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I am in such deep despair after abortion

Aug 17, 2012 | Dear Dudu | 175 comments

I AM 25 years old. A year ago I was involved with a man for six months. He turned out to be a very bad person. He was a drug dealer and in the last few months of our relationship he started beating me.

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Aug 17, 2012

maneater

choices choices choices, you make then and you have to live with them!!
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Aug 17, 2012

Tobby

Sorry love, mistakes do happen and 99.9% of women doing abotion it's because of the male he mated with. There's a reason why you did it, yes it is a wrong decision, bad thing to do but the deed is done and the fact that you feel guilty it means you're a human being and a christian, may God deeply bless you and make you strong
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Aug 17, 2012

Mosquer

o tla strong ne!
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Shame sisi, it will haunt you FOREVER!

Go for counselling they will help you cope, allow yourself to grieve,forgive yourself and ask for forgiveness from God. The guilt will never go away but you will learn to live with it.

Abortion is just a temporary solution.
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Aug 17, 2012

Onthatile

Abortion is not a crime BUT a sin, i personally dont believe in abortion no matter how hard the situation is, God wont put u in a situation that u cant handle, sisi o betile shame dont wanna lie, u just didnt give yourself time to think about it nor think about the results, now sis u made your bed it is time to lie on it. and again all the best with everything and the truth has a way of coming out yo ex will find out one way or the other.... ALL THE BEST...
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Aug 17, 2012

cocolucho

@bumboklaat
Why dont you k!ll yourself. This woman made a choice about her body and the life that she wants to lead, sue her if it hurts you so much.
For all those pro-lifers tell me this, if you knew that the child would become a mass murderer would you still be against the abortion.
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Aug 17, 2012

Skomoro99

Nothin wrong wit abortion especially one cozd by a man like that.Either u wer gona hv the baby n mistreat it based on the father's sins or the baby wud hv turned out 2 b a drug dealer as well n the fact that the drug dealer father wud hv never allowed any other man in yo life coz of the baby.So u did wats rite n we cant call a fetus as a human being since its still in developmental phase.
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Aug 17, 2012

TrapStar

Hey Galfrend(X unga solveki)

@Hitwomen(bby Assasinator)
Your first mission as a spy is completed well, most people drink alcoho| and some do drug$ but well i think after your second(ours) one you will be fine
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Aug 17, 2012

2nevvy4u

Having the abortion was very traumatic for me.
It is against everything I believe in.
I didn't even think about it. I just knew that there was no way that I could have this man's child. If he found out that I had his child it would mean that he would be in my life forever and I was notprepared to risk it.
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this is all kak.you dont believe in abortion mara you do it?


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Aug 17, 2012

Lehido

Make your bed, slep on it.....
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Aug 17, 2012

andthenwhy

you took a big step without properly thinking and see now!!!!!!!, arbotion is not the answer God has a way always, a children are a gift from God
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Aug 17, 2012

Makhosini0408

Good morning

"I didn't even think about it. I just knew that there was no way that I could have this man's child. If he found out that I had his child it would mean that he would be in my life forever and I was notprepared to risk it."

I am glad that you are admitting that you did not apply your mind. It is understandable, we all make mistakes. I think that you need help. Admitting that you messed up, is the first step to healing. I am not going to follow the route of holy than thou and condemn you, God gives us enough opportunities and that does not make you bad. Remember in His eyes,sin is sin, nor greater nor smaller, just an abomination to His law. He will give you another chance and please use it wisely.


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Aug 17, 2012

MommaC

You can't un-ring a bell.

Maybe now you will understand why CONTRACEPTIVES are available?
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Aug 17, 2012

TrapStar

in china you are only alowed to have one child,
How do you think they mantain that???
Another thing a chineseMogwanti, how many do you think she aborts before 30?
Wena you are here making noise, I can imagine the que in China for abortion so stop this insanity
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Aug 17, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

I was petrified of him but eventually found the courage to leave him.
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@Romorseful

Big up girl, that you had the courage to leave the drug dealer before he "peddled" with your life.

Don't be hard on yourself dear, you did what you had to do under the circumstances. Seek help to work through your guilt and all the best for the future.

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Aug 17, 2012

Limpopoist

You just met a man ,Then forgot about CONDOM immediately or even Pecy sledge Take time to know him...101 principle of relationship....
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Aug 17, 2012

2nevvy4u

MommaC
You can't un-ring a bell.

