You are not even married just leave this stupid guy,he is good for nothing. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Pointman
Her family might actually be glad to see her again and also that she has wised up. Let the fleabag go before he gives you HIV or HPV or worse takes out an insurance policy on you. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Mosquer
Hlala nto yeo, ga se monna maan. I suspect he is cheating, and calling you stupid selfish woman when he is with his friends and other gf Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Bra_NeatDick
I have no one to turn to and I often think I would be better off dead.
Stupid girl leave this d umb a s s and mend your relationship with ur family before its too late. Why ar u still him did he give U korobela or what? mxm i can't believe this. a girl leaving her family to go an feed / babysit a grown a s s imm ature boy.
Actually U don't need advise, U just need a good hiding so u can cum back to ur senses, if there's any brains left. Report Abuse
Why do you have to disrespect yourself like that, get the hell out. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Mosadiii
@Ebony.Girl
Why are you still with man? Just go!
Agreed.The lady should just give him marching orders. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
rasefatee
eish mara some women ba rata mareete tooo much hlala maseepa ao maaan he is not even your baby o ja wena o nyaa wena o hlapa wena he does not sleeep at home what a dogg next youll be HIV+ o setlaela Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
1 Blo.od is thicker than water, never turn ag.ainst your family all in the name of a man.
2 he's not abu.sing you, you're allowing his unac.ceptable b.ehavior.
3 There's still hope if you can drop that la.zy 28 year old, smo.oching off your salary
4 Know your self-wor.th, s.top settling for less
You just have to blame yourself, how do you love somebody who clearly doesnt love you? Leave him Babe, he is a good-for-nothing-type of person (not man....please). Nna ke available my babe you wont have to work either. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@JUBJUB
The sad part he's not even working
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So what?? Do u know how many Men are taking care of women who are not working...That comment really shows the kind of Person u r Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
JajazQueen
How can you love him but not love yourself. Put your foot down or get the loser out of your life. Report Abuse
rasefatee
eish mara some women ba rata mareete tooo much hlala maseepa ao maaan he is not even your baby o ja wena o nyaa wena o hlapa wena he does not sleeep at home what a dogg next youll be HIV+ o setlaela
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hahaha @rasefatse hai o ditlapa maan ,tjeer.... Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Serenade
Your family will always remain your family no matter what, leave that guy he is using you for his needs. Report Abuse
Lady get out of there, this many doesn't love you nor respects you. Stop acting stupid cos u r aware of what's happening with you there. Hes just using u and he's got a girlfriend thats why he never answers when he didnt sleep at home. TSWA KOOO. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Socrates
setlaela sa ngwanyana, o sa dirang le selo seo, leave this looser and move on with your life Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Babedollz
@ 25 o editse vat n sit, with a man who's not even working. Woman wise up. I dnt see myself living wth a man who's not contributing to my well being 2 age 25. Report Abuse
Please woman you don't need to be a rocket scientist to make assertive decisions when it comes to your life! Yes we kiss many frogs but how can you even allow this tadpole to remove you from your support system? Sesi just start by getting rid of this bloodsucker and then proceed to working on your relationship with your family then your friends..... By the way you don't need a psychologist, a priest, a friend, a lifeline councellor to tell you that you deserve better than you are settling for! Get a grip and stop the pitty party right now...... Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Mbaley
Tjo! Hayi this guy is not a man mos sisi. Never stay when it hurts. Hlukana naye. Other men see what he saw kuwe. You're just tollerating disrespect in the highest degree my sister!
I have no one to turn to and I often think I would be better off dead.
That's not a good statement sister just get up and pick yourself up Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
GODESS
Ngwanyana i think nje you are still with him because o go nyakaza monate, why would you tolerate nonsense e so? nna yena ebile ke a te tseba ke nale seteno nkabe e lekgale ke mohladile. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Ona
Wow, i really can relate to this. I had also found myself in her position. But girly make sure you get out of that relationship. The dude only cares about your moola and his fuckin ego.
Sometimes women and am not "generalising here" suffer from what is called the "SPEED OF THOUGHT"......which i think is freely given to every man at birth....really do you even need to write this and ask for help...... for your own sake walk away.....there are no decisions that need to be made why should you support a man who doesnt even care about you.....to make matters worse he still blames you for his problems in his life....if you the source of his problems and still put food on the table for him i say leave.... Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Mochene
nna akase dumele go jewa ka godimo leka fase nie....hlala mpja man,im certain oja zaka ya gago le dichacha somewhere ko a robalang gona. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
zaco'z
Yes...................... Good morning!
some articles are yerrrrrrrrrrrrrr Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
TrapStar
Mxm one of those who choose Love from Family
Just this time when she chose Abuse from Family and friends Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
TKay
These are the results of vat n sit - I dont understannd why you are putting up with this sh!t if you are not married to the guy. Your family will always be there for you, so put your pride aside and go back home and apologise Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Samanthahhh
Just leave him alone you don't deserve to be treated like this!! you will find someone who will love and respect you.You deserve better Sisi!!!! Report Abuse
Just leave this man you don't deserve to be treated like this.One day you'll find someone who is going to love you and respect you.You are so better than this!!!! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U
1 Blo.od is thicker than water
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and sper'm is thicker than bloo'd Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
CheeseBoy
Bertrams you are giving all sisters a bad name by staying with this loer, what is it ? is the se.x that good that you cant think clearly? WAKE UP! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Nincompoop
Young women never listen to advices these day and are making bad choices that, unfortunately they have to live with. I am struggling with my nieces that have left home stay with boyfriends, now they want to come back because of abuse. When things cool they go back to their boyfriends. Young lady, your family is important to you and I believe they want the best for you. You need their support in every aspect of your life, when you destroy your relationship with your family, you are as good as lost.
You will have to live with the bad choices you make in life, or seek advice and apologise to your family. Report Abuse
He doesnt respect you, the only thing that protect a woman from man is when he respects her. He doesnt hit you yet but beleive he will, just slap him in the chick and tell me how many blows you will get.
