This guy is a serious coward, He knows very well that the child is his. Another child without a father, ag this is very Disappointing Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Korea
What do you mean sometimes fight??? If someone you are in a relationship with physically abuse you girl you must run and run for the hills girly. It clearly shows that you are in this because he has a good job and you are prepared to take his nonsense because of that. He has seen through you that you are a gold digger that's why he is telling you now. Maybe your behaviour during the relationship was that of a gold digger.
Tsamaya o mo tshwarisa maintenance that's the only option. Your relationship is toxic and you need to get out asap. Fetsa sekolo o bereke ngwanyana and o tlogele go choosa boyfriend bcos o nale a nice job looking for fr.ee lunch and drinks. Ke serope mperekele ntho eo mosetsanyana. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
maneater
a person wh is on her last year at Varsity knows or at least should know the avenues available to her. first go and open a case of assault against this guy and ensure that her pays for the mainatinace of the child. on thing that is least likely to help is to write to Sowetan. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
tomcat101
@all...dumelang.
wats new, why didnt u leave him when he called u a gold digger the 1st time?
im pretty sure u saw this comming coz u could have packed an left and continued with your life, i mean u went to vasity for Piets's sake u got brains, why not use them instead of opening your legs for no reason?
now another kid is born with out a father and gues whose pockets thats gonna cost?
us tax payers once again....blacksam. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mxcm!!
@SeshegoGuy
Fridays are "Dear Dudu" day sweets...you should know by now!!!
@Dejected in Florida
What happened to the usage of condoms sisi??? Hmmm? But that's crying over spilt milk. Lets focus on the problem at hand.
Having a baby is not the end of the world..it's a blessing - you going to have a beautiful boy or girl within the next six to seven months; and that child is going to need you to be strong!! So how about getting over the "self pity party" and strengthening your backbone and start being positive about the situation!
And as for the loser...people show their true colors when the "going gets tough" - at least you found out now rather than later!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mmarena
Sesi children are a gift from God. like Dudu said u made a mistake and we all do. there is always a way out of this. time will heal and you be whole again. pick up the pieces and move on with ur life cherish every moment the baby is growing inside you. beliv me you will neva regret it. God bles you n keep that adorable one inside you Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
tomcat101
@Maneater....good point u have!
@NotAgain......an how sure areu that the child is his?
Weekend Speciaaals! Hehehehehe, and the Sowetan makes it seem so believable.
THE MORAl OF THIS STORY: "Think before you open your ......" Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mzalaz
@ Sowetan, think we had enough of these stories, the stories you paste here are almost the same, do you mean if I can send a story eg,my husband is cheating on me, my boyfriend is beatin me, or any sex story, are you really still going to publish that, WHY? because you know your clients love these stories about sex etc, but can't you see that they are now BORING.
Sometimes I think you want to break record by receiving lots of stupid comments.
I didnt know that there are people who r still taking a pill (while not married ) in this time of Aids, you people stil TRUST, wish u luck Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
WordofGod
the famous sowetanlive commentators are not here yet. they are still coming!! +- 600 comments for this article, waiting!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tshiamo-8TA
You're not the first and not the last one, soldier on, babe. Life has it's ups and downs, one day o tlabe o lebetse ka ntwa-dumela eo...! Keep your head-up and move on. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
JUBJUB
Condom,what happened -no matter how much you love the guy mara ai people dont learn.
And some men dont want children and women force them to thats when the situation gets worse Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@WordofGod
O right my Sister, Bale ba go rata Mnyakazo le go rogana
Where do u find these stories?????
and its always on a friday..ag sies man!
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I agree with you they make up this storie especially on friday to make people Unproductive with thousands comments.
@Sowetan
Yes is SiSi Dudu day today but the is similarity of the article of today and the one for last friday, Please do not stick to sex related issues, bring something new that of course would built the nation.To me it sound as if anyone who have boyfriend/girlfriend issues just try her/his lucky to see story publish Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
zaco
dumelang fellows
@wordy
@seshegoGuy
@candyboy
and the rest!
Today is a beauiful day....God is still Good_ i read the book, the book said I win, I win if I put My Lord first.....Great friday.... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
rasefatee
Baby please come to my life i will pay R30000.00 lobola and keep you in my house some men are so stupid we busy looking at some handsome women but this idiot is busy playing kak please call me my love at 0712223698 Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Raven
you not the first one and will not be the last...UZOBA STRONG... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
Well Dont ever call the loooooser, leave him and show him you dont want anything from him
If he brings his long toe nails when the baby is born, take a nail clipper and cut them.
But i have a question for you, Are you sure he is not Married???? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
Being on the pill is not enough. There are so many things which could interfere with its absorption. Anyway, you are pregnant now, congratulations! Where do we go to from here? Tell your parents, they might be upset, but they'll get over it cause they love you and will love the grandchild. Now, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food, vomiting medication, clinic visits, taxi fare, etc. Cause Mr hot pipe will have to foot the bill till he can prove that the child is not his. Now with that done; you can now relax and enjoy your pregnacy as babies thrive better with healthy moms who are not stressed. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
sakhomba
Dejected wee.
go tell mama about this. you are in your final year of your studies which is good. after the baby is born get on a taxi to down town Jozi( 25 Market street/ Maintenance court) banna ba nnyela masepa mole ha ba gana go sapota bana. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
JUBJUB
Ubufebe
@JUBJUB
Talking from experience???
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what do you want from me,am just commenting you cockroach Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ann
haaai mara we all made mistake and im sure we learnt from those mistakes this gal will also do the same , life goes on mos Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ubufebe
@Jaja'sQueen
Shouldnt she have thought about all this before she opened her....... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ubufebe
@JUBJUB
What I want from you? Lets see, how about you shut the fvck up! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bizzabo
zaco
what's up dude? has wordy fnially gottren through to you?
I feel so confused. Now I have to find the courage to tell my parents. Hopefully they will not be too cross with me. I don't know how this happened and I feel so worthless.
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you dont know how this happened? sister you and the boyfriend did the dance and you fell pregnant, thats what happened. you are 24 and in tertiary, obviously you were taught biology at school. just tell your parents cos pregnancy is one thing you cant keep secret from anyone cos as the months go by the bun will start showing that its busy cook!ng in the oven and soon it will be ready to come out. complete your studies and find a job and look after your kid.
as for the douche b/f - he is an arrogant idjit and you shouldnt let him tell you what to do with your body and your baby. just look after yourself and be positive. things will work out, its not the end of the world. you will be alright.
Pill or no Pill,Kids are jst a blesing from the Almighty!
Anyway,I realy dont see anything new abt this story...this are things that are common in our society.I just think its abt tym BOYZ start to be responsible 4 every mess they make...le wena Sesi,U cud hv jst left wen they 1st gave U a name Gold Digger!
so there's no police station where u leave? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
JUBJUB
Ubufebe
@JUBJUB
What I want from you? Lets see, how about you shut the fvck up!
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hahahahahahahahah you've got a problem,why angry so vroeg tog loooooooooooooooooooooools
@SeshegoGuy
ke bona bao he! you know most people who like to discuss stuff they don't possess! e.g. guys who like to talk about cars etc etc meanwhile they don't/never owned one!! there is nothing wrong in doing that but eish! ya bora
@pupu
this is a sche.me from the devil and people get snared into it. he is warming up people up to go out and sin, fornicate by these kinds of articles . . .
Calming The Mind
Don't give your mind permission to get disturbed. A disturbed mind is easily influenced. This will cost you your peace. Learn to maintain your peace by freeing yourself from attachments. Competing or comparing yourself with others will not allow you to focus inwards. An inner focus allows you to keep your eye on your higher self. Remember your original nature. It allows you to forge a l!nk with the Divine. Then it becomes easy to recognise useless thoughts and replace them with a spiritual perspective. A calm mind is not just peaceful, it is focused, self-directing and Divine
@JUBJUB
Well i know im old but i miss some moments, JubJub can we go together @Wits university, u know there is some freshers ball i heard
Or we can go to Sandton City to maximize the possibilities of kissing.
As you know GALFREND dumped me, RYE played my buttt.
@ Ubufebe, stop that or else you jump Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@WordofGod
What can we say...its the society we live in. Low Self-Esteem e baie Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere Report Abuse
@Jaja'sQueen
Now, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food, vomiting medication, clinic visits, taxi fare, etc. Cause Mr hot pipe will have to foot the bill till he can prove that the child is not his.""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
And Mrs. Firelighter should have used her brains and not open her legs until she finished her studies and first got married......now believe me some other ignorant & confused girl, who sees Mr. Hot Pipe and knows about his good job, will be smoking from his cigar....and so the cycle continues......until woman start to assert themselves more, this nonsense will not stop....cos men will continue to hunt for that pumpum.
How does one write to Aunt Dudu? I have juicier problems. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@TrapStar
@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Someone is still trapped in star wars. Report Abuse
@Candyboy
True, candy. Most women are very lazy to think, they are all about pleasing men. They forget that the koekie is ours and we do not have to give it anyone till we are ready. It is not currency for companionship, commitment or marriage. Let the men chase the koekie all he wants, nothing to do with us. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
He hit me so hard that I had the marks of his fingers.
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gora g0re o tshwere ka five finger!
Waitsi my sister, the best thing kegore o lebala ka mpya oe ya segatamarokgo o tswele pele ka bophelo bagao! Oska ntsha mpa kaore otlo itshola bophelo bagao bo bothle! Botsa batswadi bagao nnete, sure batlo kwata mara baka seo lathle kaore o ngwana bona! Ska wara my skat otla kreya authi enngwe wa tsela pele ka life! Gashu eo lebala ka yona, seker mo aleng ona le cherie tsa ntshi!
mxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MOGWANTIWARUSTENBURG
sorry lovie you are not the first one and surely wont be the last one about this situation,its up to you if you want abort or not,anyway ngwana wa gola o tla reka dinnapies tsa go tlhatswiwa wa reka le sunlight wa tlhatswa,as for the guy dont worry God will deal with him. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mopheme23
Why is the woman complaining about the boyfriend, instead of dealing and addressing the problem at hand?? They both messed up. 1+1 = 2, this should always be case and until both parties agree otherwise! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Skopokopo
Oh dearest, u missed your pills some where some how. Keep your baby my dear. complete your studies and all will be well. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
@TrapStar
@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Someone is still trapped in star wars.
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You know there are many women than men in the whole world, especially in SA
Dude if we were leaving in those SHAKA ZU'LU generations. They were going to just cut your Ballz and throw you in a river tied on a big rock Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ubufebe
@Skopokopo
Oh and you forgot to tell her not to think of this 8========0 too much hehehehehehe Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ann
@maeza68. oreng motho wa ka wa kgale?? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Shenene
mxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?
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r u crazy.....what world do you live in.....even though this story is a load off bull......this shyte happens in real life.
Ann-Kante nkile ka ba motho wa gago?Hai ga ke bolele man ke hlopiwa net ke throat
Jubilee-Do you really believe gore ke nna maezi?Hai go cho ke na le lucky mos Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ann
Muntu-Maeza68
Ann-Kante nkile ka ba motho wa gago?Hai ga ke bolele man ke hlopiwa net ke throat
Jubilee-Do you really believe gore ke nna maezi?Hai go cho ke na le lucky mos
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haai maan tlogela go dlala wena gape o maezi Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Ann-Ga ke maezi man why o re ke maezi le teng? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Hangwelani
Oh dear little naive girl, dont you know that the guy is probably married with kids? I mean at 29 it's very possible that he is a husband and a father, why else would he dump you with HIS baby on the way? He has a good job, chances are he has a good family too lol. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Keafixa
i always tell this pips gore they must use condoms.....problem kegore ba rata nama....ene nama ya bolaya. Report Abuse
Ha, but what if the condom bust like for Mbalula. Then what? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nexis
@Phathaphatha uyaphapha. cc most of these Dogs especially 4rm Jozi they think they own d world. keep dat baby he will luv hm / hr, if he doesnt wana support UMBOPHISE zisile lezinto NxA... kumnandi la babenza abantwana. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MGEEZ
@Sowetan;
How many times must you write the same story over and over again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you think that your readership is suffering from amnesia????????? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MORNACHIES
Ngwanyana oo o phaphile and a itira le top shayela la setlaela ,nou auti e mo swinne
ya ja fase .....hey wena mosetsana ,motho woo a se nke a eje or a e gaole mos ,belega
o re go fetsa o tle moo ke go fe e mong. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@TrapStar
@TrapStar
@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Someone is still trapped in star wars.
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You know there are many women than men in the whole world, especially in SA
Dude if we were leaving in those SHAKA ZU'LU generations. They were going to just cut your Ballz and throw you in a river tied on a big rock
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Point of correction stargate.....its LIVING.....we not leaving anytime soon for any specific place. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ubufebe
@Nexis
"most of these Dogs especially 4rm Jozi" I take it you like doggy style nogal! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mosquer
Mara basadi bona!!!! Even if he hit you hard on the face you still cry for him. Nxa a se ngwana mamago mos. Just leave him or the next thing you are dead Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Raven
@TrapStar
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Shenene
Candyboy
@Shenene
mxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?
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r u crazy.....what world do you live in.....even though this story is a load off bull......this shyte happens in real life.
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ok candy tell me how many kids did you deny cause its obvious that u talking from experience? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
@Raven
@TrapStar
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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hahahaha you mean UYA GULA???
Or he is a lie?? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nexis
Well Dont ever call the loooooser, leave him and show him you dont want anything from him
If he brings his long toe nails when the baby is born, take a nail clipper and cut them.
But i have a question for you, Are you sure he is not Married????
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@TrapStar:
its posible tht ths dude is not married, its jst tht he's running awy 4rm hs responsibility. UyiNja nje loMfana & 1 day uzazisola. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@JJQ
Exactly my point.....woman are afraid to ask us men three basic yet very important questions when we start the chase.
1.......What is your intentions with me and why do you FEEL I am the woman you want to start a relationship with......hint, men dont like talking about feelings.....this is your chance to see exactly what his game plan is.....if he is dodging the question.....MOVE ON...dont waste you precious time listening to an airhead.
2.......What is your plan for us after 3 months of seeing each other.........Hint....if he did not foresee a future with you in it after three months....he aint seeing one called a marriage either......MOVE ON....you need a man who can offer you stability, security and a future.
3.........Tell him straight....i know you like pumpum......and i dont like to be cheated on......are you prepared to be faithful and dedicated to me alone.....if he stutters....he is already cheating on another woman and only after your pumpum....MOVE ON.....period.
@Ubufebe
Yah!!!! i like it so what, Ngobubi. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Shenene
MORNACHIES
Ngwanyana oo o phaphile and a itira le top shayela la setlaela ,nou auti e mo swinne
ya ja fase .....hey wena mosetsana ,motho woo a se nke a eje or a e gaole mos ,belega
o re go fetsa o tle moo ke go fe e mong
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kikikikikiki mornachies o bolawa ke tlala Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Raven
@TrapStar
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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thank you Raven......tell this startwars trooper to open his mind and stop being so ignorant.......how you girl...? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MORNACHIES
Tsek
Waitsi ditho tse dingwe di tlala ka marago mola motho wa go swana le nna Tsek ke sokola net so gore ke thole.
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Tsamaya ko Olifantsfontein o ile go reka ,o tlogele go itira setlaela gat !
those are easy questions and i can easily lie....the we are back to square
1. Best way is to use condoms, and u must stop being rough(praising urself ore ke mpetha di cherie, that is so old fashioned) , stop using f.ree condoms....i have neva witnessed a bust condom Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@CandyBoy
Don't give them our secret my man, we are not good in revealing our feelings but yes those are 3 important questions
@MommaC
Spot on. Its time some women admit they also played a part. Men get blamed for everything... Especially Black Men (Sorry i just had to get that in) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Shenene
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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so this means le wena the tym nxt door ya gago e bula maotwana a tweba for u conferms gore u one of idiot.. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MORNACHIES
@Candyboy,
......i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon....
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O ka se dire ngwana o le tee ,nyak.a motho nou ,then o ithute go ja marago man ! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tsek
mornachies - di reng fela nfana wa ko mohlabaneng??? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
@ GalFrend
Morning my Chicken an Mushroom pie
@ Nexis
True that, not that he is not regreting now
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@ Pregantn Chick - ive been on a pill for four years and weve been dating for a year
1. For the past 4years youve been doing it skin to skin - What part of PEOPLE ARE DYIN'G of HIV didnt you understand
2. What happened to the condom policy of SA
3. How many man did you give it to
4. most importantly - DO YOU KNOW YOUR STATUS????? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Keafixa
brother....why do you think i posted those question here....so next time if i start a chase in real life....and get to hear those question....i know it’s one of the ladies on this blog.....and i will gladly do my counter attack and reel her into my frame & space.....it’s called forward planning bru......lol
Tsek
mornachies - di reng fela nfana wa ko mohlabaneng???
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Ke sharp mfanaka ,ka weekend nne ke tour Bolobedu ....from Lapologa ,Modjadji
Nature reserve ..ga -Mahoso eishhhh i enjoyed miself mfowethu . Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Shenene
Please don't Judge majita a Seshego Asseblief my skat--- Batho a re Tshwane Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
I'm dissapointed with my sisters in this blogg. What's with this a "child is a blessing from God hogwash". This in her womb is not a blessing but a curse. An illigitimate bastard that will bring missery throughout her life. A child on an abuser and coward. A mistake of a child, from a mistake of a relationship. We have remedies to ractify mistakes its called dumping the coward, arbort his sp#rm and focus on your career. Gifts from God are with married couples, working, with a house, with cars, Sunday Church Services, decent schools, medical aid cover, toys etc!!! A child is not a doll/barbie its flesh and blood! Report Abuse
Shame dude. Are you feeling a bit like a n0se in all this :)
It is the one area that women have ALL the power. You'd think by now that my sisters would know what the consequence is of unprotected sex but they just keep making 1950's style mistakes all the time. I have little sympathy for pure stupidity Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
TrapStar
@ GalFrend
Morning my Chicken an Mushroom pie
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how are you?
shame...he thinks He is God's gift to women...sad. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nexis
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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@GalFrend well said cc & when thy change, thy change like thy neva saw u b4. Report Abuse
Please don't Judge majita a Seshego Asseblief my skat--- Batho a re Tshwane
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baby la tshwana hle,ba le kgethela b@sadi and lekwa ka bo mm@ lena Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Robaobesa
Hei x5 fact is motho o nale problem here o butse maoto,o jowe,ngwana hlaha.mo thuseng ka donations klaar!!!!O ne a le mong on that day!!!!!
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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thank you Raven......tell this startwars trooper to open his mind and stop being so ignorant.......how you girl...?
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Hahahahaha Numbnuts what are you on about now? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
@CabdyBoy - am Fantastic my sweet and wena?
@ TriStar - Yes, i guess he forgot to mention gore he did not write that # wink.. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tsek
mornachies - i only knw modjadji nature recerve goie ur email i wnna show u net daarso the tym ke la daar.... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
"...Shame dude. Are you feeling a bit like a n0se in all this :) "
LOL Is it that obvious??? Like i always say, make sure u never blame people if it involves such things because at some point she decided to have S3x without protection--- She's also to blame
@Mtho
For once on this blog i agree with u--- Thats a very mature comment
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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i also dont have kids but i dont believe a guy freaks out hearing that he is a father to be...
maybe its sis dolly who was rejected who nows or her kids were dumped Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Candyboy
@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@All Men on this Blog
PLEASE GUYS!!!!!
I hope none of u will be going to the WITS Freshers Ball Bash tonite
We are all grown up, Nako ya rena e fetile so Tlogelang go bakisha bafana ba banyane Report Abuse
Hehehehehehe, and the wpmen are always the victims. Get real maaan! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Masobadieta
Leave this guy he is useless he is not man enough, the most important thing is to use a condom in any relationship if you are not married . Tell your parents and focus on the baby inside you. This guy has to pay maintenance when the baby is born. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@WordofGod
@Raven
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all good in da hood ma angels........just taking it slow & easy....and ya'll Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Shenene
"..baby la tshwana hle,ba le kgethela b@sadi and lekwa ka bo mm@ lena"
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Wa Generaliser wena, I mean really now. ke gore ne o jola le Snai straight
How can my Mom a nkgethele Mo.sadi a le PLK nna ke le mo JHB
Galfrend
Candyboy
@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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agree, but you have those gifts called female intuition & spirit of discernment....use it my dear....read my 3 question above....what you think of it.....use that as well.......i'm gonna expose all men's secret....am sick of us men using you woman for pumpum only......and you ladies must also stop chasing after men you can’t have please.....let’s all do our part.
@SeshegoGuY
wena ge o lapisitse ke go ja bana ba ba nyane tlogela ba bangwe bae wits,le nna am going there yhoo nako e sa dumela Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
@ Ravin - wow you think lol
@CandyS - Hey Numbnuts I think you can be the rebound of this chick, she needs someone Report Abuse
IF YOU DONT WANA MAKE HER A W!FE,DONT MAKE HER A MOTHER Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Candyboy
Galfrend
Candyboy
@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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agree, but you have those gifts called female intuition & spirit of discernment....use it my dear....read my 3 question above....what you think of it.....use that as well.......i'm gonna expose all men's secret....am sick of us men using you woman for pumpum only......and you ladies must also stop chasing after men you can’t have please.....let’s all do our part.
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those three questions do not help, you can lie just to get me to open my legs for you.
What do you mean we must stop chasing men that we cant have, you mean married men? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
@ All- good morning,
Sowetan I take my hat off to you, you definately know how to reel in all the crazies, every friday nogal and it never fails. But hey why change the formula if it's working!!
@Dejected
Ngwana wa batho I am quite sure that you know what you have to do here, family is family they will never reject you especially considering that you've gone such a distance with your studies, so dump the fvcker & get your life back on track coz the longer you bask in misery the more convinced your guy will be that you ain't sh!t without him!!! So move on & do your thing!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
nombonnie
My sister if you don’t want to abort don’t im telling my daughter is now 8 I had her when I was in high school the father told me to abort or sleep with another man so I can put the blame the best thing I did was to tell my mother yes she was angry and disappointed but she supported me so pls tell her so u can find peace that is a gift from God never mind the father and don’t go back to him Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share....... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Shenene
Candyboy
@Shenene
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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i also dont have kids but i dont believe a guy freaks out hearing that he is a father to be...
maybe its sis dolly who was rejected who nows or her kids were dumped
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there are few of us men left in this world who are not afraid of such commitments.......am looking for a w!fe myself now....tired of going home and no woman to kiss you when you walk through the door and no kids running up to you and excited to see you......one day neh....one day.
@SeshegoGuY well ba dira jwalo ,ba go beela ngwana ka nextdoot gore o monyale mola wena o jola mo gauteng Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Phumsiee
Ag please my lady don't even think about that, this is wind he was going to be blown away even if he stayed for more years. Sis things like this happen everyday to many people so please let it go keep that baby you will get over all this and enjoy having her. this is a gift a special one and never replaceable so please treasure it and keep it as long as you live.
i wish it's a gal. congratulations all the best enjoy your pregnancy.
forget about that divided stupid guy... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
a ka hlulwa lutho u nevus; a ka hlulwa luthooo; a ka hlulwa lutho u neevus; a ka hlulwa lutho.
kunje ne ba reng nywee nywee blokile haikhona blokile la kum'
@Wordofgod-ha o betere ka niks so shut your legs. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-Hallo
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hello muntu, o kae? I dreamt of maezie last night, it was a beautiful dream, plz tell him I miss him hle. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MTHONDOMDE
Nice one I think you dumped your ex- bf because of this guy has a good job, so who will be laughing now your ex- bf, go and hang who cares bloody biitch! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tsek
MORNACHIES
Candyboy
@MORNACHIES
praat engels man.........!
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Kganthe o lekwereiza le wena ?
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Eee comment ka e reporta net nw.... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Morning dear sweet one
P.S. Some of us are genuine saints, that's why we don't go out of our way to prove such, especially mo bloggong!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
TrapStar
@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Galfrend
Candyboy
Galfrend
Candyboy
@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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agree, but you have those gifts called female intuition & spirit of discernment....use it my dear....read my 3 question above....what you think of it.....use that as well.......i'm gonna expose all men's secret....am sick of us men using you woman for pumpum only......and you ladies must also stop chasing after men you can’t have please.....let’s all do our part.
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those three questions do not help, you can lie just to get me to open my legs for you.
What do you mean we must stop chasing men that we can’t have, you mean married men?
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now let us agree on one thing here.....not all men cheat and not all woman chase after married men......agree....?.....however, as a man i am sick & tired of the abuse men give towards woman...mental...physical....emotional....ect.......and i am standing up against those b@stards to make things right.......now as a sister my Galfrend....are you prepared to stand up against your fellow woman who break up homes....who manipulate and chase after married men and show them the right way of living a disciplined life worthy of living....i am doing my part.....lets do it together and break this cycle of cheating, abuse and fatherless homes.
