MY HUSBAND and I were married for 15 years. We have a 16-year-old son. A year ago my husband told me he wanted a divorce. It was totally unexpected and hit me like a bolt of lightning.
Wow i feel for you my sister, The problem with us women is that we love tooo much but for he fact that you gave it all for your relationship just shows that you are a real woman and for that you must not blame yourself for what happend, He's got his own life and you have your own life, to me it sounds like you lost yourself to this man when you married him which is why you are not able to face life without him.
Women should never loose their individuality when they get married so that when a man cheats or wants a divorce you will not be depressed let alone stressed. This is some of the things that happens in life and we need to accept and move on, yes it's heartbreaking but it's not the end of the world. The new lady might be young or as beautiful as you say but that has got nothing to do with you. This is now your time to recover the real YOU, and you'll be amazed as to how much you have lost while you were married to him. Get up and face the world - there is no time to feel sorry for yourself this is the time to go to gym, make yourself beautiful and enjoy life to the fullest.
There is so much to life than maariage. Get up there is no time to waste. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
HALFWISE
I feel you pain, young will always be beautiful but if the love is gone, what's the use, move on, maybe U&I will meet one day. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LMMokone
Just be strong for you and your son - Believe me time heals Report Abuse
Life has its ups and down remember this too shall pass. You are a very special person who deserve much better than this. Understand one thing though there is a season for every thing under the sun. Do not hurm yourself. The reason we write to you is to show you that not only do you have the family and friends you know you have us all (Sowetan Family) to count on. Believe me this too shall pass. You are more beautiful than you think and your son adores you as a loving mother. Be strong and have faith in God.
Shame I feel your pain dear however find peace in the fact that he was man enough to level with you,he was honest he didnt go behind your back treating you like a fool and lying and he still cares you were after all his wife and are the mother of his child but you cannot make someone stay when their heart says otherwise.Someday somehow you'll heal and move on its best that he left to be with the one who holds his heart instead of forcing to stay just to resent you.You cant fight agaist that unfortunately all you can do is wish him well try to focus on your wellbeing and your child stay strong and take it one day at a time.Like they say sometimes loving someone doesn't always mean keeping them. Sometimes, it also means you have to let them go...Just let go hun let it go Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
mambozana
Trust me my dear he will one day mic u because that little lady will milk him like hell and cheat on him with younger guys. She will offer him only 20 and mic the 80 that u gave him for the whole 15 years. Sometimes you ladies are to be blamed on what we men tend to do, you become less interested in many things.....you relax after marriage....you get fat....you dont show those bums anymore..... Please go to bed naked everyday so that he can feel your warmth and your heartbeat as well. but what can we say men will always be men. Just move on my dear sister and and take care of yourself and some guy will notice you out there. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
truthhurt
You should have tried Korobela, it works all the time, i use it myself, i get the best results.
The grass is not always greener on the other side be strong hun time heals Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MATWEETWEE
hard luck lady
but its better because he told you the truth alike when he cheated on Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JB$
@mambozana
I agree with you some women just dress as if they are going hunting Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Sisi123
Thats the problem women have when they get married they think all is well and relax. Get up and pull yourself together, go to the gym and make yourself beautiful. What he has done to you he will do it again to this other girl don't worry. He will regret what he has done to you and you when the time comes you won't be available you will be taken by someone who will appreciate you and treat you right. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Wing_Nut
“Don't speak negatively about his father to him.”
Huh?
And just why not? Did Dad ever consider the well being of HIS own flesh & blood: his son????
Here is a Dad who has broken a family, destroyed his son’s “grounding”, brought untold misery, probably not only on his wife & son, but immediate family too..........all for the sake of another woman?
And just what guarantee has he that this new relationship is going to work?
Is this not WHY there is so much discord in today’s generation?
And what really p’s me off is how we all stand around at the church when this kind of person passes on and we talk utter rubbish of how good, kind, etc a person he (or she) was.
BS!
We are perpetuating a LIE! Time for some social moral compass!
Time to call a spade a spade! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
sarmologadi
God and time will heal ur pain sister, be strong for ur son and remember God loves you and he will see you through it all..... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Buc4life
G Morning All
Ladies; when we get married, lets not loose ourselves. Lets take care of ourselves by making ourselves beautiful. Often, married women tend to think that "he is mine. I wear his ring." We are too busy cleaning the house, and taking care of him and the kids that we forget about ourselves. Re apara dikhiba whole day when we doing chores, and forget that he needs to see that sexy lady he married. In bed, we always have headaches or sleep with cycling shorts so that he does not even get to touch you cause you are tired. We are driving men away. I always say that if he leaves, he must know what he is leaving behind. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mellow
mambozana
Sometimes you ladies are to be blamed on what we men tend to do, you become less interested in many things.....you relax after marriage....you get fat....you dont show those bums anymore..... Please go to bed naked everyday so that he can feel your warmth and your heartbeat as well. but what can we say men will always be men. Just move on my dear sister and and take care of yourself and some guy will notice you out there.
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So you saying the only glue to marriage is sex? Just rocking up your bed everynight looking like a s.lut? After damn freaking 15yrs you'll leave her because she has gained couple of xtra kilos and wears ouma-kry koud bonga to bed? Sad to be married hey Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Lacosta
wen love is gone is gone....the husband was brave to tell u, i'm still battling to tell my galfriend how i'm no longer in love with her and its bin 5 yrs now. damn Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
PAPABRAVO
Truth be told...beware ladies,these young ladies are gearing up for the fight.
relax and feel the heat or gear up yourself and take the fight back#that goes for gents as well. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mellow
Really ppl a woman's home just got shattered and without any information other than whats given here you blaming her so what if she is a type to go to gym 3 times a week, kept her home looked after hubby's sexual needs morning noon and night and sometimes snacks in between during office hrs? Made sure there was home cooked meal every day clean house, greeted hubby with kiss and beer and a bj elke dag tendered to his needs is it enough to make any man stay even when they dont want to? Lets not blame the wife/woman always the sooner sistas start taking pride in their own strength the better why must we look up to men to define us, he screw up then it must probably be something the woman did like really now how fckd up is that? How many times have we heard of ppl who cheated and they said they didnt know why they did it? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mellow
Lacosta
5yrs? the sooner you let her go the better you being cruel now staying out of responsibility is not gonna help anyone next thing she'll be demanding a ring and what you gonna do? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
Lacosta
wen love is gone is gone....the husband was brave to tell u, i'm still battling to tell my galfriend how i'm no longer in love with her and its bin 5 yrs now. damn
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its pricks like you......y cant you tell her???? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MGEEZ
@MommaC
Would she have been happier if the other woman was older or less attractive?
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I can not believe you said that, wena sometimes neh? good morning to you!!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
THEmadame2BBBEEE
"It was totally unexpected and hit me like a bolt of lightning"
...............really now, what happened to your senses, i bet you knew that this was coming your way Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
mambozana
@Mellow
My sister, it does not actually mean when you go to bed naked you inviting sex, but atleast that moment of feeling each other's body plays an important role in a marriage. Atleast a short night dress but underneath there must be nothing and believe me or not even if you both tired, that will bring you closer together for the rest of the night. And when you wake up you can wear your heavy towel gowns as much as you like and gossip nomama wase next door. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Le ka ba le ngwana a be a be 16 years le soka le mohlahlamisa,mohlomong ke lona lebaka leo ausi wa rona.Nehang banna bana ba tsebe ho thaba hoba tabakgolo ho rona bongata ke lelapa e seng lelapa la ngwana ya le mong. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
we have one side of the story here and dont know how to advice you!! Devorce is not something which just comes up without any reason and marriage as well the same applies. I believe for every action there is always an opposite action to have a system balanced. Its either you cheated on him thought he would never know or you have neglected your sexy body and thought now you safe, confortable and have all you wanted...if this are some of the reasons for your husband to divorce, the he had reasons to leave you....men are allover the world and others we like used toys. Report Abuse
Morning :)
Friend of mine's hubby left her for a hippo with a face like a bulldog - didn't seem to make my friend any happier. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mxaueht
I admire your strength and courage. It proves how strong and outrageous woman your are. It might take a while, but it will come to pass. You cannot get over the person (who remained important part of your life for more than 15 years) over night. You bound to cry and think of good time you both had, which will make you sad and feel like a looser. But I think that is part of the healing process and you will get over this in time.....You are one hell of a woman who does not leave in fantasy but face the reality with boldness and tears in her eyes. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Letitgo
No situation is permanent, It shall be well with you. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mellow
mambozana
you telling me sharing a bed with someone everynight despite what she's wearing wont make you feel the closenees you want? And who's to be blamed for that? Are you making any efforts to draw her close to you hold her cuddle and whatever? Or all you see is extra unwanted kilos etc. dont make excuses I think your first comment was clear enough dear well to me of course Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Lacosta
Mellow
5yrs? the sooner you let her go the better you being cruel now staying out of responsibility is not gonna help anyone next thing she'll be demanding a ring and what you gonna do?
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imd
its pricks like you......y cant you tell her????
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i wish i was a brave as this guy......i tried being an arsehole but she doesn't seem to see that. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
cocolucho
Suprise suprise!!...what more do we expect from that species they call men.
I'm sorry for what you're going through and this has reaffirmed my belief that marriage is nothing but a waste of time until you're 50 years old and want someone to grow old with. The best thing that you could do for yourself is to move on with your life. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
papamasentlelebonolo
O tlo nyala just watch 80/20 rule, sorry for the pain n suffering though. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Marquez
I really hope that "young beautiful woman" is not Khanyi Mbau's sister. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Feratas3
Sad indeed, but my sister there is nothing in this planet which stays foerever. Everything comes with phase, eventually you will get through this and be happy again. Surround yourself with positive people and you will heal only with time. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
@Lacosta
i wish i was a brave as this guy......i tried being an arsehole but she doesn't seem to see that
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worse its a girlfriend not a W!IFE ????? dude! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MSG_S
Ok,ok,ok.
The DIVORCED ONE . Let us flip the coin here and check the other side. What would you have done if it was you who found a young bachelor with fake 6 pack from the intake of steroids and loved him? Divorce your husband? No. Surely not.You would have carried on with the infidelity until you brought one or two bast@rds to your man.
That was fair game that he played. Admit and get over it. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
mambozana
" women Please go to bed naked everyday so that he can feel your warmth "
oh yeah! dis one kil me big time : laughing non stop
MommaC
MGEEZ
Morning :)
Friend of mine's hubby left her for a hippo with a face like a bulldog - didn't seem to make my friend any happier.
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Hahahahahaha; I get you; kuyahlekwa noma kubi; but I certainly get you. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mellow
Lacosta
i wish i was a brave as this guy......i tried being an arsehole but she doesn't seem to see that
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man-up dude and be honest eish bo choppa la lapisa mannn she loves you thus she's still with you it doesnt mean she doesnt get it she gets it but its not enough for her to leave you honesty is the only way to go, you really are wasting her time you know Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
dumela rra : indroduce urselfs who r u : where u from : what is te meaning of @MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Madoda niyizinja, nami ngiyinja too. but why can we stick by our ladies? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
skhokho21
Mellow, why are you being defenceive, these are the things men want, when we put that ring in that finger does not mean change the life style and believe me, s e x is the corner stone of a marriage. If you give your pigs enough food they won`t go & eat next door becoz they are full.
I remember when I got married my wife wanted to be active at church, you know those types that wear uniform, go to church during the week and after work. I mean here we are newly weds, in our
s e x u a l prime & she wants to be away from home. I told her no more church even on Sundays, who is going to do the wify services while she is away.
To the lady, hang in the, cry when necessary, with time all will go away, then dust yourself & get yourself a Ben10 & ensure you are the driver of that relationship. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Marquez
Mam your not the first or last person to get divorced. Pray and God will remove that pain.
The guy clearly just settled with ya 'till what he wants comes along and its really not Ayoba on ya. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MGEEZ
Dear, you did absolutely nothing wrong, at least according to the information given us in this story. That being the case; you have absolutely nothing to regret both before God and men; because you played your role and you know what; your ex is going to reap what he has sown. You also are going to meet a men that knows that outside beauty means very little when it comes to commitment and love you for yourself. Half the time people who do what your ex has done have issues with themselves; they are not happy with who they are so they try to have that trophy wife for the world to see. Unfortunately most of the time the trophies are pretty useless as wives and he will soon discover that and appreciate what he had and by then you would have moved on with your life. You certainly are going to find someone who does not have issues with himself; who would love you for who you are and cherish you for the rest of your life. But then again you can chose to be happy all by yourself and raise your son, the choice is yours; but never think that he left you because of your inadequacies; no, a thousand times NO!!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MOTSOKWANA
You are the owner of your life. He has moved on why can't you? Report Abuse
weneva i'm about to tell her she just tells me how much she loves me and the child....its like some scene in the movie ......enaf is enaf. i think the problem kegore i don't have umakwapheni Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
galaxy4
Married guys disapoint us as men sometimes, how can you continue fishing for girlz while you married, sorry to this lady may God be with you, THAT MEANS HE WAS CHEATING ALL ALONG Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
And oh you can take yourself out now and then www.daddysdeals.co.za
very ffordable to do two weekends a month, an adventure you can look forward to.
;) Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
candilious
@Memme -could not have said it better. Time heals all wounds its not easy but definately will be worth it in the end.
Cry,scream break something as you have to let it out. Then look to the future for you & your Son .Be a Lady now you have done ur bit as a Desperate housewife girl
@Lacosta
weneva i'm about to tell her she just tells me how much she loves me and the child....its like some scene in the movie ......enaf is enaf. i think the problem kegore i don't have umakwapheni
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Guaranteed she she sees right through you.......
A friend of mine got divorced, I though everything was 100% ok becuase she did everything for that guy. She's beautiful, sexy, takes care of herself and she went to bed naked. But it was never enough for the husband. So most men don't know what they want. He is now with the old lady who can't even do a doggy style and he complains. He left his wife and kids. For that...Eeeewwwwwwwwww Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@MOTSOKWANA
You are the owner of your life. He has moved on why can't you?
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Che bo!morenaka o sa ntse a batla ho utlwisisa ho re ho etsahalang,eya teng o tlo tswela pele ka bophelo ha se a thotse dikarabo a bile a dutse ho re hofedile.
Will I ever get over this? Will I ever be happy again? -
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what is happening to you is so sad especially done by someone who was suppose to protect your heart but goes on an heartbreaking spree someone who was suppose to bring you joy yet he brought pain someone who vowed to spend his life with you till death do you guys apart and he had let divorce tear you apart.on that note choose happiness cause it is a choice,you have your son to raise and your family loves you,go to counselling,talk more about this before you know it it will be history.
To home wreckers,remember you will never build your hapiness in someone else's misery Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Keafixa
lacosta
man up dude and stop this nosense ya gago. u r wasting her time....she could have bin my wife Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Makhosini0408
Good morning
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
@Bando
A friend of mine got divorced, I though everything was 100% ok becuase she did everything for that guy. She's beautiful, sexy, takes care of herself and she went to bed naked. But it was never enough for the husband. So most men don't know what they want. He is now with the old lady who can't even do a doggy style and he complains. He left his wife and kids. For that...Eeeewwwwwwwwww
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LOL.........how do you know of the complains????? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
OFFLIMITS
galaxy4
Married guys disapoint us as men sometimes, how can you continue fishing for girlz while you married, sorry to this lady may God be with you, THAT MEANS HE WAS CHEATING ALL ALONG
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What a sad story indeed, however when you get lost dont loose the lesson. Out of all these trying times im sure you will come our victorious one day, just keep hanging on there. Your life is more important than him so dont even think of suicide its no solution.
Just remember there is someone who will appreciate you out there and you will learn to love him as well. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Mellow
@Skhokho Sex is not the corner stone of a marriage maybe you expected it to be the corner stone of your marriage then you married for the wrong reasons, and nowhere in my comments have I said wives shouldnt perform their wifely duties. I have a problem with your kind of ppl who are making sex to be the only reason they got married. Women arent as stupid as you'd like to believe so I think when they marry they know whats expected of them and they try their all to make it work. Do you know how many men deprive their women of sex? Must the women be blamed for that and really you made your wife quit church how horny are you? geez
@Candilious Amen sista girlfriend Amen.
@Lacosta haaibo makwapheni? Unless you planning to get caught with her then sure the message will be loud and clear but you're a coward hey...men like you my friend men like...*smh*
@Bando Thats men for you and they cheat with the worst kind 99% of time am amazed this one opted to go for a hotter version now this woman thinks he left because she was young and hot I doubt it
He comes over to our place and tell me and my husband. He regrets everything but its too late. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
pierre2012
"He kept on saying I had done nothing wrong and that he still cared for me, but that he was no longer in love with me".
