Aug 7, 2012 | Olebogeng Molatlhwa Political Reporter |
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CORRECTIONAL Services Minister Sibusiso Ndebele has instructed prison heads to have the sentences of mothers serving less than 24 months converted to correctional supervision.
this government has been very good to convicted criminals. i am sure the people in Johannesburg prison are praying that Zuma gets a second term. Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Mellow
"Our message to women is that you should not remain in an abusive relationship until you get to the point where you take the law into your own hands and commit a crime," he said.
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Sad cause I just read a story where police officer brutally k.illed his wife after she lodged a complaint and tried moving out but guess what she was never taken serious so who is to protect all this women who try to leave this monsters when justice system fails them?!
This is just electioneering gone to far, you get them out and they are happy to vote for you because you get them out of jail!! Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Chichi7
"Over the years, we have witnessed an increase in the number of women serving life sentences as a result of killing their partners
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without condoning the killing of someone, anyone, would you really blame these women for doing what they did? The story of a woman that has been failed by the justice system is a clear indication as to why women end up killing. No one takes them seriously when they cry for help. Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
candilious
@Maneater-You can say that again focusing more on criminals then the real people suffering outside .
@Mellow -Happens everyday then the very same people cover for each other sad but true Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Mbedzhana
Hi Sowetan
My classmate is a war criminal so please update us on what is happening in his country
Chicago, IL - A story is told of a medical student, who attended the University of Damascus, Syria's top academic institution, in the 1980s. During one physical training exercise, he caught the ire of the instructor, who proceeded to call him "a son of a donkey".
The red-faced instructor soon realised who he was talking to and quickly apologised. The student was Bashar, second son and ultimate successor of then-President Hafez al-Assad. But the younger Assad took the insult "very lightly".
As Dr Zaher Sahloul recounted the incident involving his classmate of six years, the Chicago pulmonary specialist wondered how "a very average and humble person" turned out to become the architect of the ongoing bloodshed in Syria, which has already killed more than 17,000 people, according to the United Nations.
"You never imagine that the person who used to be your classmate in medical school, will be able to do this type of war crimes against humanity," said Sahloul, a native of Homs and president of the Syrian American Medical Society.
A new low
For Sahloul and his fellow Syrian Americans who are observing Ramadan, this year's holy month marks a new low in the close-knit community, many of whom have friends and family members caught in the 17-month old armed uprising. Their prayers, which range from asking for the protection of elderly parents who chose to remain in the bombed-out city of Homs to the swift ouster of the Assad regime from Damascus, reflect the anguish of a wounded nation, whose own president is attacking his own people.
"It's very difficult to celebrate the festivities of the month of Ramadan, while you have people in your family who are at any time at the threat of death," said Sahloul. "What's going on right now is a grave humanitarian situation."
Only two weeks ago, Sahloul returned from his fourth medical mission to a Syrian refugee camp in Kilis, Turkey. There, Sahloul worked alongside 45 Syrian American doctors who volunteered on rotation at several refugee camps, even as members of his own family have been swept up in the whirlwind of violence engulfing Syria.
The Chicago area is home to at least eight former medical classmates of the middle Assad brother. Aside from Sahloul, Dr Hassan Alzein, a paediatrician, is also a member of that class of 800 students. Like Sahloul, Alzein found Assad unremarkable.
"We tried to avoid him," Alzein said. "His father was a barbaric dictator and we always said that if we get close to him, someday we will be targeted by the regime."
One Chicago resident who did get close to Assad was Maher Basatneh, who is originally from Damascus. The Chicago businessman said he first befriended the future president in 1980 when they were teenagers at a skydiving camp.
"He was friendly," Basatneh said of Assad. "He ate with us and we just talked as friends. He did not know anything about politics." The two became friends and would hang out at the Assad residence. There, Basatneh said, he would often witness Maher al-Assad taunt his elder brother, Bashar, calling him a "dummy".
Later, Basatneh enrolled in medical school with Assad, who backed him up as student council leader. But Basatneh, who later dropped out of school, does not believe Assad has the ability to lead Syria, and described him as an awkward teenager who had an odd twitching mannerism.
