, sick bastard.
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candilious

Sowetan NO man its Womans Month all we read how woman are being k!lled,abused & misused jirrrreeeeeeeeeee this is madness

RIP Mama may you find peace
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Mmarena

Women just tolerate abuse and comfort themselves evertime that one day things will be alright. look what happened very painful.
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Papage

Something is not right upstairs, he can be a mad vice Principal or Nyatsi e mo loile gore a thube lapa la gagwe.
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Lungu

This guy is a real monster, wish he can be given ti us and we will teach him a leason.
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CYBORICO

guilty people can stand abused, those who is innocent will runn as soon as the signs r there, these people go start something and then they fail to leave as they think they deserve it at the begining only for things to get worse, man dont forget and they never forgive, they just act like stuff is OK, dont mess with a man, he go make u join the skeleton team
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imd

However, the case was provisionally withdrawn in the Soshanguve Magistrate's Court on July 11 as the victim was still in a critical condition in hospital.
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People are still gonna dies STUP!D system nxa!!!
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imd

@candilious
Sowetan NO man its Womans Month all we read how woman are being k!lled,abused & misused jirrrreeeeeeeeeee this is madness
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yho if they dont make it wose ka their stupid researches nxxxxxxxxxxxx!!!
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PUPU

Father in the name of JESUS this world need you i pray that people may realise that you are the only
solution to their work,marriage,and family problems i command all evil spirit to go away in the name of
JESUS LORD.
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THEmadame2B-BBEE

goddemet and he's a teacher, so bana ba ko Sosh ki di retards as well....
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ayobaness

but y most women wait for the worst
to c that they r nt in a healthy relatishiops?
women must stop worrying about what will peepz say
if u r not happy stay out ull be healed nd hapy again
look nw we hv lost a hero just bcoz of a stupid jelas idiot
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GODESS

Aowa...where does one run to? if cases are being thrown out of court...had they just detained him in the cells, would he have had a chance to burn this lady. i wonder how my case will go, i suppose he is going to win it.
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Maratachelete

Some South African men are weaklings,I'm waiting for the day when men will do what they are suppose to do--protect their women and children and stop being d!cks!
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Mdav

OMG! May be what we sow is what we reap.
They fight and win wars / battles etc by killing and maiming HUMAN-BEINGS & we call them "winners, our heroes and compatiots" but they don't get counsilled. They will always show what they are capable of 2 their families 'cos there is none 2 fight. * Just a thought* RIP.
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JUBJUB

And Sowetan gives them (men) tips on how to cheat,this world is cruel. Death sentence for this man mxm.
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mbondo

Imagine this, petrol belong in a car tank. This man take petrol out of the car tank , run straight into the bedroom where his sick wife was sleeping, spray her with petrol and burn her. How sick is that ? Let's say the wife maybe committed something in the past like cheating on him but does she deserve to be petrol bombed. Does anyone remember Rabothapi who k illed 4 of his co-workers in a school staff office? He got 2yrs in a mental hospital in Sterkfontain. This man too will only get 12months in jail or mental hospital, his lawyers will claim he was insane at the time of the murder.
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Lungu

The woman was my colleague may her soul rest in peace.
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Mapholobakay1

Dark days are upon us!
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Tsafendason

Sick B@stard!!!!!!!!
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Sjamolelo

Good Morning to All

To all the men in here Gents why are we failing our women,daughters,sisters?

we really need to do something about our revolting behaviour.

Most of all why are we failing ourselves as humans.

so disappointed now everyday its the same brutality topeole that neeed to be cherished........THIS MUST STOP SERIOUSLY!!!!
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Mdav

Abanye abafazi bona basazosifaka ezinkingeni...............Bafa bazi!
As long as kungakabi i turn yami, ngizo sympathizer nazo lezigebengu ezisebenzisa evrything including abantwana be2, umthetho, amalungelo namanye amadoda & yonke into ekhona ukusihlukumeza!
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Shenene

nna yena ke tshaba banna struu tjo sehlogo se se kana
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CYBORICO

14 Aug 2012Maratachelete
Some South African men are weaklings,I'm waiting for the day when men will do what they are suppose to do--protect their women and children and stop being d!cks!

trying to warm your way into someone's penties? everystory has two sides so stop shooting down all men when u only know half the story and the half u know is not even a complete picture of the events that unfolded. do u maybe dont know any commited women who is cheating left right and centre? well i do i know many actually so I wont call men names until these people get to tell us why and when the man started behaving like this, i wont feel sorry when i hear that some dude done killed the guys who murdered the indian guy for his beard, they had it coming, so ya until i hear the full story I wont say the man is the evil one hear,
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Sjamolelo

@cyborico but have you seen how many of the cases we have read about its always the men that are in the wrong?