Maybe now you will understand why CONTRACEPTIVES are available?
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morning mama,the thing is she was enjoying drug money and saw no reason to prevent because money is there
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Aug 17, 2012

WordofGod

come to Jesus
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Aug 17, 2012

CYBORICO

dont see anything wrong with abortion, the righeus people will say itas murder, but i disagree, pregnancy is human to be not yet human so if u forsee troubles with your pregnancy then hell yeah, make the decision. Though I do think u will need a bit of professional help to make sure u emotionaly and physically recover from this odeal

my problem is u telling us why u left him, we realy dont care, we r just glad u saw him for who he was and left, as to exposing his dealing? dont know, to me u r exposing yourself aswell, u fell in luv with a dealer and before u could know it u were already pregnant?????? u must be the type that will open up for anything that has a good bank balance
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Aug 17, 2012

mtololo

@Remorseful,

Are you not the person who dumped an aborted child, a child found on Monday in my location? If it was you. you are cruel.
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Aug 17, 2012

mmasbono

Hey dear you need to forgive yourself first then confess about it since well your a christian ...
then pray to God for forgiveness ..HE will forgive you,....No one is perfect in lyf & we all learn frm our mistakes..man can make u hate lyf smtms..when coming to this thing ya BANNA u must nyathela kancane xhem....otherwiseeeee@ !!!!
HOPE YOU WILL GET OVER IT SOON@
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Aug 17, 2012

MommaC

2nevvy4u

I just get sick and tired of the same stupidity, over and over again.
If people want to play big kid games then they should take big kid precautions or be prepared to face the consequences. We've had female birth control tablets since the 1950;s and condoms since the 1800s. Herbal abortion has been practised since we first found herbs ....... but they still whine and pretend that this is a new thing.
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Aug 17, 2012

hlakolr

Dont crucify urself ,4give urself and move on. Remember no sin is small or big . U have a chance to make things right and God gave u that chance if he wanted to punish u might have not come out alive after the abortion. Everything happens for a reason
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Aug 17, 2012

Kabelo10

@Bumboklaat
Let's see?! you k!lled and innocent baby. You feel bad about it and you want us to feel sorry for you?
Piece of advice sister. you might as well k!ll yourself because I just don't feel sorry for you. you made your bed now lie in it.
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Don't take him seriously, every family have a child who is nothing but trouble in the family. So Bumboklaat is in this case.

Just ask forgiveness from GOD, he is the answer to all the troubles. He holds key for every doors. Goodluck sesi
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Aug 17, 2012

Boef

Its very disturbing because u will blame urself, however u were selfish. U cud have had the Baby and pretended as if it was someones child. Choices, choices
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Aug 17, 2012

Mamabear

Deal with your choices... deal with it!!!! A DRUG DEALER??? really??
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Aug 17, 2012

MOTHUBANNYO

I don't know if you knew before that he was a drug dealer before you leave the relationship
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Aug 17, 2012

Blackstone.lebs

Sit your parents down and let it out, they're your first and last line of comfort. Everybody else is in the middle, including DEAR DUDU.
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Aug 17, 2012

Maranatha

I don't think in stories like this comments should be allowed; i mean we are not God.
God is the Only person who Judges not us. No one is perfect we all go through our own bad experiences. We all go through our own challenges in life.

We have no right to point fingers at her; i hope and pray that she does not read all this comments if she really wants to recover. People will always comment in good and bad things to bring you down.

She is on her way to become a better person; go for it my sister...stand up remove the dust and go forward. You have taken a first step already by telling your pain..go to the doctor and for counselling; you are now out of jail. Go to church and pray very hard especially when you are alone God will protect you always and He will open your ways my sister.

God has forgiven you already by seeing your mistake and recognising it; then be a better person than before; never look back; dissapoint the devil cause he was laughing when you were going through all that; now the time is over for fun.

The devil does not want to see people happy; he wants to sadness in the world; he want to see every bad things happening like divorce, hatred, jealous, disrepect and many others that we see this days; he is fighting with all his power to destroy the world by entering into our homes, minds and using our weakness to destroy us. The world need to wake up and smell the coffee, time is coming to an end..[Mathew chapter 24]
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Aug 17, 2012

Maz

I'm not going to judge you lady, you did what you had to do under the circumstances.

But what I can't understand is why would you put yourself at risk by having unprotected $ex. Why do our sisters continue doing this to themselves?

Is it something to do with self esteem, or a need to be loved and wanted.