Leave the bust erd and go back to your family, they will give you a very warm welcome. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
SeshegoGuY
@Jalusi
live him
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LEAVE him---- Eish OBE Students!
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kwaaa!! making yourself better ,,,ke "Sowetan blog" moo, i find people who like to correct our engrish quite "aMUSING"...as if u were born an English speaker. :-) Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius,lol...no wonder, she's confused
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o ne a isa kae lelofa phela batho bao ba tella go feta batho banang le zaka. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Mofereferelenyalong
come on gal don't be stupid , you won't be better off dead you'll better off without him ...
Just apologise to your family and live your life , love is not enough and sometimes it just doesn't fix some situations like yours . Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
BinoBanga
Girl try to communicate these probelms with him when you are both happy and do your best to be clear as to what you expect from him, yet dont expect the impossible. Start by, maybe inviting him to join you when you are preparing for supper, dinner or brealfast! When you communicate with him, start by appreciating the little positive things that he does for you-as the conversation gains momentum come to the little negative things that he doey to you and you will see, you would have laid a foundation of good communication channel.
If he truly loves you he will be in a position to see that you are the womenhe needs and if he fail to realised that THEN F#@$#$$ HIM!!! Tell him to buss off. Tshika mbyaaa ya leyo yi ya fela lekule leeeee!!!! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Dimpho
Some things are just plain straight forward....Actually in my next lifetime im gonna be an High School Maths teacher, slowly getting tired of the corporate world. Mare o Sharp ngwana..... Any plans for the wknd?? Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius,lol...no wonder, she's confused
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o ne a isa kae lelofa phela batho bao ba tella go feta batho banang le zaka.
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ene wa ba tseba,"lerato le bofofu"(love is blind) ke ipotsa what made her decide to vat 'n sit le yena....ngwano' le yena mara..maybe she thought he'll change with time__ Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
KejaKuKu_yadibloggers
o stlaela sa ngwanyana fooled by love......he doesn't love u damnit. leave this a$$hole and c how he's gonna survive without ur salary. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
KejaKuKu_yadibloggers
o stlaela sa ngwanyana fooled by love......he doesn't love u damnit. leave this donkeyhole and c how he's gonna survive without ur salary. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
SeshegoGuY
@Dimpho
Some things are just plain straight forward....Actually in my next lifetime im gonna be an High School Maths teacher, slowly getting tired of the corporate world. Mare o Sharp ngwana..... Any plans for the wknd??
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noh sharp future meneer....eish weekend ke ya lefung la moahisane,,,mare ge..ke tshepa botselo bo o tswere sharp! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
LERATOLANNA
THAT SOUNDS LIKE MY BF. HEY I THINK THIS BASTARD WAS TWO TIMING US, BLOODY AGENT. QUIT THE DAMN RELATIONSHIP Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
@Dimpho-phela wa tseba gore ma-authi a spanang KM(Kasi Management)ba na le maleme a borethe they charm everywhere and they make sure they look good everyday,gape o thole ngwano a ntse a le mo bodutung nou o thotse mashaya and nja e ntsha mekgwa ya yona.Phela le lona ge le spana you go for a killl le reka di transie tse bohloko le reka matlo a grand nou bo bra ke spana kae kae ba letshaba then ke moo go fitlhang manyora teng ma-authi a spanang KM. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Dimpho
Ke sharp ngwana. Got a bit of flu so im staying indoors this weekend Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
hhm!o tlho'la o apots'e mapon'a every afternoo'n o be o tshameka ka piiipi,mofikela o tla go nyes'a o na ha o na taba gore o matswa'ing or what. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
RYE
yawn* some girls are so dam.n ignorant wa tseba... she just needs a wake up klap..nxa Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
NevusAuvius
@Dimpho-phela wa tseba gore ma-authi a spanang KM(Kasi Management)ba na le maleme a borethe they charm everywhere and they make sure they look good everyday,gape o thole ngwano a ntse a le mo bodutung nou o thotse mashaya and nja e ntsha mekgwa ya yona.Phela le lona ge le spana you go for a killl le reka di transie tse bohloko le reka matlo a grand nou bo bra ke spana kae kae ba letshaba then ke moo go fitlhang manyora teng ma-authi a spanang KM.
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ke waar __ i hope ladies, will get what u just said..mashaya o tla o shaya-shaya,until he gets what he wants..then he shows them true colors
@SeshegoGuY...okay Rre o be sharp lol Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
@Rye-o buang kgale o ba rekela mabanta a Hanana Boy bo Tumelo maan. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MAARKENG-JANONG
She would be b etter off with guys like Nevusauvius; Maeszisto; Mornachies; Tsek, etc coz ba spana. The only problem ba rogana majita ana. kikikikikikiki......bhwa........kwakwakwa. LO L Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
kikikikikiki wena o dom kikikikikikiki fede boy?hai o nchwatlelang hoseng so? Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MOTHUBANNYO
Wa nnyela cherie e cos wa iketsa - some women are very STUPID Report Abuse
Ola boy!!!! Ke ne ke greeta Boy. O chaele Maezi a ska nroga neh!!!!!! Meant to be a joke.
Sharp bafowethu!!!! Articles tsa today dia bora man!!!! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
@Dimpho-vele gona le majita a shelang ke tsa ba nang le tsona ska transi,zakanyana,dhlopi(diaparo) le flat or ntlo,nou ge ba kopana le bo-ousi ke na le gotlhe ba vele ba je u-turn,that is why ba tshamekelang ko mabencaneng le bo sesi ba kasi.Phela wena ge o na le tsa gago o ka se impresiwe ke go isiwa ko KFC for di zinger wings mos. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
monnawaka
My dear your happiness comes first, your so called boyfirend is a looser and i don't think you want to end up been a looser like him, you are still young and i'm sure there are decent man out there who knows how to treat a woman, Leave that useless looser now before is too late. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Elady
You don't need the bustard to make you happy. Take a lead in your life. Your mom will never dish you out regardless of what happened. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
MAARKENG-JANONG
@Nevi
Ola boy!!!! Ke ne ke greeta Boy. O chaele Maezi a ska nroga neh!!!!!! Meant to be a joke.