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Sorry my sister. Be strong and move on - one day he will regret!!!! It is painful, but with time u will "heal"!! Report Abuse
He is a fool, just bcos he reached several cl!max and da p**ssy was hard and had a grip doesn't meant a thing.He forgets that the ssame wom3n is gonna get all and have wrinkles like the one he left. Pity some stupid m3n don't know the art of cheating.
He should have enquired about the art of cheating from those who knows how. Se ya bora sethotho se. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
pierre2012
@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MsHollyHerb
truthhurt
You should have tried Korobela, it works all the time, i use it myself, i get the best results.
She cant get enough.
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just had to kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad at this i die shame lol Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Indoda
I dont think I feel for this woman ...1 thing I knw abt woman they always want to change a man after marriage and let me tell you it doesn’t work. So sister you have our attention now tell us the truth. WHAT HAVE YOU DONE? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LeparaThePresident
@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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Ximatsatsa xa mina what is wrong. This looks very deep.
@pierre2012
@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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True @pierre. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
pierre2012
@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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for fl!ppen 12yrs learning another person aowa ......... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Makhosini0408
I am all for marriage. Let us remember that all cases should be judged on merits. There is his story, her story and the truth, which always becomes the casualty.
I do not know how to explain this, but will try. There are couples that believes that uthando luyaqiniswa noma luyakwezelwa (my limited English fails me in terms of translating this) Do you want to tell me that when one of them finds out the truth, she/he is expected to stay in the relationship? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JB$
THEmadame2BBBEEE
"It was totally unexpected and hit me like a bolt of lightning"
...............really now, what happened to your senses, i bet you knew that this was coming your way
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I agree hun
We had our problems, much like any other married couple, but on the whole I believed we were very happy.
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Is this really common or are we fooling ourself. My believe is that problems are different from couple to couple and we cannot compare these by gerenalizing that every couple has a problem.
@memme - can i suggest to sowetan that you replace Dear DUDU on this column. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@LeparaTheProstitute
this is your aricle today and i'm watching you like a hawk........(impress me) Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@LeparaTheProstitute
this is your article today and i'm watching you like a hawk........(impress me)
@LeparaThePresident
He is a fool, just bcos he reached several cl!max and da p**ssy was hard and had a grip doesn't meant a thing.He forgets that the ssame wom3n is gonna get all and have wrinkles like the one he left. Pity some stupid m3n don't know the art of cheating.
He should have enquired about the art of cheating from those who knows how. Se ya bora sethotho se.
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true he is a fool..hw could one devorce nje for no reason ..
@Makhosini0408
morning, can i please apologise for being selfish, childish and unprofessional yesterday????
Accept my apology and lets embrace today to be a very GOODFRIVAS!! pls man... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
Eraser
@LeparaThePresident
He is a fool, just bcos he reached several cl!max and da p**ssy was hard and had a grip doesn't meant a thing.He forgets that the ssame wom3n is gonna get all and have wrinkles like the one he left. Pity some stupid m3n don't know the art of cheating.
He should have enquired about the art of cheating from those who knows how. Se ya bora sethotho se.
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true he is a fool..hw could one devorce nje for no reason ..
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Pressure from the other side....which is a sign that heeeeeeeeeee Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
pierre2012
@imd
pierre2012
@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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You mean 12 years when married or just lovers??
Mellow, are you married? I don`t know why you jump into conclusions on things I never said or implied. It seems like this topic hit very close to home with you, are you the woman by any chance? Listen to what we are saying as men, irrespective of who deprive the other s e x. You are the reason men go & look for the 20% outside becoz while we tell you what we want, you are still arguing about it to suite you. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Eraser
@md
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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@Makhosini0408
I am all for marriage. Let us remember that all cases should be judged on merits. There is his story, her story and the truth, which always becomes the casualty.
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my point exactly, we should have heard both sides of the storie wife&husband...then we can have the platform to advice where necessary,,,, but in most cases a man will settle for a divorce if the wife have f@cked around with men....this is what most of us men cannot deal with properly
@pierre2012
You mean 12 years when married or just lovers??
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6 no 9 the process lol saam 12 tied down 10.....
fact is he is a stranger not willing to live with anymore
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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Morning Makhosini,
Sorry true, parting is sweet sorrow worse being married. It hurts in a boyfriend,what about the husband. It takes time dear sister, you sure going to be fine i know been there with a BFand im doing fine and i see the light in front of me. Stay strong for yourself and your son. Lift your eyes above, where your help and strength will come from!! Report Abuse
Eraser
@md
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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hey there hw is u?
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heeeey.............. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1 Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Pheli-Marabi
@LeparaThePresident
He is a fool
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Some men give us men a bad name.He is a fool just nje.No excuses .
He must have learnt from the pros. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
all I can say is pain heals with time, accept that you are not good enough to be a woman and cherrish the good moments and memories that you had with him.....men are allover the world and you would probably meet your match Report Abuse
Tlo ho Mothubannyo a ho kgothatse gogo Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
m'zaco'
dumelang
@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto.... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LeparaThePresident
@MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@LeparaThePresident
@All Bloggers
MORNING GUYS
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Kgotso ngwana monna.
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Kgotso ga e phatlalale le Africa yo hle. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Makhosini0408
JnrJack
I meant it when I said, no hard feelings. Its water under the bridge baba. Nothing Personal and we are good.
something is not adding up properly here, u married a man for 15 years and u have only 1 child, this is selfishness,. i jst wanna knw did u do ur woman chores? something was lacking u got comfortable for the fact dat u r now married. all i can say is sex in marriage is a fact, it shows dat the poor man was not getting enough dat is y he got himself a sweet 16 to give it to him. brodaly advise women give ur hubbies wat they married u for nd problem will be solved. no sex in marriage leads to divorce. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
BlackSeed
Although it’s difficult to detach yourself from him, overtime you’ll realize that maybe you were both incompatible and that you were wrong for each other.
A Marriage with way too many disagreements is not good. Number of years mean nothing if you were only happy for 3 month in those 15yrs.
Besides, maybe he was not happy for the 15yrs but felt pity to tell you then. Let him go, he’s not the right man for you.
Look at the things that made you fight and make sure you eliminate them should you be in love again. Sometimes we become so comfortable and accommodating that we end up thinking we are in Love, meanwhile we are just tolerating each other.
Spending the rest of your life with a person that evolves is not an easy thing; you both need to evolve around the same norms and values; otherwise the rest will fade.
Marriage and relationships are not mandatory; worse if you do it because of s.e.x. Or bragging about the beautiful wife you have.
People should stop thinking that relationship and marriages are mandatory; not everyone can sustain these spiritual unions.
Expect 500 comments vandag before lunch. But you women leya tella le lena, this women is also hiding something, a men cant just say i love you today and again change tomorrow. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
@BUSYBEE76
something is not adding up properly here, u married a man for 15 years and u have only 1 child, this is selfishness,. i jst wanna knw did u do ur woman chores? something was lacking u got comfortable for the fact dat u r now married. all i can say is sex in marriage is a fact, it shows dat the poor man was not getting enough dat is y he got himself a sweet 16 to give it to him. brodaly advise women give ur hubbies wat they married u for nd problem will be solved. no sex in marriage leads to divorce.
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i read up there that some man are the ones depriving th s3x now answer dat................... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LeparaThePresident
@LESON.1
@LeparaTheProstitute
this is your aricle today and i'm watching you like a hawk........(impress me)
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++=wake up wake up! O tlo tshwara ke segateledi sa M'zaco. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
@Makhosini0408
I meant it when I said, no hard feelings. Its water under the bridge baba. Nothing Personal and we are good.
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my pleasure, Nfethu! enjoy yourself Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
skhokho21
BUSYBEE76
something is not adding up properly here, u married a man for 15 years and u have only 1 child, this is selfishness,. i jst wanna knw did u do ur woman chores? something was lacking u got comfortable for the fact dat u r now married. all i can say is sex in marriage is a fact, it shows dat the poor man was not getting enough dat is y he got himself a sweet 16 to give it to him. brodaly advise women give ur hubbies wat they married u for nd problem will be solved. no sex in marriage leads to divorce.
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Thank you Boss
Mellow, I hope you are listening, this goes for the woman too, if he is not chowing you the way he used to before you get married, tell him & if you still not satisfied, leave him. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Makhosini0408
Skopokopo
Makhosini0408
Good morning
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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Morning Makhosini,
Sorry true, parting is sweet sorrow worse being married. It hurts in a boyfriend,what about the husband. It takes time dear sister, you sure going to be fine i know been there with a BFand im doing fine and i see the light in front of me. Stay strong for yourself and your son. Lift your eyes above, where your help and strength will come from!!
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I know that some of our sisters have a gift of telling you in a dignified manner, when its over. Some men are in loveless relationships, worse of all in marriages and they hate every second of it. I always advise people to be honest with themselves first, as it is not fair on the other partner. We must not stay in loveless marriages because of what people say. Regardless, they will continue talking. I wish that more and more men start opening up in terms feelings and not bottling them. Having an affair while married will never ever make your marriage strong. We need to be upfront, honest and open about this things.
Nna ke nyaka go bona street fight not this nyaipologies nyaipologies-nxaaa Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
sh!tFaceSamsung
BlackSeed
Sometimes we become so comfortable and accommodating that we end up thinking we are in Love, meanwhile we are just tolerating each other.
@MOTHUBANNYO
Tlo ho Mothubannyo a ho kgothatse gogo
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Eitha daar. Maybe o tla kgothala my broer. Gona le sgogwana se sengwe here le sona ba se hladile. she walks like a robb0t since a hlanlwa. Maybe u should come here also.
Don't loose hope sister, he is not worth spending your energy on because he actually did not have love for you. Thanx because he finally stopped pretending to love you. God bless you and focus more on your wellbeing!
BlackSeed
Although it’s difficult to detach yourself from him, overtime you’ll realize that maybe you were both incompatible and that you were wrong for each other.
A Marriage with way too many disagreements is not good. Number of years mean nothing if you were only happy for 3 month in those 15yrs.
Besides, maybe he was not happy for the 15yrs but felt pity to tell you then. Let him go, he’s not the right man for you.
Look at the things that made you fight and make sure you eliminate them should you be in love again. Sometimes we become so comfortable and accommodating that we end up thinking we are in Love, meanwhile we are just tolerating each other.
Spending the rest of your life with a person that evolves is not an easy thing; you both need to evolve around the same norms and values; otherwise the rest will fade.
Marriage and relationships are not mandatory; worse if you do it because of s.e.x. Or bragging about the beautiful wife you have.
People should stop thinking that relationship and marriages are mandatory; not everyone can sustain these spiritual unions.
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your comment is very true Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
LESON.1
Nna ke nyaka go bona street fight not this nyaipologies nyaipologies-nxaaa
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exhibit A...............LOOOL Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
Makhosini0408
Skopokopo
Makhosini0408
Good morning
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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Morning Makhosini,
Sorry true, parting is sweet sorrow worse being married. It hurts in a boyfriend,what about the husband. It takes time dear sister, you sure going to be fine i know been there with a BFand im doing fine and i see the light in front of me. Stay strong for yourself and your son. Lift your eyes above, where your help and strength will come from!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I know that some of our sisters have a gift of telling you in a dignified manner, when its over. Some men are in loveless relationships, worse of all in marriages and they hate every second of it. I always advise people to be honest with themselves first, as it is not fair on the other partner. We must not stay in loveless marriages because of what people say. Regardless, they will continue talking. I wish that more and more men start opening up in terms feelings and not bottling them. Having an affair while married will never ever make your marriage strong. We need to be upfront, honest and open about this things.
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What more to say on this? nothing. You are good brother, You are good. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LastNumber
This husband o mo masepeng. How can you leave your wife for a piece of ass? Just because the young homewrecker sucks you d.ick like a hoover its not to say you must leave your wife.
You married your wife for all the right reasons but you're marrying the new young one for all the wrong reasons. O masepeng! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bajwetse
I am so hurt after reading thi article, do not worry my dear sister . Just ask God to give you strength to forget about this stupid fool. you will definately forget about all this. But i can assure you he will be coming back running to you like a headless chicken begging for forgiveness, take care of yourself and you son. Just let it go Sisi. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MSG_S
Eish kodwa nathi siyakwazi ukubhayza bafoz.Take for an example the guy walked off for a younger woman as if he missed the size while he was younger. This young woman is going to do to him what he did to his ex.She is going to be perceptive of what happened to his ex is going to happen to her.
Guys. lets get out of here and check other articles. LESON.1 is already here. Spekepeke,Sweetyk, Maizisto and so on are coming with their tongues wiping the filthy keyboards. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
m'zaco'
LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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ke ya kerekeng, ke lapile ke matshila a lefase....ke nyaka morena Jeso!
singing~~ modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
Why are people getting married to madafcukers even in the first place? Now they come here to whine to us. Clearly, the madafcuker is now banging a young and a fresh chick. Try and see if you can get yourself a new guy and stop whining. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MOTHUBANNYO
Tlo ho Mothubannyo a ho kgothatse gogo - PLUS I love older matured women Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Intomb'omxhosa
The guy never loved you but muthi made him to love you.
Muthi uphelile manje, move on ke nawe. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
kgakwi
If the husband is cheating U, He will cheat U with a young beautiful lady. And U know what, later in the process of cheating the lady will make sure that he pleased him more than U do. That is when he will compare the 2 of U and choose the 1 he get more excited with. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
m'zaco'
LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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ke ya kerekeng, ke lapile ke matshila a lefase....ke nyaka morena Jeso!
singing~~ modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
humming....~~~ hmmm...haaaa ...aaa mmmmmmm..hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm hhhihihihih
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Ke tsa gago tseo le modimo wa gago- Rona re ya di parting .....
jst because he left u does not mean your life should stop. walk tall and find comfort in ur job!! pray to God for strength and bliv dat everrything happens for a reason!! u r lucky cos u hv a good job some women are left with a broken heart and without a penny bt dear u have a reason to go on! u have a son who needs u da most right now!! as for da ada woman dont wary abt her let her have ur man cos he will leave her for yet anada young n beatyful woman!! keep ur head up ur strong dear! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
kgakwi
LastNumber
This husband o mo masepeng. How can you leave your wife for a piece of ass? Just because the young homewrecker sucks you d.ick like a hoover its not to say you must leave your wife.
You married your wife for all the right reasons but you're marrying the new young one for all the wrong reasons. O masepeng!
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@LastNumber
100% correct. Ngwana yo O sa mo patlametše fela, Ke noga e khutišitše hlogo, ge a tlo e tsoša mo, ke tšhaba go bona. O tlo mmontšha all her true colours. Ke tenwa ke basadi ba ba rego ge banna ba ba dirile tšona tše, ge ba bowa mo ba ba swarele ba boelane le bona. Move on ladies so that when the B&stard come back, find U with another man. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
You have d0ne something wrong, Granted he was also wrong to seek solace somewhere else. He might not have fallen out of love with you but maybe got bored with the usual routine. He found someone who gave him something different. I am not saying it is right.
Le lena tlogelang go bitsa bo husby pap@go b0y le fetse le apare di fullpanty le metoishi lere le bas@di ba metse. mapipitlane atla le shapa ka corobriki kamontle! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
DJWinner
The problem with women is that they don't want good guys. They say they want guys that will give them some challenge. Well, here is your challenge. Face it and stop whining to us. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
@Bumboklaat
You have d0ne something wrong, Granted he was also wrong to seek solace somewhere else. He might not have fallen out of love with you but maybe got bored with the usual routine. He found someone who gave him something different. I am not saying it is right.
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which will be routine in 3months nxxxxxxxxx
at least she lasted 15 d@mn yrs........ungreatful b@stard!!!! Report Abuse
DIRECTOR-GENERAL OF SOWETAN morning mtshana Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Tango
He should have not divorced her but only married the younger lady a second wife, and i am sure that wounldn't have been a problem. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
WordofGod
God's grace is sufficient. you will go thru the valley with Him. He is God of restoration. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LeparaThePresident
@kgakwi
If the husband is cheating U, He will cheat U with a young beautiful lady. And U know what, later in the process of cheating the lady will make sure that he pleased him more than U do. That is when he will compare the 2 of U and choose the 1 he get more excited with.
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The a thoma go ba sebotho after choosing the young one. ? why mara?
awww, but what is this "problem with us women is that we love too much" . . . if you love you love, not much not less, period! I am a woman and I just don't buy that statement. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
m'zaco'
@wordofGod
howzit ntombi...Long time, How is Jesus treating you... Report Abuse
I don't understand why this woman would cry for someone who doesn't want anything to do with her.She is only hurting herself...she should focus on getting over the divorce and being happy again.