For once on this blog i agree with u--- Thats a very mature
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Sure handsome! At times as ladies we play with real fire. Pregancy is a matter of life and death, in the process of being pregnant you might be infected with AIDS. Without medical aid, you might deliver at Charlotte Maxeke and risk being kil#ed by those angels of death. Its difficult going back to Varsity when you have a toddler at home. A baby is not a toy or a fashion accessory. People with children out of wedlock lagg behind those that get their children in marriage (Comprehensive Group Comparisons).
Nevdad-Shap fida mshemane kikikikikikikiki ntse ba go blockile boi? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tsek
mornachies - hey wena plaasjapie check ur mail pela ke rometsi di pics tsa dubai daarso as well.... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Morning dear sweet one
P.S. Some of us are genuine saints, that's why we don't go out of our way to prove such, especially mo bloggong!!!
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Oh really? I thought God doesnt make those anymore, thas good to know. Will hook you up with my twin sister...lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
@maezisto-fede fede boy kikikikikikiki ma u vala la ngi vula le. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?
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I know you are not maezie, but im just telling you a story here..I used to have a crush on maezie, eish I so wished we could meet and and...... but tjo! brother just disappeared on me, im so heartbroken watsiba..lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Rakgadi-Tabeya
Dumelang lotlhe!
Welcome to single parenting darling. That's what men do best ga ba tshabela responsibility. O tlo ba rite skat, you'll see hang in there and make sure ga o stress during pregnancy cos it will affect the baby. So for the little one's sake try to be as happy as you can, you've got your pals' support, your family too (though ba se aware coz u haven't told them yet) so forget about the P*I*G and live a happy life. Le nna I guarantee u my support dear it's not the end of the world - remember u r in ur final year so focus and be positive that all will work out well. Luv u sista & gudluck! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
TrapStar
Galfrend
TrapStar
@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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hahaha ow man, though dreams come true sometimes. Not that they will, i still have to apologise to the chick in FLORIDA for laying a hand on her when she told me she has a Zygote in her tummy
Then it will be me and you, dont worry i dumped Khanyi Mbau Last year Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
CB - Cheating will never end dear, there is always a woman out there willing to cheat with a married man. So it will never end, not in this life time. I agree,not all men cheat and not all women cheat. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SKIZOBANTWANA
As you still at school and it clearly shows that the guy has no intentions of takin care of the baby,why don't you get rid of that PREG_NANCY..? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- How could I stay angry @ you mara, I's rather exhaust my energies doing something with you than @ you!!
@Candyboy - Boss some of us appreciate the spirit & all, but really boss how many men out of ten that you know will actually appreciate the part about ladies staying away from married men?? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
WordofGod
If you understand that you are a sinner, and you believe that Jesus Christ came as the one and only Redeemer of sin, then you understand the prayer of forgiveness. The question is – are you ready to implement the prayer, by receiving God’s gift of His Son, Jesus Christ? If so, believe in Christ, repent of your sins, and commit the rest of your life to Him as Lord:
“Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.”
"Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit." (Acts 2:38) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
TrapStar
Galfrend
TrapStar
@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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hahaha ow man, though dreams come true sometimes. Not that they will, i still have to apologise to the chick in FLORIDA for laying a hand on her when she told me she has a Zygote in her tummy
Then it will be me and you, dont worry i dumped Khanyi Mbau Last year
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hahahahahaaa uqalile neh? Hows the STD going? lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?
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I know you are not maezie, but im just telling you a story here..I used to have a crush on maezie, eish I so wished we could meet and and...... but tjo! brother just disappeared on me, im so heartbroken watsiba..lol
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@Galfrend and you are telling me this story because?Why dont you share it with someone else?Why me specifically? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tsek
Nevus & maesisto
la bora y keep on changing ama usernames nxa..julle moer maan!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Khotso123
I feel really sorry for u sister but u will be fine with time just keep the baby and raise your child with love, and your child will grow up knowing what love is compared to the bastard that doesn't know how to love and protect. i'm sure he was raised in a very bad way and now he is taking out his frustration on you. I went through almost the same situation even worse i was married to the guy but now i'm working in a corporate environment and raising my kid with love and respect. I'm more happy with my life and i will advise that you pray to Jehovah he will guide you to the right direction. Abortion is not the solution even the bible advise against such. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- How could I stay angry @ you mara, I's rather exhaust my energies doing something with you than @ you!!
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Oh im glad to hear that :))) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
Tsek
mornachies - hey wena plaasjapie check ur mail pela ke rometsi di pics tsa dubai daarso as well
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hei hei take your gay love affair out of here,bloody varke.
@maezisto- hai ba kgasa boy se ke tseba ke bo mang ba re baisitseng nna ke blokilwe ke Ladygaga wena ke Mzabalazo. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?
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I know you are not maezie, but im just telling you a story here..I used to have a crush on maezie, eish I so wished we could meet and and...... but tjo! brother just disappeared on me, im so heartbroken watsiba..lol
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@Galfrend and you are telling me this story because?Why dont you share it with someone else?Why me specifically?
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Because you are my friend, is it not what friends do? Share? Report Abuse
TrapStar
Galfrend
TrapStar
@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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hahaha ow man, though dreams come true sometimes. Not that they will, i still have to apologise to the chick in FLORIDA for laying a hand on her when she told me she has a Zygote in her tummy
Then it will be me and you, dont worry i dumped Khanyi Mbau Last year
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hahahahahaaa uqalile neh? Hows the STD going? lol
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Hahaha I am thinking of getting it cured when we get back together, To be honest you are the reason i slapped the FLorida gal. I thought of her ruining the chances of us getting back together
I gave her the STD, and i am planning on using my hand from now on, as you know that i shout out loud when them babies come out Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ne go ga le o na claimer gister gore ke yena a mbaisitseng konje ke mang dai kind Mxcm!!,mara fede wa frostana gore tsotsi e ka wa gai 7 ya phenda ya tsoga gai 7 because its not possible to keep a good man down.
Galfrend-Okay 'friend',mara your tricks ga di spane babes hade neh
la bora y keep on changing ama usernames nxa..julle moer maan!!!!!!!
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wena holibaba o 1 ya ba re rekisitseng nxa bloody emere ya moroto Report Abuse
@Galfrend
CB - Cheating will never end dear, there is always a woman out there willing to cheat with a married man. So it will never end, not in this life time. I agree,not all men cheat and not all women cheat.
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so i will put you in the bracket of not being a cheat......how faithful thou art.....woman like you are rare...and i am looking for such a woman to make my w!fe.....am tired of this dating - chasing - and seducing you woman.....i want to settle down this year......!
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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i also dont have kids but i dont believe a guy freaks out hearing that he is a father to be...
maybe its sis dolly who was rejected who nows or her kids were dumped
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there are few of us men left in this world who are not afraid of such commitments.......am looking for a w!fe myself now....tired of going home and no woman to kiss you when you walk through the door and no kids running up to you and excited to see you......one day neh......one day
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ya one day u will marry and have stress dont worry..... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Makhosini0408
"How could I have messed up my life so badly?
You are not the only one dear, who have messed up. At least you now know his true colours. Open up to your parents. They will be disappointed, but one thing for sure, they will not disown you.
3/10.....hence i wana change that stat and do something about the hurt we cause those precious hearts at the of the day.....our woman - sisters and mothers dont deserve that....! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MORNACHIES
Where's Mcloving mara ?__they have risen from the dead like Mgumeni .do something
please ! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Shenene
that stress will be worth every minute my dear......i enjoy my freedom.....but it makes a brother do some crazy shyte at times (which i also enjoy)....*wink* Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
Makhosini0408
"How could I have messed up my life so badly?
You are not the only one dear, who have messed up. At least you now know his true colours. Open up to your parents. They will be disappointed, but one thing for sure, they will not disown you
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thank you bra,now where is Gigolo? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
@SeshegoGuY
"...Now, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food,"
Come on now, that sounds very bitter. What happend to INDEPENDENCE!!
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Pregnancy is a pertnership and the sooner men learn that the better. Report Abuse
Shouldnt she have thought about all this before she opened her.......
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True that, I guess that's why they call it sex and not a brainstorming session. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Shenene
Candyboy
@Shenene
that stress will be worth every minute my dear......i enjoy my freedom.....but it makes a brother do some crazy shyte at times (which i also enjoy)....*wink*
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goodluck am just not ready to be someone's mom and i enjoy making them crazy with my figure,,,,today u will meet a lady at kfc so dont be shy to ask for her numbers neh.... Report Abuse
KFC.....kwaaaaaaaaa.......shake your tailfeather and driv them crazy as hell. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Makhosini0408
Nevdad
Makhosini0408
"How could I have messed up my life so badly?
You are not the only one dear, who have messed up. At least you now know his true colours. Open up to your parents. They will be disappointed, but one thing for sure, they will not disown you
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thank you bra,now where is Gigolo?
@Nevdad
My sister is well and thank you for asking. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
RoyalRuby
To add to WordOfGod, Amen. And if you prayed that prayer,seek to fellowship in a church that will help you grow in your walk with the Lord. Spend time in the Word and on your knees. The Spirit of the Lord will guide you in all. Peace be with you. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
@Makhosini-you were suppose to say my sister is well and beautifull as ngemihla,tell her i miss her badly. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Percussione
im 23 years of age and am a father,yes bra wenna you got what you wanted so its her time to get what she needs... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
Candyboy
@Ramatlhale
3/10.....hence i wana change that stat and do something about the hurt we cause those precious hearts at the of the day.....our woman - sisters and mothers dont deserve that....!
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Am not sure if you really mean what you say or you are just trying to gain points with these ladies on the blog, but are you aware that we are all wired differently and as much as some of us yearn for a harmonious world with everybody on the same wavelength of peace & faithfulness to their partners, certain people thrive on chaos so there will always be someone who will come & destroy that utopia just because they don't fit in that kind of world
And naturally throughout centuries it's been constantly proven that; what is regarded as forbidden will always be appealing to the human mind. So as much as I support your ideas, realistically in this world here & now........pie in the sky my brotha, pie in the sky!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
ke grand kikikikikikiki o mmone slenda? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
@Nevdad
Tsek
Nevus & maesisto
la bora y keep on changing ama usernames nxa..julle moer maan!!!!!!!
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wena holibaba o 1 ya ba re rekisitseng nxa bloody emere ya moroto
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kikikikikikikiki! emere ya moroto? Ja that's true nevus style!
Kante ba le rekisitse? Sowetan ele fakile exile! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SQEPEZANA
i dont mean to be judgemental but this girl says:
1. she has been on pills for 4 years,
2. she has been dating this guy for 1 year,
when i add the 2, it means she has been having unprotected sex with different men in 4 years!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
JUBJUB
Ke mmone hey wa tlhetlha looooools,hey mara o di tsere kae those hotties Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
@Bumboklaat-hei monna ke re exile bra,ntho tse di nagana di ya owner ka mo,ge ba kwala ke ya bula ke bo mang bona? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@JaJaQueen
yes but if he's a B@stards who doen't wanna take responsibility why bother...
@Shenene
Tlogela bana ba ko Wits-- Chicken M U R D E R, kgona thaka tsa gago
@CandyBoy
U r on a Mature tip vandag boy, Big-ups to all the good Men out there Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
koola
the stupid gal why is she complaining now, if she didnt want to get pregnant she should not have openeded her legs so wide. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@BumbokLaat
ha ha and here i was thinking gore Apartheid e fedile, Some people are still going to Exile LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
@Nevdad
@Bumboklaat-hei monna ke re exile bra,ntho tse di nagana di ya owner ka mo,ge ba kwala ke ya bula ke bo mang bona?
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Ke b0na ba ba matapola a mannyane okare ke di green beans! Report Abuse
so how are things at the new cosatu house......? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
@SeshegoGuY
@BumbokLaat
ha ha and here i was thinking gore Apartheid e fedile, Some people are still going to Exile LOL
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Gape gona le magundwane kamo! batlao rekisa wa nnyela! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
kikikikikiki hei ka re ba entertainer man kikikikiki a ba tsebe niks and ba acter as if ba itse.goneng ba batla go mpona?kikikikiki Report Abuse
Didnt wanna use the pill, didnt wanna use the condom. Now you are single, with a baby and we will be paying your support money. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
JUBJUB
hahahahahahahahaha jou skelem,and o iphitlhile mxm....o tshwanetse o etse something...phela go bonagala moriti wa tlhogo ya gago tltltltltltltltltltltlt Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
nkunzemnyama
@Koola
how can you say sauch thing about our sisters, how many chicks you impregnated so far more 10 am sure so shut up Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MORNACHIES
@Sinudeity,
What are u trying to imply or say in all this ?do u min our single mothers got no future ? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Khakhu
these two wer doing unprotected sex every-time bcs she was using the pills....
That weired wiring caused allot of pain - heartache and destruction brother.......and i firmly believe it can be changed...the problem though....we cant enforce it on anyone, however that will not stop me from making my voice heard out there.....pie in the sky.....it depends from which angel you look at it....i believe, if we go back to the basics...husbands love your wifes.....and wifes respect your husbands....we have already solved 90% of the problems.....but pastors who go out and steal maximor meds are making that possibility even harder to achieve.....i'm passionate about it and will continue on this journey brother......and i am not trying to score points vandag.....! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Makhosini0408
Nevdad
@Makhosini-you were suppose to say my sister is well and beautifull as ngemihla,tell her i miss her badly.
Who is nevdad now? Well tell him/her i am in Netherlands but just about to enroute to london until next week wednesday and give a big shout out and tell Sharpino i noted the sadness on the ANCYL home am crying fake tears on his behalf Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mjeke
ya neh...sum guys,i thnk hez married or involved with sum1 he loves ,he doesnt wna loose ha..coz of innocent child Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Tsafendason
So what? life goes on. you opened your legs knowing full well of the risks involved, don't cry victim here. and which man in his right mind would accept a pregnancy when he saw you taking the pill, i would be suspicious too.
Having said that, this coward you call a boyfriend is not even worth you wasting your second on him, what kind of a man klaps his or any woman for that matter? you should've reported this coward to the authorities. but stop acting like a victim, you should've used condoms!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
MORNACHIES - She made life much harder for herself. Possibly she has a future, but now she is a mother first, and her career will need to go on hold. This situation happens alot around the country. Girl and boy decide to have 20min of pleasure for 20 years of pain. No birth control, the boyfriend doesnt want a baby, dumps her, and the mother has to raise a child by herself. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Rakgadi-Tabeya
Goreng le sa dumele ha ke dumedisa.......nxa julle second hand Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Sinudeity
MORNACHIES - She made life much harder for herself. Possibly she has a future, but now she is a mother first, and her career will need to go on hold. This situation happens alot around the country. Girl and boy decide to have 20min of pleasure for 20 years of pain. No birth control, the boyfriend doesnt want a baby, dumps her, and the mother has to raise a child by herself.
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Its a sad tough situation for a single mom but they eventually make it. Most people were raised by single parents and they turned out just fine. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
@Rakgadi-Tabeya
Goreng le sa dumele ha ke dumedisa.......nxa julle second hand
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Tshwarelo rakgadi ya bana! Oska kwata ka fritaga o mokana! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
WordofGod
@bumbo
ke go tshwaretse and ke go rata thata... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
@WordofGod
@bumbo
ke go tshwaretse and ke go rata thata...
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Huh?!
Am I missing something? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
WordofGod
@Bumboklaat
WoG ke omong wa bona!
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yep and nope!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ubufebe
@Galfrend
You are wrong dear. 99% of serial rapists have/had a single parent. So everything is not well with having a single parent! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@SeshegoGuY
Rumour has it you were looking yesterday....wats happening bru....? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
rasefatee
o bulela eng marago go sena condom ftshek ga o kwe Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Bumboklaat
@WordofGod
@Bumboklaat
WoG ke omong wa bona!
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yep and nope!!!
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Okay, ake nyako thlakana thlogo ka di yep and nope tsagao!
Wareng feela wena mgwanthi wa jesu? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@CandyBoy
I heard u were entertaining my Miss Bro, The Sugar Mommy. Care to Explain??? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
@ Candyboy- Good luck chief, but if you are serious about this then you are headed for an uphill battle just make sure you garner support from people/bodies that believe in the cause & not the publicity!!!
@Rakgadi-Tabeya - Re ya dumela, bothata ke gore ore bitsa dikolobe wena rakgadi,akere!!
@Galfrend- Am glad I make you glad, now howz about we try out other sensations??
Sinudeity - Its all about not giving up I suppose. Most mistakes single mothers make is that once they get pregnant and they get rejected by baby dady, they make the mistake of thinking that its the end of the world for them, which is not true. One can still continue with their studies with a baby, hard as it may, but its achievable.
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Am glad I make you glad, now howz about we try out other sensations??
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like what dear?
Ubufebe
Yah I agree to a certain extent but it all depends on good parenting, tell your kid that they can make it in life as much as some kids who come from households where there are both parents. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Alicia
I've been there myself sis,nw m a proud mother of a healthy and cute baby boy,Dnt let him control ur life.U r already there,u will be completing soon.study hard.Now m a qualified sum body because I never given up hope ,I told myself a child is a blessing ,it will get better with tym ,o tlo lebala one day.
Galfrend - Yeah ur right. But that isnt an excuse to not use birth control. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Thupzen
@Bumboklaat
Okay, ake nyako thlakana thlogo ka di yep and nope tsagao!
Wareng feela wena mgwanthi wa jesu?
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as for mokwanti wa jesu.......................!ROTFL(rolling onthe floor laughing)
@Sinudeity,
Will i be wrong if i tell her to focus on giving birth to a healthy baby and let her focus
in order to strive to make big in life ?by having a child like that ,i don't think it's a sin
or a down fall of an individual.she must just admit that bustard was not a real man
enough to take care of her finish and klaar ....the pity part is that the bustard is here
and blogging as if nothing happened ...what a bloody fool ! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@SeshegoGuY
We only shared opinions & ideas around climate change bru....nothing serious homeboy......have you seen her lately....?
@ Galfriend.Good afternoon my dear.Hope u good. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Thupzen
@TrapStar
Well Dont ever call the loooooser, leave him and show him you dont want anything from him
If he brings his long toe nails when the baby is born, take a nail clipper and cut them.
But i have a question for you, Are you sure he is not Married????
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That's what thought too bra............the busted is married. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Sinudeity
Galfrend - Yeah ur right. But that isnt an excuse to not use birth control.
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Not at all. But bear in mind that birth controls are not 100% effective. One is bound to get an oopsie at some stage. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
So typically irresponsible and selfish males in this country seriously I even wonder why some of these women even bother given the choices that are there, anyway to the girl, you will be okay millions of women in this country brought up their kids all by themselves and most of these kids are fine their lives are functioning perfectly without the sp3rm donating males,
taking a pill is not 100% proof that you will no be pregnant it ONLY minimises the chance, but life goes on, please don't abort you will be condemning your health to hell if that abortion is not performed correctly. Stand strong my sister concentrate on complete your studies and if you have time off from your studies do so and look after yourself and the unborn. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Shenene
SeshegoGuY
@Shenene
Tlogela bana ba ko Wits-- Chicken M U R D E R, kgona thaka tsa gago
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well i qualify with higher grades baby am 20years old its just that i dont qualify to be where i am right now..... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ Seshegoguy.Heita boss.How did it go with you and @ Rafmama? Did you hook up with her or what? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
Hey Ladies,
Any PTA hot sexy ladies. Mail me on FlirtyRob@gmail.com!!!! Mwah!!!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Buckselona
@ Galfriend.Good afternoon my dear.Hope u good.
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hello my baby. How are you? Im very well thank you. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
MORNACHIES - True that. Plus the guy has to pay pap-geld. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@FlirtyRob
Hey Ladies,
Any PTA hot sexy ladies. Mail me on FlirtyRob@gmail.com!!!! Mwah!!!!!
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you sound like the Rob who reads the traffic on MetroFM.....lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@Buckselona
@ Seshegoguy.Heita boss.How did it go with you and @ Rafmama? Did you hook up with her or what?
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he did a Messi on her.......and dribbled around her 18 yard area.......kikikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
@Candyboy
you sound like the Rob who reads the traffic on MetroFM.....lol
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I'm just looking for fun. Don't blame me bra. LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ Galfriend.Im super dupa babes.tried looking for u the entire week on the blogg and i just cudnt find you anywhere.Were u off from work? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Buckselona - hahahahaa you were probably looking for me on wrong articles, I was blogging like crazy this week. Now you've found me, so whats up? Report Abuse
FlirtyRob
Hey Ladies,
Any PTA hot sexy ladies. Mail me on FlirtyRob@gmail.com!!!! Mwah!!!!!
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kikikikiki se u shaya ne kiss in advance,hahahahaha i like PTA u shay iroma before u shela? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ Galfriend.If contraceptives are not 100% safe then why are you guys still using them ge?Cos one will fall pregnant eventually. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Buckselona - Like @Somaar said, they only minimise chances of one getting pregnant uyabo? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
Hehe, would anyone mind if for friday comedy relief I told a blonde joke? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@Galfriend.Nuthing much and u? Hows ur weekend looking like?
@ Candyboy.I hope he did for real,cos Rafmama was into him big time.Boss while @ it help me find a sugar mama pls. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
LOL. Nevus is happy (not straight)!!!! LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
@SeshegoGuY -
Don't get me wrong mchana I fully support the initiative I just needed to be sure whether @Candyboy actually believes in what he's preaching or not because I am always willing to fight for anything that will contribute towards the reconstruction of our beliefs & mindsets as black south africans, it's just that i've fought alongside so many cowards over & over.
And if it wasn't cowards it was people with selfish self-enriching motives, so the experience has taught me not to be too hasty to jump on just any bus, otherwise i'm positively for this cause!!! Report Abuse
The contraceptive pill, if used correctly, is 98% effective.
That means that 98% of the female population is protected from pregnancy when using them. Some women ovulate more than once a month, some have dietary or health problems and some just forget to take them. That accounts for the other 2% that have 'failures' on the pill Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Buckselona
Well Chiefs won for once.....Thats all im gonna say
@CandyBoy
Climate Change?? Recycling paper n stuff...hope no-one was recycled
@FlirtyRob
Most of the chicks here are taken, so o vayile blind my Authi. Check News 2 4 or Times-live Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ Galfriend.If she ddint wanna fall pregnant she shud have used contraceptives and condoms @ the same time.But anyway whats done is done.Kids are a blessing and i have a passion for kids hope she doesnt abort though. Report Abuse
@SeshegoGuy
Most of the chicks here are taken, so o vayile blind my Authi. Check News 2 4 or Times-live
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I'm not looking for steady bra. Just want someone to help when I'm in need. Get my drift. Hala at me PTA ladies on FlirtyRob@gmail.com. No strings!!! Report Abuse
so how are things at the new cosatu house......?
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esih a bit quite hey :( i guess we will see some action nextweek..will update you neeh..gape ke re am nextdoor my darling Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
FlirtyRob - Lemme guess, you put the STD in Stud. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Ramatlhale
Big-ups my Man, we need more people like u in our Morally-bankrupt Soceity.
Even Our so called Leaders do not inspire confidence
@MommaC
Why are people still using Contraceptives????
Seems to me they are more afraid of getting Pregnant than HIV Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
@mornachies
O bolaya ke letswai ne ?
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Eish bra, you don't know how much. Just got back from Ghana and am glad to SAn ladies. Shuuuu!!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MORNACHIES
GODESS
Sowetan lentlwaela nosonso maan .
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you wrote to sowetan ,so that u can get helped mos ....nou why o le tjatjarag ? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
GODESS
ye, ke lefase lekhwi ngwaneso ga ontoo, guys can be like that sometimes, mara sesi nna ke belaela gore letswa kua kgolekgole le gauteng, wa fihla mouwe ba gongena ka maaka le wena wa tlala...nna bo sesi bekere lets stop beliving in this voet voet nonsense bareng ke lerato...nna ke ja motho ke a feta! no love love mo.... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Menina11
What's new? Almost every man in South Africa avoid the resposibility of being a dad. I really dnt know how these kind of guys live with themselves! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
Fine, heres my friday joke:
"Hi Mom, How are you?"
"Hi Sally, where are you? I thought you were with your father at the Ace Hardware"
"Yeah we were, but I got arrested, and they've let me make one phone call"
"What happened?"
"Oh, I punched this African-American woman in the head."
"What on earth, why did you do that?"
"Well it wasn't my fault. Dad told me to find a Black & Decker." Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Sinudeity
Hehe, would anyone mind if for friday comedy relief I told a blonde joke?