Yes you are right by saying you need to hear the full story first but that does not justify taking another person's life when in the wrong.
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CYBORICO

Sjamolelo
Good Morning to All
To all the men in here Gents why are we failing our women,daughters,sisters?
we really need to do something about our revolting behaviour.
Most of all why are we failing ourselves as humans.
so disappointed now everyday its the same brutality topeole that neeed to be cherished........THIS MUST STOP SERIOUSLY!!!!

dont act like a specialist in behavioral habits of men wena, what wil u do if suddnely u found that your daughter is not yours, to make things worse the women has been in contact with the father all along while she claims the kid to be yours, she lies even when u ask about it, she even tells u to do partenity if u dont believe, ten year later u get good bionus and u do the test, then what, ten year of leaving a lie, cum on now stop being a chauvinist we talking real life events here
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TDK

However, the case was provisionally withdrawn in the Soshanguve Magistrate's Court on July 11 as the victim was still in a critical condition in hospital.


How possible is that? Wasn't the case supposed to be postponed to another date, maybe two months later?
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Lungu

@Sjamolelo i think u are at a wrong place to ask such questions and believe me you will never geta solution from the bloggers, rather you go via media boss.
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Sjamolelo

Hau Cyborico i am not acting like a specialist in behaviour. it will be really messed up to find out that my daughter is not mine but would i need to set alight or shoot my woman? No No No!!

Yes boss some women lie with a straight face and the bible in ther purses or bags.
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Sjamolelo

@ LUNGU GUESS YOU are right boss
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CYBORICO

@Sjamelo
lets then be happy that its not us in this situation, but condeming those in it is also wrong as the facts are not clear, just like crooks will r.ape and k.ill, its not for me to say why they did it, but being in sa i just hope the law will take its cause, i wont suddnly just generalise about the mind states of such crooks
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Sjamolelo

@CYBORICO couldn;t have said it better myself
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MISSTY!!!

O Rara Wa Magodimo!!! Please batho ba Jesu, basadi a re tlogeleng banna ba ba re sotlang,whether emotionally or physically, these are the consequences.. just get da F**** outta the abusive relationship.. PLEASEEEEE.
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CYBORICO

@Mbondo
Does anyone remember Rabothapi who k illed 4 of his co-workers in a school staff office? He got 2yrs in a mental hospital in Sterkfontain. This man too will only get 12months in jail or mental hospital, his lawyers will claim he was insane at the time of the murder.

so u say the doctors lie in such cases? men r human aswell u subject a men to ten years of emotional trauma this is what u get at the end as he also has the physical means of acting heywhy, its not women ionly that gets abused, physical abuse is the least seriouse in terms of damage than emotional abuse, men suffer long here due to the lie that is spread all over about man not crying or not being sisies, well hide it, but ten year later it will show up in a bloddy manner and people will judge base on the evetual not the caurse, men should also leave emotionally stressing GFs if we are to lessen these type of behaviour
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guiliano

this coward deserve to get 25 life sentences, pity there is no death sentence.
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Galfrend

yOH!!! Crazy crazy world we living in, whats wrong with these men??????????????????
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CYBORICO

guiliano
this coward deserve to get 25 life sentences, pity there is no death sentence

u should say these to those who k.ill to save themselfs from prosecution, those who still from me and k.ill everyone who blows a whistle for it, those are the ones that deserve life,

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Galfrend

hai into zabantu.... evil spirits - uyahlanya hlanyi...hai khona bamloyile!
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Flemza

Other man what can I say no wonder they are few good man like us and every women in Mzansi wants us , hence now my wife has now accepted me to marry 3 more wifes because good man like me are hard to come by
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Chichi7

It is so sad to read some comments from men who think that women deserve what is coming to them. It is even more sad to think that you are the same men who smile at us and are so nice when you are at the office and yet you are harbouring evil thoughts with the people you are supposed to love.
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MommaC

Happy woman's month :(

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Mdav

@Flemza
Kwaaaa kwaaa........siyafana joe
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LeparaThePresident

Morning @ALL

We need d3ath penality and Sahira Law here in SA
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Mdav

Galfrend
hai into zabantu.... evil spirits - uyahlanya hlanyi...hai khona bamloyile!
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U rite, may be wa loywa nguye lomfazi.............
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MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!

