MY WIFE and I have been married for eight years and we have two children aged five and three. I have always believed that our marriage was a happy one, though over the past year we seem to have grown apart.
Thobalano its a duty.
Make sure gore o mo fa yona atleast 5 times a week. even if U dnt feel like it or U r tired, mo fe yona!!! Dat will solve most of your problems. And im not talking about one round, nah, im talking abt a minimum of three a night Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ann
There is no reason why you should not find the magic in your marriage again.
What you must understand is that most marriages lose some of the passion as time passes. Friendship between the spouses grows stronger and this is the foundation of a good marriage but of course should also include a good physical relationship.
This doesn't just happen but takes effort from both of you. You really need to talk to your wi*fe honestly and tell her how you feel about your marriage.
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Great advise, marriege is hard work Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
RobinH
pizozo: Very mature and manly of you. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MommaC
Oh grow up dude!
Your poor wifle is running around after two toddlers as well as working and you come with your pathetic little pity party?
Do you really believe that your wifle is happy with the status quo?
Be a loving husband, take some of the pressure off her, give her some time off, find a baby sitter for one night a week and for goodness sakes, stop being such a woosie cry baby. You are a father now. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Memme
daaaaaaahh - is it not the same excuse that all married men come up when they want to cheat ??? This is simple really - You either want to fix things with your woman or you want to have an affair. You are both aduls - communicate with your wi*fe about how you feel recently and you both need to find that spark again and make your marriage work.. To me it sounds like you have not even tried to bring back that bang in your relationship instead you say you have now met someone who's alo married - nogal..
Banna always find an excuse to cheat and it will always be like that. Personally i don't see anything wrong in this marriage - you both just need to spend some quality time together without the kids around. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
ApelMankotsana
It is always a case that married couples who have been staying together, their spark of love will diminish. The truth of the matter is that indeed it becomes quite boring and monotonous.Do'nt go for marriage counselling...it will not for you...Try and have a nyatsi...she will keep the home fires burning. Report Abuse
hey baba how can you allow thobalano to stop, what did they teach you during your pre marital councelling. its already too late somebody wamoja mo.sadi as we speak so if i were you ne kitloja daai nyasti. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
pik_it_up
so now the flame is dying and you just wanna give up just like that?
nah man bring the love back it aint dead just dormant....if you love her and the kids then you will save your marriage and family Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tsayaya
You are just but undergoing one stage of marriage that you (both) must ensure that you pass without being tempted to have an affair. when u first met the important thing was sex. when sex was a given the next thing was marriage. after marriage the important thing is kids, school, work, day to day chores. when kids are grown up and can do little thing for themselves, the pressure will be off loaded on both of you and you'll gradually become close again. so stop your nonsense and support your w!fe. o ka rata wena ha mosad! wa gago a ka kotiwa a le frustrated? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Vhamsanda
Can you as a man really seek advice from Dudu ?
You should be out of your mind. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Eraser
nxaa..people has serious problems and wena u come here to waste our time..there is nothing wrong in ur marriage..its just that wena now u attracted to the other woman. if you think ur wifee has a lot on her plate y not assist her..
Guys I really need help, I’ m having a sexual relationship with a woman 14 years older than me, I’m 7 years older than her first daughter and she does not have a problem with that. We agreed that we gonna stop as this because we’re scared that we might get attached to one another but the moment she calls me I know I’m gonna F.C.U.K her, the moment I get into her office we start undressing each other and we continue where we left off. I need to stop before I lose interest in my woman but the se is just too good.
How do I stop, please help
It is normal my brother, we all passed that stage.
You need to also have time out with friends and leave her to her friends as well.
Pls don't stress. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
sakhomba
Dear LJT
you and wifey are probably both well educated( randburg dikitchening) is not for every tom, d.ick and harry. baby mama is getting it somewhere else. you know women ba sleg. you provide everything for them and all they give in return is missionary position in bed. to make matters worse you might find she is getting some from umasaka we skhotheni and she is giving that guy a blow job and all the nice thingikies.maybe both of you should go the old school route and invite your elders to help you out with this.do not go to the pastor, those ones batlo go jela jou vrou. guy le wena maan o isa kae madam o rutegileng, ke masepa a batho bao.i suggest you take the kids to granny so that you and your ausie can spend the whole weekend naked in the house...malikhale isende bhuti. good luck. Report Abuse
As they say; it's not the end it's just a curve. Be strong and pray a lot. Do not let this happen to your family. Those children need you both.
What i know is by jumping or having another woman you are not only creating problems but you are bringing stress and misery. All relationships go through ups and downs. We have peaks, valleys, stormy weathers, sunny days etc. Rather try to talk to someone wiser or you should both go for counselling. Just think what made you attracted to your partner.
communication communication brother, if you really want your marriage to be successful u have to talk to your w!ife, nothing comes easy in life, if you really thinks extra affair will solve your problem you are totaly lost. stop seeing that woman and start to rebuild your life with your w!ife stop condoning wrong stuff. Report Abuse
Tell your woman you are a lying. cheating, scumbucket and leave her and if you have to be a male wh0re then at least charge for it - idiot Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
swona
men will always find reasons to cheat, wonder what women are doing about the situation, for the same women commenting here, have the same problem! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mr.Chairman
Who's there?
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Mr. Chairman Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
gabhisa
Marriage ke matha fela, I m yet to see happily married couple! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Sizwe_M
Dear sowetan how the f%$k is the word "WI_FE" obscene! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
XHINOPHOBIA
CHASE AWAY DAT B!TCH.STOP CRYNG AKUNANTANDANE YE GOLO SAN FUNA OMUNYE.WEMAN THIS DAYS THEY THINK THEY KNOW TO MUCH ND WE ALLOW THEM. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Sizwe_M
ok then leave the B%$ch is that better sowetan!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Asshole
A little bbq spice once in a while won't hurt. Report Abuse
Mr. Chairman who?
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Mr. Chairman of the board!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Pabi
Eraser
nxaa..people has serious problems and wena u come here to waste our time..there is nothing wrong in ur marriage..its just that wena now u attracted to the other woman. if you think ur wifee has a lot on her plate y not assist her..
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well said Eraser he must stop making issue out of nothing. he just want to clear his conscious, he noticed that they have a problem in marriage why can't he take his energy to resolve that unlike to use it seeing other woman and discussing their marital affairs try to convincing each other how hard is their marriage life. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
SeshegoGuY
@Sakhomba "...you know women ba sleg. you provide everything for them and all they give in return is missionary position in bed......"
Lmao! that statement is very sexist mchana but Yho LOL!!! (sorry to offend anyone) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nalita
I think both you lost the connection because of the kids, you have to be like the time you were still dating, and leaving your partner for another one with the same life.
Maybe you have low libido problems maybe i can help the woman out Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Eraser
@NotAgain
Guys I really need help, I’ m having a sexual relationship with a woman 14 years older than me, I’m 7 years older than her first daughter and she does not have a problem with that. We agreed that we gonna stop as this because we’re scared that we might get attached to one another but the moment she calls me I know I’m gonna F.C.U.K her, the moment I get into her office we start undressing each other and we continue where we left off. I need to stop before I lose interest in my woman but the se is just too good.
How do I stop, please help
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Not u again! Pls stop it wastin our time too..if you wnt to stop u would hv done that already..just cause u enjoying it dats y u can't stop...so go on with it until u get tired..you should hv thought abt dat b4 u unzipp ur pants.. Report Abuse
Marriage has its ups and downs, it is not paradise Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Vhamsanda
Can you as a man really seek advice from Dudu ?
You should be out of your mind.
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Vhamsanda you could ask again and she probably not married that Dudu.
@Nevus This is the 1st sober comment that i've heard from u ever. Good Point buddy! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
DjEp
Morena, who said to road through marriage will be smooth, so in fact you are scared of challenges. you are together for 8yrs now and all was fine, now with just a curve on the road you feel thats the end, crab man. be a man enough and face your challenges. the way you behave even on the "new: mistres you will her like two trains passing each other after a couple of weeks... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mr.Chairman
Sometimes cheating is not as bad as people make it out to be.However,once you start doing it,you must know that it's going to be difficult to stop it.And take into consideration what is at stake.
It's your choice at the end of the day. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
TDK
Wifey is neglecting hubby or she is getting it in the boardroom during the 'meeting'. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
langman
marago a monate , nyoba fela dilo di tla loka Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
McLoving
The woman is a big bully.Once they get in the marriage they become control freaks,especially black women.It;s a good thing this man found someone. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
My brother – what you have in your marriage is not problems...it is called challenges in marriage. Problems is when you have a wyf who’s pregnant with another man’s child – problems is when you have a dying child. In marriage you will have a lot of challenges and the fact that you have Makhwapheni makes you think that you have problems at home but the truth is that you are both on a ribound –and trying to solve your marriage by having an affair will make things worse. The grass always looks greener on the other side, which is what you see at this point. Marriage is not for chancers – 8 years have been great for you two and you want to mess up everything in just few months of lust that you have for someone else.
If you LOVE your wyf – then fight for her. Both of you must communication and solve the cause/root of the problem – visit a marriage councellor/advicer, talk to your Pastor too and engage yourslef with older people who have been married longer – you’ll be shocked that what you have now is just a slice of PIE. People have serious problems in their marriage....people can’t have kids, people are sick....
.......understand because she has a lot on her plate.....
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You also managed to see that she is cheating on you ?___You can work it out ,but
is too difficult mi man .start visiting your lawyer's offices ......................Divorce !!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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DOES NOT WORK I know blive me ....................
If you want to be happy...marry a white woman.They have true love.They are like angels missing in heaven.
Black women are sturbbon ,big bullies and control freaks. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ziwamo
Marriage is a lot of hard work fellow bloggers, it can be boring sometimes. The problem is doing routine staff, u know when you come back from work, you fetch kids from school, eat, watch tv, and go to sleep. It is
so boring. We need to losen up a bit, make love in the kitchen, lounge, garden, bathroom or in the shower, passage you know. It shouldn't be marginalised, women please stop sleeping with that thick pyjamas and granny's nightdress. I want that sexy satin or silk nighties or just the bum shorts so that when I look at you, I am damn aroused. Spice up your marriage. Report Abuse
i feel u my brother ....i'm also in the same dilemma with my galfriend, only difference is i bang my nyatsi goed. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nanki
no marriage is perfact in this world and if your partner doest show any interest in you you have to be open with her and tell what you see in her,, if you think she is cheating tell her because no woman or man who will start acting without doing something wrong outside.... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
skhokho21
Some people are just called man bcoz they have a di.ck. There is nothing like a happy marriage, I am married 6 years end of February with 3 boys, we both work, Fridays I knock off at 13:00, send the kids to my mother for the weekend, then its just me & her till Sunday, the sh.it is hard work everyday. Just spice up your marriage wena stupid fool, Dudu is after all a woman with her own problems. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
amlaga
Stupid man f.uck that other married woman, wipe your mouth and go back home b4 some1 bones your woman!
sowetan please explain how the word wi_fe is vulgar or discriminatory? stupid sowetan!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Firefly
Dude you and your wi.fe need to spice up your sex lives. And not this cheating thing you want to pursue. Simple and klaar.
Get time off work, park the kids with gogo and spend quality time together. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
T.C.T
Broer i feel your pain in that marriage do not allow yourself to be a love slave in that marriage especially if the is no VAVA VOOM or little bit of SMACKDOWN going on in the bedroom. my chomis like saying to me that marriage can be seen as the delaying space for death if the is no fun in it those who are happy in there marriage is probabley because of there blind w.ife and deaf husband commited to them the only time your w.ife will find out is when you are reckless and neglegent or confesing.if it is good why talk?dont worry my brother It is normal in mzanzi bcos half of marriages end in divorce and the other half end in death who knows you can be one of the lucky guys if you pack your bags and go before it is too late.
about DUDU respond she is bias and blinded by her negative emotions..
stop whining and take your w!fe on a romantic holiday, and take it from there.ask your w!fe what she wants and needs from your relationship, you will find that she is just waiting for you to make the first move and take the bull by the horns, for goodness sake you sound pathetic for even entertaining the thought of cheating on your w!fe. imagine the results of such actions, o masepa a motho straight. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ziwamo
@ IMD
@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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DOES NOT WORK I know blive me ....................
Go fcuk yourself man, there no problem here just fcuk this woman every-night o tlaba grand , some batshaba nnyo n make this look like their women are no longer interested Report Abuse
Basad!
Basad! Ge ba fetsa go nyalwa – ba i tlogela. Motho wa gona ge ojola le yena o phela a le skoon – a apere di-leggings le di-high heels ka di leggings and the hair is always looking great and a nkga monate...always giving u Nnyo anytime, anyhow, anywhere. They watch what they eat – mostly on a diet or go to the Gym and taking care of their selves MARA ge o fetša go mo NYALA – O tlo go bontsha SPOKO. O tlo bona gore mosad! ke SNAKE. Motho wa gona o phela a apere that Blanket ya bakgekolo called TJALE/MOTSOGANA and expecting the man to be happy. O tla kreya mosad! since a dula ka Lounge a lebeletse the bold and the beautiful repeat le BOPHELO KE SEMPHEGO drama for hours forgetting gore monna o na le di needs. At that time she is eating from KFC to Ice-cream a beile 2Ltr ya COKE mo pele ga gage a butše maoto and u expect a brother to be happy? No ways – he is not happy at all. Moriri wona shame – o tlo kreya mosad! a apee pantyhose the whole day mo hlogong with that white stuff MEMEZA on the face o kare she’s preparing to appera on a horror movie. At that time Nnyo e nkga e ya futha e re nhlapise hle...mara because it’s your’s u won’t notice the smell/odor. Whe the hubby come back from work – u think he is exhausted – the truth is that u’r man is not tired at all but immediately he sees the way you look – he then become exhasuted....shame poor man, le bona sono you know. O tla kreya mosad! a na le mekgeledi ya go hlatswa washin on her legs. You always complain that u’r man is always out with some lame excuses that he’s going to watch a soccer match at some friend’s house leaving you behind. How can the poor man take you cause when he comes home from work with the intention of picking you up for some outing – he always fins you O apere that Green big Gown you great grandmother used to wear when she was still in high school – bu that time since you woke up at 10h00 –never bath, even your teeth because you can’t keep away from the TV watch Brroke and Rich playing hide and sick...I mean you’ve watched it yesterday but u still watch the repeat...NEVER BATH...that time your mouth smells like masepa a letagwa. And spending tha whole day without wearing a BRA...come on gals – BRA makes a woman’s body look more shaped....Nna le ya mbora shame – le tlo hlala ke banna la re rasetsa la re ba le loile ka gore le rata gore batho ba a le loya lena batho ba batntsho.
A woman is never too tired to have sex...my dear brother I suggest you talk to your wifey about this matter, writing a dear Dudu letter wont help you with anything if you dont talk to each other about your problem. As for what you are feeling with the other woman, its just lust cause you are both lonely in your marriages. If you still love your wifey then talk about it and make her understand that this is drawing you apart, maybe she feels the same way too - remember the good old days Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
JUBJUB
O kae love....u know ppl think they have problems and they don't hey....☺ Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Phambili ka Magosha Phambili .......Basadi ke di stress finish and klaar !!! Report Abuse
Couples (Married or Single)
This days most couple are both employed with some descent or high profile jobs. Please tlogelang di-laptops ko boot ya koloi ko Garage. Don’t take u;r laptop in the house because u might be tempted to log in and work from home. If you have a lot of work that you have to do....try and go to work atleast 2 hours early and then an hour/two later...to finish your work but then when you go home – know that your family must get full attention. If your working hours are 8-4, then make the 7-5, u have extra two hours to work but then u go home and attend to u’r family. Play with the kids, talk to u’r wyf, wash the dishes, help kids with home-work....eat, bath, then make love to your wyf......forget at office polotics. Let the Nanny do what sh’e hired to do...bathing the kids, feeding them...how difficult can that be?
Don't expect me to condone or give you permission to have an affair. You are looking for justification and behaving like a spoilt child. If you can't have your way you will punish your wi.fe - what sort of behaviour is that?
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Tell him DUDU die man o batla go jola....... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nevus
imd
@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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DOES NOT WORK I know blive me ....................
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it did not work for you maybe for others it will,Maybe wena you went away not thinking about saving your relationship you went there thinking "le nja izo badala inye ke tla mokuta ha nna ntsebe". Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MommaC
" Marriage is like a rose garden, beautiful when attended to but, if you ignore it, then it becomes a weed choked briar patch" Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
Part of what keeps a marriage strong is good sex and communication --- and most of us men, when we cannot get it in the house - we go look for it outside. You and the other women who is also troubled in her marriage should get to some business of consoling yourselves including sexually. Dudu's advice is cheap and is not practical. (just condomise to avoid mistakes). I for one cannot go for 2 days without doing it!! It is a good stress reliever and brings some joy into the union! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
You know most ppl (gals) wnats to get married – especially from their mid 20’s up...due to pressure from the family, peers and all that. If you are NOT ready for marriage then don’t. Just because your friend is married doesn’t mean that u must also get married – marriage is a blessing but once u make it a materialistics then you won’t be happy.
I say people rather be Single than be divorced or Unhappily married – That is not PAP ‘N VLEIS. You must be committed and be ready for challenges because there’s a lot of them.
ppl need to be honest with themselves today is not about till death do us apart is all about till debt do us apart mean while you need to focuse on your hurting feeling and greedy lawyers Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
LLCool
If she doesnt give it to you/ you dont give it to her, why are you still together??? Remember marriage is a an inclussive package (dats include sex). Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@McLoving
If you want to be happy...marry a white woman.They have true love.They are like angels missing in heaven.
Black women are sturbbon ,big bullies and control freaks.
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A relationship is like a 2-way street, both parties must be committed for it to be successful. With regard to black sisters being stubborn, big bullies and control freaks - not all of them are, with regard to white women being angels - not all of them are. All races are prone to divorce for different reasons. Your comment is mot*ivated by the reality that you are currently shagging a white woman - you are so f@cked up that you have lost your common sense! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
svavava
have even considered speaking to yo wi*fe about how you feel, u dont mention anything here. even marriage counselling, have u thought about it. instead of looking outside. either way, if u end up marrying this other woman, u will go theough same stage, so will u also divorce her, u r just looking for an excuse to cheat wena that all
stop whining and take your w!fe on a romantic holiday, and take it from there.ask your w!fe what she wants and needs from your relationship, you will find that she is just waiting for you to make the first move and take the bull by the horns, for goodness sake you sound pathetic for even entertaining the thought of cheating on your w!fe. imagine the results of such actions, o masepa a motho straight.
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Kgotso ngwana!
Jwale o batla ba tlohe le mathata a bona ho ya holidaysing.They have to sit down and sort things before going anywhere Tumza.
I would symphathyze with you if you did not mention the other affair. you stupid ass. Go and start laying your partner as Pizozo said. Women in general get diciplined by Njombe. you will notice the difference. sex is intimate by itself. by doing that often, you will get intimate to your partner too. Now that you gave her two children, o bona ele a reject? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
Guys - holiday will never resolve their problems because the wyf will still be whinning abt how the kids are doing with the nanny at home. This need more than just a holiday..... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
svavava
sowetan web crew, stop being idiots, since when is wi*fe vulgar, nitshay'intsangu yhini apho. sanuba dom maan Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
RobertGamage
In May I will be married for 28 Years, I am more in love with my w!fe now than I was when I first got married the secret is to have your relationship with Jesus Christ right first then everything else wil fall into place. She is the best and only woman for me. Remember a marriage is 100% from both partners, we have had our ups & downs but never go to bed angry sort it out before you close your eyes love her and remember SEX is not everything Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Sentle
@Dudu
How do you know that this guy has two kids? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
nevus
imd
@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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it did not work for you maybe for others it will,Maybe wena you went away not thinking about saving your relationship you went there thinking "le nja izo badala inye ke tla mokuta ha nna ntsebe".
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WRONG assumption again ....""" ke tla mokuta ha nna ntsebe""" meaning what???? tobe exact
coz I amke the arrangements buti................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Bumboklaat
lapa le aga ke nyatsi! nyakaza nyatsi eo mara o leke go lokisa dilo le m.osadi wa gao! Eish basadi ba bangwe le bona ge ba seno nyadiwa ba itebala! Basadi efang banna marago lege le lapile or le opiwa ke dithlogo! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Bumboklaat
@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mangoz
Guy, just take a vacation, Girl, hang out with your friends somewhere unfamiliar (excursion), Kids, go and visit your grandparents some of the weekends. It does work!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Sentle
@Dudu
How do you know that this guy has two kids?
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Wa bona gore e dira eng phuza Thursday ?___Read with understanding Sesi !!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
Nevus
A holiday doesn't solve marital problems..... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
More sex everyday is part of the solution -- they are like two ships passing in the night because they are not connecting sexually...it is true that sex can bond people ---after all a man gets to know a woman when he is inside her and a woman gets to know a men when he is inside her!! (just be careful that it does not turn to rape as she appears to be tired and too busy) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Bumboklaat
@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Lejapere leo le na le bosepa too much .....le nyele boi ! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Dr.Breeze
I don't a problem here all that I see is a challenge that both you and your w_ife are shying away from. Chief the 1st thing that you and your women should have done was to set ground rules for the bedroom and there is on ly but only one rule "NO CLOTHES ARE ALLOWED IN YOUR BED" in that way you both have unlimited access to each others assets. So go and work on your marriage and stop being a cry baby. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
Remember when you cheat and are not caught -- it will spark more love-fire with your w!fe, try it - it works --- with the latter said --have some sexual fun with the other woman in a troubled marriage - it may heal both your relationships! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
Most guys get caught because they have "affairs" the minute you have an affair that means serious emotions are involved & trust me boss you can't give them equal attention, what you needed to do was to tap that (ur potential mistress) a couple of times then try to do to your wif.e what you did to your mistress even if she doesn't like it @ least you'll be talking & hopefully fighting which you can turn into spontaneous intense lovemaking session.
I've observed most of my married friends & the problem with you guys is, when you have kids you immediately adopt the baby's routine but your mistake is you become used to being so organised that even after the baby has outgrown the routine stage; you will create a new one just so you can feel as if you are in control of the situation, routine, routine STOP THAT and start living!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Luv2kiss
Nyala O Nyele, tjeerrrrrrrr !!!! nna nka se nyale kampe ka swa ke mpša net so Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
The other problem ke gore rena batho ba bantsho – when a brother want to have sex le wena for FUN – you just fall pregnant. The poor guy wanted some fun and u fall pregnant...then he is not ready for kids. White people plan for their kids before they can conceive so with our blk community – when a man says open your legs...then you give him kids....not right at all. The next thing you are pregnant – the guy leaves you at home and you complain again but when he tell you to abort – you complain again....he never wanted that child to start with and he is now stuck with it.
Luv2kiss
Nyala O Nyele, tjeerrrrrrrr !!!! nna nka se nyale kampe ka swa ke mpša net so
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So wena o ja Nnyo left and right...hahahahaha Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nevus
KUK'U
Nevus
A holiday doesn't solve marital problems.....
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this guy a re they dont have time for themselves,they are always around friends and relatives and at home attend to bana,a ba bue ka bona ,so mina i think they need time ya go ba 2 ho re ba tsebe ho bua ka bona as (hubby and wifeyyy).Kana lona ge le re holiday le naganne go ya Moria lo nwa ditaela.
@KU.KU
Guys - holiday will never resolve their problems because the wyf will still be whinning abt how the kids are doing with the nanny at home. This need more than just a holiday.....
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Ah someone who gets it at last!!!!!!!!!!!
@MORNACHIES
Sentle
@Dudu
How do you know that this guy has two kids?
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Wa bona gore e dira eng phuza Thursday ?___Read with understanding Sesi !!!
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a tle a gata tlakala la banana so vroeg ka Friday Sentle wa batho Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
Thank you Ku,ku with your recent comment Tell them, we want Fun NOT babbies plz... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@KU,KU
when a man says open your legs...then you give him kids....not right at all.
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Nuff Said, What a woman you are.............!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Muwaweni
My broer,dont blame your woman cos u both are in that mariage and i biliv u knew that there will b challenges in mariage way b4 u maried her.So if u want to cheat bcos of that u r an idiot,a fool,dabadaba,degere.That is de time where you need to intensively communicate with her,poor out your feelings,get her to be open about her feelings too.Ni songo vha sweule man Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
This guy put it clear that they only have special time for their kids and there is a lot on his wiife plate to do probably that make her feel exhausted.Lastly on weekends they go to friends and their families at the time they have to use as special one to rectify things between them.
They sacrifice time they need for friends and relatives.
In the marriage you dont have to be someone else but a husband when you only want sex,you need to be next to your wiife each and every munite when you are at home,speaking to her,listening to what she says and give yourself time to touch her no matter that you dont or interested to sex by then just hold her so she will feel your absence when you not at home.
You bedroom will be hot if everyone is happy Ntate and when you say you want to see your friend she will say that friend of yours doesnt visit you,you go no where.
A man can not have rice his whole life, this DUDU girl has good advise but is making me sick with all her emotion! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Luv2kiss
Nyala O Nyele, tjeerrrrrrrr !!!! nna nka se nyale kampe ka swa ke mpša net so
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Ganthe wa ipona gore o mpša ........you are dog man (Niggar way ) ...............
O mpša ya mpša (Ka setšo) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@kataka
kgotso ntate
ke cho gore holiday e tla ba fa sebaka sa go buisana ka dintho, ho se na o pe ya ba kgoreletsang, le e na o matepe man monna o. haai Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
joelle
the lady wagafa kids that age are in bed by 8 , what is she doing at work thats making her so tired , that she cant give the poor man some loving .....get some outside brother , it does not eat pap Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
candilious
Sis Dudu i couldnot have said it better Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Bumboklaat
@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Chee ke se ke itse ha eba ke fahlile mmuso ka lehlabathe, thupa ha e otle fatshe e senna e otla mothong kgosi,ntwa e nehwe dintja di ebohole di e thibe e boele mora,ntwa ha e qathe mohatla e swabele ruri rona makwale re none.
Morena!
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Chee ke se ke itse ha eba ke fahlile mmuso ka lehlabathe, thupa ha e otle fatshe e senna e otla mothong kgosi,ntwa e nehwe dintja di ebohole di e thibe e boele mora,ntwa ha e qathe mohatla e swabele ruri rona makwale re none.
Morena!
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Lejapere wena o rata o nyefola batho ..................Don't ever say i'm a kid . Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwana
kataka
kgotso ntate
ke cho gore holiday e tla ba fa sebaka sa go buisana ka dintho, ho se na o pe ya ba kgoreletsang, le e na o matepe man monna o. haai
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Holidays are just like going to bedroom and if you go there unhappy I dont think doesnt worth it.
Lokisang ditaba pele le tsamaya le tlohele ho dula le matha metswalleng le lelokong.
Aia Bosso Bosso man, help her with the house chores,even if it means go anega diaparo ko lineng*mm Ba mo jisitse..naa ignore that.It will take weight off her shoulder, take the kids somewhere ba ye go bona di Tokoloshi or something.There r different forms of cheating, the one ur trying to choose is the worst it will always, i mean always will come around and bite u...like Trevor Noah's vernacular, @ that time u gonna cry and be saying Uuu don't bite meee.Skare ga ka go tjwetsa!