Can somebody explain this to me please!
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Aug 17, 2012

maneater

@cocolucho
For all those pro-lifers tell me this, if you knew that the child would become a mass murderer would you still be against the abortion.
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what a stupid question to ask! no child come out to become a murderer. a person becomes a murderer after they have come out, and its mostly as a result of an upbringing and what they are expesed to as they grow up.
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Aug 17, 2012

Marquez

"A person(s) whose mind is not made up is never at peace"....
This is the reason why you did something you don't wanna do because you have "many minds".
Go get help to people who are wise not those that will condemn you but those that will make you see the light.
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Aug 17, 2012

Uncle-Lu

WordofGod
come to Jesus


Amen
Jesus is waiting for you my dear with open arms
Dudu is just making money on her personal opinions
Life has no formula but we learn from our mistakes or experiences


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Aug 17, 2012

MsHollyHerb

angivumelani ne abortion, but i do understanded kunezimo that will make 1 do it, i feel sorry for her mina shame, clearly she wasnt thinking straight that time, i for 1 prefare umuntu who does it than lo ozoyilahle, or angayiniki uthando oluyidingayo,
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Aug 17, 2012

Makhosini0408

@Maranatha

Well articulated. Much respect. Thank you. I guess some of us forgot that "He who is without sin must cast the first stone."
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Aug 17, 2012

Mosquer

Jesus said let those who are weary come to me.
His yoke is light
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ ALL

GOOD MORNING LOVIES.


@ Makhosini

100% right my brother, what I like is she was brave enough to leave this guy. I can feel your burden my sister but if you throw it to God yena will make them lite. God will give you a second chance.
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Aug 17, 2012

MommaC

maneater
cocolucho

.... aah the old nature vs nurture question.
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Aug 17, 2012

Makhosini0408

Thanxs SWEETYK
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

NeoBaBe
That is the bed u made, now lie on it AHHA, what r we suppode to do, we hv our demons too u know! Pls OHh leave us! Dont make me tell ur druggie boyfreind coz he will hunt u down n sort u for killing his baby!

WHATCH OUT OHH, the druggie is cming for u!
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Shoooo iya neh, comment ya gago!!!
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

Makhosini0408
Thanxs SWEETYK
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My Pleasure.
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Aug 17, 2012

pierre2012

Sorry my sister, but some girls are difficult to understand, 6 months with a person you hardly know and you are already pregnant? Anyway seek counselling. I hope u did tests for HIV and other diseases within the 6 months. All the best!!
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Aug 17, 2012

Stimela

its your fault you baby killer, u murdered an innocent soul, you only thought of yourself.
i always listen to Bhekumuzi Luthuli's song that go's
"ngikhalel'abatwan'abafa bengalwanga"
"ngikhalela abantwan'abalwahlwa ezitamukokweni"
"ngikhalel'abantwan abafa bengaxabananga namuntu"

"inhliziyo enecala ngeke ikuthole ukuphumula emhlabeni, iyohlal'ikhumbula ikhumbul'amacala"

you will never find peace until you give your life to Jesus Christ, you baby murder.
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Aug 17, 2012

PAPABRAVO

wish these kids had a chance to speak before terminatination.....
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Bumboklaat
Let's see?! you k!lled and innocent baby. You feel bad about it and you want us to feel sorry for you?
Piece of advice sister. you might as well k!ll yourself because I just don't feel sorry for you. you made your bed now lie in it.
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Emmmm I think she k*illed an embryo dude not a child...or is an embryo classified as a human being nowadays?
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

PAPABRAVO
wish these kids had a chance to speak before terminatination.....
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Aug 17, 2012

Naked

not to judge ,forgive urself sister and learn from your mistakes ,good thing you managed to break loose from the abusive relationship ,many women struggle to come out of such relationships. first step is counselling
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Aug 17, 2012

Stimela

cocolucho
@bumboklaat
Why dont you k!ll yourself. This woman made a choice about her body and the life that she wants to lead, sue her if it hurts you so much.
For all those pro-lifers tell me this, if you knew that the child would become a mass murderer would you still be against the abortion.
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coco are you nuts, you sound like someone who has killed an innocent baby before. look here sister this woment did not make a choice about her body, she made a choice to murder an innocent child.
finish and klaar.

