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I do not think his sisters like me. They always interfere in our relationship.

When he is happy he is a wonderful person and everything I wish for. But when he is unhappy my boyfriend is absolutely unbearable.

He thinks I should treat him in the same way as his sisters do. He expects me to fetch and carry and fuss over him all the time.

I am really not prepared to do this. We have started arguing a lot and he never ever apologises. He just sulks and mopes around. I have to apologise over and over to make him happy again.

Recently I decided to ignore his sulking and we did not speak for two weeks. Had I not apologised I don't think we would ever have spoken to each other again.

This is exhausting and it is making me question our relationship.

His sisters phoned and said terrible things about me, including that I am making his life a misery. They called me terrible names and threatened to hurt me if I continued to treat him badly.

They believe that I don't deserve him.

I think I have to end this relationship, but the problem is that I still have strong feelings for him.

What do you think? - No more spoiling, Germiston

ADVICE FROM DEAR DUDU

This is a difficult situation made worse by the behaviour of his sisters.

He sounds like a spoilt brat with too much baggage. He obviously has a problem with releasing his anger.

Of course he will not admit that he is also sometimes to blame when the two of you argue and he refuses to take responsibility for it.

It is unfair that you have to take all the blame all the time.

When he is angry, he takes full control of the situation by being in control of himself, you and the relationship.

If you want to give the relationship another chance, he must be willing to discuss it honestly with you. If he really cares for you he will be willing to work with you in setting up ways to overcome the arguments quickly and positively.

He also needs to tell his sisters to stop interfering and threatening you.

If he is not prepared to talk about the problem you should tell him that you are no longer going to put up with his behaviour.

If you argue and he sulks, do not entertain it at all. Tell him you do not want to be around him and that when he feels better and is prepared to talk he can contact you.

Ask yourself whether the good times outweigh the bad. This might help you decide whether to stay with your boyfriend or not.

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Sun May 26 00:07:41 SAST 2013 ::

Oct 12, 2012

RobinH

Getting involved with such a spoilt brat is going to be a disaster. Run a mile, Honey. Fast.
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Oct 12, 2012

Mosquer

Bo ngwana sesi o ka se ba kgone.
Move on and wait for the one who will make you happy and marry you
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Oct 12, 2012

MorenaWaPolelo

Babe you are dating a Kid a spoilt kid that was not spanked enough to rid the mopping and the sulking out of him, a kid that does not play along and share his toys a selfish brat that never say sorry......drop this selfish skothane!!!
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Oct 12, 2012

maneater

leave him to date his sisters!!!
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Oct 12, 2012

Tobby

That's how the fucken sisters in law do, they must get a life and stop watching every step of their brothers............SWINES
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Oct 12, 2012

MAWARAWARA

Yekela lengulube you are still young you will find someone you deserve. asinanqodo leso sidonyamphuphu sakho sisi. or come to i am also 26
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Eish Sis Dudu......lol....
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Oct 12, 2012

Shredder

Agg, these made up stories again.
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Oct 12, 2012

Vongsta

His a double adaptor...the reason his fighting wif you is he want to be wif his boyfriend.......he hides it behind his sisters.....*run for your dear life*
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Oct 12, 2012

Flemza

S.tupid 22 year old you should focusing on your boyfriend , not to worry about his sister I believe you have a brother , and you are not like my sons who do not have a sister , so shut up and focus on your man instead of mourning to the news paper , at such a young age mourning, what is goint to happen when you are 30yrs old hee have you think of that m.oron, are u in love with his sister or you are in love with him , you should ashamed of yourself you mourner
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Oct 12, 2012

Vongsta

@Flemza, wakakakakakakakak *dead, buried, tombstoned, aftertears and black sepelete*
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