Ladies (Single)
When u date someone but not married yet for years - u'll hear most people saying...MO direle ngwana o tlo go nyala"....That is so wrong. Most man don't like kids so that will make things worse or some guys will say "NTIRELE ngwana to proof u'r love and that u can conceive"...That is also wrong!
When someone love u - he will marry u regardless of what.....Otherwise u will end up single with 3 kids because guys will make u their spem sample. They will use u to see if they can have kids and then leave you later. Open u'r eyes ladies. I know that we have a lot of kids out of wedlock and i will not judge anyone because we all have that in our families...and kids are a blessing from God mara God didn't bonk u to have kids...so don't misinterprete that pleaseeeee. If u are single with kids - love them like u r supposed to as a mother, they are really a blessing and bring life in ppl's life.....☺
wht can wek for me, might nt wek for you. relationships and marriges are diffrent.
but one thing for sure,cheating doesnt solve anything, it creates more problems in the marriage.
rather speak to ur wifey abt hw u feel,let ur feelings be known and try to come up with a solution
,because where im standing, this man sounds like he wants to justfy his cheating, cheating requires a
lot of energy and effort, apply tht energy,lust and effort into your marriage. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MGEEZ
This men is the reason why he and his w.i.fe are unhappy. He has looked outside his marriage to find happiness. Whilst I agree that sex is not everything; I do not believe that a husband should go to sleep without satisfying his w.i.fe sexually; unless as the bible says, the two have agreed not to have sex so as to give themselves to prayer and fasting. But this needs to be an agreement and both parties needs to know when the prayer and fasting is finishing off so that the couple should start with their sex life where they left off.
Problems emerge in all relationships and they are meant to be solved and not to break relationships. Having said that; his dishonesty is now grounds for his w.i.fe to divorce him if she finds out!!! Cheating is never a solution at all; because in all probabilities, a person whom you cheat with will also do the same to you when challenges emerge in the new relationship. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe-
Ga ate ka boya ,morwa -motlankana .......ga weeng banna . Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@kataka
ke a go utlwa ntate, fela ne ke nagana gore ga go na disturbance ba ka kgona go bua dintho ba iketlile, maar go na ke a go utlwa. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
LaVidaLoca
Help he with the kids or something, take some duties off her, so that she wont always be tired to have s*x with you.....
Try to create a balance and o tla bona she will appreciate it and meet you halfway.....
Cheating wont solve your issues , you and the Makhwapheni will probebly end up in the same situation.....
Grow up, and while you at it, grown balls to love, honour & cherish your w!fe dammit Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
Ladies (Married)
When a man marry you – he marries Nnyo ya gago. Just loose that Nnyo and u will see that no man will ever love you. Why do we want to make things difficult for us. It’s important that both parties are ready to have kids before falling pregnant. Take your time in u’r marriage and think abt the life-style adjustment that you will have to make. Ensure that you are both ready and as a woman you have more powers regarding when you want to conceive cause MONNA yena o tlo no eja Nnyo and wena o swanetse goba Itumeleng KUNE and catch those sperms otherwise u will be a preg woman who’s hubby is not happy abt even though he won’t tell u but at some point u’ll notice his behavior.
Gape banna ke di-mpša – ge ba hlohlonela ke Mapele, ba nyakka Nnyo and wena hlalefa mosad! and use some precautions. Efa monna Nnyo o butse mahlo.
MGEEZ
This men is the reason why he and his w.i.fe are unhappy. He has looked outside his marriage to find happiness
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I also think it's wrong of him to do what he did? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Luv2kiss
MORNACHIES
we saan waphapha ne, tsa mo sheba mmao ko tlase o tla bona mpša
K.uku.
yes le mahosha ka reka sunnyside its my home ground Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
@All
Can i tell u a secret...something that i'm not proud of abt my marriage but it works. Sometimes in lyf we have to take bad decisions to achieve positive results. We have to sacrifed at some point to make our lives easy....are you guys interested??? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Monate1
Ntate wee...try to massage her neh?? she's working very hard shame, and when you doing it.. use your tongue on her cockie.........very nice, it has to be at least 3 times a week. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Someone else is nyobbing her my brother, ufika ekamereni uzokhuluma ngama bhunu ases'panini? Bazomnyoba to come nice la ngaphandle uloku ukhuluma ngama BEE instead of faking inzwiri! Ukhathele very tired because they were nyobing her in a very unconfortable place emsebenzini!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwana
@kataka
ke a go utlwa ntate, fela ne ke nagana gore ga go na disturbance ba ka kgona go bua dintho ba iketlile, maar go na ke a go utlwa.
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E Tumza when we go on holidays is to enjoy the life and leave problems at home so let us sort them before we leave so they dont limit our happy time in resort/hotels or whatever.
Ke ne ke leka ho cho jwalo!
Ntate wee...try to massage her neh?? she's working very hard shame, and when you doing it.. use your tongue on her cockie.........very nice, it has to be at least 3 times a week.
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O a pota wena Monate1.
Ramatlhale
@KU.KU
Marry me pleeeeease!!!! Mara I don't like the dog part.
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Kil my hubby 1st - the we can talk...hahahahahahahaha Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwana
@kataka
point taken ntate.
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E ya ho kae point eo jwale?
Pipilicious
interested in what @Ku_ku?
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Interested in knowing some of the sacrifice i did/doing to keep the marriage going...hahahaha Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Someone else is nyobbing her my brother, ufika ekamereni uzokhuluma ngama bhunu ases'panini? Bazomnyoba to come nice la ngaphandle uloku ukhuluma ngama BEE instead of faking inzwiri! Ukhathele very tired because they were nyobing her in a very unconfortable place emsebenzini!!
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Honestly you not married neh Mtho'eng'nanqondo?
@NotAgain
Guys I really need help, I’ m having a sexual relationship with a woman 14 years older than me, I’m 7 years older than her first daughter and she does not have a problem with that. We agreed that we gonna stop as this because we’re scared that we might get attached to one another but the moment she calls me I know I’m gonna F.C.U.K her, the moment I get into her office we start undressing each other and we continue where we left off. I need to stop before I lose interest in my woman but the se is just too good.
How do I stop, please help
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Sugar mama monna stop it, its like selling ur soul to a devil wa manakanaka dimo, and this r scary stuff.I think ur problem might be money o matlhalela or something.Make enough money of ur own.
And u can have as many girls not ladies girls as u want. Then out of those girls you can choose a lady.I mean 1 lady who can be ur women, important!!!know when to stop, that time is this weekend. Skare ga ka go tjwetsa! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
eintlik hierso_____________ when do u work mara heeee!!! who benefits from this frivollity!! GO work maaan........and pay your debts!! be productive
KU`KU
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana
candilious
MommaC
nevus
Tonyoki_ minjani hosi ya mina.....mi pfukile xana?......
the rest go work please! yerrrrrrrr....i m tired reading ur crap comments Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Muwaweni
If you woman dont give you sex,masturbate in front of her.She'll feel jelous and give in.Atleast u wouldnt b cheating.Cheating is expensive very expensive Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
Ladies,
When a man wants chocolate box, u complain that it’s painful and wrong
When he wants a blow-job, you say it’s disgusting
When he wants a doggi-style, you say it’s for Makgosha
When he wants sex, you say he is forever demanding sex & u r tired, headache...
But u expect him to smile when he see you – for what???...Le ya gafa!
@KU.KU
Kil my hubby 1st - the we can talk...hahahahahahahaha
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Done.... I know some ANC moegoes am sure they can can organise some panga hitmen, just to make sure that if he lives then some organs will be separated from the body just to give me a chance anyway.....kikikikiki!!!
@zaco
eintlik hierso_____________ when do u work mara heeee!!! who benefits from this frivollity!! GO work maaan........and pay your debts!! be productive
KU`KU
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Another one wa go hlohlonela ke marete...nxaaa....it's not our fault that u work in a Pakistan blaket sho*p Report Abuse
@Muwaweni
If you woman dont give you sex,masturbate in front of her.She'll feel jelous and give in.Atleast u wouldnt b cheating.Cheating is expensive very expensive
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Boss............WTF?1?!!??!?!?!?!?!?!
Pipilicious
@Ku_ku fire away. I am all ears
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Hey my brother - gape one day hubby said to me that yena o nyakka go nyoba a different person than i am. So i asked him if he had anyone in mind so he said NOT YET but he just wanted a different Nnyo from my one. So - i ask him again gore when did he finish mine? He said he has tried finishing it but coudn't but he want to taste something different...I asked him if he wants a break...if he doesn't love me and he said...he loves me too much that's why he's telling me and not cheating...what he want is a DIFFERENT PUUSS not LOVE!
tjohhhhh...and u know what i did?
Someone else is nyobbing her my brother, ufika ekamereni uzokhuluma ngama bhunu ases'panini? Bazomnyoba to come nice la ngaphandle uloku ukhuluma ngama BEE instead of faking inzwiri! Ukhathele very tired because they were nyobing her in a very unconfortable place emsebenzini!!
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Honestly you not married neh Mtho'eng'nanqondo
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I'm happily married with a big nzwirid Zulu man, who faka i-speit in his ndunu,phuzing the mbiza/pot and futhas three days a week. When he tells me about stories like these. Ukuthi one of his friend's w#fe is doing this and that, I tell him its because his friend is not nyobing his w#fe properly!
One of his friend burnt another friend with acid last year because of this weak unfullfilling nyobing business. They were in a shebeen together and one friend excussed himself. The other friend followed him only to find out that the culprit was nyonyobing to his house. He got acid from the garage and found the two b#nking emuva kwama room. They were so shocked and while the culprit was struggling wearing his trousers, the guy poured acid on him. All this because he is good at drinking and pouring good nyobaring men with acid, than perfecting his nyobing skills.
If you cant nyoba, simple! Dont get married!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
Men want sexx and food that is all. I don't know what is so hard to understand about that. Give your man these things and u would be happy. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@kataka
@tumzangwana
@kataka
point taken ntate.
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E ya ho kae point eo jwale?
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@Mr.Chairman
Knock knock..
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why are you still knocking...you are in now!! (with a naija accent)...or you are knocking on somebody's heart!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
XHINOPHOBIA
YEY NINA YEKANI UKUKHULUMA NGOMAKGOSHA NGIBUYA E REHEB,YAZI NGINUKELWA IPENTI MANJE,HILBROW HERE ICOME,DIPLOMAT,ROYAL PARK,NIYANGI HALISA TJOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@zaco
eintlik hierso_____________ when do u work mara heeee!!! who benefits from this frivollity!! GO work maaan........and pay your debts!! be productive
KU`KU
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana
candilious
MommaC
nevus
Tonyoki_ minjani hosi ya mina.....mi pfukile xana?......
the rest go work please! yerrrrrrrr....i m tired reading ur crap comments
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@dre10
Men want sexx and food that is all. I don't know what is so hard to understand about that. Give your man these things and u would be happy.
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Can it be good and fullfiling for the rest of it TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
EpidemicOf_pain
Whoever said that love revolves around sex? Don't be a pervert, there are so many married men who don't get it la ngaphandle, if you want it so bad, confront your wi.fe, and don't be a coward and run away! Idiot! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
Bathong ku_ku where are you nou????
@Complaining ppl why are you here to begin with??????? BUZZ OFF Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@tumzangwana
hi pfukile nwana mbava, hi tlhela hi pfukeriwa ...ho vona valavo tsonana tibanana na majomela!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
imd
Yes, if u are willing as partners to explore different sexuual options. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@Tonyoki
@tumzangwana
hi pfukile nwana mbava, hi tlhela hi pfukeriwa ...ho vona valavo tsonana tibanana na majomela!!
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huh?
i dont understand a word you are saying. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
KU.KU
imd
Bathong ku_ku where are you nou????
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i am here hun....☺
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your pervert woman! whor3............. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
UJola ubuya emsebenzini aqonde erumini afike angene ezingubeni aqhube umcimbi, yakugqiba iye ekitchen ifike umkayo egobe efrijini
uJola- haybo nkosikaz sowlapha siqeda nje ucansi? Umfazi Oh My Word! Ngumama wam lowa ulele erumini ufike ediniwe wayokulala, Aleqe kumama wakhe mama mama why didn't u say something?
Umamakhe- Uyayazi mna nomyeni wakho asithethisani iminyaka bendingazoqala namhlanje ukumthethisa!!
Tonyoki
@tumzangwana
u hlamarisiwa hi yini? i ntumbuluko ku tsaka ka swirho swa xinuna...
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Mo byele n'wana mdala ....Swilo swa enhleka la pfutomini .muhnu e kho dha maragu. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Eraser
ku.ku e one le yona mara haai ya tlapela..sometimes one has to sneak out and bang a different one..
I organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
But you right if you usually forget that you married,took it next to you for the rest of yours days,there will be someone helping you to hit it.
You have to smack it very much! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
tumzangwana
@Tonyoki
i dont understand a word you are saying
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eishh yaa ne! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
@zaco Boy Boy Boy Boy ........................... Number 1.
u dont want me to tell u how bad it can get forr you so pliz before u say things
I dont even think you have a clue of BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FLIPPIN GET A MIRROR ................ Bokorosh! NXA! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Onu
I found the editor's and most of ur comments not practical at all. Only married ppl will understand what he is going thru. We all know that most ppl cheat when/if they want to and in most cases its nt even abt problems at home, its jst fun and lust. I'm not in any way condoning cheating BT that life ppl. One woman cant satify a man. I've been married for 11 yrs as well and I dont make an issue of my hubbys fri beez...coz they are jst that...Actually i dont understand why this man wrote to Dudu..Men do these things as long as he is responsible at home, modest abt his cheating and use protection.. The only problem is that I'm not of my reaction of I can catch him.As a w.i.fe whatevea ayenza beyond ur dorstep is none of ur business Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana
@MORNACHIES
masepa a go neh?
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En nou ,why o nroga ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
MORNACHIES
@Kukuu
Ke kgopela go bolela le wena ?
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Okay - hola me at - kukuyagago@yahoo.com Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
@Zaco you bluddy Shanggyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NXA ........... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@zaco
hosi....... mi hlamarisa vhanu! phela machangana ma tiveka hi timbulambula to cela switwakala swinene!!! hahahaha
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ni we hi xikosi hi ku hleka...mbulambula yi kona, loko kuri na lava lavaku ku yi va hokonyola...ava yi ntithi
@tumzangwana
all i said was...i like your cyber personality
@mornachies
Impressed at your language skills...you are a good example Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
Ku,ku Rule's the world.
ask Adam
ask Samson
ask Hitler
ask king Shaka
ask Mandela.
hahaha..Mandela managed to be ge moered in Jail for 27 years and still did not give up fighting for freedom...HEY!! mara when he found out that there was someone sleeping in his Bed.
hahaha he could not managed to stay in his marriege and fight for what is right...lol
just coz i dont understand shangaan o nagana gore ga ke utlwe gore la nthoga mo? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
@Ku-Ku yho so would it have worked the other way around is my question ??? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
imd
@Zaco you bluddy Shanggyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NXA
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hey whatz upp....i speak almost 8 S.A languages...
why...are u dissapointed or.... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@zaco
wena o ska tlo iketsa betere ka o u bua seshangaan. e mashi ga e itsale nnana, you are trying too hard to be go@tsperm, but you keep falling flat on your @rse. shame. but dont stop trying, i dont know if you will get there though. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Fergie
Give this woman a hand, wash the dishes, do laundry, bath the kids, just help her out and cook dinner together if you have to, you'll see, she won't be tired to give it to you all night.... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
@zaco
Buzz Off................!!!!!! you Talk too much for a man ! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
imd
Yes - we have an agreement that if any of us want to bonk outside - we do it but funny enough i have never wanted to bonk anyone...but he seem to be doing it more...and we also agreed that everytime he does that i must approve the person...obviosly i don't meet her but we make sure that i know more abt her and we agreed that we don't build a relationship with them...only SEX...NO STRING ATTCAHED. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
Tonyoki
@tumzangwana
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wow....i xilungu xexo.!!......thats why they say shangaans are masters of romance., tsonga men are very romantic for sure....mmmmhhhh! leromana
Yeah, the truth is if you can't fcuk don't get married! Labo masheshe bechame laba, nemitho*ndo ewayo. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell
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what must we do? you females are more than us and again there are some males who are scoring own goals(gays)
so must we be selfish to other single females? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
tumzangwana
@zaco
wena o ska tlo iketsa betere ka o u bua seshangaan. e mashi ga e itsale nnana, you are trying too hard to be go@tsperm, but you keep falling flat on your @rse. shame. but dont stop trying, i dont know if you will get there though.
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hahahaha.....wa gafa,,,,,,! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
imd
@zaco
Buzz Off................!!!!!! you Talk too much for a man !
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fsfsfsfsfsfsfsfsfsfsf............ Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
imd
@full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell
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Tell these lousy talkers!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Eraser
@full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell
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y lona le khotlella if our things r exhausting..nna we can't..so since u guys can khotlellang as usual and leave us alone.. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JUBJUB
full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.
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Yeah i think they need to hear this cause there are too many different ones... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Luv2kiss
MORNACHIES
Wanyaa saan o bolawa ke lerete onyaka go bolelang le KUKÜ Report Abuse
KUKÜ weeeee !!! nke o botse basadi ba gore ba tlogele go retima marago please Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana
@MORNACHIES
just coz i dont understand shangaan o nagana gore ga ke utlwe gore la nthoga mo?
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Nne ke sa go roge ,nne ke re o spalapala ,o bjalo ka dinaledi and go wena motho a ka
hwetsa borutho ..............It just like ge kere Nyovi ya wee >just means --You are more
beautifull like nothing on earth ......... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
tumzangwana
@zaco
ke go shebile neh?
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why o ntshebile.....? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Motabolapasa
@JUBJUB
full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.
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Yeah i think they need to hear this cause there are too many different ones...
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kgaale o le maahloadibona, o di tseba ka mehuta ya tšona Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@Zaco
wow....i xilungu xexo.!!......thats why they say shangaans are masters of romance., tsonga men are very romantic for sure....mmmmhhhh! leromana
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I am flattered!! ofcourse... there is no family/love if a couple is not getting down to some sweaty sexual session...mina ni specialist ka swa masango!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@MORNACHIES
askies neh? phela ne ke utlwa fela o kare ke a rogiwa mo. phela ka na lo na le stout. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
Tonyoki
'~mina ni specialist ka swa masango!!
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heyyy! yhaaa ne....ndzi byeleni ke: erectile dysfuction mi yipfuna-pfuna hi yini, eish vavanuna vo tala hi hlupha hi yona........Dr..Romance
askies neh? phela ne ke utlwa fela o kare ke a rogiwa mo. phela ka na lo na le stout.
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Nka se ke ka go roga nna never ....You must learn this languages .here's a tip :
O nuka hiko o nyofhi (You are more like stars in the desert ) .
wa itse ke eng ne, this whole thing was just a misunderstanding from my part. ne ke nagana gore phela se tse ke rogiwa ka seshangaan. thousand apologies my brother. didnt mean to offend you. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Monate1
Hey, admin...do you want me to comment or not, it seems as if you reject everything moss........how!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
why o kare dilo di tla kgaanya mchana ka tebello ya mahlo Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Onu
@KU.KU
Tell me something ladies your comments on this blog are they for real or are you just entertaining us?
Because if they are for real, I would suggest you start some sort of real society for women in general be it an exclusive blog, websit3, hold national symposiums just to inform your fellow women.
For centuries it's been common knowledge that men chase women regardless of their marital status but these western ideologies & standards try to confine us to one ku.ku, hence they even dubbed the the practice as cheating to make it sound wrong & immoral.
How many of you have been to an african get together and you find that your great mkhulu had 3 or 4 wives & guess what they were all happy even their descendants; now some european idiot has hammered it into your head that it's wrong so you go around causing evryone unhappines & distress about how unfaithful your partner is, simple you find out he/she is cheating attend to the matter, outline your needs & address them in a safe, controlled & mutually acceptable environment!!!! Then everyone is happy. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JUBJUB
Motabolapasa
@JUBJUB
full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.
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Yeah i think they need to hear this cause there are too many different ones...
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kgaale o le maahloadibona, o di tseba ka mehuta ya tšona
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Yah right maatlholadibona my foot,le nagana gore ke lona fela le leng diclever mxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxm Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@MORNACHIES
ke a utlwa abuti, phela nna ga ke rate go ntse ke lwana le batho ka ntho tse snaaks. hope we can put this behind us neh? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
tumzangwana
@zaco
wa itse ke eng ne, this whole thing was just a misunderstanding from my part. ne ke nagana gore phela se tse ke rogiwa ka seshangaan. thousand apologies my brother. didnt mean to offend you. =======================
eishhh yhaaa ne! first time i hear a lady apologising to me.....dont worry water on duck's back. let bygones be bygones.
answer me then: tumzangwana
@zaco
ke go shebile neh?
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why o ntshebile.....?
Monate1
Hey, admin...do you want me to comment or not, it seems as if you reject everything moss........how!!!
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ba go laile......hahahahaha ! u wanted to speak vulgar Report Abuse
Mara banna ke dimpya, it's like they're all programmed with the same mindset. I am in a relationship and when i don't feel like it, i don't and i won't even pretend. My man understands and i'm happy with tht. But i guess marriage it's a different story. Although you guys should have took time to know each other way before u got married. Bt i pray to God that he helps me and my bf understand and love each other. Re tlogele go controlla ke nama (flesh) coz ul go 6 feet under ground b4 ur time. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
tumzangwana
@zaco
ge o bona fela o ka bona ke shebileng mo wena? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
sonki
i hope i can get help here, im a 27yrs lady, working, i been with 3 boys ever since i started dating basically my question to u all especially women/bisexuals and lesbis is: i dont feel boys like i feel woman , i hope u ll get what i mean. so i ve been very curious to know what is like being with a woman, the feeling is just too much, my problem is wher do i start how do i face this, please help guys, my email add is lerato.lentswe@gmail.com.
i ll be out will be back in an hour to check ur comments
@Luv2kiss
Basad! Ba le tima marago then complain again that men are not faithful – but they know very well that Kwai ga e je Pap en vleis – e ja legazi....
i nominate @Kuk'u' to be our Madam speaker to our women,she knows how to treat a man.
Dudu please submit your resignation letter to Sowetan asemblief somaar vandag. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
tumzangwana
@zaco
ge o bona fela o ka bona ke shebileng mo wena?
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hahahaha! heyyy yhaaa ne.....i will not be intimidated....! have a great friday...enjoy weekent,
ne ke sa tsebe gore, go tseba tše ngaata o fetoga clever, Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
i NOMINATE KU,KU FOR MAMPARA OF THE WEEK..... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zaco
Morutii bua leshano hee bible e re monna ena a etse jwang ha ditaba di le ka mokgwa oo? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
matzzzzz
KU'KU
Imd
I organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
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aaah aah ...how long hv u been married?..ku'ku maaka maaka...yesses id go crazeeeeee Report Abuse
I couldn't have said it better. I think i'll have to get married to someone who'll let me get married to another woman at one stage. that way i won't be cheating and i'll be saving another woman from being single for the rest of her life while men use her like a soccer ball.
some religions allow it and i think it's for the best.
@Ramatlhale
Nna ke bolela taba straight – at first i was shocked when he told me gore he is tired go ja NNYO yaka feela & pelo yaka e be e le bohloko but then i took it as a challenge & we made that agreement that it should happen to both parties. Anyone who want to bonk outside must do it on conditions that we are both extremely playing safe and the other party must approve. I have approved most of his applications and declined few so far...and we did a lot of 3-Sums and Swings but not full swing...just bonging as couples while another couple is watching and in the same room also bonking. It’s very nice hey....we are both happy now and we don’t do any relationships...just bonking and wallahh
MORNACHIES
@Kukuu
Ke kgopela gore re bolele go na mo Setšabeng se ,a ke bereke ka di privacy babes .
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Okay - i'm all ears hun...i'm listening.... Report Abuse
zaco
i NOMINATE KU,KU FOR MAMPARA OF THE WEEK.....
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they fvcked your wyf before you became a blogger, now you hear @kuk'u' correct comments about how you must fvck your wyf, your wyf is gone already just stick to your mogosha's and you are a good customer. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
KU.KU
MORNACHIES
@Kukuu
Ke kgopela gore re bolele go na mo Setšabeng se ,a ke bereke ka di privacy babes .
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Okay - i'm all ears hun...i'm listening....
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Ke kgopela goba Toy boi ya gago ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
RobinH
most of us men, when we cannot get it in the house - we go look for it outside - SPEAK FOR YOURSELF PLEASE. Do not drag all men into your situation.
With a few exceptions it is quite an eye-opener to see the maturity level displayed here. I'm amazed so many made it past kindergarten. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
matzzzzz
ku'ku - lmao u whath too much of porn movies doll..ska hlalefetja bana ba bangwe Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
matzzzzz
ku'ku - lmao u watch too much of porn movies doll..ska hlalefetja bana ba bangwe Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Lenyeloi
Shame o tlwaela batho blind, o jele rebound ya hao and it felt good. O guilty and o bona the best way ele ho tla ka story? It never last mejolo e yako nntle. O tlo hurtha batho mara wena it is going double the pain. Carry on do your thing le makhwapheni wa hao. Satane 80/20 rule apply it! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Luv2kiss
KUKÜ
Nna ke senyale for 1 reason, The woman i have cheated on me, she did chocolate box with this guy, and nna when i wanted she told me no , the other day she came home looking miserable i asked she said she not ok nje, she went to the bathroom n made a call to her friend i heard her saying " chomi Paul onnyobile motete today and go bohloko " nagana fela Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Eraser
@KU'KU
Imd
I organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
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aaah aah ...how long hv u been married?..ku'ku maaka maaka...yesses id go crazeeeeee
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vele she is lying...woman never? you guys even get jeolouse whn we chat to there woman...
@KU.KU
Ke rile ge ke bona comments dire 219, ka tseba gore o gona.
When are you launching these series tsa sex by the way?ke lebetse date yela ya gona.
Wa bona ye launch e batla ke e rekela outfit e special (mini dress). Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Sir.JT
@sonki
i hope i can get help here, im a 27yrs lady, working, i been with 3 boys ever since i started dating basically my question to u all especially women/bisexuals and lesbis is: i dont feel boys like i feel woman , i hope u ll get what i mean. so i ve been very curious to know what is like being with a woman, the feeling is just too much, my problem is wher do i start how do i face this, please help guys, my email add is lerato.lentswe@gmail.com.
i ll be out will be back in an hour to check ur comments
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what the hell are you saying?
Men are crying that they want pussies here and u busy after women?