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Aug 17, 2012

BishopFT

Uhm...here is the part that shocks me and correct me if I am wrong?? She had an abortion of the first child so then why not USE PROTECTION SO THAT YOU DO NOT GET THE SECOND CHILD?? Does this woman live under a rock somewhere I mean really, She had an abortion with the first one PREVENT yourself from having the NEXT one that simple!! #BlacksWithNoBrains
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ BishopFT

Read the article again my brother.
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Hosh6
Bumboklaat
Let's see?! you k!lled and innocent baby. You feel bad about it and you want us to feel sorry for you?
Piece of advice sister. you might as well k!ll yourself because I just don't feel sorry for you. you made your bed now lie in it.
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Emmmm I think she k*illed an embryo dude not a child...or is an embryo classified as a human being nowadays
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errrr, she killled an embryo or foetus which was was going to develop to be a human being someday, so she killled a human being. If that wasnt the case she wouldnt have wrote to sis dudu feeling guilty..no matter ho wmuch we suger coat it,truth is,she killled an innocent baby...
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

SWEETYK
@ BishopFT

Read the article again my brother.
****************************************Why don't you correct him ausi mistress ka your red pen?
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Aug 17, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

@Hosh6

Bumboklaat
Let's see?! you k!lled and innocent baby. You feel bad about it and you want us to feel sorry for you?
Piece of advice sister. you might as well k!ll yourself because I just don't feel sorry for you. you made your bed now lie in it.
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Emmmm I think she k*illed an embryo dude not a child...or is an embryo classified as a human being nowadays
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True, it a zygote (blob of tissue)
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

her first step is to forgive herself and go for counselling. we all make mistakes and its how we move from them that matters the most. She did tthe right thing by leaving the abusive relationship which most women fail to do.

Tsar - unjani ?

Sweety - heyy!


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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Hosh6

Bumboklaat
Let's see?! you k!lled and innocent baby. You feel bad about it and you want us to feel sorry for you?
Piece of advice sister. you might as well k!ll yourself because I just don't feel sorry for you. you made your bed now lie in it.
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Emmmm I think she k*illed an embryo dude not a child...or is an embryo classified as a human being nowadays
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True, it a zygote (blob of tissue)
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....................which was going to develop into a what??????????????
then why is she feeling guilty?
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Let me get this right...an embryo is a human being?
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

..lol its not. but it was going to grow to be a human being? am i lying? or it was going to develop to a dog?
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
I believe a foetus develops into a human being I stand to be corrected though.
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

okay. might be wrong too. what then does an embryo develop into? a foetus neh? which then develops into a human being....*also stand to be corrected*
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

H6 - IF its not a "human being" why then is she feeling guilty?
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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

Afternoon All!!

Hala Hala my punanis@Galfrend, Sweetyk, @eKapa, Spekkie,
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Bad thing you did girl but who am i to judge you? Take all unto the Lord and He forgives all, Noma Zibovu Ziyaxolelwa!!
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Skopokopo

Elo,

Galfrend- Hi ma darly, njani
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ Galfrend

Hala hala hala babes.
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

ekapa - my day just got better,*smiling* ndiright sana and wena?

Skopo - hey chikita...lol why call us punanis kodwa Nkosi yam..lol
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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

Galfrend
okay. might be wrong too. what then does an embryo develop into? a foetus neh? which then develops into a human being....*also stand to be corrected*
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You are right my frend!!! According to the little knowledge i have frendo, a foetus at twelve weeks has a heart beat hence abortion is not allowed past twelve weeks. After twelve weeks a person is killing a soul that is alive
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Skopo - True friendo, we tend to suger coat things to make them sound not as bad as they are,but truth is abortion is killling. Not judging though,simple pointing things out.
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

why smiling wena nunuza wam..ncooncoo maan

gister so?
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

Skopokopo
Afternoon All!!

Hala Hala my punanis@Galfrend, Sweetyk, @eKapa, Spekkie,
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Kikikikikikikikikikikiki wa re re di eng frendo? Hello lala how are you today?

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

ekapa - kikikikiki undenza ndimoyizele wena shukela wam
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Aug 17, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

@Galfrend

Yes the zygote would have turned into a foetus (should the pregnacy continued without any glitches).

We cannot comdem or comment but rather be objective and rational. She feels guilty like any other person would feel guilty after doing what "society deems wrong".


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Aug 17, 2012

MsKinkyakaKamaSutra

@Galfrend
..lol its not. but it was going to grow to be a human being? am i lying? or it was going to develop to a dog?
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Very funny but no need for sarcasm LOL!

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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
You are right it develops into a human being it is not a developed human being if you know what I mean.In your opinion why do they call a baby a premature if it's born before 9 months?I think the reason for that is because you can call a foetus a human being after 9 months.