"I have known this guy for years and the position of president is not for him," said Basatneh, adding that he would not also entrust his life to Assad as his doctor. Basatneh claimed Assad was not a serious medical student, and only graduated because he was the son of the president.
The untimely death of Assad's eldest brother Bassel, who was groomed to be president, and later of Hafez, thrust Bashar to the leadership position for which he was not prepared, Basatneh explained, adding that the crisis in Syria is a direct result of Assad's failed leadership.
Days are numbered
Sahloul said he too did not see his old classmate becoming president, and that the days of Assad's rule seemed numbered.
Although they were not close, he saw Assad regularly at the University of Damascus from 1982 to 1988.
"He wasn't arrogant," Sahloul said. "But from what I've seen he wasn't that smart or distinguished."
"I think he proved to be a very mediocre president dealing with crisis, whether it's the crisis in Iraq, or in Lebanon after the murder of [former Lebanese Prime Minister Rafiq] al-Hariri," Sahloul said. "His decisions were very poor so they led to disastrous consequences."
Sahloul recalled that two years into the presidency of his old college classmate, he and his fellow Syrian American doctors had a chance to meet Assad at a conference in Damascus. While exchanging pleasantries, Sahloul recalled Assad as saying he wished he was a practicing doctor instead of being a president.
In-depth coverage of escalating violence across Syria
At the same meeting, Sahloul said he asked Assad if he thought Syria was ready for democracy. Assad reportedly said no, citing Syria's tribal culture and sectarian nature.
Now it appears that Assad's refusal to acknowledge his people's call for a more democratic governance might be coming back to haunt him.
Still, Sahloul warned the Assad regime would be willing to take the whole nation down with it.
"The regime is still powerful," Sahloul said. "The army is still allied with the regime and it can cause a lot of destruction and mayhem before it departs the scene."
"Definitely the regime has ended," Sahloul said. "No one in Syria will let this regime lead anymore. People have broken the barrier of fear, so it's impossible for him to continue ruling Syria."
"It's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when," Sahloul said.
@Chichi I do not blame those women the rate men are abusing women is just unacceptable especially when you go report him over and over again and the law doesnt do jerk. I'll actually k.ill him over and over again its tiring to be honest. Did you read that story bout the Limpopo sisters who are now arrested after they k.illed the crazy boyfriend of the one sister? She had a restraining order against the bustard and she was constantly abused and harassed by him the law did jerk as usual but when the sistas k.illed him they got arrested like WTF?
@Candilious Oohh liefie its crazy really am just so sick and tired of it its not on at all
@Ndebele
Ndebele urged women caught up in abusive relationships not to remain in them.
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the fact that you are minister does not mean you dont abuse your wife at home, stop talking crap!!! Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
imd
Really now minister....... YOUR own has a hand in a woman being killed *Todays news too* , or your saying she should have left?????????? Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Chichi7
@ Mellow- i did not read the story but i know about the lady from Mafikeng who killed the doctor husband many years ago. Her book is a heartbreaking story and to think she was arrested for killing a man that abused her for years. And yet these men are out of bail!!
It makes me so mad and it makes me wonder just how many women and children must die before something is done about it. Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
cornelius
Thes ministers do not know whaty damage they do to the moral of the magistrates and state prosecutors who already fins it diffcult to obtain convictions, and then only to see a minister who was not in court, does not know trhe detasil, come with generalisations such as this, and then order the criminals to be released. Thsi ANC government is probably the worst government inthe world, they are stupid, unthinking, opportunists and corrupt. Finish and Klaar. Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Voetzek
The user story is bullshit, crime is crime irrespective of whether is shoplifting or petty ones. this ndebele has been bribed Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Msiphos00
I know its Women's Month not all the women serving life sentences killed their husbands due to abuse, Some men are killed for their huge insurance payout.
Again the Mpumalanga guy who killed his wife (the story we read today) was stupid I mean he wanted the wife to move out of their house and she refused. He should have followed the right channel divorce and all, but he resorted to killing, and now even his nyatsi is left without a partner. Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Lehido
So says a man who left Dept of transport in sh!t Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
MommaC
Why is this man still in ANY government position? He is so clueless that he could easily be mistaken for a character in a Monty Python sketch.