Selfish b!tch! nxa Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
Luv2kiss
KUKÜ
Nna ke senyale for 1 reason, The woman i have cheated on me, she did chocolate box with this guy, and nna when i wanted she told me no , the other day she came home looking miserable i asked she said she not ok nje, she went to the bathroom n made a call to her friend i heard her saying " chomi Paul onnyobile motete today and go bohloko " nagana fela
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mmhhmmmhhm...c.c.c Askies maan. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
My fellow male species....when will we ever grow up.....hey dude, why do you write to a woman expecting her to sugar coat your stupidity......get your sh*t in order and be a MAN....stop being such a wuss and take charge of your marriage and lead your w*ife......your w*ife is waiting on you as her MAN to re-ignite that lost spark in your marriage......leave that other married woman the f.u.c.k alone before another man bonks your w*ife bcos of your idiotic behavior......start appreciating ur woman - lead your marriage - take control - be supportive - attentive and interested in your w*ife...make her feel wanted & needed in your life and tell her you love her for goodness sake.....kiss your w*ife in front of the kids, so that they can see your love & affection for their mother.....stop your sh*t and be a f.u.c.k.i.ng MAN.....if you dont wana be.....i'll gladly be that MAN for your lonely & vulnerable w*ife....men like you make it so easy for us to get any woman we want......while you continue to do what you are currently doing...real MEN observe your relationship and do the total opposite and bonk your w*ife with a great deal of pleasure....so start taking action dude, before you have real problems on your hands....*peace* Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Only one thing that makes a womann happy is ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,ntho! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
@Candyboy
when you Enter here you dont type a bible story here,,virstan jy my?
1 sentence is ok Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
sonki
i hope the name u wrote in that e-mail does not belong to someone u hatee. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@k!uku
your story is amazing!! How is that possible? Unless if your husband is the f@ck in town that you can allow him to bonk other women. It is a very open relationship indeed. I adore the 3 and 4 sums you have ---can i join you...you can have your husband and me at the same time...imagine the joy of holding two joysticks! Report Abuse
Morutii bua leshano hee bible e re monna ena a etse jwang ha ditaba di le ka mokgwa oo?
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morena___ help her around the house, sometimes do all her choice let her relax. take her out is she is that kind...take kids to gogo,,,get her in a mood u know!!! if nothing works the escalate the issue to the specialists. or PAstors or Bagolo......
get my point,,,no excuse for infidelity...i am sorry! absolutely no...dont listen to the Ku.Ku girl she is the destroyer Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
pierre2000
@ K.UKU
You know most ppl (gals) wnats to get married – especially from their mid 20’s up...due to pressure from the family, peers and all that. If you are NOT ready for marriage then don’t. Just because your friend is married doesn’t mean that u must also get married – marriage is a blessing but once u make it a materialistics then you won’t be happy.
I say people rather be Single than be divorced or Unhappily married – That is not PAP ‘N VLEIS. You must be committed and be ready for challenges because there’s a lot of them.
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You are right my sister. Marriage is a big challenge and needs commitment. Pipo shouldn't just go into it just for a ring.But it also requires luck. One person may be gud and honest, yet the other one is a cheater, liar, etc. Communication is very vital and honest discussion.
men like this just get me going bra....cos now MEN like us also have to do their jobs of satisfying their woman.....i also need a break bru.....i'm just human after all....he he he he he Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
@Pipilicious
I organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
@EKapa
hahahaha - U r kiling me....thanks for the nominations...sister DUDU must Take a retirement so that the likes fo bo-KUKUU must take over with the new generations......
Kwaaaaakwaaaakwaaa.....(faling of my chair...with my red G-string ya go nkga sta-soft)
saaani! re seke ra tlwaelana.....asseblief Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Luv2kiss
Women are very stupid
mosad! a ka khahlwa ke gore monna o apara desinger shoe$ nagana nje, antshe nnyo fela bcoz monna onkga monate, or a rate motho bcoz dis guy o nale lebelo o mutlwe a botsa di chomi tsage are "dai man kan haarkloop " nxaa basadi Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Sir.JT
@KU.KU
Most people tend to forget that you & your partners happiness doesn't have to conform to certain standards in order to be classified as acceptable, those very standards were set by people who were comfotable with whatever circumstances they were in at the time. I mean we are not pets in a zoo where you are told how,where & when to take a p!ss, or they somaar just pick mating partner for you.
The beauty of being human is that you have different needs, a forever innovative mind, which you can choose to control or let someone else determine exactly how far can your intellectual capabilities go & what's acceptable as normal in your very own life or should I say world.
So I say screw the norm, my partner has caught me out a couple of times but because she couldn't keep up, now if I have something up my sleeve I just teel her not come to my house & she knows what I mean though we agreed that I won't do anyone below her standards or mabhencane or her friends. We don't talk about it because I give her all my love she just simply cannot meet my sexual demands & we are happy!!! Report Abuse
@Ku.ku
..(faling of my chair...with my red G-string ya go nkga sta-soft)
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looooool hehehehe.......(dead) kikikiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Sir.JT
@Ku.Ku
@All
I doubt if Ku.Ku is a woman... just look at His/Her comments people.
be it though as it may i think it's very dangerous and irresponsible for someone to let their partners have sex with other people. I'll assume that u'll justify it by saying he's using protection and blah blah but we all know what happens or wat will happen if the condom accidentally burst. *Sh!t! u won't stop*.
and now that u didn't mention that you taking any of those chicks u giving ur man to any blood tests, I suggest that you go yourself. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
@EKapa
hahahaha - U r kiling me....thanks for the nominations...sister DUDU must Take a retirement so that the likes fo bo-KUKUU must take over with the new generations......
Kwaaaaakwaaaakwaaa.....(faling of my chair...with my red G-string ya go nkga sta-soft)
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i will only reply on you, i will ignore the other majita, your G-string smell good e nkga rajah..lol
@MORNACHIES ola saaani die ntsang my laitie? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
thembag0206
There number of sexless marriage is growing,and both partners are having affairs,i wonder what had become of this instution called marriage.Is it people got into marriage for wrong reason? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
@ pierre2000
Very true hun – most ladies take marriage like a competition...if u’r enemy is married then le wena u put u’r man to put a ring on u’r finger. It’s wrong!
@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
Sir.JT
GOOD ANALYSIS....well done! all perverts will refute u.....watch the space Report Abuse
nna my great-great granny ( African Shero I may add) had two husbands, I am following suit , bring the old practice back in our family. One soft member ya tlapela stru. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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i dont do that sh!t...hahaha..500ml bottle, i just do what god asked me to do to raise the nation. chocolate box its for own goals guys(gays) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
Sir.JT
@Ku.Ku
@All
I doubt if Ku.Ku is a woman... just look at His/Her comments people
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Brother – doubt what u want to doubt, people have asscociated me with many people with different characters some claiming to know me and all that. If a man wants to cheat – you can not stop him...so i’d rather let my hubby have a one SAFE one night stand which i have approved rather than my man building a relationship with some woman and then have unprotected sex which will ruin my life and who knows what else they will do cause they use muti.
a kere mchana wa e gata motho a feeta ka seTsonga Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
full.lips
nna my great-great granny ( African Shero I may add) had two husbands, I am following suit , bring the old practice back in our family. One soft member ya tlapela stru.
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tjo! your granny, i can imagine your grand fathers following her just like dogs in thier mating season..lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
TKay
@NotAgain
Your turn will come next week wena...we are helping this married dude today Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
Tonyoki
@k!uku
your story is amazing!! How is that possible? Unless if your husband is the f@ck in town that you can allow him to bonk other women. It is a very open relationship indeed. I adore the 3 and 4 sums you have ---can i join you...you can have your husband and me at the same time...imagine the joy of holding two joysticks!
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Nna ke robale le wena.....kwaaaakwaaa...Try next door.... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@kIuku
your husband is vrey luck to have you. I agree that men generally cheat for all sorts of reasons!! You have a plan there...if it is working for you -- do it. As for you not being a woman, i think it is sheer nosense!! I can feel you sister Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@kuk!u
Nna ke robale le wena.....kwaaaakwaaa...Try next door....
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u chava mbolo naa? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
What i enjoy most is watching hubby bonking another chick while i squeeze him balls with a nice cream.....eish mara Manyobisto a monate tjo. Imagine how boring life would be if we didn’t have Manyobisto....
Ke duma kwai...mmhhhh....”mom...is it rajah....”
@Gals
I know that most of you would like to have a 3-Sum, you fantasies abt being two gals bonked by one guy...so there's nothing wrong abt fantasizing but why not put u'r fantasy into real????
(USE A CD) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zaco
Taking her out will sort everything although most know that for a womann happiness mostly comes from the bedroom.
O morutii wa leshano papa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you cannt do your work properly in the bedroom pastors and specialists wont help and they will better do the task for you because your weakness will be exposed to other men.
O morutii wa tsotsi ntate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mosad! a ka khahlwa ke gore monna o apara desinger shoe$ nagana nje, antshe nnyo fela bcoz monna onkga monate, or a rate motho bcoz dis guy o nale lebelo o mutlwe a botsa di chomi tsage are "dai man kan haarkloop
Bhwaahahahahahahahah kikikikikikikikik My bra thats a killer Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Bumboklaat
Dear DUDU(K.UKU)
I need your help with the situation I find myself in, I have been with this girl for a couple of months and I think I love her very much(sic). She is young and pretty! Mara bothata baka kegore ge ke mo dira foreplay ga a nyake o mpotsa gore o "uncomfortable" so nna ke tshwanetse keno e kenya ke fetse mara ya nkgobatsa kagore e omile! Ge kere kemo kgotla ka monwana kamo nnywaneng are nna ketlo mo lwadisa, ke lekile go thlaopa matsogo ka dettol le blue-death mara gwa tshwana ha nyake! Ke ire byang mara kagore lege kere ke jola kontle ake utlwe monate! Mpotse please K'UKU KE ireng! Report Abuse
Mr chair ... you are really sh****ting here!! Knock your b@ll....... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Onu
I've learnt it the hard way my brother, it was afta my mother told me abt her experiences with my father thou they've bn together for 36yrs. I luk up to them a lot, hanging around with men in most cases. I told my self ukuba I'm his w.i.fe and no other woman can make me think otherwise. I do have my moments of "tiredness* as well as expected with women of my age. I'm no longer at my peak s.e.xually perhaps things myt change afta 40... U know what, some other mzalwane girl dont tok to me anymore coz i told her that she musnt get married if she thinks that her man wont cheat when he wants, apparently she thinks that i'm cursing her.... No matter how fri, educated, rich we are, we as black women, are groomed and exposed to diiferent way of being a married woman and WE turn to forget that hey! sad bt ture. The sooner we accept that the beta...If we can get the basic ryt, we will be able to over come most challenges.
my previous comment is responding to Ramatlale Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
pierre2000
@ K.UKU
@ pierre2000
Very true hun – most ladies take marriage like a competition...if u’r enemy is married then le wena u put u’r man to put a ring on u’r finger. It’s wrong!
@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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"chocolate box" go tewa eng?? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
@Onu-
wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand them Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JUBJUB
KU.KU
@Gals
I know that most of you would like to have a 3-Sum, you fantasies abt being two gals bonked by one guy...so there's nothing wrong abt fantasizing but why not put u'r fantasy into real????
(USE A CD)
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Gal i dont think i'll do that ....never...nope Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
But serious guys, if it was the woman who wrote to sis Dudu complaing that the hubby is not giving her enough attention and she is looking outside , would you still be condoning this filfhy behaviour. most of you guys are saying the huy must bite the biscuit outside to revive the flames.....LOL. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zaco
eishh__ u know what this kinda topics i avoid them because there is lots of twisted mindsets that begin to delude people into more perversion hence my avoidance....
dintho tse boiwang mo, its nothing but oral pornographic crap....u choose! ntate maoto...
this generation call good evil, and evil good..........morutiwa mmaka has spoken
Bumboklaat
Dear DUDU(K.UKU)
I need your help with the situation I find myself in, I have been with this girl for a couple of months and I think I love her very much(sic). She is young and pretty! Mara bothata baka kegore ge ke mo dira foreplay ga a nyake o mpotsa gore o "uncomfortable" so nna ke tshwanetse keno e kenya ke fetse mara ya nkgobatsa kagore e omile! Ge kere kemo kgotla ka monwana kamo nnywaneng are nna ketlo mo lwadisa, ke lekile go thlaopa matsogo ka dettol le blue-death mara gwa tshwana ha nyake! Ke ire byang mara kagore lege kere ke jola kontle ake utlwe monate! Mpotse please K'UKU KE ireng!
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If her virgina is too dry & ya go gobatsa then u can bu.y some creams to make it smoother but how can u have sex without foreplay.
Maybe le wena o na le menwana ya di-pikiri, why is she not feeling comfortable with u’r fingers in her Nnyo.....kanthe wena o bereka go aga di-RDP ka menwana ya go ruruga? hahahahaha
@Ku!ku
you are getting me all worked up for nothing...how can you share such luscious stories and you do not want me to swing with you and your husband...i can bring my own woman and we do a four-some phela, that makes my male hormones run wild!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
hahaha Hard labour fingers with no finger prints Report Abuse
Tonyoki
Bring u'r woman...and bonk her while i watch....hahahaha.... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
@pierre2000
@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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"chocolate box" go tewa eng??
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some guys do only Rainbow chicken style,
but ask any Gay here i can tell you who you may ask Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Defcon
Ke January boss:Advice get your finaces right and your sex drive will come back.
eishh__ u know what this kinda topics i avoid them because there is lots of twisted mindsets that begin to delude people into more perversion hence my avoidance....
dintho tse boiwang mo, its nothing but oral pornographic crap....u choose! ntate maoto...
this generation call good evil, and evil good..........morutiwa mmaka has spoken
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Kakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakak LOL big time:P
wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand them
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Heheheheheheheheheheehe....abo gogo abathanda isitayele lmao!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Buys
Onu@ Humorous comment’ But, I credit you for the information provided!! But, would like to ask: How old are you? Report Abuse
eishh__ u know what this kinda topics i avoid them because there is lots of twisted mindsets that begin to delude people into more perversion hence my avoidance....
dintho tse boiwang mo, its nothing but oral pornographic crap....u choose! ntate maoto...
this generation call good evil, and evil good..........morutiwa mmaka has spoken
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Kakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakak LOL big time:P
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then what....o tshega eng???..........bofebe is number 1...that's why re bolawa ke AIDS so...nxa maan! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JUBJUB
@Ku.Ku- I dont like watching mapona a ba.sadi ba bang.....& even worse my hubby busy with them hahahaa hai no no Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KUKU
@All,
Knocking off soon - nna ke bereka MAKGOWA not u guys working in Pakistan blanket sh*ps.
hola me at kukuyagago@yahoo.com
Haaa mara why o ntshega? phela matsogo aka a smooth okare lerago la ngwana, kere ngwanyana o ha nyake selo kamo kukung ya gae. The other day ore eish wa nkgobatsa kgante ao utlwe gore ke omile? and I said o omile kagore ao nyake foreplay gore o thape and she said I don't want menwana in my nnywana then I said so what is going to thapisa that nnywana ge osa nyake selo kamo gare ga yona. I even offered go apara di sterilised surgical gloves but she wouldn't hear it! Ngwanyana o ona le bothata ke sure! So nna ketlo thlabela pele ke nyake nnyo e nngwe! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@KU.KU
@All,
Knocking off soon - nna ke bereka MAKGOWA not u guys working in Pakistan blanket sh*ps.
hola me at kukuyagago@yahoo.com
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E kaka o rata ntho tse monate neh.
@K*UKU
U gonna cause allot of men on here to call their woman by the name K*UKU when they gonna be bonking tonight.....kikikikikikikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
zaco
KU.KU
@All,
Knocking off soon - nna ke bereka MAKGOWA not u guys working in Pakistan blanket sh*ps.
hola me at kukuyagago@yahoo.com
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TFG....byebye Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Bumboklaat
K.UKU
Don't go please! ketlao patela overtime! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Tonyoki
@Ku!ku
Bring u'r woman...and bonk her while i watch....hahahaha....
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it is a deal then, i am down for the offer...it will happen soon... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Buys
27 Jan 2012eKapa
@Onu-
wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand
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wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand
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Who the hell is Satan??
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good question..Satan is Hell Master Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
o ko nntshwaare moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
LEEZO
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some guys do only Rainbow chicken style,
but ask any Gay here i can tell you who you may ask
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whats Rainbow chicken style?
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lay on you back,lift up your knees,open your thighs wide,lift up your hands like a boxer Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Gamamabolo
I have a problem with the way this guy talks. Why does he use the word "SEEMS" like someone watching from a distant. This is a make up story. I suspect the writer is writing about his friend' situation in marriage. He is watching the situation from a distance. If it was him in the situation, he would say we always argue,we dont agree,etc. Otherwise,the woman must be having a position of power in the house, that is why he cannot tackle his family matters headon. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Buys
eKAPA@ There’s NO! Such kak!! I usually listen to people saying Satan made me do it’ well..... If that was the case, almost all Criminals would be set out!! I believe people make their own preference from a large sum of alternatives.... Its all about “CHOICE”. This Guys decided to Cheat on his wif, its a choice that he alone made. I would believe you if you say to me; Satan is a ‘bad choice’......... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
he already has an affair (like a proper coward he is) maybe this marriage deserves to end, cause his wf3 deserves to have a man, who is supportive and is a friend, not someone who dashes off and grabs a mistress at the first sign of problem without thinking about consequences of his actions not only on the marriage but to his children, when that marriage has to succumb to this affair which he has, I feel sorry for his wif3 cause she deserve much more than this. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
o ko nntshwaare moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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Checka inbox warra .... Report Abuse
and you will find that he contributes nothing at home iro chores and his wif3 has to be all that, so where on earth is she suppose to get energy to provide exciting and interesting sex to the husband to prevent him from fornicating with other morally bankrupt females? ppl like this man and his married mistress whom he is fornicating with contributes to reasons our health dept is succumbing under the weight of life style diseases such as Sexually Transmitted Diseases, and this makes me furious considering that vast majority of our meagre resources are wasted on self inflicted diseases. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
Sex and money makes the world go round. If they are not doing it, let them part and stop wasting each other's valuable time! There are many women out there ready to give it to the brother and she can continue with her boardroom meetings and visiting friends...first time i hear of a woman who does not like a good black d!ck! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa
niks
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Check it again .... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@somaartakeit
and you will find that he contributes nothing at home iro chores and his wif3 has to be all that, so where on earth is she suppose to get energy to provide exciting and interesting sex to the husband to prevent him from fornicating with other morally bankrupt females?
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A man is like an axe, more especially a man who is good sexually! just as axe can be borrowed by a neighbour to collect firewood so it is to the good man in bed. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
ooh, i'm in love with two men , yep i compare their sizes all the time.....woo wee !! Report Abuse
Motabolapasa
got it bitso
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But i don't understand man ...go back and make it simpler . Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Motabolapasa
@full.lips
mara they say size doesn't matter that much Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
o tšhabile sekolo wene straight biitso Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
full.lips
ooh, i'm in love with two men , yep i compare their sizes all the time.....woo wee !!
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Wa tseba sa le wa ntsepisha marago ? en nou wa o sa bue niks ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
o tšhabile sekolo wene straight biitso.
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Boela mola morena ,ke ny.aka o ntlalošetše botse ...No to robbery .
a re e tlogele mchana, bafana baa bo Nevus ba ka be be ba re tlwaela masepa Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@Motabolapasa
mara they say size doesn't matter that much
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As a prostitute, my V is no longer that tight...so i prefer men who can fill it up....but i must confess that there are men with shot guns who knows how to make a lady scream for more joy!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX I am not sure what sort of men your comment is related to, but I can assure you that real men don't' put sex above survival of their families and risk infecting their partners with std's, I am talking about men with self respect, cause you first have to have self respect in order to be able to respect your marriage vows and all that is entailed in it.
sex is lust, this you can find in every street corner (but there are consequences) you can check the aids stats in this country just for proof or visit our overflowing graveyards (a remind of lives lived in promiscuity), and other std related disease such as infertility etc, so a sensible and an educated partner would not want to subject his/her family to things like that so he/she can have instant self gratification.It also boils down to one's upbringing. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Hayi ke sharp ,statement sa gago nne sa tlaka botse ....ke go swere botse . Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@somaartakeit
I am a prostitute and i service a lot of married men, so i don't understand your sentimental comment. Maybe i am screwed up to see your point!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
somaartakeit
Good Afternoon.
i will be in East London Tomorrow, maybe i will bump to you at Hemmingways. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@ekapa
lay on you back,lift up your knees,open your thighs wide,lift up your hands like a boxer
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lol@lift up your hands like a boxer Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nevus
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
o ko nntshwaare marete moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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Checka inbox warra ....
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kikikikikiki love is in the air.kikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@dre10 LoL wouldn't that be just...lol you see if you plan to make a visit you should say it in advance to give ppl time to prepare and be ready for ya,
@JozibelXXX its not sentimental but a fact that some men have more morals and family than you give them credit for, and no I wouldn't call yours being screwed up you are providing a service (right/wrong depending on the moral side one stands on) to a demand, I think you are brave, cause really with so many diseases and psychopaths associated in this business, I hope you have insurance cause yours is a very risky business. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
sorry family VALUES it should read, my note to JozibelXXX Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@JozibelXXX
My sista what effective positions would you recommend when I am forced to give someone some serious pleasure but I don't necessrily have to enjoy the session and the less we get to look in each other's eyes the better but make no mistake she has to enjoy it.
Just to clarify for all the perverts so you don't get the wrong idea, there's a lady @ work who's making my life a living hell & she will stop @ nothing to ruin me just yesterday we were in the lift & she rang the alarm, later told my girlfriend's best friend that i had been groping her, all because I am avoiding her advances & to make matters worse she's being cheered on by three of my vindictive exes; so am trying to save my reputation before it gets a permanent address in the gutter here.
@Ramatlhale, so do you then think solution is to sleep with her? nci nci nci, why is it that men generally think with their d!cks? do they think its a magic stick? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@somaartakeit
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it is fun business (one get to know all types of men and all d!ck shapes and tastes!) at the same time make money. I am never broke and take good care of myself, i go to the gym and do check ups every now and then. I condomise. There is a very huge demand for my services, sometimes i see more than 10 men a night - most of them are married. I work at a high profile bordelo in an exclusive surburb. Like they say the more you use your V the sweeter it becomes! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
nevus
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa
@mornachies
o ko nntshwaare marete moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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Checka inbox warra ....
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kikikikikiki love is in the air.kikikikikikiki
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ja ne ............................................u are more than a trouble !! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Onu
Hahahaha Ekapa..am not 40 yet ..am 5 yrsw away thou...hence i said afta 40 things myt chage. I blogg to learn, explore and get to know what other ppl think. Sometime i get solutions/advices from the bloggers and trust me when I'm down....u guys nindikhupha istress Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@Ramatlhale,
@JozibelXXX
My sista what effective positions would you recommend when I am forced to give someone some serious pleasure but I don't necessrily have to enjoy the session and the less we get to look in each other's eyes the better but make no mistake she has to enjoy it.
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I am on the other side of the fence, i do things to please people. different strokes for different folks. The adventurous men usually ask me to do woman on top looking at them or the other way round. I enjoy that too. Others want it wide open or with me bending over and touching my toes and them coming from behind. I am not so educated to know how to teach you by writing text, but in real life i can teach you a thing or two!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@somaartakeit
This chick has invaded my private space big time, I tried being as upright & firm as possible but her most dangerous ammo is that she knows private things she is not supposed to know thanks to my exes, so I basically I need leverage & i figure since she's made her intentions clear about why she really out to get me I need to exploit that window of opportunity to get her most vulnerable moment.
If you think am wrong feel fre.e to suggest otherwise Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX good that you are having fun with your work (if I can call it that lol) but for me I would never place faith for my health (risks) on a plastic (condom) what if it breaks? what guarantee is there that you will not contract hiv and other stds? I ask out of curiosity cause I know no one who is in this business I only read about it and have to say I admire the courage of the girls in this industry considering all the risks involved and not to mention health and safety hazards which comes with their line of work, as for "the more you use your V the sweeter it becomes" is there a scientific evidence to support this claim? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
JozibelXXX
I am on the other side of the fence, i do things to please people. different strokes for different folks. The adventurous men usually ask me to do woman on top looking at them or the other way round. I enjoy that too. Others want it wide open or with me bending over and touching my toes and them coming from behind. I am not so educated to know how to teach you by writing text, but in real life i can teach you a thing or two!!
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I'll sign up for lessons only if they are discounted, on the basis that we'll both be teaching each other new tricks...Lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale so you think putting a d!ck in it is going to solve this problem?Is there an HR in your office? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
@JozibelXXX
How do i contact you.....i dont need ur service.....i want to satisfy and give u my services. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
sonki
seems like no one is willing to help me Report Abuse
@somaartakeit
the men i do business with confess my V is sweeter than honey and they tell me maybe it is because other men eat from the same plate. It is poverty my sister and not going to school, i have 3 children to support with no job, money or a source of income - what must i do. After knowing so many men sexually, i cannot maintain a husband, so i have to keep doing what i know and have come to enjoy! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
somaartakeit
i would like to visit u at your own preferred place. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
sonki
hope i can get help here, im a 27yrs lady, working, i been with 3 boys ever since i started dating basically my question to u all especially women/bisexuals and lesbis is: i dont feel boys like i feel woman , i hope u ll get what i mean. so i ve been very curious to know what is like being with a woman, the feeling is just too much, my problem is wher do i start how do i face this, please help guys, my email add is lerato.lentswe@gmail.com
i ll be out will be back in an hour to check ur comments Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@Ramatlhale
I'll sign up for lessons only if they are discounted, on the basis that we'll both be teaching each other new tricks...Lol
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i am ready for you now for a test drive! i am drooling @ teaching eaching other new tricks Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@somaartakeit
I would never place faith for my health (risks) on a plastic (condom) what if it breaks? what guarantee is there that you will not contract hiv and other stds?
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I had a condom break on me one time, the next day i went to the doctor xplained my situation & he prescribed me pills to take for a month I am not sure whether they were ARV's because I had to register as a chronic patient in order to get them(most embarrassing moment of my life) so long as you start taking them before the 72-hour timeline since the "break" has elapsed the you are good to go.