As to why she's feeling guilty,I won't be able to respond to that...she's the one feeling guilty not me.She'll be in a better position to help you in that regards.
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

gister mahobane izolo ek waag en waag jy se nie bye-bye eKapa...why udlala ngama films wam

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Sweetyk - bhwahahahahahahaaa yaz uyadelela uSkopo a re re dipunani tsa gage ..hahahahahaa!!!
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Again are you saying our government has legalised murder?Remember k*illing of a human being is murder.
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

eKapa

Sure sure lovies u grend mare?
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

ekapa - kikikiki nawe uhlala udlala ngama films wam,u stood me up on our date ...

H6 - Okay dude, I get your point .

MsKinky - I like your response " society deems wrong" - Point taken.
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

SWEETYK

always good and tasty net sous pap n veils...fede?
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Hosh6
Galfrend
Again are you saying our government has legalised murder?Remember k*illing of a human being is murder
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Wena do you think it legalised what....life?
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

Galfrend
Sweetyk - bhwahahahahahahaaa yaz uyadelela uSkopo a re re dipunani tsa gage ..hahahahahaa!!!
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tltltltltltltltltltlttltltlttltltltl kikikikikikikikikkikikikikikkiki imagine chomi tltllltltltltltltllt kikikikikikikiki go neneng ke tshega ga ke nagana taba eee ke picturer puniza le eKapa le Speke ke dipunza le bone iya neh.LOL
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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

Galfrend
Sweetyk - bhwahahahahahahaaa yaz uyadelela uSkopo a re re dipunani tsa gage ..hahahahahaa!!!
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Kikikikikikikiki angideleli frendo kikkikikiki Its lov inside me, i associate you with something big in life kkikikikikikikikikikik
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend - Skopokopo

gister le tlwile gore Spekzo nd eKapa ba tyhuna party?
free drinks if nifike nathi

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Skopo - tjo tjo tjo!!! *claps thrice* some kind of love hey, usibiza ngovagina bhwahahahahahahahahaaaa yoh i cant stop laughing...poor ekapa and spekie
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Aug 17, 2012

Spekepeke

M too beautiful to be a punanzo

dumalang have a great day mens'e, my weekends starts now
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Aug 17, 2012

Mmaditopo

Sisi, what you did was wrong, but i believe that you have learnt a lesson. We all make mistakes and no one walking this earth is perfect, hence we can't judge others. Many women are having abortions, but the difference is that they don't tell anyone. What i like is the fact that you are showing remorse. Pray, forgive yourself and move on.
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

eKapa - ikuphi leyo party and whats the theme?
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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

Spekepeke
M too beautiful to be a punanzo
dumalang have a great day mens'e, my weekends starts now
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Kikikikikikikikkiikikki Hala spekkie my lovy

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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

SWEETYK

neneng ke tshega ga ke nagana taba eee ke picturer puniza le eKapa le Speke ke dipunza le bone iya neh.LOL
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i can imagine : eKapa n Spekzo doing Durban July Race on top of those punanza's..lol
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

at Spekzo's house...Theme un-dress to k!LL

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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

eKapa-
Galfrend - Skopokopo

gister le tlwile gore Spekzo nd eKapa ba tyhuna party?
free drinks if nifike nathi
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Kuphi? Spekkie? you know what i mean.
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Spekie - hie and bye....

eKapa - phendula, im leaving in 15 mins time.
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@eKapa

Ke monate Atchaar frend.

@ ALL

Guys if I understood the lady right, she said she did this because she didn't want any contact with this guy. She regrets what she did and guys stress ke enemy ya tlhaloganyo, what she was thinking ke moleko ole, then kamo tlaaa she's pregnant. Modimo o re "re tshwarelane ra 7x700x7.
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

Always,always..u leaving,u leaving...hamba Eskom load shading..On en Off
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

ekapa - lol will be there my dear

guys byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee have a lovelyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy weekend. Love y'all mwaahh mwahhhhh!!
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

eKapa-
Galfrend

Always,always..u leaving,u leaving...hamba Eskom load shading..On en Off
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hai bo sthandwa sam, ufika late always.
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Aug 17, 2012

Makhosini0408

BishopFT
#BlacksWithNoBrains
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I am battling to understand why this lady's woes translated into this outburst? I did not see her race and what led you to the conclusion that she is black? She is 25, remorseful and from Benoni.
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ Lepara ThePresident