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Go ahead as long as its funny...lol
FlirtyRob
sawubona
Buckselona - Condoms are also not 100% effective lovie, but true hey , its not the end of the world. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ Momma C.Oh i see thanx for the info my dear.
@ SeshegoGuy.Why are you avoiding the Rafmama issue.What are you hiding?
@ FlrtyRob.This is not a dating site boss and as SeshegoGuy has told u all the ladies here are already taken.So go try sumwhere else,Sosha,Mamelodi or Mabopane sure u can find a mogwanti there. Report Abuse
That's not the end of the world, u can still make it because u'r still alive and don't fear the unknown.
you may feel alone, isollated and rejected but the reason God gave you a child is because you can take care of the baby.
remember everything happens for a reason sesi. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
GODESS
you wrote to sowetan ,so that u can get helped mos ....nou why o le tjatjarag ?
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@ monarchies kganthe keng ka wene nou? akere they did not want to publish my comment Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
@SeshegoGuY
yes but if he's a B@stards who doen't wanna take responsibility why bother...
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If he keeps bothering babies from where they are and brings them into the world, he'll have to pay. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Uyazi I was going to tell you something so sweet & sed........ that you we..... but when I count the number ya majita who are pursuing you on this blog, I concluded that my statements would eventually make part of the pack & I naturally hunt alone.
So I figure let's just have an innocent, adult, lust-fre.e chat; anything wild planned for the weekend???
I answered u boss, Like i said: RafMama is one Rough Mama, thats all im gonna say LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
@Galfriend,
How you doing babes??? Hit me up on FlirtyRob@gmail.com Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
SeshegoGuY
Condoms aren't 100% guaranteed either.
Getting a HIV is bad but getting positive AND then having a baby is just too scary for words
...... and very few rapists bother with condoms Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
@Buckselona,
Call me Mr Take your girl ~ singing. LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Ramathlale
Wa bona da o senya nako my Authi, bona nou o busy le that Flirtyboy. O na le nawa daai chick Serious
@JaJaQueen
Can't argue with that, everyone has to pay for their deeds at the end BUT Our women must also stop pursuing Materials (Some not all) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
Galfrend - I'll stick to my day-job. Unless of course my day-job is comedy. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Buckselona - No plans for the weekend yet uyaz.
Ramatlale - The good thing though is that I choose whoever I wanna chat to. I caht with most people here on a friendship level. So whoever has plans of taking things further than that, I feel sorry for them coz im married and I've never made that a secret. " So I figure let's just have an innocent, adult, lust-fre.e chat; " As far as I know we'vew been having that kind of a conversation vele..Unless if im missing something.
Eish some guys niyabora niyaz, cant a male and a female just be friends without being lovers or whatever.. hayi man, niyabhora. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
FlirtyRob
@Galfriend,
How you doing babes??? Hit me up on FlirtyRob@gmail.com
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What for?????? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ CandyBoy.Boss i said help me owt?
@ Galfriend.Seems like nuthing is 100% safe these days.We might just as well go back to skin to skin days. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
FlirtyRob
@Galfrend
What for??????
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So we can get to know each other and maybe.............(fill in the blanks) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Sinudeity
Galfrend - I'll stick to my day-job. Unless of course my day-job is comedy
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You do that - if your day job is comedy, tjo I feel sorry for you... hahahahahaa but you made me lol the other day when you said Seshego was going to braii more than he bargained for hahahahahaaa!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
Specifically Couples in a Relationship, they seem to be risking thier lives by engaging in Unprotected S3x.
Good Quality Condoms are safe---They form part of my grocery (Ok too much info) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
FlirtyRob
@Galfrend
What for??????
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So we can get to know each other and maybe.............(fill in the blanks)
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Who said im interested in knowing you vele..mcxm leave me alone man. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sinudeity
Galfrend - "if your day job is comedy, tjo I feel sorry for you"
Id be poor and unemployed :P
"but you made me lol the other day when you said Seshego was going to braii more than he bargained for"
Hehe, yeah. But spontanious jokes like that are better than these scripted jokes. Report Abuse
@ Galfriend.Seems like nuthing is 100% safe these days.We might just as well go back to skin to skin days.
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The only way to be safe is to ABSTAIN period. If you are not married,then abstain. If married, then be faithful to ur partner. I know its hard. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Galfrend
he started his career with that Joke ( SINUDEITY that was a good one & i still haven't forgiven u)
Mnxim......maar iSowetan iyabheda sometimes. What is this rubbish now? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sharpino
Di kae di article tsa Juju tsa goseng??????????????????????????????? It has come to my conclusion that SOWETAN live is iether run by prostit=utes or run by an adolescent who has nothing to do with what the youth of SA says about the current news, but more interested in SEXXXXXXXXXXXXX TopiCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS Report Abuse
Well to be honest, if my husband hauled out a condom before doing his 'duty', I'd be a bit upset. Would he be assuming that I'm screwing around or would he be letting me know that he is?
GODESS
you wrote to sowetan ,so that u can get helped mos ....nou why o le tjatjarag ?
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@ monarchies kganthe keng ka wene nou? akere they did not want to publish my comment.
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Ok ,sorry it just that i thought you are the one who wrote to Sisi Dolly or whatever her name is . Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
tomcat101
@ALL Dumelang..
where is this Tedu character mara?
@Mornachies....o grand bozza?
@Galfrend.....o grand love?
where is KUx2 bathong?
Sowetan knows very well that most of black ppl especially youth log in on sowetan live, but look at the topics of stories they bring thats really undermine most of the majority who read sowetan live. Some of us are more interested in reading post by fellow SA youth regarding politics.
I am not sure why Sowetan give us this kind of stories.................................... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
LoL @SeshegoGuy, I don't blame you dude for being pro-active just in case the other half forgets to take the pill:-) and honestly in this day of aids and herpetitis ppl shld take extra precautions to safeguard their health, Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
Ok Marriage is a different matter altogether But with couples there's no excuse, even if the 2 of them have been going out for years NO EXCUSES
he he Old Men don't even know how to use Condoms LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
vthobakgale
I think it`s time we review the constitution ya Mzansi.
1) it should be a criminal offence to mpregnent someone or fall pregnant when you don`t have a salary or your salary is not being taxed.
2) termination of pregnency should remain legal but a clause should be added that allows men to take women to court if they refuse to abort. In the list of possible punishments, a sentance of 12month community service of distributing condoms to public places.
3) It should be illegal to use babies as a tool to secure longterm relationships (trapping).
4) The law that prohibits men from buying morning after pills on their own is k*k n must be scraped. Report Abuse
Whilst your advice is always appreciated I think you are being a bit simplistic bordering on reckless when you say, “It is your body and no one can dictate to you what you should do”.
This issue is not about her body; it is about a pregnancy and in a few months time a human being who needs the love and support of both parents, who needs to be fed, clothed, and taken care of in every respect. Having a child is not a decision that should be taken by one party or one of the parents for when he or she is born both parents are equally liable to raise this child. It is therefore reckless to suggest that the father has no say in the matter, clearly he has made it clear he does not want to have the child and once the child is born and he keeps his distance he will be accused of all sorts of things including being an irresponsible father. Then you would have forgotten that you advocated that he be forced into fatherhood when that was not his desire. Your advice suggests the father has no option after conception and he is held hostage by the decision taken by the mother alone, does he not have rights too? We need to be very careful of using our rights to suppress or override his right of choice and or self-determination.
DEJECTED, this is a very big decision you have to make and in making that decision you need to respect the fact that your boyfriend has made it clear where he stands on the matter. You need to look at this situation from his point of view as well because the decision you will take will have lifelong consequences for him as well. The last thing you want is for him to think you are using this baby to trap him or put him in a situation where his opinion is not valued this would only serve to validate the suspicion that the pregnancy was deliberate.
It is always difficult to give advice in a situation like this as there are many factors involved. The last thing you want is to have this baby and then spend the rest of your life chasing maintenance money. This is not just about having the baby but also what happens after you have had the child, how will you raise the child etc and will he or she have both parents who will love him or her unconditionally and be there for him or her physically, financially and emotionally. You should be able to stand behind the decision you will make on your own as his actions are indicative of a man who does not want to have this kid, he is not likely to change his mind so be very careful.
@Galfrend
Eish some guys niyabora niyaz, cant a male and a female just be friends without being lovers or whatever.. hayi man, niyabhora.
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No,no,no my sista I never intended uk'kphazamisa kanje emoyeni, am simply saying should I have indulged in some adult, innocent but naughty talk with you, you might have mistaken me for these opportunistic vultures on the blog hence I opted for clean conversations.
Please forgive me if I came across as an irritating, childish & perverted blogger!!!I It was not intentional. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
SeshegoGuY
LOL
Why do you young people always think that you invented sex?
I am a product of the 1960;s. You guys don't even want to know wild life was like before HIV and the condom has been around for centuries. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Somaartakeit
That decision should be in my hands, no one is gonna decide for me.
I own my destiny sweety..
@VThobakgale
hey Ma-Vic o gona hierso mchana, Nna kere o vaile boss kikiki LOL Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Motabolapasa
@nevdad
@maezisto- hai ba kgasa boy se ke tseba ke bo mang ba re baisitseng nna ke blokilwe ke Ladygaga wena ke Mzabalazo.
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bana ge ba sa utlwee, ba kgona ke sona see Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
Well.... We did! I personally think the so called 60's generation of Hippies is a bit exaggerated..
For starters there were VERY FEW clubs, U could easily get pregnant (Contraceptives were probably not easily available) and life involved a lot of Rules (From the Family)
I met this guy some years back, he was a nice guy and very loving ,we decided to take things further. I spoke about HIV?AIDS and suggested we do tests and stressed the use of Condoms. He told me there is no need for a test and the use of condoms because he trusts me. That was the last time he saw me. How many has he trusted and not used condoms? I ran and never looked back! Report Abuse
Sheesh, have you ever got the cat by the dog there!
The contraceptive pill has been freely available since the mid 1950;s
Condoms have been around since about 1,000 BC and freely available since about the mind 1800's
We also didn't have any sexually transmitted diseases that couldn't be cured with a dose or three of penicillin.
It wasn't considered the era of sex, drugs and rock 'n roll for nothing :) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
tomcat101
@Skopokopo......interesting......was he that desperate? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
Damn!! So u all went naked in the bush, smoked dagga & danced the whole night
he he Must've been hard for the Parents. But now things are worse cos u could die Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Ramatlhale
No dear, ngiright mina, was just saying nje. Dont feel bad.
@Dzel
My brother, how are you? Correct me if I am misreading you. You are saying that, the father has a right to decide on whether the woman terminates or not? Report Abuse
"my boyfriend got me pregnant"- No gal, you allowed him to make you pregnant. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
SeshegoGuY
LOL
Not all the time but I did go to a couple of those kind of parties :) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
vthobakgale
@Mboloyamina
Mo lefaseng re tlet$e go jana period!
@SeshegoGuy
I`m not going to wits if that`s what you`re worried about. You won`t be allowed in either, I`ve put your picture under the blacklisted group.
@MommaC
I think s3x was invented in the 50s and perfected in the 60s. I mean the world population was under threat. There had been two world wars already and lots of ppl died, mass reproduction was required. you guys were heros Report Abuse
Not so sure hey. Those Romans had a whole holiday dedicated to orgies. That is a hard act to follow :) Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
he he Good All days. Vthobakgale says u were heroes
@Sinuedeity
So i take it u were also a regular
@Vthobakgale
Northgate is gonna have lots of stories this weekend Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
Jaja’sQueen,
My brother, how are you? Correct me if I am misreading you. You are saying that, the father has a right to decide on whether the woman terminates or not?
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I’m good thanks, and you?
I am saying he has a right to state his opinion and for his opinion to be considered seriously otherwise this situation is about to get a whole lot worse for everyone concerned. It is reckless for us – myself included – to give advice when none of us are going to contribute to the upbringing of this child. Also does it make sense for her to have this child and then spend the next few months or even years forcing the boyfriend to pay maintenance when she knew very well he did not want to have this child.
It is important to stress we all have rights, that she is going to carry the child does not automatically give her the right to make a unilateral decision and place all financial obligations on the father (to me that does not make sense). We need to remember that the argument goes it is her body and therefore can decide to terminate or not, what rights does the boyfriend have; none at all?
mmm The problem is that the father doesn't have to live with the emotional trauma of having an abortion. In 5 years time he won't cry when he rides past a pre-school and think "my kid would be about that age now". Some women are just not able to ever really get over an abortion.
The other thing is that it DOES take two to tango. If he was that adamant that he didn't want children now then why wasn't he using a condom? If he was wearing a condom and there was a 'wardrobe malfunction' then he should have insisted on watching her take a morning after pill.
This story does have all the earmarks of a woman trying to trap a man into marriage but that doesn't mean that said man is completely innocent either.
If you are irresponsible enough to make baby then you pay the price Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
Jaja,
Don't you think is right to decide on the pregnacy is limited till the birth?
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Of course it is limited till birth.
Reading comments here one would think the boyfriend's right end at conception. The woman’s right to decide ends when she is legally permitted to have the abortion which I think is at 4 months or so; she and only she can decide to terminate, have the child and then give it up for adoption or to keep the child in which case he is forced by law to pay for the upbringing of the child irrespective of whether he wanted to have this child or not.
Rights are balanced by obligations, for every decision made there are consequences. It is important we keep these in mind and when you decide to exercise your right you should be in a position to face the obligations as well, right now the majority seem to encourage her to have this kid yet the financial obligation is likely to be carried by the father. This is not a situation that should be entered into carefully, my limited ability to psycho-analyse a situation like this is that her decision is likely to result in resentment and loathing for a long time, no-one wants to be forced into a difficult situation especially when there were other options which were ignored.
All I am saying is she should treat the father as an equal partner in making this decisions otherwise she risks a lifetime of unhappiness and friction should she make a unilateral decision that is binding on all parties concerned.
After you get over the shock of discovering the real nature of the "love of your life", pull yourself together and burn a hole in his pocket. Here is part of your list - damages for pain and suffering, damages for breach of promise, maintenance for the lovely little guy or girl, maintenance for yourself. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Buckselona
@ Ramathlale.Now u calling us vultures cos u ddint succeed in luring GF.I know guys like you,trying to score points @ our expense.How old are you boss? cos u so childish. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
Dzel the man should not have to be forced to pay maintenance he should do that voluntarily that's taking responsibility for his party for creating it, cause there was no reason for him to not have used a condom if he didn't want to father an unplanned baby, I also think its cruel that you suggest that a man should have a right to decide when it comes to abortion, even doctors who are medically trained for years have no right to decide, they will ONLY give options the decision is that of a person carrying a baby cause at the end it will affect her health.
Normally Dzel you come across as a well reasoned guy and a fair person, but on this one you really show your chauvinistic tendencies. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
pierre2000
One year and already pregnant? Yet within such a short time you were already fighting? You should have been more cautious Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
@Dzel
Just for my sake, I would never challenge your beliefs. Is it in anyway possible that we could make this discuss to be based on the fact that the baby will be born and not ki!led. If that's possible. I do not support the k!lling of babies. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
McLoving
Keep the baby and enjoy your pregnancy.Yo go girl .Its a great experience.Leave the looser alone ..he doesn't deserve you. Report Abuse
mmm The problem is that the father doesn't have to live with the emotional trauma of having an abortion. In 5 years time he won't cry when he rides past a pre-school and think "my kid would be about that age now". Some women are just not able to ever really get over an abortion.
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You know the funny thing is Momma, had this been about her wanting to have the abortion and the boyfriend was opposed to the idea you would be telling me about her rights to her body. Why isn’t this “emotion wreck” argument raised when the foot is on the other shoe?
This is about both parties, obviously they both have to live with the decision can we please not make assumptions when we don’t know anything about both parties.
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The other thing is that it DOES take two to tango. If he was that adamant that he didn't want children now then why wasn't he using a condom? If he was wearing a condom and there was a 'wardrobe malfunction' then he should have insisted on watching her take a morning after pill.
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Not sure if you missed the point where she states she was and still is on the pill, don’t you think that contributed to him not using a condom or do you advocate guys use condoms at all times irrespective of what other family planning methods were used concurrently?
Again, had this been about her right to have an abortion you would not be talking about condoms; the least I can ask of you is to be fair to both parties and apply the same standards, not cheryy pick arguments that suit your agenda.
You speak of innocence as if this is a criminal case or that he is a pariah; the guy had sex with his girlfriend under the impression that she was using protection and that pregnancy was not possible. Can we please respect that fact and that he is now faced with a lifelong commitment and he is not ready to have this kid. Why is it so difficult to respect the view of the potential father or do guys have no rights when it comes to pregnancies?
@SeshegoGuY
Yeah, he can be invloved with the pregnancy as a source of support for the woman. And assist at the time of birth by rubbing her back. His main role will be after the baby is born - he will have to foot the bill for the maintenance of the baby. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Candyboy
@romanrick
Spot on brother....that makes 2 of us mate. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
pierre2000
@ Galfrend
pierre
una hali gani mpenzi wangu?
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Nipo salama mpenzi wangu, habari za kazi?
Nani anakufudisha kiSwahili?
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kazi ni nzuri dear, hakuna mafundisho yangu Kiswahili, Im ufasaha ndani yake .. lol
Hivyo yoyote mipango ya mwishoni mwa wiki? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
Well is she wants an abortion then it is HER decision. If it turns her into an emotional wreck then it is on her head. It is not something she was forced into. Until such time as we evolve into seahorses, men don't really have an option. They don't carry the baby for 9 months then carry it again for the next 20 years or so.
If he was that adamant about not having a child then YES, he should have used a condom. If he is so ignorant as to not be aware that a goodly dose of diarrhoea or a few too many grapefruits make the pill useless then he shouldn't be having sex to start with. It is also damn irresponsible for any young man to believe that there aren't women out there who fall pregnant on purpose to 'trap' them.
You chose the behaviour then you chose the consequences. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
pierre2000
@ Galfrend
Onafanya kazi gani mpenzi wangu? Onafanyiya wapi? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Shenene
mxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?
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Prince charming turns into devil incarnate at the looming sound of pitter patter (kid/s)
Im proof of that and I am so happy with my baby............. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Serenade
Thanks once more Sowetan for topic like this one especially on friday, we need to loose up, most of your bloggers are political minded you need to cool them down eg RobinH. Wooooooooooooza weekend woza ntokozo.
How are u mi man ?___Why did u block Maezsisto ?
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The day Sowetan blocked comments on articles I did adress my comments to Sowetanlive and complained that it was not fair for us to be blocked because of few certain individuals who where not adding value to the blog.I had my comments removed on the blog the day after. It's something to do with webbteam not me.I don't have the power to block anyone.I think it's the same as in the ANC,,,they teach some people manners and if they don't listen they get rid of them.Mina I don't have anything to loose or gain from the whole situation. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
Pierre
Nami nitakuwa nyumbani, hakuna mipango ya wapenzi wote .. na wewe? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
That boy must prepare himself 4 maintenance docs whilst having fun,dont worry baby he'll still look after his kid. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Ramatlhale
Buckselona- Chief if you are not a vulture then why all the fuss, I mean if the shoe fits........And quiet often than you realise the level of maturity in an individual tends to exceed one's age so I could be 35 with a moer se capacity mentally & you could be 55 and ......well let's say challenged, so the age factor is very much irrelevant when coming to such matters.
And just so we're clear from what I can gather by your statements your intentions concerning GF are not the same as mine, I am just an honest, innocent friend to GF & it ends there...(Saint)
Just for my sake, I would never challenge your beliefs. Is it in anyway possible that we could make this discuss to be based on the fact that the baby will be born and not ki!led. If that's possible. I do not support the k!lling of babies.
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K|lled is such a dramatic word, one that is not used when the shoe is on the other foot.
Let’s face it; women have abortion for convenience either the child is going to be an imposition, it will mess with my body, etc, etc. We allow woman to have the abortion for reasons as self-centred as “I do not want my waist to be messed up” and we support them by arguing that “it is her body, it’s all goo, have that abortion” but when it is the guy wanting the abortion then he is an irresponsible SOB who should have used protection and now must face the music.
Seriously guys, am I the only one who spots the blatant hypocrisy here?
Are you guys seriously arguing that he does not have a choice in this matter; if so why not?
Are men not entitled to rights when it comes to reproduction?
ata mimi takuwa nyumbani, onakuwa na nani nyumbani? Onayenda kanisani siku ya jumapili? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
@Nevdad
hey Somaartjie
--------------------------dumella Nevi, is your other avatar auvius? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
OFFOFF
the boyfrnd is a complete idiot bt as they alwys say wht goes comes around makahamba bazoqhanda phambili. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@MommaC,
Well is she wants an abortion then it is HER decision. If it turns her into an emotional wreck then it is on her head. It is not something she was forced into. Until such time as we evolve into seahorses, men don't really have an option. They don't carry the baby for 9 months then carry it again for the next 20 years or so.
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Fair enough, he does not carry the child. What is your view on raising this child after (s)he is, should he be compelled to pay maintenance?
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If he was that adamant about not having a child then YES, he should have used a condom. If he is so ignorant as to not be aware that a goodly dose of diarrhoea or a few too many grapefruits make the pill useless then he shouldn't be having sex to start with. It is also damn irresponsible for any young man to believe that there aren't women out there who fall pregnant on purpose to 'trap' them.
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Ok I see; using the same logic I assume you believe abortion should be outlawed besides a few exceptions like rape since the woman would have allowed herself to be penetrated without using protection or condoms to be specific since you are so pedantic on the matter?
tomcat101
@Skopokopo......interesting......was he that desperate?
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I realised he was a danger to society !!
~Galfrend
Ramatlhale
No dear, ngiright mina, was just saying nje. Dont feel bad.
Skopokopo
You did well gal
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Thanks gal, how could he be so careless? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
McLoving
MORNACHIES
@McLoving ,
How are u mi man ?___Why did u block Maezsisto ?
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The day Sowetan blocked comments on articles I did adress my comments to Sowetanlive and complained that it was not fair for us to be blocked because of few certain individuals who where not adding value to the blog.I had my comments removed on the blog the day after. It's something to do with webbteam not me.I don't have the power to block anyone.I think it's the same as in the ANC,,,they teach some people manners and if they don't listen they get rid of them.Mina I don't have anything to loose or gain from the whole situation
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so wena you think you smell better raising concerns?I told you and i tell you again this is not you mom's shack and guesse what i also talk to Phindile ko tellus and she adviced me to change the username.Why wena o le so concern ka di comments tse sa directiwa ko wena?O na le boya ka pelong sies man o na le pelo ya boloi for a guy.Am sorry to tell you the good news "I'll be here till seshwapha sa hao se tsutsubane".hai man wa khinya,etsa o thole mnyakazo o relax.
@Dzel
Thank you, Dzel for accomodating me. Like I said before a man who does not use protection. His responsibilities during the pregnancy are very limited. Unless he wants to be there as a support for the woman, financial or otherwise. A man who does not want to conceive uses protection. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
somaartakeit
@Nevdad
hey Somaartjie
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i miss you badly dear and thats auvius Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
@Nevi LoL well am here now, so why utshintsha yr id so often did you forget ukuthi ndingu blondie? lol Report Abuse
blah blah blah story of our lives,*yawning* Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
In an ideal world there would be no unwanted pregnancies. The mom and the dad would all be over the moon about the prospect of junior's imminent arrival. I don't know if you've noticed or not but it isn't a perfect world.
If the man wants to support his child and he is willing to be a father figure then he should have all the same rights as the mother has. If he wants to be a speerm donor then he should be able to have nothing to do with the child -- providing that he takes care of his portion of the financial needs of the child so it isn't disadvantaged by his selfishness.
I really don't get your last part. What has a man using a condom to do with a woman not being allowed to have an abortion? Are you saying that ONLY women are responsible for safe sex? Are men too stupid to know what causes babies? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
McLoving
what is this now?Nevdad and nevus ...hahahahahahhaha !!!! hubba hubba !!!! McLoving likes.. mense ba na le nako.Nna ha ke na taba you can call me names and what what ...I don't give a ____ life is too short to worry about nothing. Report Abuse
@McLoving report me again jou gat.Why dont you ignore comments that are not meant for you?Heeee baba Sowetan ke ya rona di working class if o nagana gore o betere why o sa ye ko beeld? Ftsek man jou ouma se kop.
Sikumbuki mara ya mwisho nilikwenda kanisa. Wena wewe kwenda kanisani kila Jumapili?
Im kugonga mbali sasa, mwishoni mwa wiki kuwa kubwa na mwangalifu! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@Jaja,
Like I said before a man who does not use protection. His responsibilities during the pregnancy are very limited. Unless he wants to be there as a support for the woman, financial or otherwise. A man who does not want to conceive uses protection.