I guess they don't publicise this fact because the actual HIV patients would actually run out of medicine. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@candyboy
Is it that good? if so, i am tempted, i can never say no to a good D^ck Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
@sonki
please man......read all the comments from the men here...then u'll know what its like being with a woman.......! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Bumboklaat
@JozibelXXX
What are your rates? slambane sao tshwana lenna sekao afota? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
sonki
we don't trust u because u have written a person's name on that e-mail. We don't do that here. What if that person is not u. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXL
"the men i do business with confess my V is sweeter than honey " LoL how sweet!
it is a relief btw for me to know that yours is a choice and you are not forced into the business, cause often as a feminist I argue that women/girls are forced into prostitution, so this discussion I have with you is educational for me, so I thank you for that, and good luck with business:-) I do think though that the industry should be legalised so you guys can also pay tax and enjoy other benefits associated with 'legal business' establishments ie protection from the law from violence encountered in your industry. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Dikdonner
Sonike.... bloggers here say dump things but they are not really dump, monkey trick, snake techniques and ninja philosophy is a bad combination, on and off the game le yona "NO"
if you wanna be here be here an tell us how boring yor men are nad we will help u practically, maybe u are the boring one who knows.
ladies here they know theri story and how to do their men and other man....
what is this thing ya go fana ke di email le go tsebega o sa tsebegi,,,, nnyo ya go lapa Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Lets make this a "Nyobing Hard Weekend" and make sure that each one of us in this blogg give our partners at least eight rounds from tonight. Come back on Monday and tell us how is the love! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale "so long as you start taking them before the 72-hour timeline since the "break" has elapsed the you are good to go" for me personally I don't respond well to stress/anxiety, so possibility of breaking condom and I having to visit doctor/s to explain this embarrassing situation, who in the other hand is human like me, will start to judging me as an immoral person who is sleeping around depending how often I have to do these trips, not to mention cost of such to the tax payers, as I've said, this country wastes too much of its over expended resources on bad lifestyle diseases.
what kind of an adiot is this. i mean if you dont fxuck your wifee who will do the job?. the answer is === [gardenboy] he will fxuck her to the fullest and mind you [gardenboys] prefer flesh to flesh Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@Men
here is my email if you are keen on my services
jozibel176@gmail.com
@Bumboklaat
i offer professional services from massage to full house services, so the cost will depend on what the client has choosen from the menu. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Onu
@Ramathlale: Just to clarify for all the perverts so you don't get the wrong idea, there's a lady @ work who's making my life a living hell & she will stop @ nothing to ruin me just yesterday we were in the lift & she rang the alarm, later told my girlfriend's best friend that i had been groping her, all because I am avoiding her advances & to make matters worse she's being cheered on by three of my vindictive exes; so am trying to save my reputation before it gets a permanent address in the gutter here.
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I'm smelling fish the baba....be careful she doesnt scream r.a.p.e whil u r busy with her...
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Lets make this a "Nyobing Hard Weekend" and make sure that each one of us in this blogg give our partners at least eight rounds from tonight. Come back on Monday and tell us how is the love!
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If i do that i don't think i would able to get out of bed. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
@JozibelXXX
good d*ck will be the main dish my dear........i love to explore the whole anatomy of a lady before filling her up with my shaft and satisfying all her s3xual needs before mine......i feel your satisfaction needs to be put first, and i'm willing to do that for you….at no cost to you.
@rasefatee lol its really hard to be a man these days, competition is stiff *laughing* not only you have to watch over your mates but also garden boys? lol no wonder some men need constant supply of viagra cause with stress you guys must under, you sure do need a helping hand, lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@BASHANYANA
Bashanyana le diyathoteng di bapile,le dinonyana tsa lesiba le leng.Mekopu ting,hee le tala bashanyana!
A big black d*ck is the real deal, women of all races are vying for one.. Black men make me melt...the Ooh's & Aah's of that thing !!!!!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@somaartakeit
I've considered that yes, but should I take that route I run the risk having all my dirty laundry out in the open, man this witch is manipulative she knows how to work people & am not so much of a social, outgoing person.
This is more about my pride as a man & my reputation as a stand up guy who bows down to no-one.
@JozibelXXX
Exactly how do I get hold of you, this is now for my needs forget the bi.tch!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@Candyboy
@Ramathlale:
Here is my email: jozibel176@gmail.com please drop me mail for further arrangements
----i promise to make your weekend special, you guys make me want you the more Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
at katakaka you don't always have to show that you just fell off tree by wasting our i-net band-with by posting most stupid comment of the day and abusing your spacebar or return key, I know these toys are new to you and you are excited abt using them, but plse be modest:-) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
JozibelXXX
@Men
here is my email if you are keen on my services
jozibel176@gmail.com
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Do u want Sowetan to close this blog. Please this is not a marketing school place for Prostitutess. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
sonki
anyone who would like to help me pls contact me on my email lerato.lentswe@gmail.com, i cant go through your comments now
your opinion will be appreciated Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Noluntu
Its so easy hubby,just go & b.uy bo magosha & go back to your wi.fe......
Mara nna nka se go bolaise tlala o le wa ka monna.....ke tla go dira gore o lape stele Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale
@somaartakeit
I've considered that yes, but should I take that route I run the risk having all my dirty laundry out in the open, man this witch is manipulative she knows how to work people & am not so much of a social, outgoing person.
This is more about my pride as a man & my reputation as a stand up guy who bows down to no-one.
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it seems to me that you are making excuses to not solve this problem legally and professionally by involving HR, it seems the idea of d!cking is the option you want to use and if it is its your prerogative really cause its you who has to face consequences of your decisions or actions.
I don't know what kind of business of you are in, cause in a normal business place HR is usually manned by professional ppl ie in the process of resolving issues the focus is on FACTS which affects relations in the work place not gossip which someone else might hold against you, so therefore I see no reason for you to worry about your past and iro stuff you did outside work place and your private capacity, but hey dude do what you want that much is your choice and right. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Lets make this a "Nyobing Hard Weekend" and make sure that each one of us in this blogg give our partners at least eight rounds from tonight. Come back on Monday and tell us how is the love!
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If i do that i don't think i would able to get out of bed
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@Sonki-go to goboza.wen.ru they will help you Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
i have to think of my back. I can't do it like a rabbit, i am no longer 21. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
nevus
sonki
seems like no one is willing to help me
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help yourself ka monwana kikikikikikiki Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@somaartakeit
I hear & thank you, your !nput was quite refreshing but also predictable, the scenario i presented is a case I am working on/ have been asked to advise on & honestly it feels as if it's some scandal from a high school classroom because I really do not have the energy for It. But thanks again for your !nput.
Now for the real story; I felt the same when going to the doctor but then I remembered all the friends I buried because of the diseasethen I just had to do it; I guess the fact that I don't work in my own hometown also helps.
If you no longer 21 you must get a mover and shaker. Someone who will raise it up when dead like Lazarus..........while you drink your beer, she su#ks your anaconda to come nice, 8 rounds a weekend highly doable!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@somaartakeit
at katakaka you don't always have to show that you just fell off tree by wasting our i-net band-with by posting most stupid comment of the day and abusing your spacebar or return key, I know these toys are new to you and you are excited abt using them, but plse be modest:-)
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Haaaaaaa! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
034Smunchy
wena dre10, u full of nonsense fela
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Miss Drum magazine leave me alone. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
I need to move to Jo'burg girls here in the Ecape don't suckkk. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
So then Noluntu you think that if you give man a lot of sex will prevent him from straying? *shame man* ask primrose crous what happens to relationship based on nothing but sex only, today she finds herself in a hollow and undignified marriage compete for her so called husband attention with other immoral females as herself, now she knows how the first w!f3 of crous felt when she humiliated her, also these women who portray themselves as cheap trill make the jobs of feminist hard cause you guys really have no dignity nor self respect for the feminist to defend, your portrayal of yourselves as cheap sl#ts only serves to severe relations btwn men and women hence we have unacceptably high divorce and fatherless children in this country, now why wld a self respecting person want to be a contributory factor to this? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
Wa bona this Jozibel ga ke mo tshepe man, she is too prepared & too willing and for a person who didn't go to school she's got a fair conduct of the queen's language; but I guess it's because I am not used to getting way too easy lays!!!! Anyway we only live once neh!!!! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Noluntu
@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
somaartakeit
me & Primrose are totaly different,Primrose ke lathalatha Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@Dre10 why are you waiting:-) I thought I said I was not available this week-end, its my working week-end and after that its straight home to be with the loved ones:-) any other time and provided you warn me in advance I wld meet with you, btw any info on the DC of malema? I hev not been up to speed with stuff this week, lol even though I am not a fan, but for what its worth the anc should be fair in this process cause if they are not this could further rupture their fragile standing iro integrity and fairness. Malema no doubt has done some very unforgivable stuff, but who in the current anc leadership hasn't? So therefore I say the process should be fair. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Into_Enje!
dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
I need to move to Jo'burg girls here in the Ecape don't suckkk.
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Shame!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Report Abuse
@JozibelXXX
confirm if my email has reach your inbx...? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
Noluntu
@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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can some please translate this. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@Noluntu
somaartakeit
"me & Primrose are totaly different,Primrose ke lathalatha" how are you different ? cause like her you think sex solves the problem, and both of you believe that you are better than the wives cheated on to the men you are cheating with, my question is why do you guys have to sell yourselves short? I feel embarrassed on your behalf through reading your comments. At least JozibelXXX is honest (and I respect that) about it she tells us she is a prostitute, so her behaviour is complimentary of the business she is in, what is your excuse though? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@dre10 okay ke andizothetha ngomalema but I was curious mos:-) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
@ JozibelXXX
sistas, i have a secret ( herb) for a tight virgin Vj....maybe I can help but I also need a cut for your business. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@Mtho'eng'nanqondo
If you no longer 21 you must get a mover and shaker. Someone who will raise it up when dead like Lazarus..........while you drink your beer, she su#ks your anaconda to come nice, 8 rounds a weekend highly doable!!!
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Wena my sister bohorny ba gago ba tshosa, next to ku.ku you are th horniest,kinkiest blogger by far, phela you only talk about d.ick, Are you sure you are getting enough of it.
Because in my experience those who like to talk it can't walk it!!!
@Sonki
Bua le nna babes ..................bua wa reng ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
dre10
Noluntu
@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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can some please translate this.
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Translation: U are so cute and caring ,i wish you can cum and bonk me like hell .
thanks for the emails that i received Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@Ramatlhale
I have matric and i can read and write enlgish, but i cannot get a well-paying job. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
dre10
Noluntu
@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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can some please translate this.
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Translation: U are so cute and caring ,i wish you can cum and bonk me like hell .
------------------------------LoL hayi Mornachies ungazodlala ngomkhaya wami, wena dre10 don't believe him, its not true cause the first world means head but have not figured out the rest of what she is saying yet, ut its got nothing to do with what mornachies says it is. Mornachies yiba fair wena, lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
sonki
thanks for the emails that i received
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Mine is also te ne ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
@sonki
Now stop messing around with boys and get your groove back with some real men asseblief!.....hola at me if you need your female anatomy to be explored and reignited.....! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX please ntombi be fair, you can read and write, you could get a normal job if you wanted to, but greed is behind your decision to be a prostitute, so please don't make excuses for the choice you made especially given that you told us you are enjoying being a prostitute. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
anyway have a nice week-end everyone! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
@JozibelXXX
still waiting on a reply from you regarding my offer....did u get the email...? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@full.lips
sistas, i have a secret ( herb) for a tight virgin Vj....maybe I can help but I also need a cut for your business.
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i am interested it will help me get more clients, but i prefer to pay you for the herb and you can sell your own P@ssy for money...not eat my profits Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
@ All
nna kea tsamaya, nnyo yaka e thapile, kea mensa ebile yankga , I might join @JozibelXXX at selling her stinking slippery fish factory loose VJ. Report Abuse
@Candyboy
I receive many emails everyday, i am busy responding, you must check your email babe Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
full.lips
@ All
nna kea tsamaya, nnyo yaka e thapile, kea mensa ebile yankga , I might join @JozibelXXX at selling her stinking slippery fish factory loose V
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Hey hey hey ,before o tsamaya ka re o tlo mfa neng marago ale babes ?
@Ann--Yes ,we are still hiso ...nne o batla eng ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX
@full.lips
sistas, i have a secret ( herb) for a tight virgin Vj....maybe I can help but I also need a cut for your business.
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"i am interested it will help me get more clients" cld you not get 'more clients' in its current state? I thought you said you were told by your clients it was sweet or something to that effect, can they not recommend your services? you know 'word of mouth' if the service is as good as you'd like to have us believe! just askin neh? and if you are lying at least be consistent. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
dre10
somaartakeit
thanks for saving me. Maar we can talk about anything. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX please ntombi be fair, you can read and write, you could get a normal job if you wanted to, but greed is behind your decision to be a prostitute, so please don't make excuses for the choice you made especially given that you told us you are enjoying being a prostitute.
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I have come to enjoy the job because there was nothing else i could do. The madam of the house teaches us that in order to please our clients we must enjoy what we do. I stayed without a job for 1 year and life was difficult so i joined the men servicing business. Report Abuse
@dre10 even though you make me mad sometimes with your consistent support anc even though it is clear they are destroying our province I still like you, cause I believe you will one day like many of us realise what a BS political party anc is and it has no intentions to uphold its elections promises, some of which have been outstanding as early as in the 90's. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
rasefatee
@full.lips
A big black d*ck is the real deal, women of all races are vying for one.. Black men make me melt...the Ooh's & Aah's of that thing !!!!!!!!
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mmm my dickx is slowly going up i need blow job your full.lips lets knock off dear
Ann
@Mornachies- Leromposo.
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Send your details here :mareteanevus@gmail.com Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Ramatlhale
@JozibelXXX
My sista then you should engage yourself in small projects to build up your profile & confidence in the working world otherwise if you look for a job with just matric you are bound to suffer, but by no means don't quit what you are doing just yet; until I get a taste @ least; since you enjoy it I think you won't have a problem doing it even after you've found a good job. But good luck & we'll talk!!!!
MORNACHIES
Ann
@Mornachies- Leromposo.
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Send your details here :mareteanevus@gmail.com
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o kare ke a bona a shwabileng e bile Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@sommaartkeit
"i am interested it will help me get more clients" cld you not get 'more clients' in its current state? I thought you said you were told by your clients it was sweet or something to that effect, can they not recommend your services? you know 'word of mouth' if the service is as good as you'd like to have us believe! just askin neh? and if you are lying at least be consistent.
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most of my black clients are happy and bring in referrals, but my bread is buttered with white clients (i charge different rates for blacks and whites) who sometimes do not fill it up, so a good tight one that can extend to accommodate any size will come handy for my occupation Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX please man, its impossible to have matric certificate and be black (woman) and be without job in this day and age of affirmative action, wena nje uthanda incanca too much, vuma kaloku neh? mina ndithanda abantu aba honest ppl who stick up for their beliefs and not try blame others like you are doing, now you want to make us believe that it's down to the madam that you are enjoying being a prostitute? unoba ucinga ukuba all of us sizizibhanxa. Now I am losing any respect I might have had for you originally. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Noluntu
@somaartakeit-why do you want me to waste my time on you maar.... Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX
@sommaartkeit
"most of my black clients are happy and bring in referrals, but my bread is buttered with white clients (i charge different rates for blacks and whites) who sometimes do not fill it up, so a good tight one that can extend to accommodate any size will come handy for my occupation
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Just reading this comment leads me to concl that you can't be doing much business if this MAJORITY of your clients are charged half price lol if you must be a prostitute its better you be a clever prostitute otherwise you will be doing this till your hair is grey, whilst the smart ones retire early? cause from this comment I deduce that majority of your business time is occupied by clients who otherwise do not afford the service, what are you then doing it with them for? enjoyment? cause clearly its not for profit.
@Noluntu
@somaartakeit-"why do you want me to waste my time on you maar...." it is silly of you to post a comment on a public forum and expect to not be challenged for it, either than or you have a severe case of inferiority complex that caused you to imagine that I am out to get you! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Noluntu
Ann
MORNACHIES
Ann
@Mornachies- Leromposo.
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o kare ke a bona a shwabileng e bile
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Woman are you selling yourself Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@somaartakeit
you asked too much questions
i do business to survive, i enjoy most of my black clients, they touch the right spots. The madam owns the house, but we build our own clientelle and pay rent to use the bordello. So madam gives us advise and i take it. Matric with no Experience, no one responds to your job applications
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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It doesn't cost me at all ,but you waved to everyone .so why don't u go ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
@ JozibelXXX
Fair enough , I am ready to hit the streets. I've got my high heels, skimpy dress, red lipstick...which corner are you trading at, don't forget the condoms....hehehehe...don't be surprise if i beat you at your own game, I am a newbie hence I'll be stealing your regulars. C U now, now ! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX remember that I said originally this discussion I have with you is for my educational purposes you know me being a feminist, so don't feel bad if I ask 'too much' questions, remember I am on your side, I want your business to be legalised here in SA so you don't have to operate as a criminal and for you to enjoy benefits like other legal businesses, so instead of being defensive you should be open (I don't mean your legs) about your trade, cause really you are educating some of us ie what needs to be done to help you be a respectable business woman,
wrt enjoying sex with your clients cause they touch right spots, I thought that privilege was for the one you love? see I am naive with these things so please tkae this opportunity and educate me:-) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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It doesn't cost me at all ,but you waved to everyone .so why don't u go ?
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if my realise that my being here cost you nothing then I think the right thing to do is shut up no?
and you asked if I had no home, no I haven't got a home as we speak am blogging from under my cardbox makeshift house under the bridge:-) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
MORNACHIES
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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It doesn't cost me at all ,but you waved to everyone .so why don't u go ?
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if my realise that my being here cost you nothing then I think the right thing to do is shut up no?
and you asked if I had no home, no I haven't got a home as we speak am blogging from under my cardbox makeshift house under the bridge:-)
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Hamba please ...........................hey do u min ukhuti o hobo ? Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home?
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hahahaha...s'glidla waar?..lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Candyboy
@full.lips
i wana be ur fist client....will also satisfy u in the process dont worry....! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
@full.lips
you cannot share my territory with me!! you want to steal my clients!
@sommartakeit
i have regulars who already have fallen in love with me, they do it gently and i enjoy them more.
thanks for wanting to represent a woman like me. i respect you my sister Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
JozibelXXX
I have a client at 16h15, i need to freshen up - i will talk again soon Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
eKapa
@JozibelXXX
are you good in Hand Art?(blow job and skomoring) Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Ramatlhale
Vele mina I like being F#######CCCCKKKKKED hard, and futhi he is happy today he was paid on Wednesday.....Ngiyoqeda konke ukuphapha endlini/I'm going to stop all this bo tjatjarag! Taking the kids kuGogo and siyanyobana the whole weekend.
Haaaaaa.....He knows I have his anaconda d#ck as my phone screensaver mos! So ingenza ngibe manzi nte emsebenzini! Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@Mornachies, yes I said my goodbyes then something happens so I am still here, is that a problem for you? even if it is, there is nothing you can do about my being here, so make peace with that.
@JozibelXXX I always care for welfare of everyone iro constitutionality, therefore I strongly believe that even prostitution should be legalised, I mean it makes sense, there is a clear demand and they provide a service, so for functionality purposes this industry should be legalised, surely ppl in this business need to have their dignities protected instead of them being frowned upon as soon as they say what profession they are in, I long for the day when our police are not wasting resources chasing after prostitutes and instead chasing after real criminals the clients of the prostitutes and the man providing them with drugs and pimping them, you see I care for welfare of prostitutes I want them to have a fair deal in this business so like you they can continue to enjoy doing it, without fear of breaking laws or being vulnerable to some violence they are exposed to. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX it was eye opening for me to talk to you, good luck with business ntombi. Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
@ dre10
haai suka uyadina.....what Noluntu was saying ' you head (avatar) looks like a potato.
She is right, a brown roasted potato I must say **** GET OVER IT*** lol. Report Abuse
@MORNACHIES
@Somaar---"Only joking my sister" aaah it was intended to be joke *damn how could I have missed that one* gie gie gie *wipes tears off eyes* Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
@ JozibelXXX
yep, run along because with me, no competition,...I am hot ngishisa pantsi na phezulu.
@ Mtho'eng'nanqondo
hey sister, big up to our Zulu men, I have one such man , uncut and fiercely sizzling hot in bed, he can't get enough of it....lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
full.lips
@Mornachies
Hey babes.... are you Zulu and uncut ?....if not try @ JozibelXXX
I only roll with the rough s*x crazy Zulus...lol Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
Kakamas
@full.lips
Go for pedis you will feel the hits Report Abuse
Jan 27, 2012
samuelsentsho
Not so much to comment,but i noticed that man is like child but dont treat him like kid show him love,disgard the
issue of a child she is coming with who is not of marriage.Some women defend thier child that are out of marriage and neglect her responsibility. Report Abuse
Jan 28, 2012
vusomujo
just give the guy sex and he won't cheat simple.eish some women ur the reason why we men cheat Report Abuse
well you did not tell us your age and her age, if there is a different in your ages then you will struggle to get back the fire. especialy if she is older than you or you too older than her. but if you are i the same age range things will work better if you iitiate all styles and sex positions every night until she menstruate, after the menstration ugibele phezulu futhi - when you come back from work leave the kids with playstation or TV or something and sex each other, when you go to sleep do it again two rounds upwards, inthe morning before washing to go to work do it, u will see within a month you wil have that old fire that you had the next day after your marriage. Report Abuse
Jan 31, 2012
Ayobas
Eisshhhhh, kgale ke sa je marago, i broke up le galfriend ya me last September, eish ke mo matsaing nou, someone help please... Report Abuse
Feb 1, 2012
Optional
@Pizozo, ha ha ha ha, finish and klaar! You made my day. This dude is lazy, who does he think is going to clinch his woman's back. Dude all poor woman wants is love and he seems to be focused somewhere than on his woman. Just imagine if the woman told him she is lonely in their marriage and she is trying with someone to revive her feelings....eeish. Disaster. Report Abuse
Feb 17, 2012
Matseba
Try a movie called Fire proof,maybe you will come alryt. Report Abuse
Apr 12, 2012
Ree777
its realy sad that most marriege stories i hear are about me me me me....when did it stop to be about us. you married ppl make us sceptical to even think of getting hitched. I think if more married ppl would stop being obsessed with self, most problems would be over. take this hard working woman for example: if you as the husband knows she works hard at work, with the kids and the household...how about you be usefull and help her too. Maybe all this stupid tentrums wouldnt be there cos she will see how carring you still are and believe me the fire in the bedroom would still be burnig. STOP WYNING AND BE USEFUL! Report Abuse
Jul 27, 2012
wicked1031
i feel what you are going through, find what makes i happy and what was attractive when you met and try to revive that! Report Abuse
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pizozo
Thobalano its a duty.Make sure gore o mo fa yona atleast 5 times a week. even if U dnt feel like it or U r tired, mo fe yona!!! Dat will solve most of your problems. And im not talking about one round, nah, im talking abt a minimum of three a night
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Ann
There is no reason why you should not find the magic in your marriage again.What you must understand is that most marriages lose some of the passion as time passes. Friendship between the spouses grows stronger and this is the foundation of a good marriage but of course should also include a good physical relationship.
This doesn't just happen but takes effort from both of you. You really need to talk to your wi*fe honestly and tell her how you feel about your marriage.
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Great advise, marriege is hard work
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RobinH
pizozo: Very mature and manly of you.Report Abuse
MommaC
Oh grow up dude!Your poor wifle is running around after two toddlers as well as working and you come with your pathetic little pity party?
Do you really believe that your wifle is happy with the status quo?
Be a loving husband, take some of the pressure off her, give her some time off, find a baby sitter for one night a week and for goodness sakes, stop being such a woosie cry baby. You are a father now.
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Memme
daaaaaaahh - is it not the same excuse that all married men come up when they want to cheat ??? This is simple really - You either want to fix things with your woman or you want to have an affair. You are both aduls - communicate with your wi*fe about how you feel recently and you both need to find that spark again and make your marriage work.. To me it sounds like you have not even tried to bring back that bang in your relationship instead you say you have now met someone who's alo married - nogal..Banna always find an excuse to cheat and it will always be like that. Personally i don't see anything wrong in this marriage - you both just need to spend some quality time together without the kids around.
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ApelMankotsana
It is always a case that married couples who have been staying together, their spark of love will diminish. The truth of the matter is that indeed it becomes quite boring and monotonous.Do'nt go for marriage counselling...it will not for you...Try and have a nyatsi...she will keep the home fires burning.Report Abuse
Mr.Chairman
Knock knock..Report Abuse
maneater
hey baba how can you allow thobalano to stop, what did they teach you during your pre marital councelling. its already too late somebody wamoja mo.sadi as we speak so if i were you ne kitloja daai nyasti.Report Abuse
pik_it_up
so now the flame is dying and you just wanna give up just like that?nah man bring the love back it aint dead just dormant....if you love her and the kids then you will save your marriage and family
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tsayaya
You are just but undergoing one stage of marriage that you (both) must ensure that you pass without being tempted to have an affair. when u first met the important thing was sex. when sex was a given the next thing was marriage. after marriage the important thing is kids, school, work, day to day chores. when kids are grown up and can do little thing for themselves, the pressure will be off loaded on both of you and you'll gradually become close again. so stop your nonsense and support your w!fe. o ka rata wena ha mosad! wa gago a ka kotiwa a le frustrated?Report Abuse
Vhamsanda
Can you as a man really seek advice from Dudu ?You should be out of your mind.
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Eraser
nxaa..people has serious problems and wena u come here to waste our time..there is nothing wrong in ur marriage..its just that wena now u attracted to the other woman. if you think ur wifee has a lot on her plate y not assist her..Report Abuse
NotAgain
Guys I really need help, I’ m having a sexual relationship with a woman 14 years older than me, I’m 7 years older than her first daughter and she does not have a problem with that. We agreed that we gonna stop as this because we’re scared that we might get attached to one another but the moment she calls me I know I’m gonna F.C.U.K her, the moment I get into her office we start undressing each other and we continue where we left off. I need to stop before I lose interest in my woman but the se is just too good.How do I stop, please help
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Livelifemolefe
It is normal my brother, we all passed that stage.You need to also have time out with friends and leave her to her friends as well.
Pls don't stress.
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sakhomba
Dear LJTyou and wifey are probably both well educated( randburg dikitchening) is not for every tom, d.ick and harry. baby mama is getting it somewhere else. you know women ba sleg. you provide everything for them and all they give in return is missionary position in bed. to make matters worse you might find she is getting some from umasaka we skhotheni and she is giving that guy a blow job and all the nice thingikies.maybe both of you should go the old school route and invite your elders to help you out with this.do not go to the pastor, those ones batlo go jela jou vrou. guy le wena maan o isa kae madam o rutegileng, ke masepa a batho bao.i suggest you take the kids to granny so that you and your ausie can spend the whole weekend naked in the house...malikhale isende bhuti. good luck.
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Mr.Chairman
Knock knock..///////////////////////////////////////////////////////
Who's there?
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edna
As they say; it's not the end it's just a curve. Be strong and pray a lot. Do not let this happen to your family. Those children need you both.What i know is by jumping or having another woman you are not only creating problems but you are bringing stress and misery. All relationships go through ups and downs. We have peaks, valleys, stormy weathers, sunny days etc. Rather try to talk to someone wiser or you should both go for counselling. Just think what made you attracted to your partner.
All the best!
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Pabi
communication communication brother, if you really want your marriage to be successful u have to talk to your w!ife, nothing comes easy in life, if you really thinks extra affair will solve your problem you are totaly lost. stop seeing that woman and start to rebuild your life with your w!ife stop condoning wrong stuff.Report Abuse
MophemeKoPitori
WHEN A WOMAN IS FED UP...Report Abuse
MommaC
NotAgainTell your woman you are a lying. cheating, scumbucket and leave her and if you have to be a male wh0re then at least charge for it - idiot
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swona
men will always find reasons to cheat, wonder what women are doing about the situation, for the same women commenting here, have the same problem!Report Abuse
Mr.Chairman
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Mr. Chairman
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gabhisa
Marriage ke matha fela, I m yet to see happily married couple!Report Abuse
Sizwe_M
Dear sowetan how the f%$k is the word "WI_FE" obscene!Report Abuse
XHINOPHOBIA
CHASE AWAY DAT B!TCH.STOP CRYNG AKUNANTANDANE YE GOLO SAN FUNA OMUNYE.WEMAN THIS DAYS THEY THINK THEY KNOW TO MUCH ND WE ALLOW THEM.Report Abuse
Sizwe_M
ok then leave the B%$ch is that better sowetan!!Report Abuse
Asshole
A little bbq spice once in a while won't hurt.Report Abuse
pik_it_up
@notagainTHIS IS HOW AIDS SPREADS YOU STUPID S.WINE!!!!!!
thats how you stop
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Mr.Chairman
Mr. Chairman who?////////////////////////////////////////////
Mr. Chairman of the board!!!!