Ho sa na le banna ba ntse ba tshwara ba-sa-di jwaloka diphoofolo le kajeno,che! bontate ba bashanyana ke meleloko ya batho.
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CYBORICO

Chichi7
It is so sad to read some comments from men who think that women deserve what is coming to them. It is even more sad to think that you are the same men who smile at us and are so nice when you are at the office and yet you are harbouring evil thoughts with the people you are supposed to love.

dont look at it as women-men issue, everyone who has done something wrong in the past deserves whatever comes their way, just like the guy who burnt this women will get what is due to them, the thing is most bloggers r so good at blocking one part of their brain and comment to agree with certain people, whereas looking at this with an open mind, taking consideration of all posibilities might yield different results. These is not about women month, these is somethinhg that happens everyday, so trying to sound right just because u dontb wanna spoil the party is as good as keeping quet
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BeeEm

You can see from the wedding photo that this animal is a real monster. Let it rot in a cage, stupid orangutan with low esteem. When You want out don't come up with functions to attend stories!
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CYBORICO

@BeeEm
u know him to be a monster by just looking at him? and u hope someone will take our post serious?
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thatomn

Guys batho kante go etsahalang F***k this men need to be killed they just bring bad things to eath they must just go and serve life sentence in prison and eat once a day Dinja tse
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mufalufuno

whats wrong with south african men this days nxa
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eisleben

I am going to take it that abortion was semi-illegal in Soshanguve 50 years ago when Matthew "Mateu" Ramagoshi was born. Had he been aborted Soshanguve would have turned out to be a fractional happier place. A very sad state of affairs. I know what I would be planning to do to him if he had been my real brother-in-law.
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LeparaThePresident

Morning @ALL

We need d3ath penality and Sahira Law here in SA
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CYBORICO

@lepara
death penalty is ki.lling after beeing judged to have done wrong, just the responsibility is shifted to the state/courts, these men u call monsters have also judged the situation and taken action to rectify it, lucky for us those who dont hang themselves get to face the law. calling for k.illing of those who k.illed is just going in circles my men
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MommaC

LeparaThePresident

Sahira law ????
Don't you mean Sharia ???

You obviously don't know much about their laws so I'd suggest you do some studying on it before suggesting something so horrible
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Mellow

Am so tired of reading about women and child abuse, whats wrong with some of this men vele? Are they really that cruel and heartless? #numb
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somaartakeit

This is a result of women staying abusive relations which degrades them and their children, why didn't she leave this violent beast when the autopsy report of her son was revealed to her? girls abuse always result in death there are very few domestic abuse victims who live to tell the story, don't be a statistic, also shield your children from an abusive relationship they don't deserve to be punched and be shamed against the wall, they don't deserve to live in fear.
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Bohlale1

Some people really dont deserve to live, what kind of a father are you ntate!!. My daughter is 7 now, I havent even thought of even be aggresive to her in any way, even if she has done wrong, Id rather let her mom discipline her cos I cant stand and watch her suffer from the pain I would've caused her. Eish what a said story sharp!!!!!!!!!!!
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eltybots

u should change ur laws SA towards murder and now ur ineffective laws r affecting us in our country cos ppl who commits murder skips our country to ur country wey it protects killers.I'm sick and tired of everyday a woman or a child is killed .M not surprised 2 c dis

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DrLifesgud

Hang him ngwana wa moloi, mxm!!!!!!

RIP Mama.......
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Smakaleng.com

I am very disturbed by Mzansi Fo Sho presenter Tshepo Ngwane's statement that he dumped the mother of his child because she allegedly dated an HIV-positive person.

That is selfish and self- righteous. This boy has a super-inflated ego. I challenge the ignorant Ngwane to take a public HIV test.

He does not seem to realise that his statement exposed his stupidity. I don't believe that SABC1 should renew his contract. I don't think we should be watching people like Ngwane on our screens.

From now on, when Ngwane appears on my TV, I will just switch channels. I will not allow a fool to come into my living room.