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... and a woman who does not want to keep the baby after conception uses abortion?
Is family planning is entirely the responsibility of the man?
@Somaartjie-its this boys who are wearing ladies underwears reported me kwi sowetan thinking they are getting rid of me. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Sentle
Ke mang mpimpi mo this blog?
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Mcloving,Mxcm,Mornashit,Ladygaga,Mzabalazo,JubJub,Ryemond ke lebetse ba bangwe Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
Sentle
Ke mang mpimpi mo this blog?
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ke that thing modimo ga your comment,nx Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
pierre2000
@ Galfrend
Piere
Sikumbuki mara ya mwisho nilikwenda kanisa. Wena wewe kwenda kanisani kila Jumapili?
Im kugonga mbali sasa, mwishoni mwa wiki kuwa kubwa na mwangalifu!
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ee, mimi nakwenda kanisani mara mingi, lakini siyo kila jumapili. Uwo ni ukweli sana, katika mwisho ya wiki, lazima tukuwe wanalifu. Onakunywa beer ama wine? Report Abuse
Bye my best friend on Sowetan!!! Weekend jema mpenzi wangu!!!!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Serenade
@Nevdad
You are mampara of the week you need to behave man, You even tell bloggers that you would insult. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@MommaC,
If he wants to be a speerm donor then he should be able to have nothing to do with the child
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Let’s get back to reality; he does not have that luxury. He is held hostage by the decision made by the woman and he faces jail time should he resists, that is his reality.
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providing that he takes care of his portion of the financial needs of the child so it isn't disadvantaged by his selfishness.
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There we go ahead; that ugly word selfishness, funny how you’ve completely sidestepped question on a scenario where it is the woman who wants the abortion and the man doesn’t.
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I really don't get your last part. What has a man using a condom to do with a woman not being allowed to have an abortion? Are you saying that ONLY women are responsible for safe sex? Are men too stupid to know what causes babies?
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Now you are being melodramatic, my point is you are quick to nail the guy using the “not using the condom” tagline yet when having sex both parties consent to engage in an act of sex without using a condom. When it turns out she is pregnant then he has not option because he was reckless. The same logic is not applied to the woman though, you are projecting her as an innocent victim and therefore she should be allowed to have that arbortion.
Two people engage in the act yet the one parties rights cease to exist at conception and the other party still has options because, “it is her body”.
Perhaps we should approach the debate from another angle; do you think women should be afforded the right to abort or do you think this should only apply when she can prove she resisted having sex without a condom and was forced to hence the pregnancy?
Let’s stop being hypocrites people, is it at all possible to be objective and apply the same logic irrespective of gender?
I have a feeling that you create these stories. Why is it always samething over and over again from these stupid girls? Please next Friday go and dig these stories from the White Surburbs.Just for a change Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Galfrend
piere
Hakuna dear, sijui kunywa na mimi dont moshi. na wena?
Anyway, nzuri kuzungumza na wewe, im kugonga mbali sasa. Kuendelea vizuri! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
JUBJUB
nke le chaiseng bathong
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e le gore ra go apela? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
shem Nevi but you are here now cause you are a cat you have 8 lives, lol what did you do wena that caused them to report you cause normally you are a sweet person *wink*
Maeza68 nawe bebaku annile shame? lol btw is 68 your year of birth or your age? just curious lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Sentle
@Muntu-Maeza68 and Nevdad
E le gore lena le bo mang?
You seem to know me very well, a keya le isti bo papa? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
pierre2000
@ Galfrend
Safe journey!! See u when i reach home. h ah aha ha. bye Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
JUBJUB
Nevi why o tshabile ka ntlhela,kgante ke mang a go reportileng.... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
somaartakeit
shem Nevi but you are here now cause you are a cat you have 8 lives, lol what did you do wena that caused them to report you cause normally you are a sweet person *wink*
Maeza68 nawe bebaku annile shame? lol btw is 68 your year of birth or your age? just curious lol
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its just that ba ya jealasa ngoba wena usthandele mina ba na ma-issue la ma lady.
kikikikikikikiki o tlwaela maez68 yong kikikikiki
@Sentle-this is the original N E V U S!!!! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
@Jubilee-a ka tshaba kikikikikiki moer ke thotse picture e ngwe so hahahahaha ke reportilwe ke Ann le hethe e ba re mcloving. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
When have I been hypocritical about this?
Reality is that a woman who falls pregnant by accident is stupid. Birth control has been around for over 60 years. The females of my species should really have come to grips with how it works by now. Having said that, mistakes happen. If she feels confident enough to raise the 'oops' by herself then good on her. If she doesn't then she has the option of an abortion or she can take her chances that the male will NOT head for the hills before the child's third birthday.
The same reality is that any man who gets a woman pregnant by accident is stupid. Condoms have been around since 1,000 BC so they've had a good number of centuries to figure out how to put the damn thing on. Having said that mistakes happen. If he wants to stick around then he is normally welcomed gratefully. If he doesn't then he needs to make sure the child doesn't suffer.
No matter which idiot you want to peg the blame on. A child should NEVER suffer for simply being born.
@Dzel
Family planning is the responsibility of both parties. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
McLoving
McLoving is unable to participate fully as he would like to.I am still busy with some serious issues.Have a good day all of you.all lovely and beautiful people.Have a wonderful weekend and take care.See you later. Report Abuse
Nevi mxm wa mo sogela Ann....
ke nagana ke di psycho tse sa batleng o bolela le everyone...kikikikiikikikikikiiikikikikikikikikikikikiiikk Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC
That closes the argument, I agree with that. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Sentle
@Muntu-Maeza68 and Nevdad
E le gore lena le bo mang?
You seem to know me very well, a keya le isti bo papa?
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You asked a question and we answered whats your problem? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
somaartakeit
@Nevi lol hayi shem bangibinoma cause mos if bayafuna we can share after all freedom charters clearly states that the ppl shall share, lol
am just giving umaez hard time:-) *winks* Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ntwana ke thotse motho vandag Mxcm setse a ngaile di e-mail address le di belase boi its a good fryday Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@MommaC,
No matter which idiot you want to peg the blame on. A child should NEVER suffer for simply being born.
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Please my question on abortion, obfuscation will not make the question go away.
Do you think women should be allowed to have an abortion for the sake of convenience?
That closes the argument, I agree with that.
------------------------------------------------------------------how very undemocratic of you to concl that the argument has been closed without consulting us? lol Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
McLoving
McLoving is unable to participate fully as he would like to.I am still busy with some serious issues.Have a good day all of you.all lovely and beautiful people.Have a wonderful weekend and take care.See you later.
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fokof no-one will miss you ka ho re wa bora hethe kwena.
@Jubilee-bona ke tla ba mo till this side e kwalwa ke Ann maan ke ena kikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@MommaC,
Family planning is the responsibility of both parties.
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Good, what happens when contraceptives have failed both parties like in this case; does his opinion count or it is up to the woman alone to make decisions after conception?
@Nevi-ahhh my friend wa baba ba go lwela,ba go bakisa tltltltltltltltltltl he he he Mr Google Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Nevdad
@Maez68-good boy kikikikikikiki nna ke busy ka mabencane ko facebook hei a ba apole a ba apole boy?ne ke batla Sentle nou wa ibreka so ke moja ko facebook. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
My feelings on abortion are complex. It is something that I could NEVER do but I cannot find it in me to judge any sister who feels that it is in her best interests to have one. I have seen too many young women being ruined by back street and DIY abortions.
You claim that men should be the ones who decide what WE do with our bodies? Well then make men like toasters and get them to come with guarantees because all too often they run away at the first opportunity and WE are left holding the baby - LITERALLY. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
SeshegoGuY
:) fair is fair and I'm glad I stopped you feeling so picked on. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Motabolapasa
@Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ntwana ke thotse motho vandag Mxcm setse a ngaile di e-mail address le di belase boi its a good fryday
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motho ke wena, don't be like this guy here who run away after a tlamolla ngwana tla'ma Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Lwa
Interesting conversation, reality is a lot of guys feel trapped and helpless under these situations.... just the thought of another person being able to make a decision that will affect me for the rest of my life and there is nothing I can do about it is just too much NOW reality is a lot of men feel frustrated under these circumstances and how do they react? .....THEY BLAST EERBODYS HEAD!!
Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ntwana ke thotse motho vandag Mxcm setse a ngaile di e-mail address le di belase boi its a good fryday
---------------------------------------------------hayi mara nawe shem urata mnyakazo too much plse calm down! Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Jaja'sQueen
Dzel
@MommaC,
Family planning is the responsibility of both parties.
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Good, what happens when contraceptives have failed both parties like in this case; does his opinion count or it is up to the woman alone to make decisions after conception?
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A lot of things in our lives happen at inconvinient times and I do not feel that terminating destiny is the answer really. A life once created, I believe should not be taken lightly. There are options available, like adoption etc.
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Mar 2, 2012
Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ntse ke nagana gore Sentle ke moqwaeto kante santse e le lebenqane moooerrr nou o ba ja yang ko facebook hai nna dilo tse tsa bo facebook ga ke tlale ka tsona
Motabola-Wa rra goreng moo.Neva ke tshabe as long a ntsha t'lama go ka tlala seatla
@kilawea
""""""He said I was a gold digger and all I wanted was his money. Then he hit me."""""
......Now you know all he wanted was your vagina, that's all.................
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Nothing wrong with that....men spend their lives chasing kokie. My problem comes in when you fall pregnant and he tries to run away from his responsibility. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@MommaC,
My feelings on abortion are complex.
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Nothing complex about abortion; you either believe it is right or you don’t. Forget backyard abortions for a second, I am talking about someone going to Mary Stopes and intending to have an abortion. Interesting you “cannot find it in me to judge any sister who feels that it is in her best interests to have one” yet you don’t think twice about jumping on a guy in a similar situation, he has not right to decide “what is in his best interests”.
You mentioned you were born in the 60s, can we please debate like adults. We both know abortion is never about the woman’s body; it is about the inconvenience of having the child (I’m sorry, any woman who aborts to save her body is just plain stupid). Let’s stop using the childish “her body” argument, let’s the real issue which is convenience or rather the inconvenience the child is going to be. Woman has a right to be selfish to borrow a term you used but the man does not; how does that work?
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You claim that men should be the ones who decide what WE do with our bodies?
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Never said that, I said the man should have a choice whether he wants to have a child and surely when his opinion is ignored then it the woman should have the child with the understanding that she is making that decision alone and be prepared to face the consequences on her own.
Which part of this statement do you disagree with and why?
My position may sound callous but I am disturbed by a society that says men should not have rights after conception; surely this is women rights on steroids, correct?
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Well then make men like toasters and get them to come with guarantees because all too often they run away at the first opportunity and WE are left holding the baby - LITERALLY.
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When a man tells you he does not want to have the baby in time for you to make a decision how can you call that running away, do you even have a right to point fingers?
@maeza-boi a ke so ba kumule ba nromella di pics tsa lepona boy kikikikikiki sa ka net ke go inviter e be ke kumula. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
@Jaja,
A lot of things in our lives happen at inconvinient times and I do not feel that terminating destiny is the answer really. A life once created, I believe should not be taken lightly. There are options available, like adoption etc.
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Agreed 100%. All I am arguing is let us be fair on both parties and when we offer advice in cases like this let us do so from an informed position and more importantly let us appreciate consequences of the advice given.
This is a difficult situation for both parties; any decision made should take into account the position of both parties and obligations that flow from the decision taken. Like I said, the boyfriend will one day be called an irresponsible father should he turn his back on this child yet it is a child he did not want to have in the first place. Many people do not take kindly to be forced into a situation where their opinion was disregarded. This is why you have young kids raising kids on their own, this has social and economic consequences and many end up turning to the court and social services for assistance.
Yes. I come from a time when being a single parent was scandalous and abortion was illegal.
Don't tell me that back street abortion is not an issue here. You haven't seen what those butchers do to women.
The fact that you think this is about something as small as looks is maybe the whole problem. This isn't about our figures or about stretch marks, This is about a life long commitment to another human being. It is about taking on the greatest responsibility in the world. This is also about giving up your life to live exclusively for your child. To make out that it is about shallow vanity is just sick.
You then go on and contradict yourself. You say in one posting that a man should be allowed to stop a woman from having an abortion if he wants the baby now you say that it is on her head if she does have the baby. I'm not sure which angle you are arguing on now. Are you saying that men should be the ones to decide if women have an abortion or not and that women should have no say in the matter? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Raven
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Mar 2, 2012
kilawea
""""Nothing wrong with that....men spend their lives chasing kokie. My problem comes in when you fall pregnant and he tries to run away from his responsibility.""""
.....well, if a woman (or a man) is considered just a walking semen receptacle, and she is happy with it, then there should be no problems.............The problem is that at the end of the day, sex is not for children or immature adults. Secondly, if you want to really engage in sex, then you have to know what you are exposed to. For that you need GOOD education from a GOOD source, no witches stories, teenagers beliefs, "cultural/tradition" excuses or half truths. In other words informed decision......Third, it takes two to toyi-toyi.......... Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
kilawea
thank you. I have been trying to get that across for hours now
If you want to play big people games then you must take big people precautions or be prepared to take big people consequences. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
mommaC,
The fact that you think this is about something as small as looks is maybe the whole problem. This isn't about our figures or about stretch marks, This is about a life long commitment to another human being.
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Exactly, then stop using this “right to own body” argument.
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To make out that it is about shallow vanity is just sick.
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Well didn’t you argue that, “you claim that men should be the ones who decide what WE do with our BODIES? It is you who mention a woman’s body, this then makes us equally sick, right. My position has always been that abortion is about the inconvience of having a child for women; let us approach the debate from that position. If you think this makes me sick then please knock yourself out, I suppose there is logic behind my sickness.
I never argued a man should be able to force a woman to have an abortion, please re-read my arguments and point me to where I say this. What I have argued is there are consequences that flow from keeping a child, this is a decision that needs to be made with that fact in mind I then argued if it makes to make the decision to keep the baby but then turn around and demand financial assistance to raise the child.
Please read my statements carefully MommaC, it’s unfair of you to twist my words at every given opportunity.
I'm not 'twisting' your words. That is genuinely what I'm understanding from you.
So if abortion is about it being a minor inconvenience to the woman then what is it to the man?
No wait, Before that, maybe we should start with an attempt to get onto the same page of the understanding manual here. Do you agree with abortion? Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
I have no problem with abortion, I recognise the need and am in no position to impose on anyone. What I have a problem with is how to is means of escape for one party yet the other party has no say on the matter. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Dzel
MommaC, I really have to go. Will read your comment as soon as I get home. Cheers. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
MommaC
Dzel
Drive safe.
So which party, would you say, has the right to use it as an 'escape'?
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Mar 2, 2012
magabucks
what's new here really? Happening all the time. Its about time women take back thier power and be the person God created them to be and stop hoping and relying on these scumbags- (I know not every man is a scumbag - there are a few good ones out there actually - so before u even judge me I know). Point is he never really loved you gal. We all have scars from being dumped babes, some may not have a child to prove it - but many women out there have had their fair share of being abused and dumped. Pick yourself up and finish your studies (u cannot afford to mess up your education as well) - abortion is a no no. You certianly do not want regrets later in life. There's always sunshine after the rain! Strength to you. Report Abuse
Mar 2, 2012
Mabobs
Abort this thing and go to church and ask for forgivness.dont forgot to delete him in your life Report Abuse
Mar 3, 2012
OrangeConcentrate
WE all know that the true GOLD and DIAMOND DIGGERS,
Anglo-American Oppenheim should be DUMPED off BEIT BRIDGE Report Abuse
Mar 4, 2012
Quickfix
@ 24 you are much older to make the right decisions in your interest and nobody else. This guy might have his own reasons for behaving the way he does, only you and him knows why things have turned the way they are but I do not think your parents will be as mad as he is. You are the one carrying this child and whatever decision you make, the consequences thereof remain with you. Be rational and not emotional in any decisions you make. Report Abuse
Mar 4, 2012
SIBandAIGH
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Mar 5, 2012
Kgonatsagago
My opologies to real men out there for my comment, banna ke dintsa fela, ba ja fela ba fetsa ba tshaba. if it wasnt like that there wouldn't be lots of single mother outa there. the sooner we aas women acepts gore it gore as much as it takes 2 to make a baby it mostly takes one to raise the baby. Its a pity you still astudent, but I trust your parents will assist with the baby, dont stress gal its all gonna work out at the end. I have raised my son on my own and he will be two soon. Its gonna be difficult in the begginging but it will get better. As for that A$$hole, you dont need him i your life. Report Abuse
Mar 5, 2012
ROTCHER
My advise to you dear don't even think of abortion cause u've been enjoying varsity life so u wanna derail!!!!.just delete that looser off your charts cause,who knows???, u'll be givin birth to the next generation's head of state,thats just a temp issues just don't make it permanent.da guy will in future wana be part of da child I promise you dat happened to my couz as de dad came for apologies hoping to get rejected well he wasn't de child is freely living while the culprit is hurting inside.THATS WHAT THEY MEAN WHEN THEY SAY THE WORLD IS ROUND,IT CAN ROLL ON THE UNIVERSE!!!!!!!!!take care Report Abuse
Mar 6, 2012
Lavly
Lady u r not stupid and this is not the end of de world. Dnt stress jst take this guy for parternity testing and maintanance court. O ne a go jelang a itse gore dis could lead to a bambino. Hav nothin 2 do with him bt jst b parents to the baby and a child is a gift frm God. luk 4 a job and u could even earn more than he does...wat is moni afta ol without luv & hapiness. Report Abuse
Apr 17, 2012
Juju-babe
For heaven's sake you are 24 not twelve. you can raise a baby. Report Abuse
May 9, 2012
JB$
Have the baby sweetheart don't please him and by the time he realizes it will be time for khumbulekhaya Report Abuse
Aug 24, 2012
Kitsoboswa
NEVER fall pregnat if you are not ready. Learn from others Report Abuse
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SeshegoGuY
@SowetanWhere do u find these stories?????
and its always on a friday..ag sies man!
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phathaphatha
eish this guyReport Abuse
NotAgain
This guy is a serious coward, He knows very well that the child is his. Another child without a father, ag this is very DisappointingReport Abuse
Korea
What do you mean sometimes fight??? If someone you are in a relationship with physically abuse you girl you must run and run for the hills girly. It clearly shows that you are in this because he has a good job and you are prepared to take his nonsense because of that. He has seen through you that you are a gold digger that's why he is telling you now. Maybe your behaviour during the relationship was that of a gold digger.Tsamaya o mo tshwarisa maintenance that's the only option. Your relationship is toxic and you need to get out asap. Fetsa sekolo o bereke ngwanyana and o tlogele go choosa boyfriend bcos o nale a nice job looking for fr.ee lunch and drinks. Ke serope mperekele ntho eo mosetsanyana.
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maneater
a person wh is on her last year at Varsity knows or at least should know the avenues available to her. first go and open a case of assault against this guy and ensure that her pays for the mainatinace of the child. on thing that is least likely to help is to write to Sowetan.
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tomcat101
@all...dumelang.wats new, why didnt u leave him when he called u a gold digger the 1st time?
im pretty sure u saw this comming coz u could have packed an left and continued with your life, i mean u went to vasity for Piets's sake u got brains, why not use them instead of opening your legs for no reason?
now another kid is born with out a father and gues whose pockets thats gonna cost?
us tax payers once again....blacksam.
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Mxcm!!
@SeshegoGuyFridays are "Dear Dudu" day sweets...you should know by now!!!
@Dejected in Florida
What happened to the usage of condoms sisi??? Hmmm? But that's crying over spilt milk. Lets focus on the problem at hand.
Having a baby is not the end of the world..it's a blessing - you going to have a beautiful boy or girl within the next six to seven months; and that child is going to need you to be strong!! So how about getting over the "self pity party" and strengthening your backbone and start being positive about the situation!
And as for the loser...people show their true colors when the "going gets tough" - at least you found out now rather than later!!
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Mmarena
Sesi children are a gift from God. like Dudu said u made a mistake and we all do. there is always a way out of this. time will heal and you be whole again. pick up the pieces and move on with ur life cherish every moment the baby is growing inside you. beliv me you will neva regret it. God bles you n keep that adorable one inside youReport Abuse
tomcat101
@Maneater....good point u have!@NotAgain......an how sure areu that the child is his?
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Candyboy
Whatever..........Sisi Dudu and her Friday made up stories as usual.....500 comments anyone....?Morning ya'll
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Ubufebe
Weekend Speciaaals! Hehehehehe, and the Sowetan makes it seem so believable.THE MORAl OF THIS STORY: "Think before you open your ......"
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Mzalaz
@ Sowetan, think we had enough of these stories, the stories you paste here are almost the same, do you mean if I can send a story eg,my husband is cheating on me, my boyfriend is beatin me, or any sex story, are you really still going to publish that, WHY? because you know your clients love these stories about sex etc, but can't you see that they are now BORING.Sometimes I think you want to break record by receiving lots of stupid comments.
I didnt know that there are people who r still taking a pill (while not married ) in this time of Aids, you people stil TRUST, wish u luck
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WordofGod
the famous sowetanlive commentators are not here yet. they are still coming!! +- 600 comments for this article, waiting!!!Report Abuse
Tshiamo-8TA
You're not the first and not the last one, soldier on, babe. Life has it's ups and downs, one day o tlabe o lebetse ka ntwa-dumela eo...! Keep your head-up and move on.Report Abuse
JUBJUB
Condom,what happened -no matter how much you love the guy mara ai people dont learn.And some men dont want children and women force them to thats when the situation gets worse
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SeshegoGuY
@WordofGodO right my Sister, Bale ba go rata Mnyakazo le go rogana
Morning!!
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Ubufebe
@JUBJUBTalking from experience???
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SeshegoGuY@Sowetan
Where do u find these stories?????
and its always on a friday..ag sies man!
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I agree with you they make up this storie especially on friday to make people Unproductive with thousands comments.
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Phunyukabemphethe
@SowetanYes is SiSi Dudu day today but the is similarity of the article of today and the one for last friday, Please do not stick to sex related issues, bring something new that of course would built the nation.To me it sound as if anyone who have boyfriend/girlfriend issues just try her/his lucky to see story publish
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zaco
dumelang fellows@wordy
@seshegoGuy
@candyboy
and the rest!
Today is a beauiful day....God is still Good_ i read the book, the book said I win, I win if I put My Lord first.....Great friday....
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rasefatee
Baby please come to my life i will pay R30000.00 lobola and keep you in my house some men are so stupid we busy looking at some handsome women but this idiot is busy playing kak please call me my love at 0712223698Report Abuse
Raven
you not the first one and will not be the last...UZOBA STRONG...Report Abuse
TrapStar
Well Dont ever call the loooooser, leave him and show him you dont want anything from himIf he brings his long toe nails when the baby is born, take a nail clipper and cut them.
But i have a question for you, Are you sure he is not Married????
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Jaja'sQueen
Being on the pill is not enough. There are so many things which could interfere with its absorption. Anyway, you are pregnant now, congratulations! Where do we go to from here? Tell your parents, they might be upset, but they'll get over it cause they love you and will love the grandchild. Now, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food, vomiting medication, clinic visits, taxi fare, etc. Cause Mr hot pipe will have to foot the bill till he can prove that the child is not his. Now with that done; you can now relax and enjoy your pregnacy as babies thrive better with healthy moms who are not stressed.Report Abuse
sakhomba
Dejected wee.go tell mama about this. you are in your final year of your studies which is good. after the baby is born get on a taxi to down town Jozi( 25 Market street/ Maintenance court) banna ba nnyela masepa mole ha ba gana go sapota bana.
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JUBJUB
Ubufebe@JUBJUB
Talking from experience???
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what do you want from me,am just commenting you cockroach
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Ann
haaai mara we all made mistake and im sure we learnt from those mistakes this gal will also do the same , life goes on mosReport Abuse
Ubufebe
@Jaja'sQueenShouldnt she have thought about all this before she opened her.......
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Ubufebe
@JUBJUBWhat I want from you? Lets see, how about you shut the fvck up!
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Bizzabo
zacowhat's up dude? has wordy fnially gottren through to you?
I'm impressed
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tumzangwana
I feel so confused. Now I have to find the courage to tell my parents. Hopefully they will not be too cross with me. I don't know how this happened and I feel so worthless.;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;
you dont know how this happened? sister you and the boyfriend did the dance and you fell pregnant, thats what happened. you are 24 and in tertiary, obviously you were taught biology at school. just tell your parents cos pregnancy is one thing you cant keep secret from anyone cos as the months go by the bun will start showing that its busy cook!ng in the oven and soon it will be ready to come out. complete your studies and find a job and look after your kid.
as for the douche b/f - he is an arrogant idjit and you shouldnt let him tell you what to do with your body and your baby. just look after yourself and be positive. things will work out, its not the end of the world. you will be alright.