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Pabi
Erasernxaa..people has serious problems and wena u come here to waste our time..there is nothing wrong in ur marriage..its just that wena now u attracted to the other woman. if you think ur wifee has a lot on her plate y not assist her..
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well said Eraser he must stop making issue out of nothing. he just want to clear his conscious, he noticed that they have a problem in marriage why can't he take his energy to resolve that unlike to use it seeing other woman and discussing their marital affairs try to convincing each other how hard is their marriage life.
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SeshegoGuY
@Sakhomba "...you know women ba sleg. you provide everything for them and all they give in return is missionary position in bed......"Lmao! that statement is very sexist mchana but Yho LOL!!! (sorry to offend anyone)
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nalita
I think both you lost the connection because of the kids, you have to be like the time you were still dating, and leaving your partner for another one with the same life.this will turn out to be more bad.
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letsetse
Maybe you have low libido problems maybe i can help the woman outReport Abuse
Eraser
@NotAgainGuys I really need help, I’ m having a sexual relationship with a woman 14 years older than me, I’m 7 years older than her first daughter and she does not have a problem with that. We agreed that we gonna stop as this because we’re scared that we might get attached to one another but the moment she calls me I know I’m gonna F.C.U.K her, the moment I get into her office we start undressing each other and we continue where we left off. I need to stop before I lose interest in my woman but the se is just too good.
How do I stop, please help
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Not u again! Pls stop it wastin our time too..if you wnt to stop u would hv done that already..just cause u enjoying it dats y u can't stop...so go on with it until u get tired..you should hv thought abt dat b4 u unzipp ur pants..
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JUBJUB
Spice it up maanReport Abuse
Mbeva
Marriage has its ups and downs, it is not paradiseReport Abuse
nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselvesReport Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@VhamsandaCan you as a man really seek advice from Dudu ?
You should be out of your mind.
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Vhamsanda you could ask again and she probably not married that Dudu.
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SeshegoGuY
@Nevus This is the 1st sober comment that i've heard from u ever. Good Point buddy!Report Abuse
DjEp
Morena, who said to road through marriage will be smooth, so in fact you are scared of challenges. you are together for 8yrs now and all was fine, now with just a curve on the road you feel thats the end, crab man. be a man enough and face your challenges. the way you behave even on the "new: mistres you will her like two trains passing each other after a couple of weeks...Report Abuse
Mr.Chairman
Sometimes cheating is not as bad as people make it out to be.However,once you start doing it,you must know that it's going to be difficult to stop it.And take into consideration what is at stake.It's your choice at the end of the day.
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TDK
Wifey is neglecting hubby or she is getting it in the boardroom during the 'meeting'.Report Abuse
langman
marago a monate , nyoba fela dilo di tla lokaReport Abuse
McLoving
The woman is a big bully.Once they get in the marriage they become control freaks,especially black women.It;s a good thing this man found someone.Report Abuse
KUKU
My brother – what you have in your marriage is not problems...it is called challenges in marriage. Problems is when you have a wyf who’s pregnant with another man’s child – problems is when you have a dying child. In marriage you will have a lot of challenges and the fact that you have Makhwapheni makes you think that you have problems at home but the truth is that you are both on a ribound –and trying to solve your marriage by having an affair will make things worse. The grass always looks greener on the other side, which is what you see at this point. Marriage is not for chancers – 8 years have been great for you two and you want to mess up everything in just few months of lust that you have for someone else.If you LOVE your wyf – then fight for her. Both of you must communication and solve the cause/root of the problem – visit a marriage councellor/advicer, talk to your Pastor too and engage yourslef with older people who have been married longer – you’ll be shocked that what you have now is just a slice of PIE. People have serious problems in their marriage....people can’t have kids, people are sick....
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eKapa
"Avant" song (Separated)*when we were together we never turn our back on each other,but now when we separated we cant stand on each other*
"R-Kelly* song (one women)
*one Man can make one women hate all Man*
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MORNACHIES
.......understand because she has a lot on her plate.....________________________________________________________
You also managed to see that she is cheating on you ?___You can work it out ,but
is too difficult mi man .start visiting your lawyer's offices ......................Divorce !!!
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imd
@nevusAll you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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DOES NOT WORK I know blive me ....................
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McLoving
If you want to be happy...marry a white woman.They have true love.They are like angels missing in heaven.Black women are sturbbon ,big bullies and control freaks.
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Ziwamo
Marriage is a lot of hard work fellow bloggers, it can be boring sometimes. The problem is doing routine staff, u know when you come back from work, you fetch kids from school, eat, watch tv, and go to sleep. It isso boring. We need to losen up a bit, make love in the kitchen, lounge, garden, bathroom or in the shower, passage you know. It shouldn't be marginalised, women please stop sleeping with that thick pyjamas and granny's nightdress. I want that sexy satin or silk nighties or just the bum shorts so that when I look at you, I am damn aroused. Spice up your marriage.
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JUBJUB
Ku.Ku-that is so true galReport Abuse
KejaKuKu_yadibloggers
i feel u my brother ....i'm also in the same dilemma with my galfriend, only difference is i bang my nyatsi goed.Report Abuse
nanki
no marriage is perfact in this world and if your partner doest show any interest in you you have to be open with her and tell what you see in her,, if you think she is cheating tell her because no woman or man who will start acting without doing something wrong outside....Report Abuse
skhokho21
Some people are just called man bcoz they have a di.ck. There is nothing like a happy marriage, I am married 6 years end of February with 3 boys, we both work, Fridays I knock off at 13:00, send the kids to my mother for the weekend, then its just me & her till Sunday, the sh.it is hard work everyday. Just spice up your marriage wena stupid fool, Dudu is after all a woman with her own problems.Report Abuse
amlaga
Stupid man f.uck that other married woman, wipe your mouth and go back home b4 some1 bones your woman!sowetan please explain how the word wi_fe is vulgar or discriminatory? stupid sowetan!!!
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Firefly
Dude you and your wi.fe need to spice up your sex lives. And not this cheating thing you want to pursue. Simple and klaar.Get time off work, park the kids with gogo and spend quality time together.
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T.C.T
Broer i feel your pain in that marriage do not allow yourself to be a love slave in that marriage especially if the is no VAVA VOOM or little bit of SMACKDOWN going on in the bedroom. my chomis like saying to me that marriage can be seen as the delaying space for death if the is no fun in it those who are happy in there marriage is probabley because of there blind w.ife and deaf husband commited to them the only time your w.ife will find out is when you are reckless and neglegent or confesing.if it is good why talk?dont worry my brother It is normal in mzanzi bcos half of marriages end in divorce and the other half end in death who knows you can be one of the lucky guys if you pack your bags and go before it is too late.about DUDU respond she is bias and blinded by her negative emotions..
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tumzangwana
stop whining and take your w!fe on a romantic holiday, and take it from there.ask your w!fe what she wants and needs from your relationship, you will find that she is just waiting for you to make the first move and take the bull by the horns, for goodness sake you sound pathetic for even entertaining the thought of cheating on your w!fe. imagine the results of such actions, o masepa a motho straight.Report Abuse
Ziwamo
@ IMD@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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DOES NOT WORK I know blive me ....................
Have you tried that before maybe?
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Spekepeke
Go fcuk yourself man, there no problem here just fcuk this woman every-night o tlaba grand , some batshaba nnyo n make this look like their women are no longer interestedReport Abuse
eKapa
Lenyalo ha se papadiReport Abuse
KUKU
Basad!Basad! Ge ba fetsa go nyalwa – ba i tlogela. Motho wa gona ge ojola le yena o phela a le skoon – a apere di-leggings le di-high heels ka di leggings and the hair is always looking great and a nkga monate...always giving u Nnyo anytime, anyhow, anywhere. They watch what they eat – mostly on a diet or go to the Gym and taking care of their selves MARA ge o fetša go mo NYALA – O tlo go bontsha SPOKO. O tlo bona gore mosad! ke SNAKE. Motho wa gona o phela a apere that Blanket ya bakgekolo called TJALE/MOTSOGANA and expecting the man to be happy. O tla kreya mosad! since a dula ka Lounge a lebeletse the bold and the beautiful repeat le BOPHELO KE SEMPHEGO drama for hours forgetting gore monna o na le di needs. At that time she is eating from KFC to Ice-cream a beile 2Ltr ya COKE mo pele ga gage a butše maoto and u expect a brother to be happy? No ways – he is not happy at all. Moriri wona shame – o tlo kreya mosad! a apee pantyhose the whole day mo hlogong with that white stuff MEMEZA on the face o kare she’s preparing to appera on a horror movie. At that time Nnyo e nkga e ya futha e re nhlapise hle...mara because it’s your’s u won’t notice the smell/odor. Whe the hubby come back from work – u think he is exhausted – the truth is that u’r man is not tired at all but immediately he sees the way you look – he then become exhasuted....shame poor man, le bona sono you know. O tla kreya mosad! a na le mekgeledi ya go hlatswa washin on her legs. You always complain that u’r man is always out with some lame excuses that he’s going to watch a soccer match at some friend’s house leaving you behind. How can the poor man take you cause when he comes home from work with the intention of picking you up for some outing – he always fins you O apere that Green big Gown you great grandmother used to wear when she was still in high school – bu that time since you woke up at 10h00 –never bath, even your teeth because you can’t keep away from the TV watch Brroke and Rich playing hide and sick...I mean you’ve watched it yesterday but u still watch the repeat...NEVER BATH...that time your mouth smells like masepa a letagwa. And spending tha whole day without wearing a BRA...come on gals – BRA makes a woman’s body look more shaped....Nna le ya mbora shame – le tlo hlala ke banna la re rasetsa la re ba le loile ka gore le rata gore batho ba a le loya lena batho ba batntsho.
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TKay
A woman is never too tired to have sex...my dear brother I suggest you talk to your wifey about this matter, writing a dear Dudu letter wont help you with anything if you dont talk to each other about your problem. As for what you are feeling with the other woman, its just lust cause you are both lonely in your marriages. If you still love your wifey then talk about it and make her understand that this is drawing you apart, maybe she feels the same way too - remember the good old daysReport Abuse
KUKU
JUBJUBO kae love....u know ppl think they have problems and they don't hey....☺
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MORNACHIES
Phambili ka Magosha Phambili .......Basadi ke di stress finish and klaar !!!Report Abuse
Spekepeke
KU.KUWena wampolaya jo, u right my sista
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KUKU
Couples (Married or Single)This days most couple are both employed with some descent or high profile jobs. Please tlogelang di-laptops ko boot ya koloi ko Garage. Don’t take u;r laptop in the house because u might be tempted to log in and work from home. If you have a lot of work that you have to do....try and go to work atleast 2 hours early and then an hour/two later...to finish your work but then when you go home – know that your family must get full attention. If your working hours are 8-4, then make the 7-5, u have extra two hours to work but then u go home and attend to u’r family. Play with the kids, talk to u’r wyf, wash the dishes, help kids with home-work....eat, bath, then make love to your wyf......forget at office polotics. Let the Nanny do what sh’e hired to do...bathing the kids, feeding them...how difficult can that be?
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JUBJUB
DUDU RESPONDS:Don't expect me to condone or give you permission to have an affair. You are looking for justification and behaving like a spoilt child. If you can't have your way you will punish your wi.fe - what sort of behaviour is that?
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nevus
imd@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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it did not work for you maybe for others it will,Maybe wena you went away not thinking about saving your relationship you went there thinking "le nja izo badala inye ke tla mokuta ha nna ntsebe".
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MommaC
" Marriage is like a rose garden, beautiful when attended to but, if you ignore it, then it becomes a weed choked briar patch"Report Abuse
Tonyoki
Part of what keeps a marriage strong is good sex and communication --- and most of us men, when we cannot get it in the house - we go look for it outside. You and the other women who is also troubled in her marriage should get to some business of consoling yourselves including sexually. Dudu's advice is cheap and is not practical. (just condomise to avoid mistakes). I for one cannot go for 2 days without doing it!! It is a good stress reliever and brings some joy into the union!Report Abuse
KUKU
You know most ppl (gals) wnats to get married – especially from their mid 20’s up...due to pressure from the family, peers and all that. If you are NOT ready for marriage then don’t. Just because your friend is married doesn’t mean that u must also get married – marriage is a blessing but once u make it a materialistics then you won’t be happy.I say people rather be Single than be divorced or Unhappily married – That is not PAP ‘N VLEIS. You must be committed and be ready for challenges because there’s a lot of them.
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T.C.T
ppl need to be honest with themselves today is not about till death do us apart is all about till debt do us apart mean while you need to focuse on your hurting feeling and greedy lawyersReport Abuse
LLCool
If she doesnt give it to you/ you dont give it to her, why are you still together??? Remember marriage is a an inclussive package (dats include sex).Report Abuse
Tonyoki
@McLovingIf you want to be happy...marry a white woman.They have true love.They are like angels missing in heaven.
Black women are sturbbon ,big bullies and control freaks.
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A relationship is like a 2-way street, both parties must be committed for it to be successful. With regard to black sisters being stubborn, big bullies and control freaks - not all of them are, with regard to white women being angels - not all of them are. All races are prone to divorce for different reasons. Your comment is mot*ivated by the reality that you are currently shagging a white woman - you are so f@cked up that you have lost your common sense!
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svavava
have even considered speaking to yo wi*fe about how you feel, u dont mention anything here. even marriage counselling, have u thought about it. instead of looking outside. either way, if u end up marrying this other woman, u will go theough same stage, so will u also divorce her, u r just looking for an excuse to cheat wena that allReport Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwanastop whining and take your w!fe on a romantic holiday, and take it from there.ask your w!fe what she wants and needs from your relationship, you will find that she is just waiting for you to make the first move and take the bull by the horns, for goodness sake you sound pathetic for even entertaining the thought of cheating on your w!fe. imagine the results of such actions, o masepa a motho straight.
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Kgotso ngwana!
Jwale o batla ba tlohe le mathata a bona ho ya holidaysing.They have to sit down and sort things before going anywhere Tumza.
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Manyobi
I would symphathyze with you if you did not mention the other affair. you stupid ass. Go and start laying your partner as Pizozo said. Women in general get diciplined by Njombe. you will notice the difference. sex is intimate by itself. by doing that often, you will get intimate to your partner too. Now that you gave her two children, o bona ele a reject?Report Abuse
KUKU
Guys - holiday will never resolve their problems because the wyf will still be whinning abt how the kids are doing with the nanny at home. This need more than just a holiday.....Report Abuse
svavava
sowetan web crew, stop being idiots, since when is wi*fe vulgar, nitshay'intsangu yhini apho. sanuba dom maanReport Abuse
RobertGamage
In May I will be married for 28 Years, I am more in love with my w!fe now than I was when I first got married the secret is to have your relationship with Jesus Christ right first then everything else wil fall into place. She is the best and only woman for me. Remember a marriage is 100% from both partners, we have had our ups & downs but never go to bed angry sort it out before you close your eyes love her and remember SEX is not everythingReport Abuse
Sentle
@DuduHow do you know that this guy has two kids?
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nevusimd
@nevus
All you both need is a weekend away go to a resort.Your parents should look after the kids sometimes on weekends to give the two of you time for yourselves
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it did not work for you maybe for others it will,Maybe wena you went away not thinking about saving your relationship you went there thinking "le nja izo badala inye ke tla mokuta ha nna ntsebe".
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WRONG assumption again ....""" ke tla mokuta ha nna ntsebe""" meaning what???? tobe exact
coz I amke the arrangements buti................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Bumboklaat
lapa le aga ke nyatsi! nyakaza nyatsi eo mara o leke go lokisa dilo le m.osadi wa gao! Eish basadi ba bangwe le bona ge ba seno nyadiwa ba itebala! Basadi efang banna marago lege le lapile or le opiwa ke dithlogo!Report Abuse
Bumboklaat
@KatakataEmaotoAditshepeWena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Mangoz
Guy, just take a vacation, Girl, hang out with your friends somewhere unfamiliar (excursion), Kids, go and visit your grandparents some of the weekends. It does work!!Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
Sentle@Dudu
How do you know that this guy has two kids?
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Wa bona gore e dira eng phuza Thursday ?___Read with understanding Sesi !!!
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KUKU
NevusA holiday doesn't solve marital problems.....
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Tonyoki
More sex everyday is part of the solution -- they are like two ships passing in the night because they are not connecting sexually...it is true that sex can bond people ---after all a man gets to know a woman when he is inside her and a woman gets to know a men when he is inside her!! (just be careful that it does not turn to rape as she appears to be tired and too busy)Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
Bumboklaat@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Lejapere leo le na le bosepa too much .....le nyele boi !
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Dr.Breeze
I don't a problem here all that I see is a challenge that both you and your w_ife are shying away from. Chief the 1st thing that you and your women should have done was to set ground rules for the bedroom and there is on ly but only one rule "NO CLOTHES ARE ALLOWED IN YOUR BED" in that way you both have unlimited access to each others assets. So go and work on your marriage and stop being a cry baby.Report Abuse
Tonyoki
Remember when you cheat and are not caught -- it will spark more love-fire with your w!fe, try it - it works --- with the latter said --have some sexual fun with the other woman in a troubled marriage - it may heal both your relationships!Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
Most guys get caught because they have "affairs" the minute you have an affair that means serious emotions are involved & trust me boss you can't give them equal attention, what you needed to do was to tap that (ur potential mistress) a couple of times then try to do to your wif.e what you did to your mistress even if she doesn't like it @ least you'll be talking & hopefully fighting which you can turn into spontaneous intense lovemaking session.I've observed most of my married friends & the problem with you guys is, when you have kids you immediately adopt the baby's routine but your mistake is you become used to being so organised that even after the baby has outgrown the routine stage; you will create a new one just so you can feel as if you are in control of the situation, routine, routine STOP THAT and start living!!!!
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Luv2kiss
Nyala O Nyele, tjeerrrrrrrr !!!! nna nka se nyale kampe ka swa ke mpša net soReport Abuse
KUKU
The other problem ke gore rena batho ba bantsho – when a brother want to have sex le wena for FUN – you just fall pregnant. The poor guy wanted some fun and u fall pregnant...then he is not ready for kids. White people plan for their kids before they can conceive so with our blk community – when a man says open your legs...then you give him kids....not right at all. The next thing you are pregnant – the guy leaves you at home and you complain again but when he tell you to abort – you complain again....he never wanted that child to start with and he is now stuck with it.LET’S think twice before we can conceive!
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KUKU
Luv2kissNyala O Nyele, tjeerrrrrrrr !!!! nna nka se nyale kampe ka swa ke mpša net so
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So wena o ja Nnyo left and right...hahahahaha
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nevus
KUK'UNevus
A holiday doesn't solve marital problems.....
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this guy a re they dont have time for themselves,they are always around friends and relatives and at home attend to bana,a ba bue ka bona ,so mina i think they need time ya go ba 2 ho re ba tsebe ho bua ka bona as (hubby and wifeyyy).Kana lona ge le re holiday le naganne go ya Moria lo nwa ditaela.
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imd
@KU.KUGuys - holiday will never resolve their problems because the wyf will still be whinning abt how the kids are doing with the nanny at home. This need more than just a holiday.....
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Ah someone who gets it at last!!!!!!!!!!!
*hihihi your name gets Flagged
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Motabolapasa
@MORNACHIESSentle
@Dudu
How do you know that this guy has two kids?
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a tle a gata tlakala la banana so vroeg ka Friday Sentle wa batho
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eKapa
Thank you Ku,ku with your recent comment Tell them, we want Fun NOT babbies plz...Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
@KU,KUwhen a man says open your legs...then you give him kids....not right at all.
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Nuff Said, What a woman you are.............!!!!
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Muwaweni
My broer,dont blame your woman cos u both are in that mariage and i biliv u knew that there will b challenges in mariage way b4 u maried her.So if u want to cheat bcos of that u r an idiot,a fool,dabadaba,degere.That is de time where you need to intensively communicate with her,poor out your feelings,get her to be open about her feelings too.Ni songo vha sweule manReport Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
This guy put it clear that they only have special time for their kids and there is a lot on his wiife plate to do probably that make her feel exhausted.Lastly on weekends they go to friends and their families at the time they have to use as special one to rectify things between them.They sacrifice time they need for friends and relatives.
In the marriage you dont have to be someone else but a husband when you only want sex,you need to be next to your wiife each and every munite when you are at home,speaking to her,listening to what she says and give yourself time to touch her no matter that you dont or interested to sex by then just hold her so she will feel your absence when you not at home.
You bedroom will be hot if everyone is happy Ntate and when you say you want to see your friend she will say that friend of yours doesnt visit you,you go no where.
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DinuZulu
A man can not have rice his whole life, this DUDU girl has good advise but is making me sick with all her emotion!Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
Luv2kissNyala O Nyele, tjeerrrrrrrr !!!! nna nka se nyale kampe ka swa ke mpša net so
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Ganthe wa ipona gore o mpša ........you are dog man (Niggar way ) ...............
O mpša ya mpša (Ka setšo)
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tumzangwana
@katakakgotso ntate
ke cho gore holiday e tla ba fa sebaka sa go buisana ka dintho, ho se na o pe ya ba kgoreletsang, le e na o matepe man monna o. haai
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joelle
the lady wagafa kids that age are in bed by 8 , what is she doing at work thats making her so tired , that she cant give the poor man some loving .....get some outside brother , it does not eat papReport Abuse
candilious
Sis Dudu i couldnot have said it betterReport Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Bumboklaat@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Chee ke se ke itse ha eba ke fahlile mmuso ka lehlabathe, thupa ha e otle fatshe e senna e otla mothong kgosi,ntwa e nehwe dintja di ebohole di e thibe e boele mora,ntwa ha e qathe mohatla e swabele ruri rona makwale re none.
Morena!
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Bumboklaat
@KatakataEmaotoAditshepeMoranaka! Ka sepedi bare ga eje e shie marapo! Thobela!
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MORNACHIES
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe@Bumboklaat
@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Wena neo bitsa mang bashemanyana maabane? O tlwaela batho gampe ne?
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Chee ke se ke itse ha eba ke fahlile mmuso ka lehlabathe, thupa ha e otle fatshe e senna e otla mothong kgosi,ntwa e nehwe dintja di ebohole di e thibe e boele mora,ntwa ha e qathe mohatla e swabele ruri rona makwale re none.
Morena!
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Lejapere wena o rata o nyefola batho ..................Don't ever say i'm a kid .
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwanakataka
kgotso ntate
ke cho gore holiday e tla ba fa sebaka sa go buisana ka dintho, ho se na o pe ya ba kgoreletsang, le e na o matepe man monna o. haai
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Holidays are just like going to bedroom and if you go there unhappy I dont think doesnt worth it.
Lokisang ditaba pele le tsamaya le tlohele ho dula le matha metswalleng le lelokong.
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Bosso
Aia Bosso Bosso man, help her with the house chores,even if it means go anega diaparo ko lineng*mm Ba mo jisitse..naa ignore that.It will take weight off her shoulder, take the kids somewhere ba ye go bona di Tokoloshi or something.There r different forms of cheating, the one ur trying to choose is the worst it will always, i mean always will come around and bite u...like Trevor Noah's vernacular, @ that time u gonna cry and be saying Uuu don't bite meee.Skare ga ka go tjwetsa!Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@MORNACHIESHa e hate ka maro ke cholo ho re rona makwala re none ngwanabo.
Ngwanabo!
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KUKU
Ladies (Single)When u date someone but not married yet for years - u'll hear most people saying...MO direle ngwana o tlo go nyala"....That is so wrong. Most man don't like kids so that will make things worse or some guys will say "NTIRELE ngwana to proof u'r love and that u can conceive"...That is also wrong!
When someone love u - he will marry u regardless of what.....Otherwise u will end up single with 3 kids because guys will make u their spem sample. They will use u to see if they can have kids and then leave you later. Open u'r eyes ladies. I know that we have a lot of kids out of wedlock and i will not judge anyone because we all have that in our families...and kids are a blessing from God mara God didn't bonk u to have kids...so don't misinterprete that pleaseeeee. If u are single with kids - love them like u r supposed to as a mother, they are really a blessing and bring life in ppl's life.....☺
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Bumboklaat@KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Moranaka! Ka sepedi bare ga eje e shie marapo! Thobela!
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Moshate!
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Naked
MARRIAGE HAS NO FORMULA WHAT SO EVER:wht can wek for me, might nt wek for you. relationships and marriges are diffrent.
but one thing for sure,cheating doesnt solve anything, it creates more problems in the marriage.
rather speak to ur wifey abt hw u feel,let ur feelings be known and try to come up with a solution
,because where im standing, this man sounds like he wants to justfy his cheating, cheating requires a
lot of energy and effort, apply tht energy,lust and effort into your marriage.
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MGEEZ
This men is the reason why he and his w.i.fe are unhappy. He has looked outside his marriage to find happiness. Whilst I agree that sex is not everything; I do not believe that a husband should go to sleep without satisfying his w.i.fe sexually; unless as the bible says, the two have agreed not to have sex so as to give themselves to prayer and fasting. But this needs to be an agreement and both parties needs to know when the prayer and fasting is finishing off so that the couple should start with their sex life where they left off.Problems emerge in all relationships and they are meant to be solved and not to break relationships. Having said that; his dishonesty is now grounds for his w.i.fe to divorce him if she finds out!!! Cheating is never a solution at all; because in all probabilities, a person whom you cheat with will also do the same to you when challenges emerge in the new relationship.
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MORNACHIES
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe-Ga ate ka boya ,morwa -motlankana .......ga weeng banna .
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tumzangwana
@katakake a go utlwa ntate, fela ne ke nagana gore ga go na disturbance ba ka kgona go bua dintho ba iketlile, maar go na ke a go utlwa.
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LaVidaLoca
Help he with the kids or something, take some duties off her, so that she wont always be tired to have s*x with you.....Try to create a balance and o tla bona she will appreciate it and meet you halfway.....
Cheating wont solve your issues , you and the Makhwapheni will probebly end up in the same situation.....
Grow up, and while you at it, grown balls to love, honour & cherish your w!fe dammit
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KUKU
Ladies (Married)When a man marry you – he marries Nnyo ya gago. Just loose that Nnyo and u will see that no man will ever love you. Why do we want to make things difficult for us. It’s important that both parties are ready to have kids before falling pregnant. Take your time in u’r marriage and think abt the life-style adjustment that you will have to make. Ensure that you are both ready and as a woman you have more powers regarding when you want to conceive cause MONNA yena o tlo no eja Nnyo and wena o swanetse goba Itumeleng KUNE and catch those sperms otherwise u will be a preg woman who’s hubby is not happy abt even though he won’t tell u but at some point u’ll notice his behavior.
