Virgin.after.sex

I don't have a child cos I'm not ready to sacrifice anything for a little creature and I will never marry a man who has one of those creatures (yena le baby-momma ba hlolwa keng to use contraceptives wen i can).I can only imagine why these bitter baby mommas become so dramatic... You sacrifice your body ( you get fat,saggy boobies, love handles, stretch marks) and you walk around looking like a whale for 9 months, then a man leaves you and marries a slender that doesn't have a child. But then again it goes to show that these ladies were not physically, emotionally & otherwise ready for such sacrifices hence the drama. Ladies bulang maoto mara kwalang dipopelo until he puts a ring on it, otherwise you will end up with 4 kids with different daddies.
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Goli

It saddens me when both adults actions end up being to a single person and affecting "kids- Angels" i dont have a kid- was unfortunate not to in marriage (widowed). I was raised by a single divorced parent, i vowed not to ever preagnant a woman if i won't there, thats a concious decision i took. some women date guys (abo Speedy) knowing very well that this guy is jst fooling around with her but bcos he's eith popular or drives a fancy car, will sell her body and soul- thats where the disaster struck.
we need to identify our needs- Ladies unless you change your attitude you're going no where, going out with a man who turns your head and not watching your back it's danger- don't be selfish: also when you get someone who loves your kid don't treat him less to the father of the kid who is not there for the Angel-

"The Best I can/will do is to love the mother of my kids"
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Virgin.after.sex

I agree with u Goli..."dating aboSpeedy"...knowing very well that speedy is neither a father nor a husband material. Most kids were conceived out of selfish and wrong reasons...selfish to only think about de 2 minutes pleasure than a lifetime responsibility of bringing a life that deserves love from both parents, but I hate it even more when they are poor & can't even afford to provide for the child.
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KukuyaLethosa

Why did Sowetan put Xolelwa Majeke's picture on such a controversial topic? We all know about his drama with Legwathi, but putting her pic here just dramatises her life.
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Vongsta

Heheheheheehe....Men don't stop supporting their children because they choose to do that.....True, some baby mamas are bitter and disrespectfull, while some are sweet and been taken advantage. Now, if a man is working and only has one kid, it won't be a problem to maintain. Mara if you make a kid with someone who has kids with other women, what do you think? that yours will be special? We like putting ourselves in situation and quick to point fingers. You expect 5star treatment for your kid from someone who's not working. Why o etsa bana if you not financially ok?
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Virgin.after.sex

Xolelwa le yena ka maVenster a tletseng ka sefahleho, di shades tseo are so not ayoba.
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kudi

Xolelwa ena ekare Satane - no wonder bamosiya Durban - i dont know why i really dont like her - somebody please help
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Vhamsanda

TROUBLE !!! Is what is written all over her face.
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