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Mpotjekegobotje
Pill or no Pill,Kids are jst a blesing from the Almighty!Anyway,I realy dont see anything new abt this story...this are things that are common in our society.I just think its abt tym BOYZ start to be responsible 4 every mess they make...le wena Sesi,U cud hv jst left wen they 1st gave U a name Gold Digger!
Ke senya ke realo.
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swona
so there's no police station where u leave?Report Abuse
JUBJUB
Ubufebe
@JUBJUB
What I want from you? Lets see, how about you shut the fvck up!
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hahahahahahahahah you've got a problem,why angry so vroeg tog loooooooooooooooooooooools
Ann-How are you my honey bunch
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Bizzabo
Mpotjekegobotjeahhhh! ga ke tlo robala boroko vandag...o gona my beautiful black African queen from the north.
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Muntu-Maeza68
Mauthi a rata wit pyp mara ga medi e ba prenant all h3ll break loose.@Mxcm!! hallo babes how are you?
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WordofGod
@SeshegoGuyke bona bao he! you know most people who like to discuss stuff they don't possess! e.g. guys who like to talk about cars etc etc meanwhile they don't/never owned one!! there is nothing wrong in doing that but eish! ya bora
@pupu
this is a sche.me from the devil and people get snared into it. he is warming up people up to go out and sin, fornicate by these kinds of articles . . .
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SeshegoGuY
@ZacoHeita brother, Im doing well hey Its Friday!!!
@JaJaQueen
"...Now, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food,"
Come on now, that sounds very bitter. What happend to INDEPENDENCE!!
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Ubufebe
@JUBJUBI am shup thank you. Nice reaction by the way.
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phathaphatha
uzoyeka ukuba yi gold diggerReport Abuse
Candyboy
Calming The MindDon't give your mind permission to get disturbed. A disturbed mind is easily influenced. This will cost you your peace. Learn to maintain your peace by freeing yourself from attachments. Competing or comparing yourself with others will not allow you to focus inwards. An inner focus allows you to keep your eye on your higher self. Remember your original nature. It allows you to forge a l!nk with the Divine. Then it becomes easy to recognise useless thoughts and replace them with a spiritual perspective. A calm mind is not just peaceful, it is focused, self-directing and Divine
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TrapStar
@JUBJUBWell i know im old but i miss some moments, JubJub can we go together @Wits university, u know there is some freshers ball i heard
Or we can go to Sandton City to maximize the possibilities of kissing.
As you know GALFREND dumped me, RYE played my buttt.
@ Ubufebe, stop that or else you jump
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SeshegoGuY
@WordofGodWhat can we say...its the society we live in. Low Self-Esteem e baie
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TrapStar
@Candy@ssDude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Ubufebe
@TrapStarHuh, whatever dufus!
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Candyboy
@Jaja'sQueenNow, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food, vomiting medication, clinic visits, taxi fare, etc. Cause Mr hot pipe will have to foot the bill till he can prove that the child is not his.""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
And Mrs. Firelighter should have used her brains and not open her legs until she finished her studies and first got married......now believe me some other ignorant & confused girl, who sees Mr. Hot Pipe and knows about his good job, will be smoking from his cigar....and so the cycle continues......until woman start to assert themselves more, this nonsense will not stop....cos men will continue to hunt for that pumpum.
Morning JJQ
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JUBJUB
Mara some people ba nale nako ya go tshamekaReport Abuse
Bra.Joe
Ke bon.e this boy o bareng ke Monachies a mathaka ko Florida Park last year. I wonder!!Report Abuse
Mxcm!!
Muntu-Maeza68Sharp.
What you up to??
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Click
Stupid girl.. Girlie, audition to be Brown-Dash's music video groupie.. @ your so-called boyfriend will see you've hit the big time..Report Abuse
Firefly
How does one write to Aunt Dudu? I have juicier problems.Report Abuse
Candyboy
@TrapStar@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Someone is still trapped in star wars.
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Ann
@jubjub, hey gal ke grand my dearReport Abuse
Muntu-Maeza68
Mxcm!!-I am up to nothing yesterday I asked you if we can be friends,I am not like maezizsto I wont swear at you babes.Report Abuse
Muntu-Maeza68
Jubilee and Ann good morning ladies are you all good?Report Abuse
Candyboy
@SeshegoGuY@WordofGod
@zaco
Morning ya'll.........i see sisi dudu is at it again.
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JUBJUB
Muntu-Maeza68-hello MaeziReport Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
@CandyboyTrue, candy. Most women are very lazy to think, they are all about pleasing men. They forget that the koekie is ours and we do not have to give it anyone till we are ready. It is not currency for companionship, commitment or marriage. Let the men chase the koekie all he wants, nothing to do with us.
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Bumboklaat
He hit me so hard that I had the marks of his fingers.----------------------------------------------------
gora g0re o tshwere ka five finger!
Waitsi my sister, the best thing kegore o lebala ka mpya oe ya segatamarokgo o tswele pele ka bophelo bagao! Oska ntsha mpa kaore otlo itshola bophelo bagao bo bothle! Botsa batswadi bagao nnete, sure batlo kwata mara baka seo lathle kaore o ngwana bona! Ska wara my skat otla kreya authi enngwe wa tsela pele ka life! Gashu eo lebala ka yona, seker mo aleng ona le cherie tsa ntshi!
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Shenene
mxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?Report Abuse
MOGWANTIWARUSTENBURG
sorry lovie you are not the first one and surely wont be the last one about this situation,its up to you if you want abort or not,anyway ngwana wa gola o tla reka dinnapies tsa go tlhatswiwa wa reka le sunlight wa tlhatswa,as for the guy dont worry God will deal with him.Report Abuse
Mopheme23
Why is the woman complaining about the boyfriend, instead of dealing and addressing the problem at hand?? They both messed up. 1+1 = 2, this should always be case and until both parties agree otherwise!Report Abuse
Skopokopo
Oh dearest, u missed your pills some where some how. Keep your baby my dear. complete your studies and all will be well.Report Abuse
TrapStar
@TrapStar@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Someone is still trapped in star wars.
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You know there are many women than men in the whole world, especially in SA
Dude if we were leaving in those SHAKA ZU'LU generations. They were going to just cut your Ballz and throw you in a river tied on a big rock
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Ubufebe
@SkopokopoOh and you forgot to tell her not to think of this 8========0 too much hehehehehehe
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Ann
@maeza68. oreng motho wa ka wa kgale??Report Abuse
Candyboy
@Shenenemxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?
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r u crazy.....what world do you live in.....even though this story is a load off bull......this shyte happens in real life.
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Ann-Kante nkile ka ba motho wa gago?Hai ga ke bolele man ke hlopiwa net ke throatJubilee-Do you really believe gore ke nna maezi?Hai go cho ke na le lucky mos
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Muntu-Maeza68Ann-Kante nkile ka ba motho wa gago?Hai ga ke bolele man ke hlopiwa net ke throat
Jubilee-Do you really believe gore ke nna maezi?Hai go cho ke na le lucky mos
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haai maan tlogela go dlala wena gape o maezi
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Ann-Ga ke maezi man why o re ke maezi le teng?Report Abuse
Hangwelani
Oh dear little naive girl, dont you know that the guy is probably married with kids? I mean at 29 it's very possible that he is a husband and a father, why else would he dump you with HIS baby on the way? He has a good job, chances are he has a good family too lol.Report Abuse
Keafixa
i always tell this pips gore they must use condoms.....problem kegore ba rata nama....ene nama ya bolaya.Report Abuse
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Skin-to-skin is the devil..Report Abuse
Ubufebe
@SkopokopoHa, but what if the condom bust like for Mbalula. Then what?
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Nexis
@Phathaphatha uyaphapha. cc most of these Dogs especially 4rm Jozi they think they own d world. keep dat baby he will luv hm / hr, if he doesnt wana support UMBOPHISE zisile lezinto NxA... kumnandi la babenza abantwana.Report Abuse
MGEEZ
@Sowetan;How many times must you write the same story over and over again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you think that your readership is suffering from amnesia?????????
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MORNACHIES
Ngwanyana oo o phaphile and a itira le top shayela la setlaela ,nou auti e mo swinneya ja fase .....hey wena mosetsana ,motho woo a se nke a eje or a e gaole mos ,belega
o re go fetsa o tle moo ke go fe e mong.
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@TrapStar@TrapStar
@Candy@ss
Dude, we understand you are a writer. Why do you gotta show you are Gay here??
Go do fashion design somewhere
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Someone is still trapped in star wars.
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You know there are many women than men in the whole world, especially in SA
Dude if we were leaving in those SHAKA ZU'LU generations. They were going to just cut your Ballz and throw you in a river tied on a big rock
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Point of correction stargate.....its LIVING.....we not leaving anytime soon for any specific place.
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@Nexis"most of these Dogs especially 4rm Jozi" I take it you like doggy style nogal!
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Mosquer
Mara basadi bona!!!! Even if he hit you hard on the face you still cry for him. Nxa a se ngwana mamago mos. Just leave him or the next thing you are deadReport Abuse
Raven
@TrapStarCandy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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Candyboy@Shenene
mxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?
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r u crazy.....what world do you live in.....even though this story is a load off bull......this shyte happens in real life.
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ok candy tell me how many kids did you deny cause its obvious that u talking from experience?
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@Raven@TrapStar
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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hahahaha you mean UYA GULA???
Or he is a lie??
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Nexis
Well Dont ever call the loooooser, leave him and show him you dont want anything from himIf he brings his long toe nails when the baby is born, take a nail clipper and cut them.
But i have a question for you, Are you sure he is not Married????
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@TrapStar:
its posible tht ths dude is not married, its jst tht he's running awy 4rm hs responsibility. UyiNja nje loMfana & 1 day uzazisola.
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Candyboy
@JJQExactly my point.....woman are afraid to ask us men three basic yet very important questions when we start the chase.
1.......What is your intentions with me and why do you FEEL I am the woman you want to start a relationship with......hint, men dont like talking about feelings.....this is your chance to see exactly what his game plan is.....if he is dodging the question.....MOVE ON...dont waste you precious time listening to an airhead.
2.......What is your plan for us after 3 months of seeing each other.........Hint....if he did not foresee a future with you in it after three months....he aint seeing one called a marriage either......MOVE ON....you need a man who can offer you stability, security and a future.
3.........Tell him straight....i know you like pumpum......and i dont like to be cheated on......are you prepared to be faithful and dedicated to me alone.....if he stutters....he is already cheating on another woman and only after your pumpum....MOVE ON.....period.
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Tsek
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MommaC
"My boyfriend got me pregnant, then dumped me"Vraggies? He got you pregnant all by himself and you had no part to play in the game?
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Galfrend
Gal just move on and leave the loserhello y'all...........
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Nexis
@UbufebeYah!!!! i like it so what, Ngobubi.
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Shenene
MORNACHIESNgwanyana oo o phaphile and a itira le top shayela la setlaela ,nou auti e mo swinne
ya ja fase .....hey wena mosetsana ,motho woo a se nke a eje or a e gaole mos ,belega
o re go fetsa o tle moo ke go fe e mong
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kikikikikiki mornachies o bolawa ke tlala
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@Raven@TrapStar
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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thank you Raven......tell this startwars trooper to open his mind and stop being so ignorant.......how you girl...?
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rasefateewhy is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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TsekWaitsi ditho tse dingwe di tlala ka marago mola motho wa go swana le nna Tsek ke sokola net so gore ke thole.
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Tsamaya ko Olifantsfontein o ile go reka ,o tlogele go itira setlaela gat !
@Shenene,
Why o sa replya mi mail ?
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Keafixa
@candyboythose are easy questions and i can easily lie....the we are back to square
1. Best way is to use condoms, and u must stop being rough(praising urself ore ke mpetha di cherie, that is so old fashioned) , stop using f.ree condoms....i have neva witnessed a bust condom
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SeshegoGuY
@CandyBoyDon't give them our secret my man, we are not good in revealing our feelings but yes those are 3 important questions
@MommaC
Spot on. Its time some women admit they also played a part. Men get blamed for everything... Especially Black Men (Sorry i just had to get that in)
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Candyboy
@SheneneAm not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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WordofGod
@candyboyke grand, wena o kae?
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Tsek
rasefateewhy is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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so this means le wena the tym nxt door ya gago e bula maotwana a tweba for u conferms gore u one of idiot..
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@Candyboy,......i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon....
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O ka se dire ngwana o le tee ,nyak.a motho nou ,then o ithute go ja marago man !
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TrapStar
@ GalFrendMorning my Chicken an Mushroom pie
@ Nexis
True that, not that he is not regreting now
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@ Pregantn Chick - ive been on a pill for four years and weve been dating for a year
1. For the past 4years youve been doing it skin to skin - What part of PEOPLE ARE DYIN'G of HIV didnt you understand
2. What happened to the condom policy of SA
3. How many man did you give it to
4. most importantly - DO YOU KNOW YOUR STATUS?????
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@Keafixabrother....why do you think i posted those question here....so next time if i start a chase in real life....and get to hear those question....i know it’s one of the ladies on this blog.....and i will gladly do my counter attack and reel her into my frame & space.....it’s called forward planning bru......lol
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MORNACHIES
Tsekmornachies - di reng fela nfana wa ko mohlabaneng???
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Ke sharp mfanaka ,ka weekend nne ke tour Bolobedu ....from Lapologa ,Modjadji
Nature reserve ..ga -Mahoso eishhhh i enjoyed miself mfowethu .
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SeshegoGuY
@ShenenePlease don't Judge majita a Seshego Asseblief my skat--- Batho a re Tshwane
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Mtho'eng'nanqondo
I'm dissapointed with my sisters in this blogg. What's with this a "child is a blessing from God hogwash". This in her womb is not a blessing but a curse. An illigitimate bastard that will bring missery throughout her life. A child on an abuser and coward. A mistake of a child, from a mistake of a relationship. We have remedies to ractify mistakes its called dumping the coward, arbort his sp#rm and focus on your career. Gifts from God are with married couples, working, with a house, with cars, Sunday Church Services, decent schools, medical aid cover, toys etc!!! A child is not a doll/barbie its flesh and blood!Report Abuse
Shenene
@mornachies ke sa go bethisa ka moyaReport Abuse
MommaC
SeshegoGuYShame dude. Are you feeling a bit like a n0se in all this :)
It is the one area that women have ALL the power. You'd think by now that my sisters would know what the consequence is of unprotected sex but they just keep making 1950's style mistakes all the time. I have little sympathy for pure stupidity
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TrapStar@ GalFrend
Morning my Chicken an Mushroom pie
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how are you?
shame...he thinks He is God's gift to women...sad.
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Nexis
rasefateewhy is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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@GalFrend well said cc & when thy change, thy change like thy neva saw u b4.
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Candyboy
@MORNACHIESpraat engels man.........!
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SeshegoGuY@Shenene
Please don't Judge majita a Seshego Asseblief my skat--- Batho a re Tshwane
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baby la tshwana hle,ba le kgethela b@sadi and lekwa ka bo mm@ lena
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Hei x5 fact is motho o nale problem here o butse maoto,o jowe,ngwana hlaha.mo thuseng ka donations klaar!!!!O ne a le mong on that day!!!!!Report Abuse
TrapStar
@Candy@ss@Raven
@TrapStar
Candy Boy is not a write dear, its an email thats going around... sorry Candy, i just received the email today... # hides
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thank you Raven......tell this startwars trooper to open his mind and stop being so ignorant.......how you girl...?
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Hahahahaha Numbnuts what are you on about now?
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@Galfrendrasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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@CabdyBoy - am Fantastic my sweet and wena?@ TriStar - Yes, i guess he forgot to mention gore he did not write that # wink..
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mornachies - i only knw modjadji nature recerve goie ur email i wnna show u net daarso the tym ke la daar....Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@MommaC"...Shame dude. Are you feeling a bit like a n0se in all this :) "
LOL Is it that obvious??? Like i always say, make sure u never blame people if it involves such things because at some point she decided to have S3x without protection--- She's also to blame
@Mtho
For once on this blog i agree with u--- Thats a very mature comment
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Candyboy@Shenene
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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i also dont have kids but i dont believe a guy freaks out hearing that he is a father to be...
maybe its sis dolly who was rejected who nows or her kids were dumped
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rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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SeshegoGuY
@All Men on this BlogPLEASE GUYS!!!!!
I hope none of u will be going to the WITS Freshers Ball Bash tonite
We are all grown up, Nako ya rena e fetile so Tlogelang go bakisha bafana ba banyane
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@Tsek,Here's :mareteanevus@gmail.com ........
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Ubufebe
Hehehehehehe, and the wpmen are always the victims. Get real maaan!Report Abuse
Masobadieta
Leave this guy he is useless he is not man enough, the most important thing is to use a condom in any relationship if you are not married . Tell your parents and focus on the baby inside you. This guy has to pay maintenance when the baby is born.Report Abuse
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@WordofGod@Raven
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all good in da hood ma angels........just taking it slow & easy....and ya'll
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SeshegoGuY
@Shenene"..baby la tshwana hle,ba le kgethela b@sadi and lekwa ka bo mm@ lena"
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Wa Generaliser wena, I mean really now. ke gore ne o jola le Snai straight
How can my Mom a nkgethele Mo.sadi a le PLK nna ke le mo JHB
Get a Real Man...
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GalfrendCandyboy
@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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agree, but you have those gifts called female intuition & spirit of discernment....use it my dear....read my 3 question above....what you think of it.....use that as well.......i'm gonna expose all men's secret....am sick of us men using you woman for pumpum only......and you ladies must also stop chasing after men you can’t have please.....let’s all do our part.
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Shenene
@SeshegoGuYwena ge o lapisitse ke go ja bana ba ba nyane tlogela ba bangwe bae wits,le nna am going there yhoo nako e sa dumela
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TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol@ Ravin - wow you think lol
@CandyS - Hey Numbnuts I think you can be the rebound of this chick, she needs someone
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Shenene
.........................FACT.............................IF YOU DONT WANA MAKE HER A W!FE,DONT MAKE HER A MOTHER
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@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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agree, but you have those gifts called female intuition & spirit of discernment....use it my dear....read my 3 question above....what you think of it.....use that as well.......i'm gonna expose all men's secret....am sick of us men using you woman for pumpum only......and you ladies must also stop chasing after men you can’t have please.....let’s all do our part.
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those three questions do not help, you can lie just to get me to open my legs for you.
What do you mean we must stop chasing men that we cant have, you mean married men?
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Ramatlhale
@ All- good morning,Sowetan I take my hat off to you, you definately know how to reel in all the crazies, every friday nogal and it never fails. But hey why change the formula if it's working!!
@Dejected
Ngwana wa batho I am quite sure that you know what you have to do here, family is family they will never reject you especially considering that you've gone such a distance with your studies, so dump the fvcker & get your life back on track coz the longer you bask in misery the more convinced your guy will be that you ain't sh!t without him!!! So move on & do your thing!!!
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My sister if you don’t want to abort don’t im telling my daughter is now 8 I had her when I was in high school the father told me to abort or sleep with another man so I can put the blame the best thing I did was to tell my mother yes she was angry and disappointed but she supported me so pls tell her so u can find peace that is a gift from God never mind the father and don’t go back to himReport Abuse
Galfrend
TrapStar@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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@SheneneCandyboy
@Shenene
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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i also dont have kids but i dont believe a guy freaks out hearing that he is a father to be...
maybe its sis dolly who was rejected who nows or her kids were dumped
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there are few of us men left in this world who are not afraid of such commitments.......am looking for a w!fe myself now....tired of going home and no woman to kiss you when you walk through the door and no kids running up to you and excited to see you......one day neh....one day.
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RamatlhaleHellow dear brother. Are you angry at me?
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Galfrend-HalloReport Abuse
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@SeshegoGuY well ba dira jwalo ,ba go beela ngwana ka nextdoot gore o monyale mola wena o jola mo gautengReport Abuse
Phumsiee
Ag please my lady don't even think about that, this is wind he was going to be blown away even if he stayed for more years. Sis things like this happen everyday to many people so please let it go keep that baby you will get over all this and enjoy having her. this is a gift a special one and never replaceable so please treasure it and keep it as long as you live.i wish it's a gal. congratulations all the best enjoy your pregnancy.
forget about that divided stupid guy...
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a ka hlulwa lutho u nevus; a ka hlulwa luthooo; a ka hlulwa lutho u neevus; a ka hlulwa lutho.kunje ne ba reng nywee nywee blokile haikhona blokile la kum'
@Wordofgod-ha o betere ka niks so shut your legs.
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Muntu-Maeza68Galfrend-Hallo
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hello muntu, o kae? I dreamt of maezie last night, it was a beautiful dream, plz tell him I miss him hle.
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Nice one I think you dumped your ex- bf because of this guy has a good job, so who will be laughing now your ex- bf, go and hang who cares bloody biitch!Report Abuse
Tsek
MORNACHIESCandyboy
@MORNACHIES
praat engels man.........!
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Eee comment ka e reporta net nw....
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@GalfremdTrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Morning dear sweet oneP.S. Some of us are genuine saints, that's why we don't go out of our way to prove such, especially mo bloggong!!!
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TrapStar@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?Report Abuse
Candyboy
@GalfrendCandyboy
Galfrend
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@Galfrend
rasefatee
why is it so easy for a woman to open her legs for idiots aaai basadi
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they pretend to be saints before getting us pregnant - thats why
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Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing my dear.....Gudmorning...?
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Great Morning dear...... its hard tell if a man is genuine or just a loser these days.
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agree, but you have those gifts called female intuition & spirit of discernment....use it my dear....read my 3 question above....what you think of it.....use that as well.......i'm gonna expose all men's secret....am sick of us men using you woman for pumpum only......and you ladies must also stop chasing after men you can’t have please.....let’s all do our part.
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those three questions do not help, you can lie just to get me to open my legs for you.
What do you mean we must stop chasing men that we can’t have, you mean married men?
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now let us agree on one thing here.....not all men cheat and not all woman chase after married men......agree....?.....however, as a man i am sick & tired of the abuse men give towards woman...mental...physical....emotional....ect.......and i am standing up against those b@stards to make things right.......now as a sister my Galfrend....are you prepared to stand up against your fellow woman who break up homes....who manipulate and chase after married men and show them the right way of living a disciplined life worthy of living....i am doing my part.....lets do it together and break this cycle of cheating, abuse and fatherless homes.
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SeshegoGuY@Mtho
For once on this blog i agree with u--- Thats a very mature
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Sure handsome! At times as ladies we play with real fire. Pregancy is a matter of life and death, in the process of being pregnant you might be infected with AIDS. Without medical aid, you might deliver at Charlotte Maxeke and risk being kil#ed by those angels of death. Its difficult going back to Varsity when you have a toddler at home. A baby is not a toy or a fashion accessory. People with children out of wedlock lagg behind those that get their children in marriage (Comprehensive Group Comparisons).
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Nevdad-Shap fida mshemane kikikikikikikiki ntse ba go blockile boi?Report Abuse
Tsek
mornachies - hey wena plaasjapie check ur mail pela ke rometsi di pics tsa dubai daarso as well....Report Abuse
Galfrend
Ramatlhale@Galfrend- Morning dear sweet one
P.S. Some of us are genuine saints, that's why we don't go out of our way to prove such, especially mo bloggong!!!
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Oh really? I thought God doesnt make those anymore, thas good to know. Will hook you up with my twin sister...lol
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@maezisto-fede fede boy kikikikikikiki ma u vala la ngi vula le.Report Abuse
Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?
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I know you are not maezie, but im just telling you a story here..I used to have a crush on maezie, eish I so wished we could meet and and...... but tjo! brother just disappeared on me, im so heartbroken watsiba..lol
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Rakgadi-Tabeya
Dumelang lotlhe!Welcome to single parenting darling. That's what men do best ga ba tshabela responsibility. O tlo ba rite skat, you'll see hang in there and make sure ga o stress during pregnancy cos it will affect the baby. So for the little one's sake try to be as happy as you can, you've got your pals' support, your family too (though ba se aware coz u haven't told them yet) so forget about the P*I*G and live a happy life. Le nna I guarantee u my support dear it's not the end of the world - remember u r in ur final year so focus and be positive that all will work out well. Luv u sista & gudluck!