Gape banna ke di-mpša – ge ba hlohlonela ke Mapele, ba nyakka Nnyo and wena hlalefa mosad! and use some precautions. Efa monna Nnyo o butse mahlo.
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KUKU
MGEEZThis men is the reason why he and his w.i.fe are unhappy. He has looked outside his marriage to find happiness
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I also think it's wrong of him to do what he did?
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Luv2kiss
MORNACHIESwe saan waphapha ne, tsa mo sheba mmao ko tlase o tla bona mpša
K.uku.
yes le mahosha ka reka sunnyside its my home ground
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KUKU
@AllCan i tell u a secret...something that i'm not proud of abt my marriage but it works. Sometimes in lyf we have to take bad decisions to achieve positive results. We have to sacrifed at some point to make our lives easy....are you guys interested???
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Monate1
Ntate wee...try to massage her neh?? she's working very hard shame, and when you doing it.. use your tongue on her cockie.........very nice, it has to be at least 3 times a week.Report Abuse
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Someone else is nyobbing her my brother, ufika ekamereni uzokhuluma ngama bhunu ases'panini? Bazomnyoba to come nice la ngaphandle uloku ukhuluma ngama BEE instead of faking inzwiri! Ukhathele very tired because they were nyobing her in a very unconfortable place emsebenzini!!Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwana@kataka
ke a go utlwa ntate, fela ne ke nagana gore ga go na disturbance ba ka kgona go bua dintho ba iketlile, maar go na ke a go utlwa.
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E Tumza when we go on holidays is to enjoy the life and leave problems at home so let us sort them before we leave so they dont limit our happy time in resort/hotels or whatever.
Ke ne ke leka ho cho jwalo!
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Ramatlhale
@KU.KUMarry me pleeeeease!!!! Mara I don't like the dog part.
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KUKU
Luv2kissO reka Makgosha....tjohhhh....Makgosha a nkga so....tjerrr
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Pipilicious
interested in what @Ku_ku?Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Monate1Ntate wee...try to massage her neh?? she's working very hard shame, and when you doing it.. use your tongue on her cockie.........very nice, it has to be at least 3 times a week.
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O a pota wena Monate1.
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tumzangwana
@katakapoint taken ntate.
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KUKU
Ramatlhale@KU.KU
Marry me pleeeeease!!!! Mara I don't like the dog part.
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Kil my hubby 1st - the we can talk...hahahahahahahaha
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@tumzangwana@kataka
point taken ntate.
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E ya ho kae point eo jwale?
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KUKU
Pipiliciousinterested in what @Ku_ku?
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Interested in knowing some of the sacrifice i did/doing to keep the marriage going...hahahaha
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Mtho'eng'nanqondoSomeone else is nyobbing her my brother, ufika ekamereni uzokhuluma ngama bhunu ases'panini? Bazomnyoba to come nice la ngaphandle uloku ukhuluma ngama BEE instead of faking inzwiri! Ukhathele very tired because they were nyobing her in a very unconfortable place emsebenzini!!
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Honestly you not married neh Mtho'eng'nanqondo?
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KUKU
Who knows this song:Singing:
"Kare mosad! bula maoto - yena a mfa lesea tjohhh"
"Kare makoti bula Nnyo wee, yana a mpha bambino wee"
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Bosso
@NotAgainGuys I really need help, I’ m having a sexual relationship with a woman 14 years older than me, I’m 7 years older than her first daughter and she does not have a problem with that. We agreed that we gonna stop as this because we’re scared that we might get attached to one another but the moment she calls me I know I’m gonna F.C.U.K her, the moment I get into her office we start undressing each other and we continue where we left off. I need to stop before I lose interest in my woman but the se is just too good.
How do I stop, please help
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Sugar mama monna stop it, its like selling ur soul to a devil wa manakanaka dimo, and this r scary stuff.I think ur problem might be money o matlhalela or something.Make enough money of ur own.
And u can have as many girls not ladies girls as u want. Then out of those girls you can choose a lady.I mean 1 lady who can be ur women, important!!!know when to stop, that time is this weekend. Skare ga ka go tjwetsa!
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zaco
eintlik hierso_____________ when do u work mara heeee!!! who benefits from this frivollity!! GO work maaan........and pay your debts!! be productiveKU`KU
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana
candilious
MommaC
nevus
Tonyoki_ minjani hosi ya mina.....mi pfukile xana?......
the rest go work please! yerrrrrrrr....i m tired reading ur crap comments
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Muwaweni
If you woman dont give you sex,masturbate in front of her.She'll feel jelous and give in.Atleast u wouldnt b cheating.Cheating is expensive very expensiveReport Abuse
KUKU
Ladies,When a man wants chocolate box, u complain that it’s painful and wrong
When he wants a blow-job, you say it’s disgusting
When he wants a doggi-style, you say it’s for Makgosha
When he wants sex, you say he is forever demanding sex & u r tired, headache...
But u expect him to smile when he see you – for what???...Le ya gafa!
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Ramatlhale
@KU.KUKil my hubby 1st - the we can talk...hahahahahahahaha
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Done.... I know some ANC moegoes am sure they can can organise some panga hitmen, just to make sure that if he lives then some organs will be separated from the body just to give me a chance anyway.....kikikikiki!!!
I know it sounds sick but it's a bit funny.......
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KUKU
@zacoeintlik hierso_____________ when do u work mara heeee!!! who benefits from this frivollity!! GO work maaan........and pay your debts!! be productive
KU`KU
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Another one wa go hlohlonela ke marete...nxaaa....it's not our fault that u work in a Pakistan blaket sho*p
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zacoHelehelele morutii!
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Pipilicious
@Ku_ku fire away. I am all earsReport Abuse
Ramatlhale
@MuwaweniIf you woman dont give you sex,masturbate in front of her.She'll feel jelous and give in.Atleast u wouldnt b cheating.Cheating is expensive very expensive
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Boss............WTF?1?!!??!?!?!?!?!?!
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KUKU
Pipilicious@Ku_ku fire away. I am all ears
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Hey my brother - gape one day hubby said to me that yena o nyakka go nyoba a different person than i am. So i asked him if he had anyone in mind so he said NOT YET but he just wanted a different Nnyo from my one. So - i ask him again gore when did he finish mine? He said he has tried finishing it but coudn't but he want to taste something different...I asked him if he wants a break...if he doesn't love me and he said...he loves me too much that's why he's telling me and not cheating...what he want is a DIFFERENT PUUSS not LOVE!
tjohhhhh...and u know what i did?
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@KIDSthis article is not for you!
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Mtho'eng'nanqondo
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe@Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Someone else is nyobbing her my brother, ufika ekamereni uzokhuluma ngama bhunu ases'panini? Bazomnyoba to come nice la ngaphandle uloku ukhuluma ngama BEE instead of faking inzwiri! Ukhathele very tired because they were nyobing her in a very unconfortable place emsebenzini!!
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Honestly you not married neh Mtho'eng'nanqondo
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I'm happily married with a big nzwirid Zulu man, who faka i-speit in his ndunu,phuzing the mbiza/pot and futhas three days a week. When he tells me about stories like these. Ukuthi one of his friend's w#fe is doing this and that, I tell him its because his friend is not nyobing his w#fe properly!
One of his friend burnt another friend with acid last year because of this weak unfullfilling nyobing business. They were in a shebeen together and one friend excussed himself. The other friend followed him only to find out that the culprit was nyonyobing to his house. He got acid from the garage and found the two b#nking emuva kwama room. They were so shocked and while the culprit was struggling wearing his trousers, the guy poured acid on him. All this because he is good at drinking and pouring good nyobaring men with acid, than perfecting his nyobing skills.
If you cant nyoba, simple! Dont get married!!
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dre10
Men want sexx and food that is all. I don't know what is so hard to understand about that. Give your man these things and u would be happy.Report Abuse
tumzangwana
@kataka@tumzangwana
@kataka
point taken ntate.
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E ya ho kae point eo jwale?
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ke cho gore ke utlwile gore o ne o reng.
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Tonyoki
@Mr.ChairmanKnock knock..
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why are you still knocking...you are in now!! (with a naija accent)...or you are knocking on somebody's heart!!
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XHINOPHOBIA
YEY NINA YEKANI UKUKHULUMA NGOMAKGOSHA NGIBUYA E REHEB,YAZI NGINUKELWA IPENTI MANJE,HILBROW HERE ICOME,DIPLOMAT,ROYAL PARK,NIYANGI HALISA TJOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.Report Abuse
tumzangwana
@zacoeintlik hierso_____________ when do u work mara heeee!!! who benefits from this frivollity!! GO work maaan........and pay your debts!! be productive
KU`KU
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana
candilious
MommaC
nevus
Tonyoki_ minjani hosi ya mina.....mi pfukile xana?......
the rest go work please! yerrrrrrrr....i m tired reading ur crap comments
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huh?
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imd
@dre10Men want sexx and food that is all. I don't know what is so hard to understand about that. Give your man these things and u would be happy.
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Can it be good and fullfiling for the rest of it TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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EpidemicOf_pain
Whoever said that love revolves around sex? Don't be a pervert, there are so many married men who don't get it la ngaphandle, if you want it so bad, confront your wi.fe, and don't be a coward and run away! Idiot!Report Abuse
imd
Bathong ku_ku where are you nou????@Complaining ppl why are you here to begin with??????? BUZZ OFF
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Tonyoki
@tumzangwanahi pfukile nwana mbava, hi tlhela hi pfukeriwa ...ho vona valavo tsonana tibanana na majomela!!
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dre10
imdYes, if u are willing as partners to explore different sexuual options.
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tumzangwana
@Tonyoki@tumzangwana
hi pfukile nwana mbava, hi tlhela hi pfukeriwa ...ho vona valavo tsonana tibanana na majomela!!
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huh?
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
tumzangwana@kataka
@tumzangwana
@kataka
point taken ntate.
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E ya ho kae point eo jwale?
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ke cho gore ke utlwile gore o ne o reng
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Amen hallelujah !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tonyoki
@tumzangwanau hlamarisiwa hi yini? i ntumbuluko ku tsaka ka swirho swa xinuna...
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KUKU
imdBathong ku_ku where are you nou????
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i am here hun....☺
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zaco
Tonyoki@tumzangwana
u hlamarisiwa hi yini? i ntumbuluko ku tsaka ka swirho swa xinuna...
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hosi....... mi hlamarisa vhanu! phela machangana ma tiveka hi timbulambula to cela switwakala swinene!!! hahahaha
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imd
Yep what happened next lol.........Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Mtho'eng'nanqondothat is Mtho'eng'nanqondo jaa neh!
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tumzangwana
@Tonyokii dont understand a word you are saying.
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zaco
KU.KUimd
Bathong ku_ku where are you nou????
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i am here hun....☺
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your pervert woman! whor3.............
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dre10
UJola ubuya emsebenzini aqonde erumini afike angene ezingubeni aqhube umcimbi, yakugqiba iye ekitchen ifike umkayo egobe efrijiniuJola- haybo nkosikaz sowlapha siqeda nje ucansi? Umfazi Oh My Word! Ngumama wam lowa ulele erumini ufike ediniwe wayokulala, Aleqe kumama wakhe mama mama why didn't u say something?
Umamakhe- Uyayazi mna nomyeni wakho asithethisani iminyaka bendingazoqala namhlanje ukumthethisa!!
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MORNACHIES
Tonyoki@tumzangwana
u hlamarisiwa hi yini? i ntumbuluko ku tsaka ka swirho swa xinuna...
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Mo byele n'wana mdala ....Swilo swa enhleka la pfutomini .muhnu e kho dha maragu.
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Eraser
ku.ku e one le yona mara haai ya tlapela..sometimes one has to sneak out and bang a different one..Report Abuse
KUKU
ImdI organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
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MORNACHIES
@KukuuKe kgopela go bolela le wena ?
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tumzangwana
@MORNACHIESmasepa a go neh?
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@Mtho'eng'nanqondoBut you right if you usually forget that you married,took it next to you for the rest of yours days,there will be someone helping you to hit it.
You have to smack it very much!
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zaco
tumzangwana@Tonyoki
i dont understand a word you are saying
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eishh yaa ne!
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imd
@zaco Boy Boy Boy Boy ........................... Number 1.u dont want me to tell u how bad it can get forr you so pliz before u say things
I dont even think you have a clue of BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FLIPPIN GET A MIRROR ................ Bokorosh! NXA!
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Onu
I found the editor's and most of ur comments not practical at all. Only married ppl will understand what he is going thru. We all know that most ppl cheat when/if they want to and in most cases its nt even abt problems at home, its jst fun and lust. I'm not in any way condoning cheating BT that life ppl. One woman cant satify a man. I've been married for 11 yrs as well and I dont make an issue of my hubbys fri beez...coz they are jst that...Actually i dont understand why this man wrote to Dudu..Men do these things as long as he is responsible at home, modest abt his cheating and use protection.. The only problem is that I'm not of my reaction of I can catch him.As a w.i.fe whatevea ayenza beyond ur dorstep is none of ur businessReport Abuse
MORNACHIES
tumzangwana@MORNACHIES
masepa a go neh?
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En nou ,why o nroga ?
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KUKU
MORNACHIES@Kukuu
Ke kgopela go bolela le wena ?
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Okay - hola me at - kukuyagago@yahoo.com
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imd
@Zaco you bluddy Shanggyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NXA ...........Report Abuse
Tonyoki
@zacohosi....... mi hlamarisa vhanu! phela machangana ma tiveka hi timbulambula to cela switwakala swinene!!! hahahaha
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ni we hi xikosi hi ku hleka...mbulambula yi kona, loko kuri na lava lavaku ku yi va hokonyola...ava yi ntithi
@tumzangwana
all i said was...i like your cyber personality
@mornachies
Impressed at your language skills...you are a good example
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eKapa
Ku,ku Rule's the world.ask Adam
ask Samson
ask Hitler
ask king Shaka
ask Mandela.
hahaha..Mandela managed to be ge moered in Jail for 27 years and still did not give up fighting for freedom...HEY!! mara when he found out that there was someone sleeping in his Bed.
hahaha he could not managed to stay in his marriege and fight for what is right...lol
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tumzangwana
@MORNACHIESjust coz i dont understand shangaan o nagana gore ga ke utlwe gore la nthoga mo?
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imd
@Ku-Ku yho so would it have worked the other way around is my question ???Report Abuse
zaco
imd@Zaco you bluddy Shanggyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NXA
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hey whatz upp....i speak almost 8 S.A languages...
why...are u dissapointed or....
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full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.Report Abuse
tumzangwana
@zacowena o ska tlo iketsa betere ka o u bua seshangaan. e mashi ga e itsale nnana, you are trying too hard to be go@tsperm, but you keep falling flat on your @rse. shame. but dont stop trying, i dont know if you will get there though.
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Fergie
Give this woman a hand, wash the dishes, do laundry, bath the kids, just help her out and cook dinner together if you have to, you'll see, she won't be tired to give it to you all night....Report Abuse
imd
@zacoBuzz Off................!!!!!! you Talk too much for a man !
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KUKU
imdYes - we have an agreement that if any of us want to bonk outside - we do it but funny enough i have never wanted to bonk anyone...but he seem to be doing it more...and we also agreed that everytime he does that i must approve the person...obviosly i don't meet her but we make sure that i know more abt her and we agreed that we don't build a relationship with them...only SEX...NO STRING ATTCAHED.
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zaco
Tonyoki@tumzangwana
all i said was...i like your cyber personality ===
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wow....i xilungu xexo.!!......thats why they say shangaans are masters of romance., tsonga men are very romantic for sure....mmmmhhhh! leromana
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Into_Enje!
Yeah, the truth is if you can't fcuk don't get married! Labo masheshe bechame laba, nemitho*ndo ewayo.Report Abuse
eKapa
full.lipsMen, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell
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what must we do? you females are more than us and again there are some males who are scoring own goals(gays)
so must we be selfish to other single females?
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zaco
tumzangwana@zaco
wena o ska tlo iketsa betere ka o u bua seshangaan. e mashi ga e itsale nnana, you are trying too hard to be go@tsperm, but you keep falling flat on your @rse. shame. but dont stop trying, i dont know if you will get there though.
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hahahaha.....wa gafa,,,,,,!
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zaco
imd@zaco
Buzz Off................!!!!!! you Talk too much for a man !
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fsfsfsfsfsfsfsfsfsfsf............
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imd
@full.lipsMen, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell
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Tell these lousy talkers!!!!!
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Eraser
@full.lipsMen, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell
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y lona le khotlella if our things r exhausting..nna we can't..so since u guys can khotlellang as usual and leave us alone..
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JUBJUB
full.lipsMen, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.
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Yeah i think they need to hear this cause there are too many different ones...
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Luv2kiss
MORNACHIESWanyaa saan o bolawa ke lerete onyaka go bolelang le KUKÜ
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tumzangwana
@zacoke go shebile neh?
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Luv2kiss
KUKÜKUKÜ weeeee !!! nke o botse basadi ba gore ba tlogele go retima marago please
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MORNACHIES
tumzangwana@MORNACHIES
just coz i dont understand shangaan o nagana gore ga ke utlwe gore la nthoga mo?
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Nne ke sa go roge ,nne ke re o spalapala ,o bjalo ka dinaledi and go wena motho a ka
hwetsa borutho ..............It just like ge kere Nyovi ya wee >just means --You are more
beautifull like nothing on earth .........
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zaco
tumzangwana@zaco
ke go shebile neh?
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why o ntshebile.....?
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Motabolapasa
@JUBJUBfull.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.
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Yeah i think they need to hear this cause there are too many different ones...
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kgaale o le maahloadibona, o di tseba ka mehuta ya tšona
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Tonyoki
@Zacowow....i xilungu xexo.!!......thats why they say shangaans are masters of romance., tsonga men are very romantic for sure....mmmmhhhh! leromana
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I am flattered!! ofcourse... there is no family/love if a couple is not getting down to some sweaty sexual session...mina ni specialist ka swa masango!!
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tumzangwana
@MORNACHIESaskies neh? phela ne ke utlwa fela o kare ke a rogiwa mo. phela ka na lo na le stout.
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zaco
Tonyoki'~mina ni specialist ka swa masango!!
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heyyy! yhaaa ne....ndzi byeleni ke: erectile dysfuction mi yipfuna-pfuna hi yini, eish vavanuna vo tala hi hlupha hi yona........Dr..Romance
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MORNACHIES
tumzangwana@MORNACHIES
askies neh? phela ne ke utlwa fela o kare ke a rogiwa mo. phela ka na lo na le stout.
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Nka se ke ka go roga nna never ....You must learn this languages .here's a tip :
O nuka hiko o nyofhi (You are more like stars in the desert ) .
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tumzangwana
@zacowa itse ke eng ne, this whole thing was just a misunderstanding from my part. ne ke nagana gore phela se tse ke rogiwa ka seshangaan. thousand apologies my brother. didnt mean to offend you.
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Monate1
Hey, admin...do you want me to comment or not, it seems as if you reject everything moss........how!!!Report Abuse
Motabolapasa
@mornachieswhy o kare dilo di tla kgaanya mchana ka tebello ya mahlo
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Ramatlhale
@Onu@KU.KU
Tell me something ladies your comments on this blog are they for real or are you just entertaining us?
Because if they are for real, I would suggest you start some sort of real society for women in general be it an exclusive blog, websit3, hold national symposiums just to inform your fellow women.
For centuries it's been common knowledge that men chase women regardless of their marital status but these western ideologies & standards try to confine us to one ku.ku, hence they even dubbed the the practice as cheating to make it sound wrong & immoral.
How many of you have been to an african get together and you find that your great mkhulu had 3 or 4 wives & guess what they were all happy even their descendants; now some european idiot has hammered it into your head that it's wrong so you go around causing evryone unhappines & distress about how unfaithful your partner is, simple you find out he/she is cheating attend to the matter, outline your needs & address them in a safe, controlled & mutually acceptable environment!!!! Then everyone is happy.
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JUBJUB
Motabolapasa@JUBJUB
full.lips
Men, men, men....such bastards always trying to find an excuse to cheat. We women also get bored with one same p*p* but ra kgotlella instead of going out, if you think one nnnyo is tiring...** news flash** le dipolo tsa lona di jwalo, exhausting as hell.
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Yeah i think they need to hear this cause there are too many different ones...
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kgaale o le maahloadibona, o di tseba ka mehuta ya tšona
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Yah right maatlholadibona my foot,le nagana gore ke lona fela le leng diclever mxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxm
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tumzangwana
@MORNACHIESke a utlwa abuti, phela nna ga ke rate go ntse ke lwana le batho ka ntho tse snaaks. hope we can put this behind us neh?
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zaco
tumzangwana@zaco
wa itse ke eng ne, this whole thing was just a misunderstanding from my part. ne ke nagana gore phela se tse ke rogiwa ka seshangaan. thousand apologies my brother. didnt mean to offend you. =======================
eishhh yhaaa ne! first time i hear a lady apologising to me.....dont worry water on duck's back. let bygones be bygones.
answer me then: tumzangwana
@zaco
ke go shebile neh?
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why o ntshebile.....?
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zaco
Monate1Hey, admin...do you want me to comment or not, it seems as if you reject everything moss........how!!!
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ba go laile......hahahahaha ! u wanted to speak vulgar
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MORNACHIES
@Motabola---O ra bjang Warra ?Report Abuse
034Smunchy
Mara banna ke dimpya, it's like they're all programmed with the same mindset. I am in a relationship and when i don't feel like it, i don't and i won't even pretend. My man understands and i'm happy with tht. But i guess marriage it's a different story. Although you guys should have took time to know each other way before u got married. Bt i pray to God that he helps me and my bf understand and love each other. Re tlogele go controlla ke nama (flesh) coz ul go 6 feet under ground b4 ur time.Report Abuse
tumzangwana
@zacoge o bona fela o ka bona ke shebileng mo wena?
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sonki
i hope i can get help here, im a 27yrs lady, working, i been with 3 boys ever since i started dating basically my question to u all especially women/bisexuals and lesbis is: i dont feel boys like i feel woman , i hope u ll get what i mean. so i ve been very curious to know what is like being with a woman, the feeling is just too much, my problem is wher do i start how do i face this, please help guys, my email add is lerato.lentswe@gmail.com.i ll be out will be back in an hour to check ur comments
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KUKU
@Luv2kissBasad! Ba le tima marago then complain again that men are not faithful – but they know very well that Kwai ga e je Pap en vleis – e ja legazi....
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eKapa
i nominate @Kuk'u' to be our Madam speaker to our women,she knows how to treat a man.Dudu please submit your resignation letter to Sowetan asemblief somaar vandag.
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zaco
tumzangwana@zaco
ge o bona fela o ka bona ke shebileng mo wena?
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hahahaha! heyyy yhaaa ne.....i will not be intimidated....! have a great friday...enjoy weekent,
i miss goatsp*rm...eish
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Motabolapasa
@jub jubne ke sa tsebe gore, go tseba tše ngaata o fetoga clever,
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zaco
i NOMINATE KU,KU FOR MAMPARA OF THE WEEK.....Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zacoMorutii bua leshano hee bible e re monna ena a etse jwang ha ditaba di le ka mokgwa oo?
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matzzzzz
KU'KUImd
I organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
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aaah aah ...how long hv u been married?..ku'ku maaka maaka...yesses id go crazeeeeee
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Pipilicious
What did you do @ Ku_ku?Report Abuse
Sir.JT
@RamatlhaleI couldn't have said it better. I think i'll have to get married to someone who'll let me get married to another woman at one stage. that way i won't be cheating and i'll be saving another woman from being single for the rest of her life while men use her like a soccer ball.
some religions allow it and i think it's for the best.
* I stand to be corrected *
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MORNACHIES
@KukuuKe kgopela gore re bolele go na mo Setšabeng se ,a ke bereke ka di privacy babes .
@Luv2Shit--Wena ke tlo raga molongwana nyana woo wa o dula o bolela ditšila .
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JUBJUB
@MotabolapasaYeah right
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KUKU
@RamatlhaleNna ke bolela taba straight – at first i was shocked when he told me gore he is tired go ja NNYO yaka feela & pelo yaka e be e le bohloko but then i took it as a challenge & we made that agreement that it should happen to both parties. Anyone who want to bonk outside must do it on conditions that we are both extremely playing safe and the other party must approve. I have approved most of his applications and declined few so far...and we did a lot of 3-Sums and Swings but not full swing...just bonging as couples while another couple is watching and in the same room also bonking. It’s very nice hey....we are both happy now and we don’t do any relationships...just bonking and wallahh
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KUKU
MORNACHIES@Kukuu
Ke kgopela gore re bolele go na mo Setšabeng se ,a ke bereke ka di privacy babes .
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Okay - i'm all ears hun...i'm listening....
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matzzzzz
luv2kissso okase nnyale? :-(
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eKapa
zacoi NOMINATE KU,KU FOR MAMPARA OF THE WEEK.....
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they fvcked your wyf before you became a blogger, now you hear @kuk'u' correct comments about how you must fvck your wyf, your wyf is gone already just stick to your mogosha's and you are a good customer.
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MORNACHIES
KU.KUMORNACHIES
@Kukuu
Ke kgopela gore re bolele go na mo Setšabeng se ,a ke bereke ka di privacy babes .
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Okay - i'm all ears hun...i'm listening....
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Ke kgopela goba Toy boi ya gago ?
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RobinH
most of us men, when we cannot get it in the house - we go look for it outside - SPEAK FOR YOURSELF PLEASE. Do not drag all men into your situation.With a few exceptions it is quite an eye-opener to see the maturity level displayed here. I'm amazed so many made it past kindergarten.
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matzzzzz
ku'ku - lmao u whath too much of porn movies doll..ska hlalefetja bana ba bangweReport Abuse
matzzzzz
ku'ku - lmao u watch too much of porn movies doll..ska hlalefetja bana ba bangweReport Abuse
Lenyeloi
Shame o tlwaela batho blind, o jele rebound ya hao and it felt good. O guilty and o bona the best way ele ho tla ka story? It never last mejolo e yako nntle. O tlo hurtha batho mara wena it is going double the pain. Carry on do your thing le makhwapheni wa hao. Satane 80/20 rule apply it!Report Abuse
Luv2kiss
KUKÜNna ke senyale for 1 reason, The woman i have cheated on me, she did chocolate box with this guy, and nna when i wanted she told me no , the other day she came home looking miserable i asked she said she not ok nje, she went to the bathroom n made a call to her friend i heard her saying " chomi Paul onnyobile motete today and go bohloko " nagana fela
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Eraser
@KU'KUImd
I organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
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aaah aah ...how long hv u been married?..ku'ku maaka maaka...yesses id go crazeeeeee
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vele she is lying...woman never? you guys even get jeolouse whn we chat to there woman...
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Luv2kiss
Matzzzzzzzzzzzzz - - - rato how r uMORNACHIES
ok
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Sentle
@KU.KUKe rile ge ke bona comments dire 219, ka tseba gore o gona.
When are you launching these series tsa sex by the way?ke lebetse date yela ya gona.
Wa bona ye launch e batla ke e rekela outfit e special (mini dress).