Sharp bafowethu!!!! Articles tsa today dia bora man!!!!
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tweede boy!hai vele never a ho fluka . Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius hahahaha ...wena o ntsa di guy- code phela,,,,,mara ke rata di zinger wings__zinger winning!! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
maezizsto68
This girl must just speak to his man and leave Dolly alone.Basade ba tena the next thing o tlo lla gore monna o spenda nako le dichomi.Tshwanetse a ipotse gore if o eletsa dai man dilo tse a reng wa di etsa why dai man a sa mo tlhompe.Never o lome letsogo le le go fepang so o tenne ngwana wa batho o enough ke yena.Go apologise to your man for all the naggings. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MOTHUBANNYO
maezizsto68
This girl must just speak to his man and leave Dolly alone.Basade ba tena the next thing o tlo lla gore monna o spenda nako le dichomi.Tshwanetse a ipotse gore if o eletsa dai man dilo tse a reng wa di etsa why dai man a sa mo tlhompe.Never o lome letsogo le le go fepang so o tenne ngwana wa batho o enough ke yena.Go apologise to your man for all the naggings.
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Bliv you me most man do that - ba loma letsogo le le ba fepang Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius hahahaha ...wena o ntsa di guy- code phela
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bona le macheri a sa spaneng a tshamekela gole le bo lova ba tseba gore ba gereza kaofela and jwang.Bo sesi ba spanang especially spane senang le zaka ba tshosa and nou ge majita a le skaars ba qena ba nka ntho e ngwe le e ngwe e tlhagellang Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MOTHUBANNYO
NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius hahahaha ...wena o ntsa di guy- code phela
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bona le macheri a sa spaneng a tshamekela gole le bo lova ba tseba gore ba gereza kaofela and jwang.Bo sesi ba spanang especially spane senang le zaka ba tshosa and nou ge majita a le skaars ba qena ba nka ntho e ngwe le e ngwe e tlhagellang
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Dis waar NevusAuvius, phela most so called independent women are very desperate for kwai my autie Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
RYE
ze blod is boring today, maybe cos batho ga ba yo mo..let me log off.*yawn* Report Abuse
boy fede,phela ge ke fitlha ka mo NW ke mixitse authi engwe ya ko kasi moerr ne e phela daai ding,goseng o gaiwa zaka bo ma pinana to nare ka mo fredge e re zixe ka gaolo hahaha mshemane authi e e ne e senya phela sunday ka di jampas tse groot blind ge re tswa nkwaring and re saletswe ke biyanyana na vaya ka biya then goseng re ya ko ene ro ntsha stlamo,kikikikikikikiki moer o tla gadika mae,bacon,di-russian,wors bona dishabo dishabong boy. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
dimpho_4U
hahahah___enjoy your blogging,dimpho o tsamaille!! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Blackstone.lebs
Family relationships are natural so take charge and rebuild it, you're the one that left anyway...only you can change the situation you're in. If he's lazy, drop him. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MOTHUBANNYO
RYE
yawn* some girls are so dam.n ignorant wa tseba... she just needs a wake up klap..nxa
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Cherrie e e batla go thubiwa NNYO vuil, that's what she need Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
@Mothuba-ke jiti ya cherrie e providang e ba super-glue le ge go sa tlhokagale,mara nna ke tseba ho ba channela its either re etsa dintho my way or ra tlogela. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
maezizsto68
Mara boi go o ka sheba neh di medi tse di nang le zaka di laeka go controla too much ene dai ding ska le authi e tlo go khenya.O tla utlwa o chaelwa gore "wena wa nyokgotlha mara ga o reke sepe,se o se itseng ke go kakalla motshegare o tlhe".Phela le wena o tlo di bala gore ai ona qho ga ke na le yena wa nkhomba nqono ko mbomba le mauthi.Ke flopo ya tsona di medi tseo Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MORNACHIESS
kikiikikikiikikik i've bin looking for tis article ever since thias morning hawu .....
Good Morning everyone !!!! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MOTHUBANNYO
But gents let's be fair - what kind of a grown ass man a tlo providiwa ke cherrie ?
Le ene mjita o ke snaye man Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Jojo104
I don't think what the lady is telling, it's the truth, rather an excuse so that she can have some more reasons to leave her boyfriend. Because if, it were all true that she telling, she would have lelf the guy without even coming to Ses Dudu to complain.
My estimation of the situation is that, the guy has been retrenched and is struggling to find another job, but not doing all these kinds of misconduct the lady is claiming. As such, the lady has just secured herself a lovely young man who working and wants to replace this guy due to his unemployment status, and nothing more.
Yes, do it lady, but one day you will regret your actions, and of course miss the guy... Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
rasefatee
the possibility is that the guy o moloile ka pipii ya elephant Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
NevusAuvius
@Maezisto-phela boy batho ba ba operatiwa ka tsela dingwe,nna ke kile ka phela ka thekene gole sleg mshemaneke le ausi ntate(motshegare ke ausie cleaner o phege jampass ke ntate zwakala ka nkauza)mara boy ne ke forstana gore ke batlang ka nyamezela,ene ne a nagana gore wa qhoma ko bo tsala gore ke madam kante iewers mo bo tsala gona le ba batlang authi enang le tlhokomelo.Daai medi ne a mpatella ko sgila a mbaela dhlopi le ntswambu phela ne ke apara (Prince and Co)ka zaka ya hae. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Mellow
Mistakes are part of life. They teach us that some things shouldn't be done again. However, mistakes can also lead us to a lifetime suffering, you my dear needs to break free the burden you carrying is really not worth it. Love is not enough and you cant keep putting him first he obviously doesnt care about feelings that's why he not bothered. Its sad to be in a relationship and realise that you are the only one in love and the other party is just there to pass the time. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
THE_MAN
Mabebeza.......