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@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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hahaha ow man, though dreams come true sometimes. Not that they will, i still have to apologise to the chick in FLORIDA for laying a hand on her when she told me she has a Zygote in her tummy
Then it will be me and you, dont worry i dumped Khanyi Mbau Last year
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Galfrend
CB - Cheating will never end dear, there is always a woman out there willing to cheat with a married man. So it will never end, not in this life time. I agree,not all men cheat and not all women cheat.Report Abuse
SKIZOBANTWANA
As you still at school and it clearly shows that the guy has no intentions of takin care of the baby,why don't you get rid of that PREG_NANCY..?Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- How could I stay angry @ you mara, I's rather exhaust my energies doing something with you than @ you!!@Candyboy - Boss some of us appreciate the spirit & all, but really boss how many men out of ten that you know will actually appreciate the part about ladies staying away from married men??
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WordofGod
If you understand that you are a sinner, and you believe that Jesus Christ came as the one and only Redeemer of sin, then you understand the prayer of forgiveness. The question is – are you ready to implement the prayer, by receiving God’s gift of His Son, Jesus Christ? If so, believe in Christ, repent of your sins, and commit the rest of your life to Him as Lord:“Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.”
"Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit." (Acts 2:38)
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Galfrend
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@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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hahaha ow man, though dreams come true sometimes. Not that they will, i still have to apologise to the chick in FLORIDA for laying a hand on her when she told me she has a Zygote in her tummy
Then it will be me and you, dont worry i dumped Khanyi Mbau Last year
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hahahahahaaa uqalile neh? Hows the STD going? lol
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Muntu-Maeza68
GalfrendMuntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?
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I know you are not maezie, but im just telling you a story here..I used to have a crush on maezie, eish I so wished we could meet and and...... but tjo! brother just disappeared on me, im so heartbroken watsiba..lol
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@Galfrend and you are telling me this story because?Why dont you share it with someone else?Why me specifically?
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Tsek
Nevus & maesistola bora y keep on changing ama usernames nxa..julle moer maan!!!!!!!
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Khotso123
I feel really sorry for u sister but u will be fine with time just keep the baby and raise your child with love, and your child will grow up knowing what love is compared to the bastard that doesn't know how to love and protect. i'm sure he was raised in a very bad way and now he is taking out his frustration on you. I went through almost the same situation even worse i was married to the guy but now i'm working in a corporate environment and raising my kid with love and respect. I'm more happy with my life and i will advise that you pray to Jehovah he will guide you to the right direction. Abortion is not the solution even the bible advise against such.Report Abuse
Galfrend
Ramatlhale@Galfrend- How could I stay angry @ you mara, I's rather exhaust my energies doing something with you than @ you!!
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Oh im glad to hear that :)))
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Nevdad
Tsekmornachies - hey wena plaasjapie check ur mail pela ke rometsi di pics tsa dubai daarso as well
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hei hei take your gay love affair out of here,bloody varke.
@maezisto- hai ba kgasa boy se ke tseba ke bo mang ba re baisitseng nna ke blokilwe ke Ladygaga wena ke Mzabalazo.
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Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68Galfrend
Muntu-Maeza68
Galfrend-I dont who he is or where he is kanti why are you people saying ke nna maezi?
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I know you are not maezie, but im just telling you a story here..I used to have a crush on maezie, eish I so wished we could meet and and...... but tjo! brother just disappeared on me, im so heartbroken watsiba..lol
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@Galfrend and you are telling me this story because?Why dont you share it with someone else?Why me specifically?
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Because you are my friend, is it not what friends do? Share?
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Galfrend
CB - Im coming,chat later :)Report Abuse
TrapStar
TrapStarGalfrend
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@Galfremd
TrapStar
@Galfrend - im good mamas, just missed you alot , had a weird dream last nyt lololol
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im not sure If I even want to know what the dream was about, anyway please share.......
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I dreamt of you giving me your email, only to find out we went to the same school.
couldnt see your face but had a feeling you were someone i knew and dated,
NB - you were not an AVATAR, we then made out only to wakeup Biologically disturbed
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bhwahahahahahaaa oh what a dream, thank God it was just that - a dream. lol
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hahaha ow man, though dreams come true sometimes. Not that they will, i still have to apologise to the chick in FLORIDA for laying a hand on her when she told me she has a Zygote in her tummy
Then it will be me and you, dont worry i dumped Khanyi Mbau Last year
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hahahahahaaa uqalile neh? Hows the STD going? lol
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Hahaha I am thinking of getting it cured when we get back together, To be honest you are the reason i slapped the FLorida gal. I thought of her ruining the chances of us getting back together
I gave her the STD, and i am planning on using my hand from now on, as you know that i shout out loud when them babies come out
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Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ne go ga le o na claimer gister gore ke yena a mbaisitseng konje ke mang dai kind Mxcm!!,mara fede wa frostana gore tsotsi e ka wa gai 7 ya phenda ya tsoga gai 7 because its not possible to keep a good man down.Galfrend-Okay 'friend',mara your tricks ga di spane babes hade neh
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Nevdad
TsekNevus & maesisto
la bora y keep on changing ama usernames nxa..julle moer maan!!!!!!!
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wena holibaba o 1 ya ba re rekisitseng nxa bloody emere ya moroto
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Candyboy
@GalfrendCB - Cheating will never end dear, there is always a woman out there willing to cheat with a married man. So it will never end, not in this life time. I agree,not all men cheat and not all women cheat.
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so i will put you in the bracket of not being a cheat......how faithful thou art.....woman like you are rare...and i am looking for such a woman to make my w!fe.....am tired of this dating - chasing - and seducing you woman.....i want to settle down this year......!
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Shenene
Mar 2, 2012Candyboy
@Shenene
Candyboy
@Shenene
Am not planning to deny any....as i'm not planning to have any kids anytime soon......but i do know of men who did it......and i aint planning to go down that road with a woman who can go crazy on your @ss if you even try to propose such nonsense
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i also dont have kids but i dont believe a guy freaks out hearing that he is a father to be...
maybe its sis dolly who was rejected who nows or her kids were dumped
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there are few of us men left in this world who are not afraid of such commitments.......am looking for a w!fe myself now....tired of going home and no woman to kiss you when you walk through the door and no kids running up to you and excited to see you......one day neh......one day
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ya one day u will marry and have stress dont worry.....
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Makhosini0408
"How could I have messed up my life so badly?You are not the only one dear, who have messed up. At least you now know his true colours. Open up to your parents. They will be disappointed, but one thing for sure, they will not disown you.
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Candyboy
@Ramatlhale3/10.....hence i wana change that stat and do something about the hurt we cause those precious hearts at the of the day.....our woman - sisters and mothers dont deserve that....!
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MORNACHIES
Where's Mcloving mara ?__they have risen from the dead like Mgumeni .do somethingplease !
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Candyboy
@Shenenethat stress will be worth every minute my dear......i enjoy my freedom.....but it makes a brother do some crazy shyte at times (which i also enjoy)....*wink*
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Nevdad
Makhosini0408"How could I have messed up my life so badly?
You are not the only one dear, who have messed up. At least you now know his true colours. Open up to your parents. They will be disappointed, but one thing for sure, they will not disown you
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thank you bra,now where is Gigolo?
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Jaja'sQueen
@SeshegoGuY"...Now, keep all the receipts related to the pregnancy, i.e. clothing, food,"
Come on now, that sounds very bitter. What happend to INDEPENDENCE!!
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JUBJUB
KWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Mr GoogleReport Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
Ubufebe@Jaja'sQueen
Shouldnt she have thought about all this before she opened her.......
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True that, I guess that's why they call it sex and not a brainstorming session.
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Shenene
Candyboy@Shenene
that stress will be worth every minute my dear......i enjoy my freedom.....but it makes a brother do some crazy shyte at times (which i also enjoy)....*wink*
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goodluck am just not ready to be someone's mom and i enjoy making them crazy with my figure,,,,today u will meet a lady at kfc so dont be shy to ask for her numbers neh....
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Nevdad
bwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa MastsenwaReport Abuse
JUBJUB
o reng fela my chomieReport Abuse
Candyboy
@SheneneKFC.....kwaaaaaaaaa.......shake your tailfeather and driv them crazy as hell.
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Makhosini0408
NevdadMakhosini0408
"How could I have messed up my life so badly?
You are not the only one dear, who have messed up. At least you now know his true colours. Open up to your parents. They will be disappointed, but one thing for sure, they will not disown you
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thank you bra,now where is Gigolo?
@Nevdad
My sister is well and thank you for asking.
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RoyalRuby
To add to WordOfGod, Amen. And if you prayed that prayer,seek to fellowship in a church that will help you grow in your walk with the Lord. Spend time in the Word and on your knees. The Spirit of the Lord will guide you in all. Peace be with you.Report Abuse
Nevdad
@Makhosini-you were suppose to say my sister is well and beautifull as ngemihla,tell her i miss her badly.Report Abuse
Percussione
im 23 years of age and am a father,yes bra wenna you got what you wanted so its her time to get what she needs...Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
Candyboy@Ramatlhale
3/10.....hence i wana change that stat and do something about the hurt we cause those precious hearts at the of the day.....our woman - sisters and mothers dont deserve that....!
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Am not sure if you really mean what you say or you are just trying to gain points with these ladies on the blog, but are you aware that we are all wired differently and as much as some of us yearn for a harmonious world with everybody on the same wavelength of peace & faithfulness to their partners, certain people thrive on chaos so there will always be someone who will come & destroy that utopia just because they don't fit in that kind of world
And naturally throughout centuries it's been constantly proven that; what is regarded as forbidden will always be appealing to the human mind. So as much as I support your ideas, realistically in this world here & now........pie in the sky my brotha, pie in the sky!!!
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Nevdad
ke grand kikikikikikiki o mmone slenda?Report Abuse
Bumboklaat
@NevdadTsek
Nevus & maesisto
la bora y keep on changing ama usernames nxa..julle moer maan!!!!!!!
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wena holibaba o 1 ya ba re rekisitseng nxa bloody emere ya moroto
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kikikikikikikiki! emere ya moroto? Ja that's true nevus style!
Kante ba le rekisitse? Sowetan ele fakile exile!
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SQEPEZANA
i dont mean to be judgemental but this girl says:1. she has been on pills for 4 years,
2. she has been dating this guy for 1 year,
when i add the 2, it means she has been having unprotected sex with different men in 4 years!!!
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JUBJUB
Ke mmone hey wa tlhetlha looooools,hey mara o di tsere kae those hottiesReport Abuse
Nevdad
@Bumboklaat-hei monna ke re exile bra,ntho tse di nagana di ya owner ka mo,ge ba kwala ke ya bula ke bo mang bona?Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@JaJaQueenyes but if he's a B@stards who doen't wanna take responsibility why bother...
@Shenene
Tlogela bana ba ko Wits-- Chicken M U R D E R, kgona thaka tsa gago
@CandyBoy
U r on a Mature tip vandag boy, Big-ups to all the good Men out there
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koola
the stupid gal why is she complaining now, if she didnt want to get pregnant she should not have openeded her legs so wide.Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@BumbokLaatha ha and here i was thinking gore Apartheid e fedile, Some people are still going to Exile LOL
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Bumboklaat
@Nevdad@Bumboklaat-hei monna ke re exile bra,ntho tse di nagana di ya owner ka mo,ge ba kwala ke ya bula ke bo mang bona?
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Ke b0na ba ba matapola a mannyane okare ke di green beans!
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Candyboy
@Raven...Its Friday Babes...@CandyBoy
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so how are things at the new cosatu house......?
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@SeshegoGuY@BumbokLaat
ha ha and here i was thinking gore Apartheid e fedile, Some people are still going to Exile LOL
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Gape gona le magundwane kamo! batlao rekisa wa nnyela!
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kikikikikiki hei ka re ba entertainer man kikikikiki a ba tsebe niks and ba acter as if ba itse.goneng ba batla go mpona?kikikikikiReport Abuse
Bumboklaat
WoG ke omong wa bona!Report Abuse
Sinudeity
Didnt wanna use the pill, didnt wanna use the condom. Now you are single, with a baby and we will be paying your support money.Report Abuse
JUBJUB
hahahahahahahahaha jou skelem,and o iphitlhile mxm....o tshwanetse o etse something...phela go bonagala moriti wa tlhogo ya gago tltltltltltltltltltltltReport Abuse
nkunzemnyama
@Koolahow can you say sauch thing about our sisters, how many chicks you impregnated so far more 10 am sure so shut up
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MORNACHIES
@Sinudeity,What are u trying to imply or say in all this ?do u min our single mothers got no future ?
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Khakhu
these two wer doing unprotected sex every-time bcs she was using the pills....These days, Unprotected SEX????????
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Candyboy
@RamatlhaleThat weired wiring caused allot of pain - heartache and destruction brother.......and i firmly believe it can be changed...the problem though....we cant enforce it on anyone, however that will not stop me from making my voice heard out there.....pie in the sky.....it depends from which angel you look at it....i believe, if we go back to the basics...husbands love your wifes.....and wifes respect your husbands....we have already solved 90% of the problems.....but pastors who go out and steal maximor meds are making that possibility even harder to achieve.....i'm passionate about it and will continue on this journey brother......and i am not trying to score points vandag.....!
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Makhosini0408
Nevdad@Makhosini-you were suppose to say my sister is well and beautifull as ngemihla,tell her i miss her badly.
Who is nevdad now? Well tell him/her i am in Netherlands but just about to enroute to london until next week wednesday and give a big shout out and tell Sharpino i noted the sadness on the ANCYL home am crying fake tears on his behalf
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Mjeke
ya neh...sum guys,i thnk hez married or involved with sum1 he loves ,he doesnt wna loose ha..coz of innocent childReport Abuse
Tsafendason
So what? life goes on. you opened your legs knowing full well of the risks involved, don't cry victim here. and which man in his right mind would accept a pregnancy when he saw you taking the pill, i would be suspicious too.Having said that, this coward you call a boyfriend is not even worth you wasting your second on him, what kind of a man klaps his or any woman for that matter? you should've reported this coward to the authorities. but stop acting like a victim, you should've used condoms!!!
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Sinudeity
MORNACHIES - She made life much harder for herself. Possibly she has a future, but now she is a mother first, and her career will need to go on hold. This situation happens alot around the country. Girl and boy decide to have 20min of pleasure for 20 years of pain. No birth control, the boyfriend doesnt want a baby, dumps her, and the mother has to raise a child by herself.Report Abuse
Rakgadi-Tabeya
Goreng le sa dumele ha ke dumedisa.......nxa julle second handReport Abuse
Galfrend
SinudeityMORNACHIES - She made life much harder for herself. Possibly she has a future, but now she is a mother first, and her career will need to go on hold. This situation happens alot around the country. Girl and boy decide to have 20min of pleasure for 20 years of pain. No birth control, the boyfriend doesnt want a baby, dumps her, and the mother has to raise a child by herself.
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Its a sad tough situation for a single mom but they eventually make it. Most people were raised by single parents and they turned out just fine.
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Bumboklaat
@Rakgadi-TabeyaGoreng le sa dumele ha ke dumedisa.......nxa julle second hand
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Tshwarelo rakgadi ya bana! Oska kwata ka fritaga o mokana!
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@bumboke go tshwaretse and ke go rata thata...
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Bumboklaat
@WordofGod@bumbo
ke go tshwaretse and ke go rata thata...
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Huh?!
Am I missing something?
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WordofGod
@BumboklaatWoG ke omong wa bona!
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yep and nope!!!
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Ubufebe
@GalfrendYou are wrong dear. 99% of serial rapists have/had a single parent. So everything is not well with having a single parent!
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Candyboy
@SeshegoGuYRumour has it you were looking yesterday....wats happening bru....?
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rasefatee
o bulela eng marago go sena condom ftshek ga o kweReport Abuse
Bumboklaat
@WordofGod@Bumboklaat
WoG ke omong wa bona!
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yep and nope!!!
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Okay, ake nyako thlakana thlogo ka di yep and nope tsagao!
Wareng feela wena mgwanthi wa jesu?
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SeshegoGuY
@CandyBoyI heard u were entertaining my Miss Bro, The Sugar Mommy. Care to Explain???
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Ramatlhale
@ Candyboy- Good luck chief, but if you are serious about this then you are headed for an uphill battle just make sure you garner support from people/bodies that believe in the cause & not the publicity!!!@Rakgadi-Tabeya - Re ya dumela, bothata ke gore ore bitsa dikolobe wena rakgadi,akere!!
@Galfrend- Am glad I make you glad, now howz about we try out other sensations??
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Sinudeity
Galfrend - Its true, but in some cases, the single moms dont make it.Report Abuse
Thupzen
Don't worry dear grant ekhuphugile = R280*12 months = ?i wasn't good with maths @ school but i bet is more than R3000
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SeshegoGuY
@RamatlhaleI also support that cause Mchana, Some of the behaviours of Banna are really disgusting & its time we stop glorifying them
With ur name i thought u'd also support
Let the REAL Man Stand up
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Galfrend
Sinudeity - Its all about not giving up I suppose. Most mistakes single mothers make is that once they get pregnant and they get rejected by baby dady, they make the mistake of thinking that its the end of the world for them, which is not true. One can still continue with their studies with a baby, hard as it may, but its achievable.Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Am glad I make you glad, now howz about we try out other sensations??
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like what dear?
Ubufebe
Yah I agree to a certain extent but it all depends on good parenting, tell your kid that they can make it in life as much as some kids who come from households where there are both parents.
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Alicia
I've been there myself sis,nw m a proud mother of a healthy and cute baby boy,Dnt let him control ur life.U r already there,u will be completing soon.study hard.Now m a qualified sum body because I never given up hope ,I told myself a child is a blessing ,it will get better with tym ,o tlo lebala one day.Be strong nana
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Sinudeity
Galfrend - Yeah ur right. But that isnt an excuse to not use birth control.Report Abuse
Thupzen
@BumboklaatOkay, ake nyako thlakana thlogo ka di yep and nope tsagao!
Wareng feela wena mgwanthi wa jesu?
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as for mokwanti wa jesu.......................!ROTFL(rolling onthe floor laughing)
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MORNACHIES
@Sinudeity,Will i be wrong if i tell her to focus on giving birth to a healthy baby and let her focus
in order to strive to make big in life ?by having a child like that ,i don't think it's a sin
or a down fall of an individual.she must just admit that bustard was not a real man
enough to take care of her finish and klaar ....the pity part is that the bustard is here
and blogging as if nothing happened ...what a bloody fool !
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Candyboy
@SeshegoGuYWe only shared opinions & ideas around climate change bru....nothing serious homeboy......have you seen her lately....?
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Buckselona
@ Galfriend.Good afternoon my dear.Hope u good.Report Abuse
Thupzen
@TrapStarWell Dont ever call the loooooser, leave him and show him you dont want anything from him
If he brings his long toe nails when the baby is born, take a nail clipper and cut them.
But i have a question for you, Are you sure he is not Married????
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That's what thought too bra............the busted is married.
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Galfrend
SinudeityGalfrend - Yeah ur right. But that isnt an excuse to not use birth control.
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Not at all. But bear in mind that birth controls are not 100% effective. One is bound to get an oopsie at some stage.
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somaartakeit
So typically irresponsible and selfish males in this country seriously I even wonder why some of these women even bother given the choices that are there, anyway to the girl, you will be okay millions of women in this country brought up their kids all by themselves and most of these kids are fine their lives are functioning perfectly without the sp3rm donating males,taking a pill is not 100% proof that you will no be pregnant it ONLY minimises the chance, but life goes on, please don't abort you will be condemning your health to hell if that abortion is not performed correctly. Stand strong my sister concentrate on complete your studies and if you have time off from your studies do so and look after yourself and the unborn.
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Shenene
SeshegoGuY@Shenene
Tlogela bana ba ko Wits-- Chicken M U R D E R, kgona thaka tsa gago
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well i qualify with higher grades baby am 20years old its just that i dont qualify to be where i am right now.....
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Buckselona
@ Seshegoguy.Heita boss.How did it go with you and @ Rafmama? Did you hook up with her or what?Report Abuse
FlirtyRob
Hey Ladies,Any PTA hot sexy ladies. Mail me on FlirtyRob@gmail.com!!!! Mwah!!!!!
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Galfrend
Buckselona@ Galfriend.Good afternoon my dear.Hope u good.
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hello my baby. How are you? Im very well thank you.
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Sinudeity
MORNACHIES - True that. Plus the guy has to pay pap-geld.Report Abuse
Candyboy
@FlirtyRobHey Ladies,
Any PTA hot sexy ladies. Mail me on FlirtyRob@gmail.com!!!! Mwah!!!!!
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you sound like the Rob who reads the traffic on MetroFM.....lol
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Candyboy
@Buckselona@ Seshegoguy.Heita boss.How did it go with you and @ Rafmama? Did you hook up with her or what?
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he did a Messi on her.......and dribbled around her 18 yard area.......kikikikikikikiki
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FlirtyRob
@Candyboyyou sound like the Rob who reads the traffic on MetroFM.....lol
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I'm just looking for fun. Don't blame me bra. LOL
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Buckselona
@ Galfriend.Im super dupa babes.tried looking for u the entire week on the blogg and i just cudnt find you anywhere.Were u off from work?Report Abuse
Galfrend
Buckselona - hahahahaa you were probably looking for me on wrong articles, I was blogging like crazy this week. Now you've found me, so whats up?Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
@FlirtyRob,O swere ke letswai ne ?
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Nevdad
FlirtyRobHey Ladies,
Any PTA hot sexy ladies. Mail me on FlirtyRob@gmail.com!!!! Mwah!!!!!
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kikikikiki se u shaya ne kiss in advance,hahahahaha i like PTA u shay iroma before u shela?
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Buckselona
@ Galfriend.If contraceptives are not 100% safe then why are you guys still using them ge?Cos one will fall pregnant eventually.Report Abuse
Galfrend
Buckselona - Like @Somaar said, they only minimise chances of one getting pregnant uyabo?Report Abuse
Sinudeity
Hehe, would anyone mind if for friday comedy relief I told a blonde joke?Report Abuse
Buckselona
@Galfriend.Nuthing much and u? Hows ur weekend looking like?@ Candyboy.I hope he did for real,cos Rafmama was into him big time.Boss while @ it help me find a sugar mama pls.
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FlirtyRob
LOL. Nevus is happy (not straight)!!!! LOLReport Abuse
Ramatlhale
@SeshegoGuY -Don't get me wrong mchana I fully support the initiative I just needed to be sure whether @Candyboy actually believes in what he's preaching or not because I am always willing to fight for anything that will contribute towards the reconstruction of our beliefs & mindsets as black south africans, it's just that i've fought alongside so many cowards over & over.
And if it wasn't cowards it was people with selfish self-enriching motives, so the experience has taught me not to be too hasty to jump on just any bus, otherwise i'm positively for this cause!!!
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FlirtyRob
Hey Galfriend *wink wink* *nudge nudge*Report Abuse
MommaC
BuckselonaThe contraceptive pill, if used correctly, is 98% effective.
That means that 98% of the female population is protected from pregnancy when using them. Some women ovulate more than once a month, some have dietary or health problems and some just forget to take them. That accounts for the other 2% that have 'failures' on the pill
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SeshegoGuY
@BuckselonaWell Chiefs won for once.....Thats all im gonna say
@CandyBoy
Climate Change?? Recycling paper n stuff...hope no-one was recycled
@FlirtyRob
Most of the chicks here are taken, so o vayile blind my Authi. Check News 2 4 or Times-live
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Buckselona
@ Galfriend.If she ddint wanna fall pregnant she shud have used contraceptives and condoms @ the same time.But anyway whats done is done.Kids are a blessing and i have a passion for kids hope she doesnt abort though.Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
@FlirtyRob,O bolaya ke letswai ne ?
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FlirtyRob
@SeshegoGuyMost of the chicks here are taken, so o vayile blind my Authi. Check News 2 4 or Times-live
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I'm not looking for steady bra. Just want someone to help when I'm in need. Get my drift. Hala at me PTA ladies on FlirtyRob@gmail.com. No strings!!!
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GODESS
Sowetan lentlwaela nosonso maanReport Abuse
Raven
Candyboy@Raven
...Its Friday Babes...@CandyBoy
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so how are things at the new cosatu house......?
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esih a bit quite hey :( i guess we will see some action nextweek..will update you neeh..gape ke re am nextdoor my darling
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Sinudeity
FlirtyRob - Lemme guess, you put the STD in Stud.Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@RamatlhaleBig-ups my Man, we need more people like u in our Morally-bankrupt Soceity.
Even Our so called Leaders do not inspire confidence
@MommaC
Why are people still using Contraceptives????
Seems to me they are more afraid of getting Pregnant than HIV
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FlirtyRob
@mornachiesO bolaya ke letswai ne ?
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Eish bra, you don't know how much. Just got back from Ghana and am glad to SAn ladies. Shuuuu!!!!