Good day my President.
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

Hosh6
SWEETYK
@ BishopFT

Read the article again my brother.
****************************************Why don't you correct him ausi mistress ka your red pen?
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Ke kopa o seke wa mphaphela neh?
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@SWEETYK
@ Lepara ThePresident

Good day my President.
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Hallo lol

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

ekapa - Im back dearest.........
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@sowetan, your ICT people are very slow. why did you censore my comment after a long time. And what was wrong with that comments?
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Aug 17, 2012

Spekepeke

Galfrend,ekapisto,skopie,sweetyk

Enjoy you weekend mense,


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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

LeparaThePresident
@sowetan, your ICT people are very slow. why did you censore my comment after a long time. And what was wrong with that comments?
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lol askies,frustrating neh?
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Spekepeke
Galfrend,ekapisto,skopie,sweetyk

Enjoy you weekend mense
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u really want us to nejoy, u telling us for the 2nd time....lol enjoy urs too dear
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

enjoy..................ooooooooops
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Aug 17, 2012

Spekepeke

@
galfrend
WHEN did i say that ? anyway did u mangae to fix the tring tring
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Spekepeke
M too beautiful to be a punanzo

dumalang have a great day mens'e, my weekends starts now
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remember this comment?

can u imangine bathi they sent it to pretoria,lol the waiting is killing me. will get it probably on monday or tuesday
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Galfrend
LeparaThePresident
@sowetan, your ICT people are very slow. why did you censore my comment after a long time. And what was wrong with that comments?
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lol askies,frustrating neh?
+++++++++++++++++Galfrend o phala dilatalata tse @Sowetan ICT, ga ba ne le courtesy of seending an apology after people had read my comment and then they 3ras3d it. Go tshwana fela o ka tlogela bana ba raloka ka mollo, when the fire start to burn, you warn them. Waitse o ka m0th0 a ba direla tea ya trinco.
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ Speke

Bye enjoya le wena.
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

SWEETYK
Hosh6
SWEETYK
@ BishopFT

Read the article again my brother.
****************************************Why don't you correct him ausi mistress ka your red pen?
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Ke kopa o seke wa mphaphela neh?
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Askies?Nna phaphela wena geez o tlhapile ko tlase today?
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Hosh6
Galfrend
Again are you saying our government has legalised murder?Remember k*illing of a human being is murder.
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You should start to watch TV my brother. There is k **illing, murder, homicide.This thinhs arehaving the same results but are explained differently.
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

LeparaThePresident
If a person k*ills another human being intentionally what do you call that?

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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

Hosh6
SWEETYK
Hosh6
SWEETYK
@ BishopFT

Read the article again my brother.
****************************************Why don't you correct him ausi mistress ka your red pen?
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Ke kopa o seke wa mphaphela neh?
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Askies?Nna phaphela wena geez o tlhapile ko tlase today?
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Ke o kgalemela tuu!! o seke wa batla go mbora wena Ralemina ke wena.
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Hosh6
LeparaThePresident
If a person k*ills another human being intentionally what do you call that?
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Murder.
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Hosh6
And if Korean soldierr shoots the alqaedas on the boarder of Pakistan and Bangaledesh what do you call it?
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

LeparaThePresident
Why would the soldier be shooting?Does he injure or k*ill them be specific bru please.
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Aug 17, 2012

MyPot

drug dealers wont left you alive xame, girls dont do good choices, u have that poor boy(sizwe) in yo village who need you up and down, but u running for drug dealers......mxm, boring
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

LOL!!! YAH bloggers,....i miss cl!ck in moments like this.
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Is he (click) the one chowing you?
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

H6 - why? and if he is?
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
If he is I wana wrestle you from him or wrestle him from you which ever way wanthola?
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Aug 17, 2012

2nevvy4u

MyPot
drug dealers wont left you alive xame, girls dont do good choices,
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kikikikikikikiki im sure they saw your comment and take it to use kikikikikikiki
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

H6 - after wrestling then what?
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

Galfrend
H6 - why? and if he is?
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O (h6) dwa.dla v@ar ye.na, wa phaph@ oo frend nkare o tla ka his f00t f00t nons3ns3 moo and ngi zo khul.uma isiZutho nye.ge a tha.nde. Nga.thi se ngi ya kwat@ ma.nje mgani. lol
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

Elo ma-luv, im full now
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Then you'll be mine my fish cake
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

eKapa-
Galfrend

Elo ma-luv, im full now
********************************you must stop eating motogo ka legapu o tla thubega dimpa son.
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Aug 17, 2012

Msho

#### I can cope anymore###
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Life goes on
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Sweety hahahahahaa you always killl me ka se Zutho my friend kikikikiki I can see you are angry now

omunye uthi ama drug dealers wont LEFT you alive LMAO....

eKapa - what did you have for lunch?