MommaC
Why is this man still in ANY government position? He is so clueless that he could easily be mistaken for a character in a Monty Python sketch.
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MommaC please respect the Minister he brought you E-tolls!!! So respect that man he is a visionery!!!LOL Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
MommaC
MorenaWaPolelo
LOL
Not gonna happen doll. He needs a foot up the backside, not respect Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
PAPABRAVO
reasonably we can argue the motive and events leading to the vicious act of killing a partner....it is still unjustifiable!
Come up with ways to curb these incidents ntate! Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Chichi7
@ Mellow- i did not read the story but i know about the lady from Mafikeng who killed the doctor husband many years ago. Her book is a heartbreaking story and to think she was arrested for killing a man that abused her for years. And yet these men are out of bail!!
It makes me so mad and it makes me wonder just how many women and children must die before something is done about it.
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Sad story indeed....... I have also read her interviews. What was even worse the scumb@g had just had sEx with the mistress and had toilet paper on his willy and wanted the wi.fe to give him a BJ........... Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
Vhamsanda
That time again when we patronise women for our own gains. Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
TDK
Ndebele's eye was caught by some beauty in prison Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
malemaforpresident
ANOTHER CAMPAIGN TO WIN THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF POTENTIAL VOTERS TOWARDS THE COMMING ELECTIONS THESE GUYS KNOWS EXACTLY HOW TO CONVINCE POOR ILLITERATE VOTERS Report Abuse
Aug 7, 2012
sgubhusenkwishi
As usual , no matter how many times is this minister being reshuffled , he remains meaningless to people he is suppose to serve and coming up with cheap statements wherever he goes.
If he understands the public expectation from prison and the philosophy of the prison service together with the courts to public, in ensuring the safety and security of the law abiding citizens. He wouldnt be wasting time in making this senseless noices. But his forcast should be at increasing the capacity of the prison as institution and funding to ensure that it renders its service to the public satisfaction.
Crime is a crime regardless of description, economic crimes like shoplifting, car hijacking, house breaking, pickpocketing , life stock stealing , avoiding paying tax and so on are not minor cases, as they directly affect those who work hard, take them long to recover again, lead to the lost of work ethic courage and complete collapse of the economy. So there is no excuse for this cases to be treated as minor cases, if you shop lift everytime , think about the impact to the small and self funding businessman. Drinking and driving and speeding can be excused because the most likely victim is that driver himself, not stealing.
But the gvt has to ensure that people are employed to cut down the level of economic crimes than court and prison services being soft on criminals to this category or anyone justifying crimes.
Abuse and aggression from all genders also constitutes crime , the fact of a matter is we have abandoned the fundamentals of human values or ubuntu botho that we knew and believe to them quite well , to the new fashioned and styled western led human rights echoism to which none of us take accountability than mouth lip service. The conflicting issues are men , are still traditionally paying lobola for marriage and when women divorce them , none ever talk about lobola re-embessment, that injustice to men creates anger and violence, african leaders are aware of this, but no one is doing justice to men to ensure accountability.
Human rights has got no limits unlike the human values , violence is violence whether it comes from a women or men reacting from a cheating partner, the one reacting with violence in terms of human rights is guilty and prosecutable full stop. Either women are competing for affection or not but violence measured within the yardsticks of human rights equates to prosecution regardless of the cause. So if you oppose this or justifies it from any position, you are defeating the end of justice.
In this fashion a man or a woman who is being cheated upon by a partner , within this human right setting has to move out of a relationship to save his /her head without reactive violence, which is a bitter pill to swallow.
Women must stop provoking men into slapping them. I know of a woman who constantly told his man how useless he was in bed (sometyms in front of the children). He decided to divorce her; only for the court to take her side and had all his possessions taken over by the women. The man commited suicide. I hope she then lived happily ever after with the guilty conscience. Report Abuse
Aug 10, 2012
Moffdat
@sgubhusenkwishi
@Mbedzhana
Please stop blogging articles within articles!!!!