One thing i've learned in life is that, you'll sacrifice something that you never thought you would, like your love for the guy. He knows that and he is taking advantage of that.
The best thing for you is to let yourself or your heart know that you love him, but unfornunately you cannot live with him, it's unhealthy. Let yourself get used to the idea that you cannot be with him even though you love him, once you get to accept that, then, it will be easy for you to leave him and go back to family and friends and tell them you are very sorry about what happened, they will not let you down...They will understand...
I does not make you any less of value that this happened to you, this stuff does happen.
MOTHUBANNY'O
But gent's let's be fair - what kind of a grown as s man a tlo providiwa ke cherrie ?
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e ya ko kas'i no'u bath'o ba i le spane'ng, auth'i e o e bonan'g e le veryyy nea't ka expensiv'e designe'r clothessss ke yon'a e o ge'. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
MORNACHIESS
Mo fe alibirimi mpsya e hwe so a sniks mann ! Report Abuse
NevusAuvius
Ke tlo e thuba then e be e tlala ka skelm - verstaan my autie Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Rakgadi-Tabeya
Le rata lenyalo le le bana. At 25 you should be enjoying your youth days darling. Leave that rubbish and reconcile with your family and friens. And o stope go hlalisana in life, wait for the man who loves you dearly if a sa tle join us the single independent women - what's wrong with you nxa. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Makhosini0408
Maybe Khumbula Ekhaya will be the right platform to sort out your dilemma. There is no place like home after all.
No one has the power to change anyone's behaviour. The guy must sort himself out and you are so young to be burdened especially indoda engafuni ukusebenzi. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
truthhurt
Dont you even try to leave that man, he loves you, and right now he needs you more than he ever did, support him, things will be fine, ok! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Bumboklaat
Nywe nywe nywe....I feel desperately unhappy se g@t! Retla lapa ka lena man. wa itsi g0re tshwanetse wetseng mara osa re botsisa! ngwanyana o sale o monnyane go thlwa o balabala ka selatsa sa moshimanyana man. le lena tlogelang go kitimisa di charmaboy le sa lebelle di personality man! Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Ms-B
I cant believe people actualy write for help for such things because the answer here is simple. pack your bags and leave the bustard before he brings you all these nasty deseases because i suspect when you live him for work, he does not just sit and watch tv the whole day. You did not come on this earth with anyone, so why would you endure such treatment from someone who does not even have a job. its true what they say, love is blind. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
truthhurt
Good things come to those who wait, stay with that guy and dont listen to all these jealous people. Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
mokete33
GIRLFRIEND WA GAFA TLOGELA MOTHO O DONT B A MOTHER TO SOMEBODY WHO DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR WELL BEING.I DONT THINK THIS GUY IS REALLY YOUR SOULMATE COZ A SOULMATE WILL NEVA LET U SUFFER. DUMP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO Report Abuse
May 18, 2012
Lehido
You are not married, leave him NOW..
He got nothing on you, except love, im sure if you werin his shoes, he would have left you a long time ago....
He depends on you selfish ba$tard, Leave him......He eats your money, and still eat your pu$$y and eat your food, and still had the nerve to say kak to you?..
- this is easy and not a rocket science, JUST LEAVEthe bugger and GO HOME! Report Abuse
May 19, 2012
superowl
You are in a classical relationship with a misogynist. You describe typical symptoms of such a relationship. He has managed to isolate you completely. This males it possible for him to control you completely.He is abusing you emotionally as well as financially. He manipulated you to the extent that you are convinced that it is all your fault. Get out of this relationship! There is very little chance that he will change, although he will convince you many times that he will. The problem lies with him and his personality defects. Why should you take the punishment for his problems? You should also try to get hold of a book with the title: Men who hate women and the women who love them. This will give you an excellent insight into the mindset of your partner. Report Abuse
May 24, 2012
kudi
u entse scroplap sa hae get out befpre it's too late, you are not married to him Report Abuse
May 29, 2012
tokolosi
call me, I wont swear at you nor even get angry at you......usebenzela indoda, iyhooo - call me, I wanna retire too Report Abuse
Aug 31, 2012
D-liciousLips
like all the other gals in abusive relationships u will leave the guy n ur family in a body bag, sure he may not be abusing you physically bt if he realy loves you he would not b behaving like an ass, uzosi sola sisi, u deserve way better.
love is a two way street, i giv n he needs to give back, if he doesnt cut him loose coz he does not know the meaning of love. Report Abuse
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Ebony.Girl
Why are you still with man? Just go!Report Abuse
JUBJUB
You are not even married just leave this stupid guy,he is good for nothing.Report Abuse
Pointman
Her family might actually be glad to see her again and also that she has wised up. Let the fleabag go before he gives you HIV or HPV or worse takes out an insurance policy on you.Report Abuse
Mosquer
Hlala nto yeo, ga se monna maan. I suspect he is cheating, and calling you stupid selfish woman when he is with his friends and other gfReport Abuse
Bra_NeatDick
I have no one to turn to and I often think I would be better off dead.Stupid girl leave this d umb a s s and mend your relationship with ur family before its too late. Why ar u still him did he give U korobela or what? mxm i can't believe this. a girl leaving her family to go an feed / babysit a grown a s s imm ature boy.
Actually U don't need advise, U just need a good hiding so u can cum back to ur senses, if there's any brains left.
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JUBJUB
The sad part he's not even workingReport Abuse
Sgodiphola
Why do you have to disrespect yourself like that, get the hell out.Report Abuse
Mosadiii
@Ebony.GirlWhy are you still with man? Just go!
Agreed.The lady should just give him marching orders.