I was once told that hapiness is like a toddler playing with a ball.The child will kick the ball run after it once he gets it kick it again and run after it again...in other words one can't hold on to hapiness forever.
There will be times when you will be at your lowest however you shouldn't dwell on that...you have to go after things that makes you happy run after hapiness as hapiness won't run after you. Report Abuse
skhokho21
Mellow, are you married? I don`t know why you jump into conclusions on things I never said or implied. It seems like this topic hit very close to home with you, are you the woman by any chance? Listen to what we are saying as men, irrespective of who deprive the other s e x. You are the reason men go & look for the 20% outside becoz while we tell you what we want, you are still arguing about it to suite you.
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-Mellow, are you married?( Knowing if am married or not will benefit you how exactly? Am a woman I define myself, I know my needs and wants no man will and can ever reduce me to what he feels like)
-I don`t know why you jump into conclusions on things I never said or implied. (I told her no more church even on Sundays, who is going to do the w.ify services while she is away) So which conclusions are you referring to? you always horny and only see her as sex slave your words dear not mine
-It seems like this topic hit very close to home with you, are you the woman by any chance? (Ooohh yes 100% WOMAN and no just because I see things from a clear point doesnt mean the topic hit home if you even understand what you implying by this of course)
-Listen to what we are saying as men, irrespective of who deprive the other s e x(I know many men who'll disagree with you so speak for yourself and if you still have doubts I dare you to go through the comments and thoroughly hey you can learn a few things from some brothers here no shame in admitting you married for sex shame poor woman)
-You are the reason men go & look for the 20% outside becoz while we tell you what we want, you are still arguing about it to suite you.(Ha-ha-ha now this is just funny, not sure if you have a problem reading or understanding or both and look if anyone wants to leave a relationship for whatever reason then hey away with them do not even think for sec that I will roll over and see things your way )
@Memme, i think you have your own unique believe. please do not blame this woman for loving his husband. making your love patner everything in your life is what we vow about when we get married. Dudu's advice is the best and i respect it. Most people fear facing Doctors coz they don't want to face the truth but i promise you, Doctors are good helpers, i recovered through them from almost the same matter.i am still willing to love and make my partner everything in me, loving without limits. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
m'zaco'
@ Bra Maez
eita mey grootis...ke friday today_ at least its weekend_
o choonang this weekend my grootis Report Abuse
This is SAD...May god bless this woman Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
m'zaco-Vandag tshwanetse ke tsamaele ko Batlharos ko Kuruman go na le lenyalo ka daso.Otherwise wena dintshang weekend? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
McLoving
@Memme
you should be my personal advicer..I love you comment..your response is far better than that of Sis Dolly per se. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MGEEZ
@m'zaco'
@ Bra Maez
eita mey grootis...ke friday today_ at least its weekend_
o choonang this weekend my grootis
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I take it that you are not interested on the subject of discussion; hence you are trying to turn this facility to BBM or face book!!! Lol Report Abuse
MGEEZ
@m'zaco'
@ Bra Maez
eita mey grootis...ke friday today_ at least its weekend_
o choonang this weekend my grootis
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I take it that you are not interested on the subject of discussion; hence you are trying to turn this facility to BBM or face book!!! Lol
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kikikiki...... i always reserve my comments because they always draw some controversies and drive friends away__ since i struggle to maintain friends over a long haul due to my opinionatedness
Check your email ,,,I have sent you some few bits and bobs tsa olympic game ya Banyana Banyana vs Canada..jy moet sien a ke claim..it was really nice ,,,don't facebook my pictures please .. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
kikikikikiki o cho mastand o go bolaisa tsona that's why o sa mo tlogele? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
m'zaco-It's okay o ka nna wa mamela Thuso Motaung and do spane sa ko ntlong
Mcloving-I will check nna a ke na facebook Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
@Lucky84
i am still willing to love and make my partner everything in me, loving without limits.
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marry me ....LOL
~sure Bra maez__ thuso.....lol! not for me my grootis Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
2nevvy4u
hai mshemane a ke wa bo mastand ke wa di take-away. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
obonolo
problem ka married women ke gore once ba nyalwa they nolonger care, use make u like they did when they were dating ppl relax n once u relax young beautiful thing will overtake u Report Abuse
I kept our home and he provides for our son, ....................
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You are fortuante that:
1. you kept the house, he did not throw you to the kerb
2. he still maintains his son (very responsible father)
3. you have a job
@Devastated, you have 2 choice its either you feel pity for yourself and ramin a VICTIM or you dust yourself and conquer the demaons and be a VICTOR..........
eish boi ga o ringa ka di take-away o nkgopotsa le dushi le lengwe hiso.Moer dai queen o pakile to come nice and flopo ke gore o spanisa printer e ko thoko ga ge a ba mfuralla yerrr wa bona ga nka mo thota nka nna grand Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
m'zaco-Ga o mamele Thuso?Phela o mo kerekeng at the same time o kgona go thusa ka dilo tsa mo ntlong ka fa ba go tshamekela difela akere wa di rata plus.
Bumbo-Hade m'fethu ke mang a go kwatisitseng nou? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LeparaThePresident
Guys nna ke say ko Coffee in Brooklyn for lunch. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Spekepeke
SWEETYK
SKOPO
Dumealang
le wena saan maezi
Marriage Marriage Marriage ------ no comment Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
TrapStar
A W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out
-A cellphone is portable than a tv
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
RTX_THE_GHOST
@SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive
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sweetk i neeva foght with you i neva insulted you but wen i send ma innocent greeting u ignore me,,wat did i do to you...jus an innocent greeting yah neh Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MSG_S
LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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I'm contemplating in making permanent fit-in condom derived from old truck tyre tubes. Just for you mfana omncane. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
@LeparaThePresident
Guys nna ke say ko Coffee in Brooklyn for lunch.
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drop me some lunch ko hatfield .......hihihihi Report Abuse
@m'zaco'
MGEEZ
howzit mogeeze
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You are a stirrer you; have a blessed weekend and yes go to church so that you are at peace with everybody. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
@m'zaco'
Bumboklaat
@Maezi
@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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M0tete wa ka wa fisa!
@Spekkie
Hala lovo!!
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive.
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Eish frendo, telling you would invite two certain vultures to prey on me!!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@MSG_S
@LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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I'm contemplating in making permanent fit-in condom derived from old truck tyre tubes. Just for you mfana omncane.
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shame,,,,,, Nna ke ja le albino 2nite-----nyeee nyeeee nyeeee nyeee Report Abuse
dom-kop are you still here? shame but you'll get there Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
@Maezi's
My bra ago spanege niks, ke dumile fela shot ya whisky! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Normad
I dont believe this @ all, there is always another side of the story. If things were going so well in this marriage a man cannot just dicied a divorce overnight. There may be things she aslo did that pushed her husband away and she will not mention them..Period Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
Bumboklaat
@m'zaco'
Bumboklaat
@Maezi
@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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M0tete wa ka wa fisa!
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o nyaka vicks vapor rub... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MGEEZ
@Normad
I dont believe this @ all, there is always another side of the story. If things were going so well in this marriage a man cannot just dicied a divorce overnight. There may be things she aslo did that pushed her husband away and she will not mention them..Period
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How do you know what you are saying to be true? Are you presuming that all men are reasonable beings like you? Report Abuse
RTX_THE_GHOST
@SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive
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sweetk i neeva foght with you i neva insulted you but wen i send ma innocent greeting u ignore me,,wat did i do to you...jus an innocent greeting yah neh
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You called her a biatch instead of a wh0re,, that's y..... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
Bumbo-O tla nwa whisky after spane akere.
Leson-A di reng niks dintsha spane net Report Abuse
TrapStar
A W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out (you can also change your tv from ballon screen to flat screen)
-A cellphone is portable than a tv (we have mobile tv)
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv( we gather at a friend's place and watch soccer)
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels(you can always install the channels you dont have)
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere(we have mobile tvs this days)
woman you should have pulled a mam' u Ruby stunt on that woman and beat the living daylights out of her it won't help you but it will releave some stress from you Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
eKapa-
I have a Lobola and Uncle's to Negotiate for me and the date of Marriage,But i dont have sum1 to Marry
TrapStar
A W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out
-A cellphone is portable than a tv
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere
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Thats a whole lot of rubbish.School is owt go wash ur uniform palony kewena. Report Abuse
I kept our home and he provides for our son, but the divorce has left me devastated and I don't know how to go on with life on my own. knw dat wat ever situation u can urslf in it God will b da wt u be still n knw dat is ur god Report Abuse
@TrapStar
A W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out
-A cellphone is portable than a tv
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere
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Go and brush your tooth with a toilet brush,--------- tsek Report Abuse
Come on dude just come back to the world, can you also tell me dat this woman is telling us nothing but the whole truth. Its like a woman who goes and reports a rape case, the poloce and community are prepared to listen and take the matter further but the other side of the story which is obviously the man's is not always considered Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@gumbeni
I kept our home and he provides for our son, but the divorce has left me devastated and I don't know how to go on with life on my own. knw dat wat ever situation u can urslf in it God will b da wt u be still n knw dat is ur god
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Aug 3, 2012
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
nna..? snai?...mxm wa phapha my laaitie, Where r u now?
show ur middle finger the Taxi wil Stop nd Take u home ko
Kuruman Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Spekepeke
SWEETYK
SKOPO
Dumealang
le wena saan maezi
Marriage Marriage Marriage ------ no comment
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Difeb3 tse di tletseng on this Blog tsa basadi, di jotse tsa lapa tsa nyalwa tsa hlalwa, nou is back to square 1 ka gore ba thswere ke adolesente ene di kuku tsa bona ke mathatha…..(God have mercy) Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
MGEEZ
@Normad
I dont believe this @ all, there is always another side of the story. If things were going so well in this marriage a man cannot just dicied a divorce overnight. There may be things she aslo did that pushed her husband away and she will not mention them..Period
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How do you know what you are saying to be true? Are you presuming that all men are reasonable beings like you?
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*clappin hands* tjoviiiiiiiiiijo Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MGEEZ
@Normad
@ Mgeez
Come on dude just come back to the world, can you also tell me dat this woman is telling us nothing but the whole truth. Its like a woman who goes and reports a rape case, the poloce and community are prepared to listen and take the matter further but the other side of the story which is obviously the man's is not always considered
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I hear you; but sometimes we men can be very confused and become burdensome to our spouses. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
nna..? snai?...mxm wa phapha my laaitie, Where r u now?
show ur middle finger the Taxi wil Stop nd Take u home ko
Kuruman
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eKapa how are you frend? as for Kuruman my grandfather is from Kuruman, people there are so reverential tlhe ga tswe koo m0tho ooo. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
MGEEZ
@Normad
@ Mgeez
Come on dude just come back to the world, can you also tell me dat this woman is telling us nothing but the whole truth. Its like a woman who goes and reports a rape case, the poloce and community are prepared to listen and take the matter further but the other side of the story which is obviously the man's is not always considered
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I hear you; but sometimes we men can be very confused and become burdensome to our spouses.
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GIVE THIS MAN A BELLZ!!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
eKapa-
SWEETYK
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
nna..? snai?...mxm wa phapha my laaitie, Where r u now?
show ur middle finger the Taxi wil Stop nd Take u home ko
Kuruman
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eKapa how are you frend? as for Kuruman my grandfather is from Kuruman, people there are so reverential tlhe ga tswe koo m0tho ooo
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Im fine luv its jst that i have a flu maan i cant even work kahle kahle nje...
tell us man, have you ever been to the same situation before, you seem to be more lynient on the ladies side or maybe on your case instead after your divorced you became gay...tl tl tl tl Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
Normad
@ Mgeez
tell us man, have you ever been to the same situation before, you seem to be more lynient on the ladies side or maybe on your case instead after your divorced you became gay...tl tl tl tl
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Its called havin a concious LOL...........
@Lesson1 u begining to stink disppear ------------ignore mode------------ Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
I like this mustache guy and pitch black afro... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-Wena san a ke achuse yago kopa o sa spitela before ke kwata.
SWEETK-Wa mpatla neh?O tlo nthola e se khale o nagana KURUMAN ke ya ntatago?
kea bona o butsi di robe ene ke a tseba gore o twatwetswe maan- Kgonama and """"Ka booooooooooomb"""" Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Tony1201
Unfortunately, we are hearing one side of the story. If we hear the other side, we might be shocked. I was in almost similar situation and endured abuse of worst kind at the hands of my Ex. As a result, I lost feelings for her. I advised her on different occasions that we will have to break up if that will solve her problems. The situation got worse, and I then moved out. She kept quite untill she learnt that I am seeing someone. From then she started pestering me daily untill I obtained a court order against her. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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kikikikikikkikiki Report Abuse
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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M0tete wa ka wa fisa!
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o nyaka vicks vapor rub...
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kikikikikiki! wena wa thoma Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
why u always here? u dont hav a Lunch box or money?
if so...then take ur Bow nd Arrow go hunt food for u, becoz wa rasa! hierso
Maezizsto4Sure
MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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kikikikikikkikiki
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Eix!! kkkkkikikikkiiiiii!! Ai! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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Ooh lord - i need a beer...........bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-Wena san a ke achuse yago kopa o sa spitela before ke kwata.
SWEETK-Wa mpatla neh?O tlo nthola e se khale o nagana KURUMAN ke ya ntatago?
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O mpatlang wena o direthe tse tswetseng ko ntle tsek maan!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
newhori
time heal. otla ba sharp. man go through the same when it end unexpected. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
meloakf
My sister i have being there and i know excectly what you are going through,trust me you will get over him,remember you were not born with him and you cannot force him to be with you,when you met him he had all his teeth and an id book ready to explore the world, please stop punishing yourself, talk to yourself and the talking must come within you i promise you will see the different and it will make your soul feel better and please do it for you and your son because he is the only person who won't divorce you, hurt you and trust me he will support you emotionally. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
magwinyimbuzi
When a man decides to leave his wife for another woman people say mona osile ,but when a woman decides to do that you will hear people saying maybe the husband was abusive and a cheater Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Sag
Your tomorrow will be better that today. All things work together for good for them that trust the Lord, if you trust Him, you will find better love and better life. Been there, done that, but I'm blessed than before, have acquired more strength, more faith, more assets and resources in abundance. Keep this words, My tomorrow will be better that today Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Normad
@ Tony1201
I agree with you man coz you seem to be talking from some kind of the similar experience.I know men can be weird sometimes but they are not sensless or stupid acting childish. How can you be with someone for 15 yrs and just divorce them just like that, it does not make any sense. Maybe the porr guy had to tolerate a lot of nonsense and could'nt take it anymore leading to this whole situation Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@SWEETYK
@Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-Wena san a ke achuse yago kopa o sa spitela before ke kwata.
SWEETK-Wa mpatla neh?O tlo nthola e se khale o nagana KURUMAN ke ya ntatago?
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O mpatlang wena o direthe tse tswetseng ko ntle tsek maan!!
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magwinyimbuzi
When a man decides to leave his wife for another woman people say mona osile ,but when a woman decides to do that you will hear people saying maybe the husband was abusive and a cheater
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dwiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiih..............lunch bar Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
SWEETYK
m'zaco'
dumelang
@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto....
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Club 808 ya ko Jeskei mare!!
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Club 808 is a show dom-kop, nkabe o re Taboo club ya ko jeskei------shame Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
begged and pleaded with him not to leave me but to no avail. We fought and cried, but his mind was made up.
He kept on saying I had done nothing wrong and that he still cared for me, but that he was no longer in love with me.
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I know this kind of man even the other lady will feel the very same pain as the wife. He is blinded by new love. He will leave her for another girlfriend. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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eKapa-
My below frends,,How is ur Womens month so far ? le tlokomele hle basadi ba rona
SWEETYK
Galfrend
Skopokopo
DeOvi
M'zaco'
Maezizsto4Sure
Fergie
Dzel
2nevvy4u
imd
MissBhakajuju
LESON.1
MissKinky
Dimpho 4_Me
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Hala e@Kapa my lovy, how are you doing? Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
LESON.1
SWEETYK
m'zaco'
dumelang
@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto....
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Club 808 ya ko Jeskei mare!!