@Everyone
Men need to stop abusing ladies and ladies need a major leason in self control. Saying anything anytime you like will get you in trouble... Woman or Man!!! Report Abuse
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maneater
this government has been very good to convicted criminals. i am sure the people in Johannesburg prison are praying that Zuma gets a second term.Report Abuse
Mellow
"Our message to women is that you should not remain in an abusive relationship until you get to the point where you take the law into your own hands and commit a crime," he said.......................................................................................................................
Sad cause I just read a story where police officer brutally k.illed his wife after she lodged a complaint and tried moving out but guess what she was never taken serious so who is to protect all this women who try to leave this monsters when justice system fails them?!
Report Abuse
MorenaWaPolelo
This is just electioneering gone to far, you get them out and they are happy to vote for you because you get them out of jail!!Report Abuse
Chichi7
"Over the years, we have witnessed an increase in the number of women serving life sentences as a result of killing their partners---------------------------------------------------------------------
without condoning the killing of someone, anyone, would you really blame these women for doing what they did? The story of a woman that has been failed by the justice system is a clear indication as to why women end up killing. No one takes them seriously when they cry for help.
Report Abuse
candilious
@Maneater-You can say that again focusing more on criminals then the real people suffering outside .@Mellow -Happens everyday then the very same people cover for each other sad but true
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Mbedzhana
Hi SowetanMy classmate is a war criminal so please update us on what is happening in his country
Chicago, IL - A story is told of a medical student, who attended the University of Damascus, Syria's top academic institution, in the 1980s. During one physical training exercise, he caught the ire of the instructor, who proceeded to call him "a son of a donkey".
The red-faced instructor soon realised who he was talking to and quickly apologised. The student was Bashar, second son and ultimate successor of then-President Hafez al-Assad. But the younger Assad took the insult "very lightly".
As Dr Zaher Sahloul recounted the incident involving his classmate of six years, the Chicago pulmonary specialist wondered how "a very average and humble person" turned out to become the architect of the ongoing bloodshed in Syria, which has already killed more than 17,000 people, according to the United Nations.
"You never imagine that the person who used to be your classmate in medical school, will be able to do this type of war crimes against humanity," said Sahloul, a native of Homs and president of the Syrian American Medical Society.
A new low
For Sahloul and his fellow Syrian Americans who are observing Ramadan, this year's holy month marks a new low in the close-knit community, many of whom have friends and family members caught in the 17-month old armed uprising. Their prayers, which range from asking for the protection of elderly parents who chose to remain in the bombed-out city of Homs to the swift ouster of the Assad regime from Damascus, reflect the anguish of a wounded nation, whose own president is attacking his own people.
"It's very difficult to celebrate the festivities of the month of Ramadan, while you have people in your family who are at any time at the threat of death," said Sahloul. "What's going on right now is a grave humanitarian situation."
Only two weeks ago, Sahloul returned from his fourth medical mission to a Syrian refugee camp in Kilis, Turkey. There, Sahloul worked alongside 45 Syrian American doctors who volunteered on rotation at several refugee camps, even as members of his own family have been swept up in the whirlwind of violence engulfing Syria.
The Chicago area is home to at least eight former medical classmates of the middle Assad brother. Aside from Sahloul, Dr Hassan Alzein, a paediatrician, is also a member of that class of 800 students. Like Sahloul, Alzein found Assad unremarkable.
"We tried to avoid him," Alzein said. "His father was a barbaric dictator and we always said that if we get close to him, someday we will be targeted by the regime."
One Chicago resident who did get close to Assad was Maher Basatneh, who is originally from Damascus. The Chicago businessman said he first befriended the future president in 1980 when they were teenagers at a skydiving camp.
"He was friendly," Basatneh said of Assad. "He ate with us and we just talked as friends. He did not know anything about politics." The two became friends and would hang out at the Assad residence. There, Basatneh said, he would often witness Maher al-Assad taunt his elder brother, Bashar, calling him a "dummy".
Later, Basatneh enrolled in medical school with Assad, who backed him up as student council leader. But Basatneh, who later dropped out of school, does not believe Assad has the ability to lead Syria, and described him as an awkward teenager who had an odd twitching mannerism.
"I have known this guy for years and the position of president is not for him," said Basatneh, adding that he would not also entrust his life to Assad as his doctor. Basatneh claimed Assad was not a serious medical student, and only graduated because he was the son of the president.