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rasefatee
eish mara some women ba rata mareete tooo much hlala maseepa ao maaan he is not even your baby o ja wena o nyaa wena o hlapa wena he does not sleeep at home what a dogg next youll be HIV+ o setlaelaReport Abuse
dimpho_4U
1 Blo.od is thicker than water, never turn ag.ainst your family all in the name of a man.2 he's not abu.sing you, you're allowing his unac.ceptable b.ehavior.
3 There's still hope if you can drop that la.zy 28 year old, smo.oching off your salary
4 Know your self-wor.th, s.top settling for less
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Spanasi
You just have to blame yourself, how do you love somebody who clearly doesnt love you? Leave him Babe, he is a good-for-nothing-type of person (not man....please). Nna ke available my babe you wont have to work either.Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@JUBJUBThe sad part he's not even working
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So what?? Do u know how many Men are taking care of women who are not working...That comment really shows the kind of Person u r
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JajazQueen
How can you love him but not love yourself. Put your foot down or get the loser out of your life.Report Abuse
Spanasi
Mo tlhale, o useless this suckkker.Report Abuse
dimpho_4U
rasefateeeish mara some women ba rata mareete tooo much hlala maseepa ao maaan he is not even your baby o ja wena o nyaa wena o hlapa wena he does not sleeep at home what a dogg next youll be HIV+ o setlaela
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hahaha @rasefatse hai o ditlapa maan ,tjeer....
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Serenade
Your family will always remain your family no matter what, leave that guy he is using you for his needs.Report Abuse
Firefly
RUN VERY FAST.Report Abuse
Nonc3ba
Lady get out of there, this many doesn't love you nor respects you. Stop acting stupid cos u r aware of what's happening with you there. Hes just using u and he's got a girlfriend thats why he never answers when he didnt sleep at home. TSWA KOOO.Report Abuse
Socrates
setlaela sa ngwanyana, o sa dirang le selo seo, leave this looser and move on with your lifeReport Abuse
Babedollz
@ 25 o editse vat n sit, with a man who's not even working. Woman wise up. I dnt see myself living wth a man who's not contributing to my well being 2 age 25.Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@BabedollzGold-Digging Tendencies
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Ann
Good advise sis dolly!Report Abuse
Heavenonearth
Please woman you don't need to be a rocket scientist to make assertive decisions when it comes to your life! Yes we kiss many frogs but how can you even allow this tadpole to remove you from your support system? Sesi just start by getting rid of this bloodsucker and then proceed to working on your relationship with your family then your friends..... By the way you don't need a psychologist, a priest, a friend, a lifeline councellor to tell you that you deserve better than you are settling for! Get a grip and stop the pitty party right now......Report Abuse
Mbaley
Tjo! Hayi this guy is not a man mos sisi. Never stay when it hurts. Hlukana naye. Other men see what he saw kuwe. You're just tollerating disrespect in the highest degree my sister!GET OUT!
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tpaz
This sounds like MOMMAC......Report Abuse
Msiphos00
I have no one to turn to and I often think I would be better off dead.That's not a good statement sister just get up and pick yourself up
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GODESS
Ngwanyana i think nje you are still with him because o go nyakaza monate, why would you tolerate nonsense e so? nna yena ebile ke a te tseba ke nale seteno nkabe e lekgale ke mohladile.Report Abuse
Ona
Wow, i really can relate to this. I had also found myself in her position. But girly make sure you get out of that relationship. The dude only cares about your moola and his fuckin ego.Report Abuse
Jalusi
live himReport Abuse
Jaquo
Sometimes women and am not "generalising here" suffer from what is called the "SPEED OF THOUGHT"......which i think is freely given to every man at birth....really do you even need to write this and ask for help...... for your own sake walk away.....there are no decisions that need to be made why should you support a man who doesnt even care about you.....to make matters worse he still blames you for his problems in his life....if you the source of his problems and still put food on the table for him i say leave....Report Abuse
Mochene
nna akase dumele go jewa ka godimo leka fase nie....hlala mpja man,im certain oja zaka ya gago le dichacha somewhere ko a robalang gona.Report Abuse
zaco'z
Yes...................... Good morning!some articles are yerrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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TrapStar
Mxm one of those who choose Love from FamilyJust this time when she chose Abuse from Family and friends
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TKay
These are the results of vat n sit - I dont understannd why you are putting up with this sh!t if you are not married to the guy. Your family will always be there for you, so put your pride aside and go back home and apologiseReport Abuse
Samanthahhh
Just leave him alone you don't deserve to be treated like this!! you will find someone who will love and respect you.You deserve better Sisi!!!!Report Abuse
Mdovu
ShemReport Abuse
Samanthahhh
Just leave this man you don't deserve to be treated like this.One day you'll find someone who is going to love you and respect you.You are so better than this!!!!Report Abuse
NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U1 Blo.od is thicker than water
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and sper'm is thicker than bloo'd
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CheeseBoy
Bertrams you are giving all sisters a bad name by staying with this loer, what is it ? is the se.x that good that you cant think clearly? WAKE UP!Report Abuse
Nincompoop
Young women never listen to advices these day and are making bad choices that, unfortunately they have to live with. I am struggling with my nieces that have left home stay with boyfriends, now they want to come back because of abuse. When things cool they go back to their boyfriends. Young lady, your family is important to you and I believe they want the best for you. You need their support in every aspect of your life, when you destroy your relationship with your family, you are as good as lost.You will have to live with the bad choices you make in life, or seek advice and apologise to your family.
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dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius,lol...no wonder, she's confusedReport Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@Jalusilive him
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LEAVE him---- Eish OBE Students!
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MommaC
@Can't take any more, BertramsSUCKER.
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Mporoz
EY,He doesnt respect you, the only thing that protect a woman from man is when he respects her. He doesnt hit you yet but beleive he will, just slap him in the chick and tell me how many blows you will get.
Leave the bust erd and go back to your family, they will give you a very warm welcome.