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Club 808 is a show dom-kop, nkabe o re Taboo club ya ko jeskei------shame
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Yona eo ya ko Jeskei and Votsek wena ntho e nkgang mamina eee. Tsamo patcher masoba a dipikiri ko mokhukhung summer ke eo letsatsi loo fatlha o le katlung. O nagana o ka kopana le Dineo Ranaka ka matlho wena o le SEPUTSWE se yana sies!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
CHANGEISGOOD
splitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
eKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
why u always here? u dont hav a Lunch box or money?
if so...then take ur Bow nd Arrow go hunt food for u, becoz wa rasa! hierso
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Kikikikikiikikikik Bow and Arrow? kikikikikikik Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Maezizsto4Sure
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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bwaaahahahahahhahaha Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@SWEETYKolobe
dineo ranaka is your role model and to me she is just a m0nkey Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
CHANGEISGOOD
splitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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True, GOD will change the situation she will be back to normal plus CHANGEISGOOD. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
CHANGEISGOOD
splitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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True, G0D will change the situation she will be back to normal plus CHANGEISGOOD. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
@CHANGEISGOOD
splitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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gone through that few years back, but what am proud of is that, I didnt allow the situation:
to have a negative inpact on my career and my social life. the moment you allow the situation to control your emotions it means you give a f@ck to that woman and of which is not good at all Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ Skopokopo
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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Ok frend will hala you late when im about to leave. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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kikikikikiiiiiii!!
CHANGEISGOOD
splitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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eish sorry san...... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
As difficult as it might seem - if you have given a relationship your all and the person still decides to leave you, then you need to accept that your best was not good enough for the person. Stop beating yourself up cause they are the ones that lost, not you. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
oratilePride
im in the same situation i was almost married to my baby daddy he paid lobola and everything but out of the blue he told me he cant marry me anymore believe you me i thot my life was over cos i really loved this man but what can i do he has made up his mind and i cant force him to love me... so my sister just hang in there it will pass just have in God Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
@SexyAngel
As difficult as it might seem - if you have given a relationship your all and the person still decides to leave you, then you need to accept that your best was not good enough for the person. Stop beating yourself up cause they are the ones that lost, not you
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A buggleGum if its old and tasteless what would this poor MAN supposed to do with it?
Women are like a bubbleGum....Gents, look what you buy: dont buy a bubbleGum of poor quality, cheap, expired because you will end up having to replace that bubbleGum with the more tastier, good qaulity and up to date one
UP THE BUCS till Jessica brings me a beer. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ Skopokopo
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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Ok frend will hala you late when im about to leave.
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M0tho ke wena nna ke saletse ke 2hours ya bo busy. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
LESON.1
@Maezi
Till monday and have a nice 1, Eish ke tshegile go feta tekano plus ke spana ke enya (Heineken), ene o kare e tlo ntrapa today but ke tla ba strong
-------------------------------------Logging to Taboo Club and Albino ch1ck here i come later Off------------------------ Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ Skopokopo
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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Ok frend will hala you late when im about to leave.
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M0tho ke wena nna ke saletse ke 2hours ya bo busy.
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Me too frendo, will be leaving at 4.30 Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
Sweetky ore dikilana di irang?
kikikikikiki! Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa!DEAD with laughing! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
@oratilePride
im in the same situation i was almost married to my baby daddy he paid lobola and everything but out of the blue he told me he cant marry me anymore believe you me i thot my life was over cos i really loved this man but what can i do he has made up his mind and i cant force him to love me... so my sister just hang in there it will pass just have in God
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Ok your story seems interesting.....its very unfortunate because we can only get one side of the storie which is so beautiful......you are a bubbleGum...is thats why you was thrown away in the sewerage farm like a piece of thra.sh!!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Kgaitsedi yaka le tlohele letsukunyepe leo la monna hoba le yena eo o ntse a tlo moseiya feela jwalo hoba o ya bonahal ho re ha o iso tsebe seo a se batlang.
A tle ho rona bo kgakga-di-nkgekge re mo rupelle moshanyana eo wa monna. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
@1937
UP THE BUCS till Jessica brings me a beer.
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Hai fotshek wena man le di bucs tsa gao. go re le ka bethwa vandag! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
@JnrJack
Wena Tripitaka o ska tla ka di teale tsagao tsabo Ishaphopha hierso ne? Report Abuse
Till monday and have a nice 1, Eish ke tshegile go feta tekano plus ke spana ke enya (Heineken), ene o kare e tlo ntrapa today but ke tla ba strong
-------------------------------------Logging to Taboo Club and Albino ch1ck here i come later Off-----------------------Hamba maan !! you wont be missed!!
kgaitsedi, if no o febela daiman...otlohele bofebe bonoo ka he monna akake a dula le lapeng le nang le befebe teng...leha hole txenana nka nako yahao a oke o ipatlisise ke hona otla fumana monna eno o atswang thabeng wa molamu(po.lo) wa tshipe....atla hoho kgalema nawana e ka hare ho sesadi sa haho... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
pierre2012
@ oratilePride
im in the same situation i was almost married to my baby daddy he paid lobola and everything but out of the blue he told me he cant marry me anymore believe you me i thot my life was over cos i really loved this man but what can i do he has made up his mind and i cant force him to love me... so my sister just hang in there it will pass just have in God
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Sorry for the pain that you went through. I think lovers should not rush to 'make' babies b4 they know each other well - preferably after marriage.
Bumboklaat
Sweetky ore dikilana di irang?
kikikikikiki! Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa!DEAD with laughing!
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Di a pherolega ke mpja tse, a kere dibete disoft gale ba di ravazitse so ba ko dikilaneng tsaka. LOL Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
@Bumboklaat
@JnrJack
Wena Tripitaka o ska tla ka di teale tsagao tsabo Ishaphopha hierso ne?
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he moxa!!! ke tlago kgaola tshika ya molamu(Pinas)....ona ke JnrJack, senwabarwana....selala setshetha mashigo se hlotha pitsen tse kgolo!! ngwanaka Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@Bumboklaat
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Wena ke sure o Katakata!
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Ke mang eo?
Till monday and have a nice 1, Eish ke tshegile go feta tekano plus ke spana ke enya (Heineken), ene o kare e tlo ntrapa today but ke tla ba strong
-------------------------------------Logging to Taboo Club and Albino ch1ck here i come later Off-----------------------Hamba maan !! you wont be missed!!
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Wa tsamaya kante ntse kere o tla kwano, your back is like your front. Maoto a lwantshana tsamaya kiss madolo. Kikikikikikiki tltltlttltlltltlltltlltltltltlltltltll Bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Habore gwa (Kenneth's voice). Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Bumboklaat
@JnrJack
O di botse ntotoagao tseo kaore le yona ke lefsega e tshwana le wena ge e b0na nny0 ya hunyela!Tsek Report Abuse
@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
JnrJack
@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
@JnrJack
@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Tsek tsamaya, atleast nna ra di berekisa eseng wena ojang marago ka plastiki ya borotho! Report Abuse
Wena ke sure o Katakata!
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Ke mang eo?
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never mind
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Ohooo Katakata eo ke "never mind" che ha ke motsebe.
SWEETYK
Bumboklaat
Sweetky ore dikilana di irang?
kikikikikiki! Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa!DEAD with laughing!
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Di a pherolega ke mpja tse, a kere dibete disoft gale ba di ravazitse so ba ko dikilaneng tsaka. LOL
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Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
JnrJack
@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Hamba nawe maan!! Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Bumboklaat
@JnrJack
@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Tsek tsamaya, atleast nna ra di berekisa eseng wena ojang marago ka plastiki ya borotho!
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same girls on this blog - are you working for sowetan? nxaaa
dn't you have a life......... sell your kuku's like i do cos guys need it like nothing els- just for today only from 10:30 this morning till now, i already have R8,400.00.....in my pocket.....count the hours and compare to your monthly salaries and plus SARS is ripping you off..... Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Owami36
Devastated Divorcee - spend a few days/months mourning the loss of your marriage - BUT please snap out of it at some point. You have a teenage who has also suffered a loss, and needs you to have your act together. Sort yourself out.
Next time, have a LIFE, and don't define your existence and self-worth a single individual. If you do that you become a heavy burden even to the person you claim to love. Think about it - would you want to have anyone saying their lives would be worthless if you were not around. It's a scary thought - enough to make a person run for cover. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
BOSSOKEMANGG
@ Mellow, I'm speaking on a man's point of view. You speak like a typical women. you will never understand how a men's mind work, so listen to what this guys are saying.I share the same sentiments. women are beautiful out there and why should i get stuck with someone who does not turn me on anymore?U should remind me of the reason I married you every now and then. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
@ Skopokopo
Oohh my God here comes Maditlhapa, banna ba teng ba tsameile ba romile ena. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
Divorce this -Divorce that, marriage that - marriage this, Just make money and how you do it's no one business.. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
imd
Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
same girls on this blog - are you working for sowetan? nxaaa
dn't you have a life......... sell your kuku's like i do cos guys need it like nothing els- just for today only from 10:30 this morning till now, i already have R8,400.00.....in my pocket.....count the hours and compare to your monthly salaries and plus SARS is ripping you off.....
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Aug 3, 2012
Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
@imd
you can laugh as much as you want- i dnt care, what i know is that you are more stressed like h3ll come pay-day...
i dnt worry about waking up in the morning to catch a taxi,train, bus, walk or drive just for the sake of this two stup1d words (job/work) no no no stranger- this rich matherfackers comes to me using their petrol or taxi fees to pay me... i started this biz in 2010 Nov and now i have my own house, 2 cars- bought them cash and no stress plus i dnt needs kids...
Oooho liar liar liar liar- i have appointment at 16:10, i'm going to prepare myself cos i was bored and thought of you sowetan bloggers..... at least i was here for couple of minutes and i dnt regret it........ so take care, i want to make my kuku wet and shake some1 till he feint .......
Oooho liar liar liar liar, Oooho liar liar liar liar,
Oooho liar liar liar liar,Oooho liar liar liar liar Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
@ ALL LOVIES
SHARP KE TSONA TILL MONDAY BARATUWA NICE WEEKEND. Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
Skopokopo
@Sweetyk
Bye my lovies, have a great weekend. Lov ya Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
@Sweetyk
Bye my lovies, have a great weekend. Lov ya
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move on life goes on. get a life chat online and try divorced dating site you will fee a thousand % better, your story is small fry as compared to other people 's stories Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
EZASE-NYUKHANASI
people do change i dont know why especially in marriage Report Abuse
Aug 3, 2012
moralett
i was in that situation the past two years with stupit girl friend. I just told myself that i will pass the stage and i did manage. So as human being do not isolate yourself go out , work with people we will benefit from them. Come out from that situation that you are now. Trust GOD he will deliever for you my darling. Amen and Amen Report Abuse
Aug 5, 2012
Mzalaz
I just took my tyme to read nearly all of ur comments guys, though I think im far than this kind of problem but I think it's help to read such good advices so that if these thingz fall on one's head in future, one will know how to deal with them. No need of waisting too much time feeling sorry for yourself or blaming urself asking questions like " where did I go wrong" without any good answer,as this man told her that " you didn't do anything wrong, its just that Im no longer in love with you" wow
I wonder what makes love to end after years of marriage, it's not fair but US women should learn to move on, though its painful but the fact that we are the one's who love more doesn't mean we have to punish ourselves for devorce.We should stop thinking our men are everything and that we can die without them coz its NOT TRUE, life should go on coz there are many beautiful things that God has kept for us than these husband's we marry.
Good luck sesi, you gonna be alright I promise, these things comes and goes, you have a good family in Sowetan. Report Abuse
Aug 28, 2012
nalita
Sister thats nothing dear to my experience, what i can tell you get your self busy and stop thinking about that man you didnt do anything wrong. Just move on. Report Abuse
Sep 22, 2012
Seperated
Well, its a sad incident. Sister, there are lots of man who will be happy to have you. You sound like a good loyal woman. He will either come back one day OR God will give you a good man who will make you happy. Take is easy sister. Accept it. The world is bigger that your ex. Go and enjoy it. You have our sympathy and support Report Abuse
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Memme
Wow i feel for you my sister, The problem with us women is that we love tooo much but for he fact that you gave it all for your relationship just shows that you are a real woman and for that you must not blame yourself for what happend, He's got his own life and you have your own life, to me it sounds like you lost yourself to this man when you married him which is why you are not able to face life without him.Women should never loose their individuality when they get married so that when a man cheats or wants a divorce you will not be depressed let alone stressed. This is some of the things that happens in life and we need to accept and move on, yes it's heartbreaking but it's not the end of the world. The new lady might be young or as beautiful as you say but that has got nothing to do with you. This is now your time to recover the real YOU, and you'll be amazed as to how much you have lost while you were married to him. Get up and face the world - there is no time to feel sorry for yourself this is the time to go to gym, make yourself beautiful and enjoy life to the fullest.
There is so much to life than maariage. Get up there is no time to waste.
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HALFWISE
I feel you pain, young will always be beautiful but if the love is gone, what's the use, move on, maybe U&I will meet one day.Report Abuse
LMMokone
Just be strong for you and your son - Believe me time healsReport Abuse
JB$
Time heals hunReport Abuse
MommaC
Would she have been happier if the other woman was older or less attractive?This is when you find out how important friends are. They hold you together when you are flying apart. Treasure them
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MorenaWaPolelo
Well this too shall pass!!!Report Abuse
Eurika
Life has its ups and down remember this too shall pass. You are a very special person who deserve much better than this. Understand one thing though there is a season for every thing under the sun. Do not hurm yourself. The reason we write to you is to show you that not only do you have the family and friends you know you have us all (Sowetan Family) to count on. Believe me this too shall pass. You are more beautiful than you think and your son adores you as a loving mother. Be strong and have faith in God.Report Abuse
Mellow
Shame I feel your pain dear however find peace in the fact that he was man enough to level with you,he was honest he didnt go behind your back treating you like a fool and lying and he still cares you were after all his wife and are the mother of his child but you cannot make someone stay when their heart says otherwise.Someday somehow you'll heal and move on its best that he left to be with the one who holds his heart instead of forcing to stay just to resent you.You cant fight agaist that unfortunately all you can do is wish him well try to focus on your wellbeing and your child stay strong and take it one day at a time.Like they say sometimes loving someone doesn't always mean keeping them. Sometimes, it also means you have to let them go...Just let go hun let it goReport Abuse
mambozana
Trust me my dear he will one day mic u because that little lady will milk him like hell and cheat on him with younger guys. She will offer him only 20 and mic the 80 that u gave him for the whole 15 years. Sometimes you ladies are to be blamed on what we men tend to do, you become less interested in many things.....you relax after marriage....you get fat....you dont show those bums anymore..... Please go to bed naked everyday so that he can feel your warmth and your heartbeat as well. but what can we say men will always be men. Just move on my dear sister and and take care of yourself and some guy will notice you out there.Report Abuse
truthhurt
You should have tried Korobela, it works all the time, i use it myself, i get the best results.She cant get enough.
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JB$
The grass is not always greener on the other side be strong hun time healsReport Abuse
MATWEETWEE
hard luck ladybut its better because he told you the truth alike when he cheated on
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JB$
@mambozanaI agree with you some women just dress as if they are going hunting
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Sisi123
Thats the problem women have when they get married they think all is well and relax. Get up and pull yourself together, go to the gym and make yourself beautiful. What he has done to you he will do it again to this other girl don't worry. He will regret what he has done to you and you when the time comes you won't be available you will be taken by someone who will appreciate you and treat you right.Report Abuse
Wing_Nut
“Don't speak negatively about his father to him.”Huh?
And just why not? Did Dad ever consider the well being of HIS own flesh & blood: his son????
Here is a Dad who has broken a family, destroyed his son’s “grounding”, brought untold misery, probably not only on his wife & son, but immediate family too..........all for the sake of another woman?
And just what guarantee has he that this new relationship is going to work?
Is this not WHY there is so much discord in today’s generation?
And what really p’s me off is how we all stand around at the church when this kind of person passes on and we talk utter rubbish of how good, kind, etc a person he (or she) was.
BS!
We are perpetuating a LIE! Time for some social moral compass!
Time to call a spade a spade!
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sarmologadi
God and time will heal ur pain sister, be strong for ur son and remember God loves you and he will see you through it all.....Report Abuse
Buc4life
G Morning AllLadies; when we get married, lets not loose ourselves. Lets take care of ourselves by making ourselves beautiful. Often, married women tend to think that "he is mine. I wear his ring." We are too busy cleaning the house, and taking care of him and the kids that we forget about ourselves. Re apara dikhiba whole day when we doing chores, and forget that he needs to see that sexy lady he married. In bed, we always have headaches or sleep with cycling shorts so that he does not even get to touch you cause you are tired. We are driving men away. I always say that if he leaves, he must know what he is leaving behind.
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Mellow
mambozanaSometimes you ladies are to be blamed on what we men tend to do, you become less interested in many things.....you relax after marriage....you get fat....you dont show those bums anymore..... Please go to bed naked everyday so that he can feel your warmth and your heartbeat as well. but what can we say men will always be men. Just move on my dear sister and and take care of yourself and some guy will notice you out there.