The untimely death of Assad's eldest brother Bassel, who was groomed to be president, and later of Hafez, thrust Bashar to the leadership position for which he was not prepared, Basatneh explained, adding that the crisis in Syria is a direct result of Assad's failed leadership.
Days are numbered
Sahloul said he too did not see his old classmate becoming president, and that the days of Assad's rule seemed numbered.
Although they were not close, he saw Assad regularly at the University of Damascus from 1982 to 1988.
"He wasn't arrogant," Sahloul said. "But from what I've seen he wasn't that smart or distinguished."
"I think he proved to be a very mediocre president dealing with crisis, whether it's the crisis in Iraq, or in Lebanon after the murder of [former Lebanese Prime Minister Rafiq] al-Hariri," Sahloul said. "His decisions were very poor so they led to disastrous consequences."
Sahloul recalled that two years into the presidency of his old college classmate, he and his fellow Syrian American doctors had a chance to meet Assad at a conference in Damascus. While exchanging pleasantries, Sahloul recalled Assad as saying he wished he was a practicing doctor instead of being a president.
In-depth coverage of escalating violence across Syria
At the same meeting, Sahloul said he asked Assad if he thought Syria was ready for democracy. Assad reportedly said no, citing Syria's tribal culture and sectarian nature.
Now it appears that Assad's refusal to acknowledge his people's call for a more democratic governance might be coming back to haunt him.
Still, Sahloul warned the Assad regime would be willing to take the whole nation down with it.
"The regime is still powerful," Sahloul said. "The army is still allied with the regime and it can cause a lot of destruction and mayhem before it departs the scene."
"Definitely the regime has ended," Sahloul said. "No one in Syria will let this regime lead anymore. People have broken the barrier of fear, so it's impossible for him to continue ruling Syria."
"It's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when," Sahloul said.
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Mellow
@Chichi I do not blame those women the rate men are abusing women is just unacceptable especially when you go report him over and over again and the law doesnt do jerk. I'll actually k.ill him over and over again its tiring to be honest. Did you read that story bout the Limpopo sisters who are now arrested after they k.illed the crazy boyfriend of the one sister? She had a restraining order against the bustard and she was constantly abused and harassed by him the law did jerk as usual but when the sistas k.illed him they got arrested like WTF?@Candilious Oohh liefie its crazy really am just so sick and tired of it its not on at all
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dead_man_walking
@NdebeleNdebele urged women caught up in abusive relationships not to remain in them.
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the fact that you are minister does not mean you dont abuse your wife at home, stop talking crap!!!
Report Abuse
imd
Really now minister....... YOUR own has a hand in a woman being killed *Todays news too* , or your saying she should have left??????????Report Abuse
Chichi7
@ Mellow- i did not read the story but i know about the lady from Mafikeng who killed the doctor husband many years ago. Her book is a heartbreaking story and to think she was arrested for killing a man that abused her for years. And yet these men are out of bail!!It makes me so mad and it makes me wonder just how many women and children must die before something is done about it.
Report Abuse
cornelius
Thes ministers do not know whaty damage they do to the moral of the magistrates and state prosecutors who already fins it diffcult to obtain convictions, and then only to see a minister who was not in court, does not know trhe detasil, come with generalisations such as this, and then order the criminals to be released. Thsi ANC government is probably the worst government inthe world, they are stupid, unthinking, opportunists and corrupt. Finish and Klaar.Report Abuse
Voetzek
The user story is bullshit, crime is crime irrespective of whether is shoplifting or petty ones. this ndebele has been bribedReport Abuse
Msiphos00
I know its Women's Month not all the women serving life sentences killed their husbands due to abuse, Some men are killed for their huge insurance payout.Again the Mpumalanga guy who killed his wife (the story we read today) was stupid I mean he wanted the wife to move out of their house and she refused. He should have followed the right channel divorce and all, but he resorted to killing, and now even his nyatsi is left without a partner.
Report Abuse
Lehido
So says a man who left Dept of transport in sh!tReport Abuse
MommaC
Why is this man still in ANY government position? He is so clueless that he could easily be mistaken for a character in a Monty Python sketch.Hi all :)
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MorenaWaPolelo
MommaCWhy is this man still in ANY government position? He is so clueless that he could easily be mistaken for a character in a Monty Python sketch.