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dimpho_4U
SeshegoGuY@Jalusi
live him
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LEAVE him---- Eish OBE Students!
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kwaaa!! making yourself better ,,,ke "Sowetan blog" moo, i find people who like to correct our engrish quite "aMUSING"...as if u were born an English speaker. :-)
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NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U@NevusAuvius,lol...no wonder, she's confused
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o ne a isa kae lelofa phela batho bao ba tella go feta batho banang le zaka.
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Mofereferelenyalong
come on gal don't be stupid , you won't be better off dead you'll better off without him ...Just apologise to your family and live your life , love is not enough and sometimes it just doesn't fix some situations like yours .
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BinoBanga
Girl try to communicate these probelms with him when you are both happy and do your best to be clear as to what you expect from him, yet dont expect the impossible. Start by, maybe inviting him to join you when you are preparing for supper, dinner or brealfast! When you communicate with him, start by appreciating the little positive things that he does for you-as the conversation gains momentum come to the little negative things that he doey to you and you will see, you would have laid a foundation of good communication channel.If he truly loves you he will be in a position to see that you are the womenhe needs and if he fail to realised that THEN F#@$#$$ HIM!!! Tell him to buss off. Tshika mbyaaa ya leyo yi ya fela lekule leeeee!!!!
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SeshegoGuY
@DimphoSome things are just plain straight forward....Actually in my next lifetime im gonna be an High School Maths teacher, slowly getting tired of the corporate world. Mare o Sharp ngwana..... Any plans for the wknd??
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dimpho_4U
NevusAuviusdimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius,lol...no wonder, she's confused
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o ne a isa kae lelofa phela batho bao ba tella go feta batho banang le zaka.
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ene wa ba tseba,"lerato le bofofu"(love is blind) ke ipotsa what made her decide to vat 'n sit le yena....ngwano' le yena mara..maybe she thought he'll change with time__
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KejaKuKu_yadibloggers
o stlaela sa ngwanyana fooled by love......he doesn't love u damnit. leave this a$$hole and c how he's gonna survive without ur salary.Report Abuse
KejaKuKu_yadibloggers
o stlaela sa ngwanyana fooled by love......he doesn't love u damnit. leave this donkeyhole and c how he's gonna survive without ur salary.Report Abuse
dimpho_4U
SeshegoGuY@Dimpho
Some things are just plain straight forward....Actually in my next lifetime im gonna be an High School Maths teacher, slowly getting tired of the corporate world. Mare o Sharp ngwana..... Any plans for the wknd??
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noh sharp future meneer....eish weekend ke ya lefung la moahisane,,,mare ge..ke tshepa botselo bo o tswere sharp!
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LERATOLANNA
THAT SOUNDS LIKE MY BF. HEY I THINK THIS BASTARD WAS TWO TIMING US, BLOODY AGENT. QUIT THE DAMN RELATIONSHIPReport Abuse
NevusAuvius
@Dimpho-phela wa tseba gore ma-authi a spanang KM(Kasi Management)ba na le maleme a borethe they charm everywhere and they make sure they look good everyday,gape o thole ngwano a ntse a le mo bodutung nou o thotse mashaya and nja e ntsha mekgwa ya yona.Phela le lona ge le spana you go for a killl le reka di transie tse bohloko le reka matlo a grand nou bo bra ke spana kae kae ba letshaba then ke moo go fitlhang manyora teng ma-authi a spanang KM.Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@DimphoKe sharp ngwana. Got a bit of flu so im staying indoors this weekend
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NevusAuvius
hhm!o tlho'la o apots'e mapon'a every afternoo'n o be o tshameka ka piiipi,mofikela o tla go nyes'a o na ha o na taba gore o matswa'ing or what.Report Abuse
RYE
yawn* some girls are so dam.n ignorant wa tseba... she just needs a wake up klap..nxaReport Abuse
dimpho_4U
NevusAuvius@Dimpho-phela wa tseba gore ma-authi a spanang KM(Kasi Management)ba na le maleme a borethe they charm everywhere and they make sure they look good everyday,gape o thole ngwano a ntse a le mo bodutung nou o thotse mashaya and nja e ntsha mekgwa ya yona.Phela le lona ge le spana you go for a killl le reka di transie tse bohloko le reka matlo a grand nou bo bra ke spana kae kae ba letshaba then ke moo go fitlhang manyora teng ma-authi a spanang KM.
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ke waar __ i hope ladies, will get what u just said..mashaya o tla o shaya-shaya,until he gets what he wants..then he shows them true colors
@SeshegoGuY...okay Rre o be sharp lol
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NevusAuvius
@Rye-o buang kgale o ba rekela mabanta a Hanana Boy bo Tumelo maan.Report Abuse
MAARKENG-JANONG
She would be b etter off with guys like Nevusauvius; Maeszisto; Mornachies; Tsek, etc coz ba spana. The only problem ba rogana majita ana. kikikikikikiki......bhwa........kwakwakwa. LO LReport Abuse
NevusAuvius
kikikikikiki wena o dom kikikikikikiki fede boy?hai o nchwatlelang hoseng so?Report Abuse
MOTHUBANNYO
Wa nnyela cherie e cos wa iketsa - some women are very STUPIDReport Abuse
RYE
nevdadkikikikikikikikikiki
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MAARKENG-JANONG
@NeviOla boy!!!! Ke ne ke greeta Boy. O chaele Maezi a ska nroga neh!!!!!! Meant to be a joke.
Sharp bafowethu!!!! Articles tsa today dia bora man!!!!