H6 - ..."Then you'll be mine my fish cake
and then after that?
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

Hosh6
LeparaThePresident
Why would the soldier be shooting?Does he injure or k*ill them be specific bru please.
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shoot them to k88illing?

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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
We will make babies and be a happy family etc etc
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

there cant be 2 Bulls in one kraal so its me or him?

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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

Galfrend
omunye uthi ama drug dealers wont LEFT you alive LMAO....
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Wa mpolaya Galfrend jong. Ke mang that person.


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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

LeparaThePresident
What is the intent of the soldier?
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

H6 - interesting ...but I will have to pass. im taken my brother.
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ Galfrend

Kikikikikikikiki tltltltlttltltltltltltltltltltll I'm angry maan frend, Hoshkosh uya ngi qala uyazi, athi mina ngi ngumistress nge red pen imagine frend nxa!!
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Taken by who?I want you to become my cyber wife and subsequently my real wife.
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

Hosh6
LeparaThePresident
What is the intent of the soldier?
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K*ill

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

eKapa - awu my love you know its you and you alone...

ThePresident - hahahahahahaa someone in here hahahahaa
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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

Hala hala hala im tired maan
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

LeparaThePresident
But bru if you shoot with the intent to k*ill and someone dies that's murder.
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Galfrend
ThePresident - hahahahahahaa someone in here hahahahaa
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I really wonder what will gogo say if a fumana gore english is still difficult. Gogo will say WTF!!!

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

SWEETYK
@ Galfrend

Kikikikikikikiki tltltltlttltltltltltltltltltltll I'm angry maan frend, Hoshkosh uya ngi qala uyazi, athi mina ngi ngumistress nge red pen imagine frend nxa!!
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kwakwakwaaaaaaa hoshkosh yoh my tummy kikikikikikiki askies lala

H6 - Like i said, thanx but no thanx I already have a cyber husband and we are working on becoming a real married couple. and he doesnt like it when i talk to you wabona?
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Aug 17, 2012

Skopokopo

SWEETYK
Galfrend
H6 - why? and if he is?
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O (h6) dwa.dla v@ar ye.na, wa phaph@ oo frend nkare o tla ka his f00t f00t nons3ns3 moo and ngi zo khul.uma isiZutho nye.ge a tha.nde. Nga.thi se ngi ya kwat@ ma.nje mgani. lol
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Hai no no frendo, stick to what you speak best kikikikikiki not this kikikikikikik
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Hosh6
LeparaThePresident
But bru if you shoot with the intent to k*ill and someone dies that's murder.
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Not according to some legal interpretattions, that is why i said they are three, k*illing, homicide, Murder,
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

LeparaThePresident
@Galfrend
ThePresident - hahahahahahaa someone in here hahahahaa
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I really wonder what will gogo say if a fumana gore english is still difficult. Gogo will say WTF!!!
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Sekgoawa my president...

yah bloggers always make my day ...I wish to see you all oneday,even the ones who h.ate me.
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

LeparaThePresident
What is homicide bru?
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
I don't mind sharing mi love so long as we make an arrangement and stick to it im cool.
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Hosh6

why ufuna i-Meddy yam? why ufuna ukunyonyoba?
why ufuna o tshwara pilo yaka ka le tsoho nje?

ubuya kuphi?

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

H6 - Well Sharing is a no no no for me. I do have a single twin sister though..what do you think?
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Aug 17, 2012

LeparaThePresident

@Hosh6
LeparaThePresident
What is homicide bru?
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Watch SABC 3 ka laboraro and will explain it on monday. Now my mind e tletse wisky fela and ke tshwanetse go feta ko Capital Inn ya Stanza Bopape,
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
I won't settle for anybody besides you mi love?But on second though as she humble like me?Wena you argue with men that's not a good sign it means we will forever be on each other's throat.
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

eKapa-
Go jerk off dumbass
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

eKapa-
Hosh6

why ufuna i-Meddy yam? why ufuna ukunyonyoba?
why ufuna o tshwara pilo yaka ka le tsoho nje?

ubuya kuphi?