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MORNACHIES
GODESSSowetan lentlwaela nosonso maan .
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you wrote to sowetan ,so that u can get helped mos ....nou why o le tjatjarag ?
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GODESS
ye, ke lefase lekhwi ngwaneso ga ontoo, guys can be like that sometimes, mara sesi nna ke belaela gore letswa kua kgolekgole le gauteng, wa fihla mouwe ba gongena ka maaka le wena wa tlala...nna bo sesi bekere lets stop beliving in this voet voet nonsense bareng ke lerato...nna ke ja motho ke a feta! no love love mo....Report Abuse
Menina11
What's new? Almost every man in South Africa avoid the resposibility of being a dad. I really dnt know how these kind of guys live with themselves!Report Abuse
Sinudeity
Fine, heres my friday joke:"Hi Mom, How are you?"
"Hi Sally, where are you? I thought you were with your father at the Ace Hardware"
"Yeah we were, but I got arrested, and they've let me make one phone call"
"What happened?"
"Oh, I punched this African-American woman in the head."
"What on earth, why did you do that?"
"Well it wasn't my fault. Dad told me to find a Black & Decker."
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Galfrend
SinudeityHehe, would anyone mind if for friday comedy relief I told a blonde joke?
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Go ahead as long as its funny...lol
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sawubona
Buckselona - Condoms are also not 100% effective lovie, but true hey , its not the end of the world.
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Buckselona
@ Momma C.Oh i see thanx for the info my dear.@ SeshegoGuy.Why are you avoiding the Rafmama issue.What are you hiding?
@ FlrtyRob.This is not a dating site boss and as SeshegoGuy has told u all the ladies here are already taken.So go try sumwhere else,Sosha,Mamelodi or Mabopane sure u can find a mogwanti there.
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Galfrend
Sinudeity - Its not funny dude.Report Abuse
GreatMan
That's not the end of the world, u can still make it because u'r still alive and don't fear the unknown.you may feel alone, isollated and rejected but the reason God gave you a child is because you can take care of the baby.
remember everything happens for a reason sesi.
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GODESS
you wrote to sowetan ,so that u can get helped mos ....nou why o le tjatjarag ?......................................................................................................................
@ monarchies kganthe keng ka wene nou? akere they did not want to publish my comment
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Jaja'sQueen
@SeshegoGuYyes but if he's a B@stards who doen't wanna take responsibility why bother...
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If he keeps bothering babies from where they are and brings them into the world, he'll have to pay.
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Ramatlhale
@Galfrend- Uyazi I was going to tell you something so sweet & sed........ that you we..... but when I count the number ya majita who are pursuing you on this blog, I concluded that my statements would eventually make part of the pack & I naturally hunt alone.So I figure let's just have an innocent, adult, lust-fre.e chat; anything wild planned for the weekend???
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SeshegoGuY
@BuckselonaIm not hiding anything
I answered u boss, Like i said: RafMama is one Rough Mama, thats all im gonna say LOL
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FlirtyRob
@Galfriend,How you doing babes??? Hit me up on FlirtyRob@gmail.com
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MommaC
SeshegoGuYCondoms aren't 100% guaranteed either.
Getting a HIV is bad but getting positive AND then having a baby is just too scary for words
...... and very few rapists bother with condoms
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FlirtyRob
@Buckselona,Call me Mr Take your girl ~ singing. LOL
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SeshegoGuY
@RamathlaleWa bona da o senya nako my Authi, bona nou o busy le that Flirtyboy. O na le nawa daai chick Serious
@JaJaQueen
Can't argue with that, everyone has to pay for their deeds at the end BUT Our women must also stop pursuing Materials (Some not all)
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Sinudeity
Galfrend - I'll stick to my day-job. Unless of course my day-job is comedy.Report Abuse
Galfrend
Buckselona - No plans for the weekend yet uyaz.Ramatlale - The good thing though is that I choose whoever I wanna chat to. I caht with most people here on a friendship level. So whoever has plans of taking things further than that, I feel sorry for them coz im married and I've never made that a secret. " So I figure let's just have an innocent, adult, lust-fre.e chat; " As far as I know we'vew been having that kind of a conversation vele..Unless if im missing something.
Eish some guys niyabora niyaz, cant a male and a female just be friends without being lovers or whatever.. hayi man, niyabhora.
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Galfrend
FlirtyRob@Galfriend,
How you doing babes??? Hit me up on FlirtyRob@gmail.com
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What for??????
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Buckselona
@ CandyBoy.Boss i said help me owt?@ Galfriend.Seems like nuthing is 100% safe these days.We might just as well go back to skin to skin days.
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FlirtyRob
@GalfrendWhat for??????
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So we can get to know each other and maybe.............(fill in the blanks)
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Galfrend
SinudeityGalfrend - I'll stick to my day-job. Unless of course my day-job is comedy
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You do that - if your day job is comedy, tjo I feel sorry for you... hahahahahaa but you made me lol the other day when you said Seshego was going to braii more than he bargained for hahahahahaaa!!
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SeshegoGuY
@MommaCSpecifically Couples in a Relationship, they seem to be risking thier lives by engaging in Unprotected S3x.
Good Quality Condoms are safe---They form part of my grocery (Ok too much info)
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Galfrend
FlirtyRob@Galfrend
What for??????
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So we can get to know each other and maybe.............(fill in the blanks)
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Who said im interested in knowing you vele..mcxm leave me alone man.
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Sinudeity
Galfrend - "if your day job is comedy, tjo I feel sorry for you"Id be poor and unemployed :P
"but you made me lol the other day when you said Seshego was going to braii more than he bargained for"
Hehe, yeah. But spontanious jokes like that are better than these scripted jokes.
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FlirtyRob
@GalfrendOk, point taken.
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Galfrend
Buckselona@ Galfriend.Seems like nuthing is 100% safe these days.We might just as well go back to skin to skin days.
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The only way to be safe is to ABSTAIN period. If you are not married,then abstain. If married, then be faithful to ur partner. I know its hard.
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SeshegoGuY
@Galfrendhe started his career with that Joke ( SINUDEITY that was a good one & i still haven't forgiven u)
LOL
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Galfrend
SinudeityHehe, yeah. But spontanious jokes like that are better than these scripted jokes
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SeshegoGuY
It was a good one indeed,lol
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Banned
Mnxim......maar iSowetan iyabheda sometimes. What is this rubbish now?Report Abuse
Sharpino
Di kae di article tsa Juju tsa goseng??????????????????????????????? It has come to my conclusion that SOWETAN live is iether run by prostit=utes or run by an adolescent who has nothing to do with what the youth of SA says about the current news, but more interested in SEXXXXXXXXXXXXX TopiCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSReport Abuse
Sinudeity
SeshegoGuY - Hehehe.Report Abuse
MommaC
SeshegoGuYWell to be honest, if my husband hauled out a condom before doing his 'duty', I'd be a bit upset. Would he be assuming that I'm screwing around or would he be letting me know that he is?
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MORNACHIES
GODESSyou wrote to sowetan ,so that u can get helped mos ....nou why o le tjatjarag ?
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@ monarchies kganthe keng ka wene nou? akere they did not want to publish my comment.
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Ok ,sorry it just that i thought you are the one who wrote to Sisi Dolly or whatever her name is .
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tomcat101
@ALL Dumelang..where is this Tedu character mara?
@Mornachies....o grand bozza?
@Galfrend.....o grand love?
where is KUx2 bathong?
has any one heard from velo????
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Sharpino
Sowetan knows very well that most of black ppl especially youth log in on sowetan live, but look at the topics of stories they bring thats really undermine most of the majority who read sowetan live. Some of us are more interested in reading post by fellow SA youth regarding politics.I am not sure why Sowetan give us this kind of stories....................................
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somaartakeit
LoL @SeshegoGuy, I don't blame you dude for being pro-active just in case the other half forgets to take the pill:-) and honestly in this day of aids and herpetitis ppl shld take extra precautions to safeguard their health,Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@MommaCOk Marriage is a different matter altogether But with couples there's no excuse, even if the 2 of them have been going out for years NO EXCUSES
he he Old Men don't even know how to use Condoms LOL
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vthobakgale
I think it`s time we review the constitution ya Mzansi.1) it should be a criminal offence to mpregnent someone or fall pregnant when you don`t have a salary or your salary is not being taxed.
2) termination of pregnency should remain legal but a clause should be added that allows men to take women to court if they refuse to abort. In the list of possible punishments, a sentance of 12month community service of distributing condoms to public places.
3) It should be illegal to use babies as a tool to secure longterm relationships (trapping).
4) The law that prohibits men from buying morning after pills on their own is k*k n must be scraped.
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mboloyamina
Boggers le rata menyobano, thats allReport Abuse
Dzel
Dear Sis Dudu,Whilst your advice is always appreciated I think you are being a bit simplistic bordering on reckless when you say, “It is your body and no one can dictate to you what you should do”.
This issue is not about her body; it is about a pregnancy and in a few months time a human being who needs the love and support of both parents, who needs to be fed, clothed, and taken care of in every respect. Having a child is not a decision that should be taken by one party or one of the parents for when he or she is born both parents are equally liable to raise this child. It is therefore reckless to suggest that the father has no say in the matter, clearly he has made it clear he does not want to have the child and once the child is born and he keeps his distance he will be accused of all sorts of things including being an irresponsible father. Then you would have forgotten that you advocated that he be forced into fatherhood when that was not his desire. Your advice suggests the father has no option after conception and he is held hostage by the decision taken by the mother alone, does he not have rights too? We need to be very careful of using our rights to suppress or override his right of choice and or self-determination.
DEJECTED, this is a very big decision you have to make and in making that decision you need to respect the fact that your boyfriend has made it clear where he stands on the matter. You need to look at this situation from his point of view as well because the decision you will take will have lifelong consequences for him as well. The last thing you want is for him to think you are using this baby to trap him or put him in a situation where his opinion is not valued this would only serve to validate the suspicion that the pregnancy was deliberate.
It is always difficult to give advice in a situation like this as there are many factors involved. The last thing you want is to have this baby and then spend the rest of your life chasing maintenance money. This is not just about having the baby but also what happens after you have had the child, how will you raise the child etc and will he or she have both parents who will love him or her unconditionally and be there for him or her physically, financially and emotionally. You should be able to stand behind the decision you will make on your own as his actions are indicative of a man who does not want to have this kid, he is not likely to change his mind so be very careful.
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Ramatlhale
@GalfrendEish some guys niyabora niyaz, cant a male and a female just be friends without being lovers or whatever.. hayi man, niyabhora.
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No,no,no my sista I never intended uk'kphazamisa kanje emoyeni, am simply saying should I have indulged in some adult, innocent but naughty talk with you, you might have mistaken me for these opportunistic vultures on the blog hence I opted for clean conversations.
Please forgive me if I came across as an irritating, childish & perverted blogger!!!I It was not intentional.
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MommaC
SeshegoGuYLOL
Why do you young people always think that you invented sex?
I am a product of the 1960;s. You guys don't even want to know wild life was like before HIV and the condom has been around for centuries.
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SeshegoGuY
@SomaartakeitThat decision should be in my hands, no one is gonna decide for me.
I own my destiny sweety..
@VThobakgale
hey Ma-Vic o gona hierso mchana, Nna kere o vaile boss kikiki LOL
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Motabolapasa
@nevdad@maezisto- hai ba kgasa boy se ke tseba ke bo mang ba re baisitseng nna ke blokilwe ke Ladygaga wena ke Mzabalazo.
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SeshegoGuY
@MommaCWell.... We did! I personally think the so called 60's generation of Hippies is a bit exaggerated..
For starters there were VERY FEW clubs, U could easily get pregnant (Contraceptives were probably not easily available) and life involved a lot of Rules (From the Family)
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Skopokopo
I met this guy some years back, he was a nice guy and very loving ,we decided to take things further. I spoke about HIV?AIDS and suggested we do tests and stressed the use of Condoms. He told me there is no need for a test and the use of condoms because he trusts me. That was the last time he saw me. How many has he trusted and not used condoms? I ran and never looked back!Report Abuse
RYE
VIVA FRIDAY VIVA!!!Report Abuse
tomcat101
@RYE.................vivaReport Abuse
MommaC
SeshegoGuYSheesh, have you ever got the cat by the dog there!
The contraceptive pill has been freely available since the mid 1950;s
Condoms have been around since about 1,000 BC and freely available since about the mind 1800's
We also didn't have any sexually transmitted diseases that couldn't be cured with a dose or three of penicillin.
It wasn't considered the era of sex, drugs and rock 'n roll for nothing :)
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tomcat101
@Skopokopo......interesting......was he that desperate?Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@MommaCDamn!! So u all went naked in the bush, smoked dagga & danced the whole night
he he Must've been hard for the Parents. But now things are worse cos u could die
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Galfrend
RamatlhaleNo dear, ngiright mina, was just saying nje. Dont feel bad.
Skopokopo
You did well gal.
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Jaja'sQueen
@DzelMy brother, how are you? Correct me if I am misreading you. You are saying that, the father has a right to decide on whether the woman terminates or not?
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MORNACHIES
@tomcat101,O reng fela da ?
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BaleliM
"my boyfriend got me pregnant"- No gal, you allowed him to make you pregnant.Report Abuse
MommaC
SeshegoGuYLOL
Not all the time but I did go to a couple of those kind of parties :)
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vthobakgale
@MboloyaminaMo lefaseng re tlet$e go jana period!
@SeshegoGuy
I`m not going to wits if that`s what you`re worried about. You won`t be allowed in either, I`ve put your picture under the blacklisted group.
@MommaC
I think s3x was invented in the 50s and perfected in the 60s. I mean the world population was under threat. There had been two world wars already and lots of ppl died, mass reproduction was required. you guys were heros
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Nevdad
hi RyeReport Abuse
Galfrend
Tomcat - hey you...im not sure where KK is?Report Abuse
Sinudeity
MommaC - Bow chika bow wow.Report Abuse
MommaC
vthobakgaleNot so sure hey. Those Romans had a whole holiday dedicated to orgies. That is a hard act to follow :)
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SeshegoGuY
@MommaChe he Good All days. Vthobakgale says u were heroes
@Sinuedeity
So i take it u were also a regular
@Vthobakgale
Northgate is gonna have lots of stories this weekend
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Dzel
Jaja’sQueen,My brother, how are you? Correct me if I am misreading you. You are saying that, the father has a right to decide on whether the woman terminates or not?
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I’m good thanks, and you?
I am saying he has a right to state his opinion and for his opinion to be considered seriously otherwise this situation is about to get a whole lot worse for everyone concerned. It is reckless for us – myself included – to give advice when none of us are going to contribute to the upbringing of this child. Also does it make sense for her to have this child and then spend the next few months or even years forcing the boyfriend to pay maintenance when she knew very well he did not want to have this child.
It is important to stress we all have rights, that she is going to carry the child does not automatically give her the right to make a unilateral decision and place all financial obligations on the father (to me that does not make sense). We need to remember that the argument goes it is her body and therefore can decide to terminate or not, what rights does the boyfriend have; none at all?
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RYE
bhwahaahhahaah who is nevdad manje?Report Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
@DzelDon't you think is right to decide on the pregnacy is limited till the birth?
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SeshegoGuY
@Dzel for PRESIDENT!!!Amen Brother.... Knowing very well that a guy does not want a baby n then forcing him to support (Even taking the poor thing to Court)
Although we must be responsible for our Children, no one must force that decision to have one on me
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Candyboy
@FlirtyRobTake your pick mfana.....!
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Rye
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Jaja'sQueen
Jaja'sQueen@Dzel
Correction Don't you think HIS right to decide on the pregnacy is limited till the birth?
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Nevdad
@Sinudeity-dude am sorry mara was that a joke?moerr thats a biljoke.Report Abuse
MommaC
Dzelmmm The problem is that the father doesn't have to live with the emotional trauma of having an abortion. In 5 years time he won't cry when he rides past a pre-school and think "my kid would be about that age now". Some women are just not able to ever really get over an abortion.
The other thing is that it DOES take two to tango. If he was that adamant that he didn't want children now then why wasn't he using a condom? If he was wearing a condom and there was a 'wardrobe malfunction' then he should have insisted on watching her take a morning after pill.
This story does have all the earmarks of a woman trying to trap a man into marriage but that doesn't mean that said man is completely innocent either.
If you are irresponsible enough to make baby then you pay the price
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Dzel
Jaja,Don't you think is right to decide on the pregnacy is limited till the birth?
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Of course it is limited till birth.
Reading comments here one would think the boyfriend's right end at conception. The woman’s right to decide ends when she is legally permitted to have the abortion which I think is at 4 months or so; she and only she can decide to terminate, have the child and then give it up for adoption or to keep the child in which case he is forced by law to pay for the upbringing of the child irrespective of whether he wanted to have this child or not.
Rights are balanced by obligations, for every decision made there are consequences. It is important we keep these in mind and when you decide to exercise your right you should be in a position to face the obligations as well, right now the majority seem to encourage her to have this kid yet the financial obligation is likely to be carried by the father. This is not a situation that should be entered into carefully, my limited ability to psycho-analyse a situation like this is that her decision is likely to result in resentment and loathing for a long time, no-one wants to be forced into a difficult situation especially when there were other options which were ignored.
All I am saying is she should treat the father as an equal partner in making this decisions otherwise she risks a lifetime of unhappiness and friction should she make a unilateral decision that is binding on all parties concerned.
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Pointman
After you get over the shock of discovering the real nature of the "love of your life", pull yourself together and burn a hole in his pocket. Here is part of your list - damages for pain and suffering, damages for breach of promise, maintenance for the lovely little guy or girl, maintenance for yourself.Report Abuse
Buckselona
@ Ramathlale.Now u calling us vultures cos u ddint succeed in luring GF.I know guys like you,trying to score points @ our expense.How old are you boss? cos u so childish.Report Abuse
somaartakeit
Dzel the man should not have to be forced to pay maintenance he should do that voluntarily that's taking responsibility for his party for creating it, cause there was no reason for him to not have used a condom if he didn't want to father an unplanned baby, I also think its cruel that you suggest that a man should have a right to decide when it comes to abortion, even doctors who are medically trained for years have no right to decide, they will ONLY give options the decision is that of a person carrying a baby cause at the end it will affect her health.Normally Dzel you come across as a well reasoned guy and a fair person, but on this one you really show your chauvinistic tendencies.
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pierre2000
One year and already pregnant? Yet within such a short time you were already fighting? You should have been more cautiousReport Abuse
Jaja'sQueen
@DzelJust for my sake, I would never challenge your beliefs. Is it in anyway possible that we could make this discuss to be based on the fact that the baby will be born and not ki!led. If that's possible. I do not support the k!lling of babies.
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McLoving
Keep the baby and enjoy your pregnancy.Yo go girl .Its a great experience.Leave the looser alone ..he doesn't deserve you.Report Abuse
Nevdad
hey SomaartjieReport Abuse
Galfrend
pierreuna hali gani mpenzi wangu?
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MORNACHIES
@McLoving ,How are u mi man ?___Why did u block Maezsisto ?
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FlirtyRob
Hey Rye,How you doing today???
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romanrick
I do not like abortion and wish that the useless father to be pay high maintenanceReport Abuse
SeshegoGuY
@JaJaQueen"..Correction Don't you think HIS right to decide on the pregnacy is limited till the birth?"
Thats where the Problem is right there
A baby is a VERY HUGE DECISION which willdef. change someone life or the way he/she does things
To limit a Man's role to when the baby is born has created the many problems that we see in our society
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Jaja'sQueen
@romanrickMe too!
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Candyboy
@Raven,Opposite....the only building there would be Metropolitan.....*wink*
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Dzel
MommaC,mmm The problem is that the father doesn't have to live with the emotional trauma of having an abortion. In 5 years time he won't cry when he rides past a pre-school and think "my kid would be about that age now". Some women are just not able to ever really get over an abortion.
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You know the funny thing is Momma, had this been about her wanting to have the abortion and the boyfriend was opposed to the idea you would be telling me about her rights to her body. Why isn’t this “emotion wreck” argument raised when the foot is on the other shoe?
This is about both parties, obviously they both have to live with the decision can we please not make assumptions when we don’t know anything about both parties.
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The other thing is that it DOES take two to tango. If he was that adamant that he didn't want children now then why wasn't he using a condom? If he was wearing a condom and there was a 'wardrobe malfunction' then he should have insisted on watching her take a morning after pill.
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Not sure if you missed the point where she states she was and still is on the pill, don’t you think that contributed to him not using a condom or do you advocate guys use condoms at all times irrespective of what other family planning methods were used concurrently?
Again, had this been about her right to have an abortion you would not be talking about condoms; the least I can ask of you is to be fair to both parties and apply the same standards, not cheryy pick arguments that suit your agenda.
You speak of innocence as if this is a criminal case or that he is a pariah; the guy had sex with his girlfriend under the impression that she was using protection and that pregnancy was not possible. Can we please respect that fact and that he is now faced with a lifelong commitment and he is not ready to have this kid. Why is it so difficult to respect the view of the potential father or do guys have no rights when it comes to pregnancies?
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Jaja'sQueen
@SeshegoGuYYeah, he can be invloved with the pregnancy as a source of support for the woman. And assist at the time of birth by rubbing her back. His main role will be after the baby is born - he will have to foot the bill for the maintenance of the baby.
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Candyboy
@romanrickSpot on brother....that makes 2 of us mate.
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pierre2000
@ Galfrendpierre
una hali gani mpenzi wangu?
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Nipo salama mpenzi wangu, habari za kazi?
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pierre2000
@ GalfrendNani anakufudisha kiSwahili?
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SKANDRELIN
I RESERVE MY COMMENT ON THIS ONE..THANK UReport Abuse
Muntu-Maeza68
RYEmond-Hallo kwaaaaaakwaaaaa kikikikikikikikikikiReport Abuse
Galfrend
pierre2000@ Galfrend
Nani anakufudisha kiSwahili?
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kazi ni nzuri dear, hakuna mafundisho yangu Kiswahili, Im ufasaha ndani yake .. lol
Hivyo yoyote mipango ya mwishoni mwa wiki?
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MommaC
DzelWell is she wants an abortion then it is HER decision. If it turns her into an emotional wreck then it is on her head. It is not something she was forced into. Until such time as we evolve into seahorses, men don't really have an option. They don't carry the baby for 9 months then carry it again for the next 20 years or so.
If he was that adamant about not having a child then YES, he should have used a condom. If he is so ignorant as to not be aware that a goodly dose of diarrhoea or a few too many grapefruits make the pill useless then he shouldn't be having sex to start with. It is also damn irresponsible for any young man to believe that there aren't women out there who fall pregnant on purpose to 'trap' them.
You chose the behaviour then you chose the consequences.
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pierre2000
@ GalfrendOnafanya kazi gani mpenzi wangu? Onafanyiya wapi?
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MsKinkyakaKamaSutra
@Shenenemxm i dont buy this story i mean i dont have a kid but i dont think a guy will treat a lady so bad for being pregnant ..............who is the gal's name wena dolly?
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Prince charming turns into devil incarnate at the looming sound of pitter patter (kid/s)
Im proof of that and I am so happy with my baby.............
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Serenade
Thanks once more Sowetan for topic like this one especially on friday, we need to loose up, most of your bloggers are political minded you need to cool them down eg RobinH. Wooooooooooooza weekend woza ntokozo.Report Abuse
McLoving
MORNACHIES@McLoving ,
How are u mi man ?___Why did u block Maezsisto ?
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The day Sowetan blocked comments on articles I did adress my comments to Sowetanlive and complained that it was not fair for us to be blocked because of few certain individuals who where not adding value to the blog.I had my comments removed on the blog the day after. It's something to do with webbteam not me.I don't have the power to block anyone.I think it's the same as in the ANC,,,they teach some people manners and if they don't listen they get rid of them.Mina I don't have anything to loose or gain from the whole situation.
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Galfrend
PierreNami nitakuwa nyumbani, hakuna mipango ya wapenzi wote .. na wewe?
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
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Ramatlhale
Buckselona- Chief if you are not a vulture then why all the fuss, I mean if the shoe fits........And quiet often than you realise the level of maturity in an individual tends to exceed one's age so I could be 35 with a moer se capacity mentally & you could be 55 and ......well let's say challenged, so the age factor is very much irrelevant when coming to such matters.And just so we're clear from what I can gather by your statements your intentions concerning GF are not the same as mine, I am just an honest, innocent friend to GF & it ends there...(Saint)
And ooooh..... did you succeed?????
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Dzel
@Jaja,Just for my sake, I would never challenge your beliefs. Is it in anyway possible that we could make this discuss to be based on the fact that the baby will be born and not ki!led. If that's possible. I do not support the k!lling of babies.