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So you saying the only glue to marriage is sex? Just rocking up your bed everynight looking like a s.lut? After damn freaking 15yrs you'll leave her because she has gained couple of xtra kilos and wears ouma-kry koud bonga to bed? Sad to be married hey
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Lacosta
wen love is gone is gone....the husband was brave to tell u, i'm still battling to tell my galfriend how i'm no longer in love with her and its bin 5 yrs now. damnReport Abuse
PAPABRAVO
Truth be told...beware ladies,these young ladies are gearing up for the fight.relax and feel the heat or gear up yourself and take the fight back#that goes for gents as well.
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Mellow
Really ppl a woman's home just got shattered and without any information other than whats given here you blaming her so what if she is a type to go to gym 3 times a week, kept her home looked after hubby's sexual needs morning noon and night and sometimes snacks in between during office hrs? Made sure there was home cooked meal every day clean house, greeted hubby with kiss and beer and a bj elke dag tendered to his needs is it enough to make any man stay even when they dont want to? Lets not blame the wife/woman always the sooner sistas start taking pride in their own strength the better why must we look up to men to define us, he screw up then it must probably be something the woman did like really now how fckd up is that? How many times have we heard of ppl who cheated and they said they didnt know why they did it?Report Abuse
imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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Mellow
Lacosta5yrs? the sooner you let her go the better you being cruel now staying out of responsibility is not gonna help anyone next thing she'll be demanding a ring and what you gonna do?
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imd
Lacostawen love is gone is gone....the husband was brave to tell u, i'm still battling to tell my galfriend how i'm no longer in love with her and its bin 5 yrs now. damn
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its pricks like you......y cant you tell her????
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MGEEZ
@MommaCWould she have been happier if the other woman was older or less attractive?
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I can not believe you said that, wena sometimes neh? good morning to you!!!
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THEmadame2BBBEEE
"It was totally unexpected and hit me like a bolt of lightning"...............really now, what happened to your senses, i bet you knew that this was coming your way
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mambozana
@MellowMy sister, it does not actually mean when you go to bed naked you inviting sex, but atleast that moment of feeling each other's body plays an important role in a marriage. Atleast a short night dress but underneath there must be nothing and believe me or not even if you both tired, that will bring you closer together for the rest of the night. And when you wake up you can wear your heavy towel gowns as much as you like and gossip nomama wase next door.
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MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Le ka ba le ngwana a be a be 16 years le soka le mohlahlamisa,mohlomong ke lona lebaka leo ausi wa rona.Nehang banna bana ba tsebe ho thaba hoba tabakgolo ho rona bongata ke lelapa e seng lelapa la ngwana ya le mong.Report Abuse
JnrJack
we have one side of the story here and dont know how to advice you!! Devorce is not something which just comes up without any reason and marriage as well the same applies. I believe for every action there is always an opposite action to have a system balanced. Its either you cheated on him thought he would never know or you have neglected your sexy body and thought now you safe, confortable and have all you wanted...if this are some of the reasons for your husband to divorce, the he had reasons to leave you....men are allover the world and others we like used toys.Report Abuse
JnrJack
@ALL GOOD PEOPLEGOOD MORNING!!
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MommaC
MGEEZMorning :)
Friend of mine's hubby left her for a hippo with a face like a bulldog - didn't seem to make my friend any happier.
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Mxaueht
I admire your strength and courage. It proves how strong and outrageous woman your are. It might take a while, but it will come to pass. You cannot get over the person (who remained important part of your life for more than 15 years) over night. You bound to cry and think of good time you both had, which will make you sad and feel like a looser. But I think that is part of the healing process and you will get over this in time.....You are one hell of a woman who does not leave in fantasy but face the reality with boldness and tears in her eyes.Report Abuse
Letitgo
No situation is permanent, It shall be well with you.Report Abuse
Mellow
mambozanayou telling me sharing a bed with someone everynight despite what she's wearing wont make you feel the closenees you want? And who's to be blamed for that? Are you making any efforts to draw her close to you hold her cuddle and whatever? Or all you see is extra unwanted kilos etc. dont make excuses I think your first comment was clear enough dear well to me of course
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Lacosta
Mellow5yrs? the sooner you let her go the better you being cruel now staying out of responsibility is not gonna help anyone next thing she'll be demanding a ring and what you gonna do?
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imd
its pricks like you......y cant you tell her????
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i wish i was a brave as this guy......i tried being an arsehole but she doesn't seem to see that.
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cocolucho
Suprise suprise!!...what more do we expect from that species they call men.I'm sorry for what you're going through and this has reaffirmed my belief that marriage is nothing but a waste of time until you're 50 years old and want someone to grow old with. The best thing that you could do for yourself is to move on with your life.
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papamasentlelebonolo
O tlo nyala just watch 80/20 rule, sorry for the pain n suffering though.Report Abuse
Marquez
I really hope that "young beautiful woman" is not Khanyi Mbau's sister.Report Abuse
Feratas3
Sad indeed, but my sister there is nothing in this planet which stays foerever. Everything comes with phase, eventually you will get through this and be happy again. Surround yourself with positive people and you will heal only with time.Report Abuse
imd
@Lacostai wish i was a brave as this guy......i tried being an arsehole but she doesn't seem to see that
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worse its a girlfriend not a W!IFE ????? dude!
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MSG_S
Ok,ok,ok.The DIVORCED ONE . Let us flip the coin here and check the other side. What would you have done if it was you who found a young bachelor with fake 6 pack from the intake of steroids and loved him? Divorce your husband? No. Surely not.You would have carried on with the infidelity until you brought one or two bast@rds to your man.
That was fair game that he played. Admit and get over it.
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sh!tFaceSamsung
mambozana" women Please go to bed naked everyday so that he can feel your warmth "
oh yeah! dis one kil me big time : laughing non stop
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MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@JnrJack@ALL GOOD PEOPLE
GOOD MORNING!!
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Dumela ngwana monna.
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MGEEZ
MommaCMGEEZ
Morning :)
Friend of mine's hubby left her for a hippo with a face like a bulldog - didn't seem to make my friend any happier.
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Hahahahahaha; I get you; kuyahlekwa noma kubi; but I certainly get you.
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Mellow
Lacostai wish i was a brave as this guy......i tried being an arsehole but she doesn't seem to see that
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man-up dude and be honest eish bo choppa la lapisa mannn she loves you thus she's still with you it doesnt mean she doesnt get it she gets it but its not enough for her to leave you honesty is the only way to go, you really are wasting her time you know
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sh!tFaceSamsung
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!dumela rra : indroduce urselfs who r u : where u from : what is te meaning of @MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
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Ubaba
Madoda niyizinja, nami ngiyinja too. but why can we stick by our ladies?Report Abuse
skhokho21
Mellow, why are you being defenceive, these are the things men want, when we put that ring in that finger does not mean change the life style and believe me, s e x is the corner stone of a marriage. If you give your pigs enough food they won`t go & eat next door becoz they are full.I remember when I got married my wife wanted to be active at church, you know those types that wear uniform, go to church during the week and after work. I mean here we are newly weds, in our
s e x u a l prime & she wants to be away from home. I told her no more church even on Sundays, who is going to do the wify services while she is away.
To the lady, hang in the, cry when necessary, with time all will go away, then dust yourself & get yourself a Ben10 & ensure you are the driver of that relationship.
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Marquez
Mam your not the first or last person to get divorced. Pray and God will remove that pain.The guy clearly just settled with ya 'till what he wants comes along and its really not Ayoba on ya.
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MGEEZ
Dear, you did absolutely nothing wrong, at least according to the information given us in this story. That being the case; you have absolutely nothing to regret both before God and men; because you played your role and you know what; your ex is going to reap what he has sown. You also are going to meet a men that knows that outside beauty means very little when it comes to commitment and love you for yourself. Half the time people who do what your ex has done have issues with themselves; they are not happy with who they are so they try to have that trophy wife for the world to see. Unfortunately most of the time the trophies are pretty useless as wives and he will soon discover that and appreciate what he had and by then you would have moved on with your life. You certainly are going to find someone who does not have issues with himself; who would love you for who you are and cherish you for the rest of your life. But then again you can chose to be happy all by yourself and raise your son, the choice is yours; but never think that he left you because of your inadequacies; no, a thousand times NO!!!Report Abuse
MOTSOKWANA
You are the owner of your life. He has moved on why can't you?Report Abuse
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This too shall passReport Abuse
Lacosta
weneva i'm about to tell her she just tells me how much she loves me and the child....its like some scene in the movie ......enaf is enaf. i think the problem kegore i don't have umakwapheniReport Abuse
galaxy4
Married guys disapoint us as men sometimes, how can you continue fishing for girlz while you married, sorry to this lady may God be with you, THAT MEANS HE WAS CHEATING ALL ALONGReport Abuse
imd
And oh you can take yourself out now and then www.daddysdeals.co.zavery ffordable to do two weekends a month, an adventure you can look forward to.
;)
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candilious
@Memme -could not have said it better. Time heals all wounds its not easy but definately will be worth it in the end.Cry,scream break something as you have to let it out. Then look to the future for you & your Son .Be a Lady now you have done ur bit as a Desperate housewife girl
@Mellow i can agree with that too
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imd
@Lacostaweneva i'm about to tell her she just tells me how much she loves me and the child....its like some scene in the movie ......enaf is enaf. i think the problem kegore i don't have umakwapheni
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Bando
A friend of mine got divorced, I though everything was 100% ok becuase she did everything for that guy. She's beautiful, sexy, takes care of herself and she went to bed naked. But it was never enough for the husband. So most men don't know what they want. He is now with the old lady who can't even do a doggy style and he complains. He left his wife and kids. For that...EeeewwwwwwwwwwReport Abuse
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@MOTSOKWANAYou are the owner of your life. He has moved on why can't you?
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Kaylae
Will I ever get over this? Will I ever be happy again? -_________________________________________________________________
what is happening to you is so sad especially done by someone who was suppose to protect your heart but goes on an heartbreaking spree someone who was suppose to bring you joy yet he brought pain someone who vowed to spend his life with you till death do you guys apart and he had let divorce tear you apart.on that note choose happiness cause it is a choice,you have your son to raise and your family loves you,go to counselling,talk more about this before you know it it will be history.
To home wreckers,remember you will never build your hapiness in someone else's misery
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Keafixa
lacostaman up dude and stop this nosense ya gago. u r wasting her time....she could have bin my wife
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Makhosini0408
Good morningVery very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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imd
@BandoA friend of mine got divorced, I though everything was 100% ok becuase she did everything for that guy. She's beautiful, sexy, takes care of herself and she went to bed naked. But it was never enough for the husband. So most men don't know what they want. He is now with the old lady who can't even do a doggy style and he complains. He left his wife and kids. For that...Eeeewwwwwwwwww
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LOL.........how do you know of the complains?????
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galaxy4Married guys disapoint us as men sometimes, how can you continue fishing for girlz while you married, sorry to this lady may God be with you, THAT MEANS HE WAS CHEATING ALL ALONG
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Life is never without a grey area.
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DjEp
What a sad story indeed, however when you get lost dont loose the lesson. Out of all these trying times im sure you will come our victorious one day, just keep hanging on there. Your life is more important than him so dont even think of suicide its no solution.Just remember there is someone who will appreciate you out there and you will learn to love him as well.
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Mellow
@Skhokho Sex is not the corner stone of a marriage maybe you expected it to be the corner stone of your marriage then you married for the wrong reasons, and nowhere in my comments have I said wives shouldnt perform their wifely duties. I have a problem with your kind of ppl who are making sex to be the only reason they got married. Women arent as stupid as you'd like to believe so I think when they marry they know whats expected of them and they try their all to make it work. Do you know how many men deprive their women of sex? Must the women be blamed for that and really you made your wife quit church how horny are you? geez@Candilious Amen sista girlfriend Amen.
@Lacosta haaibo makwapheni? Unless you planning to get caught with her then sure the message will be loud and clear but you're a coward hey...men like you my friend men like...*smh*
@Bando Thats men for you and they cheat with the worst kind 99% of time am amazed this one opted to go for a hotter version now this woman thinks he left because she was young and hot I doubt it
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Bando
@imdHe comes over to our place and tell me and my husband. He regrets everything but its too late.
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pierre2012
"He kept on saying I had done nothing wrong and that he still cared for me, but that he was no longer in love with me".------------------------------------
Sorry my sister. Be strong and move on - one day he will regret!!!! It is painful, but with time u will "heal"!!
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LeparaThePresident
@All BloggersMORNING GUYS
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LeparaThePresident
He is a fool, just bcos he reached several cl!max and da p**ssy was hard and had a grip doesn't meant a thing.He forgets that the ssame wom3n is gonna get all and have wrinkles like the one he left. Pity some stupid m3n don't know the art of cheating.He should have enquired about the art of cheating from those who knows how. Se ya bora sethotho se.
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pierre2012
@imdI dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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MsHollyHerb
truthhurtYou should have tried Korobela, it works all the time, i use it myself, i get the best results.
She cant get enough.
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just had to kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad at this i die shame lol
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Indoda
I dont think I feel for this woman ...1 thing I knw abt woman they always want to change a man after marriage and let me tell you it doesn’t work. So sister you have our attention now tell us the truth. WHAT HAVE YOU DONE?Report Abuse
LeparaThePresident
@imdI dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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Ximatsatsa xa mina what is wrong. This looks very deep.
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@pierre2012@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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True @pierre.
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pierre2012@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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for fl!ppen 12yrs learning another person aowa .........
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Makhosini0408
I am all for marriage. Let us remember that all cases should be judged on merits. There is his story, her story and the truth, which always becomes the casualty.I do not know how to explain this, but will try. There are couples that believes that uthando luyaqiniswa noma luyakwezelwa (my limited English fails me in terms of translating this) Do you want to tell me that when one of them finds out the truth, she/he is expected to stay in the relationship?
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JB$
THEmadame2BBBEEE"It was totally unexpected and hit me like a bolt of lightning"
...............really now, what happened to your senses, i bet you knew that this was coming your way
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I agree hun
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Mogwapatholo
We had our problems, much like any other married couple, but on the whole I believed we were very happy.**************************************************************
Is this really common or are we fooling ourself. My believe is that problems are different from couple to couple and we cannot compare these by gerenalizing that every couple has a problem.
@memme - can i suggest to sowetan that you replace Dear DUDU on this column.
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LESON.1
@LeparaTheProstitutethis is your aricle today and i'm watching you like a hawk........(impress me)
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LESON.1
@LeparaTheProstitutethis is your article today and i'm watching you like a hawk........(impress me)
(sorry still in bed )
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Eraser
@LeparaThePresidentHe is a fool, just bcos he reached several cl!max and da p**ssy was hard and had a grip doesn't meant a thing.He forgets that the ssame wom3n is gonna get all and have wrinkles like the one he left. Pity some stupid m3n don't know the art of cheating.
He should have enquired about the art of cheating from those who knows how. Se ya bora sethotho se.
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true he is a fool..hw could one devorce nje for no reason ..
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JnrJack
@Makhosini0408morning, can i please apologise for being selfish, childish and unprofessional yesterday????
Accept my apology and lets embrace today to be a very GOODFRIVAS!! pls man...
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imd
Eraser@LeparaThePresident
He is a fool, just bcos he reached several cl!max and da p**ssy was hard and had a grip doesn't meant a thing.He forgets that the ssame wom3n is gonna get all and have wrinkles like the one he left. Pity some stupid m3n don't know the art of cheating.
He should have enquired about the art of cheating from those who knows how. Se ya bora sethotho se.
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true he is a fool..hw could one devorce nje for no reason ..
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Pressure from the other side....which is a sign that heeeeeeeeeee
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pierre2012
@imdpierre2012
@imd
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
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Ha ha ha. All people are unique, there are good men and bad ones, good women and bad ones. So your man may be different. Just study him and give him a chance. Marriage is the best social relationship, if u get a good person!!!
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You mean 12 years when married or just lovers??
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skhokho21
Mellow, are you married? I don`t know why you jump into conclusions on things I never said or implied. It seems like this topic hit very close to home with you, are you the woman by any chance? Listen to what we are saying as men, irrespective of who deprive the other s e x. You are the reason men go & look for the 20% outside becoz while we tell you what we want, you are still arguing about it to suite you.Report Abuse
Eraser
@mdI dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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hey there hw is u?
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PinkButterfly
Life, always not fairReport Abuse
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@ ALLGUD MORNING LOVIES
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JnrJack
@Makhosini0408I am all for marriage. Let us remember that all cases should be judged on merits. There is his story, her story and the truth, which always becomes the casualty.