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MommaC please respect the Minister he brought you E-tolls!!! So respect that man he is a visionery!!!LOL
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MommaC
MorenaWaPoleloLOL
Not gonna happen doll. He needs a foot up the backside, not respect
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PAPABRAVO
reasonably we can argue the motive and events leading to the vicious act of killing a partner....it is still unjustifiable!Come up with ways to curb these incidents ntate!
Report Abuse
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Chichi7@ Mellow- i did not read the story but i know about the lady from Mafikeng who killed the doctor husband many years ago. Her book is a heartbreaking story and to think she was arrested for killing a man that abused her for years. And yet these men are out of bail!!
It makes me so mad and it makes me wonder just how many women and children must die before something is done about it.
********************************************************************************
Sad story indeed....... I have also read her interviews. What was even worse the scumb@g had just had sEx with the mistress and had toilet paper on his willy and wanted the wi.fe to give him a BJ...........
Report Abuse
Vhamsanda
That time again when we patronise women for our own gains.Report Abuse
TDK
Ndebele's eye was caught by some beauty in prisonReport Abuse
malemaforpresident
ANOTHER CAMPAIGN TO WIN THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF POTENTIAL VOTERS TOWARDS THE COMMING ELECTIONS THESE GUYS KNOWS EXACTLY HOW TO CONVINCE POOR ILLITERATE VOTERSReport Abuse
sgubhusenkwishi
As usual , no matter how many times is this minister being reshuffled , he remains meaningless to people he is suppose to serve and coming up with cheap statements wherever he goes.If he understands the public expectation from prison and the philosophy of the prison service together with the courts to public, in ensuring the safety and security of the law abiding citizens. He wouldnt be wasting time in making this senseless noices. But his forcast should be at increasing the capacity of the prison as institution and funding to ensure that it renders its service to the public satisfaction.
Crime is a crime regardless of description, economic crimes like shoplifting, car hijacking, house breaking, pickpocketing , life stock stealing , avoiding paying tax and so on are not minor cases, as they directly affect those who work hard, take them long to recover again, lead to the lost of work ethic courage and complete collapse of the economy. So there is no excuse for this cases to be treated as minor cases, if you shop lift everytime , think about the impact to the small and self funding businessman. Drinking and driving and speeding can be excused because the most likely victim is that driver himself, not stealing.
But the gvt has to ensure that people are employed to cut down the level of economic crimes than court and prison services being soft on criminals to this category or anyone justifying crimes.
Abuse and aggression from all genders also constitutes crime , the fact of a matter is we have abandoned the fundamentals of human values or ubuntu botho that we knew and believe to them quite well , to the new fashioned and styled western led human rights echoism to which none of us take accountability than mouth lip service. The conflicting issues are men , are still traditionally paying lobola for marriage and when women divorce them , none ever talk about lobola re-embessment, that injustice to men creates anger and violence, african leaders are aware of this, but no one is doing justice to men to ensure accountability.
Human rights has got no limits unlike the human values , violence is violence whether it comes from a women or men reacting from a cheating partner, the one reacting with violence in terms of human rights is guilty and prosecutable full stop. Either women are competing for affection or not but violence measured within the yardsticks of human rights equates to prosecution regardless of the cause. So if you oppose this or justifies it from any position, you are defeating the end of justice.
In this fashion a man or a woman who is being cheated upon by a partner , within this human right setting has to move out of a relationship to save his /her head without reactive violence, which is a bitter pill to swallow.
Report Abuse
Mhambuma1
Women must stop provoking men into slapping them. I know of a woman who constantly told his man how useless he was in bed (sometyms in front of the children). He decided to divorce her; only for the court to take her side and had all his possessions taken over by the women. The man commited suicide. I hope she then lived happily ever after with the guilty conscience.Report Abuse
Moffdat
@sgubhusenkwishi@Mbedzhana
Please stop blogging articles within articles!!!!
@Everyone
Men need to stop abusing ladies and ladies need a major leason in self control. Saying anything anytime you like will get you in trouble... Woman or Man!!!
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