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NevusAuvius
@Dimpho-vele gona le majita a shelang ke tsa ba nang le tsona ska transi,zakanyana,dhlopi(diaparo) le flat or ntlo,nou ge ba kopana le bo-ousi ke na le gotlhe ba vele ba je u-turn,that is why ba tshamekelang ko mabencaneng le bo sesi ba kasi.Phela wena ge o na le tsa gago o ka se impresiwe ke go isiwa ko KFC for di zinger wings mos.Report Abuse
monnawaka
My dear your happiness comes first, your so called boyfirend is a looser and i don't think you want to end up been a looser like him, you are still young and i'm sure there are decent man out there who knows how to treat a woman, Leave that useless looser now before is too late.Report Abuse
Elady
You don't need the bustard to make you happy. Take a lead in your life. Your mom will never dish you out regardless of what happened.Report Abuse
NevusAuvius
MAARKENG-JANONG@Nevi
Ola boy!!!! Ke ne ke greeta Boy. O chaele Maezi a ska nroga neh!!!!!! Meant to be a joke.
Sharp bafowethu!!!! Articles tsa today dia bora man!!!!
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tweede boy!hai vele never a ho fluka .
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dimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius hahahaha ...wena o ntsa di guy- code phela,,,,,mara ke rata di zinger wings__zinger winning!!Report Abuse
maezizsto68
This girl must just speak to his man and leave Dolly alone.Basade ba tena the next thing o tlo lla gore monna o spenda nako le dichomi.Tshwanetse a ipotse gore if o eletsa dai man dilo tse a reng wa di etsa why dai man a sa mo tlhompe.Never o lome letsogo le le go fepang so o tenne ngwana wa batho o enough ke yena.Go apologise to your man for all the naggings.Report Abuse
MOTHUBANNYO
maezizsto68This girl must just speak to his man and leave Dolly alone.Basade ba tena the next thing o tlo lla gore monna o spenda nako le dichomi.Tshwanetse a ipotse gore if o eletsa dai man dilo tse a reng wa di etsa why dai man a sa mo tlhompe.Never o lome letsogo le le go fepang so o tenne ngwana wa batho o enough ke yena.Go apologise to your man for all the naggings.
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Bliv you me most man do that - ba loma letsogo le le ba fepang
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NevusAuvius
dimpho_4U@NevusAuvius hahahaha ...wena o ntsa di guy- code phela
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bona le macheri a sa spaneng a tshamekela gole le bo lova ba tseba gore ba gereza kaofela and jwang.Bo sesi ba spanang especially spane senang le zaka ba tshosa and nou ge majita a le skaars ba qena ba nka ntho e ngwe le e ngwe e tlhagellang
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MOTHUBANNYO
NevusAuviusdimpho_4U
@NevusAuvius hahahaha ...wena o ntsa di guy- code phela
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bona le macheri a sa spaneng a tshamekela gole le bo lova ba tseba gore ba gereza kaofela and jwang.Bo sesi ba spanang especially spane senang le zaka ba tshosa and nou ge majita a le skaars ba qena ba nka ntho e ngwe le e ngwe e tlhagellang
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Dis waar NevusAuvius, phela most so called independent women are very desperate for kwai my autie
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RYE
ze blod is boring today, maybe cos batho ga ba yo mo..let me log off.*yawn*Report Abuse
RYE
i meant ze blog..Report Abuse
maezizsto68
Tsamaya mmaleparaReport Abuse
NevusAuvius
boy fede,phela ge ke fitlha ka mo NW ke mixitse authi engwe ya ko kasi moerr ne e phela daai ding,goseng o gaiwa zaka bo ma pinana to nare ka mo fredge e re zixe ka gaolo hahaha mshemane authi e e ne e senya phela sunday ka di jampas tse groot blind ge re tswa nkwaring and re saletswe ke biyanyana na vaya ka biya then goseng re ya ko ene ro ntsha stlamo,kikikikikikikiki moer o tla gadika mae,bacon,di-russian,wors bona dishabo dishabong boy.Report Abuse
dimpho_4U
hahahah___enjoy your blogging,dimpho o tsamaille!!Report Abuse
Blackstone.lebs
Family relationships are natural so take charge and rebuild it, you're the one that left anyway...only you can change the situation you're in. If he's lazy, drop him.Report Abuse
MOTHUBANNYO
RYEyawn* some girls are so dam.n ignorant wa tseba... she just needs a wake up klap..nxa
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Cherrie e e batla go thubiwa NNYO vuil, that's what she need
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NevusAuvius
@Mothuba-ke jiti ya cherrie e providang e ba super-glue le ge go sa tlhokagale,mara nna ke tseba ho ba channela its either re etsa dintho my way or ra tlogela.Report Abuse
maezizsto68
Mara boi go o ka sheba neh di medi tse di nang le zaka di laeka go controla too much ene dai ding ska le authi e tlo go khenya.O tla utlwa o chaelwa gore "wena wa nyokgotlha mara ga o reke sepe,se o se itseng ke go kakalla motshegare o tlhe".Phela le wena o tlo di bala gore ai ona qho ga ke na le yena wa nkhomba nqono ko mbomba le mauthi.Ke flopo ya tsona di medi tseoReport Abuse
MORNACHIESS
kikiikikikiikikik i've bin looking for tis article ever since thias morning hawu .....Good Morning everyone !!!!
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MOTHUBANNYO
But gents let's be fair - what kind of a grown ass man a tlo providiwa ke cherrie ?Le ene mjita o ke snaye man
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Jojo104
I don't think what the lady is telling, it's the truth, rather an excuse so that she can have some more reasons to leave her boyfriend. Because if, it were all true that she telling, she would have lelf the guy without even coming to Ses Dudu to complain.My estimation of the situation is that, the guy has been retrenched and is struggling to find another job, but not doing all these kinds of misconduct the lady is claiming. As such, the lady has just secured herself a lovely young man who working and wants to replace this guy due to his unemployment status, and nothing more.
Yes, do it lady, but one day you will regret your actions, and of course miss the guy...