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Sir.JT
@sonkii hope i can get help here, im a 27yrs lady, working, i been with 3 boys ever since i started dating basically my question to u all especially women/bisexuals and lesbis is: i dont feel boys like i feel woman , i hope u ll get what i mean. so i ve been very curious to know what is like being with a woman, the feeling is just too much, my problem is wher do i start how do i face this, please help guys, my email add is lerato.lentswe@gmail.com.
i ll be out will be back in an hour to check ur comments
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what the hell are you saying?
Men are crying that they want pussies here and u busy after women?
Selfish b!tch! nxa
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eKapa
Luv2kissKUKÜ
Nna ke senyale for 1 reason, The woman i have cheated on me, she did chocolate box with this guy, and nna when i wanted she told me no , the other day she came home looking miserable i asked she said she not ok nje, she went to the bathroom n made a call to her friend i heard her saying " chomi Paul onnyobile motete today and go bohloko " nagana fela
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mmhhmmmhhm...c.c.c Askies maan.
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Candyboy
My fellow male species....when will we ever grow up.....hey dude, why do you write to a woman expecting her to sugar coat your stupidity......get your sh*t in order and be a MAN....stop being such a wuss and take charge of your marriage and lead your w*ife......your w*ife is waiting on you as her MAN to re-ignite that lost spark in your marriage......leave that other married woman the f.u.c.k alone before another man bonks your w*ife bcos of your idiotic behavior......start appreciating ur woman - lead your marriage - take control - be supportive - attentive and interested in your w*ife...make her feel wanted & needed in your life and tell her you love her for goodness sake.....kiss your w*ife in front of the kids, so that they can see your love & affection for their mother.....stop your sh*t and be a f.u.c.k.i.ng MAN.....if you dont wana be.....i'll gladly be that MAN for your lonely & vulnerable w*ife....men like you make it so easy for us to get any woman we want......while you continue to do what you are currently doing...real MEN observe your relationship and do the total opposite and bonk your w*ife with a great deal of pleasure....so start taking action dude, before you have real problems on your hands....*peace*Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
Only one thing that makes a womann happy is ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,ntho!Report Abuse
eKapa
@Candyboywhen you Enter here you dont type a bible story here,,virstan jy my?
1 sentence is ok
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dre10
sonkii hope the name u wrote in that e-mail does not belong to someone u hatee.
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Tonyoki
@k!ukuyour story is amazing!! How is that possible? Unless if your husband is the f@ck in town that you can allow him to bonk other women. It is a very open relationship indeed. I adore the 3 and 4 sums you have ---can i join you...you can have your husband and me at the same time...imagine the joy of holding two joysticks!
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MORNACHIES
@eKapaUnjani mdakwetu ?
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zaco
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe@zaco
Morutii bua leshano hee bible e re monna ena a etse jwang ha ditaba di le ka mokgwa oo?
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morena___ help her around the house, sometimes do all her choice let her relax. take her out is she is that kind...take kids to gogo,,,get her in a mood u know!!! if nothing works the escalate the issue to the specialists. or PAstors or Bagolo......
get my point,,,no excuse for infidelity...i am sorry! absolutely no...dont listen to the Ku.Ku girl she is the destroyer
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pierre2000
@ K.UKUYou know most ppl (gals) wnats to get married – especially from their mid 20’s up...due to pressure from the family, peers and all that. If you are NOT ready for marriage then don’t. Just because your friend is married doesn’t mean that u must also get married – marriage is a blessing but once u make it a materialistics then you won’t be happy.
I say people rather be Single than be divorced or Unhappily married – That is not PAP ‘N VLEIS. You must be committed and be ready for challenges because there’s a lot of them.
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You are right my sister. Marriage is a big challenge and needs commitment. Pipo shouldn't just go into it just for a ring.But it also requires luck. One person may be gud and honest, yet the other one is a cheater, liar, etc. Communication is very vital and honest discussion.
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Candyboy
@eKapamen like this just get me going bra....cos now MEN like us also have to do their jobs of satisfying their woman.....i also need a break bru.....i'm just human after all....he he he he he
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KUKU
@PipiliciousI organised a nice chick for him.....and then again and again...and the everytime he wants to bonk someone he tells me first and i approve....and then we did the 3-Sums, 4-Sums....ETC ETC...and i ask myself why didn’t we do that from years back cause it’s so enjoyable....i think every couple must have an open relationship where u can bonk outside the relationship but please do it safe otherwise o tla tswhara ke Aids wa tla wa tsamaya ka Slow motion.
@EKapa
hahahaha - U r kiling me....thanks for the nominations...sister DUDU must Take a retirement so that the likes fo bo-KUKUU must take over with the new generations......
Kwaaaaakwaaaakwaaa.....(faling of my chair...with my red G-string ya go nkga sta-soft)
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zaco
eKapasaaani! re seke ra tlwaelana.....asseblief
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Luv2kiss
Women are very stupidmosad! a ka khahlwa ke gore monna o apara desinger shoe$ nagana nje, antshe nnyo fela bcoz monna onkga monate, or a rate motho bcoz dis guy o nale lebelo o mutlwe a botsa di chomi tsage are "dai man kan haarkloop " nxaa basadi
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Ramatlhale
@Sir.JT@KU.KU
Most people tend to forget that you & your partners happiness doesn't have to conform to certain standards in order to be classified as acceptable, those very standards were set by people who were comfotable with whatever circumstances they were in at the time. I mean we are not pets in a zoo where you are told how,where & when to take a p!ss, or they somaar just pick mating partner for you.
The beauty of being human is that you have different needs, a forever innovative mind, which you can choose to control or let someone else determine exactly how far can your intellectual capabilities go & what's acceptable as normal in your very own life or should I say world.
So I say screw the norm, my partner has caught me out a couple of times but because she couldn't keep up, now if I have something up my sleeve I just teel her not come to my house & she knows what I mean though we agreed that I won't do anyone below her standards or mabhencane or her friends. We don't talk about it because I give her all my love she just simply cannot meet my sexual demands & we are happy!!!
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Motabolapasa
somebody o tsubile straightReport Abuse
Eraser
@Ku.ku..(faling of my chair...with my red G-string ya go nkga sta-soft)
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looooool hehehehe.......(dead) kikikiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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Sir.JT
@Ku.Ku@All
I doubt if Ku.Ku is a woman... just look at His/Her comments people.
be it though as it may i think it's very dangerous and irresponsible for someone to let their partners have sex with other people. I'll assume that u'll justify it by saying he's using protection and blah blah but we all know what happens or wat will happen if the condom accidentally burst. *Sh!t! u won't stop*.
and now that u didn't mention that you taking any of those chicks u giving ur man to any blood tests, I suggest that you go yourself.
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eKapa
@EKapahahahaha - U r kiling me....thanks for the nominations...sister DUDU must Take a retirement so that the likes fo bo-KUKUU must take over with the new generations......
Kwaaaaakwaaaakwaaa.....(faling of my chair...with my red G-string ya go nkga sta-soft)
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i will only reply on you, i will ignore the other majita, your G-string smell good e nkga rajah..lol
@MORNACHIES ola saaani die ntsang my laitie?
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thembag0206
There number of sexless marriage is growing,and both partners are having affairs,i wonder what had become of this instution called marriage.Is it people got into marriage for wrong reason?Report Abuse
KUKU
@ pierre2000Very true hun – most ladies take marriage like a competition...if u’r enemy is married then le wena u put u’r man to put a ring on u’r finger. It’s wrong!
@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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zaco
Sir.JTGOOD ANALYSIS....well done! all perverts will refute u.....watch the space
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Motabolapasa
@lenyeloike kwana le wena ntwana
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full.lips
nna my great-great granny ( African Shero I may add) had two husbands, I am following suit , bring the old practice back in our family. One soft member ya tlapela stru.Report Abuse
eKapa
@eKAPAShame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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i dont do that sh!t...hahaha..500ml bottle, i just do what god asked me to do to raise the nation. chocolate box its for own goals guys(gays)
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KUKU
Sir.JT@Ku.Ku
@All
I doubt if Ku.Ku is a woman... just look at His/Her comments people
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Brother – doubt what u want to doubt, people have asscociated me with many people with different characters some claiming to know me and all that. If a man wants to cheat – you can not stop him...so i’d rather let my hubby have a one SAFE one night stand which i have approved rather than my man building a relationship with some woman and then have unprotected sex which will ruin my life and who knows what else they will do cause they use muti.
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Motabolapasa
@mornachiesa kere mchana wa e gata motho a feeta ka seTsonga
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eKapa
full.lipsnna my great-great granny ( African Shero I may add) had two husbands, I am following suit , bring the old practice back in our family. One soft member ya tlapela stru.
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tjo! your granny, i can imagine your grand fathers following her just like dogs in thier mating season..lol
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TKay
@NotAgainYour turn will come next week wena...we are helping this married dude today
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KUKU
Tonyoki@k!uku
your story is amazing!! How is that possible? Unless if your husband is the f@ck in town that you can allow him to bonk other women. It is a very open relationship indeed. I adore the 3 and 4 sums you have ---can i join you...you can have your husband and me at the same time...imagine the joy of holding two joysticks!
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Nna ke robale le wena.....kwaaaakwaaa...Try next door....
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Tonyoki
@kIukuyour husband is vrey luck to have you. I agree that men generally cheat for all sorts of reasons!! You have a plan there...if it is working for you -- do it. As for you not being a woman, i think it is sheer nosense!! I can feel you sister
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Tonyoki
@kuk!uNna ke robale le wena.....kwaaaakwaaa...Try next door....
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u chava mbolo naa?
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KUKU
What i enjoy most is watching hubby bonking another chick while i squeeze him balls with a nice cream.....eish mara Manyobisto a monate tjo. Imagine how boring life would be if we didn’t have Manyobisto....Ke duma kwai...mmhhhh....”mom...is it rajah....”
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KUKU
@GalsI know that most of you would like to have a 3-Sum, you fantasies abt being two gals bonked by one guy...so there's nothing wrong abt fantasizing but why not put u'r fantasy into real????
(USE A CD)
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zacoTaking her out will sort everything although most know that for a womann happiness mostly comes from the bedroom.
O morutii wa leshano papa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you cannt do your work properly in the bedroom pastors and specialists wont help and they will better do the task for you because your weakness will be exposed to other men.
O morutii wa tsotsi ntate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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BODESE
Luv2kissWomen are very stupid
mosad! a ka khahlwa ke gore monna o apara desinger shoe$ nagana nje, antshe nnyo fela bcoz monna onkga monate, or a rate motho bcoz dis guy o nale lebelo o mutlwe a botsa di chomi tsage are "dai man kan haarkloop
Bhwaahahahahahahahah kikikikikikikikik My bra thats a killer
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Bumboklaat
Dear DUDU(K.UKU)I need your help with the situation I find myself in, I have been with this girl for a couple of months and I think I love her very much(sic). She is young and pretty! Mara bothata baka kegore ge ke mo dira foreplay ga a nyake o mpotsa gore o "uncomfortable" so nna ke tshwanetse keno e kenya ke fetse mara ya nkgobatsa kagore e omile! Ge kere kemo kgotla ka monwana kamo nnywaneng are nna ketlo mo lwadisa, ke lekile go thlaopa matsogo ka dettol le blue-death mara gwa tshwana ha nyake! Ke ire byang mara kagore lege kere ke jola kontle ake utlwe monate! Mpotse please K'UKU KE ireng!
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Buys
Mr.ChairmanKnock knock..
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Mr chair ... you are really sh****ting here!! Knock your b@ll.......
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Onu
I've learnt it the hard way my brother, it was afta my mother told me abt her experiences with my father thou they've bn together for 36yrs. I luk up to them a lot, hanging around with men in most cases. I told my self ukuba I'm his w.i.fe and no other woman can make me think otherwise. I do have my moments of "tiredness* as well as expected with women of my age. I'm no longer at my peak s.e.xually perhaps things myt change afta 40... U know what, some other mzalwane girl dont tok to me anymore coz i told her that she musnt get married if she thinks that her man wont cheat when he wants, apparently she thinks that i'm cursing her.... No matter how fri, educated, rich we are, we as black women, are groomed and exposed to diiferent way of being a married woman and WE turn to forget that hey! sad bt ture. The sooner we accept that the beta...If we can get the basic ryt, we will be able to over come most challenges.Report Abuse
Onu
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pierre2000
@ K.UKU@ pierre2000
Very true hun – most ladies take marriage like a competition...if u’r enemy is married then le wena u put u’r man to put a ring on u’r finger. It’s wrong!
@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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"chocolate box" go tewa eng??
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eKapa
@Onu-wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand them
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JUBJUB
KU.KU@Gals
I know that most of you would like to have a 3-Sum, you fantasies abt being two gals bonked by one guy...so there's nothing wrong abt fantasizing but why not put u'r fantasy into real????
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Gal i dont think i'll do that ....never...nope
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full.lips
But serious guys, if it was the woman who wrote to sis Dudu complaing that the hubby is not giving her enough attention and she is looking outside , would you still be condoning this filfhy behaviour. most of you guys are saying the huy must bite the biscuit outside to revive the flames.....LOL.Report Abuse
zaco
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe@zaco
eishh__ u know what this kinda topics i avoid them because there is lots of twisted mindsets that begin to delude people into more perversion hence my avoidance....
dintho tse boiwang mo, its nothing but oral pornographic crap....u choose! ntate maoto...
this generation call good evil, and evil good..........morutiwa mmaka has spoken
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KUKU
BumboklaatDear DUDU(K.UKU)
I need your help with the situation I find myself in, I have been with this girl for a couple of months and I think I love her very much(sic). She is young and pretty! Mara bothata baka kegore ge ke mo dira foreplay ga a nyake o mpotsa gore o "uncomfortable" so nna ke tshwanetse keno e kenya ke fetse mara ya nkgobatsa kagore e omile! Ge kere kemo kgotla ka monwana kamo nnywaneng are nna ketlo mo lwadisa, ke lekile go thlaopa matsogo ka dettol le blue-death mara gwa tshwana ha nyake! Ke ire byang mara kagore lege kere ke jola kontle ake utlwe monate! Mpotse please K'UKU KE ireng!
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If her virgina is too dry & ya go gobatsa then u can bu.y some creams to make it smoother but how can u have sex without foreplay.
Maybe le wena o na le menwana ya di-pikiri, why is she not feeling comfortable with u’r fingers in her Nnyo.....kanthe wena o bereka go aga di-RDP ka menwana ya go ruruga? hahahahaha
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Tonyoki
@Ku!kuyou are getting me all worked up for nothing...how can you share such luscious stories and you do not want me to swing with you and your husband...i can bring my own woman and we do a four-some phela, that makes my male hormones run wild!!
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eKapa
hahaha Hard labour fingers with no finger printsReport Abuse
KUKU
@ pierre2000Chocolate box ke kwai ka maragong.
@JUBJUB
Never say never...hahahahaha.....
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KUKU
TonyokiBring u'r woman...and bonk her while i watch....hahahaha....
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eKapa
@pierre2000@eKAPA
Shame - u'r gal refused to give u chocolate box but gave to someone else...maybe o na le kwai ya 500ml bottle e kgol...that' why she refused....ASKIES....HAHAHAHAHA
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"chocolate box" go tewa eng??
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some guys do only Rainbow chicken style,
but ask any Gay here i can tell you who you may ask
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Defcon
Ke January boss:Advice get your finaces right and your sex drive will come back.Ask Sis Dolly
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zacoKatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zaco
eishh__ u know what this kinda topics i avoid them because there is lots of twisted mindsets that begin to delude people into more perversion hence my avoidance....
dintho tse boiwang mo, its nothing but oral pornographic crap....u choose! ntate maoto...
this generation call good evil, and evil good..........morutiwa mmaka has spoken
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Kakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakak LOL big time:P
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Into_Enje!
eKapa@Onu-
wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand them
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Heheheheheheheheheheehe....abo gogo abathanda isitayele lmao!!
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Buys
Onu@ Humorous comment’ But, I credit you for the information provided!! But, would like to ask: How old are you?Report Abuse
zaco
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe@zaco
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@zaco
eishh__ u know what this kinda topics i avoid them because there is lots of twisted mindsets that begin to delude people into more perversion hence my avoidance....
dintho tse boiwang mo, its nothing but oral pornographic crap....u choose! ntate maoto...
this generation call good evil, and evil good..........morutiwa mmaka has spoken
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Kakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakkakakak LOL big time:P
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then what....o tshega eng???..........bofebe is number 1...that's why re bolawa ke AIDS so...nxa maan!
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JUBJUB
@Ku.Ku- I dont like watching mapona a ba.sadi ba bang.....& even worse my hubby busy with them hahahaa hai no noReport Abuse
KUKU
@All,Knocking off soon - nna ke bereka MAKGOWA not u guys working in Pakistan blanket sh*ps.
hola me at kukuyagago@yahoo.com
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Bumboklaat
K.UKUHaaa mara why o ntshega? phela matsogo aka a smooth okare lerago la ngwana, kere ngwanyana o ha nyake selo kamo kukung ya gae. The other day ore eish wa nkgobatsa kgante ao utlwe gore ke omile? and I said o omile kagore ao nyake foreplay gore o thape and she said I don't want menwana in my nnywana then I said so what is going to thapisa that nnywana ge osa nyake selo kamo gare ga yona. I even offered go apara di sterilised surgical gloves but she wouldn't hear it! Ngwanyana o ona le bothata ke sure! So nna ketlo thlabela pele ke nyake nnyo e nngwe!
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KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@KU.KU@All,
Knocking off soon - nna ke bereka MAKGOWA not u guys working in Pakistan blanket sh*ps.
hola me at kukuyagago@yahoo.com
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E kaka o rata ntho tse monate neh.
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Candyboy
@K*UKUU gonna cause allot of men on here to call their woman by the name K*UKU when they gonna be bonking tonight.....kikikikikikikikikikikiki
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zaco
KU.KU@All,
Knocking off soon - nna ke bereka MAKGOWA not u guys working in Pakistan blanket sh*ps.
hola me at kukuyagago@yahoo.com
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TFG....byebye
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Bumboklaat
K.UKUDon't go please! ketlao patela overtime!
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Tonyoki
@Ku!kuBring u'r woman...and bonk her while i watch....hahahaha....
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it is a deal then, i am down for the offer...it will happen soon...
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Buys
27 Jan 2012eKapa@Onu-
wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand
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Who the hell is Satan??
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MORNACHIES
@KukuuO tsamaya bjang o sa mpetola na ?
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LEEZO
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~some guys do only Rainbow chicken style,
but ask any Gay here i can tell you who you may ask
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whats Rainbow chicken style?
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eKapa
Buys27 Jan 2012eKapa
@Onu-
wa phapha sisi at the Age of 40? still wana blog..mxm Mzansi ppl even Satan cant stand
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Who the hell is Satan??
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good question..Satan is Hell Master
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Motabolapasa
@mornachieso ko nntshwaare moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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eKapa
LEEZO~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
some guys do only Rainbow chicken style,
but ask any Gay here i can tell you who you may ask
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whats Rainbow chicken style?
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lay on you back,lift up your knees,open your thighs wide,lift up your hands like a boxer
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Gamamabolo
I have a problem with the way this guy talks. Why does he use the word "SEEMS" like someone watching from a distant. This is a make up story. I suspect the writer is writing about his friend' situation in marriage. He is watching the situation from a distance. If it was him in the situation, he would say we always argue,we dont agree,etc. Otherwise,the woman must be having a position of power in the house, that is why he cannot tackle his family matters headon.Report Abuse
Buys
eKAPA@ There’s NO! Such kak!! I usually listen to people saying Satan made me do it’ well..... If that was the case, almost all Criminals would be set out!! I believe people make their own preference from a large sum of alternatives.... Its all about “CHOICE”. This Guys decided to Cheat on his wif, its a choice that he alone made. I would believe you if you say to me; Satan is a ‘bad choice’.........Report Abuse
somaartakeit
he already has an affair (like a proper coward he is) maybe this marriage deserves to end, cause his wf3 deserves to have a man, who is supportive and is a friend, not someone who dashes off and grabs a mistress at the first sign of problem without thinking about consequences of his actions not only on the marriage but to his children, when that marriage has to succumb to this affair which he has, I feel sorry for his wif3 cause she deserve much more than this.Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa@mornachies
o ko nntshwaare moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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somaartakeit
and you will find that he contributes nothing at home iro chores and his wif3 has to be all that, so where on earth is she suppose to get energy to provide exciting and interesting sex to the husband to prevent him from fornicating with other morally bankrupt females? ppl like this man and his married mistress whom he is fornicating with contributes to reasons our health dept is succumbing under the weight of life style diseases such as Sexually Transmitted Diseases, and this makes me furious considering that vast majority of our meagre resources are wasted on self inflicted diseases.Report Abuse
JozibelXXX
Sex and money makes the world go round. If they are not doing it, let them part and stop wasting each other's valuable time! There are many women out there ready to give it to the brother and she can continue with her boardroom meetings and visiting friends...first time i hear of a woman who does not like a good black d!ck!Report Abuse
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasaniks
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JozibelXXX
@somaartakeitand you will find that he contributes nothing at home iro chores and his wif3 has to be all that, so where on earth is she suppose to get energy to provide exciting and interesting sex to the husband to prevent him from fornicating with other morally bankrupt females?
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A man is like an axe, more especially a man who is good sexually! just as axe can be borrowed by a neighbour to collect firewood so it is to the good man in bed.
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full.lips
ooh, i'm in love with two men , yep i compare their sizes all the time.....woo wee !!Report Abuse
Motabolapasa
got it bitsoReport Abuse
MORNACHIES
Motabolapasagot it bitso
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But i don't understand man ...go back and make it simpler .
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Motabolapasa
@full.lipsmara they say size doesn't matter that much
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Motabolapasa
@mornachieso tšhabile sekolo wene straight biitso
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MORNACHIES
full.lipsooh, i'm in love with two men , yep i compare their sizes all the time.....woo wee !!
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Wa tseba sa le wa ntsepisha marago ? en nou wa o sa bue niks ?
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MORNACHIES
Motabolapasa@mornachies
o tšhabile sekolo wene straight biitso.
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Boela mola morena ,ke ny.aka o ntlalošetše botse ...No to robbery .
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Motabolapasa
@mornachiesa re e tlogele mchana, bafana baa bo Nevus ba ka be be ba re tlwaela masepa
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JozibelXXX
@Motabolapasamara they say size doesn't matter that much
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As a prostitute, my V is no longer that tight...so i prefer men who can fill it up....but i must confess that there are men with shot guns who knows how to make a lady scream for more joy!!
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX I am not sure what sort of men your comment is related to, but I can assure you that real men don't' put sex above survival of their families and risk infecting their partners with std's, I am talking about men with self respect, cause you first have to have self respect in order to be able to respect your marriage vows and all that is entailed in it.sex is lust, this you can find in every street corner (but there are consequences) you can check the aids stats in this country just for proof or visit our overflowing graveyards (a remind of lives lived in promiscuity), and other std related disease such as infertility etc, so a sensible and an educated partner would not want to subject his/her family to things like that so he/she can have instant self gratification.It also boils down to one's upbringing.
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MORNACHIES
Hayi ke sharp ,statement sa gago nne sa tlaka botse ....ke go swere botse .Report Abuse
JozibelXXX
@somaartakeitI am a prostitute and i service a lot of married men, so i don't understand your sentimental comment. Maybe i am screwed up to see your point!!
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dre10
somaartakeitGood Afternoon.
i will be in East London Tomorrow, maybe i will bump to you at Hemmingways.
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JozibelXXX
@ekapalay on you back,lift up your knees,open your thighs wide,lift up your hands like a boxer
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lol@lift up your hands like a boxer
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MORNACHIESMotabolapasa
@mornachies
o ko nntshwaare marete moo mchana
wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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kikikikikiki love is in the air.kikikikikikiki
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somaartakeit
@dre10 LoL wouldn't that be just...lol you see if you plan to make a visit you should say it in advance to give ppl time to prepare and be ready for ya,@JozibelXXX its not sentimental but a fact that some men have more morals and family than you give them credit for, and no I wouldn't call yours being screwed up you are providing a service (right/wrong depending on the moral side one stands on) to a demand, I think you are brave, cause really with so many diseases and psychopaths associated in this business, I hope you have insurance cause yours is a very risky business.
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somaartakeit
sorry family VALUES it should read, my note to JozibelXXXReport Abuse
Ramatlhale
@JozibelXXXMy sista what effective positions would you recommend when I am forced to give someone some serious pleasure but I don't necessrily have to enjoy the session and the less we get to look in each other's eyes the better but make no mistake she has to enjoy it.
Just to clarify for all the perverts so you don't get the wrong idea, there's a lady @ work who's making my life a living hell & she will stop @ nothing to ruin me just yesterday we were in the lift & she rang the alarm, later told my girlfriend's best friend that i had been groping her, all because I am avoiding her advances & to make matters worse she's being cheered on by three of my vindictive exes; so am trying to save my reputation before it gets a permanent address in the gutter here.
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somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale, so do you then think solution is to sleep with her? nci nci nci, why is it that men generally think with their d!cks? do they think its a magic stick?Report Abuse
JozibelXXX
@somaartakeit------
it is fun business (one get to know all types of men and all d!ck shapes and tastes!) at the same time make money. I am never broke and take good care of myself, i go to the gym and do check ups every now and then. I condomise. There is a very huge demand for my services, sometimes i see more than 10 men a night - most of them are married. I work at a high profile bordelo in an exclusive surburb. Like they say the more you use your V the sweeter it becomes!
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Motabolapasa
@mornachies
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wakawaka@galmail.co.za
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kikikikikiki love is in the air.kikikikikikiki
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ja ne ............................................u are more than a trouble !!
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Onu
Hahahaha Ekapa..am not 40 yet ..am 5 yrsw away thou...hence i said afta 40 things myt chage. I blogg to learn, explore and get to know what other ppl think. Sometime i get solutions/advices from the bloggers and trust me when I'm down....u guys nindikhupha istressReport Abuse
JozibelXXX
@Ramatlhale,@JozibelXXX
My sista what effective positions would you recommend when I am forced to give someone some serious pleasure but I don't necessrily have to enjoy the session and the less we get to look in each other's eyes the better but make no mistake she has to enjoy it.
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I am on the other side of the fence, i do things to please people. different strokes for different folks. The adventurous men usually ask me to do woman on top looking at them or the other way round. I enjoy that too. Others want it wide open or with me bending over and touching my toes and them coming from behind. I am not so educated to know how to teach you by writing text, but in real life i can teach you a thing or two!!
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Ramatlhale
@somaartakeitThis chick has invaded my private space big time, I tried being as upright & firm as possible but her most dangerous ammo is that she knows private things she is not supposed to know thanks to my exes, so I basically I need leverage & i figure since she's made her intentions clear about why she really out to get me I need to exploit that window of opportunity to get her most vulnerable moment.