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my point exactly, we should have heard both sides of the storie wife&husband...then we can have the platform to advice where necessary,,,, but in most cases a man will settle for a divorce if the wife have f@cked around with men....this is what most of us men cannot deal with properly
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imd
@pierre2012You mean 12 years when married or just lovers??
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6 no 9 the process lol saam 12 tied down 10.....
fact is he is a stranger not willing to live with anymore
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Skopokopo
Makhosini0408Good morning
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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Morning Makhosini,
Sorry true, parting is sweet sorrow worse being married. It hurts in a boyfriend,what about the husband. It takes time dear sister, you sure going to be fine i know been there with a BFand im doing fine and i see the light in front of me. Stay strong for yourself and your son. Lift your eyes above, where your help and strength will come from!!
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SWEETEST@SS morning maLuv!!! hud this frivas morning?
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imd
Eraser@md
I dont wanna be married anymore nxxxxx......
must Ctrl+z a.s.a.p can feel it in my bones he just waisting my time too.
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hey there hw is u?
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heeeey..............
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Pheli-Marabi
@LeparaThePresidentHe is a fool
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Some men give us men a bad name.He is a fool just nje.No excuses .
He must have learnt from the pros.
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JnrJack
all I can say is pain heals with time, accept that you are not good enough to be a woman and cherrish the good moments and memories that you had with him.....men are allover the world and you would probably meet your matchReport Abuse
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Hi hi dear.
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m'zaco'
dumelang@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto....
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Makhosini0408
JnrJackI meant it when I said, no hard feelings. Its water under the bridge baba. Nothing Personal and we are good.
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BUSYBEE76
something is not adding up properly here, u married a man for 15 years and u have only 1 child, this is selfishness,. i jst wanna knw did u do ur woman chores? something was lacking u got comfortable for the fact dat u r now married. all i can say is sex in marriage is a fact, it shows dat the poor man was not getting enough dat is y he got himself a sweet 16 to give it to him. brodaly advise women give ur hubbies wat they married u for nd problem will be solved. no sex in marriage leads to divorce.Report Abuse
BlackSeed
Although it’s difficult to detach yourself from him, overtime you’ll realize that maybe you were both incompatible and that you were wrong for each other.A Marriage with way too many disagreements is not good. Number of years mean nothing if you were only happy for 3 month in those 15yrs.
Besides, maybe he was not happy for the 15yrs but felt pity to tell you then. Let him go, he’s not the right man for you.
Look at the things that made you fight and make sure you eliminate them should you be in love again. Sometimes we become so comfortable and accommodating that we end up thinking we are in Love, meanwhile we are just tolerating each other.
Spending the rest of your life with a person that evolves is not an easy thing; you both need to evolve around the same norms and values; otherwise the rest will fade.
Marriage and relationships are not mandatory; worse if you do it because of s.e.x. Or bragging about the beautiful wife you have.
People should stop thinking that relationship and marriages are mandatory; not everyone can sustain these spiritual unions.
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mathopeed
Expect 500 comments vandag before lunch. But you women leya tella le lena, this women is also hiding something, a men cant just say i love you today and again change tomorrow.Report Abuse
LESON.1
@m'zaco'I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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SWEETYK
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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imd
@BUSYBEE76something is not adding up properly here, u married a man for 15 years and u have only 1 child, this is selfishness,. i jst wanna knw did u do ur woman chores? something was lacking u got comfortable for the fact dat u r now married. all i can say is sex in marriage is a fact, it shows dat the poor man was not getting enough dat is y he got himself a sweet 16 to give it to him. brodaly advise women give ur hubbies wat they married u for nd problem will be solved. no sex in marriage leads to divorce.
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i read up there that some man are the ones depriving th s3x now answer dat...................
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LeparaThePresident
@LESON.1@LeparaTheProstitute
this is your aricle today and i'm watching you like a hawk........(impress me)
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++=wake up wake up! O tlo tshwara ke segateledi sa M'zaco.
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JnrJack
@Makhosini0408I meant it when I said, no hard feelings. Its water under the bridge baba. Nothing Personal and we are good.
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my pleasure, Nfethu! enjoy yourself
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skhokho21
BUSYBEE76something is not adding up properly here, u married a man for 15 years and u have only 1 child, this is selfishness,. i jst wanna knw did u do ur woman chores? something was lacking u got comfortable for the fact dat u r now married. all i can say is sex in marriage is a fact, it shows dat the poor man was not getting enough dat is y he got himself a sweet 16 to give it to him. brodaly advise women give ur hubbies wat they married u for nd problem will be solved. no sex in marriage leads to divorce.
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Thank you Boss
Mellow, I hope you are listening, this goes for the woman too, if he is not chowing you the way he used to before you get married, tell him & if you still not satisfied, leave him.
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Makhosini0408
SkopokopoMakhosini0408
Good morning
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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Morning Makhosini,
Sorry true, parting is sweet sorrow worse being married. It hurts in a boyfriend,what about the husband. It takes time dear sister, you sure going to be fine i know been there with a BFand im doing fine and i see the light in front of me. Stay strong for yourself and your son. Lift your eyes above, where your help and strength will come from!!
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I know that some of our sisters have a gift of telling you in a dignified manner, when its over. Some men are in loveless relationships, worse of all in marriages and they hate every second of it. I always advise people to be honest with themselves first, as it is not fair on the other partner. We must not stay in loveless marriages because of what people say. Regardless, they will continue talking. I wish that more and more men start opening up in terms feelings and not bottling them. Having an affair while married will never ever make your marriage strong. We need to be upfront, honest and open about this things.
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Nna ke nyaka go bona street fight not this nyaipologies nyaipologies-nxaaaReport Abuse
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SWEETYKSkopokopo
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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sh!tFaceSamsung
BlackSeedSometimes we become so comfortable and accommodating that we end up thinking we are in Love, meanwhile we are just tolerating each other.
10/10 : fully agree with u
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LeparaThePresident
@MOTHUBANNYOTlo ho Mothubannyo a ho kgothatse gogo
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Eitha daar. Maybe o tla kgothala my broer. Gona le sgogwana se sengwe here le sona ba se hladile. she walks like a robb0t since a hlanlwa. Maybe u should come here also.
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Ndona
Don't loose hope sister, he is not worth spending your energy on because he actually did not have love for you. Thanx because he finally stopped pretending to love you. God bless you and focus more on your wellbeing!Report Abuse
Kaylae
BlackSeedAlthough it’s difficult to detach yourself from him, overtime you’ll realize that maybe you were both incompatible and that you were wrong for each other.
A Marriage with way too many disagreements is not good. Number of years mean nothing if you were only happy for 3 month in those 15yrs.
Besides, maybe he was not happy for the 15yrs but felt pity to tell you then. Let him go, he’s not the right man for you.
Look at the things that made you fight and make sure you eliminate them should you be in love again. Sometimes we become so comfortable and accommodating that we end up thinking we are in Love, meanwhile we are just tolerating each other.
Spending the rest of your life with a person that evolves is not an easy thing; you both need to evolve around the same norms and values; otherwise the rest will fade.
Marriage and relationships are not mandatory; worse if you do it because of s.e.x. Or bragging about the beautiful wife you have.
People should stop thinking that relationship and marriages are mandatory; not everyone can sustain these spiritual unions.
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your comment is very true
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LESON.1Nna ke nyaka go bona street fight not this nyaipologies nyaipologies-nxaaa
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exhibit A...............LOOOL
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Makhosini0408Skopokopo
Makhosini0408
Good morning
Very very sad indeed. When a woman loves. I understand her pain on the other hand what the husband did, though wrong but must be commended. He was man enough to tell her that its over. We can call him all names, but it would not change the story.
Parting is sweet sorrow, according to Shakespeare. Unfortunately, it is part of life. Though its hard, she needs to pick up the pieces and be strong.
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Morning Makhosini,
Sorry true, parting is sweet sorrow worse being married. It hurts in a boyfriend,what about the husband. It takes time dear sister, you sure going to be fine i know been there with a BFand im doing fine and i see the light in front of me. Stay strong for yourself and your son. Lift your eyes above, where your help and strength will come from!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I know that some of our sisters have a gift of telling you in a dignified manner, when its over. Some men are in loveless relationships, worse of all in marriages and they hate every second of it. I always advise people to be honest with themselves first, as it is not fair on the other partner. We must not stay in loveless marriages because of what people say. Regardless, they will continue talking. I wish that more and more men start opening up in terms feelings and not bottling them. Having an affair while married will never ever make your marriage strong. We need to be upfront, honest and open about this things.
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What more to say on this? nothing. You are good brother, You are good.
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LastNumber
This husband o mo masepeng. How can you leave your wife for a piece of ass? Just because the young homewrecker sucks you d.ick like a hoover its not to say you must leave your wife.You married your wife for all the right reasons but you're marrying the new young one for all the wrong reasons. O masepeng!
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Bajwetse
I am so hurt after reading thi article, do not worry my dear sister . Just ask God to give you strength to forget about this stupid fool. you will definately forget about all this. But i can assure you he will be coming back running to you like a headless chicken begging for forgiveness, take care of yourself and you son. Just let it go Sisi.Report Abuse
MSG_S
Eish kodwa nathi siyakwazi ukubhayza bafoz.Take for an example the guy walked off for a younger woman as if he missed the size while he was younger. This young woman is going to do to him what he did to his ex.She is going to be perceptive of what happened to his ex is going to happen to her.Guys. lets get out of here and check other articles. LESON.1 is already here. Spekepeke,Sweetyk, Maizisto and so on are coming with their tongues wiping the filthy keyboards.
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m'zaco'
LESON.1@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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ke ya kerekeng, ke lapile ke matshila a lefase....ke nyaka morena Jeso!
singing~~ modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
humming....~~~ hmmm...haaaa ...aaa mmmmmmm..hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm hhhihihihih
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DJWinner
Why are people getting married to madafcukers even in the first place? Now they come here to whine to us. Clearly, the madafcuker is now banging a young and a fresh chick. Try and see if you can get yourself a new guy and stop whining.Report Abuse
MOTHUBANNYO
Tlo ho Mothubannyo a ho kgothatse gogo - PLUS I love older matured womenReport Abuse
Intomb'omxhosa
The guy never loved you but muthi made him to love you.Muthi uphelile manje, move on ke nawe.
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kgakwi
If the husband is cheating U, He will cheat U with a young beautiful lady. And U know what, later in the process of cheating the lady will make sure that he pleased him more than U do. That is when he will compare the 2 of U and choose the 1 he get more excited with.Report Abuse
LESON.1
m'zaco'LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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ke ya kerekeng, ke lapile ke matshila a lefase....ke nyaka morena Jeso!
singing~~ modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
modimo haa le teng...haa yo mathaaaaataaa....haaaayo mathata, ha yo ..modimo ha a le teng...
humming....~~~ hmmm...haaaa ...aaa mmmmmmm..hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm hhhihihihih
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Ke tsa gago tseo le modimo wa gago- Rona re ya di parting .....
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smomondini
jst because he left u does not mean your life should stop. walk tall and find comfort in ur job!! pray to God for strength and bliv dat everrything happens for a reason!! u r lucky cos u hv a good job some women are left with a broken heart and without a penny bt dear u have a reason to go on! u have a son who needs u da most right now!! as for da ada woman dont wary abt her let her have ur man cos he will leave her for yet anada young n beatyful woman!! keep ur head up ur strong dear!Report Abuse
kgakwi
LastNumberThis husband o mo masepeng. How can you leave your wife for a piece of ass? Just because the young homewrecker sucks you d.ick like a hoover its not to say you must leave your wife.
You married your wife for all the right reasons but you're marrying the new young one for all the wrong reasons. O masepeng!
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@LastNumber
100% correct. Ngwana yo O sa mo patlametše fela, Ke noga e khutišitše hlogo, ge a tlo e tsoša mo, ke tšhaba go bona. O tlo mmontšha all her true colours. Ke tenwa ke basadi ba ba rego ge banna ba ba dirile tšona tše, ge ba bowa mo ba ba swarele ba boelane le bona. Move on ladies so that when the B&stard come back, find U with another man.
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Bumboklaat
You have d0ne something wrong, Granted he was also wrong to seek solace somewhere else. He might not have fallen out of love with you but maybe got bored with the usual routine. He found someone who gave him something different. I am not saying it is right.Le lena tlogelang go bitsa bo husby pap@go b0y le fetse le apare di fullpanty le metoishi lere le bas@di ba metse. mapipitlane atla le shapa ka corobriki kamontle!
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DJWinner
The problem with women is that they don't want good guys. They say they want guys that will give them some challenge. Well, here is your challenge. Face it and stop whining to us.Report Abuse
imd
@BumboklaatYou have d0ne something wrong, Granted he was also wrong to seek solace somewhere else. He might not have fallen out of love with you but maybe got bored with the usual routine. He found someone who gave him something different. I am not saying it is right.
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which will be routine in 3months nxxxxxxxxx
at least she lasted 15 d@mn yrs........ungreatful b@stard!!!!
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boooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooombaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaReport Abuse
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LESON.1DIRECTOR-GENERAL OF SOWETAN morning mtshana
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Tango
He should have not divorced her but only married the younger lady a second wife, and i am sure that wounldn't have been a problem.Report Abuse
WordofGod
God's grace is sufficient. you will go thru the valley with Him. He is God of restoration.Report Abuse
LeparaThePresident
@kgakwiIf the husband is cheating U, He will cheat U with a young beautiful lady. And U know what, later in the process of cheating the lady will make sure that he pleased him more than U do. That is when he will compare the 2 of U and choose the 1 he get more excited with.
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The a thoma go ba sebotho after choosing the young one. ? why mara?
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@RTX_THE_GHOSTLESON.1
DIRECTOR-GENERAL OF SOWETAN morning mtshana
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haai wena, why o down grader Lesson1.? he is minister Chairperson.
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babathane
awww, but what is this "problem with us women is that we love too much" . . . if you love you love, not much not less, period! I am a woman and I just don't buy that statement.Report Abuse
m'zaco'
@wordofGodhowzit ntombi...Long time, How is Jesus treating you...
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@LeparaThePresfokof and tsek
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Maezizsto4Sure
I don't understand why this woman would cry for someone who doesn't want anything to do with her.She is only hurting herself...she should focus on getting over the divorce and being happy again.I was once told that hapiness is like a toddler playing with a ball.The child will kick the ball run after it once he gets it kick it again and run after it again...in other words one can't hold on to hapiness forever.
There will be times when you will be at your lowest however you shouldn't dwell on that...you have to go after things that makes you happy run after hapiness as hapiness won't run after you.
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Maezizsto4Sure
BoooooooooooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOmbaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa shap fedeEita Leson
Eita m'zaco
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Mellow
skhokho21Mellow, are you married? I don`t know why you jump into conclusions on things I never said or implied. It seems like this topic hit very close to home with you, are you the woman by any chance? Listen to what we are saying as men, irrespective of who deprive the other s e x. You are the reason men go & look for the 20% outside becoz while we tell you what we want, you are still arguing about it to suite you.
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-Mellow, are you married?( Knowing if am married or not will benefit you how exactly? Am a woman I define myself, I know my needs and wants no man will and can ever reduce me to what he feels like)
-I don`t know why you jump into conclusions on things I never said or implied. (I told her no more church even on Sundays, who is going to do the w.ify services while she is away) So which conclusions are you referring to? you always horny and only see her as sex slave your words dear not mine
-It seems like this topic hit very close to home with you, are you the woman by any chance? (Ooohh yes 100% WOMAN and no just because I see things from a clear point doesnt mean the topic hit home if you even understand what you implying by this of course)
-Listen to what we are saying as men, irrespective of who deprive the other s e x(I know many men who'll disagree with you so speak for yourself and if you still have doubts I dare you to go through the comments and thoroughly hey you can learn a few things from some brothers here no shame in admitting you married for sex shame poor woman)
-You are the reason men go & look for the 20% outside becoz while we tell you what we want, you are still arguing about it to suite you.(Ha-ha-ha now this is just funny, not sure if you have a problem reading or understanding or both and look if anyone wants to leave a relationship for whatever reason then hey away with them do not even think for sec that I will roll over and see things your way )
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Lucky84
@Memme, i think you have your own unique believe. please do not blame this woman for loving his husband. making your love patner everything in your life is what we vow about when we get married. Dudu's advice is the best and i respect it. Most people fear facing Doctors coz they don't want to face the truth but i promise you, Doctors are good helpers, i recovered through them from almost the same matter.i am still willing to love and make my partner everything in me, loving without limits.Report Abuse
m'zaco'
@ Bra Maezeita mey grootis...ke friday today_ at least its weekend_
o choonang this weekend my grootis
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Lebetha
@halfwise ur realy halfwise straightReport Abuse
Aijaman
This is SAD...May god bless this womanReport Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
m'zaco-Vandag tshwanetse ke tsamaele ko Batlharos ko Kuruman go na le lenyalo ka daso.Otherwise wena dintshang weekend?Report Abuse
McLoving
@Memmeyou should be my personal advicer..I love you comment..your response is far better than that of Sis Dolly per se.