SABC must educate its staff about HIV because they are supposed to be role models. I really wish Ngwane could take a public HIV test, then publish the results. As a self-confessed playboy, Ngwane cannot be sure of his status.

It's a shame though when a person like him exposes his ignorance like that, and then feels sorry for the woman he intended marrying.

And trying to blame his role in Yizo Yizo does not wash because Zola was in the same production and he is using that experience in a positive way.

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LESON.1

@Smakaleng.com

go and finish your lunch box of no name rice and inkomazi and when you done, brush your false tooth with a toilet brush....
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Lesoba-Le-Boya

Ntja ya Mokoto fela tjena...
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Smakaleng.com

LESON.1 you mean that thing btn you legs is a toilet brush
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LESON.1

@Smakaleng.com

Actually i'm speaking English you Idiot ......Not Endilish (okay)
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Brayakamina

@ CYBORICO
guilty people can stand abused, those who is innocent will runn as soon as the signs r there, these people go start something and then they fail to leave as they think they deserve it at the begining only for things to get worse, man dont forget and they never forgive, they just act like stuff is OK, dont mess with a man, he go make u join the skeleton team
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SIES MAAN!!!!!!!!!!! Ke mme wa lelapa and ke ngwana wa batho. where is yo sense of humor?
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Lefakorong

men have become endangered species and this is because of the legal system that is more favourable to the eve's version of God's creation. Thus, when a man leaves or divorces his woman/wife he is judged to be a monster who abandoned his family, when a man decide to end the misery he started by killing the wife he is a monster, so whatever a man does he is a monster. so this is a fucked up situation no matter what the man does. Furthermore, women are no longer faithful to their relationships and there is lack of commitment because of materialism and crust, so go a tshwana. God created everything and man and he was pleased and rested and i suppose God is regetting the thought of creating a woman because after a woman was created man and God never rested because trouble began. there is song that asserts that "its all because of a woman". by this i am condoning this killings of women and children but ladies in most cases you are the cause of this misfortunes because some of you are disrespectful, cunning and very bitchy and hell knows no fury than a man pissed off.
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star88

After reading, reading, and re-reading this article I just do not blame the husband at all.

I think that the dead lady (a SARS worker, and an Activist) was definitely suicidal (because the article says so); and she must have still been mentally unstable on the day of the incident because it is the same day that she was discharged from hospital for stress.

It is crass when the mother of a child blames his father for the unfortunate death of the child. The pain of losing a child is not the exclusive pain of her mother, it is highly traumatic for the child's father, even more traumatic for the father if the child a boy because buys are their father's protégés!

To me, it sounds like the dead woman was the verbally abusive one in the house. I suspect that she took the petrol out of her car herself hoping that her action will stop her husband from going to a wedding in Limpopo. Literally forcing her husband to join her in being miserable - "emotional blackmail"!

In her miserable, unstable state of mind and without thinking; I just think that she dosed herself with petrol as a desperate trial to blackmail her husband further - but the husband might have dismissed and ignored her nonsense. So in seeking attention, that hyper suicidal lady must have set herself on fire - that explains why the husband hands and feet were burned

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star88

After reading, reading, and re-reading this article I just do not blame the husband at all.

I think that the dead lady (a SARS worker, and an Activist) was definitely suicidal (because the article says so); and she must have still been mentally unstable on the day of the incident because it is the same day that she was discharged from hospital for stress.

It is crass when the mother blames the child's father for the unfortunate death of the same child. The pain of losing a child is not the exclusive pain of her mother, it is highly traumatic for the child's father as well. It is even more traumatic for the father, if the child is a boy, because boys are their father's protégés - in any society!

To me, it sounds like the dead woman was a verbally abusive monster in the house. I suspect that she took the petrol out of her car herself hoping that her action will stop her husband from attending a wedding in Limpopo. Literally forcing her husband to join her moping around and miserable - "emotional blackmail". Females who claim to be "abused" have lunatic behavioural patterns...

In her miserable, unstable state of mind and without thinking; I just think that she dosed herself with petrol as a desperate trial to blackmail her husband further - but the husband might have dismissed and ignored her nonsense. So in seeking attention, that hyper suicidal lady must have set herself on fire - that explains why the husband's hands and feet were burned

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D-liciousLips

will this eva end, guys if you dont love the woman anymore, just get a divorce, now women y stay n tolerate abuse because abusive relationships always end up like this.
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