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love it when your fight for your wom@n
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

Hosh6
Galfrend
I won't settle for anybody besides you mi love?But on second though as she humble like me?Wena you argue with men that's not a good sign it means we will forever be on each other's throat
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awu you want the one who will always agree to everything you say,,,,haikhona more reason for me run *takes off like Caster Semenya*

...and dont you be telling my man that he is a dumbass wena...thats my heart you messing up with
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Anything for you princess
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

make up your mind, do you take my hand and we go home?

or do you take Hosh6's Arteritis hand and go to old age home?

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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

eKapa
I'm going to re-arrange your face boy...you the one dating Galfrend?You better run son go to exile or else ek gaan jou donnor mi laaitie.
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Aug 17, 2012

Hosh6

Galfrend
Have a blessed weekend mi lady I'm only a phone call away should you encounter any hassles mi love and I'll sort em for you.
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

eKapa-
Galfrend

make up your mind, do you take my hand and we go home?

or do you take Hosh6's Arteritis hand and go to old age home?
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lets go home hun *holds your hand* june,huly,.june,july,june,july off we go
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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

bye y'all,its baby making weather this side,so yall know what im gonna get up to...lol


byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Cheers 2 the freaken weekend!
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

kikikikiki..june,july..Lol do you realy hav june-july bum?

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Aug 17, 2012

babyfats

bye galfrnd n hav a luvly weekend
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Aug 17, 2012

xinile1

firstly, you must pray for forgiveness which is forgive yourself, secondly, stop condemning yourself. lastly, confide to someone that you trust, actually you have diclosed by asking for advise to Sisi Dud regarding it. i don't judge you we all fall in some trap, but get over it.
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Aug 17, 2012

babyfats

abantu babulala abantwana thina sibafuna desparate so yerrrrrrrrrrrr ngabe wangipha yena loyomntwana yazi na ngazikhulisela mina yena shame......... Mxm mxm
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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

babyfats

are you Male/Female.? ...sira's Q?

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Aug 17, 2012

Galfrend

babyfats - bye baby gal......enjoy yours too :))

ekapa - why ubuza ubaby fats ukuthi ufemale or not,yabo?


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Aug 17, 2012

eKapa-

Galfrend

she wants a sper'm doner
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Aug 17, 2012

SWEETYK

@ ALL LOVIES

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee and nice weekend don't drink neh @eKapa.
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Aug 17, 2012

Bumboklaat

Kabelo10
@Bumboklaat
Let's see?! you k!lled and innocent baby. You feel bad about it and you want us to feel sorry for you?
Piece of advice sister. you might as well k!ll yourself because I just don't feel sorry for you. you made your bed now lie in it.
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Don't take him seriously, every family have a child who is nothing but trouble in the family. So Bumboklaat is in this case.

Just ask forgiveness from GOD, he is the answer to all the troubles. He holds key for every doors. Goodluck sesi
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Mosonoagao sani, ke sure o nyakile o eba abortion jou gat. how dare o nkakele so? ke lena ba le sapotang dirathane lele so? TSEK!
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Aug 17, 2012

Bumboklaat

@cocolucho
@bumboklaat
Why dont you k!ll yourself. This woman made a choice about her body and the life that she wants to lead, sue her if it hurts you so much.
For all those pro-lifers tell me this, if you knew that the child would become a mass murderer would you still be against the abortion
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di.fe.be tsao tshwana le wena di bolela so, nnyw@na yagao e lapile ka dimpa tse o di ntshitseng ebile e tswile di silver stripes le seshwapha. fotsek mosonwammao. wora ke bonkisi eo tshwereng o ny0ba leke di hobo!
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Aug 18, 2012

Khuzw_Th

Really who you are to judge the child of God,We all make mistakes and asikho isono esikhulu kunesinye..Jesus loves us as we are sin or unsinned,Just forget about what people say and ask Gods forgiveness m sure He will forgive you.people will talk and talk while they are also sinners...Repent to God he will never leave you...
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Aug 21, 2012

Flemza

Stupid woman now u want us to sympathize with you , why were not using a condom in the first place
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Aug 22, 2012

JB$

Learn to close your legs hun
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Oct 3, 2012

MTSHOMPERO

Askies dear

You had your reasons for doing it and thank goodness they are YOUR reasons and not someone elses, we live in a world where people are quick to judge other people for "SINS" and crimes done against oneself, whereelse at that very time we are all sinners irregardless of the actual SIN be it adaultry/lying/sex before marriage etc....the lesson here is that you did it, learn from it and not repeat it. You did this to yourself and not anyone else so pick yourself up and ask God to forgive you as all humans do and move one with your life.
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