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MGEEZ
@m'zaco'@ Bra Maez
eita mey grootis...ke friday today_ at least its weekend_
o choonang this weekend my grootis
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I take it that you are not interested on the subject of discussion; hence you are trying to turn this facility to BBM or face book!!! Lol
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2nevvy4u
Sweetpotatoes and baked beans.Report Abuse
LeparaThePresident
@RTX_THE_GHOST@LeparaThePres
fokof and tsek
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O sekobo when angry my broer.
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Maezizsto4Sure
Di etsang dipotata boi?Report Abuse
m'zaco'
MGEEZ@m'zaco'
@ Bra Maez
eita mey grootis...ke friday today_ at least its weekend_
o choonang this weekend my grootis
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I take it that you are not interested on the subject of discussion; hence you are trying to turn this facility to BBM or face book!!! Lol
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kikikiki...... i always reserve my comments because they always draw some controversies and drive friends away__ since i struggle to maintain friends over a long haul due to my opinionatedness
howzit mogeeze
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2nevvy4u
di etsa gore monna a ska sia ko ntlong.Report Abuse
m'zaco'
bra maezeish..nna i am tired ka diweekent tsa ho ntsha chelete....church!!
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ipipiembobeli
@truthhurt wanyela!!Report Abuse
m'zaco'
wena saaan!!! shurrrrrrrrrrupReport Abuse
McLoving
@maezizstoCheck your email ,,,I have sent you some few bits and bobs tsa olympic game ya Banyana Banyana vs Canada..jy moet sien a ke claim..it was really nice ,,,don't facebook my pictures please ..
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Maezizsto4Sure
kikikikikiki o cho mastand o go bolaisa tsona that's why o sa mo tlogele?Report Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
m'zaco-It's okay o ka nna wa mamela Thuso Motaung and do spane sa ko ntlongMcloving-I will check nna a ke na facebook
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imd
@Lucky84i am still willing to love and make my partner everything in me, loving without limits.
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marry me ....LOL
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m'zaco'
hehehe!~sure Bra maez__ thuso.....lol! not for me my grootis
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2nevvy4u
hai mshemane a ke wa bo mastand ke wa di take-away.Report Abuse
obonolo
problem ka married women ke gore once ba nyalwa they nolonger care, use make u like they did when they were dating ppl relax n once u relax young beautiful thing will overtake uReport Abuse
Bumboklaat
@Maezi@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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m'zaco'
Bumboklaat@Maezi
@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
I kept our home and he provides for our son, ....................**************************************************************************************************
You are fortuante that:
1. you kept the house, he did not throw you to the kerb
2. he still maintains his son (very responsible father)
3. you have a job
@Devastated, you have 2 choice its either you feel pity for yourself and ramin a VICTIM or you dust yourself and conquer the demaons and be a VICTOR..........
Pity parties are not AYOBA, sister
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Maezizsto4Sure
eish boi ga o ringa ka di take-away o nkgopotsa le dushi le lengwe hiso.Moer dai queen o pakile to come nice and flopo ke gore o spanisa printer e ko thoko ga ge a ba mfuralla yerrr wa bona ga nka mo thota nka nna grandReport Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
m'zaco-Ga o mamele Thuso?Phela o mo kerekeng at the same time o kgona go thusa ka dilo tsa mo ntlong ka fa ba go tshamekela difela akere wa di rata plus.Bumbo-Hade m'fethu ke mang a go kwatisitseng nou?
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SWEETYK
SkopokopoSWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive.
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LeparaThePresident
Guys nna ke say ko Coffee in Brooklyn for lunch.Report Abuse
Spekepeke
SWEETYKSKOPO
Dumealang
le wena saan maezi
Marriage Marriage Marriage ------ no comment
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TrapStar
A W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out
-A cellphone is portable than a tv
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere
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RTX_THE_GHOST
@SWEETYKSkopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive
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sweetk i neeva foght with you i neva insulted you but wen i send ma innocent greeting u ignore me,,wat did i do to you...jus an innocent greeting yah neh
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MSG_S
LESON.1@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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I'm contemplating in making permanent fit-in condom derived from old truck tyre tubes. Just for you mfana omncane.
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imd
@LeparaThePresidentGuys nna ke say ko Coffee in Brooklyn for lunch.
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drop me some lunch ko hatfield .......hihihihi
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SWEETYK
@GalfrendSkopokopo
Spekepeke
DeOvi
M'zaco'
eKapa
Fergie
Lepara ThePresident
Kwepie
Bumbos
Simswop
Dzel
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MissBhakajuju
MissKinky
Dimpho 4_Me
RTX
and Others
Hala hala hala Lovies
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MGEEZ
@m'zaco'MGEEZ
howzit mogeeze
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You are a stirrer you; have a blessed weekend and yes go to church so that you are at peace with everybody.
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Bumboklaat
@m'zaco'Bumboklaat
@Maezi
@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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M0tete wa ka wa fisa!
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Skopokopo
@SpekkieHala lovo!!
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive.
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Eish frendo, telling you would invite two certain vultures to prey on me!!!
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LESON.1
@MSG_S@LESON.1
@m'zaco'
I'm preparing myself to go to work then 14:30 chaile time - later ke ya parting ya Club 808 ko Taboo club.
ke nyaka ngwanyana wa le albino o mo fresh.... wena ?
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I'm contemplating in making permanent fit-in condom derived from old truck tyre tubes. Just for you mfana omncane.
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shame,,,,,, Nna ke ja le albino 2nite-----nyeee nyeeee nyeeee nyeee
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Bumboklaat
SWEETYK@Galfrend
Skopokopo
Spekepeke
DeOvi
M'zaco'
eKapa
Fergie
Lepara ThePresident
Kwepie
Bumbos
Simswop
Dzel
Makhosini0408
MissBhakajuju
MissKinky
Dimpho 4_Me
RTX
and Others
Hala hala hala Lovies
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Hala babes, ge go kena wena ke sharp!
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LESON.1
@imddom-kop are you still here? shame but you'll get there
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Bumboklaat
@Maezi'sMy bra ago spanege niks, ke dumile fela shot ya whisky!
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Normad
I dont believe this @ all, there is always another side of the story. If things were going so well in this marriage a man cannot just dicied a divorce overnight. There may be things she aslo did that pushed her husband away and she will not mention them..PeriodReport Abuse
LESON.1
Bumboklaat@m'zaco'
Bumboklaat
@Maezi
@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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M0tete wa ka wa fisa!
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o nyaka vicks vapor rub...
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MGEEZ
@NormadI dont believe this @ all, there is always another side of the story. If things were going so well in this marriage a man cannot just dicied a divorce overnight. There may be things she aslo did that pushed her husband away and she will not mention them..Period
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How do you know what you are saying to be true? Are you presuming that all men are reasonable beings like you?
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LESON.1
@Maezidi reng and di ntshang ?
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LESON.1
RTX_THE_GHOST@SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
Skopokopo
SWEETYK
@ ALL
GUD MORNING LOVIES
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Hala darling, how are you frendo? I feel, i feel for this woman lovies!!1
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Hala lala, hey le nna I'm feeling for her. You know frend to love someone can be hurting?
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True frendo, my story gal was worse im telling you my frendo, its been a year now im doing fine lala. He is following me, im done.
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I like your thinking lala, don't go back there what happened frend? Moo metsi a kileng a ema a tlo ema gape what I'm trying to say is what he did he will do it again, now he's stranded he wants you back be assertive frend you will survive
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sweetk i neeva foght with you i neva insulted you but wen i send ma innocent greeting u ignore me,,wat did i do to you...jus an innocent greeting yah neh
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You called her a biatch instead of a wh0re,, that's y.....
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Maezizsto4Sure
Bumbo-O tla nwa whisky after spane akere.Leson-A di reng niks dintsha spane net
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@SWEETYKGood day, chikita
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2nevvy4u
TrapStarA W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out (you can also change your tv from ballon screen to flat screen)
-A cellphone is portable than a tv (we have mobile tv)
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv( we gather at a friend's place and watch soccer)
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels(you can always install the channels you dont have)
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere(we have mobile tvs this days)
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lindsay
woman you should have pulled a mam' u Ruby stunt on that woman and beat the living daylights out of her it won't help you but it will releave some stress from youReport Abuse
eKapa-
I have a Lobola and Uncle's to Negotiate for me and the date of Marriage,But i dont have sum1 to MarryReport Abuse
Buckselona
TrapStarA W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out
-A cellphone is portable than a tv
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere
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Thats a whole lot of rubbish.School is owt go wash ur uniform palony kewena.
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SWEETYK
@ RTXMy apology, how's you?
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gumbeni
I kept our home and he provides for our son, but the divorce has left me devastated and I don't know how to go on with life on my own. knw dat wat ever situation u can urslf in it God will b da wt u be still n knw dat is ur godReport Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-O snai mos o tla thola medi yang?Report Abuse
LESON.1
@TrapStarA W|fe is like a TV, a galfrend is like a cellphone
-you have the same tv for a long time but you can always change the cellphone when a new model -comes out
-A cellphone is portable than a tv
-you always take a cellphone to meet your friends but you never show them your tv
- a Cellphone is fun but a tv always have the same channels
- a tv is always in the house but you take your cellphone everywhere
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Go and brush your tooth with a toilet brush,--------- tsek
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SWEETYK
@ BumboklaatSure skeem saka di ntshang daar?
@ MissKinky
Hala lavo go yang?
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Normad
@ MgeezCome on dude just come back to the world, can you also tell me dat this woman is telling us nothing but the whole truth. Its like a woman who goes and reports a rape case, the poloce and community are prepared to listen and take the matter further but the other side of the story which is obviously the man's is not always considered
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LESON.1
@gumbeniI kept our home and he provides for our son, but the divorce has left me devastated and I don't know how to go on with life on my own. knw dat wat ever situation u can urslf in it God will b da wt u be still n knw dat is ur god
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eKapa-
Maezizsto4Surenna..? snai?...mxm wa phapha my laaitie, Where r u now?
show ur middle finger the Taxi wil Stop nd Take u home ko
Kuruman
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SpekepekeSWEETYK
SKOPO
Dumealang
le wena saan maezi
Marriage Marriage Marriage ------ no comment
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Speke wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee dumela moratuwa.
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LESON.1
Difeb3 tse di tletseng on this Blog tsa basadi, di jotse tsa lapa tsa nyalwa tsa hlalwa, nou is back to square 1 ka gore ba thswere ke adolesente ene di kuku tsa bona ke mathatha…..(God have mercy)Report Abuse
imd
MGEEZ@Normad
I dont believe this @ all, there is always another side of the story. If things were going so well in this marriage a man cannot just dicied a divorce overnight. There may be things she aslo did that pushed her husband away and she will not mention them..Period
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How do you know what you are saying to be true? Are you presuming that all men are reasonable beings like you?
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*clappin hands* tjoviiiiiiiiiijo
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MGEEZ
@Normad@ Mgeez
Come on dude just come back to the world, can you also tell me dat this woman is telling us nothing but the whole truth. Its like a woman who goes and reports a rape case, the poloce and community are prepared to listen and take the matter further but the other side of the story which is obviously the man's is not always considered
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I hear you; but sometimes we men can be very confused and become burdensome to our spouses.
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SWEETYK
eKapa-Maezizsto4Sure
nna..? snai?...mxm wa phapha my laaitie, Where r u now?
show ur middle finger the Taxi wil Stop nd Take u home ko
Kuruman
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eKapa how are you frend? as for Kuruman my grandfather is from Kuruman, people there are so reverential tlhe ga tswe koo m0tho ooo.
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imd
MGEEZ@Normad
@ Mgeez
Come on dude just come back to the world, can you also tell me dat this woman is telling us nothing but the whole truth. Its like a woman who goes and reports a rape case, the poloce and community are prepared to listen and take the matter further but the other side of the story which is obviously the man's is not always considered
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I hear you; but sometimes we men can be very confused and become burdensome to our spouses.
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GIVE THIS MAN A BELLZ!!!
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eKapa-
SWEETYKeKapa-
Maezizsto4Sure
nna..? snai?...mxm wa phapha my laaitie, Where r u now?
show ur middle finger the Taxi wil Stop nd Take u home ko
Kuruman
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eKapa how are you frend? as for Kuruman my grandfather is from Kuruman, people there are so reverential tlhe ga tswe koo m0tho ooo
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Im fine luv its jst that i have a flu maan i cant even work kahle kahle nje...
howz ur friday so far?
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eKapa-
My below frends,,How is ur Womens month so far ? le tlokomele hle basadi ba ronaSWEETYK
Galfrend
Skopokopo
DeOvi
M'zaco'
Maezizsto4Sure
Fergie
Dzel
2nevvy4u
imd
MissBhakajuju
LESON.1
MissKinky
Dimpho 4_Me
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LESON.1
@imdMs ke laka leo, I’m 800% gore where you stay o l0se p@nty .. Ke woman’s month e re ke go Nny0be online…
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Normad
@ Mgeeztell us man, have you ever been to the same situation before, you seem to be more lynient on the ladies side or maybe on your case instead after your divorced you became gay...tl tl tl tl
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imd
Normad@ Mgeez
tell us man, have you ever been to the same situation before, you seem to be more lynient on the ladies side or maybe on your case instead after your divorced you became gay...tl tl tl tl
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Its called havin a concious LOL...........
@Lesson1 u begining to stink disppear ------------ignore mode------------
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LESON.1
I like this mustache guy and pitch black afro...Report Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-Wena san a ke achuse yago kopa o sa spitela before ke kwata.SWEETK-Wa mpatla neh?O tlo nthola e se khale o nagana KURUMAN ke ya ntatago?
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LESON.1
@imdkea bona o butsi di robe ene ke a tseba gore o twatwetswe maan- Kgonama and """"Ka booooooooooomb""""
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Tony1201
Unfortunately, we are hearing one side of the story. If we hear the other side, we might be shocked. I was in almost similar situation and endured abuse of worst kind at the hands of my Ex. As a result, I lost feelings for her. I advised her on different occasions that we will have to break up if that will solve her problems. The situation got worse, and I then moved out. She kept quite untill she learnt that I am seeing someone. From then she started pestering me daily untill I obtained a court order against her.Report Abuse
Maezizsto4Sure
MSG_SOh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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kikikikikikkikiki
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LESON.1Bumboklaat
@m'zaco'
Bumboklaat
@Maezi
@ZacoShit
La thoma akere? eseng ke kwatile so!
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heitaaaaaaaaaaaaa! ho etsahalang lepara la mums??
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M0tete wa ka wa fisa!
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o nyaka vicks vapor rub...
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kikikikikiki! wena wa thoma
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eKapa-
Maezizsto4Surewhy u always here? u dont hav a Lunch box or money?
if so...then take ur Bow nd Arrow go hunt food for u, becoz wa rasa! hierso
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JnrJack
Maezizsto4SureMSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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kikikikikikkikiki
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Eix!! kkkkkikikikkiiiiii!! Ai!
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LESON.1
@MSG_SOh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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Ooh lord - i need a beer...........bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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SWEETYK
Maezizsto4SureeKapa-Wena san a ke achuse yago kopa o sa spitela before ke kwata.
SWEETK-Wa mpatla neh?O tlo nthola e se khale o nagana KURUMAN ke ya ntatago?
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O mpatlang wena o direthe tse tswetseng ko ntle tsek maan!!
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newhori
time heal. otla ba sharp. man go through the same when it end unexpected.Report Abuse
meloakf
My sister i have being there and i know excectly what you are going through,trust me you will get over him,remember you were not born with him and you cannot force him to be with you,when you met him he had all his teeth and an id book ready to explore the world, please stop punishing yourself, talk to yourself and the talking must come within you i promise you will see the different and it will make your soul feel better and please do it for you and your son because he is the only person who won't divorce you, hurt you and trust me he will support you emotionally.Report Abuse
magwinyimbuzi
When a man decides to leave his wife for another woman people say mona osile ,but when a woman decides to do that you will hear people saying maybe the husband was abusive and a cheaterReport Abuse
Sag
Your tomorrow will be better that today. All things work together for good for them that trust the Lord, if you trust Him, you will find better love and better life. Been there, done that, but I'm blessed than before, have acquired more strength, more faith, more assets and resources in abundance. Keep this words, My tomorrow will be better that todayReport Abuse
Normad
@ Tony1201I agree with you man coz you seem to be talking from some kind of the similar experience.I know men can be weird sometimes but they are not sensless or stupid acting childish. How can you be with someone for 15 yrs and just divorce them just like that, it does not make any sense. Maybe the porr guy had to tolerate a lot of nonsense and could'nt take it anymore leading to this whole situation
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@SWEETYK@Maezizsto4Sure
eKapa-Wena san a ke achuse yago kopa o sa spitela before ke kwata.