If you think am wrong feel fre.e to suggest otherwise
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX good that you are having fun with your work (if I can call it that lol) but for me I would never place faith for my health (risks) on a plastic (condom) what if it breaks? what guarantee is there that you will not contract hiv and other stds? I ask out of curiosity cause I know no one who is in this business I only read about it and have to say I admire the courage of the girls in this industry considering all the risks involved and not to mention health and safety hazards which comes with their line of work, as for "the more you use your V the sweeter it becomes" is there a scientific evidence to support this claim?Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
JozibelXXXI am on the other side of the fence, i do things to please people. different strokes for different folks. The adventurous men usually ask me to do woman on top looking at them or the other way round. I enjoy that too. Others want it wide open or with me bending over and touching my toes and them coming from behind. I am not so educated to know how to teach you by writing text, but in real life i can teach you a thing or two!!
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I'll sign up for lessons only if they are discounted, on the basis that we'll both be teaching each other new tricks...Lol
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somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale so you think putting a d!ck in it is going to solve this problem?Is there an HR in your office?Report Abuse
Candyboy
@JozibelXXXHow do i contact you.....i dont need ur service.....i want to satisfy and give u my services.
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sonki
seems like no one is willing to help meReport Abuse
Candyboy
@sonkiwhat help do you need?
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JozibelXXX
@somaartakeitthe men i do business with confess my V is sweeter than honey and they tell me maybe it is because other men eat from the same plate. It is poverty my sister and not going to school, i have 3 children to support with no job, money or a source of income - what must i do. After knowing so many men sexually, i cannot maintain a husband, so i have to keep doing what i know and have come to enjoy!
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dre10
somaartakeiti would like to visit u at your own preferred place.
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sonki
hope i can get help here, im a 27yrs lady, working, i been with 3 boys ever since i started dating basically my question to u all especially women/bisexuals and lesbis is: i dont feel boys like i feel woman , i hope u ll get what i mean. so i ve been very curious to know what is like being with a woman, the feeling is just too much, my problem is wher do i start how do i face this, please help guys, my email add is lerato.lentswe@gmail.comi ll be out will be back in an hour to check ur comments
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JozibelXXX
@RamatlhaleI'll sign up for lessons only if they are discounted, on the basis that we'll both be teaching each other new tricks...Lol
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i am ready for you now for a test drive! i am drooling @ teaching eaching other new tricks
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Ramatlhale
@somaartakeitI would never place faith for my health (risks) on a plastic (condom) what if it breaks? what guarantee is there that you will not contract hiv and other stds?
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I had a condom break on me one time, the next day i went to the doctor xplained my situation & he prescribed me pills to take for a month I am not sure whether they were ARV's because I had to register as a chronic patient in order to get them(most embarrassing moment of my life) so long as you start taking them before the 72-hour timeline since the "break" has elapsed the you are good to go.
I guess they don't publicise this fact because the actual HIV patients would actually run out of medicine.
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JozibelXXX
@candyboyIs it that good? if so, i am tempted, i can never say no to a good D^ck
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Candyboy
@sonkiplease man......read all the comments from the men here...then u'll know what its like being with a woman.......!
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Bumboklaat
@JozibelXXXWhat are your rates? slambane sao tshwana lenna sekao afota?
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dre10
sonkiwe don't trust u because u have written a person's name on that e-mail. We don't do that here. What if that person is not u.
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXL"the men i do business with confess my V is sweeter than honey " LoL how sweet!
it is a relief btw for me to know that yours is a choice and you are not forced into the business, cause often as a feminist I argue that women/girls are forced into prostitution, so this discussion I have with you is educational for me, so I thank you for that, and good luck with business:-) I do think though that the industry should be legalised so you guys can also pay tax and enjoy other benefits associated with 'legal business' establishments ie protection from the law from violence encountered in your industry.
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Dikdonner
Sonike.... bloggers here say dump things but they are not really dump, monkey trick, snake techniques and ninja philosophy is a bad combination, on and off the game le yona "NO"if you wanna be here be here an tell us how boring yor men are nad we will help u practically, maybe u are the boring one who knows.
ladies here they know theri story and how to do their men and other man....
what is this thing ya go fana ke di email le go tsebega o sa tsebegi,,,, nnyo ya go lapa
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Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Lets make this a "Nyobing Hard Weekend" and make sure that each one of us in this blogg give our partners at least eight rounds from tonight. Come back on Monday and tell us how is the love!Report Abuse
somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale "so long as you start taking them before the 72-hour timeline since the "break" has elapsed the you are good to go" for me personally I don't respond well to stress/anxiety, so possibility of breaking condom and I having to visit doctor/s to explain this embarrassing situation, who in the other hand is human like me, will start to judging me as an immoral person who is sleeping around depending how often I have to do these trips, not to mention cost of such to the tax payers, as I've said, this country wastes too much of its over expended resources on bad lifestyle diseases.Report Abuse
rasefatee
what kind of an adiot is this. i mean if you dont fxuck your wifee who will do the job?. the answer is === [gardenboy] he will fxuck her to the fullest and mind you [gardenboys] prefer flesh to fleshReport Abuse
JozibelXXX
@Menhere is my email if you are keen on my services
jozibel176@gmail.com
@Bumboklaat
i offer professional services from massage to full house services, so the cost will depend on what the client has choosen from the menu.
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Onu
@Ramathlale: Just to clarify for all the perverts so you don't get the wrong idea, there's a lady @ work who's making my life a living hell & she will stop @ nothing to ruin me just yesterday we were in the lift & she rang the alarm, later told my girlfriend's best friend that i had been groping her, all because I am avoiding her advances & to make matters worse she's being cheered on by three of my vindictive exes; so am trying to save my reputation before it gets a permanent address in the gutter here.**************-*************-****
I'm smelling fish the baba....be careful she doesnt scream r.a.p.e whil u r busy with her...
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dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondoLets make this a "Nyobing Hard Weekend" and make sure that each one of us in this blogg give our partners at least eight rounds from tonight. Come back on Monday and tell us how is the love!
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If i do that i don't think i would able to get out of bed.
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Candyboy
@JozibelXXXgood d*ck will be the main dish my dear........i love to explore the whole anatomy of a lady before filling her up with my shaft and satisfying all her s3xual needs before mine......i feel your satisfaction needs to be put first, and i'm willing to do that for you….at no cost to you.
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Dikdonner
@sonkiu are quit again now,, see we dunn have time for psychophath
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somaartakeit
@rasefatee lol its really hard to be a man these days, competition is stiff *laughing* not only you have to watch over your mates but also garden boys? lol no wonder some men need constant supply of viagra cause with stress you guys must under, you sure do need a helping hand, lolReport Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@BASHANYANABashanyana le diyathoteng di bapile,le dinonyana tsa lesiba le leng.Mekopu ting,hee le tala bashanyana!
Ke ya utlwa ho re le bua ditaba bongata.
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full.lips
A big black d*ck is the real deal, women of all races are vying for one.. Black men make me melt...the Ooh's & Aah's of that thing !!!!!!!!Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
@somaartakeitI've considered that yes, but should I take that route I run the risk having all my dirty laundry out in the open, man this witch is manipulative she knows how to work people & am not so much of a social, outgoing person.
This is more about my pride as a man & my reputation as a stand up guy who bows down to no-one.
@JozibelXXX
Exactly how do I get hold of you, this is now for my needs forget the bi.tch!!
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JozibelXXX
@Candyboy@Ramathlale:
Here is my email: jozibel176@gmail.com please drop me mail for further arrangements
----i promise to make your weekend special, you guys make me want you the more
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somaartakeit
at katakaka you don't always have to show that you just fell off tree by wasting our i-net band-with by posting most stupid comment of the day and abusing your spacebar or return key, I know these toys are new to you and you are excited abt using them, but plse be modest:-)Report Abuse
dre10
JozibelXXX@Men
here is my email if you are keen on my services
jozibel176@gmail.com
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Do u want Sowetan to close this blog. Please this is not a marketing school place for Prostitutess.
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sonki
anyone who would like to help me pls contact me on my email lerato.lentswe@gmail.com, i cant go through your comments nowyour opinion will be appreciated
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Noluntu
Its so easy hubby,just go & b.uy bo magosha & go back to your wi.fe......Mara nna nka se go bolaise tlala o le wa ka monna.....ke tla go dira gore o lape stele
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somaartakeit
@Ramatlhale@somaartakeit
I've considered that yes, but should I take that route I run the risk having all my dirty laundry out in the open, man this witch is manipulative she knows how to work people & am not so much of a social, outgoing person.
This is more about my pride as a man & my reputation as a stand up guy who bows down to no-one.
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it seems to me that you are making excuses to not solve this problem legally and professionally by involving HR, it seems the idea of d!cking is the option you want to use and if it is its your prerogative really cause its you who has to face consequences of your decisions or actions.
I don't know what kind of business of you are in, cause in a normal business place HR is usually manned by professional ppl ie in the process of resolving issues the focus is on FACTS which affects relations in the work place not gossip which someone else might hold against you, so therefore I see no reason for you to worry about your past and iro stuff you did outside work place and your private capacity, but hey dude do what you want that much is your choice and right.
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Mtho'eng'nanqondo
dre10Mtho'eng'nanqondo
Lets make this a "Nyobing Hard Weekend" and make sure that each one of us in this blogg give our partners at least eight rounds from tonight. Come back on Monday and tell us how is the love!
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If i do that i don't think i would able to get out of bed
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U tsaba nyooo?
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dre10
somaartakeiti am still waiting.
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Noluntu
@Sonki-go to goboza.wen.ru they will help youReport Abuse
dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondoi have to think of my back. I can't do it like a rabbit, i am no longer 21.
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nevus
sonkiseems like no one is willing to help me
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help yourself ka monwana kikikikikikiki
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Ramatlhale
@somaartakeitI hear & thank you, your !nput was quite refreshing but also predictable, the scenario i presented is a case I am working on/ have been asked to advise on & honestly it feels as if it's some scandal from a high school classroom because I really do not have the energy for It. But thanks again for your !nput.
Now for the real story; I felt the same when going to the doctor but then I remembered all the friends I buried because of the diseasethen I just had to do it; I guess the fact that I don't work in my own hometown also helps.
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034Smunchy
wena dre10, u full of nonsense felaReport Abuse
Mtho'eng'nanqondo
If you no longer 21 you must get a mover and shaker. Someone who will raise it up when dead like Lazarus..........while you drink your beer, she su#ks your anaconda to come nice, 8 rounds a weekend highly doable!!!Report Abuse
KatakataEmaotoAditshepe
@somaartakeitat katakaka you don't always have to show that you just fell off tree by wasting our i-net band-with by posting most stupid comment of the day and abusing your spacebar or return key, I know these toys are new to you and you are excited abt using them, but plse be modest:-)
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Haaaaaaa!
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dre10
034Smunchywena dre10, u full of nonsense fela
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Miss Drum magazine leave me alone.
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dre10
Mtho'eng'nanqondoI need to move to Jo'burg girls here in the Ecape don't suckkk.
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somaartakeit
So then Noluntu you think that if you give man a lot of sex will prevent him from straying? *shame man* ask primrose crous what happens to relationship based on nothing but sex only, today she finds herself in a hollow and undignified marriage compete for her so called husband attention with other immoral females as herself, now she knows how the first w!f3 of crous felt when she humiliated her, also these women who portray themselves as cheap trill make the jobs of feminist hard cause you guys really have no dignity nor self respect for the feminist to defend, your portrayal of yourselves as cheap sl#ts only serves to severe relations btwn men and women hence we have unacceptably high divorce and fatherless children in this country, now why wld a self respecting person want to be a contributory factor to this?Report Abuse
Ramatlhale
Wa bona this Jozibel ga ke mo tshepe man, she is too prepared & too willing and for a person who didn't go to school she's got a fair conduct of the queen's language; but I guess it's because I am not used to getting way too easy lays!!!! Anyway we only live once neh!!!!Report Abuse
Noluntu
@dre10tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
somaartakeit
me & Primrose are totaly different,Primrose ke lathalatha
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somaartakeit
@Dre10 why are you waiting:-) I thought I said I was not available this week-end, its my working week-end and after that its straight home to be with the loved ones:-) any other time and provided you warn me in advance I wld meet with you, btw any info on the DC of malema? I hev not been up to speed with stuff this week, lol even though I am not a fan, but for what its worth the anc should be fair in this process cause if they are not this could further rupture their fragile standing iro integrity and fairness. Malema no doubt has done some very unforgivable stuff, but who in the current anc leadership hasn't? So therefore I say the process should be fair.Report Abuse
Into_Enje!
dre10Mtho'eng'nanqondo
I need to move to Jo'burg girls here in the Ecape don't suckkk.
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Shame!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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dre10
somaartakeitNot Malema please!!!
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Candyboy
@JozibelXXXconfirm if my email has reach your inbx...?
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dre10
Noluntu@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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can some please translate this.
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somaartakeit
@Noluntusomaartakeit
"me & Primrose are totaly different,Primrose ke lathalatha" how are you different ? cause like her you think sex solves the problem, and both of you believe that you are better than the wives cheated on to the men you are cheating with, my question is why do you guys have to sell yourselves short? I feel embarrassed on your behalf through reading your comments. At least JozibelXXX is honest (and I respect that) about it she tells us she is a prostitute, so her behaviour is complimentary of the business she is in, what is your excuse though?
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somaartakeit
@dre10 okay ke andizothetha ngomalema but I was curious mos:-)Report Abuse
full.lips
@ JozibelXXXsistas, i have a secret ( herb) for a tight virgin Vj....maybe I can help but I also need a cut for your business.
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Ramatlhale
@Mtho'eng'nanqondoIf you no longer 21 you must get a mover and shaker. Someone who will raise it up when dead like Lazarus..........while you drink your beer, she su#ks your anaconda to come nice, 8 rounds a weekend highly doable!!!
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Wena my sister bohorny ba gago ba tshosa, next to ku.ku you are th horniest,kinkiest blogger by far, phela you only talk about d.ick, Are you sure you are getting enough of it.
Because in my experience those who like to talk it can't walk it!!!
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MORNACHIES
@SonkiBua le nna babes ..................bua wa reng ?
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dre10Noluntu
@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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can some please translate this.
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Translation: U are so cute and caring ,i wish you can cum and bonk me like hell .
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sonki
thanks for the emails that i receivedReport Abuse
JozibelXXX
@RamatlhaleI have matric and i can read and write enlgish, but i cannot get a well-paying job.
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@MORNACHIESdre10
Noluntu
@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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can some please translate this.
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Translation: U are so cute and caring ,i wish you can cum and bonk me like hell .
------------------------------LoL hayi Mornachies ungazodlala ngomkhaya wami, wena dre10 don't believe him, its not true cause the first world means head but have not figured out the rest of what she is saying yet, ut its got nothing to do with what mornachies says it is. Mornachies yiba fair wena, lol
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sonkithanks for the emails that i received
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Mine is also te ne ?
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Candyboy
@sonkiNow stop messing around with boys and get your groove back with some real men asseblief!.....hola at me if you need your female anatomy to be explored and reignited.....!
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX please ntombi be fair, you can read and write, you could get a normal job if you wanted to, but greed is behind your decision to be a prostitute, so please don't make excuses for the choice you made especially given that you told us you are enjoying being a prostitute.Report Abuse
somaartakeit
anyway have a nice week-end everyone!Report Abuse
Candyboy
@JozibelXXXstill waiting on a reply from you regarding my offer....did u get the email...?
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JozibelXXX
@full.lipssistas, i have a secret ( herb) for a tight virgin Vj....maybe I can help but I also need a cut for your business.
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i am interested it will help me get more clients, but i prefer to pay you for the herb and you can sell your own P@ssy for money...not eat my profits
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full.lips
@ Allnna kea tsamaya, nnyo yaka e thapile, kea mensa ebile yankga , I might join @JozibelXXX at selling her stinking slippery fish factory loose VJ.
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Ann
jo bathong le sa le mo??Report Abuse
JozibelXXX
@CandyboyI receive many emails everyday, i am busy responding, you must check your email babe
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full.lips@ All
nna kea tsamaya, nnyo yaka e thapile, kea mensa ebile yankga , I might join @JozibelXXX at selling her stinking slippery fish factory loose V
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Hey hey hey ,before o tsamaya ka re o tlo mfa neng marago ale babes ?
@Ann--Yes ,we are still hiso ...nne o batla eng ?
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX@full.lips
sistas, i have a secret ( herb) for a tight virgin Vj....maybe I can help but I also need a cut for your business.
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"i am interested it will help me get more clients" cld you not get 'more clients' in its current state? I thought you said you were told by your clients it was sweet or something to that effect, can they not recommend your services? you know 'word of mouth' if the service is as good as you'd like to have us believe! just askin neh? and if you are lying at least be consistent.
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dre10
somaartakeitthanks for saving me. Maar we can talk about anything.
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JozibelXXX
somaartakeit@JozibelXXX please ntombi be fair, you can read and write, you could get a normal job if you wanted to, but greed is behind your decision to be a prostitute, so please don't make excuses for the choice you made especially given that you told us you are enjoying being a prostitute.
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I have come to enjoy the job because there was nothing else i could do. The madam of the house teaches us that in order to please our clients we must enjoy what we do. I stayed without a job for 1 year and life was difficult so i joined the men servicing business.
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somaartakeit
@dre10 even though you make me mad sometimes with your consistent support anc even though it is clear they are destroying our province I still like you, cause I believe you will one day like many of us realise what a BS political party anc is and it has no intentions to uphold its elections promises, some of which have been outstanding as early as in the 90's.Report Abuse
rasefatee
@full.lipsA big black d*ck is the real deal, women of all races are vying for one.. Black men make me melt...the Ooh's & Aah's of that thing !!!!!!!!
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mmm my dickx is slowly going up i need blow job your full.lips lets knock off dear
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Ann@Mornachies- Leromposo.
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Ramatlhale
@JozibelXXXMy sista then you should engage yourself in small projects to build up your profile & confidence in the working world otherwise if you look for a job with just matric you are bound to suffer, but by no means don't quit what you are doing just yet; until I get a taste @ least; since you enjoy it I think you won't have a problem doing it even after you've found a good job. But good luck & we'll talk!!!!
@All
Enjoy our weekend evryone I know I've already started, cheers!!!
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JozibelXXX
@sommaartkeit"i am interested it will help me get more clients" cld you not get 'more clients' in its current state? I thought you said you were told by your clients it was sweet or something to that effect, can they not recommend your services? you know 'word of mouth' if the service is as good as you'd like to have us believe! just askin neh? and if you are lying at least be consistent.
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most of my black clients are happy and bring in referrals, but my bread is buttered with white clients (i charge different rates for blacks and whites) who sometimes do not fill it up, so a good tight one that can extend to accommodate any size will come handy for my occupation
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX please man, its impossible to have matric certificate and be black (woman) and be without job in this day and age of affirmative action, wena nje uthanda incanca too much, vuma kaloku neh? mina ndithanda abantu aba honest ppl who stick up for their beliefs and not try blame others like you are doing, now you want to make us believe that it's down to the madam that you are enjoying being a prostitute? unoba ucinga ukuba all of us sizizibhanxa. Now I am losing any respect I might have had for you originally.Report Abuse
Noluntu
@somaartakeit-why do you want me to waste my time on you maar....Report Abuse
somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX@sommaartkeit
"most of my black clients are happy and bring in referrals, but my bread is buttered with white clients (i charge different rates for blacks and whites) who sometimes do not fill it up, so a good tight one that can extend to accommodate any size will come handy for my occupation
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Just reading this comment leads me to concl that you can't be doing much business if this MAJORITY of your clients are charged half price lol if you must be a prostitute its better you be a clever prostitute otherwise you will be doing this till your hair is grey, whilst the smart ones retire early? cause from this comment I deduce that majority of your business time is occupied by clients who otherwise do not afford the service, what are you then doing it with them for? enjoyment? cause clearly its not for profit.
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somaartakeit
@Noluntu@somaartakeit-"why do you want me to waste my time on you maar...." it is silly of you to post a comment on a public forum and expect to not be challenged for it, either than or you have a severe case of inferiority complex that caused you to imagine that I am out to get you!
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Ann
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Woman are you selling yourself
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MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?Report Abuse
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIESSomaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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JozibelXXX
@somaartakeityou asked too much questions
i do business to survive, i enjoy most of my black clients, they touch the right spots. The madam owns the house, but we build our own clientelle and pay rent to use the bordello. So madam gives us advise and i take it. Matric with no Experience, no one responds to your job applications
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dre10
Noluntu@dre10
tlhogo ya gago o kare lepapole hahahhaha
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what are u saying?
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somaartakeit@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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It doesn't cost me at all ,but you waved to everyone .so why don't u go ?
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full.lips
@ JozibelXXXFair enough , I am ready to hit the streets. I've got my high heels, skimpy dress, red lipstick...which corner are you trading at, don't forget the condoms....hehehehe...don't be surprise if i beat you at your own game, I am a newbie hence I'll be stealing your regulars. C U now, now !
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX remember that I said originally this discussion I have with you is for my educational purposes you know me being a feminist, so don't feel bad if I ask 'too much' questions, remember I am on your side, I want your business to be legalised here in SA so you don't have to operate as a criminal and for you to enjoy benefits like other legal businesses, so instead of being defensive you should be open (I don't mean your legs) about your trade, cause really you are educating some of us ie what needs to be done to help you be a respectable business woman,wrt enjoying sex with your clients cause they touch right spots, I thought that privilege was for the one you love? see I am naive with these things so please tkae this opportunity and educate me:-)
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@MORNACHIESsomaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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It doesn't cost me at all ,but you waved to everyone .so why don't u go ?
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if my realise that my being here cost you nothing then I think the right thing to do is shut up no?
and you asked if I had no home, no I haven't got a home as we speak am blogging from under my cardbox makeshift house under the bridge:-)
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somaartakeit@MORNACHIES
somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES
Somaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home ?
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how much does my being here cost you personally?
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It doesn't cost me at all ,but you waved to everyone .so why don't u go ?
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if my realise that my being here cost you nothing then I think the right thing to do is shut up no?
and you asked if I had no home, no I haven't got a home as we speak am blogging from under my cardbox makeshift house under the bridge:-)
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Hamba please ...........................hey do u min ukhuti o hobo ?
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eKapa
MORNACHIESSomaar----I thought u said bye bye ........an now ?or don't have a home?
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hahahaha...s'glidla waar?..lol
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Candyboy
@full.lipsi wana be ur fist client....will also satisfy u in the process dont worry....!
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JozibelXXX
@full.lipsyou cannot share my territory with me!! you want to steal my clients!
@sommartakeit
i have regulars who already have fallen in love with me, they do it gently and i enjoy them more.
thanks for wanting to represent a woman like me. i respect you my sister
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JozibelXXX
I have a client at 16h15, i need to freshen up - i will talk again soonReport Abuse
eKapa
@JozibelXXXare you good in Hand Art?(blow job and skomoring)
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Mtho'eng'nanqondo
RamatlhaleVele mina I like being F#######CCCCKKKKKED hard, and futhi he is happy today he was paid on Wednesday.....Ngiyoqeda konke ukuphapha endlini/I'm going to stop all this bo tjatjarag! Taking the kids kuGogo and siyanyobana the whole weekend.
Haaaaaa.....He knows I have his anaconda d#ck as my phone screensaver mos! So ingenza ngibe manzi nte emsebenzini!
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somaartakeit
@Mornachies, yes I said my goodbyes then something happens so I am still here, is that a problem for you? even if it is, there is nothing you can do about my being here, so make peace with that.@JozibelXXX I always care for welfare of everyone iro constitutionality, therefore I strongly believe that even prostitution should be legalised, I mean it makes sense, there is a clear demand and they provide a service, so for functionality purposes this industry should be legalised, surely ppl in this business need to have their dignities protected instead of them being frowned upon as soon as they say what profession they are in, I long for the day when our police are not wasting resources chasing after prostitutes and instead chasing after real criminals the clients of the prostitutes and the man providing them with drugs and pimping them, you see I care for welfare of prostitutes I want them to have a fair deal in this business so like you they can continue to enjoy doing it, without fear of breaking laws or being vulnerable to some violence they are exposed to.
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somaartakeit
@JozibelXXX it was eye opening for me to talk to you, good luck with business ntombi.Report Abuse
full.lips
@ dre10haai suka uyadina.....what Noluntu was saying ' you head (avatar) looks like a potato.
She is right, a brown roasted potato I must say **** GET OVER IT*** lol.
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MORNACHIES
@Full.lips--Why o ignora so mara babes ?@Somaar---Only joking my sister .
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somaartakeit
@MORNACHIES@Somaar---"Only joking my sister" aaah it was intended to be joke *damn how could I have missed that one* gie gie gie *wipes tears off eyes*
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full.lips
@ JozibelXXXyep, run along because with me, no competition,...I am hot ngishisa pantsi na phezulu.
@ Mtho'eng'nanqondo
hey sister, big up to our Zulu men, I have one such man , uncut and fiercely sizzling hot in bed, he can't get enough of it....lol
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full.lips
@MornachiesHey babes.... are you Zulu and uncut ?....if not try @ JozibelXXX
I only roll with the rough s*x crazy Zulus...lol
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Kakamas
@full.lipsGo for pedis you will feel the hits
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samuelsentsho
Not so much to comment,but i noticed that man is like child but dont treat him like kid show him love,disgard theissue of a child she is coming with who is not of marriage.Some women defend thier child that are out of marriage and neglect her responsibility.
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vusomujo
just give the guy sex and he won't cheat simple.eish some women ur the reason why we men cheatReport Abuse
paape
nyala o nyeleReport Abuse
sowesfi
well you did not tell us your age and her age, if there is a different in your ages then you will struggle to get back the fire. especialy if she is older than you or you too older than her. but if you are i the same age range things will work better if you iitiate all styles and sex positions every night until she menstruate, after the menstration ugibele phezulu futhi - when you come back from work leave the kids with playstation or TV or something and sex each other, when you go to sleep do it again two rounds upwards, inthe morning before washing to go to work do it, u will see within a month you wil have that old fire that you had the next day after your marriage.Report Abuse
Ayobas
Eisshhhhh, kgale ke sa je marago, i broke up le galfriend ya me last September, eish ke mo matsaing nou, someone help please...Report Abuse
Optional
@Pizozo, ha ha ha ha, finish and klaar! You made my day. This dude is lazy, who does he think is going to clinch his woman's back. Dude all poor woman wants is love and he seems to be focused somewhere than on his woman. Just imagine if the woman told him she is lonely in their marriage and she is trying with someone to revive her feelings....eeish. Disaster.Report Abuse
Matseba
Try a movie called Fire proof,maybe you will come alryt.Report Abuse
Ree777
its realy sad that most marriege stories i hear are about me me me me....when did it stop to be about us. you married ppl make us sceptical to even think of getting hitched. I think if more married ppl would stop being obsessed with self, most problems would be over. take this hard working woman for example: if you as the husband knows she works hard at work, with the kids and the household...how about you be usefull and help her too. Maybe all this stupid tentrums wouldnt be there cos she will see how carring you still are and believe me the fire in the bedroom would still be burnig. STOP WYNING AND BE USEFUL!Report Abuse
wicked1031
i feel what you are going through, find what makes i happy and what was attractive when you met and try to revive that!Report Abuse
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