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K|lled is such a dramatic word, one that is not used when the shoe is on the other foot.
Let’s face it; women have abortion for convenience either the child is going to be an imposition, it will mess with my body, etc, etc. We allow woman to have the abortion for reasons as self-centred as “I do not want my waist to be messed up” and we support them by arguing that “it is her body, it’s all goo, have that abortion” but when it is the guy wanting the abortion then he is an irresponsible SOB who should have used protection and now must face the music.
Seriously guys, am I the only one who spots the blatant hypocrisy here?
Are you guys seriously arguing that he does not have a choice in this matter; if so why not?
Are men not entitled to rights when it comes to reproduction?
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pierre2000
@ Galfrendata mimi takuwa nyumbani, onakuwa na nani nyumbani? Onayenda kanisani siku ya jumapili?
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somaartakeit
@Nevdadhey Somaartjie
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OFFOFF
the boyfrnd is a complete idiot bt as they alwys say wht goes comes around makahamba bazoqhanda phambili.Report Abuse
Dzel
@MommaC,Well is she wants an abortion then it is HER decision. If it turns her into an emotional wreck then it is on her head. It is not something she was forced into. Until such time as we evolve into seahorses, men don't really have an option. They don't carry the baby for 9 months then carry it again for the next 20 years or so.
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Fair enough, he does not carry the child. What is your view on raising this child after (s)he is, should he be compelled to pay maintenance?
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If he was that adamant about not having a child then YES, he should have used a condom. If he is so ignorant as to not be aware that a goodly dose of diarrhoea or a few too many grapefruits make the pill useless then he shouldn't be having sex to start with. It is also damn irresponsible for any young man to believe that there aren't women out there who fall pregnant on purpose to 'trap' them.
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Ok I see; using the same logic I assume you believe abortion should be outlawed besides a few exceptions like rape since the woman would have allowed herself to be penetrated without using protection or condoms to be specific since you are so pedantic on the matter?
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Skopokopo
tomcat101@Skopokopo......interesting......was he that desperate?
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Ramatlhale
No dear, ngiright mina, was just saying nje. Dont feel bad.
Skopokopo
You did well gal
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Thanks gal, how could he be so careless?
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McLovingMORNACHIES
@McLoving ,
How are u mi man ?___Why did u block Maezsisto ?
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The day Sowetan blocked comments on articles I did adress my comments to Sowetanlive and complained that it was not fair for us to be blocked because of few certain individuals who where not adding value to the blog.I had my comments removed on the blog the day after. It's something to do with webbteam not me.I don't have the power to block anyone.I think it's the same as in the ANC,,,they teach some people manners and if they don't listen they get rid of them.Mina I don't have anything to loose or gain from the whole situation
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so wena you think you smell better raising concerns?I told you and i tell you again this is not you mom's shack and guesse what i also talk to Phindile ko tellus and she adviced me to change the username.Why wena o le so concern ka di comments tse sa directiwa ko wena?O na le boya ka pelong sies man o na le pelo ya boloi for a guy.Am sorry to tell you the good news "I'll be here till seshwapha sa hao se tsutsubane".hai man wa khinya,etsa o thole mnyakazo o relax.
With hatred
Nevus.
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Jaja'sQueen
@DzelThank you, Dzel for accomodating me. Like I said before a man who does not use protection. His responsibilities during the pregnancy are very limited. Unless he wants to be there as a support for the woman, financial or otherwise. A man who does not want to conceive uses protection.
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Nevdad
somaartakeit@Nevdad
hey Somaartjie
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i miss you badly dear and thats auvius
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somaartakeit
@Nevi LoL well am here now, so why utshintsha yr id so often did you forget ukuthi ndingu blondie? lolReport Abuse
pierre2000
@GalfrendOkiwa nyumbani onafanya nini? Onyakunya mpombe?
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nicki
blah blah blah story of our lives,*yawning*Report Abuse
MommaC
DzelIn an ideal world there would be no unwanted pregnancies. The mom and the dad would all be over the moon about the prospect of junior's imminent arrival. I don't know if you've noticed or not but it isn't a perfect world.
If the man wants to support his child and he is willing to be a father figure then he should have all the same rights as the mother has. If he wants to be a speerm donor then he should be able to have nothing to do with the child -- providing that he takes care of his portion of the financial needs of the child so it isn't disadvantaged by his selfishness.
I really don't get your last part. What has a man using a condom to do with a woman not being allowed to have an abortion? Are you saying that ONLY women are responsible for safe sex? Are men too stupid to know what causes babies?
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McLoving
what is this now?Nevdad and nevus ...hahahahahahhaha !!!! hubba hubba !!!! McLoving likes.. mense ba na le nako.Nna ha ke na taba you can call me names and what what ...I don't give a ____ life is too short to worry about nothing.Report Abuse
Sentle
Ke mang mpimpi mo this blog?Report Abuse
JUBJUB
nke le chaiseng bathongReport Abuse
Muntu-Maeza68
@McLoving report me again jou gat.Why dont you ignore comments that are not meant for you?Heeee baba Sowetan ke ya rona di working class if o nagana gore o betere why o sa ye ko beeld? Ftsek man jou ouma se kop.Report Abuse
pierre2000
@ GalfrendOkae jaanong?
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Galfrend
PiereSikumbuki mara ya mwisho nilikwenda kanisa. Wena wewe kwenda kanisani kila Jumapili?
Im kugonga mbali sasa, mwishoni mwa wiki kuwa kubwa na mwangalifu!
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Dzel
@Jaja,Like I said before a man who does not use protection. His responsibilities during the pregnancy are very limited. Unless he wants to be there as a support for the woman, financial or otherwise. A man who does not want to conceive uses protection.
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... and a woman who does not want to keep the baby after conception uses abortion?
Is family planning is entirely the responsibility of the man?
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Nevdad
@Somaartjie-its this boys who are wearing ladies underwears reported me kwi sowetan thinking they are getting rid of me.Report Abuse
Muntu-Maeza68
SentleKe mang mpimpi mo this blog?
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Mcloving,Mxcm,Mornashit,Ladygaga,Mzabalazo,JubJub,Ryemond ke lebetse ba bangwe
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Nevdad
SentleKe mang mpimpi mo this blog?
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ke that thing modimo ga your comment,nx
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@ GalfrendPiere
Sikumbuki mara ya mwisho nilikwenda kanisa. Wena wewe kwenda kanisani kila Jumapili?
Im kugonga mbali sasa, mwishoni mwa wiki kuwa kubwa na mwangalifu!
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ee, mimi nakwenda kanisani mara mingi, lakini siyo kila jumapili. Uwo ni ukweli sana, katika mwisho ya wiki, lazima tukuwe wanalifu. Onakunywa beer ama wine?
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Galfrend
Bye pieree, lol love kiSwahili..lolReport Abuse
SeshegoGuY
Ba Government a ba chaise na...Report Abuse
pierre2000
@ GalfrendBye my best friend on Sowetan!!! Weekend jema mpenzi wangu!!!!!!
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Serenade
@NevdadYou are mampara of the week you need to behave man, You even tell bloggers that you would insult.
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Dzel
@MommaC,If he wants to be a speerm donor then he should be able to have nothing to do with the child
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Let’s get back to reality; he does not have that luxury. He is held hostage by the decision made by the woman and he faces jail time should he resists, that is his reality.
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providing that he takes care of his portion of the financial needs of the child so it isn't disadvantaged by his selfishness.
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There we go ahead; that ugly word selfishness, funny how you’ve completely sidestepped question on a scenario where it is the woman who wants the abortion and the man doesn’t.
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I really don't get your last part. What has a man using a condom to do with a woman not being allowed to have an abortion? Are you saying that ONLY women are responsible for safe sex? Are men too stupid to know what causes babies?
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Now you are being melodramatic, my point is you are quick to nail the guy using the “not using the condom” tagline yet when having sex both parties consent to engage in an act of sex without using a condom. When it turns out she is pregnant then he has not option because he was reckless. The same logic is not applied to the woman though, you are projecting her as an innocent victim and therefore she should be allowed to have that arbortion.
Two people engage in the act yet the one parties rights cease to exist at conception and the other party still has options because, “it is her body”.
Perhaps we should approach the debate from another angle; do you think women should be afforded the right to abort or do you think this should only apply when she can prove she resisted having sex without a condom and was forced to hence the pregnancy?
Let’s stop being hypocrites people, is it at all possible to be objective and apply the same logic irrespective of gender?
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MSG_S
Dear DuduI have a feeling that you create these stories. Why is it always samething over and over again from these stupid girls? Please next Friday go and dig these stories from the White Surburbs.Just for a change
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Galfrend
piereHakuna dear, sijui kunywa na mimi dont moshi. na wena?
Anyway, nzuri kuzungumza na wewe, im kugonga mbali sasa. Kuendelea vizuri!
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JUBJUBnke le chaiseng bathong
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e le gore ra go apela?
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somaartakeit
shem Nevi but you are here now cause you are a cat you have 8 lives, lol what did you do wena that caused them to report you cause normally you are a sweet person *wink*Maeza68 nawe bebaku annile shame? lol btw is 68 your year of birth or your age? just curious lol
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Sentle
@Muntu-Maeza68 and NevdadE le gore lena le bo mang?
You seem to know me very well, a keya le isti bo papa?
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pierre2000
@ GalfrendSafe journey!! See u when i reach home. h ah aha ha. bye
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JUBJUB
Nevi why o tshabile ka ntlhela,kgante ke mang a go reportileng....Report Abuse
Nevdad
somaartakeitshem Nevi but you are here now cause you are a cat you have 8 lives, lol what did you do wena that caused them to report you cause normally you are a sweet person *wink*
Maeza68 nawe bebaku annile shame? lol btw is 68 your year of birth or your age? just curious lol
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its just that ba ya jealasa ngoba wena usthandele mina ba na ma-issue la ma lady.
kikikikikikikiki o tlwaela maez68 yong kikikikiki
@Sentle-this is the original N E V U S!!!!
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Nevdad
@Jubilee-a ka tshaba kikikikikiki moer ke thotse picture e ngwe so hahahahaha ke reportilwe ke Ann le hethe e ba re mcloving.Report Abuse
MommaC
DzelWhen have I been hypocritical about this?
Reality is that a woman who falls pregnant by accident is stupid. Birth control has been around for over 60 years. The females of my species should really have come to grips with how it works by now. Having said that, mistakes happen. If she feels confident enough to raise the 'oops' by herself then good on her. If she doesn't then she has the option of an abortion or she can take her chances that the male will NOT head for the hills before the child's third birthday.
The same reality is that any man who gets a woman pregnant by accident is stupid. Condoms have been around since 1,000 BC so they've had a good number of centuries to figure out how to put the damn thing on. Having said that mistakes happen. If he wants to stick around then he is normally welcomed gratefully. If he doesn't then he needs to make sure the child doesn't suffer.
No matter which idiot you want to peg the blame on. A child should NEVER suffer for simply being born.
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Jaja'sQueen
@DzelFamily planning is the responsibility of both parties.
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McLoving
McLoving is unable to participate fully as he would like to.I am still busy with some serious issues.Have a good day all of you.all lovely and beautiful people.Have a wonderful weekend and take care.See you later.Report Abuse
SeshegoGuY
kikikikikikik LOLThose B@stards must behave
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Muntu-Maeza68
somaartakeit-I was blocked yeah and 68 is neither my year of birth nor my age its just my favourite numberReport Abuse
JUBJUB
Nevi mxm wa mo sogela Ann....ke nagana ke di psycho tse sa batleng o bolela le everyone...kikikikiikikikikikiiikikikikikikikikikikikiiikk
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SeshegoGuY
@MommaCThat closes the argument, I agree with that.
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Muntu-Maeza68
Sentle@Muntu-Maeza68 and Nevdad
E le gore lena le bo mang?
You seem to know me very well, a keya le isti bo papa?
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You asked a question and we answered whats your problem?
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somaartakeit
@Nevi lol hayi shem bangibinoma cause mos if bayafuna we can share after all freedom charters clearly states that the ppl shall share, lolam just giving umaez hard time:-) *winks*
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Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ntwana ke thotse motho vandag Mxcm setse a ngaile di e-mail address le di belase boi its a good frydayReport Abuse
Dzel
@MommaC,No matter which idiot you want to peg the blame on. A child should NEVER suffer for simply being born.
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Please my question on abortion, obfuscation will not make the question go away.
Do you think women should be allowed to have an abortion for the sake of convenience?
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somaartakeit
@SeshegoGuY@MommaC
That closes the argument, I agree with that.
------------------------------------------------------------------how very undemocratic of you to concl that the argument has been closed without consulting us? lol
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Nevdad
McLovingMcLoving is unable to participate fully as he would like to.I am still busy with some serious issues.Have a good day all of you.all lovely and beautiful people.Have a wonderful weekend and take care.See you later.
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fokof no-one will miss you ka ho re wa bora hethe kwena.
@Jubilee-bona ke tla ba mo till this side e kwalwa ke Ann maan ke ena kikikikikikiki
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Dzel
@MommaC,Family planning is the responsibility of both parties.
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Good, what happens when contraceptives have failed both parties like in this case; does his opinion count or it is up to the woman alone to make decisions after conception?
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JUBJUB
@Nevi-ahhh my friend wa baba ba go lwela,ba go bakisa tltltltltltltltltltl he he he Mr GoogleReport Abuse
Nevdad
@Maez68-good boy kikikikikikiki nna ke busy ka mabencane ko facebook hei a ba apole a ba apole boy?ne ke batla Sentle nou wa ibreka so ke moja ko facebook.Report Abuse
MommaC
DzelMy feelings on abortion are complex. It is something that I could NEVER do but I cannot find it in me to judge any sister who feels that it is in her best interests to have one. I have seen too many young women being ruined by back street and DIY abortions.
You claim that men should be the ones who decide what WE do with our bodies? Well then make men like toasters and get them to come with guarantees because all too often they run away at the first opportunity and WE are left holding the baby - LITERALLY.
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MommaC
SeshegoGuY:) fair is fair and I'm glad I stopped you feeling so picked on.
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Motabolapasa
@Muntu-Maeza68Nevdad-Ntwana ke thotse motho vandag Mxcm setse a ngaile di e-mail address le di belase boi its a good fryday
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motho ke wena, don't be like this guy here who run away after a tlamolla ngwana tla'ma
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Lwa
Interesting conversation, reality is a lot of guys feel trapped and helpless under these situations.... just the thought of another person being able to make a decision that will affect me for the rest of my life and there is nothing I can do about it is just too much NOW reality is a lot of men feel frustrated under these circumstances and how do they react? .....THEY BLAST EERBODYS HEAD!!Report Abuse
somaartakeit
Muntu-Maeza68Nevdad-Ntwana ke thotse motho vandag Mxcm setse a ngaile di e-mail address le di belase boi its a good fryday
---------------------------------------------------hayi mara nawe shem urata mnyakazo too much plse calm down!
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Jaja'sQueen
Dzel@MommaC,
Family planning is the responsibility of both parties.
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Good, what happens when contraceptives have failed both parties like in this case; does his opinion count or it is up to the woman alone to make decisions after conception?
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A lot of things in our lives happen at inconvinient times and I do not feel that terminating destiny is the answer really. A life once created, I believe should not be taken lightly. There are options available, like adoption etc.
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kilawea
""""""He said I was a gold digger and all I wanted was his money. Then he hit me."""""......Now you know all he wanted was your vagina, that's all.................
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Muntu-Maeza68
Nevdad-Ntse ke nagana gore Sentle ke moqwaeto kante santse e le lebenqane moooerrr nou o ba ja yang ko facebook hai nna dilo tse tsa bo facebook ga ke tlale ka tsonaMotabola-Wa rra goreng moo.Neva ke tshabe as long a ntsha t'lama go ka tlala seatla
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Jaja'sQueen
@kilawea""""""He said I was a gold digger and all I wanted was his money. Then he hit me."""""
......Now you know all he wanted was your vagina, that's all.................
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Nothing wrong with that....men spend their lives chasing kokie. My problem comes in when you fall pregnant and he tries to run away from his responsibility.
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Dzel
@MommaC,My feelings on abortion are complex.
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Nothing complex about abortion; you either believe it is right or you don’t. Forget backyard abortions for a second, I am talking about someone going to Mary Stopes and intending to have an abortion. Interesting you “cannot find it in me to judge any sister who feels that it is in her best interests to have one” yet you don’t think twice about jumping on a guy in a similar situation, he has not right to decide “what is in his best interests”.
You mentioned you were born in the 60s, can we please debate like adults. We both know abortion is never about the woman’s body; it is about the inconvenience of having the child (I’m sorry, any woman who aborts to save her body is just plain stupid). Let’s stop using the childish “her body” argument, let’s the real issue which is convenience or rather the inconvenience the child is going to be. Woman has a right to be selfish to borrow a term you used but the man does not; how does that work?
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You claim that men should be the ones who decide what WE do with our bodies?
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Never said that, I said the man should have a choice whether he wants to have a child and surely when his opinion is ignored then it the woman should have the child with the understanding that she is making that decision alone and be prepared to face the consequences on her own.
Which part of this statement do you disagree with and why?
My position may sound callous but I am disturbed by a society that says men should not have rights after conception; surely this is women rights on steroids, correct?
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Well then make men like toasters and get them to come with guarantees because all too often they run away at the first opportunity and WE are left holding the baby - LITERALLY.
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When a man tells you he does not want to have the baby in time for you to make a decision how can you call that running away, do you even have a right to point fingers?
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Nevdad
@maeza-boi a ke so ba kumule ba nromella di pics tsa lepona boy kikikikikiki sa ka net ke go inviter e be ke kumula.Report Abuse
Dzel
@Jaja,A lot of things in our lives happen at inconvinient times and I do not feel that terminating destiny is the answer really. A life once created, I believe should not be taken lightly. There are options available, like adoption etc.
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Agreed 100%. All I am arguing is let us be fair on both parties and when we offer advice in cases like this let us do so from an informed position and more importantly let us appreciate consequences of the advice given.
This is a difficult situation for both parties; any decision made should take into account the position of both parties and obligations that flow from the decision taken. Like I said, the boyfriend will one day be called an irresponsible father should he turn his back on this child yet it is a child he did not want to have in the first place. Many people do not take kindly to be forced into a situation where their opinion was disregarded. This is why you have young kids raising kids on their own, this has social and economic consequences and many end up turning to the court and social services for assistance.
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MommaC
DzelYes. I come from a time when being a single parent was scandalous and abortion was illegal.
Don't tell me that back street abortion is not an issue here. You haven't seen what those butchers do to women.
The fact that you think this is about something as small as looks is maybe the whole problem. This isn't about our figures or about stretch marks, This is about a life long commitment to another human being. It is about taking on the greatest responsibility in the world. This is also about giving up your life to live exclusively for your child. To make out that it is about shallow vanity is just sick.
You then go on and contradict yourself. You say in one posting that a man should be allowed to stop a woman from having an abortion if he wants the baby now you say that it is on her head if she does have the baby. I'm not sure which angle you are arguing on now. Are you saying that men should be the ones to decide if women have an abortion or not and that women should have no say in the matter?
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kilawea
""""Nothing wrong with that....men spend their lives chasing kokie. My problem comes in when you fall pregnant and he tries to run away from his responsibility."""".....well, if a woman (or a man) is considered just a walking semen receptacle, and she is happy with it, then there should be no problems.............The problem is that at the end of the day, sex is not for children or immature adults. Secondly, if you want to really engage in sex, then you have to know what you are exposed to. For that you need GOOD education from a GOOD source, no witches stories, teenagers beliefs, "cultural/tradition" excuses or half truths. In other words informed decision......Third, it takes two to toyi-toyi..........
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MommaC
kilaweathank you. I have been trying to get that across for hours now
If you want to play big people games then you must take big people precautions or be prepared to take big people consequences.
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Dzel
mommaC,The fact that you think this is about something as small as looks is maybe the whole problem. This isn't about our figures or about stretch marks, This is about a life long commitment to another human being.
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Exactly, then stop using this “right to own body” argument.
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To make out that it is about shallow vanity is just sick.
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Well didn’t you argue that, “you claim that men should be the ones who decide what WE do with our BODIES? It is you who mention a woman’s body, this then makes us equally sick, right. My position has always been that abortion is about the inconvience of having a child for women; let us approach the debate from that position. If you think this makes me sick then please knock yourself out, I suppose there is logic behind my sickness.
I never argued a man should be able to force a woman to have an abortion, please re-read my arguments and point me to where I say this. What I have argued is there are consequences that flow from keeping a child, this is a decision that needs to be made with that fact in mind I then argued if it makes to make the decision to keep the baby but then turn around and demand financial assistance to raise the child.
Please read my statements carefully MommaC, it’s unfair of you to twist my words at every given opportunity.
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MommaC
DzelI'm not 'twisting' your words. That is genuinely what I'm understanding from you.
So if abortion is about it being a minor inconvenience to the woman then what is it to the man?
No wait, Before that, maybe we should start with an attempt to get onto the same page of the understanding manual here. Do you agree with abortion?
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Dzel
I have no problem with abortion, I recognise the need and am in no position to impose on anyone. What I have a problem with is how to is means of escape for one party yet the other party has no say on the matter.Report Abuse
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MommaC, I really have to go. Will read your comment as soon as I get home. Cheers.Report Abuse
MommaC
DzelDrive safe.
So which party, would you say, has the right to use it as an 'escape'?
Keep in mind that they are both invested in this and it isn't something as un-emotional as deciding on beef or chicken as a meal choice. Please, also keep in mind that the child that has been conceived has no guilt or say in this
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magabucks
what's new here really? Happening all the time. Its about time women take back thier power and be the person God created them to be and stop hoping and relying on these scumbags- (I know not every man is a scumbag - there are a few good ones out there actually - so before u even judge me I know). Point is he never really loved you gal. We all have scars from being dumped babes, some may not have a child to prove it - but many women out there have had their fair share of being abused and dumped. Pick yourself up and finish your studies (u cannot afford to mess up your education as well) - abortion is a no no. You certianly do not want regrets later in life. There's always sunshine after the rain! Strength to you.Report Abuse
Mabobs
Abort this thing and go to church and ask for forgivness.dont forgot to delete him in your lifeReport Abuse
OrangeConcentrate
WE all know that the true GOLD and DIAMOND DIGGERS,Anglo-American Oppenheim should be DUMPED off BEIT BRIDGE
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Quickfix
@ 24 you are much older to make the right decisions in your interest and nobody else. This guy might have his own reasons for behaving the way he does, only you and him knows why things have turned the way they are but I do not think your parents will be as mad as he is. You are the one carrying this child and whatever decision you make, the consequences thereof remain with you. Be rational and not emotional in any decisions you make.Report Abuse
SIBandAIGH
You knew your boyfriend was married, you gold diegerReport Abuse
Kgonatsagago
My opologies to real men out there for my comment, banna ke dintsa fela, ba ja fela ba fetsa ba tshaba. if it wasnt like that there wouldn't be lots of single mother outa there. the sooner we aas women acepts gore it gore as much as it takes 2 to make a baby it mostly takes one to raise the baby. Its a pity you still astudent, but I trust your parents will assist with the baby, dont stress gal its all gonna work out at the end. I have raised my son on my own and he will be two soon. Its gonna be difficult in the begginging but it will get better. As for that A$$hole, you dont need him i your life.Report Abuse
ROTCHER
My advise to you dear don't even think of abortion cause u've been enjoying varsity life so u wanna derail!!!!.just delete that looser off your charts cause,who knows???, u'll be givin birth to the next generation's head of state,thats just a temp issues just don't make it permanent.da guy will in future wana be part of da child I promise you dat happened to my couz as de dad came for apologies hoping to get rejected well he wasn't de child is freely living while the culprit is hurting inside.THATS WHAT THEY MEAN WHEN THEY SAY THE WORLD IS ROUND,IT CAN ROLL ON THE UNIVERSE!!!!!!!!!take careReport Abuse
Lavly
Lady u r not stupid and this is not the end of de world. Dnt stress jst take this guy for parternity testing and maintanance court. O ne a go jelang a itse gore dis could lead to a bambino. Hav nothin 2 do with him bt jst b parents to the baby and a child is a gift frm God. luk 4 a job and u could even earn more than he does...wat is moni afta ol without luv & hapiness.Report Abuse
Juju-babe
For heaven's sake you are 24 not twelve. you can raise a baby.Report Abuse
JB$
Have the baby sweetheart don't please him and by the time he realizes it will be time for khumbulekhayaReport Abuse
Kitsoboswa
NEVER fall pregnat if you are not ready. Learn from othersReport Abuse
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