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I AM a policeman, 24 years old and in love with a 26-year-old woman.

We have been together for six months and I love her dearly.

We have the normal problems, but for the most part we are very happy.

My long work hours sometimes cause stress between us, but she understands.

She has a child from another man and I can honestly say that I love this child as my own.

The problem is with her sister, who constantly interferes. I feel she is a bad influence on my girlfriend.

She says because I am younger than my girlfriend I spend time with other women and that is why I am never home.

This is a lie.

Honestly, I work hard so that I can provide for my family. I would never do anything to risk losing my girlfriend or her child.

I don't know how to discuss this with my girlfriend.

If I don't, though, I am sure her sister will end our relationship. What should I do? - Lied to, Tembisa

DUDU SAYS:

You need to talk honestly to your partner. Tell her exactly how you feel and how her sister is trying to ruin your relationship. Ask her to talk to her sister and if she cannot, the two of you together must politely ask her to stop interfering.

Your girlfriend is fortunate to have someone who loves her and her child so much.

I am sure she loves and values you and also does not want anyone interfering in her relationship with you.

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Mon May 20 02:02:54 SAST 2013 ::

May 27, 2011

qalost

sleep with the sister clearly that is what she wants
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May 27, 2011

vtm

Age ain't nothing brother.............being in love with an older woman is not a sin, your girlfriend sister must just stay out of your relationship. If your girlfriend does not appreciate what you are doing for her then count your loses and leave her alone .
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May 27, 2011

monnawaka

Banna bathswanang le wena ba few my man, don't let this no good sister ruin ur relationship. luv u r partner even more?
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May 27, 2011

Knan

Eish, the sister wants you dude, maybe o ka mo esta roll-on ya hao then your relationship could survive or start dating women your age
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May 27, 2011

Mofida

What are doing with an older woman with a child from previous relationship,your so called relation ship will never be work because she is older than you,she has a child from previous relationship and the father of the child is probably having sex with her when you are work.Please man there are too many qirls of your age who do not have kids and there will be ready to go for you,leave that magogo alone.
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May 27, 2011

YaBaNa

Jealous at it's best .... Ba byalo bo sister. Bleksem!!!
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May 27, 2011

Bumboklaat

Tell the sister to back the f@ck off, she must mind her own business.

Hey maybe she wants you for herself?

Mara le wena o isa kae bakekolo?
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May 27, 2011

thinya

o a phapha ngwanenyana oo, maybe o nyaka go robala le wena, mmotse a ye to the nearest hell
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May 27, 2011

Wonder

You wasting your time with her Man, it will never work. get yourself a younger chick with no kid and enjoy life!
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May 27, 2011

Mofida

Fellow bloggers we must register in large on news24 so that we can also take some of the racists who constantly comment on that wesite on.
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