SWEETK-Wa mpatla neh?O tlo nthola e se khale o nagana KURUMAN ke ya ntatago?
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O mpatlang wena o direthe tse tswetseng ko ntle tsek maan!!
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Kekkekekkekekkekekkekekkekekkekekkekekkeke.LOL
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SWEETYK
m'zaco'dumelang
@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto....
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Club 808 ya ko Jeskei mare!!
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imd
magwinyimbuziWhen a man decides to leave his wife for another woman people say mona osile ,but when a woman decides to do that you will hear people saying maybe the husband was abusive and a cheater
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dwiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiih..............lunch bar
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SWEETYKm'zaco'
dumelang
@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto....
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Club 808 ya ko Jeskei mare!!
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Club 808 is a show dom-kop, nkabe o re Taboo club ya ko jeskei------shame
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SWEETYK
begged and pleaded with him not to leave me but to no avail. We fought and cried, but his mind was made up.He kept on saying I had done nothing wrong and that he still cared for me, but that he was no longer in love with me.
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I know this kind of man even the other lady will feel the very same pain as the wife. He is blinded by new love. He will leave her for another girlfriend.
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LESON.1
@MSG_SOh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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eKapa-My below frends,,How is ur Womens month so far ? le tlokomele hle basadi ba rona
SWEETYK
Galfrend
Skopokopo
DeOvi
M'zaco'
Maezizsto4Sure
Fergie
Dzel
2nevvy4u
imd
MissBhakajuju
LESON.1
MissKinky
Dimpho 4_Me
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Hala e@Kapa my lovy, how are you doing?
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LESON.1SWEETYK
m'zaco'
dumelang
@sweetyk
@leson,.1
ke freytaga today! what are u guys upto....
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Club 808 ya ko Jeskei mare!!
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Club 808 is a show dom-kop, nkabe o re Taboo club ya ko jeskei------shame
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Yona eo ya ko Jeskei and Votsek wena ntho e nkgang mamina eee. Tsamo patcher masoba a dipikiri ko mokhukhung summer ke eo letsatsi loo fatlha o le katlung. O nagana o ka kopana le Dineo Ranaka ka matlho wena o le SEPUTSWE se yana sies!!
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CHANGEISGOOD
splitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"Report Abuse
SWEETYK
@ SkopokopoGona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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eKapa-Maezizsto4Sure
why u always here? u dont hav a Lunch box or money?
if so...then take ur Bow nd Arrow go hunt food for u, becoz wa rasa! hierso
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Kikikikikiikikikik Bow and Arrow? kikikikikikik
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LESON.1@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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bwaaahahahahahhahaha
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LESON.1
@SWEETYKolobedineo ranaka is your role model and to me she is just a m0nkey
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SWEETYK
CHANGEISGOODsplitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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True, GOD will change the situation she will be back to normal plus CHANGEISGOOD.
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LESON.1
@MSG_SOh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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Maezizsto4Sure
Skopokopo-Are you laughing at me?Report Abuse
SWEETYK
CHANGEISGOODsplitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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True, G0D will change the situation she will be back to normal plus CHANGEISGOOD.
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LESON.1
@MSG_SOh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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JnrJack
@CHANGEISGOODsplitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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gone through that few years back, but what am proud of is that, I didnt allow the situation:
to have a negative inpact on my career and my social life. the moment you allow the situation to control your emotions it means you give a f@ck to that woman and of which is not good at all
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Skopokopo
SWEETYK@ Skopokopo
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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Ok frend will hala you late when im about to leave.
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SWEETYK
LESON.1@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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JnrJack
@LESON.1@MSG_S
Oh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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kikikikikiiiiiii!!
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imd
CHANGEISGOODsplitting is nie pap n vleis, i didn't write my exams lase semester due to me & my hun were fighting, i was flipped & couldn't concerntrate, so i know what are going thruogh, as said above only "time heals"
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eish sorry san......
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LESON.1
@MSG_SOh Lord!. This article is going to make people like SWEETYK wa nnyy00 e kgolo and crew dizzy this Friday.For now they are just busy with the divorced lady from your morning edition, SOWETAN. They have'nt noticed this one yet.
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SexyAngel
As difficult as it might seem - if you have given a relationship your all and the person still decides to leave you, then you need to accept that your best was not good enough for the person. Stop beating yourself up cause they are the ones that lost, not you.Report Abuse
oratilePride
im in the same situation i was almost married to my baby daddy he paid lobola and everything but out of the blue he told me he cant marry me anymore believe you me i thot my life was over cos i really loved this man but what can i do he has made up his mind and i cant force him to love me... so my sister just hang in there it will pass just have in GodReport Abuse
JnrJack
@SexyAngelAs difficult as it might seem - if you have given a relationship your all and the person still decides to leave you, then you need to accept that your best was not good enough for the person. Stop beating yourself up cause they are the ones that lost, not you
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A buggleGum if its old and tasteless what would this poor MAN supposed to do with it?
Women are like a bubbleGum....Gents, look what you buy: dont buy a bubbleGum of poor quality, cheap, expired because you will end up having to replace that bubbleGum with the more tastier, good qaulity and up to date one
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1937
UP THE BUCS till Jessica brings me a beer.Report Abuse
SWEETYK
SkopokopoSWEETYK
@ Skopokopo
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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Ok frend will hala you late when im about to leave.
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M0tho ke wena nna ke saletse ke 2hours ya bo busy.
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LESON.1
@MaeziTill monday and have a nice 1, Eish ke tshegile go feta tekano plus ke spana ke enya (Heineken), ene o kare e tlo ntrapa today but ke tla ba strong
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Skopokopo
SWEETYKSkopokopo
SWEETYK
@ Skopokopo
Gona le batho ba mpherolang dikilana moo bye frend!!
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Ok frend will hala you late when im about to leave.
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M0tho ke wena nna ke saletse ke 2hours ya bo busy.
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Me too frendo, will be leaving at 4.30
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Bumboklaat
Sweetky ore dikilana di irang?kikikikikiki! Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa!DEAD with laughing!
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JnrJack
@oratilePrideim in the same situation i was almost married to my baby daddy he paid lobola and everything but out of the blue he told me he cant marry me anymore believe you me i thot my life was over cos i really loved this man but what can i do he has made up his mind and i cant force him to love me... so my sister just hang in there it will pass just have in God
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Ok your story seems interesting.....its very unfortunate because we can only get one side of the storie which is so beautiful......you are a bubbleGum...is thats why you was thrown away in the sewerage farm like a piece of thra.sh!!!
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MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Kgaitsedi yaka le tlohele letsukunyepe leo la monna hoba le yena eo o ntse a tlo moseiya feela jwalo hoba o ya bonahal ho re ha o iso tsebe seo a se batlang.A tle ho rona bo kgakga-di-nkgekge re mo rupelle moshanyana eo wa monna.
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Bumboklaat
@1937UP THE BUCS till Jessica brings me a beer.
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Hai fotshek wena man le di bucs tsa gao. go re le ka bethwa vandag!
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Bumboklaat
@JnrJackWena Tripitaka o ska tla ka di teale tsagao tsabo Ishaphopha hierso ne?
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Bumboklaat
@MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!Wena ke sure o Katakata!
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Skopokopo
LESON.1@Maezi
Till monday and have a nice 1, Eish ke tshegile go feta tekano plus ke spana ke enya (Heineken), ene o kare e tlo ntrapa today but ke tla ba strong
-------------------------------------Logging to Taboo Club and Albino ch1ck here i come later Off-----------------------Hamba maan !! you wont be missed!!
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JnrJack
kgaitsedi, if no o febela daiman...otlohele bofebe bonoo ka he monna akake a dula le lapeng le nang le befebe teng...leha hole txenana nka nako yahao a oke o ipatlisise ke hona otla fumana monna eno o atswang thabeng wa molamu(po.lo) wa tshipe....atla hoho kgalema nawana e ka hare ho sesadi sa haho...Report Abuse
pierre2012
@ oratilePrideim in the same situation i was almost married to my baby daddy he paid lobola and everything but out of the blue he told me he cant marry me anymore believe you me i thot my life was over cos i really loved this man but what can i do he has made up his mind and i cant force him to love me... so my sister just hang in there it will pass just have in God
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Sorry for the pain that you went through. I think lovers should not rush to 'make' babies b4 they know each other well - preferably after marriage.
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SWEETYK
BumboklaatSweetky ore dikilana di irang?
kikikikikiki! Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa!DEAD with laughing!
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Di a pherolega ke mpja tse, a kere dibete disoft gale ba di ravazitse so ba ko dikilaneng tsaka. LOL
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JnrJack
@Bumboklaat@JnrJack
Wena Tripitaka o ska tla ka di teale tsagao tsabo Ishaphopha hierso ne?
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he moxa!!! ke tlago kgaola tshika ya molamu(Pinas)....ona ke JnrJack, senwabarwana....selala setshetha mashigo se hlotha pitsen tse kgolo!! ngwanaka
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MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@BumboklaatMakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Wena ke sure o Katakata!
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Ke mang eo?
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SkopokopoLESON.1
@Maezi
Till monday and have a nice 1, Eish ke tshegile go feta tekano plus ke spana ke enya (Heineken), ene o kare e tlo ntrapa today but ke tla ba strong
-------------------------------------Logging to Taboo Club and Albino ch1ck here i come later Off-----------------------Hamba maan !! you wont be missed!!
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Wa tsamaya kante ntse kere o tla kwano, your back is like your front. Maoto a lwantshana tsamaya kiss madolo. Kikikikikikiki tltltlttltlltltlltltlltltltltlltltltll Bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Habore gwa (Kenneth's voice).
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Bumboklaat
@JnrJackO di botse ntotoagao tseo kaore le yona ke lefsega e tshwana le wena ge e b0na nny0 ya hunyela!Tsek
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@MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!@Bumboklaat
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Wena ke sure o Katakata!
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Ke mang eo?
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never mind
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JnrJack
@ALLA VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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JnrJack
@ALLA VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Bumboklaat
@JnrJack@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Tsek tsamaya, atleast nna ra di berekisa eseng wena ojang marago ka plastiki ya borotho!
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MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@BumboklaatMakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
@Bumboklaat
MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!
Wena ke sure o Katakata!
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Ke mang eo?
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never mind
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Ohooo Katakata eo ke "never mind" che ha ke motsebe.
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Bumboklaat
@MakgwebelakaKokoYaManoti!Ska phapha tu Matontshe!
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Skopokopo
SWEETYKBumboklaat
Sweetky ore dikilana di irang?
kikikikikiki! Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa!DEAD with laughing!
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Di a pherolega ke mpja tse, a kere dibete disoft gale ba di ravazitse so ba ko dikilaneng tsaka. LOL
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Frendo, ive been reading this a thousand times, what do you say axactly. i get it kancane kikikiki
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Skopokopo
JnrJack@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Hamba nawe maan!!
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SWEETYK
Bumboklaat@JnrJack
@ALL
A VERY JOYFULL WEEKEND TO YOU ALL, TILL WE MEET NEXT WEEK AND CONDOMS ARE THERE TO BE WORN ON UR SMALL PINASSES AND NOT TO BE BLOWN TO MAKE BALOOONS~~~~~~~~~~~~LOGGING OFF~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Tsek tsamaya, atleast nna ra di berekisa eseng wena ojang marago ka plastiki ya borotho!
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Bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa kikikikikikikikik tltltltttltltlttltlltttllttltttltll iyooooooooooooooooooo Bumbos plastic ya borotho kkikikikikikikikikikikikikkikikikikikiikikiki.
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Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
same girls on this blog - are you working for sowetan? nxaaadn't you have a life......... sell your kuku's like i do cos guys need it like nothing els- just for today only from 10:30 this morning till now, i already have R8,400.00.....in my pocket.....count the hours and compare to your monthly salaries and plus SARS is ripping you off.....
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Owami36
Devastated Divorcee - spend a few days/months mourning the loss of your marriage - BUT please snap out of it at some point. You have a teenage who has also suffered a loss, and needs you to have your act together. Sort yourself out.Next time, have a LIFE, and don't define your existence and self-worth a single individual. If you do that you become a heavy burden even to the person you claim to love. Think about it - would you want to have anyone saying their lives would be worthless if you were not around. It's a scary thought - enough to make a person run for cover.
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BOSSOKEMANGG
@ Mellow, I'm speaking on a man's point of view. You speak like a typical women. you will never understand how a men's mind work, so listen to what this guys are saying.I share the same sentiments. women are beautiful out there and why should i get stuck with someone who does not turn me on anymore?U should remind me of the reason I married you every now and then.Report Abuse
SWEETYK
@ SkopokopoOohh my God here comes Maditlhapa, banna ba teng ba tsameile ba romile ena.
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Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
Divorce this -Divorce that, marriage that - marriage this, Just make money and how you do it's no one business..Report Abuse
imd
Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%same girls on this blog - are you working for sowetan? nxaaa
dn't you have a life......... sell your kuku's like i do cos guys need it like nothing els- just for today only from 10:30 this morning till now, i already have R8,400.00.....in my pocket.....count the hours and compare to your monthly salaries and plus SARS is ripping you off.....
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dzead4days bwaaaaaaaaaaahahahahaaaaaaaa
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Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
@imdyou can laugh as much as you want- i dnt care, what i know is that you are more stressed like h3ll come pay-day...
i dnt worry about waking up in the morning to catch a taxi,train, bus, walk or drive just for the sake of this two stup1d words (job/work) no no no stranger- this rich matherfackers comes to me using their petrol or taxi fees to pay me... i started this biz in 2010 Nov and now i have my own house, 2 cars- bought them cash and no stress plus i dnt needs kids...
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SWEETYK
Oooho liar liar liar liarReport Abuse
Galfrend-Kuku-4-sale-100%
Oooho liar liar liar liar- i have appointment at 16:10, i'm going to prepare myself cos i was bored and thought of you sowetan bloggers..... at least i was here for couple of minutes and i dnt regret it........ so take care, i want to make my kuku wet and shake some1 till he feint .......Oooho liar liar liar liar, Oooho liar liar liar liar,
Oooho liar liar liar liar,Oooho liar liar liar liar
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SWEETYK
@ ALL LOVIESSHARP KE TSONA TILL MONDAY BARATUWA NICE WEEKEND.
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Skopokopo
@SweetykBye my lovies, have a great weekend. Lov ya
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SWEETYK
Skopokopo@Sweetyk
Bye my lovies, have a great weekend. Lov ya
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Love you 6 babes
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californiaqueen
move on life goes on. get a life chat online and try divorced dating site you will fee a thousand % better, your story is small fry as compared to other people 's storiesReport Abuse
EZASE-NYUKHANASI
people do change i dont know why especially in marriageReport Abuse
moralett
i was in that situation the past two years with stupit girl friend. I just told myself that i will pass the stage and i did manage. So as human being do not isolate yourself go out , work with people we will benefit from them. Come out from that situation that you are now. Trust GOD he will deliever for you my darling. Amen and AmenReport Abuse
Mzalaz
I just took my tyme to read nearly all of ur comments guys, though I think im far than this kind of problem but I think it's help to read such good advices so that if these thingz fall on one's head in future, one will know how to deal with them. No need of waisting too much time feeling sorry for yourself or blaming urself asking questions like " where did I go wrong" without any good answer,as this man told her that " you didn't do anything wrong, its just that Im no longer in love with you" wowI wonder what makes love to end after years of marriage, it's not fair but US women should learn to move on, though its painful but the fact that we are the one's who love more doesn't mean we have to punish ourselves for devorce.We should stop thinking our men are everything and that we can die without them coz its NOT TRUE, life should go on coz there are many beautiful things that God has kept for us than these husband's we marry.
Good luck sesi, you gonna be alright I promise, these things comes and goes, you have a good family in Sowetan.
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nalita
Sister thats nothing dear to my experience, what i can tell you get your self busy and stop thinking about that man you didnt do anything wrong. Just move on.Report Abuse
Seperated
Well, its a sad incident. Sister, there are lots of man who will be happy to have you. You sound like a good loyal woman. He will either come back one day OR God will give you a good man who will make you happy. Take is easy sister. Accept it. The world is bigger that your ex. Go and enjoy it. You have our sympathy and supportReport Abuse
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