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rasefatee
the possibility is that the guy o moloile ka pipii ya elephantReport Abuse
NevusAuvius
@Maezisto-phela boy batho ba ba operatiwa ka tsela dingwe,nna ke kile ka phela ka thekene gole sleg mshemaneke le ausi ntate(motshegare ke ausie cleaner o phege jampass ke ntate zwakala ka nkauza)mara boy ne ke forstana gore ke batlang ka nyamezela,ene ne a nagana gore wa qhoma ko bo tsala gore ke madam kante iewers mo bo tsala gona le ba batlang authi enang le tlhokomelo.Daai medi ne a mpatella ko sgila a mbaela dhlopi le ntswambu phela ne ke apara (Prince and Co)ka zaka ya hae.Report Abuse
Mellow
Mistakes are part of life. They teach us that some things shouldn't be done again. However, mistakes can also lead us to a lifetime suffering, you my dear needs to break free the burden you carrying is really not worth it. Love is not enough and you cant keep putting him first he obviously doesnt care about feelings that's why he not bothered. Its sad to be in a relationship and realise that you are the only one in love and the other party is just there to pass the time.Report Abuse
THE_MAN
Mabebeza.......One thing i've learned in life is that, you'll sacrifice something that you never thought you would, like your love for the guy. He knows that and he is taking advantage of that.
The best thing for you is to let yourself or your heart know that you love him, but unfornunately you cannot live with him, it's unhealthy. Let yourself get used to the idea that you cannot be with him even though you love him, once you get to accept that, then, it will be easy for you to leave him and go back to family and friends and tell them you are very sorry about what happened, they will not let you down...They will understand...
I does not make you any less of value that this happened to you, this stuff does happen.
I'm a guy by the way...
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NevusAuvius
MOTHUBANNY'OBut gent's let's be fair - what kind of a grown as s man a tlo providiwa ke cherrie ?
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e ya ko kas'i no'u bath'o ba i le spane'ng, auth'i e o e bonan'g e le veryyy nea't ka expensiv'e designe'r clothessss ke yon'a e o ge'.
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MORNACHIESS
Mo fe alibirimi mpsya e hwe so a sniks mann !Report Abuse
Skopokopo
Run For Your Life BABE!Report Abuse
NevusAuvius
mcxmReport Abuse
MORNACHIESS
votseeeeeeeeek wena !Report Abuse
MOTHUBANNYO
Eish ke galletse NNYO peopleReport Abuse
NevusAuvius
@Mathuba-ke eo modimo gago nnnyo ha e tsebe e batlana le eng.Report Abuse
Thehumbleone
run luvy, and never look back!Report Abuse
MOTHUBANNYO
NevusAuviusKe tlo e thuba then e be e tlala ka skelm - verstaan my autie
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Rakgadi-Tabeya
Le rata lenyalo le le bana. At 25 you should be enjoying your youth days darling. Leave that rubbish and reconcile with your family and friens. And o stope go hlalisana in life, wait for the man who loves you dearly if a sa tle join us the single independent women - what's wrong with you nxa.Report Abuse
Makhosini0408
Maybe Khumbula Ekhaya will be the right platform to sort out your dilemma. There is no place like home after all.No one has the power to change anyone's behaviour. The guy must sort himself out and you are so young to be burdened especially indoda engafuni ukusebenzi.
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truthhurt
Dont you even try to leave that man, he loves you, and right now he needs you more than he ever did, support him, things will be fine, ok!Report Abuse
Bumboklaat
Nywe nywe nywe....I feel desperately unhappy se g@t! Retla lapa ka lena man. wa itsi g0re tshwanetse wetseng mara osa re botsisa! ngwanyana o sale o monnyane go thlwa o balabala ka selatsa sa moshimanyana man. le lena tlogelang go kitimisa di charmaboy le sa lebelle di personality man!Report Abuse
Ms-B
I cant believe people actualy write for help for such things because the answer here is simple. pack your bags and leave the bustard before he brings you all these nasty deseases because i suspect when you live him for work, he does not just sit and watch tv the whole day. You did not come on this earth with anyone, so why would you endure such treatment from someone who does not even have a job. its true what they say, love is blind.Report Abuse
truthhurt
Good things come to those who wait, stay with that guy and dont listen to all these jealous people.Report Abuse
mokete33
GIRLFRIEND WA GAFA TLOGELA MOTHO O DONT B A MOTHER TO SOMEBODY WHO DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR WELL BEING.I DONT THINK THIS GUY IS REALLY YOUR SOULMATE COZ A SOULMATE WILL NEVA LET U SUFFER. DUMP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATOReport Abuse
Lehido
You are not married, leave him NOW..He got nothing on you, except love, im sure if you werin his shoes, he would have left you a long time ago....
He depends on you selfish ba$tard, Leave him......He eats your money, and still eat your pu$$y and eat your food, and still had the nerve to say kak to you?..
O emetse eng?..Tlokgela soo seo
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Still_leShandis
- this is easy and not a rocket science, JUST LEAVEthe bugger and GO HOME!Report Abuse
superowl
You are in a classical relationship with a misogynist. You describe typical symptoms of such a relationship. He has managed to isolate you completely. This males it possible for him to control you completely.He is abusing you emotionally as well as financially. He manipulated you to the extent that you are convinced that it is all your fault. Get out of this relationship! There is very little chance that he will change, although he will convince you many times that he will. The problem lies with him and his personality defects. Why should you take the punishment for his problems? You should also try to get hold of a book with the title: Men who hate women and the women who love them. This will give you an excellent insight into the mindset of your partner.Report Abuse
kudi
u entse scroplap sa hae get out befpre it's too late, you are not married to himReport Abuse
tokolosi
call me, I wont swear at you nor even get angry at you......usebenzela indoda, iyhooo - call me, I wanna retire tooReport Abuse
D-liciousLips
like all the other gals in abusive relationships u will leave the guy n ur family in a body bag, sure he may not be abusing you physically bt if he realy loves you he would not b behaving like an ass, uzosi sola sisi, u deserve way better.love is a two way street, i giv n he needs to give back, if he doesnt cut him loose coz he does not know the meaning of love.
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